Do THIS...And They'll NEVER Stop Chasing YOU...

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  • čas přidán 15. 11. 2020
  • Since the beginning of time, men have been chasing women, but what if it didn't have to be that way? What if there was something you could do, that would make THEM chase YOU...
    Becoming a 'high value' man requires many changes in the way you think and the way you do things, and the information contained within this video can move you closer to the type of man that has women chasing HIM.
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Komentáře • 392

  • @tomcw8989
    @tomcw8989 Před 3 lety +1088

    How to develop a strong personality: Meditate. Become comfortable with yourself. Stop being influenced by others. You will easily become more calm and confident, and it's free.

  • @jaxx-inspiregrowcreate2862
    @jaxx-inspiregrowcreate2862 Před 3 lety +689

    Stop trying to impress and simply LEVEL UP.
    She will take notice

  • @avicii3280
    @avicii3280 Před 3 lety +319

    The fact that you watch these videos frequently, you're better than average ! You are finding ways to improve in your life !

  • @abbeypropertycare8081
    @abbeypropertycare8081 Před 3 lety +177

    Don't let society dictate to you , or you will become a slave to it and live a unhappy life .

  • @soundwave118
    @soundwave118 Před 3 lety +385

    Hii guys , to the 1% who read this , know that you are important and loved, may your dreams come true and hope that your life is well.
    ✊🙏

  • @alphainteractions3408
    @alphainteractions3408 Před 3 lety +391

    Chase success and let women chase you.

    • @kenkaniff5636
      @kenkaniff5636 Před 3 lety +24

      chase exellence and let success chase you

    • @miloudivyne
      @miloudivyne Před 3 lety +2

      She might as well use a strap on on you too since you want to be chased

    • @samuelbaret-alonzo4684
      @samuelbaret-alonzo4684 Před 3 lety +11

      @@miloudivyne Lol you literally want men to simp for you. No real man would simp for anyone. No one should chase anyone. Both sexes should only chase their goals.

    • @wolfpackpete6408
      @wolfpackpete6408 Před 3 lety +2

      @@samuelbaret-alonzo4684 in other aspects of their lives, yes it's up to each individual to chase their goals.
      For relationships, whether it's a casual encounter or long lasting... someone has to make the first move or it won't happen.

    • @samuelbaret-alonzo4684
      @samuelbaret-alonzo4684 Před 3 lety +3

      @@wolfpackpete6408 making the first move is different from ‘chasing’ someone

  • @marshaldteach2054
    @marshaldteach2054 Před 3 lety +68

    Be yourself and live every moment without expectations... Life becomes easy when we focus on developing ourselves... People will come and go, even the right ones will come and go at some point... You got yourself...

  • @baronedipiemonte3990
    @baronedipiemonte3990 Před 3 lety +78

    All of the labels (alpha, beta, simp.. )and new rules (don't be too nice, feign disinterest...) for dating/relationships have created many of the problems that both sexes are experiencing in this era, as opposed to 70 years ago when people were just "themselves". Of course ideology and standards of conduct are quite different from what they were 70+ years ago.
    According to all these types of "relationship" channels/videos, I'm a combination of Alpha and Beta. Possibly there's a term for that I'm not aware of yet. I'm 58, divorced (married twice), university graduate, speak two languages, a decorated veteran (United States), not bad looking... I'm not Brad Pitt, but I don't scare babies and grannies. I was raised to be a gentleman and to be chivalrous towards women. Yes, I am a "nice guy", but I don't grovel nor be used. I'm not rich (nor impoverished) or flashy. I am comfortable with who I am, and don't have to be/don't always want to be in the "spotlight". Am I a perfect "specimen" ? No. I'm partially disabled from injuries sustained in the military. One of which was a severely broken jaw which resulted in being required to wear dentures. Unless I open wide, or engage in deep kissing, no one would know. My neurological injuries can't be seen except an x-ray or similar test. I'm not crippled, nor impotent. Sometimes I am in pain, or temporarily unable to use my hard or arm. It's because of that that I'm retired.
    Yes, I'm "old school" in that if you want to get a woman's attention/get her to like you, you give her "flowers" instead of "dead branches". Many of these "labels" are incorrectly defined. I'm very protective of a woman, especially one I like. In fact I was for a time, a registered bodyguard. And no, I didn't advertise it. I don't think that doing a little extra for a woman or being more considerate than another man is "death sentence" or make me a "simp". I also think that women today are told/influenced to want "bad boys". Some naturally do. I have been both trained to kill, and to save a life. I would rather save a life than take one.
    I think that everyone (men and women) should just be themselves and think for themselves. Neither gender should have to change who and what they are to be accepted. If I find that my being a "nice guy" to a woman who I'm trying to attract isn't working, I'll try another woman. I won't change myself because I don't want a relationship with someone who I can't be myself with. There should be no "peer pressure" to be made to favor a certain person, i.e. "you can do better than him/her", "he/she isn't educated enough", "he/she was arrested in the past", "he/she isn't rich enough" and so on. My second wife, who married me as i am now, was told by a "mommy" figure at work that she "could do better". So she was urged to find someone else. She did. And he ended up putting her in the hospital after beating the hell out of her two months after she left me. I hope she's happy now. Because while I can "forgive" , I can't forget or trust again.
    I will say that both men and women focus too much on the material or physical attributes, to the exclusion of what matters most. That being the heart. Of course physical attraction plays a part, but overlooking someone become they aren't a perfect specimen isn't a good thing. Having a means to support yourself and a spouse/family is a legitimate necessity. But no one should be required to "buy" the affection of another. I would not be able to afford to buy a woman a $5,000 engagement ring, but I could afford half that. And if my heart and intentions are pure, I shouldn't have to (nor will I) use material things to prove my love. Because then it's not real. People shouldn't be termed "clingy" or "needy" because they want to be with someone.
    I think both men and women should start thinking and acting the way they truly feel, not how they're told to feel. Establishing and maintaining a relationship shouldn't be a contest or game. My parents were married 42 years. Grandparents 55. They didn't have perfect storybook lives. But their love was REAL. That's what I have always wanted. I'm beginning to wonder if that's a pipe dream in this day and age...???

    • @roopambehera7017
      @roopambehera7017 Před 3 lety +5

      You sir are the real Man. much love to you

    • @NW_drew
      @NW_drew Před 3 lety +4

      Beautifully written bro….

    • @travelgo3720
      @travelgo3720 Před 3 lety +4

      At the end of the day, we must find happiness within ourselves. We are the only ones that can fill our own void. People and materials can only temporarily make us happy. Everything in life is a cycle, we will all experience some form of pain as our ideals are not met. Suffering is just one point of the wave in life, as we all experience many features of it. I wish you well.

    • @allsmiles2938
      @allsmiles2938 Před 2 lety +1

      Yes, Beautifully written, much respect 🇺🇸

    • @marksallai2289
      @marksallai2289 Před 2 lety +1

      well said

  • @petersullivan3467
    @petersullivan3467 Před 3 lety +147

    It's odd because I very seldom ever had women chasing me when I actually wanted a relationship, but now that I gave up on dating and relationships, it happens much more often.

    • @YuhhFeelMe
      @YuhhFeelMe Před rokem

      thats how it is bra, they want you when you dont want em

    • @YuhhFeelMe
      @YuhhFeelMe Před rokem

      @@sarahmac1772 its not tha same way with women

    • @petersullivan3467
      @petersullivan3467 Před rokem

      @@YuhhFeelMe Women want what they cannot have. Even if he is a drug addicted felon with no teeth.

  • @takagusensei4087
    @takagusensei4087 Před 3 lety +8

    Every day i watched your videos one by one, it makes me more and more confidence in any situation I love myself more n more, I don't afraid of people and I don't dress for other looks I dressed for my self look, thanks your words are making more courageous.

  • @richardramfire3971
    @richardramfire3971 Před 3 lety +16

    I have found that the most important thing is forming a connection. I have gotten attention from women by either making them laugh or having a good conversation.

    • @thompsonhudson6568
      @thompsonhudson6568 Před 3 lety

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    • @thompsonhudson6568
      @thompsonhudson6568 Před 3 lety

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  • @richf8248
    @richf8248 Před 2 lety +3

    I really like and respect all of the feed back from this channel. I too believe that personal growth is essential to a happy life, both in and outside of a relationship. I am far from perfect and don't aim to ever be perfect. That's impossible, but I am learning a lot from this channel and all of the positive comment feed back. Going through a very painful breakup at the moment and have now seen new ways to deal with the present, as well as the future, for how to handle and see certain situations.

  • @badassproductions4734
    @badassproductions4734 Před 3 lety +14

    so true peer pressure is in your own household as well, everyone has a plan for you so you need one for yourself

  • @toluwanidaniel7841
    @toluwanidaniel7841 Před 3 lety +5

    I was skeptical about this video from the title and the cover but after watching, I must say man, your words are very sound, you didn't teach some quick-fix surface level solution, but you went to the character and mindset, the places where all of our life flows from, the root!

  • @emmanuelabe4650
    @emmanuelabe4650 Před 3 lety +35

    Just aim to be a sigma alpha, some guys just have it naturally, it's a deep down belief in your subconscious mind. You can grow into it

  • @makamaksimovic7194
    @makamaksimovic7194 Před 3 lety +70

    I just followed my rules, and ended up in jail 😂

  • @juanriptidecamacho7948
    @juanriptidecamacho7948 Před 3 lety +14

    When everyone is a dime a dozen, you're mediocre. When you decide to stand out, you're exquisite.

  • @stclea
    @stclea Před 3 lety +64

    If you make a "Be the Stone" shirt, ill buy it.

  • @zattack345
    @zattack345 Před 3 lety +63

    1. A strong personality

  • @ceanorpilla5540
    @ceanorpilla5540 Před 2 lety

    aye thanks for this bro.

  • @420maniaYt
    @420maniaYt Před 3 lety +53

    I have a date today thank you for this

  • @Sua1214
    @Sua1214 Před 3 lety +11

    These videos give so much in a short amount of time

  • @russianfolktales3641
    @russianfolktales3641 Před 3 lety +15

    Be careful what you wish for, cause you might just get it .

  • @gud6823
    @gud6823 Před 2 lety

    Another beautiful gem thank you brother

  • @alexsauceda2493
    @alexsauceda2493 Před 2 lety +5

    I actually enjoyed that. Very good content!
    Even better way of making it digestible to a mind like mine 😄

  • @simplyaweys6968
    @simplyaweys6968 Před 3 lety +35

    thank you man,... From east Africa, 🇸🇴🇰🇪

  • @Madhra2k24
    @Madhra2k24 Před 3 lety +5

    *Yes, many won't explain on their decisions when questioned...but I love to prove them wrong...by living by my choice...it is my free will...I know I'm always odd one out 😆 !!!*

  • @yobelegend
    @yobelegend Před 2 lety

    I needed this one

  • @drukpakunley5659
    @drukpakunley5659 Před 3 lety +2

    More Life More JOY more PROSPERITY more Health More Wealth And ABUNDANCE in your Life

  • @danellsmith83
    @danellsmith83 Před 3 lety

    This guy is proper.. videos is short and on point

  • @EBgames12
    @EBgames12 Před 3 lety

    Some great advice fr

  • @tyreselynch6184
    @tyreselynch6184 Před 3 lety +8

    Also when people die it's the ones that had a stong personality that stands out that people miss and talk about for a long time after they are gone

  • @naimbenton8016
    @naimbenton8016 Před 3 lety

    Sooo true touched my soul

  • @86canes
    @86canes Před 3 lety

    Well said, Well said.

  • @theultimateshadow7232
    @theultimateshadow7232 Před 2 lety

    Hmm, this is a good reminder every time I'm down

  • @timssd2
    @timssd2 Před 3 lety +1

    This Knowledge was implanted in me

  • @gamercroll2392
    @gamercroll2392 Před 3 lety +43

    You'll like this sound 3:03

  • @usernamex6301
    @usernamex6301 Před 3 lety +4

    Thanks Julian ♥️ from Nigeria 🇳🇬... I hope I can see your face again.

  • @maximhollandnederlandthene7640

    Follow your passions.
    Use your talents.
    My mould is broken after I was born.😂

  • @tanveer9972
    @tanveer9972 Před 2 lety

    Great video bro. Appreciated If you can do a video to improve the personality

  • @sanyakaif6133
    @sanyakaif6133 Před 3 lety

    Aye appreciate the channel💯

  • @sigmatic_cartel7780
    @sigmatic_cartel7780 Před 3 lety +4

    Ignore them & act like you don’t want em- make it seem you got stuff better to do

  • @shamimbakhshi7217
    @shamimbakhshi7217 Před 3 lety +1

    "My goals are beyond your understanding."

  • @alejandrosalazar4732
    @alejandrosalazar4732 Před 3 lety +3

    Thank you for the comments from people who watch this with me it helps,I love this video julian because I think people will really understand what this video is about and how I see the world in a positive way you know attract girls very easily even though I cant walk my problem is to know some important ideas of being far from average everybody who watch this are here for a reason.Thanks

    • @alejandrosalazar4732
      @alejandrosalazar4732 Před 3 lety

      Cheer up for julian on farfromaerage and dont forget to subscribe 👌👌👌🌍🌎🌏🌏🌏🌍🌎🌏

  • @houseofmatrix6174
    @houseofmatrix6174 Před 3 lety +1

    This help me realize I don’t need to explain myself

  • @eyasuabere1345
    @eyasuabere1345 Před 3 lety

    This is bad ass. High 5.

  • @sayyer10
    @sayyer10 Před 3 lety +9

    In my 20s - 30s women use to chase me. Then in my 40s - 50s I have to do the chasing. I feel so hopeless.

    • @johndouglas7213
      @johndouglas7213 Před 3 lety +10

      The answer is you just gotta try harder now. Work on your physique, body language and style. Get your head back in the game and compete

    • @YuhhFeelMe
      @YuhhFeelMe Před rokem

      @@johndouglas7213 real men dont compete, we dont have time to fight for uselessness

  • @colinchandler6516
    @colinchandler6516 Před 3 lety

    great video great advice thanks

  • @Ryan-mk6vo
    @Ryan-mk6vo Před 3 lety +3

    Be the stone fellas

  • @mattymobbs5125
    @mattymobbs5125 Před 3 lety +1

    Being a full time single dad I don't get out to meet women I have Dyslexicer and still at 40 I Don't no my talents what I love to do as a job makes me bit lonely so I can't stand out good video

  • @prasanthvijaykumar7819
    @prasanthvijaykumar7819 Před 3 lety +1

    Cool stuff 😉

  • @renanlinard7
    @renanlinard7 Před 3 lety +2

    Understand something, strong personality doesn't mean never listen to others sometimes.

  • @AbdoAbdo-gl8vx
    @AbdoAbdo-gl8vx Před 2 lety

    I love this video

  • @drukpakunley5659
    @drukpakunley5659 Před 3 lety

    Simply Magnificent .....

  • @RAZASHARP
    @RAZASHARP Před 3 lety +1

    Ignore them!!!

  • @CapAnson12345
    @CapAnson12345 Před 3 lety

    Working on it.

  • @xMckingwill
    @xMckingwill Před 3 lety

    And here we go

  • @maxether2333
    @maxether2333 Před 3 lety

    This thumbnail is hilarious fam

  • @Amitdas-gk2it
    @Amitdas-gk2it Před 3 lety

    TY 😃

  • @michellecook-hill431
    @michellecook-hill431 Před 3 lety +1

    This is true for men and women

  • @ironindex3836
    @ironindex3836 Před 3 lety

    🗣️📢 PREACH

  • @yarknorhan857
    @yarknorhan857 Před 3 lety +2

    Have you considered about writing a book about these content? Most of the people will want to read it without a doubt

  • @c_1477
    @c_1477 Před 3 lety

    This is a good video

  • @PatrickMenesesYTOfficial4945

    Remember comrades, indifference is the key.

  • @diabolic_edits_27
    @diabolic_edits_27 Před 2 lety

    Power and Money always works

  • @YesitisDex
    @YesitisDex Před 3 lety +27

    Men are getting smarter and are focused on making a difference in the world and life... starting with their own.
    Pickup companies, CZcams channels ect. are not thriving.

  • @jrjuggalothugofkck1
    @jrjuggalothugofkck1 Před 3 lety

    I'm going to do this

  • @israelbeltran2196
    @israelbeltran2196 Před 2 lety

    estoy totalmente de acuerdo¡

  • @canine0077
    @canine0077 Před 3 lety

    @ 5.44 spirits of asphodel 😂

  • @ALBERTEINSTEIN777
    @ALBERTEINSTEIN777 Před 3 lety +1

    LOWER YOUR MICS VOLUME. GREAT CONTENT BROTHER.

  • @tomataesipes2246
    @tomataesipes2246 Před 3 lety

    My point exactly

  • @amitv9128
    @amitv9128 Před 3 lety +2

    Instructions unclear
    Got arrested

  • @DodgingKarmaDesign
    @DodgingKarmaDesign Před 3 lety +8

    Weird beep at 3:05

  • @gud6823
    @gud6823 Před 2 lety

    Ohhh become the stone!

  • @bettermanchannel770
    @bettermanchannel770 Před 3 lety +1

    Become a BADASS

  • @TheDhammaHub
    @TheDhammaHub Před 3 lety +106

    Most men do nothing new because it is extremely likely that "something new" isn't too smart. There's a reason why only a small percentage of innovative start-ups succeeds in the end ;D

    • @stresslee
      @stresslee Před 3 lety

      I think those men needed to believe in themselves but also be smart about it. Trust me, you can make something great of yourself but you can’t let any obstacles get in your way and most men do that with either drugs or women getting in their way and not being able to move forward without that.

  • @david90212
    @david90212 Před 3 lety +20

    I had to laugh out loud (in a positive way) when the video used the quote " because I can" because I use that phrase all the time to address actions depicted in this video. The creator of it is right on, and I am going to bet the reason he made the video is ..... Because he can 😎

  • @Fahim_Lalani
    @Fahim_Lalani Před 3 lety

    Follow your own rules 😎👌🙏

  • @nikolaikorobeinik119
    @nikolaikorobeinik119 Před 3 lety +3

    Listen for the beep at 3:05 .

  • @Beef1188
    @Beef1188 Před 3 lety +30

    No!
    No is the answer to peer pressure. When you stop "following" and begin to go your own way, you begin to rise above the ocean of mediocrity.
    Just say no. If they ask why, say "I said no! Just deal with it!"

    • @Ace.0.0.0.
      @Ace.0.0.0. Před 3 lety

      You can also say "I prefer not to say why." Or "I'd rather not say." That should end their asking. This is being polite, honest, and direct. If they choose to take issue, then that's their problem. You might have to repeat yourself a few times. But they will soon get the message. And it becomes a little easier next time you say 'no.'

    • @YuhhFeelMe
      @YuhhFeelMe Před rokem

      @@Ace.0.0.0. im not repeating myself, i said what i said n moved on

  • @ayodebamiolugbusi3791
    @ayodebamiolugbusi3791 Před 3 lety +11

    An average Joe can still get the girls, so far he is confident in who he is and what he has. Being average doesn't necessarily mean poor

  • @Sua1214
    @Sua1214 Před 3 lety

    bro omfg he droping knowledge

  • @144elect6
    @144elect6 Před 3 lety +8

    Honestly I just don't care anymore!!

  • @WeTryYouWin
    @WeTryYouWin Před 3 lety +1

    Improve my personality? OMG I'm screwed....

  • @drukpakunley5659
    @drukpakunley5659 Před 3 lety

    This is INNOVATION .....

  • @pieluvr7362
    @pieluvr7362 Před 3 lety

    One WAY My Way

  • @ZerooooooooooooooooooooO
    @ZerooooooooooooooooooooO Před 3 lety +1

    Everything is futile ,just don't think ,Do!!!

  • @BostonMike68
    @BostonMike68 Před 2 lety

    I spent all that time on magic tricks damn

  • @IcepackTV
    @IcepackTV Před 3 lety

    Basically unapologetically be yourself.

  • @turborios5458
    @turborios5458 Před 2 lety

    Because I can

  • @ahmedksontini6576
    @ahmedksontini6576 Před 3 lety +1

    Be the Stone

  • @jameswatsonatheistgamer

    It's like this video is describing my life. Sigma male for a reason. My life. My rules.

  • @pauls.2526
    @pauls.2526 Před 3 lety

    The per pressure of adult hood can often be worse than the per pressure in the school yard. Weman too can also be like sheep looking for the Knight in shinning armer that there mother couldn't have. Unfortunately a lot of people fall between the cracks and settle for second best in life how sad.

  • @r3ptil393
    @r3ptil393 Před 2 lety

    3:02 my ear randomly

  • @BeOutstanding
    @BeOutstanding Před 3 lety

    Great
    Content
    Thank
    You
    Ffa
    Uniq
    Persona
    Ur own opin
    Diff
    Stand up nw

  • @andreimihail3677
    @andreimihail3677 Před 3 lety +6

    This made me think of quiting IT and go back to history and psychology (as a future career)

  • @asandamkhize6387
    @asandamkhize6387 Před 3 lety +6

    Have a workout routine
    Mediate
    No fap
    Find your purpose
    Work on improving yourself everyday

  • @mrumbrella9961
    @mrumbrella9961 Před 3 lety +1

    Stop chasing butterflies. Build your own garden. Butterflies will come automatically.

  • @deantaylor8851
    @deantaylor8851 Před 2 lety

    Become unshakable learn to respond versus react think before you speak you must be in control of your emotions because if you allow them to they will get the best of you

  • @venelintodorov5229
    @venelintodorov5229 Před 3 lety +5

    Am I the only one who doesn't understand why I shouldn't explain myself and why is this bad?

    • @dinkydavid5388
      @dinkydavid5388 Před 3 lety +2

      If you make a decision and someone questions you and you feel you have reasons for making that decision, by all means explain yourself. You're not making an "excuse" as the video suggests. You're explaining your decision. Nothing wrong with that. It's only bad if you change your decision because others dont agree with you.

    • @dustinpomeroy8817
      @dustinpomeroy8817 Před 3 lety

      Cuz you're a man and you do want you want,you don't have to explain jackshit other than that