WHY ARE YOU SINGLE? Married at 23, divorced after only two years in marriage'- Margaret Wariko
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- čas přidán 20. 10. 2020
- Margaret Wariko tied the knot at only 23. She was a role model to her younger cousins. But her marriage was to break only two years after following serious disagreements. Margaret says she doesn't regret walking away. She also has no plans of asking for matrimonial property.
Only a strong willed woman walks out of an abusive marriage. We must never judge a divorced woman without even listening to their story. Remember to keep your comments respectful. And as you enjoy the show, please SUBSCRIBE.
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We also need a pastor to tell us why they are always hypocritical telling people to play for their spouses😏🙄that's rubbish
A1¹11
Hopefully one I will sit on that chair ...may God give me the grace. Healing is a process
Kagoni Jambo
So so glad to see that the younger generation of Kenyan women won't tolerate mistreatment. It is so refreshing to see women develop a backbone and stand for themselves. It is such a stance that will reduce the number of domestic violence cases and 'wife deaths' in the country.
I have realized the nicer you are to your man the meaner he is to you
very true
You can say that again.they think u are stupid
True...when You become too nice he start seeing you as apathetic person,
Yes
Yes
I got married 14month nikamucemanio ndeitire I ask my self I this life I will stay until death I rem very well Dec ilifika nikasema naenda sikuu until today Niko sikuuu it's been 14 year's thiguku ndiri yathira
This is the definition of a woman who knows her worth, one who understands that no one should make you loose your purpose and vision..... I envy the courage
A very strong woman. Am glad she made a well informed decision to divorce that insecure, controlling and paranoid man.
Enda umuoe wewe secure na mature
I can only describe this lady as very intelligent,full of wisdom and understanding.I believe she is going far.I have liked her very much and I wish her all the best in her future life.
This lady is special in her own ways, I wish her the best
I love this girl already , marriage is not a life insurance your peace matters alot, she still young with a lot of vision big up gal💞💞
Well done again girl , you didn't stop going to work so that you depend on him you were enlightened.Ladies truly speaking ,many of you can agree with me that 10 shillings on your hands is worth than a million in his pockets. Atakushow uwache job but whatever will follow , you will regret forever.
The truth
Jane Mungai have lunch send me pay bill
Naked truth
A true measure of maturity detected! A gift denied to many. "he is a good father, not a gud husband to her."she said. Life is for the living.
monica I love the way you ask Questions and at the same time you make someone feel okay when he she speaks out.... You are the best kudos.
I am impressed by the wisdom and assertiveness in this lady. Wariko I support you a💯%. Just be you!!!
One of the best interviews of the season.. strong woman who knows what she wants in life
My mum walked away from millions after my dad died so I understand Maggie vizuri my mum said she has no time to keep fighting relatives and concubines Kama ukiwa na uwezo just walk away it helps in healing and by the way my mum is so blessed in wisdom and wealth. Society will always talk.kirindi ni kia rimire musa.
@Gashiki gashiki wow, this is encouraging, I would love to meet your mum ( margaret.wariko@gmail.com)
@@margaretwariko5057 sure thing love
I was married to a freaking narc. Very insecure man. There's nothing a woman can do to make that marriage work. Taking the next exit is the best thing.
I get excited when I see more and more understanding narcissism. Many have been suffering in narcissistic abuse and the society been unknowingly supporting the abuser.
True
She is a very wise person. She figured things out early!! Some of us have waited 25 years to see through the cracks. Well done Wariko
23 years to see the cracks
23 years to see the cracks.But it's okay we have different brains
Imagine... and we're still in 😭
The husband was the victim here. He was manipulated by a covert narcissist. They appear good to the outside world but to their spouses/children, they are serpents!!!!
@Judy Mburu , It is never too late, I am sure there is so much to learn from someone like you
Clever girl, you played your cards very well, He could have duped you to buy him plots,migunda in the name of love alafu akudump,Rise up ladies.
I gave up on marriage when my son was 1week old and marriage was 2years old and now am doing perfectly fine and my son is 4years old and am a single mother feeling good while chasing my dreams...
How did duo it
@@leahmaina8450 it's all about the decisions and focus
Leah maina i want to Know too
@@veronicahwangui8226 I wonder How ucan do it painful en hard
Me i give up when my baby gal was 2yrs and now she's 13yrs am feeling good with my dota
Maggie was my classmate she was very bright in class.keep winning gal proud of what you have overcome👌
Hiyo jina yako ya katikati ni ya our family and its rare wewe ni wetu pls?
Trizah she got my attention too cos we've also got that name in my family too and it's very rare. Are we all related? Lol
My classmate too Maggie. Wow she just a strong woman
Waah...You're very strong my dear. Imagine one would never think you went through all these...Continue winning gal, you're going far.
Maggie was my schoolmate nurse she was the press girl, very confident and sharp. Keep soaring girl.... God is on your side
@sarah Mburu the good old days.... God has continued to be faithful....
So refreshing to see a young woman hold on to her sense of power despite the odds. It comes with a price but its well worth it in the end. God bless you and grant you a man that will pour into your cup!
How I Pray everyone who loves marriage will get a suitable partner no matter what have went through
I swear I love my single life thz nonsense ya mtu gutida akuhingiire na gugutiiria na naniguo ororire nikiii makoragwo me insecure. Great 👍 decision gal n life goes on
This is a very bright and strong woman with a great heart
Maggy you are such a gem, true you are a strong woman... We looked up to you when we were younger even today you stll have a beautiful soul
@Nancy Murugi... hahah nice to see you here
I adore the Texture of Her Mind..she's oozing wisdom and maturity
This lady is so mature, positive minded and very bright
Wisdom detected in this lady. Wewe ni shujaa. Keep winning my dear.
Monica it is important to have some tissues in place when interviewing as most testimonies are and can be very emotional especially when it triggers the past.
Even water to
Very important for "ANY" interview.
Bottle of water, a glass of water a side table on the side and some tissue. Make it more presentable and welcoming!! Just sharing
Very important point or handkerchief s
I love the grace and maturity you have,,,I have learned from you something but I went through that I know it's painful!!! For sure have been single for 4yrs after i leave my marriage and am still pray God...only the strength
Learning to be independent from a young age gals is very important .Live the best life unapologetically. Let Husband be a back up. Best decision this lady made after seeing the red flags👍
Alot of maturity and grace.Very inspiring Wariko.
Keep the good work Kagoni ,am in love with your show
Powerful and beautifu lady, mother. She spouts great wisdom in this short clip. Be blessed.
Love her locks,her wisdom and maturity and aura!
That's a very toxic man. He was insecure and there was nothing you could have done to change that. Very sorry for that, I understand you Cristal clear. I have been there and I know how one feels, anyway you don't have to blame yourself for his behaviour. This is the best decision you took.. leaving him with his toxicity
The lady said it very well. The husband was the victim here. He was manipulated by a covert narcissist. They appear good to the outside world but to their spouses/children, they are serpents!!!!
@Teresa Gitonga you accept and move on as you face the challenges that come with it.
@@joshuagitonga3164 The person who wears the shoes knows how well it fits. That said your opinion is noted
Wariko is such an independent soul, such a rare gem...
I applaud young women who say NO to abuse and take a step to run their own affairs. I especially love a hard working lady and one who shares her experience to help others. May you be blessed Wariko. Glad you did not fight for your property because God gives and God takes away. Materialism is one of the reasons many women stay in abusive marriages. Happy you acknowledge the positive side of your ex as being a good father. That's really wonderful and strange at the same time being that the child is partly you. May God bless Monica and her wonderful service.
a lady speaking with wisdom and maturity
This lady is wise.intelligent.someone to emulate.
Me am single coz nilirukwa kipetero kiyesu after conceiving... 🤔But si ni life, he thought that we will suffer na yy mungu ni nani? 😏😏😏
Go mama let karma deal with me
You're a strong woman bora Mungu hajakuruka.😍
hahahaha....gaka ni kajoya ati ulirukwa aje?
@@millicentndegwa9091 🤣🤣🤣
Kipetero Kiyesu hehehehe
I love the strength in this lady. She knew her worth. All the best wariko
What a Strong & Mature Woman (Wariko). I admire your Sense of Reasoning inspite of what you've gone through.... God will bless you abundantly
Trust me that is the best decision you have ever made cute girl . God will see you through
Very true dear
@Alice Njambi, He is and he will continue to do it. Is it easy? no but we keep pour head up
Wow kagoni ur show is now improved very well,keep it up
@Grace Wanjiru Indeed God is using her to change lives in a good way
Very beautiful bubbly woman, huyu ni team kujiamini 💪💃💃no need to fake happiness haina haja ya kulia Lia, take a step...
Kabisa she is strong 💪 stronger woman
Tuko wengi....#TeamBabanMama
🙏♥️🙏
@eunice wairimu kabisa, while at it tuna pray for God's sustainability na wisdom....
An independent mind, very sober and thoughtful. Am proud of your sanity Wariko
please bring at least one man who is single. We wanna know why they are single, especially men in their thirties
Wow wow gal you are strong, beautiful and what you are destined for is way greater. I have always admired your strong personality, keep moving and see God do even amazing things in your life. Blessings
Wariko , i do admire your courage , you such a brilliant woman, watching from Canada
Wow I have fallen in love with this show
Great attitude right there Margaret!
The first lady kusikia akiwa in love na even when in love anatumia kichwa na akili sawa sawa. The moment someone throws yu out at night or such cruelty yur head should alert yu of some danger regardless of how much yu feel in love .
This is the kind of people who should mentor our daughters. I like your attitude, will and strength. If only our mothers knew when to walk out.
The author and finisher of your life will always be faithful gal,that's a bold step you talk swty kudos and continue chasing your dreams
aki time haisongi, I am so excited to watch today's episode
A woman full of wisdom
She is so patient and humble perfect woman
I like the spirit of this gal.chase your dreams till you make it.
The parting short was splendid...ata mm nilisema mzee wa wawenywe no go zone
Magggyyy ❤️❤️❤️❤️ I love this lady to the moon and back
Wow this lady is so MATURE....I am seeing a strong character......naona tuko na opinion moja....wow
Well done Wariko and indeed this show is super super amazing
Kagoni you are very smart....hio nywele 👌👌👌👌👌
Even though I don't understand Kikuyu much, I celebrate this Woman-Margaret Wariko. A former collegemate and a hard working lady. Go!go! Maggy!
Hv learnt alot thanks so much Kagoni for the show watching frm Doha
I have seen such a man and that is my dad. He even don't want my mum to talk to his siblings. He is also a narcissist and he made our childhood life to be nothing to remember. But to know he has never changed. Maggie you are a strong lady. Keep up
Maggggyyyyyy❤️❤️❤️❤️
You're such a strong human gal 💕💕...
I like her decision.....no need to force things from a man....also live your life, the society will always be judgemental
Maggie jeez shocked you went through all that. Proud of you. Love and light Mama
@Milkah Maina my hommie .... Imagine, but I am good now... God Bless
I love your show monica..Very educative..Maggie is a very strong woman
Present Monica nko ndani ici ihiko niikurema am a victim but God is our strength Ngai wa atumia ario giti ini that's why I hate pple who judge single mothers coz mundu nigwikora ekoraga kwa hiuha kiura ruga.nikuri Ngai waihinda ringi we nitwahanana mzee aliuza shamba sikufuatilia n ata hasaidii watoto ata kuwaona some men God is watching 13 yrs and loading thanks for sharing kweli watu wanaumia
Waria maa....nii kihiko giakwa kia 12yrs giathirire niundu wa gwitua mwega kwi muthuri niguo ndukamuhitirie...njiguaga mundu akingwetera kihiko ngethithimukwo...
@@monienjeri3042 we nitwahanana ndaamuire kurere twana twakwa tutikagererio ruo kama their dad dnt see or love them what's about another man my kids my everything mundu anarumwo ni nyoka onaga kamukwa akora kila wiki nlikua napigwa 2x ilikua doz nlikaa 4/5yrs nkasema basi maria ndorite nimo maingi n akanitishia nkahamia bali sana maasai mara
kaba guikara single gukira ruo maa,,Ngai witu dari hindi agatutiganiria ona twanyararwo ni andu
@@mimsbaibe6mimsgul737 nii kwanja haro ya mwiri na ya heho nicio cianguritie gukira miaka yakwa...nagutiri kindu kiuru guikara na mundurume stingy na korwo e narcissists hau hatiri maisha.....na agakorwo ndarenda mundu agathukume ati niekumbwo....pole gal tulee watoi hawaja wekelewa mawe.
@mimsbaibe6 mmsgul Very true and the journey to heal genuinely is having a strong support system and also having true people you can open up to...
Margaret I love you for living your life with confidence and realizing that it's important to love yourself under all circumstances. Don't allow people to shape your life allow God to do it because He's faithful. Don't condemn yourself for whatever reason instead love God ,yourself and then others. Seek wisdom from God not from people and don't listen to stupid ideas from anyone because when God is for you that's all that matters. I pray for God's blessings for you and for a loving lifetime partner. Monica God bless you as always. Lots of love, hugs and kisses for both of you from Tx. USA
@Wangui Bundi awww hugs are well recived... and indeed God is already blessing me...
A very wise focused lady who knows what she wants. Well done baby gal. Lord's blessings.
Waah🤔l hv seen my hrtmate.u hv almost my characters.even almost same wth my story.one day l will also tetify.u r strong woman we shall go far.👏👏👏👏God will NVR do away with us.he has a good plan for us
I stopped my job to give an insecure man peace he gave me hell in return. Insecurities about your place of work Mara neighbors it's sad. I'm glad Margaret was strong enough to walk out of that abusive marriage. I'm happy now and I thank God in the midst of pain and regrets He gave me a new dawn
Such an intelligent young woman. You made the right decision gal.
Awesome!👌.I can relate .God is super faithful.
A Very mature gal God will give u a family coz u deserve better
@Marggie
I always advise women to work,work and work!
Usikae kwa nyumba
This lady is so beautiful and kindhearted
Wow this lady is full of wisdom.
I agree with you Margaret & kagoni thanks for sharing. Let the parent who can give the best be with the kid/kids . Forgiveness is key in this journey ,self love as u highlighted ...it's a process with stages similar to grief, denial,bitterness ,acceptance ,healing etc....been there 10yrs then Divorced .Nothing lasts forever
@sarah kiragu This is so good, healing takes time and I wish people resected that process... I am glad you are in a better space... may you continue to encourage others in different ways as well.
I don't support divorce but i think you are a very smart and brave girl because you saw the red flags and acted very early. Very few of us ladies act early enough we wait until we are heavily bruised. I want to be like you when i grow you Margaret
Wow Maggy, I know this lady. Oooh girl nice to hear your story.
Margaret , you are a wonderful girl.
Because you did your best, God will bless you with the right partner. Keep up your maturity and focus. I like your parting shot 'if you know you have done ya best, now love yourself enough to take the best decision for you. Lovely'
Such strong decisions, only a strong woman can make. its not easy to let go ones child as a woman. salute you Wariko
@Doris Muriuki I have not let her go entirely , we are co-parenting and it works for the young one...
Gai nîaiguaga wahoya...Ameen🙏🙌 💞 she's wise confident and beautiful Maggie God knows what's better for you and thanks for encouraging other wamen out there
@wamsu wamsu It has taken time to get here and I am still learning everyday... I am glad I was able to encourage those going the same and are not able to speak up or do not even know where to start from.
@@margaretwariko5057 niî onadiraigua ta ngûkua nî depression ta he number ciaku tucemanie uhe narî kiugo gia kûnyûmîrîria Niko parklands opp museum0719528465
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I love this lady with her courage all the best my sister.
So much wisdom.
wise and strong woman she is.I love how she does not give a damn about the society madness.Again loved the way she refused to compromise her job in the name of marriage.Aki marriage is enslavement especially when one is married to eg insecured man,man who always pulls you down he is not happy with your achievements name it.But it is also a blessing when one is married to a secured man and a man that supports his wife"s achievements and goals.
Marriage is a scam
This Margaret is very very decent woman..unfortunately the devil goes after the best..devil can be described as your mistake, error, sin and human weakness. This man needed to realize what a blessing God had bestowed upon his life. This woman is a good wife material.
Good interview.
Wow such a wise woman ,, thanks Sana I have learn alot
this lady is my twin... i swear i don't fight... i believe in my star... i don't strain anything.. i let what roll n what crushes... because there is God...
Benjamin Zulu has been advising ladies not to get married before 25yrs because below that we are doing things from an emotional perspective 😭am soo sorry for what you went through🙏I loathe abusive men 💔
He will save many
Not the scripture truth. Its commitment and maturity that makes the difference. There are lots of grown boys and grown girls masquerading as adults
have been following Zulu and his full of wisdom
True. Very few stay together happily. Some who stay together including some of our parents, it's always because one of the partners sacrifices their ambition or freedom.
@@Mercyy734 I agree like most Mexicans mature first while young just my opinion
This is a very strong women not many women have her kind of heart
Waoh! Such a motivational story