Viewers ... I read 100% of all comments | Am I using my time wisely? Need to adjust my attitude?
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- čas přidán 21. 08. 2024
- I read all comments; 100% of them. I try to comment back to all but not always having the time. Try these on and see if you think I am using my time wisely or need to adjust my attitude. Let me know in the comments below. - Marty
#@nicolasdanek4225
How do I get out of this cycle? I want to be an INFJ in a healthy state. I dont want to be an ENFP or an angry ESTP. I guess maybe I should look up Dr. John Bebe's 4 sides of the mind. And see what I can do to find my way out. Because the INFJ crisis is a very bad place to be in. I need to find some good friends, and work on my health. Thats probably where the main issue is. And also keep working on my education even with how painful its become.
@ing4l880
I have another question. Do you know exactly what level it was when you played and until what age did you play?Because I play in the 4th highest league in Germany at the junior level (I'm 18) and I have "talented characteristics" but I could never play exactly like 3 or 2 level players even though I trained a lot. Also, I'm now relatively certain that I'm an INFJ and I understand what you mean when you say "I hate being an INFJ" because I was at a point in my late 15s where I hated thinking like I do , because I already understood back then that it cost me certain successes and since I was little I had the feeling that I was different and I always noticed that my life was characterized by ups and downs, which everyone has, but with INFJs it's a little different. I understand at least 95% of your videos that are about INFJ life and I'm writing this comment to show you that I probably really am an INFJ and I'm not wasting your time here. Did you see your successes differently than most people your age even at this age or was it only an issue when you were 17 or 18? I have the greatest respect for you and your life when I think about the fact that you don't have the opportunity like I do to be able to deal with MBTI the way I can and I know that you didn't have an easy childhood as I understand it . I could go into much more detail about the problems in my life that arise from being an INFJ, I really notice it every day, but I think it's enough for now. I have one last question. With the consequences of being an INFJ, is it possible to keep the people you care about (there are at least 10 people who are important to me) without losing yourself? The comment isn't just about football, but it's a big part of my life where I no longer have any hope, but I just want to compare it with your situation at the time with football in order to understand more why I never reach the next level could. Finally, I would definitely like to thank you for many things that you have made clear to me with your channel because I have gained a better understanding of myself/my life in connection with MBTI in the last few months. Thanks (This was written with a translator app in case it sounds a bit strange)
@CuttyKitty1
Silence is not the right response if I have a new perspective to offer, which I think I do. Communication is at the very basis of scientific inquiry and silencing it is never the right aproach. According to research, empathy consists of two components: affective and cognitive perspective-taking. The latter involves problem solving. I would argue that empathy at its peak will necessarily come hand-in-hand with highly developed cognitive function including logical thinking and problem solving. In fact, this is supported by research. For example, see Gehlbach, Hunter (2004): A new perspective on perspective-taking: A multidimensional approach to conceptualizing an aptitude. Page 15 talks about social perspective-taking and intelligence: the two are related. If the INFJ construct, as measured by M-B, is a valid measure of a personality type charactrized by high empathy, then I would expect that INFJ individuals will also possess highly developed ability to reason logically. How that translates to relationships with INTJ is a speculation. But yours seems to be based on assumptions I don't necessarily agree with for the above reason
I'd love to tell you Marty. Thank you! Thank you Soo much for your brutal honesty. As an INFJ I want to thank you for helping me form structure in the chaos of my mind that attacks me without ceasing. I can't imagine how brutal it is to be in your shoes. The wisdom you share, it's worth more than Gold.
Honestly tho it's really hard to say. I believe it someone is helped it's time well spent
How you Fe - Ni = sports.
Easy. I want(Ni which is what we LEAD IN) to go and kick ball(Se) because(Si) I’ll feel good(Fi) and it’s a fun thing to do(Ti) within society(Fe). Simple
I won't tell you what to do and how. You entertain me with the way you are, but it is on you to decide if it's worth to spend your time explaining what you know. Information is never passed on without the imprint of the personality holding onto it prior, so it is only natural for some lashing out to be included. That winding down is needed, as you are under great and consistant mental pressure, and I can take what you got to give for as long as it is honest, in which you don't seem to fail. However, I have to claim that there is nothing in what you say that catches me by surprise. I already know what you know when it comes to the way the world works at large. Our experiences and chosen methods of living through is what's different. I do not come here to be more knowledgable, but because you gained my sympathy as a human being and I choose to check in on you to see what's up with you and how you deal with that. I can't help but care as much as a stranger from afar can do, wishing the best and rooting for you to work out your ways.
I hear you. Let the chips fall where they may and when this video series is over; you will cry too. This video series will cement what it is like on the daily for me and trust me when I say that if over 5 years and close to 500 videos are not enough than what this video series unfolds into will; or I hope it will.
As for my 500 videos and a microscope: I WOULD RATHER DIE THAN LIVE IN A WORLD WHERE THIS IS ALLOWED TO HAPPEN. NO WAY DO I WANT TO LIVE. NO FUCKING WAY!!! - Marty
p.s. Thank You.
Cool video :)
Thank you. Always doing my best. TYWC - Marty
Marty, I didn't mean that MBTI against you. What I meant was that at your age you definitely didn't had the opportunity to get involved with MBTI like I have the opportunity to do today because MBTI wasn't as well known back then as it is today.
The things you said about me are 90% true and I'm already working on accepting and loving myself.
I also just wanted to thank you for so much that I know through your channel and it definitely helps me in my life.
I have another question about a video you once made about the selfesteem that comes from removing chaos and I didn't quite understand why exactly that would be bad? Because you can no longer set high goals or what?
Watch this and others like it on my channel. You have to go back years and look deeper into the playlists; I have covered it all or at least the most important and of course, always looking for more topics. Watch this video: czcams.com/video/VekF9zN_Q_Q/video.html
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Right on. ;)) - M
LoL... First off... I can not answer your question that big bro posted in this video details... cause we both know the answer🤗😂😂!
But from an alternative perspective... I recently learned the categorized societal grouping of Gen X, Gen Y... and may Gen Z... maybe relevant to your viewers. Nevertheless, I learned about a big separation, or age gap in the Gen Y era... where there is the older Gen Y borne after 1980 and before 1990 and those borne 1990-2005.
It was for an undergraduate business course focused on marketing if anyone needs credentials.... Anyways... maybe these young commenters are using big bros content/ideas of interpretations of the MBTI/Carl Jung framework and .... I dunno.... positively challenge the Philosophy professor or negatively use it to self sooth/promote... or whatever negative intent?!?
What has got me respecting and committed to big bro's channel is the consistency in how you do what you do on your channel over these years and the amount of time spent reading.... well at least reading my prolonged comments over these years!!! With the ability to stay engaging and entertaining at the same time, with the instinct of creating content relevant to not only subscribers/viewers but challenging ideas with supportive points that is different and untapped, but clearly illustrated in all your videos with a mirror and markers?!?🤷♂😅👊👊
These younger gens... what that quick fix because information is readily available and biased opinions of anything is considered content these days.... so....what's the quick fix to the evolution of the INFJ?😏🤗😅
J-Lo
Really well said.