Dear co-wife: Am sorry i ruined your marriage. I brought a curse on myself, please bless my kids

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  • čas přidán 15. 03. 2022
  • This is my plea to my co-wife,
    I came to your marriage and ruined it. I took your husband and lived with him for years. We even got children. From the day we started co-habiting, he stopped from coming to your home and to his children.
    I thought i had won over you. Now look at me. I can’t even count the number of times my kids have been admitted to hospital. I know i brought a curse on myself…may God have mercy on me
    But i plead with you, please bless my kids. Only you can free them. For it is God who says’whatever we bind on earth will be bound in heaven and whatever you loose on earth will be loosed in heaven
    Please…

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  • @MethayaKagoni
    @MethayaKagoni  Před 2 lety +208

    ​My Dear viewer,
    I know this story is very emotive. I know we would be tempted to call Victoria names and even rub it on her face that Karma is a b*****but please let's be respectful in our comments. Let's remember that we follow a God of second chance. Let's remember that some of the greatest saints like St Paul, St Mary Magdalene, St Augustine, were once great sinners. Let us bless Victoria with the same words of Jesus 'Go and do not sin again.'
    Let us pray and hope that the woman whose this message is intended for will soften her heart. That the Holy Spirit may give her the resolve and the power to forgive her and bless Victoria's kids.
    And for those of us who may be in such destructive relationships, may we; in this period of lent, call to mind our sins and change our ways. AMEN
    This my plea to you my faithful follower.
    Yours Monica

  • @rachaelkinyua7453
    @rachaelkinyua7453 Před 2 lety +14

    My beautiful neighbor ..happy to see you ..there's nothing nice like a sincere confessing heart God hears🙏

  • @lucykiiru5211
    @lucykiiru5211 Před 2 lety +152

    A broken spirit and a contrite heart, the Lord will not despise. The Lord has already forgiven her. This is the heart that David had, a repentant heart. May the Lord bless you Veronica.

    • @keziahnduta2740
      @keziahnduta2740 Před 2 lety +4

      Exactly 💯

    • @ruthkinyanjui4700
      @ruthkinyanjui4700 Před 2 lety +2

      David never sinned, he took a divorced wife🙏🏼

    • @tabbiemwas7478
      @tabbiemwas7478 Před 2 lety +12

      @@ruthkinyanjui4700 David killed Uriah in order to sleep with the wife isn't that sin to u?

    • @WakarimaWaKariri
      @WakarimaWaKariri Před 2 lety +4

      @@tabbiemwas7478 the problem is that our society has normalised male infidelity.

    • @ishiwawaim
      @ishiwawaim Před 2 lety +8

      @ruthkinyanjui read your Bible baby girl the book of Psalms is mostly David repenting and crying to God for forgiveness and partially him praising and honoring God.
      @LucyKiiru I echo you 💯

  • @keziahnduta2740
    @keziahnduta2740 Před 2 lety +60

    She is a very wise lady. Knowing you are wrong and admitting it, n asking for forgiveness is wisdom from above
    GOD will bless you my sister

    • @wairimusimiyu7899
      @wairimusimiyu7899 Před 2 lety +2

      Asking for forgiveness when the first wife and kids were crying alikua ana Raha tu..weee reke nemwo

    • @betty541
      @betty541 Před 2 lety +2

      @@wairimusimiyu7899 So far I feel like most people are disregarding the feelings of the first wife. She is entitled to her feelings too and while the guest is remorseful, the first wife should not be forced or rushed into forgiving. Also, why is the husband being let off the hook here? He was as much in the wrong as she was.

    • @sarahwambui5287
      @sarahwambui5287 Před 2 lety

      No she is not

    • @keziahnduta2740
      @keziahnduta2740 Před 2 lety

      @@betty541 a wise person will just forgive without being forced that's why many of us are not really bothered whether she will forgive or not. If she is human, and also makes mistakes,she will forgive. Bcoz she can't receive forgiveness from GOD if she doesn't forgive others
      We are just rejoicing n celebrating this woman whose eyes,GOD HIMSELF has opened.
      That's all

    • @betty541
      @betty541 Před 2 lety +2

      Keziah, I hear you..but let's agree to disagree here. I am uncomfortable with people telling the aggrieved party how to feel and what to do and yet she alone is in those shoes. There is nothing unwise about taking things at her own pace and doing what she pleases...it is her life we are talking about here..not anyone else's. Plus not all of us are necessarily religious, so the whole God won't forgive you if you don't forgive others does not fly. Shw should do as she sees fit..let's allow her the grace to do so. Thank you.

  • @steveykimson3158
    @steveykimson3158 Před 2 lety +29

    , I'm man with his young family 👪 and I thank God but I vividly remember how my own mother suffered n the hands of ths core wives, I remember one day, side chick approached my mum and told her that she's surprised to know she's not dead since my dad told her mum died few year's ago, battle never ends there and I remember another side chick made my mother life miserable to an extent of running 🏃‍♀️ 😢 to every pastor's to seek for help which she couldn't get.
    , instead they drained her financially, my mum had a lot of bitterness and it affected me so much being her last born, close friend and confidant.
    Sadly my mum could not cope so well with grief and she died peacefully and my entire life wrecked 💔 😔 I have never recovered but it's well with my soul.
    After the burial dad would bring different ladies at our matrimonial home 🏡 and it crashed my spirit, even during the burial any person could tell he was not there mentally only busy body when me, my brother and sister's overwhelmed by the grief which shook 💔 the entire village..to cut the story short my dad life has never be the same again after few year's and I hate him so much..I always confess to my wife even though I'm man things can happen, I will never let her go through what my lovely mum went through and may the lord help me I pray...may she continue resting peacefully n God hands and may dad pay the heavy price.

    • @eunicedallas4508
      @eunicedallas4508 Před 2 lety +1

      This is sad enough, 🥲🥲, I won’t say much, My mom has been and still is in those shoes though she’s still alive, but her health has deteriorated a lot

    • @steveykimson3158
      @steveykimson3158 Před 2 lety +3

      @@eunicedallas4508 very sad to hear that, through my own experience please advice your mama to run 🏃‍♀️ for her dear life, but mostly they don't want to go always justification that I'm here because of you as my children and I always wonder is it better to move on and enjoy the rest of your life with your children or u stay, die and your lovely children left struggling like I do?? I always blame my mum too bcz my agreement was when I left for greener pastures she will move away but she didn't now look how I struggle with her loss...anyways God knows better btw I wish you well together with your loved one's.

    • @susankaburu4527
      @susankaburu4527 Před 2 lety +1

      🙏🙏🙏🙏

    • @judymburu8898
      @judymburu8898 Před 2 lety +1

      Very heartbreaking Stevey. God be with you and your siblings

    • @steveykimson3158
      @steveykimson3158 Před 2 lety

      @@judymburu8898 Amen 🙏 🙌 👏

  • @sarahmuresh8665
    @sarahmuresh8665 Před 2 lety +62

    First wife is always blessed as the founder of home

    • @waruth3142
      @waruth3142 Před 2 lety +2

      Hapo kwa "founder" pana key

  • @margaretwanjeri3817
    @margaretwanjeri3817 Před 2 lety +44

    May God make all sidechicks leave married men we are suffering taking care the kids alone.

    • @susangititia3067
      @susangititia3067 Před 2 lety

      Amen and Amen

    • @hannahnganga5094
      @hannahnganga5094 Před 2 lety

      Amen

    • @yahchildg7283
      @yahchildg7283 Před 2 lety

      That is why is is key to stop engaging in premarital sex n wait till marriage....to avoid having kids outside wedlock,ladies should also stop day dreaming for a tall handsome rich man and give sailor a chance that avail themselves in their peak times,not waiting till 30s and then say there are no men...to marry. N start dating married men,wen maybe they rejected a man who would have bin a good husband all to herself

  • @annebaker8518
    @annebaker8518 Před 2 lety +55

    Monica I have gone through hell with my.girls bcoz of one woman who broke my home it hurts so much.bcoz watoto hawakufika kwenye walikua wafike kimasomo vitu mingi ziliharibika may they stop breaking marriages aki watoto wanaumia but machozi tumelia.Mungu atatulipishia

    • @preetyfavor2222
      @preetyfavor2222 Před 2 lety +1

      Very true mungu atakulipishia hio machozi na ya watoto wako pia

    • @waridim9249
      @waridim9249 Před 2 lety +2

      @erick ngenye Usipatikane. Hakuheshimu hata kidogo. Na watoto wako walikosa masomo.

    • @lynetoto2616
      @lynetoto2616 Před 2 lety +5

      Mimi nalea wangu watatu peke yangu na baba yao ana enjoy tu maisha na mwanamke mwingine na watoto wao but Mungu atatulipizia tu

    • @mercymwihia4782
      @mercymwihia4782 Před 2 lety +4

      Pole dia take heart vengeance belongs to God may their be bright in jesus name ..he got our backs whatsoever the hardship of traitors and dark moments in the name of marriage

    • @purityleah525
      @purityleah525 Před 2 lety +1

      It's very true

  • @lucykamunya7649
    @lucykamunya7649 Před 2 lety +63

    Baby gal, don't be too hard on yourself, children do get sick, even those that belong to the goat wives get admitted over and over ....pray for your children,God is a loving and compassionate,full of mercy and a million more chances.... complete healing to your babies,Amen

    • @milkah8425
      @milkah8425 Před 2 lety +1

      I agree polygamy has been there since kitambo

    • @itsgigy
      @itsgigy Před 2 lety +3

      Never make someone cry coz of selfishness...put yourself in the shoes of that woman umepata kwa hiyo nyumba.

    • @ruthwangari3403
      @ruthwangari3403 Před 2 lety +1

      It is because of people like you that my family is never stable to date 40 years of tears in marriage. May the Lord have mercy on our homes and the tears that we shed everyday.If you have truly left that family.May the Lord forgive you to even give you eternal life coz He died to save us all.

    • @lucykamunya7649
      @lucykamunya7649 Před 2 lety +1

      @@ruthwangari3403 ,my comment got nothing to do with families, cheating partners or what nots, it's about her and her children...the pain of a mother seeing her kids suffer,Point is, she should dedicate her children to God ,He is a God of mercy and full of second chances
      I'm sorry about your 40 years of tears,my comment was just about the sickly kids,God hears and heals...after all this woman has already left the man and the goatwife already forgave her and they met

  • @thepathfindermedia4228
    @thepathfindermedia4228 Před 2 lety +49

    This woman deserves forgiveness from God and the cowife.She is one in a million.Victoria may God intervine and wipe your tears

  • @vickytash2849
    @vickytash2849 Před 2 lety +14

    Well done Victoria for coming out clean and owning your mistakes. You've opened many our hearts and eyes. It's time to do the right thing before kids suffers. No one is perfect in the eyes of the Lord and he has surely forgiven you. Lots of love girl

  • @nellyspodcast
    @nellyspodcast Před 2 lety +15

    This is an eye opener for me... Needed to hear this

  • @pharisnganga2012
    @pharisnganga2012 Před 2 lety +18

    What a woman who humbles herself this much. Thank you Monica for asking questions and in a tone that is very compassionate... God bless you always make me come back for wonderful content.

  • @jenpherwairimu449
    @jenpherwairimu449 Před 2 lety +11

    She deserves forgiveness,how I wish my stepmother see this,she been hell on earth putting a barrier between us and our dad

    • @catherinekamera4275
      @catherinekamera4275 Před 2 lety

      Someone did that to my children, put a barrier between them and their dad, for many years they have not seen each other, even if they meet on the way, they cannot recognize each other

  • @denniszackmanvibes.4259
    @denniszackmanvibes.4259 Před 2 lety +7

    Monica your parting shot words are so beautiful and encouraging. Thanks for such educative interview

  • @skinnyzebra8626
    @skinnyzebra8626 Před 2 lety +6

    Great job Monica as usual, it’s wonderful to see someone taking full accountability, may God hear your repentant heart & heal your spirit,my hope is that in our country or rather African culture we are going to start distributing the shame evenly, it all started with this man who knew very well he was married when he began chasing after her

  • @TabithaM44
    @TabithaM44 Před 2 lety +14

    Wise lady and that the Start of healing,God is God of mercies and they start after knowing your mistake.

  • @moniwawarikuo2253
    @moniwawarikuo2253 Před 2 lety +7

    She's very eloquent n understands the meaning of real confession, repentance and forgiveness 🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @janenjoroge7507
    @janenjoroge7507 Před 2 lety +113

    "if you've never sinned stone this lady"
    Let's not judge. I believe the Lord has forgiven her,she has repented and requested for forgiven.

    • @mageembarikiwa2991
      @mageembarikiwa2991 Před 2 lety

      Bt yur not the first one to do so huyu mzee angeongea na first wife amwabie so take heart Victoria.....may GOD heal yur kids watapona tu.

    • @margaretmaina4254
      @margaretmaina4254 Před 2 lety +1

      I believe the same thing but people who don’t believe in forgiveness they can’t forgive.May God bless Victoria. She’s already forgiven

    • @phillipsidhojapap1461
      @phillipsidhojapap1461 Před 2 lety +2

      I wish you are the cheated wife then we shall accept your words. Otherwise ni moshi

    • @marynjeri1979
      @marynjeri1979 Před 2 lety +8

      God doesn't judge us but every choice we make in our life good or bad it has consequences

    • @blessedmama5367
      @blessedmama5367 Před 2 lety +2

      Only those in her shoes that can side with her ! A sincere forgiveness is asked to the person that one has offended period !

  • @rosendunge4217
    @rosendunge4217 Před 2 lety +5

    Waa i don't know even what to..the humbleness of this lady is in another level..even she didn't let it go far, only 7yrs and here she is asking for forgiveness..what a precious lady..u open my eyes in another way and thank you Victoria

  • @maryk8801
    @maryk8801 Před 2 lety +3

    I like the way Monica ask questions, very effective and efficient. Monica,you are full of wisdom, may God help you always.

  • @wanjirukariuki1
    @wanjirukariuki1 Před 2 lety +9

    This lady is bold enough and genuine. You are already forgiven and the man too is to blame because he had all the time to make her a second wife officially .

  • @Shiku355
    @Shiku355 Před 2 lety +1

    Thanks you for being brave and sharing your story and accepting your mistakes.

  • @faitharisson7002
    @faitharisson7002 Před 2 lety +21

    This is the best show ever monica kagoni many marriages will heal God bless you and extend your territories

  • @purityshiku2099
    @purityshiku2099 Před 2 lety +20

    she is a beautiful girl in heart. There is not sin that is unforgivable. God will never reject the prodigal son

  • @evalynewanjiku5467
    @evalynewanjiku5467 Před 2 lety +46

    She's so brave to come out coz some women will start dropping comments n they r sidechiqs n have the audacity to point fingers. As the Bible says, confess ua sins and you will be forgiven.....

  • @ediththuo406
    @ediththuo406 Před 2 lety +1

    Victoria 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
    You are a brave woman
    May God bless you and your children
    Don't worry God does not look for the perfect ones,He perfects us.
    Thanks Monica for the interview.

  • @janetshiku186
    @janetshiku186 Před 2 lety +56

    I salute her for this, I wish my mother confessed like this woman after ruining a home making the first wife to be driven out of her home.They said she was insane but i am sure she was suffering from depression.
    Being her firstborn I've really paid for their sins but I thank God He recently delivered me after repenting on their behalf when I realised it could be the reason i was leading a miserable life.I was a bright student but I never advanced my education to my desired level and ended up doing odd jobs for survival.I thank the neighbours and certain aunties who dared to tell me the truth after observing my predicaments, God bless them.
    Our God is Faithful,I am in a better position now and i swore never to wreck anyone's home either by marriage or being a side chick.
    I am in my tenth year since i divorced and I am happily single.
    Can someone advise me whether there is something else i am supposed to do kindly.

    • @isabellanjeri6940
      @isabellanjeri6940 Před 2 lety +1

      Thank you for making a good decision

    • @salomenewsome4188
      @salomenewsome4188 Před 2 lety +1

      You never did anything wrong stop beating yourself you are fine. Shida zako ni fate

    • @janetshiku186
      @janetshiku186 Před 2 lety

      @@salomenewsome4188 Really, I may not be sure but the Bible says that God shall apply vengeance for your sins up to the fourth generation.

    • @salomenewsome4188
      @salomenewsome4188 Před 2 lety +4

      @@janetshiku186 please relax utakuwa na blood pressure Old Testament was written to suite those old days. We are going with the New Testament you are forgiven because of the blood spilled at the Calvary. Period. Ma shida zako saa hii ni fate na poverty.

    • @janetshiku186
      @janetshiku186 Před 2 lety

      @@salomenewsome4188 I am at peace now, thanks for ua advice

  • @annenjenga9080
    @annenjenga9080 Před 2 lety +20

    First wives pesa zote zinapelekewa slayqueens,but there is God in heaven ,what goes round comes round

    • @liznyambu7909
      @liznyambu7909 Před 2 lety +2

      That's a lie every man who respects his wife and kids will never do that

    • @belindakangai4
      @belindakangai4 Před 2 lety

      Madam Jesus....mwanaume mgani anaedeangwa kwake?

  • @christthykingdomcome2776
    @christthykingdomcome2776 Před 2 lety +48

    A free woman she is..Whoever does not forgive her its on you….(including co-wife)Far as God is concerned she is free like a bird

    • @blessedmama5367
      @blessedmama5367 Před 2 lety +4

      How sure are you !? Mathew 16:19 …. whatever is loosed here on earth is loosed in heaven and what’s bound here on earth is bound in heaven . If the wife has bound her she is bound !

    • @marymutavi5446
      @marymutavi5446 Před 2 lety

      Amen,

    • @agnesmaizah3834
      @agnesmaizah3834 Před 2 lety

      @Blessed mama very true👍✅

    • @jennifermcwhortet7934
      @jennifermcwhortet7934 Před 2 lety +2

      I wonder what Gospel many Christians know or understand.
      Forgiveness is from God.
      No human being really forgives another.
      Ask Forgiveness from God.
      Then forgive yourself.
      Forgive yourself.God forgave you 2000 Years ago.
      Period.

    • @blessedmama5367
      @blessedmama5367 Před 2 lety

      @@jennifermcwhortet7934 Good backed up by a scripture or scriptures ….thats what “ Golpel” is ….

  • @kmipos
    @kmipos Před 2 lety +1

    You have done the right thing and your courage is in another level, forgiving yourself is the most important thing even God has forgiven you

  • @margaretkariuki509
    @margaretkariuki509 Před rokem +5

    The tears I cried in 2019 and the tears my son cried in 2020 are about to be answered...God of vengeance hurry for us please 🙏🙏

    • @itsjuliam
      @itsjuliam Před měsícem

      May God answer you speedily! I saw my mom cry those tears and I cried alongside her. But God heard us and acted. May He do the same for you.

  • @rosierosita.7235
    @rosierosita.7235 Před 2 lety +45

    Kiumbani ni kiumbani, I had a relationship with an married man but alikua njangiri, I caught him with other younger girls than me. Don't beat yourself so much, mistakes are there to be made. Gods Grace is unlimited.

    • @bernadettendungu9858
      @bernadettendungu9858 Před 2 lety +1

      That is the man. What about you. The lady is not referring to the man but herself.

  • @lucywambui7306
    @lucywambui7306 Před 2 lety +7

    Thank you for sharing your story. This is a huge lesson to we young ladies who are about to make such irrational relationship decisions.

  • @Njeri-Healthy-Meals-Recipes

    She is such a strong woman, and accepting her mistakes! May the goat wife find in her heart to forgive you💖💕. May God heal your babies, nothing is impossible with Him🙏🙌

  • @tabbymwaura6577
    @tabbymwaura6577 Před 2 lety +5

    Ooooh what a testimony Victoria God will bless and place you in space

  • @paulmbatia2051
    @paulmbatia2051 Před 2 lety +29

    So emotional,I should urge the first wife to forgive this woman and others should learn from her

  • @paulinewahome2562
    @paulinewahome2562 Před 2 lety +3

    Love it that Monica gives people right of reply

  • @ahasu
    @ahasu Před 2 lety +2

    Courageous and religiously principled, wish yu luck in all your future endeavors.

  • @janenjoroge7507
    @janenjoroge7507 Před 2 lety +1

    I pray that God may grant you peace, peace to the 1st wife and heal your children. You are a strong woman it's not easy to share such a story.

  • @essiemofficial1002
    @essiemofficial1002 Před 2 lety +21

    Me and my children we have gone through hell since 2007 he has never help even a penny but I blame my ex husband because I don’t know what he told her, but those who do it knowingly may God punish them because I can’t be able to explain the pain I have gone through and still going through May God vindicate us, I know you are God of vengeance

    • @hannahnganga5094
      @hannahnganga5094 Před 2 lety +3

      Very true may they never now peace those who do it intentionally

    • @agnesmaizah3834
      @agnesmaizah3834 Před 2 lety +3

      @Essie M Official hugs dear that pain cannot be compared with anything karma will be served them well

    • @keddisnjeri3565
      @keddisnjeri3565 Před 2 lety +1

      Gal pray n God will judge those who pass you through pain

  • @lucynjuguna9653
    @lucynjuguna9653 Před 2 lety +17

    Power of prayer.may she be forgiven and become a lesson to other destroyers

  • @tsoniejohn4718
    @tsoniejohn4718 Před 2 lety +4

    Wow that heart is genuine and the request for forgiveness is deeply true.. my classmate Vicky God has heard your request. you're forgiven🙏

  • @kateleenwanjiko3188
    @kateleenwanjiko3188 Před 2 lety +2

    Beautiful soul, heart after God, broken spirit in our days there is this kind of girls we thank God Victoria thank you for brave act, May Almighty God bless you

  • @timothyprincemusir2044
    @timothyprincemusir2044 Před 2 lety +86

    Realizing mistakes makes us human

    • @damaris.kahunyo.5339
      @damaris.kahunyo.5339 Před 2 lety +4

      Sababu dunia imemfunza akalazimika,👍

    • @RK-xv1si
      @RK-xv1si Před 2 lety +1

      True!

    • @angie..n9065
      @angie..n9065 Před 2 lety +3

      @@damaris.kahunyo.5339 my dear the more una grow the more unajua what's wrong n right..ask corazon

  • @estherwahome9889
    @estherwahome9889 Před 2 lety +3

    Thanks for being brave enough to come out

  • @lizzysnest3913
    @lizzysnest3913 Před 2 lety +1

    Victoria God will heal your heart. Thankyou for being soo courageous and inspiring young ladies to live right.

  • @gracewangare5027
    @gracewangare5027 Před 2 lety +9

    Watu wa kusoma comments tuko wapi?

  • @waithirakibunja7179
    @waithirakibunja7179 Před 2 lety +5

    The first wife must be very prayerful.She is a wise woman hakuna mahali alitusiana or fought a physical fight .He fought on her knees and she has won

    • @njeri_waruiru7694
      @njeri_waruiru7694 Před 2 lety

      I remember I prayed to God and told Him to let His will be done! Then boom vitu zikawa poa

  • @stephennjoroge7259
    @stephennjoroge7259 Před 2 lety +13

    This lady is genuine. May God forgive her!

  • @susannzuki3324
    @susannzuki3324 Před 2 lety +2

    I like ur courage Victoria, I hope and pray that woman will find a place in her heart and forgive you..

  • @amorwanjiru275
    @amorwanjiru275 Před 2 lety +8

    A story that is very close to home... without mentioning names and relationships am gonna briefly tell a story here ....so this one woman that got married as a second wife put the first wife through so much hell till she left, this second wife now settled there completely and got kids ...first child a bit disabled second child celebral palsy third child shida za akili so she thought ati ni karma or maybe she is paying for the hell she put the first wife but truly the first wife left na akawaachia Mungu and went on to raise her children....alikua mtu anajua Mungu na kumpenda so aliwaachia Mungu na kueka watoto wake na maisha ya watoto wake kwa mikono ya Mungu.....first forward to second wife's third child she started regretting and apologizing to the first wife...the husband left her akisema halei differently abled children till now huyo mama analia yet the first wife other than ile machungu ya what she went through before leaving hananga shida na wao...this is a message for anyone that wants to put another woman through such pain, any gachugwa intending to come destroy a family and such please think twice

  • @susanwachira3606
    @susanwachira3606 Před 2 lety +11

    Who are we to judge this lady?! I love this lady. She's very genuine and God fearing and that's enough for me.

    • @janewanjiru2410
      @janewanjiru2410 Před rokem

      You will not like her if you know what happened after the demise of the man he is talking about. Ask her to come here again and explain some very serious and ugly scenarios upon his death. The wife is so born again and I think she's so mature.

  • @annwangombe3628
    @annwangombe3628 Před 2 lety +15

    I hope Betty wamaitha will listen to this coz Ruth wa mum has seen it all..

    • @marionnjoroge441
      @marionnjoroge441 Před 2 lety +1

      Na Tabby kamotho even after loosing her son and another epileptic hakuachana na bwana ya wenyewe

    • @lucymuhoro2194
      @lucymuhoro2194 Před 2 lety +1

      And Mary Lincoln. I guess the 1st wife of njogu wa Njoroge keeps crying.

  • @nancyhunja915
    @nancyhunja915 Před 2 lety +1

    Monica may God bless you a great preacher today.

  • @hodiakennedy2515
    @hodiakennedy2515 Před 2 lety +1

    You are a strong woman Victoria ,blessed and forgiven.
    God be with you always

  • @joyjoy623
    @joyjoy623 Před 2 lety +18

    Wonderful realizing and repenting may GOD hear your prayers

    • @emmahmuchami540
      @emmahmuchami540 Před 2 lety

      Do you have to go through all this stress to consider your ways?

  • @faitharisson7002
    @faitharisson7002 Před 2 lety +17

    Ngai amaruturure oothe aria mathukitie micii yene nginya uria waiyire wakwa tondu nindamukanitie ngimwira muthuri ucio ena mutumia na ndaiguire may God deal with her and others good job monica kagoni im praying for families because hii mipango ya kando needs to go God made Eve for Adam only mariage is for one man one wife

    • @naominyambura6274
      @naominyambura6274 Před 2 lety +3

      Aki kube akuna mwanaume hana side chick mungu akubuke wa mama

    • @annnjeri674
      @annnjeri674 Před 2 lety +1

      😅😅wangu nilimwambia siku Mungu atashuka kunilipishia hataamini,Sasa pia yeye amejua hajui

    • @wanjiramwihia2455
      @wanjiramwihia2455 Před 2 lety +1

      Waah pia mm nilipigia co wife wangu then akaambia my ex ati nilimtusi 🙆good thing my ex knew matusi haiezi toka kwa mdomo yangu 🤔this mipango aki

    • @ruthmbuthia685
      @ruthmbuthia685 Před 2 lety +1

      Might you were not his wife.If you keep holding that bitterness God will never come through for you.

  • @veronicamuzulu2939
    @veronicamuzulu2939 Před 2 lety +1

    Vicky God bless you !!!!
    You and your children are in my prayers!!!!

  • @naomiwangari4794
    @naomiwangari4794 Před 2 lety +2

    He who pleases God he makes his enemies b at peace with him. Shalom sister

  • @bethkithinga2323
    @bethkithinga2323 Před 2 lety +18

    She is so bold and deserve forgiveness and a second chance

    • @stellanjiru9070
      @stellanjiru9070 Před 2 lety

      This so so painful. I don't understand why woman want to be a source for sorrows for another woman. Monica sorry I don't wish to judge but have gone through this pain because of a woman/women and Christian women for that matter. But as the bible says, vengeance belongs to God.

  • @dollydolly1317
    @dollydolly1317 Před 2 lety +54

    Those men who cheats on their wife may God punish them too, and to the side chicks don't be so happy when another woman is crying herself to sleep those tears are not in vain, I have gone through it I know what it means to survive it,

    • @damaris.kahunyo.5339
      @damaris.kahunyo.5339 Před 2 lety

      Amen

    • @gracemuthoni6466
      @gracemuthoni6466 Před 2 lety +1

      GOD'S GRACE to go thru it.

    • @fiddiggokirimi9630
      @fiddiggokirimi9630 Před 2 lety +5

      God is faithful. You break another woman's family.... Her tears are never in vain. God answers her.

    • @lucynyoike8340
      @lucynyoike8340 Před 2 lety

      Still don't curse them but ask them to be true coz even our forefathers marry 3or4wives and God bless them

    • @margaretwanjeri3817
      @margaretwanjeri3817 Před 2 lety

      True dear u have said it even me am single upto date for same thing my God fight for us.we are strong woman.

  • @lucywambui604
    @lucywambui604 Před 2 lety

    God love's you ... asking for forgiveness is a great sign of humility,may your co wife forgive and Bless you and your kids🙏

  • @virginiamuruga619
    @virginiamuruga619 Před 2 lety

    The best show ever. Thank you Monicah.

  • @georgenjau8069
    @georgenjau8069 Před 2 lety +11

    One of the best show emotional and am looking forward to first wife respond

    • @mercyfaith3021
      @mercyfaith3021 Před 2 lety

      Me too coz am wondering wat will she say

    • @steveykimson3158
      @steveykimson3158 Před 2 lety

      Atii aroigireee endiee mbereeee🤭🤭🤭🤫🤫🤫🤔🙉🙊

  • @shikohmuriithi5216
    @shikohmuriithi5216 Před 2 lety +21

    These are what we call genuine mistakes....She never knew anakosea mtu.The good thing about her story is that she is apologetic..I hope the 1st wife will forgive her.

    • @betty541
      @betty541 Před 2 lety +2

      I think she knew exactly what she was doing. She says as much in her confession and apology.

    • @jasintamutua3302
      @jasintamutua3302 Před 2 lety +5

      She has repeatedly repented so whether the first wife has forgiven her or not before God she has confessed her sins . Am am a victim of this my husband married a second wife took him to our matrimonial home slept on my bed and was left confused 13 years now .The wife is so proud she abused me with the support of the family and my husband .But I hold no bitterness on them have sincerely forgiven them and moved on with my kids all are grown up now and I thank God .

  • @salomemueni100
    @salomemueni100 Před 2 lety +2

    Metha ya kagoni I agree with you..
    May the healing power of God reach Victoria's children in jesus Big name.
    AMEN
    AMEN
    AMEN

  • @alicenganga7455
    @alicenganga7455 Před 2 lety +1

    Amazing story lessons learned watching for 🇺🇸

  • @ndichungechu4390
    @ndichungechu4390 Před 2 lety +81

    I am not judging Victoria and I really sympathize with her predicament but why do I keep getting the feeling that Victoria will have a hard time convincing many of us that she didn't leave the man because he got unwell and the money taps shut?
    I am positive that if the man's money kept flowing, Victoria's conscience that she was in an 'adulterous relationship' and all that crap about caring for the first wife and her children would not have bothered her...
    it never did until the man got sick.
    Guys, don't be cheated. Let's stick to our wives. This will be your fate with that Gacungwa.

    • @muthonishiing1143
      @muthonishiing1143 Před 2 lety +5

      All things work together for good the circumstance may have come to release her from bondage

    • @kotinakarwak7857
      @kotinakarwak7857 Před 2 lety +7

      Am guessing the sickness brought forth the urge to escape. All the talk didn’t express why she is now leaving cos the supposed awakening caught up with her conscious.

    • @sonyia7521
      @sonyia7521 Před 2 lety +11

      Mr Ndichu can i tell you something? I know you are wrong for this reason. Me i got married after my divorce to a divorced man. I was not in the picture when they divorced with his wife. But after staying with him for 8 years, i started feeling guilty cos of being a second wife. I knew the wife moved on and lives in America, so its not that i was making her cry but all the same i felt guilty. I talked to him about it, he was really surprised and told me there was no way we could separate. He is ok financially and he asked me if i lacked anything. I insisted and told him i was ready to suffer without him than live with the guilt. We do not have a kid together but he love my kids alot. So i know its not about money this lady is doing this. Its her love and fear for God and so you are wrong to judge her. I even know another lady who fellowship with cff church huko kwa Bishop Harrison, she was married as second wife to a former mayor of Nairobi who is super rich. But when she got saved, she had 3 kids but she chose to leave that marriage and apologised to the first wife. So, its not about money brother.

    • @itsjuliam
      @itsjuliam Před 2 lety +3

      I hadn't even thought of this interesting perspective! Something to consider🤔

    • @phillipsidhojapap1461
      @phillipsidhojapap1461 Před 2 lety +5

      @@sonyia7521 You women move on when there is no love.. so had the man continued to pour his love on you, you'd still be there. So, no real repentance. Ni taps run dry

  • @jmmathenge1085
    @jmmathenge1085 Před 2 lety +32

    This is what is called repentance. May the Lord God help her and the innocent children

  • @sabinawanjirumugucia9391

    What a story, worth listening, Victoria has a good heart, has known her mistake and ready to ask for forgiveness. May God intervene into her life. May the co wife forgive her people make mistake.

  • @christinekamau9122
    @christinekamau9122 Před 2 lety +1

    Monica you have done a good job here! The first wife and children have lived with the pain of absence of a father and husband in their lives. I greatly commend the kind of restraint that the first wife and daughter show when around the second wife.
    The first wife and her children must be given time to work through the process of forgiveness without being rushed, it will not be easy and it may never happen all the way. They do have very painful wounds.

  • @nimuhsteve1079
    @nimuhsteve1079 Před 2 lety +19

    Waaaaaaah this story made me flow in tears because it's reminds me of my elder sister marriage which was so good until other woman came across , my siz went through hell the woman abused my sister so much but when God is on your side always you remain a Víctor today my siz doing well n her kids too ....but it took her a lot.

    • @ruthkinyanjui4700
      @ruthkinyanjui4700 Před 2 lety +1

      It’s sad but believe me Karma is real, good to hear she is okay🙏🏼

  • @tabbymwaura6577
    @tabbymwaura6577 Před 2 lety +11

    Wow this is one lady in a million

  • @stellangoka7032
    @stellangoka7032 Před 2 lety +1

    Victoria your my hero, God bless you for tough decision you made.
    May God reward you abundantly with your kids and bless and heal them.
    God will use you heal many families.
    I salute you 👏

  • @lydiahmuigai
    @lydiahmuigai Před 2 lety +2

    Monica you are the best and you are so wise and humble ❤️

  • @alexndirangu2893
    @alexndirangu2893 Před 2 lety +13

    A lesson to men too, those contemplating to get a side lady. The stress the two women go through, the stress kids from both sides go through.

    • @nyawiranzivo3346
      @nyawiranzivo3346 Před 2 lety

      True true.
      No man deserves two women under the sun. The word of God is very categorical.
      Let people choose for themselves.

  • @wairegijulius9587
    @wairegijulius9587 Před 2 lety +107

    To be honest, i don't blame this lady. She went in as a second wife, and there is nothing wrong with that. If the blame was to come, then am blaming the MAN

    • @Rachel-db2xo
      @Rachel-db2xo Před 2 lety +2

      Tru

    • @The_Clinic
      @The_Clinic Před 2 lety +18

      Seems like everyone overlooks the role of the man in creating such messes.

    • @MamaNjesh
      @MamaNjesh Před 2 lety +6

      And it is the man who pursued Victoria.

    • @annenjenga3413
      @annenjenga3413 Před 2 lety +3

      True

    • @NJOKIYULEMMOJA
      @NJOKIYULEMMOJA Před 2 lety +5

      Yes and muigai wa njoroge and de john demethew are examples

  • @mikegathonjia7049
    @mikegathonjia7049 Před 2 lety

    My sister you have done the best. Healing starts with self forgiveness. I like the way she has expressed herself. May Lord's mercy be upon you Victoria. God has already forgive n you

  • @irenembugua7817
    @irenembugua7817 Před 2 lety +1

    You have done well Victoria. The Lord forgives and forgets. May he make a way for you to get the forgiveness you need from the other lady.

  • @Danny54642
    @Danny54642 Před 2 lety +27

    Kagoni ni wamaka!! Even me and I believe the real wife has cried earnestly to God through prayer.Dont joke with prayers.Prayers move mountains and go far.Let it be a lesson to all ladies who are in the same trap.She is bold and very strong to speak out.May the real wife accept her apology.We have all sinned and have fallen short of God's glory.For the sake of not missing heaven because of bitterness and unforgiveness its better to forgive.Shalom.

    • @kellylerry2068
      @kellylerry2068 Před 2 lety +1

      And if she cried to God..and God heard her cry..let her do what God commands us to do forgive and love.

    • @maxwayskim9335
      @maxwayskim9335 Před 2 lety

      Muthuri uyu waku niwe wina mahitia, ndari na utheri ,Ari na uhinga, uhinga niithaga ria gikuu, akurehe utherini Ruo ni ruguthira,nake NGAI onekane:

  • @teresiandegwa6698
    @teresiandegwa6698 Před 2 lety +8

    Please call a spade a spade,alikosea because even after knowing Yuko na family,she continued staying.,.woi muka mukoro ethagwo gwa thokana.... it's indeed painful... when you break a home,you start battles with God!!!! and that's a fact!

    • @wambuibwaweru6920
      @wambuibwaweru6920 Před 2 lety

      having kids with the man unafaa uelewe mtoto si mkate ataenda kuuza, kids come with responsibilities

    • @gracenzomo9386
      @gracenzomo9386 Před 2 lety

      You left him when he fell sick and money got scarce.

    • @gracenzomo9386
      @gracenzomo9386 Před 2 lety

      Your pastor never told you that having someone's husband is a sin?....

  • @dkarunga
    @dkarunga Před 2 lety

    Veronica you have done so so good to open up yourself & asking for forgiveness you are very blessed I like your confidence

  • @wamsufitness3217
    @wamsufitness3217 Před 2 lety +1

    Good job Monicah I love your show and you look very beautiful 🤗😍

  • @rossa5929
    @rossa5929 Před 2 lety +5

    This lady is one of of a kind, she is great indeed God is always merciful 🙏

  • @georginamakena1660
    @georginamakena1660 Před 2 lety +14

    Aki first wife mungu awape nguvu,mtu akikamuuuua akimaliza anarudishia first wife 😭

  • @cathykiarie6383
    @cathykiarie6383 Před 2 lety +1

    No one is perfect..may God heal your heart and grant you his peace ..may the co wife find somewhere in her to forgive victoria

  • @janenjuguna8946
    @janenjuguna8946 Před 2 lety +1

    Bravo Monicah!you are a great christian!

  • @esskey4915
    @esskey4915 Před 2 lety +6

    Metagwo nyaciamburi ni kwambura.... if you have never been betrayed by your partner, you cannot understand the pain. The pain/heartache is unbearable. Trust me

  • @wanguinancy8157
    @wanguinancy8157 Před 2 lety +4

    I love that lady to realize her mastake may God remember her through

  • @phyliswakio9460
    @phyliswakio9460 Před 2 lety +1

    "As far is East is from West, so has He separates us from our sins"..
    God is pleased with such a heart, may He restore your peace and life.
    And if it His will, may He bless you with a husband of your own.

  • @janehinga9074
    @janehinga9074 Před 2 lety

    Such brave & beautiful woman... God bless you Victoria...as Monica said God has already forgiven you.... Your co-wife will forgive you as well

  • @kagundateddy2023
    @kagundateddy2023 Před 2 lety +3

    Kosa sio kosa, kosa ni kurudia kosa.....by the way she is beautiful

  • @WakarimaWaKariri
    @WakarimaWaKariri Před 2 lety +4

    God seeks such repentant hearts. Well done for being brave enough to share your story.

  • @periskamau4136
    @periskamau4136 Před 2 lety

    Victoria is such a wise lady.may blessings follow you and your kids forever.

  • @lucasmwangi2504
    @lucasmwangi2504 Před 2 lety

    Thanks Monica for your good job Victoria your soo beautiful and humble may the Lord forgive and heal your children's future your blessed

  • @shikufm9690
    @shikufm9690 Před 2 lety +13

    Thumbsup Mrs Kagoni for a job well done, yu're such a darling may our almighty God bless you.
    Victoria,kutenda kosa si kosa but kosa nikurudia, yu've known and repented your sins and hakuna dhambi ambayo our God hawezi samehe and we hope that your co-wife will also forgive you.
    We are all sinners it's just that we sin differently,so i can't judge you.
    All the best Victoria,it is well ❤️❤️❤️

    • @Faymbuina
      @Faymbuina Před 2 lety

      It's good to seek forgiveness but you made somebody suffer alot

    • @janewainaina6292
      @janewainaina6292 Před 2 lety

      VICTORIA YOUR. For given be blessed

  • @TabithaM44
    @TabithaM44 Před 2 lety +9

    Monica, you are a savant of God, a peace maker.. God bless you too Monica

  • @leahndungu3713
    @leahndungu3713 Před 2 lety

    Bold woman may God give u peace and heal your kids

  • @benardettendunda1345
    @benardettendunda1345 Před 2 lety

    You are forgiven Victoria 💗💗💗💗 I love your boldness and decision to repent.... May God release healing and blessings to you and your Children