1 Secret Attraction STYLE Used ONLY By The RAREST Men
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- čas přidán 31. 10. 2020
- Here is one of the most effective attraction styles, or strategy, that is regularly used by the RAREST men -- or men who you might call, far from average. This style is so popular simply because it works.
'Bad boys' and 'jerks' have been using it for A LONG TIME. Now it's your chance to learn their secret and try it for yourself.
Things men should remember
Confident
Playfully arrogant
Sense of humor
Me: Dark humour? :D
I would do it, but it's more oriented towards a younger audience.
The three things:
Make bank
Stay fit
Put yourself first
@@6FootVampire Very true. I’ve met women like this in my dating attempts and I just tell them to take a chill pill and run away as far as possible!
@@GabrielTobing Not really. I am 55 years old and still use this tactic even on young girls and can work.
@@macioluko9484 wow! Short, sweet, to the point and easy to digest!
"I'm not afraid of an army of lions led by a sheep, I'm more afraid of an army of sheep led by a lion" -Alexander the Great
Wow wow
Nicely said
Alpha af
Indeed 👌🏻
I dont know man that's gotta be one scary sheep to earn the respect of those lions
*Confidence...its confidence.*
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@Misguided Angel Only through semen retention do you get confidence and other attractive abilities. Ofcourse its not easy which is why you pay the small price to maintain these attraction
@Misguided Angel confidence is actually like a paradox. You can't go "be confident, be confident". You have to have confidence to be confident. Kinda paradoxical but it just happen
Edit: you can also try the method above me
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@@redacted299 no nut November shit
Don’t focus too much on these women focus on your dreams. Just stay on your purpose and what’s yours will come to you
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Iike the girl of your dreams ?
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So what are you doing here???
@@lms9050 because he's lonely on his purpose.
Bruh, for everybody on this video here, don’t focus on women. Get your money and style up. Be productive for your community and those around you. Be somebody.
@Tommi Tumpula acquiring Knowledge and Wisdom to benefit you and your community is not something you have to be born to do. It’s an act you can do at any stage of life. It’s an excuse to say such things. 120 Knowledge, 120 Wisdom, 120 understanding equals 360 degrees to your cipher. You don’t have to be born special to accomplish anything, you simply just have to explore the path to find how to benefit. You actually have to put in the work of finding yourself and using what you learn to help others, you don’t need to be special to give somebody on the street money or special to help a cause. It’s all in you.
Wemon don't care how a community views men it's guys not giving a shit that attractive to most women
@Tommi Tumpula the nice thing about life is you get to define what is special and important to you. I bet you are the most special person in the world to your pets?
@@garyhubbard1086 have you ever heard of the term "social proof"?
@Tommi Tumpula I'm a dog guy, I get it. I miss my ex's dog more than her! 😉
Been physically fit helps for your health and for physical attraction. But the core of attraction is the better version of yourself.
So it pretty much boils down to having confidence. Respecting your self without being arrogant and respecting others. Having a sense of humor and do not take your self too seriously.
Forget about sense of humor - girls dislike men with humor.
Now I know why all my so called friends are no longer friends. Weak. insecure. pathetic.
Suddenly, everybody in the comments is rare 😳
Perhaps you should help them grow stronger, become more secure in themselves, and in general show them how awesome they are. If you are the rare naturally confident one then step up and lead your friends to figure it out. Otherwise be less judgmental. (Didn't need a video to figure out you were confident nor that your friends were insecure, etc.)
@@chrisfrench9257 that's a good and noble attitude, but in practice, often not possible. If you level up in life, old friends can act like anchors. For example, give up drinking and your old bar buddies are bad influences. Start going to the gym, and video game couch potato friends drain your motivation to work out.
It's pretty easy to see how you have no friends.
Be relentless be driven be inspired be a savage be humble in your approach.....not just with women but in general in everything you do.
There are people whose sole worth is their excessive confidence.
They generally get a large quantity of low quality relationships
Work on the best traits you can find in yourself and never become either the bitter one filled with envy or the overconfident one who loses everything he gets upon revealing the things that lie beneath that surface.
Exactamente. A humble confidence is best.
You should first be that person that others are attracted to. Be such a dope soul that people crave your vibes 🖖
"Dope soul"😂👍
How can i work towards this, what should i unlearn?
@@Michael-rm1bx insincere traits popped into my mind .. whatever that means ..
Yes all about your VIBE. You can't see it all the time but you can definitely feel it. Even a blind person will be turned off to a good looking person if you have bad VIBES
I hate how you explain the problem for more than half of the video and don't get to the point of the video until the end as you keep re-explaining the problem. At 3 minutes and 30 seconds into a 5 minute video you still do not get to explaining the solution.
He’s building up to it brah
@@benhartart9487 the title of the video was enough build up. He basically used the whole video as "build up"
Tell him thanks for wasting time from my life saying the same exact thing in 50 different ways without getting to the point
@@wingoreviewsboxingandmma3667 I think videos have to be a certain length to be monetized, gotta stretch em somehow.
@@wingoreviewsboxingandmma3667 your obviously seeking advice ? Sometimes hearing something over and over might be beneficial
Fellaman was giving examples of it before explaining how it worked.
Great message, be that rare man that's confident enough to express himself playfully and women will take notice! This reminds me of the following:
"Do not fear to be eccentric in opinion, for every opinion now accepted was once eccentric."
Actually I’m like that but I still don’t get any girls😂
@@fettsackmitbandana4632 Yeah.. me to. What are we doing wrong, mate? 🤔😆
@@fettsackmitbandana4632 what they failed to mention is that life is contradictory. Eric Weber author of the book How to pickup Girls mentioned that one technique might work for one guy but may not work for another. That's because life is contradictory. The only thing is be yourself you want them to accept you for who you are.
You never lied. I respect you the whole time.
When you focus on you and your personal goals in your life, good things will come your way.
Damn, the gravity of this message hit home! Always dropping the great value!
After one & half minutes...let's get straight into it! Haha, love your videos though! Thanks!
This channel is in an other level🔥
I agree 100%, but one thing I would add is what I learned living in Myrtle Beach, SC. A subtle ignoring of the most beautiful females drives them insane. They beat their brains why you ignore them while most guys flaunt over them. Great videos man. I love them.
The easiest way to achieve confidence is by experience and mastering a skill. This can be from learning how to play a instrument to mastering body language.
Came across that "cocky-funny" trick about 15 years ago in David Diangelo's program. I've tried and tested it and can attest that this is a TRUE GAME CHANGER! The best of them all!
I love how this guy keeps having to make videos about us where we should be sticking to our dreams and not chase for women all the time XD
But really, he is doing us all a favour.
Guys think it’s to act like they don’t care. It’s to actually not care. Take care of yourselves kings 👑
I will.
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I was looking for this. Thanks bruh
Thanks
In short, wedge your self, emotionally, personally and strategically between cocky and playful. Your welcome, people. And these two words and emotions are how I get my girls too.
Like iron man?......because he gets plenty of girls ...
It's called "being yourself".
Gudness I'm a Woman, and I love your Videos! More power to you! 🙌🏻💖
Tom leykis calls it backhanded compliments😂😂😂it’s awesome
The truthh bro! 🔥🔺💯
I concur. Which is why watching a womans body language comes into play. You can make an observation and make a play off said observation. Works for me.
You go man big fan since 2018
When you were describing that type of guy, sounded like you were describing George Peppard when he appeared as Jim Banacek. The TV Series from the 70's where he played an insurance investigator . He lived rather lavishly drove an expensive classic convertible. He'd say things that were corny and cocky and he had many girlfriends. Many guys tried to beat him up instead they got beaten up. His bosses didn't like him because of the way he did things. But they relied on him because he got things done and had results for them. This was a time when women had long hair and wore short dresses. There was something about the 70's when men & women wore Flair-bottom pants. Men had the hairstyle of the dry look. Jim Banacek was that type of guy seems that girls were always interested in him.
“Oh damn that’s me! I always knew I was rare lol now let me check some Reddit minecraft news”
"they go back to playing video games for another 15 to 35 years"
;-D
PERFECT !
0:01 *his voice and narration is so mysterious*
You're telling me I figured this out on my own. Everything's coming up millhouse
Thank god!! I am that ‘rarest man’!!!
This channel runs on our insecurities no matter how many videos you watch you'll never achieve that mythical perfect man he wants us to be
Just try to fix holes in yourself.
@@viceroybear6298 as I said a channel that runs on insecurities and a community that thinks he's righ
What I've learnt personally is just being yourself, not caring much about any other thing and just going on according to your plan whatever you planned for the day ...maybe it adds the mysterious substance I don't know
confidence + social competency + better than her in the battle of wits + abundance mentality
I got one, relax and be purely yourself. If they like you just keep being relaxed and yourself, if they don't you are better off without them.
To the top! ☝
The day we stop watching this type of videos is the day we get confident
...just be yourself...and change for the better you, not for anyone else. You'll attract not just woman but anyone you who will be on the same page as you.
I am not interested in dating, I am married. But this does instruct in some mischief you could have great fun with!!!
Is it being confident, or actually listening? Those are important.
You're what you're can improve yes but what was given to you naturally will never change
3:37 video starts at...
That dude even had a pump on his forearms 🤣🤣
I remember 1 dude like this...always got the prettiest ladies through the teen years until some of them woke up and realised that he was happy to raise his fist to women behind the scenes. The guys knew what he was like because he tried his little tactics on men. He tried it on me once and found himself pushed over a small wall.
Interestingly, five years later this dude left to live over the other side of the world...to go and annoy a whole new country. Never seen him or heard of him again.
Focus on your character development as well as your goal/purpose.
Then everything around you will respect you. Don't demand. Don't earn. Just be. It will happen naturally.
Now u have started to beat around the bush
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I've always been that way and i never thought about it but it is true
watching this for no reason i do this naturally it makes me feel good lol
So I need to be a jerk to her and insult her but not really be a jerk and insult her. Got it.
Just don't insult her personally... it should be playful and without hesitation... that is hot.
Is it a coincidence that the stereotypical "bad boy" is usually always good looking?
Good looking ones over ugly one I guess
If you're good looking in your teens, you will get attention and you might take it for granted. Being ugly will get you insulted and bullied which will take away your confidence.
Good points though, BALANCE is important
You guys I will like to repeat the main subject ...FOCUS yourself in big projects attract wealth and be happy...
I swear the guy says the same things in a lot of videos
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@@fauzizee7765 The guy says things like confidence in every video I'm sure he has a video that says the same stuff
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@@fauzizee7765 I bet there is a video where he says the same shit
Whenever you are talking to anyone, not just to a girl, be yourself. Speak what you have on mind. If it is a joke, say it. If you have to say, that you have hard times, say it. Whatever u want to do, do it, whether you are happy, sad, lonely or busy. When you do, what define your life, that proves who you are, then will people treat you how you want. If you can't say what you think, how can anyone notice, how you feel or what you want? Be real.
Bro can you explain why when I'm drunk my confidence level reach 10000000%.. and I don't give a damn to anyone. Flirting level 10000000% plus
I can relate to this video. It hurts.
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Thanks Gaurav
That high school story is real af.
Ey no cap
1:45 Finally some cuts to the chase, it's exaclty like that and so frustrating for a lot of young, inexperienced 'nice guys'!
Don't pay attention to people who hate and dislike you for being good at something, having great hygiene, shredded physique and a devil may care attitude. Just live ur life in a way you deserve
But what if a guy is indeed confident that he has nothing to hide and can talk playfully with women but dislikes being too cocky or arrogant because he doesn't just doesn't want to be rude? Cuz I'm confident in my style, appearance and physique but when I talk or act I do my best to be humble and nice because I don't want to be too rude or arrogant cuz it just isn't my style as I feel discomfort in my heart doing so.
I used to be like this. In my opinion you should try some different things out, be more cocky for a day and see how it works for you. In the end you are your own master, so no harm can be done in trying something out. Best of luck to you fellow man
Kelvin Wong, From my experience, those are the ones that girls chase after the most! So many girls in my High School days chased me because of this and being popular, but I didn’t pursue any of them during those times because I didn’t know how dating was going to work out for me, given that I didn’t drive a car and didn’t want to feel awkward about my parents bringing me to a place I would have wanted to go for a date.
@@alexnoehr thanks brother.
@@michaeldavis812 rlly now? Idk for me it seems to make girls feel like ur just that guy that’s fun to be around. Like the type of guy that has no problem making guy friends but girls usually just views him as a good friend. That’s from my own experience.
"Guys will go back to playing video games for another 15 to 25 years or so" lol!
This is true
Looks matter more than anything else.
💯💯💯
HAHA jokes on you I never hated or was jealous of anyone of the guys you described in the beginning. Actually i never hated anyone.
Why you hate in on this you tuber
@@williewill1237 ??
@@xMckingwill ahah wtf he said the guy who respond you 😂😂😂
Same here. Hatred is a weird emotion to me.
@@KingofNewYorkkk Yeah exactly for me sometimes I'm actually surprised that people can actually behave and think in such ways. I'm literally incapable of comprehending it lol
I know of guys that use that technique and it very often backfires, it's like they're trying too hard to get a girls attention.
Its always like the same stuff just worded differently and dragged on... still respect your grind tho
Lol so true
Repetitive messages will make you remember it better tho, so it's not an issue.
its just like that balance u trying to apply on the car throttle when u r a biggener
Get yo money up not yo funny up - Oneway Corey
Bro thank you for reminding me that I will always be the Alpha I seen guys put women down to get there attention and an attraction going. Those girls are low end girls. When your an alpha you only treat women I meet especially for the first time is with Class. Now an Alpha knows who are the classy girls. They would never ever put them down in anyway because that is an automatic rejection. Like c'mon man have some class. Alphas only go for the best the very high quality of girl second to none! This technique I have seen works well on scrub girls but would never work for me as it would never work for me. I'm out
U gotta be honest tho, alot of modern women are more shallow than in previous generations. Looks do unfortunately play a bigger role than in years past. It's the defect of a society, largely void of higher purpose but plenty in narcissistism and consumerism.
Amen Brotha🙏 Confidence Grow a Nice Stash cutty Soy Chicano ima Keep-It FOREVER 😆 no lie one of Top-5 thang's ive Done(.WW.) "how you a Man you Don't Even Hav a mustache"-Life In An Abundance🙏 "i Speak NOTHING but Tha Raw FACTS"-RIP MacDre(.WW.)
I've had women tell me that I am the type of guy women are attracted to. I do that playful cocky thing all the time
Give me some lines man I wana do it too
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It's not lines persay;it's a mindset
@@Urmumbigfatgay here’s a line: I work in kitchen appliances sales and last week this hot women was looking to buy a kettle. I assisted her and said: Do you multitask? She replied: Yes but why? I replied: becoz can you shop for a kettle while I flirt with you?
TLDR: they had a healthy self image and took care of themselves.
See? You don't need over 5 minutes to say it. Maybe... 30 seconds?
This is my style
Attraction doesn't necessarily mean love or commitment. The ladies may be attracted to these guys, but after spending time with them many of them pull away because these guys sometimes tend to be pricks
Plenty of time, I thought the guy getting all the girls was average looking....but then the girls would tell me he was in fact very attractive....enough to get away with plain clothing, like Paul Walker in a T shirt.
what I also would notice, is that the women swarming around these guys who weren't the classic well-put-together male? They all were the same type. They wanted to hook up (for whatever reason) with men, and these guys weren't shy in letting it be known they wanted to hook up with women. It was like an entrepreneur going to a holiday party...and quickly finding the other entrepreneurs in the crowd. Like minds discovered each other.
Play it hot and cold give her little bursts and then go cold again. Quite like your warming up a kettle and then letting it go cold. This will make her curious and seek you out as being different from all the other guys who try to hard and are over flirtatious . Better still watch love island and see what guys in the group gets are doing the best and who the girl are most curious about
You will make so many rarest men that it'll be common again😂😂
Behold I come quickly
Im starting to wonder whats happening.. Its just im always watching you for 3 years. But recently you are just saying the same thing in your last videos.. About confidence and etc. Hopefully i will learn something new.. Still respect for you my brother.. Im just concern because im not the only person who is complaining
Not all the videos are same there is a deep and real life messeges he is a great teacher
You’ll need a hoodie and a VERY flat-brimmed cap. Otherwise, don’t even bother.
I don't find cockiness or arrogance attractive at all. Even if it is playful. What you see...is what you get.
Do you really want a smart ass?
A smart ass guy is for desperate girls with no self-esteem. Someone who lives on your couch because they're tired of living with "Ma".
Intelligent, gentle, mature, considerate, adventurous, inventiveness, responsible and EMPLOYED. Someone who will build you up in a good way.
That's a man.
i feel personally attacked
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7 million wasn't a small number to win an election !
Can u please upload a video that is not dating advice
I didnt sub for the damn dating advice!
Translation: they go with the beat of their own drum without being apologetic about it. A woman likes a man who thinks for himself.
Slightly cocky , slightly intimidating
Playfully insult -- in the end its confidence
You convey that you dont think about what would they think of you
Can any women out there confirm if this is true or not?
I thought of ghosting or leaving girls on read just because I thought it was funny
Now I am rare with 203 k people .
I have a friend who's over 500lb!!! Can pull the women like flies!!!...its his/our confidence!!! He will pull his shirt off and walk around like he has a six pack!!! And they come at him!!!...he makes them laugh right into his arms!!! I seen him do it!!!!