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Listened to this 4 times in the past day, this vid is so critical. I just realised I live my life in the painful places where most people will never go. I love the abyss, because I know I can navigate it. Surface-dwellers are so damn shallow I just feel like a different species.. It's as you say, I can't live my life caught I'm caught up in others problems. Fighting for boundaries. Thank you!

Hello Martyn. Can you make a video on those covert narc that work under cover! Humble and charismatic cult leaders!

❤ Negativity about my negative experience!

Appreciate these vids so much, my anger becomes more pointed, but more healthy. Wasting too much time on people living at 30%, in denial, repressed etc. Waste of time trying to connect with them, even as every fibre of my being wants to. Thanks, Marty!

Wow, you are shadow embodied, saying all the things I want to say to people. I feel so seen with all of this. Thank you so so much, my personal hell is so much clearer now ahahaha

ENFP here. Few people nowadays think critically of clinical psychology, even though it's one of the first things they told us in class. Watched so many people become entirely brainwashed by clinical psychology in this manner. All clinical psychology is shaped through the lenses of capitalism. There, I said it. ADHD is not inherently problematic unless you're supposed to work a boring 9 to 5 job. Few talk about the benefits of the hyperfocus, and too much about the lack of focus on boring tasks. Hell, there's even a diagnosis called "oppositional-defiant disorder", used for unruly children who dare question authority. It gets even worse, there is a cognitive schema that says "I'm inherently broken, there is something in me I must fix." It's often not the case, but there are billions of dollars made off of this, sold under the form of "self-help", and so many look for "the next big thing", the one information, the thing that will turn your whole life around, it acts as a dopamine shot. Could not be further from the truth. Unfortunately, acceptance-based therapy isn't too focused on, they'd teach you to keep studying psychology and further yourself into analysis-paralysis, without actually giving any concrete steps regarding how to actually develop a healthy self-esteem. Dr. Bessel Van der Kolk spoke of this in one of his books, and he is a renowned psychiatrist. He said, "if anti-depressants really helped, why have depression rates tripled ever since they appeared on the market?" Edit: And by the way, amazing material here, like others said, way ahead of its time.

Hi Marty, “ I really really need your help “yes I am a subscriber. I just recently found out that I am INFJ sigma male , my boss who I work very closely with on a daily basis I immediately figured outhe has psychopathy , I know this for a fact. The problem that I’m having is, I can’t stop mirroring him. It’s a very interesting dynamic. It’s not necessarily evil or negative , he does know that I’m mirroring him and he seems to know because he’s the boss I allow him to have control , into each other. We work hard and work well together, but I have a problem going away from him and being a chameleon to his energy. I was wondering what the dynamics are or any advice for INFJ sigma male versus, psychopathic male ?

Euggghhhh I feel this so much. I'm happier than I could ever imagine, I have so much gratitude for life! And I am so damn depressed. And rounnndd and rounnnddd it goes. Thanks for the vid!!

Soooo true every part 💯

Maaaan, people aren't ready for that kind of information. It's such an existential question. All the facile answers are an abrogation of the human experience. I'm not going to share that stuff with someone who isn't able to understand it, who will like try to minimize me as being "deep" or some crap. I get the intent, but I can't live in this world around people who don't have the awareness to even notice the regret they ought be feeling on their deathbeds. With each video I watch, I understand the anger and rage even more, and I'm noticing it in myself, beneath the guilty part that wants harmony and understanding with people. But yeah, underneath is rage at how shallow the whole thing is, and there's no more shallow question than "How are you?" Thank you for the video and the work you put into this channel over the years :)

What should we do then? I know for the most that it makes sense, it’s not accurate. But i’ve met and tried a relationship with other personalities, last one was INTJ and well, none had a good ending for some reason, I got to the conclusion the ideal partner would be another INFJ then? But what you said makes a lot of sense to me ._. I want someone to love deeply and I want this Back too, how can I proceed? XD

Ahahahha, I don't know why I laughed so hard at this. It's like the internal monologue externalised, bypassing the intuitive care filter.

The beard looks great. Not every man has to spend time every day trying to make himself look like a prepubescent boy. Personally, I find the prolific and cultlike obsession with shaving disturbing.

You just saved me to follow her and continue loosing my time with more non sense! I watched 10 min from 1 of her video and I was like- well how this information is different from the rest of you tubers who talk about narcissism!

I have watched that video before but now actually I feel like to cry for myself and have mercy on my soul!

Jordan Peterson my man!

I'm reminded of the second Buddha Nargarjuna's idea that there are things we can know, and there will be things we can never truly know. And I'm comfortable with the honesty to say I don't know about many things.

U just tore apart something u don’t understand cause u didn’t put in the EFFORT to watch his FREE content to understand it… as an infj myself I understand… u think u know ur right but u did not verify this and I can tell u 100% u r in the wrong in this and that this is also dangerous… plz continue to make ur wonderful content and plz know that this science is valuable… so valuable to our race… I know u where triggered and it’s not ur fault… I know his delivery is not the gentlest especially to infjs but he has made me a better person he has taught me to respect and look out for myself and how to be myself with others with everyone and that is through his free videos alone… plz take this down… I beg u plz not for csj but for humanity’s future plz… watch his channel at least before criticizing csj or his tools or his expansion or version of the science… I know if u did u would have a far different opinion about THE TYPE GRID and the science… csj will still probably rub u the wrong way but u will learn alot from him

You’re right!

18:20 This moment when i realized that i was right about when i feel a bit err watching this video haha. We're not only thinking about one thing omg ive so many ideas in my mind that ive jot down and publish some articles papers. Not only about future destruction etc etc. yes we are, that's why some of us are writers, but there's a lot of amazing infj women i know out there. Maybe we've just to uhmm categories things? Healthy female infj vs Unhealthy female infj. That would be better.

just confirms what i already knew. im sad now.

Hey Marty… U R a lot of fun. :)

This is true I've come across sooo many cluster b's I'm over it, I cannot deal with them anymore. Running at the first red flag next time

We've been together for 14 years I disagree I'm an INFJ with an ISTJ and we've had absolutely amazing sex, we have other relationship issues but the sex has never been the problem kinda what I can't stay away from. 😂

I like to be an INFJ because finally after 30 years I heard someone who has absolutely the same thinking process as me. And I thought I never see or hear anyone talking like that. I watched your video now- What every INFJ must learn to do? If not, your life may not be as happy as it could be. I would sign it I could say amen to that and still I don´ t mind Im thinking this way.And you know why?I give you time loop... Because thanks to people like you who can share it and explain it. So you did not lost many years, no fucking way!

I found it extremely hard to listen to this video and after you denied the Lordship of Jesus Christ I understood why. Do not mislead woman this way sir by presenting yourself as a lamb while in effect leading women into more confusion and away from Jesus Christ. Pls stop that.

I cared for people too much, delayed my career. Got treated like trash, still do. Same environment. Then I behaved like an absolute a$$ without a care for them and I'm still not at peace, happiness is non existent. Can you recommend a first aid?

Hi Marty, had to come back to this video for some reason. Hope you're alright (haven't seen you in a while). You know, what's intresting to me is that I can see a bit of a correlation between the advice you gave in this video and one I've read within the framework of astrology - I know it wasn't your intention to create parallels. Based on the latter, the desire to give all one is capable to those who might need it in the best way possible is a Jupiterian influence, and although that in itself does not make up for an INFJ personality, it might be one of it's driving forces (because seeing things from near infinite perspectives in an instant isn't a Jupiterian trait). Now, you say that the presentation of the percieved optimal algorithm of the solution in one whole package mostly overwhelms those on the recieving end, even if it is of good intentions and authenticity, so it has to be constrained and diluted in time and amount, going slowly but surely. Patience and distinction is not a Jupiterian strength, but rather Saturnian (everything has to be put in it's right place at the right time). Those who have this kind of influence in any areas of their lives have to inherit this trait by trying to emulate and practice it themselves - it might be the lesson of a lifetime, has to be strived for and earned, as it does not come naturally for them, making it all the more valuable once the path is made.

I've never been on his website. I've only watched the free videos on his YT channel. Yet I understand perfectly well how to use his grid. And you seem very stupid.

I just found your youtube today. I've watched a few videos and I do believe that you are an INFJ, just like me.

I think Marty Glenn is INFJ, he reminds me of Jordan Peterson. I personally like his advice, they are personal and well thought out.

When you speak about IQ are you talking about the intuitive and feeling functions or ones ability reflect and self reflect?

Was just thinking of you🖤

These intergenerational sociopsychological engrams essential to psychical development, offering support across generations and through multiple ply of them, has been functionally disabled over a long period of time, but the pattern is clear: it is the result of a social engineering weapon.

Exactly so dam true

Thts y u got R worded. LOL

It would be very hard for an "S" type to have a successful relationship with an "N" type, since this is generally an insurmountable gap between two people. As an "N" type, it is rare for me to find an "S" type who gets me. I have also found ESFPs I have known to be materialistic.

Please please make an Instagram account Marty 🙏🏻

Men don’t know how to lead anymore….Women will submit to a man that knows how to lead. If women can’t feel safe they will leave.

It looks good. Not every woman whores it out right out of marriage, some just want to be alone. Not touched or bothered. 😊

santa?

Wow, this might be one of the greatest infj videos ever. Gonna start incorporating this into my life asap. Watching these videos feels like I’m talking to my older self haha.

lol these comments are from white knights defending someone they find attractive. hilarious.

As an infj female, your argument for infj women overly displaying stereotypically feminine traits like compassion and empathy is built on a misunderstanding of where these traits come from. Women do not inherently display these Fe/Fi traits as a rule. An infj woman is not going to be more empathetic and giving than an infj man (and if she is its more likely due to societal influence being that women are more expected to be the display these traits than men. Men will be more encouraged to publicly suppress them). If you have ever interacted with an intj/intp/istp woman its quite clear that this “warmth” you speak of doesn’t come naturally to them. These stereotypes come from women being more likely have Fe/Fi high in their stack. But if a man happens to also have high Fe/Fi he will display these same traits just as overtly. An infj woman is not some super infj with extremely exaggerated infj traits, she’s just a normal NiFeTiSe user same as any other infj.

This is the best typology video on all of youtube

Thank you, very deeply moving seeing someone act out my truth about my own family members. Yes OmG, sitting in a chair. 😮

Story literally broke me the story never goes away and people don’t understand

You should start of the 15 minute mark.

so are you essentially saying youre an unhealthy INFJ ? as per nurture conditions ? & if so , do you strive to move towards a more healthy & thus , authentic expression ? also , mbti can be a helpful tool , but not so much when its dominantly used to perpetuate negative qualities & stereotypes ..

It hurts but I take the advice