'I d probably be in prison now for beating my ex-husband's mistress! I beat her so badly! E Mbugua
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- čas přidán 14. 12. 2021
- Esther Mbugua has tasted the bitter pill of infidelity. The pain tortured her so much that she opted to confront the well-known woman…her husband’s mistress.
Esther beat her so badly! At that time she felt like had conquered but looking back, she says that the beating would have landed her on jail. She advises women against confronting their husbands’ mistresses saying that if he has chosen to leave, let him go.
Im so humbled and overwhelmed by your love Metha ya Kagoni Family...God bless you
Which year we you in Mutuma High
Women please never fight for a man. A man is not a price.
Please let a cheat go. Once a cheat always
You’re right. Very profound
True but sometimes anger.....woooiii sisemi kitu
At 34, the fights i fought🤔
Acha nilee watoto wangu
For 9 years nilipigana, making a decision to leave is still the best thing i did
Such a great orator!So truthful!You were out to make a family but the father of your children wasn't. It's good that you made a choice and walked out.May God grant the desires if your work.
She is a wonderful storyteller
I know this young lady. She was my pupil at Mutuma primary. She was the best girl . Oh pole sana Esther. May God keep on blessing you.
Sister congratulations for speaking out siz.
Hugs for speaking for the voiceless
As we watched this interview; we laughed throughout....some stories are heartbreaking but for Esther Mbugua I liked your sense of humour. It is a lesson well grabbed & learnt; Esther is beautiful, honest & very articulate; I enjoyed every part of this interview.....Congratulations @Monica Kagoni for keeping it professional; especially keeping the interviewee on track & ensuring that the viewers get a deeper understanding of the story line; in line with grasping lessons to help us tackle issues in relationships. Its been a great year, an educative session & inspiring moment being part of Metha ya Kagoni in 2021.....Keep up the good work @MK and the team.
Blessings galore🙏🙏
This will never get boring this the 5th time a watching this she is a vibe💗
Y'all that's my sister
Sooooo proud of you darling
❤️
She Is a good story teller
I like this lady narrates her story. She reminds me of my home village
Great Powerful message inspiration now
Esther, my neighbour at home,watching from Qatar.
Beautiful lady with a powerful message. Thank you for sharing, you speak so well.
I really feel for this lady. It is thro God's grace that Esther did not go to prison. God is to give you another husband.
What a story Esther! Congratulations on finally leaving such a toxic environment. But truly your trauma response must be fight because you indeed fought. Thank you for sharing this story with us we have learnt a lot. Yes you will attract healthy love because you deserve. Monica we appreciate your work and feel better soon.
Thank you dear
If kagoni can reach me my story is so similar but worse than this but I thank God,am healing,some inlaws are from hell ,,,waaah
@Gakii Ruth Ruth dear one, am sorry you have had to deal with pain and trauma. You’re right some people do seem to have come from hell!you did not deserve abuse, nobody does.Glad to hear you’re on a healing journey. Am sending you love, power and healing, every survivor will heal one at time!
@@narcissisticabuseawareness3607 Thank you for your encouragement,one day I will praise God for the milestone,it's only time,so in everything give it time
It's only take God's grace to walk away from a toxic marriage or relationship am going thru it and I don't regret walking away my peace matters alot
I tell you,, i took so many yrs to make a decision to walk away from marriage,, hakuna kitu kibaya kama baridi kwa ndoa,,, kuchapwa na huwezi ongea ama ku make decision,, yani kuwa controlled kama kondoo,,, lkn wakati nilimua kutoka kwa ndoa nili chapwa on date 1 January 2017 usiku on date 2 ndivyo nilikata kamba......
Physical fights are a projection of inner bitterness. I also used to get attracted to chaos. I couldn't listen or talk out. It's a spirit from the evil one. Acceptance is the cure. I learnt to accept and let go. Be it defeat or pain or even a job. Accepting it's what it is. Sending love from Ruiru 💓
You’re right Mary! Acceptance is the first step for healing
Just love this lady..my agemate amefanya what i was heading to do bt mungu alikuja......good job monica
Ciaigana nì ciaigana....ukiwachwa achika! Thanks so much Esther for openly sharing your painful life story...great to see you've moved on!!!
Eagerly waiting for it Monica
I like your courage and truthful in you, you really fought for your place. Congratulations and God see you through with your endavours
A cheater will always be a cheater....a liar will always be a liar.......shindwe. And may all mipango ya kandos never have peace....shindwe Pia
Nima amen
😂😂😂😂
Amen they will Neva know peace
She is a wonderful storyteller. I hope she can complete her journalism course. May God continue to bless you and your family 🙏🏾
I just like this girl ,the way she ask questions.💞🤣🤣. Pole young beautiful girl. Dont give up, move on and focus. God is able
Kweli wanaume hakili hatuna , yaani niwache kwangu mbila chakula , ndio nifurahise wengine
Those are just the toxic men. Not all men are like that. We have healthy and emotionally mature men
imagine that. uache kwako hakuna chakula. upeleke kwa jangiri.
😂😂😂😂😂Ati njangiri umefanya nicheke,, i passed this shit some yrs back
Imgn na ukisota unarushwa nje kama mbwa you should value yourself jamani wanaume
I wish mngepewa hata mbili
I love her confidence but now now now to people should love themselves more .Hope she sticks to her resolve not to get into another relationship in a hurry.Ni wale wale😀
Best story ever she is a sweet story teller
Essy that was the best decision you made,,,may God expand you
Gang can we tell Monica pole kwa homa, quick recovery Monica ❤️❤️. Lovely show.
Waoo am happy for this beautiful Queen she is my best friend 💗 hug mumy
Hey Never make decisions while angry, Never make decisions while excited be sure you are not Yourself.
We!! I've been in this situation up todate but I decided this year to search for my peace of mind.
Lesson learnt,a painful experience though
Better late than never, am hear listening to this story.... Ladies let us learn how to appreciate and love ourselves, marriage is not a pass to life, just package urself and never fight for a biz without a profit
Haki l learn everyday.twice beaten l feel like l suffer rejection.but l pray my kids not to suffer like me.keep up the good job Monica.
Jane, sorry to hear you have gone through trauma. Your kids will be fine because now that you’re aware and living in consciousness you will break the cycle of abuse. Please do. Am sending you love, power and healing. For you and the children.
Nyundo n underrated weapon
Pole kwa homa .sad but eye opener
My siz for sure,God does great.
Woiye let's learn how to ukiachwa achika... I know it's not easy when you quit the early the better.
This is an interesting story.
Am tuned
That is a great message from Ester. bless.
Welcome kagoni,, we are here to stay ,
Sorry dia esther,be strong women ,we women we pass alot thro this sily men but thea is God i n heaven
I knew this couple. Their business was really doing good. It's just sad.....
She passed through alot but she made decision of her life time before it's too late Easter keep going
A nyc teaching May God bless you but as many of your viewers are requesting try to hold it in Swahili English ama uweke translation
Proud of you girl... Keep going
I choose peace over everything fighting is not the solution gal...
Waiting kwa sana ❤
Beautiful lady
Harding working lady
Mbsni eagerly waiting
Show iko tops 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥sad nd interesting ❤❤❤.madam monicah pole utapona homa🙏🙏.
Pole kwa homa Monica n quick recovery
The best show 🤣🤣🤣🤣
You were both young when entering marriage but it's better to be single than to live in a hell marriage.
Marriage can frustrate someone vibaya Sana,,,I fought once n I swear i will never fight for anyone again,,,
A gud storyteller.. Hugs gal
Pole sana
Esther God is with you and your children
Wooi Monicah cold imekushika kabisa pole saana
Very supperb for narrating such an interesting story indeed. It reminds me the previous painful years back🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Story za misri🤣🤣
Waiting
When things come to such a point like this it's always good to seek God's guidance to avoid any damage or loss of life. It's good to step aside and give your children the peace they need and give them a Godly environment, forget what the world is thinking just my opinion and ready to be corrected. It hurts but to be on the safe side separate and continue living and God will make for you a way where there seems to be no way. Monica thank you for the highlight and God bless you and Esther we love you. ❤❤🙌🙌🙏🙏✝️✝️
hey hupy new yr 2022 monica.esther is very strong to tell this stories 'its bad hw men change and mistreat their wives.God bless her she is beautiful she deserves th bst.i aslo wrote message to yu since october im still waiting for yu to call me.
Nangoja kwa sana
Pole kwa homa Monica
Kagoni....naskia sauti yako ni kama uko na homa... quick recovery mama and thank you for bringing ester on board I am inspired ❤️💕
Never fight over a man. He's a big person and knows very well what he's doing. Am single for about 6yrs now and still young. If he cheats once the better you prepare yourself as early as possible. I will never beg, knell and pray for a cheating man life is short
They only change to be worse
@@susankuria5176 true
Gaitu ga gwiciarira😘😘😘😘I love you
Esther🙆🙆Aki umepitia...waah.
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Thina wa atumia nigwitua ega 😞. Once a cheater is always a cheater 😪
Many at times people are trauma bonded.
Uyu ni wa gwitu biu....
Wui ma kai muthuri ucio e wa wana atia he is not real uko strong ka ulimzalia tena women are strong
He’s toxic
Ndamba gwitia Chai haha Blue springs thikiririe
A luhya but addicted to your shows
Gatundu my home
Hau hakuheyana nijajoya😁😁😁😁😁😁
Woi monicah pole Sana homa itaisha
She's is a good story teller ...atî nyundo 🙆🙆🙆
Nyundo ya biuu. Ndegwa nduiii, mwathani!
Ya kuhururira micumari🤣🤣
Mimi monicah nilipiga msichana war same case na hii but I thank God my hubby Ali side na mm but hii ilisababisha kulipa msichana coz nilikua nimempiga sana bt ctawai pigana Tena at the end of the day mutengerio na mutengerania gutiri utahuma ctawahi tena
Monica uko na homa pole ...
But don't marry the person who you love so much let the person love you l mean you 40/100 and Him 100/100 that is what I can love Thank you
Wauh many reasons that makes women get married
Wooooie Esther never tell in-laws your ploblems i went the same too but thanks to God through humiliation l'm strong
Aki some in laws! Isipokua wale wa Virginia Kamotho, wengine acha tu
Never tell your in-laws what you are going tbrough.From the time in memorial there is no good daugher-in-law.you better tell your friends.Remember acording to them you are an interuder n you are destroying their son.solve the problems in your marriage n if its not working leave n move on.
Khaii me here, i told my mum inlaw tuongee akanisho hakuna haja ya kuhaibisha baba ya watoi wangu,, nikasema sirudi huko coz walikataa tuongee
But why do nurses punish young girls even if it's an abortion 😭😭😭😭... Soo inhuman
you should. why abort??
Monica pole kwa mafua
Atleast it was not a waste of sin but about the beating part she's a liar check on the ground
Ihiko cia thiku maa ni irarigithia.monicah pole kwa homa
Yes nii huritwo ya mwiri na tukamba cira Monica
Riyadh twihamwe
Monica witû homa nî gûthira amûkîra kûhona Kwa narua
Waah so sorry 😔 hio background iko poa
Sad! I was the mistress ended up to be the wife, little did I know that it will end
Pole now you are wiser
Watu wa gatundu naona tuko wengi...
Twiguku
Riu niwega kuga niwahenanirie hindi iyo wamuhurira na nyundo?
Mimba ikitoka btw sjui some of the public hospitals wanaichukulianga kama abortion sjui why