Pole dada yangu. Nii hikiityo ni giriama but i thank God. For 29 years now and i praise God. Ni caitani tu mwari waithe witu waingirire Muthuri waku. Wakwa arugamire nanii riria onire no athukirio mucii. Atumire othe mshe gitio namanjitikire.
In this world, dont struggle to prove anything to anyone. Compete with yourself and prove for yourself. Nobody really cares. That man wasted you for years. Pole sana.
The man knew very well that he was sick and did not want to infect you.That is why he said he wasn't able to have sex with you.Thank God that he protected you without knowing. Continue serving the leaving God for the devine protection.God loves you mum.You're blessed.
I really understand what this woman passed through....mimi niliyapitia haya and God is faithful because things happen for a reason....we shouldn't always complain but thank God
Hey saimo, hey mom all I hear is muthuri , muthuri , muthuri what of you want responsibility have you taken for your own life. This is an idle lesson for women my age to chase our dreams .
I've been married there for the last 34 yrs my husband ni pepo but my in laws ni watu wazuri, even my father in law before dying made sure watoto wangu wamepata uridhi wao,bwana anaishi Nairobi mimi naishi nyumbani, i do my own business there, watoto wamekua wakubwa
Wah been married too there for about 30 years ,it's been a rollercoaster.Umenichekesha ati bwana ni pepo.we should meet and share notes how to navigate.coz lazime tutanyolewa mbui hapo
Mum umepitia sana but i guess ulishindwa kusoma situation kwamba you got soo comfortable of his money and you did nothing to yourself. Women it's much important for us to chase our dreams and know our values. Let yourself earn whatever little thing it will save you on that rainy day. At least have some money to buy yourself some umbrellas 🌂
Pole Mami, but hii kitu ya kuproof aki imefanya wamama wengi waumie.mtu alikuwa Na 33 million Na saa hii mtoto anakosa school fee,woi jipanga Na hiyo job yako aki usijiproof tena .
My aunt married huko lived in Nairobi, when the husband passed on relatives came and carried everything from the house even curtains, she was left standing with her kids.
The man knew he was positive even before 2007 n thanks to God bcz maybe he didn't want to infect you..n men always finds somewhere to hook on to blame..shameless to In-laws those who try to break others marriages...may God protect all those women who are faithful 🙏
Women we go through a lot haki😢. I was married to someone who drunk so much, couldn't hold a job and eventually I was left holding trying to rebuild my life. My sister has been married to a Luo man for 28 years, but by God's grace everything has gone well. God is always fighting for us. No matter how bad it gets, we will overcome
She is talking the truth,mkikuyu haaminiki whatsoever hata ukiosha your spouse miguu.ni bure tu,but mamaulifumilia kuwa manipulation when young,so maliza safari mama juu you are still with your husband
Mary,you a wonderful 🎉lady who has undergone GBV .You have gone thru financial abuse,emotional abuse, psychological mental torture etc. Your name was tarnished by your partner, but you stood strong and fought for your family. I have faith that your son will go back to school. May God guide your steps as you find healing for your inner wounds.
Not all are bad, I have been married to one for 34 years now. And if given another chance to chose who to marry I would chose the same person over and over again.
So painful but this guy hunted a disease ur there with cold war What if he is evil n rapes you for revenge Kindly love your live n move on. U did your best u don't need to cry
@@elizabethkibuku3373 but when you claim that there is no time andu a ruguru will get along with Kikuyu ladies! What do you mean by that? the issue here personality and character of that husband not the tribe! if given a chance evenso some of the arume a ruguru can a stereotype,negative views of airitu agikuyu,which can not be true!
Uliitikia kukaliwa .you are very soft lady coz you agreed to be manipulated by narcissistic man. Pia uliangalia pesa ukaitikia kutumiwa.lazima ukue kichwa atleast to tame his ego. Again you are still advising people while still in the same marriage 😂wacha kutupima
The problem with your interview lately,, you interrupt alot and you make your guest keep repeating something....like you don't concentrate on what they are telling you!.. stop with so many questions let the story flow. Also that woman should love herself, i still don't know what she is trying to prove with adults children
First for all.. that doc can be sue for breaking his patient’s privacy.. it’s called HIPPA nway.. I’ll be long gone.. don’t have time to proof anyone anything. Sasa ungekuwa msick for no reason. God is good mama!
Though he is bad thank God hakutaka kukuambukiza ukimwi wewe ishi maisha yako mkiwa tu nayeye mind your business like he does juu ukitoka itainejana umetoka after pesa kuisha kama sio violent just do your own things yeye alimaliza nawewe kitambo wewe roho yako iko tu kwAke ishi nayeye but live your own life my suggestion
The truth is that if the marriage is not ordained by God, the marriage will not be sweet! We have gone through very rough issues even with our own people! Let's pray to God for guidance.
Mimi sitawai ji proof kwa familia ya mtu I've been married to another tribe for soo long but usiwai kubali kujengewa kwa ancestral home nunua mbali sana na nyumbani most of all have a voice kwa kila mipango ya familia yako
Hakuna watu wako na stress kama wenye wako kwa ndoa though si wote bt are the majority including me niko hata na ma h pylori juu ya bwana hata Sijui ali lala wapi sija muona hata saa hii na ha kulangi huku 😅😅😅
Am proudly luo,utaskia aje unatusiwa n hujui hio lugha?acha zako.all my brother married to kikuyu ladies am also married to kikuyu man.living here in kenol muranga.tuko sawa
But all what you have sayed have been experienced by peolple married to pple of their own tribe,even from the same village ..its not about tribe bana...achana na this backward mentality....i see couples of same tribe going through even worse things....he was not a bad guy..hata amenjengea wazazi wako ..huna shukrani wewe
This a similar story to that of my late mum.. It's not about tribe, my dad wa a kikuyu same na mum. So ni tabia ya mtu binafsi.. Unfortunately my mum died one and half years after my father's death.. Very unfortunate
wewe mama, anza kujipanga , if he goes before you God forbid , you will be told you killed him, they will sweep your house clean I hope you have shared the messages with police while you are still trying to prove yourself bado utaambiwa you killed him, He does not value you
Too bad accept mummy move on. nothing will change at the end if anything happens to him they will still say you killed him. Pls go now and God will help you.
Simo siku hizi your interrupting alot with so many unnecessary many questions. Nikama unyiti story nowadays. Let the story flow yawa😂 Pay attention please, your making your guests repeat themselves.
Weee machio ni ndagereire wakwa athire jaa ya kihiko na riria amenyire uria makoma nake ni muruaru ajirire mifira nginya mwana akinyie miaka muguaja.Nake Ngai ni mwega tondu akuire mwana ari na miaka Ina,riu nii ngochaga Ngai.
I love this woman no mama amevumilia mengi n always akumbuke kushukuru God coz she is safe n healthy
Pole dada yangu. Nii hikiityo ni giriama but i thank God. For 29 years now and i praise God. Ni caitani tu mwari waithe witu waingirire Muthuri waku. Wakwa arugamire nanii riria onire no athukirio mucii. Atumire othe mshe gitio namanjitikire.
Nice
In this world, dont struggle to prove anything to anyone. Compete with yourself and prove for yourself. Nobody really cares. That man wasted you for years. Pole sana.
She looks innocent l pity this lady.may God c her through.
The man knew very well that he was sick and did not want to infect you.That is why he said he wasn't able to have sex with you.Thank God that he protected you without knowing. Continue serving the leaving God for the devine protection.God loves you mum.You're blessed.
Life is spiritual pray and pray
I really understand what this woman passed through....mimi niliyapitia haya and God is faithful because things happen for a reason....we shouldn't always complain but thank God
Women stop proving to anyone, just love yourselves and prove that you can make your life without men😊
Say it again and again
@@janerosemaina7542the level of illiteracy is high
Tell them to know 👍
Hey saimo, hey mom all I hear is muthuri , muthuri , muthuri what of you want responsibility have you taken for your own life. This is an idle lesson for women my age to chase our dreams .
I've been married there for the last 34 yrs my husband ni pepo but my in laws ni watu wazuri, even my father in law before dying made sure watoto wangu wamepata uridhi wao,bwana anaishi Nairobi mimi naishi nyumbani, i do my own business there, watoto wamekua wakubwa
Wah been married too there for about 30 years ,it's been a rollercoaster.Umenichekesha ati bwana ni pepo.we should meet and share notes how to navigate.coz lazime tutanyolewa mbui hapo
Pepo black
Mum umepitia sana but i guess ulishindwa kusoma situation kwamba you got soo comfortable of his money and you did nothing to yourself. Women it's much important for us to chase our dreams and know our values. Let yourself earn whatever little thing it will save you on that rainy day. At least have some money to buy yourself some umbrellas 🌂
Pole Mami, but hii kitu ya kuproof aki imefanya wamama wengi waumie.mtu alikuwa Na 33 million Na saa hii mtoto anakosa school fee,woi jipanga Na hiyo job yako aki usijiproof tena .
True.
Mary a very calm and goodhearted lady from muthaiga
Pole sana
Pole.sana.my.sister.mungu.mbele
From central 🇰🇪 to Nyanza...na sitoki huko ata na madawa
Hata mimi sitoki NGO', Love them for takng good care of their family. No stupid drunkardness. My sons are well taken care of.
yas iko
Jehovah
This woman needs to see a chancellor, I have listened to her story well and she seems to be in a depression state
Mm Mera chaaa,
Symo please let story flow,siku hizi kwani uko wapi,maswali zingine unauliza already the gust ameelezea
Aki 😅😅
I thought i was the only one who joticed he keeps making the guest repeat themselves,nikama ako distracted
Kumbe am not the only one seeing that? Those questions make him even seem ignorant…
He is asking unnecessary questions because he is not listening!!!!
My aunt married huko lived in Nairobi, when the husband passed on relatives came and carried everything from the house even curtains, she was left standing with her kids.
So painful.mama love yourself,if you're not comfortable just move on with your life.sijui tribalism itaisha lini kenya
pole mama
Woooi pole Mum
This is much painful 😮Make sure you don't mix patience and wasting time. They look similar at times..take heart mamaa🫂
sure!!! 34yrs still proving people you are good is uncalled of.
Wow say it aloud some people get messed with these two things
Hi Symo K, I like the show but the mistake is one, please don't take too much of Coming up. 8 min is too much for coming up
I agree with you 100%
I don't understand the point of her being in such a marriage. Mama, choose peace!
The man knew he was positive even before 2007 n thanks to God bcz maybe he didn't want to infect you..n men always finds somewhere to hook on to blame..shameless to In-laws those who try to break others marriages...may God protect all those women who are faithful 🙏
wa mama tunapitia
Women we go through a lot haki😢. I was married to someone who drunk so much, couldn't hold a job and eventually I was left holding trying to rebuild my life. My sister has been married to a Luo man for 28 years, but by God's grace everything has gone well. God is always fighting for us. No matter how bad it gets, we will overcome
Sasa symo na shidwa, venye mum ame wa anika si kita mlamba haki. Ingekua wise ku ongea kama ha yuko huko. Ata kama ni ku ji prove wehhh...
True I went through the same thing
Pole sana there is a God of a second chance.
My friend underwent the same....
Mìciì nì ndogo
God has opened a way for you to work sister, work and continue with your marriage. Press on and build your empire
She is talking the truth,mkikuyu haaminiki whatsoever hata ukiosha your spouse miguu.ni bure tu,but mamaulifumilia kuwa manipulation when young,so maliza safari mama juu you are still with your husband
Ukabila nayo weh
Mary,you a wonderful 🎉lady who has undergone GBV .You have gone thru financial abuse,emotional abuse, psychological mental torture etc. Your name was tarnished by your partner, but you stood strong and fought for your family.
I have faith that your son will go back to school.
May God guide your steps as you find healing for your inner wounds.
The partner is a narcissist
My heart always grieve for women who go through hell thinking this men will change.the greatest enemy of a woman is hope .
Let's educate our girls so they can escape such things.
Kabisa
Very true😢
Mera na agikuyu is like oil 🛢 and water 💧
Atumia tiganaii na nyamu cia ruguru
Aya nimagukuigua wa mother 🤔
@@johnmwaura7608 niguo ngurigo wamaitu
Not all are bad, I have been married to one for 34 years now. And if given another chance to chose who to marry I would chose the same person over and over again.
@@sarahgathoni3487 thank God my sister, my sibling has gone thru hell with these so called nduriri
I always tell GOD never to let this happen to me
Mary go to police station take those massages take ob incase of anything 😢
So painful but this guy hunted a disease ur there with cold war
What if he is evil n rapes you for revenge
Kindly love your live n move on.
U did your best u don't need to cry
Niwateithia ruriri handu hanene, airitu agikuyu nemegutura meroragira rugano ruru rwaku niguo magie mitwe 🙉
Only @ Jesus feet one is safe
Muna kosa nini Mt Kenya? Mt Kenya hakuna wanaume?vikirieni ×10.
Rudi shule kwanza kabla utuadvice. Ulifanya data saa ngapi ukajua these problems are only on Mt kenya. Effing tribalist
Haiya
Gikuyu na andu a ruguru gutiri hindi igoka maigwithanie, aritu a gikuyu nio mahikagira kabira na airitu aao ni hinya muno kuhikio ni kabira ingi 😢
Wacha ukabila
Kuna kaukweli hapo
@@chebukosiwasikesio ukabila it's rare kuona waschana wao wakiolewa na kabila zingine ,sisi hatuna ukabila
@@elizabethkibuku3373 but when you claim that there is no time andu a ruguru will get along with Kikuyu ladies! What do you mean by that? the issue here personality and character of that husband not the tribe! if given a chance evenso some of the arume a ruguru can a stereotype,negative views of airitu agikuyu,which can not be true!
@@chebukosiwasike 🤣🤣ndeto cianakinya hau, reke ndikirire
Thate three million retirement benefits, within two years hakuna😮kweli kihii no kihii😂
😂😂😂
Ngoro ino ni ndwaru ni vile tuu ako strong .may God heal her
Mama Sarah,,ndukamake ni muturire
Depression ako naye no baya aende hospital
Uliitikia kukaliwa .you are very soft lady coz you agreed to be manipulated by narcissistic man. Pia uliangalia pesa ukaitikia kutumiwa.lazima ukue kichwa atleast to tame his ego.
Again you are still advising people while still in the same marriage 😂wacha kutupima
but remember huyo ni bibi yake ambaye wanashea the same bed.sio ety ni side chic.
Anarcissistic him or she hawawezi mimi nawelewa this woman.may God help innocent women.
Somehow I think this guy wanted to protect the wife. I cannot condemn him. He tried all he could to ensure she was safe.
The problem with your interview lately,, you interrupt alot and you make your guest keep repeating something....like you don't concentrate on what they are telling you!.. stop with so many questions let the story flow.
Also that woman should love herself, i still don't know what she is trying to prove with adults children
It's good u have observed that too hadi Mgeni anakua confused kujirudiarudia
Aty 33 millions, aty aty na saa hii hakuna any 🤔
First for all.. that doc can be sue for breaking his patient’s privacy.. it’s called HIPPA
nway.. I’ll be long gone.. don’t have time to proof anyone anything. Sasa ungekuwa msick for no reason.
God is good mama!
There’s no Hippa law in Kenya
Mila zingine zafaa tu kuwa gotten rid off. Wasee wengine wako nyuma km teke ya kuku😅. Support from Seattle
Mama jipange aki huyo akufe tu saa hii hata kijiko huwezi toka nayo,hao watu hukua wanyama,thru experience and bythe way
Atapata juu ya watoto
Mama jipe moyo
Uyu mutumia araria maa kuhukira kabira ti muthako 😢
Kabira siio issue inategemea.
Mm nimekuja in peace bt ndiriri caa
Though he is bad thank God hakutaka kukuambukiza ukimwi wewe ishi maisha yako mkiwa tu nayeye mind your business like he does juu ukitoka itainejana umetoka after pesa kuisha kama sio violent just do your own things yeye alimaliza nawewe kitambo wewe roho yako iko tu kwAke ishi nayeye but live your own life my suggestion
Waaaaat this is so sad
Mwathani Ngai
Very true,what's she's saying,I'm in the same situation
Jipange Mama
Ngai am so sorry mary😢
Stop blaming the culture...you could have acted wise right from the word go
The truth is that if the marriage is not ordained by God, the marriage will not be sweet! We have gone through very rough issues even with our own people! Let's pray to God for guidance.
Waa tafarira iino iko aje bona hakuna introduction before the story waa so confusing 😮
Wee umeanzia katikati ama.amji introduce imagine
Mimi sitawai ji proof kwa familia ya mtu I've been married to another tribe for soo long but usiwai kubali kujengewa kwa ancestral home nunua mbali sana na nyumbani most of all have a voice kwa kila mipango ya familia yako
Ni mbara ya nduriri
Hawajui hadi kwa wakikuyu hatufai kwenda ama kukula kwa burial haituhusu.🤐
Mary we ni mkikuyu original kweli,ama ulikorogewa?😮😮😮
😂
Any marriage a husband doesn't want a woman to work is not a sure bet.our young daughters work work
True there must-have something hidden as long as he knows you don't make your money
so sad,about proving yourself to a certain tribe is a never for me,as long as you know yourself walk with your shoulders high without turning back.
Mary husband is also a narcissist..may God see her through this...
Siwenzi furahisha mtu ni kufe hiyo si kuprof hiyo ni ujinga wacha ikae
Hakuna watu wako na stress kama wenye wako kwa ndoa though si wote bt are the majority including me niko hata na ma h pylori juu ya bwana hata Sijui ali lala wapi sija muona hata saa hii na ha kulangi huku 😅😅😅
Ghaai kwani tuna share, been battling the same with a narcissist in the House I've seen it all.😢😢
Sorry for what you are going thru
Hahaha mpaka unacheka
Am proudly luo,utaskia aje unatusiwa n hujui hio lugha?acha zako.all my brother married to kikuyu ladies am also married to kikuyu man.living here in kenol muranga.tuko sawa
Ugebuyiwa shamba aky
Sometyms is better ti stay single stress free bila stress micii ni ndogo waah mpaka mtu anaogopa ndoa😢😢😢
I went through the same I was married to a Muslim and I was a Christian
Hii nayo siwezi jaribu aki
Wewe ulijifunga mwenyeqe,ulikuwa unajua kuna shinda na wanakuonyesha,ungetoloka kitamboo after kupata mtoi mmoja.,but,uliamua kuoleka.
But all what you have sayed have been experienced by peolple married to pple of their own tribe,even from the same village ..its not about tribe bana...achana na this backward mentality....i see couples of same tribe going through even worse things....he was not a bad guy..hata amenjengea wazazi wako ..huna shukrani wewe
Well said dear
Huyyu mama kina vile ni mjinga, what was her part? Sasa she has exposed him, and bado she is there,does she even care for her kids
Weuh, this is a WARNING to us who love Luo menz😂😂but I would rather cry there than SUFFER with my kikuyus..😂😂😂😂😂
Si kwa ubaya but me western siwezi olewa......wacha niolewe na mtu tunaskizana lugha😢
Mukiugaga aty imundu icio niirimaga mugunda wega 🤔
👍💯
I second you my sister
Mlevi noo.. I love my Luhya man. Very caring❤❤
This a similar story to that of my late mum.. It's not about tribe, my dad wa a kikuyu same na mum. So ni tabia ya mtu binafsi.. Unfortunately my mum died one and half years after my father's death.. Very unfortunate
True
wewe mama, anza kujipanga , if he goes before you God forbid , you will be told you killed him,
they will sweep your house clean
I hope you have shared the messages with police
while you are still trying to prove yourself bado utaambiwa you killed him,
He does not value you
Too bad accept mummy move on. nothing will change at the end if anything happens to him they will still say you killed him. Pls go now and God will help you.
Did i here it right 33million or thaysands.. ??????
33 M
Please report the threat text to the nearest police station for further help.
True my father alikataaa dadangu aolewe na mluya 😂
Simo siku hizi your
interrupting alot with so many unnecessary many questions.
Nikama unyiti story
nowadays.
Let the story flow yawa😂
Pay attention please, your making your guests repeat themselves.
😂 sure he is,
Very very true kushida akirudia rudia after mgeni,noticed too
@@carolkinyanjui2269 Akona tumaswali very nagging some even hard for quest to find an Answer.
At least Kuna mwingine amenotice hanyiti
Mama ka ungejua ungiarugire tene uwachane nao wabaki wakiongea zao juu o mundu niari na Manisha make my dear
Symo, adverts every 3 minutes 😢. That's just too much
Yaani nikizaliwa,for 34yrs🥺...kumbe marriage zilianza disputes kitambo
😀😁😁
Heheheh
The tribe is not demonstrated as a damning factor here,many half-truths noted.
Noted the same.
u got what you wanted
Wacha hizo bana,si ucomment to vizuli
Weee machio ni ndagereire wakwa athire jaa ya kihiko na riria amenyire uria makoma nake ni muruaru ajirire mifira nginya mwana akinyie miaka muguaja.Nake Ngai ni mwega tondu akuire mwana ari na miaka Ina,riu nii ngochaga Ngai.
I don't understand why you want to leave after 33 years. Why didn't you leave earlier? Don't you want to prove yourself more?
Njeri athie kuu?