Silver Linings Podcast - EP043-Being Held Accountable

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  • čas přidán 20. 05. 2024
  • The first of many services which will be available to the community is announced in this episode!
    The link to Accountable is: accountable-coaching.thinkific.com
    Silver Linings Podcast is a safe place for people to come and hear our family perspective on the Chad & Lori trials, but also to figure out the trauma in their own lives and to find resources to help them with that trauma.
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Komentáře • 185

  • @kimnicks8590
    @kimnicks8590 Před 24 dny +8

    I'm so thankful you haven't stopped the podcast, it's helped so much! Rex you do not look almost 70!!!!

  • @bakingnana9740
    @bakingnana9740 Před 25 dny +44

    Love watching you both. I’m watching from England, I’m watching the trial every day too. Those kids lied through their teeth yesterday 😡 not one ounce of empathy for their poor mom, they are all Dumbell’s! I listened to all Lori’s trial too, I truly feel for you both and your families. My mum is 91 she also watches you and sends her love and best wishes. Thankyou Adam and Rex for opening up your hearts to us all, it can’t be easy

    • @roses4me54
      @roses4me54 Před 25 dny +1

      They did not lie through their teeth. They are the honest ones in all this.

    • @jeaniechampagne8831
      @jeaniechampagne8831 Před 25 dny +5

      Honestly, Chad has always seemed slow, not putting down people who really are. He says.dum things no mattet his mamipulstion skills. First graders can be pretty manipulative. That said, his children come across the same. It breaks my heary for them. They are definitely victims and I don't think they know much about liife or genersally much about people. Definitrly brsin washed. Sad is that for all their lies, it won't make one iota of difference. But now all their coworkers, friends and family know they're liars.

    • @bakingnana9740
      @bakingnana9740 Před 25 dny +3

      @@roses4me54 of course they did, perjurers the lot of them, and that Jow Murray disrespectful to the families of the mutilated and murdered children, they are the victims not that lot

    • @MrPaultopp
      @MrPaultopp Před 25 dny +2

      Yes , they contradicted their selves over and over again….embarrassing really

    • @amsie_86
      @amsie_86 Před 24 dny +1

      I'm English too from Leeds, UK. I love this podcast and how close Adam and Rex are. Their relationship is inspirational. I'm glad Adam has Rex to process all this with xx

  • @CWRTalentPassitOn
    @CWRTalentPassitOn Před 21 dnem +1

    1st year anniversary would be lovely to honour those children who gave you a purpose to help everyone heal including yourselves.

  • @VASmom27
    @VASmom27 Před 25 dny +16

    🎉 CONGRATULATIONS ON A YEAR 🎉
    Thank you again for letting us ALL vent and not feel ostracized

  • @jeaniechampagne8831
    @jeaniechampagne8831 Před 25 dny +12

    Adam, I am so happy you're doing well. You come across as an upbeat positive and genuinely happy person. I wish you continued success!

  • @somewhereincanada3335
    @somewhereincanada3335 Před 25 dny +11

    I am so sorry you have trolls now. All i know is that other successful podcasters block the trolls immediately, and you guys should too. I love this channel.

  • @Vikki_G_
    @Vikki_G_ Před 25 dny +12

    A whole year!! That has gone super quick. It's been an honour to follow you both from the beginning. We've ALL come along way. Much love guy's. ❤

  • @Mloularose1248
    @Mloularose1248 Před 25 dny +19

    Thank you gentlemen. I so needed to have an alternative to listening to Chad’s “defense”. Always need the positivity and optimism you two provide the best space and place for.

  • @belindabrubaker4167
    @belindabrubaker4167 Před 22 dny +1

    Makay's testimony today was so great!!!!!!

  • @shizzle7642
    @shizzle7642 Před 25 dny +11

    Yes celebration!🎉 🎊🥳🙌
    This story will forever be a cautionary tail…. You just don’t even know anyone especially the ones under your own roof and in your family.
    Familicide is something all of us are trying to grasp and all of its fall out.
    Also us who don’t know your family but through tragedy it’s grasped our hearts for you all.
    Sounds like what Cody is trying to get something going and we’d love to see him supported and doing well!!!
    Both of you bring so much to the podcast and I love how excited you are to bring new things to the podcast !!
    Keep it up ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @paulcash9282
    @paulcash9282 Před 25 dny +14

    Momma C here😊 don't know if you remember me...on my son's phone cause he passed away last September 😢 just want you guys to know how much I love you guys ❤..can't imagine losing a family member the way you guys have..love you guys!!!

    • @tashaawesome6297
      @tashaawesome6297 Před 25 dny +1

      I am so very sorry for the loss of your son🤍🤍

    • @rOnda88
      @rOnda88 Před 24 dny +1

      I am very, very sorry as well. Those are just words, but I pray you’re richly blessed with warm & wonderful memories of him. We will see our loved ones again! 🙂

  • @lizdumbrell6799
    @lizdumbrell6799 Před 25 dny +10

    NICE TO SEE YOU SMILING AS USUAL 😁👍

  • @elless4817
    @elless4817 Před 25 dny +10

    This is so healing and just wonderful to see how you have risen above such tragedy and trauma. Love you both. Stay strong and thank you for all you do here.

  • @ChefestGrandma
    @ChefestGrandma Před 25 dny +10

    I am so glad you guys didn't stop❤

  • @user-vs3el2yj6i
    @user-vs3el2yj6i Před dnem

    I love watching and listening to you guys❤ Queen creek 😊

  • @cheryltorrie558
    @cheryltorrie558 Před 25 dny +6

    I love to see your smiles. You have created a safe space out of a tragedy. Thank you to you both.

  • @farmwife209
    @farmwife209 Před 22 dny +1

    I enjoy your podcast! Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts with us!

  • @theserenecrane
    @theserenecrane Před 25 dny +6

    It’s a pleasure to hear from you after listening to the tough trial. I feel more centered and calm somehow. Thanks.
    Truly, you are the type of people I like in my circle.

  • @erinjordan6972
    @erinjordan6972 Před 24 dny +2

    GREAT idea Adam! I turned 65 @ the end of March and you’re INSPIRING me, been a long time💜

    • @adamcox44
      @adamcox44 Před 24 dny +1

      What do you want to do?

  • @mamagrace3416
    @mamagrace3416 Před 25 dny +3

    2:03 I totally forgot about that… I’m so glad you didn’t stop at 10 episodes. Yall are amazing. I could listen to you both forever. Adam has such a familiar voice and Rex you feel like family. I feel as if I’m among friends listening to you guys chat. ❤

  • @cherylmaestri6866
    @cherylmaestri6866 Před 19 dny

    Congratulations Adam on your new endeavor! I think you are going to be a great coach, I can really tell how passionate you are about it and just from my own experience, great things, I never thought would happen to me, happened during times when I really dove in heads first with my passion and enthusiasm for whatever I was trying to accomplish and it just happened, everyone could use a coach that can teach them that, because not everyone has what is needed , or they just don’t know how to tap into it, for that and you will be that perfect person to help! Adam I also believe that helping other people is so fulfilling that it will fulfill you beyond measure and help with your healing ! I’m also so glad you and Zac will be close, family is everything!

  • @mistiecraig2491
    @mistiecraig2491 Před 25 dny +7

    Positive vibes from North East Tn

  • @erikas5648
    @erikas5648 Před 24 dny +1

    Thank you for your comments Adam. They really resonated with me as I’m at a crossroads and have been scared to take a leap of faith. Glad it’s working out for you!

  • @TheGirlatthewindow
    @TheGirlatthewindow Před 23 dny

    Hi Adam and Rex. I watch and listen because you're real. Thanks!
    Watching from South Africa.

  • @Anna-loves-you
    @Anna-loves-you Před 24 dny +2

    When I first found your podcast last year I was sceptical. But now I am a number one fan. You guys have been so open throughout this whole tragedy, it's really so pure. Never change. I wish you all the strength in the world. ❤❤❤

  • @user-br7gs1rn4k
    @user-br7gs1rn4k Před 25 dny +3

    Love listening to you guys!
    You BOTH have such a good vibe keep on keeping on
    its a pleasure watching/listening to you
    ALL THE VERY BEST FROM THE UK 🇬🇧🇬🇧🇬🇧🇬🇧

  • @mrsk4343
    @mrsk4343 Před 25 dny +5

    You've come a long way guys 😊

  • @gemmagnolia
    @gemmagnolia Před 25 dny +3

    Once again, I am sorry you guys are going through this on the hard side of the fence! You are doing everything right from my view of everything. Keep fighting the good fight!
    ~Cynthia Granbury, Texas

  • @katewatts9008
    @katewatts9008 Před 24 dny

    Keep up the Great work,Guys!! I totally Love listening to both of You!!
    ❤😊

  • @Mollymommy
    @Mollymommy Před 24 dny

    Love you two ❤❤❤. Congrats on your accomplishments❤. Heal on❤❤❤

  • @jillgebauer1292
    @jillgebauer1292 Před 25 dny +4

    Sorry for missing the live. The trial had my attention. I love your podcasts!!!

  • @sandianaya5141
    @sandianaya5141 Před 25 dny +4

    Good energy/prayers for new adventure

  • @maytheforcebewithyou4313
    @maytheforcebewithyou4313 Před 25 dny +5

    I started writing songs, playing music and making recordings, playing out in a band at 29, thought I was way too old, and that was 1990!❤❤❤❤❤ I will look into what you are starting or already doing, my umph was gut punched, and its not like me to flat line, but DV rel short lived, and restraining order in place, sort of short circuited my whole get up and go, it got up and went😂.

    • @adamcox44
      @adamcox44 Před 25 dny

      I would love to help you.

  • @nataliecassidy4298
    @nataliecassidy4298 Před 24 dny

    With that being said Adam and Uncle Rex I am so glad you started this podcast! I love watching you guys you are so awesome and funny you are are up front with all that has happened in your lives most of all you have somuch to say that helps others that may have things going on that they need help with you both are so helpful with advice to hopefully help others! Love to you both ❤❤❤❤😊😊😊😊from AKRON, OHIO

  • @gaylegardinerankerry12123

    HI ADAM AND REX YOU GUYS HAVE GIVE SHINNING LIGHTS FOR EVERY ONE 😀

  • @patriciachavez-reyes618
    @patriciachavez-reyes618 Před 25 dny +4

    I’m excited for your new program, Adam. I’m at a crossroads in my life and would love to hear your formula. I’m interested in learning more and inspired by you both.

  • @Soh583
    @Soh583 Před 24 dny

    Go go Adam… you’ve certainly grown on me 👍

  • @leahyamazaki5241
    @leahyamazaki5241 Před 21 dnem +1

    Love you guys :))

  • @joyphillips9255
    @joyphillips9255 Před 24 dny

    Very nice for you to help with goals.good luckin this project!

  • @mistiecraig2491
    @mistiecraig2491 Před 25 dny +2

    It is good to be around family. I went to Mesa about 2 weeks ago to visit my son.

  • @NWgirlstuckinFL
    @NWgirlstuckinFL Před 25 dny +8

    Can’t wait to listen to this at lunch. Thank you, Rex and Adam for all you do!🌺🌺🌺

  • @lindaprice1306
    @lindaprice1306 Před 25 dny +7

    Love you both ❤ prayers for your family 🙏

  • @jamiewillhite6355
    @jamiewillhite6355 Před 25 dny

    You both are a bigger blessing than you know. Thanks from the bottom of my heart.

  • @samantham4351
    @samantham4351 Před 25 dny +1

    😮 Oh my gosh a year almost already? I recall being in Adam friends’ studio back then! Keep going Fella’s you’re doing a great job assisting Optimists ☮️💜

  • @susierox
    @susierox Před 25 dny +2

    Your new venture sounds wonderful Adam. Well done you 🫶

    • @adamcox44
      @adamcox44 Před 25 dny +2

      Thank you.

    • @RaeLynn-yf3hb
      @RaeLynn-yf3hb Před 25 dny

      @@adamcox44 Did I misunderstand? Is there a link today? Or in the future? I couldn’t find anything. Have a blessed day☀️

    • @SilverLiningsPodcast
      @SilverLiningsPodcast  Před 24 dny +1

      @@RaeLynn-yf3hb The link is in the description now.

  • @eccles31
    @eccles31 Před 25 dny +2

    You both are able to remember Melanie and Lori at their innocence. The public isn’t. I remember Adolf Coors IV teaching on forgiveness (what he learned about forgiving the man who murdered his father) He said he had to take him back in his mind to a point of innocence. Not let him out of consequences but in finding freedom by forgiving while letting him serve out his sentence. It was life changing for me to hear him speak about this.

  • @johannebeaudoin1848
    @johannebeaudoin1848 Před 25 dny

    This is so exciting Adam !! I remember your very first podcast. Adam you looked so sad almost like you didn't want to be there. Look at you now ,! Amazing ❤🥰congrats!

  • @joyphillips9255
    @joyphillips9255 Před 24 dny

    Great podcast 👍

  • @cammyhageman5815
    @cammyhageman5815 Před 25 dny

    Yay, Adam, I'm so happy and proud of you!!! ❤❤

  • @susierox
    @susierox Před 25 dny +1

    Always so great to see you both 🫶

  • @maytheforcebewithyou4313
    @maytheforcebewithyou4313 Před 25 dny +4

    I need accountability partners, ball doesn't just start rolling on it own, and tomorrow or later never is here now!

  • @mcjett5870
    @mcjett5870 Před 25 dny

    You guys are nice and real! Thanks for restoring people’s faith

  • @kimnicks8590
    @kimnicks8590 Před 24 dny

    I love this idea of a program, I'm on medication that is really keeping the weight on.

  • @rOnda88
    @rOnda88 Před 25 dny

    Wow! Seeing/ hearing you guys being so excited gets ME excited! & there’s this new Accountable program to get into!!! Very encouraging! I’m interested!!

  • @RaeLynn-yf3hb
    @RaeLynn-yf3hb Před 25 dny +3

    Hello Gentleman,
    it’s good to see your smiles and hear your laughter. I look forward to your direction you are taking.
    Looking ahead and knowing change is coming in my life is a huge blessing. I appreciate your support and options in getting me there. It’s been awhile since I’ve believed it is possible.
    Ready to talk and move on. 🌱

  • @lindsayclark6453
    @lindsayclark6453 Před 25 dny +7

    Daybell’s kids have been forced fed his crazy doctrines and religion since birth, they’d do anything for him, including lying under oath, poor kids 👍

    • @amsie_86
      @amsie_86 Před 24 dny +1

      Chad's also there only living parent and could face the death penalty so even though I'd have questions if I was in their shoes I can understand their desperation to want their other parent alive and free. They're also victims of Chad, even if they don't see it yet. I think it might be a way for them to put off mourning, processing pain is the hardest part about life (I think) and I know I do anything to avoid it for temporary relief and since they don't drink or do drugs I guess there in denial. This is all my coach psychologist theories 😊

  • @Tritipterri
    @Tritipterri Před 25 dny

    I think your podcast has helped so many people thank you

  • @overreality7279
    @overreality7279 Před 25 dny

    Still watching a year later! I still think you guys are awesome to keep doing these. Im following the trial and its great getting your insights. Thanks for keeping it going! Im looking forward to more!❤

  • @charliebarrow7086
    @charliebarrow7086 Před 25 dny +7

    You should not have to apologize for continuing to love Melanie and Lori. If you truly love someone the love doesn't vanish, even though they might have done something really terrible. Don't let those kind of comments bother you. Melanie was groomed, she is probably a little naiv and looked up to Lori in search of a substitute mother. Those kind of things can deeply affect/cloud people's common sense and judgement.

    • @lmfao7558
      @lmfao7558 Před 23 dny +1

      Really? Both women are adults and no right from wrong. If my sister had killed kids for money there would be no love from me. That horrendous behavior should not be rewarded. And, Mel knew what was happening and was accepting of Chad saying 2 of her kids were dark - they are lucky to be alive.

    • @charliebarrow7086
      @charliebarrow7086 Před 22 dny

      @@lmfao7558 If you truly love someone the love doesn't go away. The memories of the person you once knew will remain. I would be disgusted, very angry, and would not want to be in contact, but deep down the love would still be there. Everyone is different. I respect your opinion but at the end of the day none of us are in their shoes and we can't know for sure.

    • @HeatherD2589
      @HeatherD2589 Před 22 dny

      @@lmfao7558 it hurts, right? I noted that too- why would 2 of her little kids be dark? What is the point in that? But I can understand they still have love for their sibling and niece across 30-40 years before all this.

  • @lindaprice1306
    @lindaprice1306 Před 25 dny +2

    Congrats 🎉

  • @brendarich7384
    @brendarich7384 Před 21 dnem

    Silver lining has turned just into that from the tragic deaths of 4 people. Wow $
    Congratulations.

  • @kristirogers7071
    @kristirogers7071 Před 24 dny

    Best wishes on your new ventures!

  • @VictoriaCatLady
    @VictoriaCatLady Před 25 dny +3

    I recall last year when your plan was to do 10 podcasts😂😂😂😂. Time flies when you're having fun, huh? You've come a long way, guys! Keep on keeping on!✌️❤️🇨🇦

  • @mmklaar6948
    @mmklaar6948 Před 25 dny

    Hey you, Cutie Pies, you two always brighten my day! ♥️🥰👼🏼👼🏼

  • @CinHensley
    @CinHensley Před 25 dny +3

    Thank you both for this platform. I’m excited to hear more about Patreon!

  • @anilasharma2371
    @anilasharma2371 Před 25 dny

    Hats off to you guys , especially with what you guys have been through and going through as a family? It will take time to heal , justice will be served, god bless.

  • @albecky123
    @albecky123 Před 25 dny

    Good job on the pickleball pro thing. I KNOW I can speak things into existence and create my own life the way I want it.

  • @ry1876
    @ry1876 Před 25 dny +2

    I Agree about taking risk , i changed my career of 40 years doing hair to opening 2 sports stores in califor, and opening another bussiness, i plan on working hopefully to whenever, mom and son business's ,its scary but you have to do it, like i tell my son we have to diversify ....

    • @adamcox44
      @adamcox44 Před 25 dny +3

      Love your bravery!

    • @ry1876
      @ry1876 Před 25 dny +1

      @@adamcox44 thank you

  • @judistocker1811
    @judistocker1811 Před 24 dny +1

    As always, keeping you two and your families in my prayers. I just saw a replay of Summer’s jail call with Lori. It was still heartbreaking to hear almost 4 years later. How is Summer doing these days? Send her hugs and love.

  • @robisis1
    @robisis1 Před 25 dny

    Love you guys! Usually just listen to the podcast on my commute. Loved the book (audiobook lol) as well. You both definitely have a talent for this, and it’s been a joy to listen to you guys! Thank you both!

  • @janebryant7794
    @janebryant7794 Před 24 dny

    Great podcast!!

  • @nancycornett9949
    @nancycornett9949 Před 25 dny

    Thank you!

  • @jenihansen7201
    @jenihansen7201 Před 25 dny

    Hello Adam, Hello Rex. Great to see you both.

  • @claudinelee3456
    @claudinelee3456 Před 25 dny

    Hello from Western Australia 🇦🇺

  • @juditroutman1818
    @juditroutman1818 Před 24 dny

    Yes, I have a granddaughter Taylor Downs she would be interested. Would love to get the information to send to her. Thank you so much. I enjoy listening to you both.

  • @jordandemko7797
    @jordandemko7797 Před 25 dny

    Love you guys

  • @beckyklepper315
    @beckyklepper315 Před 25 dny

    I'm so glad you didn't stop at ten!

  • @helenporcello1924
    @helenporcello1924 Před 25 dny

    Watching from Chicago

  • @griffin2263
    @griffin2263 Před 25 dny

    Congratulations on doing this for a year !!!.... Have not missed one ..maybe for the one year anniversary fly in 100 optimistic for a party 🤣🤣🤣

  • @gaylegardinerankerry12123

    ADAM GET MEMBERS UP FROM AROUND THE WORLD 🌎 THROUGH YOUR LINK

    • @gaylegardinerankerry12123
      @gaylegardinerankerry12123 Před 24 dny

      WE ARE DETECTIVES HAVE FOLLOWED THIS WHEN WE HEARD CHARLES HAD BEEN KILLED MY HUSBAND AND I MET HIM YEARS AGO 😢 WE WERE BROKEN WHEN WE HEARD HE HAD DIED

  • @teresadiaz2639
    @teresadiaz2639 Před 23 dny

  • @elmundodetrudy
    @elmundodetrudy Před 25 dny

    Love it

  • @crystalakabeavergamingsubs9549

    Exciting, Adam. 🤗

  • @JCluvsdogs
    @JCluvsdogs Před 25 dny

    Yes!!!

  • @nanceb4him
    @nanceb4him Před 25 dny

    FUNNY? I may be the 65 year old fighting the "calling" to perfect my singing and confidence. A battle for years. I've sang in Worship bands, in church gatherings, and most of my family is gifted in music. The gift is there, I've just never taken it serious and have always been content being a backup singer. Many have encouraged me and many discouraged me, but I never wanted fame or the title. But I have always sang, my entire life, like breathing, it was a need, not a desire for anything but my own personal outlet. I'm still wrestling I guess.

  • @gaylegardinerankerry12123

    ADAM COME TO AUSTRALIA 🇦🇺 WE WOULD LOVE TO SEE YOU HERE

  • @TheRealLittleBiddle
    @TheRealLittleBiddle Před 25 dny +2

    I want to be coached by you, Adam!

  • @maytheforcebewithyou4313
    @maytheforcebewithyou4313 Před 25 dny +1

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @oneparkplaceenterprises1530

    where can I find link to accountable

  • @susanmckay6486
    @susanmckay6486 Před 23 dny

    Hello from Italy. Have been following your podcast since the beginning.

  • @jacqueschneider4687
    @jacqueschneider4687 Před 25 dny

    May i suggest, never retire, if the Lord can use you and your health is great... life is so short and do all you love and desire for whatever you feel led to do

  • @karentachi5689
    @karentachi5689 Před 23 dny

    😊

  • @aimeefriedman822
    @aimeefriedman822 Před 25 dny

    There's nothing I can say or anyone, to take away the pain of how Tylee and JJ were murdered and discarded or how Charles was murdered. BUT MAN AM I SO ECSTATIC THAT CHAD'S OWN KIDS' PATHETIC, DISGRACEFUL, EMOTIONLESS TESTIMONY MADE CHAD EVEN MORE INHUMANE, IF THAT'S EVEN POSSIBLE.
    We have to be glad for ANY justice for these crimes.
    Your combined strength in this horror is amazing to witness.

  • @mamagrace3416
    @mamagrace3416 Před 25 dny +1

    18:46 So proud of you Adam! I may need to sign up. I could use a little push myself. Sounds like you will be perfect at it. It was made for you!

  • @HeatherD2589
    @HeatherD2589 Před 22 dny

    ??? Question: but does anyone understand how the court happened to have an audio copy of the patriarcal blessing? That was certainly damning for Chad when it came to Alex Cox’s life or death.

  • @Mary10538
    @Mary10538 Před 25 dny

    Hi guys, I'm hoping to hear your comments on today's court.

  • @GenuinelyGena123
    @GenuinelyGena123 Před 24 dny +2

    Hello Adam & Rex - Congrats on one year and your new adventure! Helping others help others… love it!

  • @gailstarchuk7846
    @gailstarchuk7846 Před 25 dny +2

    👋🇨🇦❤️

  • @jenihansen7201
    @jenihansen7201 Před 25 dny

    Well all of this sounds great guys, but at an age of almost 69, I am not so sure there is something that I can accomplish. Would love to hear more of what you are about.

    • @adamcox44
      @adamcox44 Před 25 dny +1

      Never to old to do what you want. We can break down the hours in your day. We can make a plan for you. I will be your support to get your goals achieved.

    • @adamcox44
      @adamcox44 Před 25 dny

      That is the link.

  • @tabathabrown6508
    @tabathabrown6508 Před 23 dny

    Adam, I feel like we are comment friends.
    I am really proud of you.
    You inspire me!
    You too Rex. Thank you guys for being you guys, to us.

    • @adamcox44
      @adamcox44 Před 22 dny +1

      Thank you Tabatha! Let's keep commenting.

    • @tabathabrown6508
      @tabathabrown6508 Před 22 dny

      @@adamcox44 let's.
      Happy Friday Adam!