SEDUCTION IS MANIPULATIVE: A Note on Manipulation in Seduction | The Means of Seduction
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The Means of Seduction is a successful CZcams channel and online blog focusing on the application of seduction (and other means of influence) in all areas of one’s personal and professional life. The Means of Seduction looks at the sociological and psychological effects of implementing seductive body language, speech patterns, behaviors, and attitudes for the purposes of romantic and platonic relationship-forming, confidence-building, professional achievement, and self-improvement. Visit themeansofseduction.com for more reading.
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☞ TIME STAMPS ☜
0:00 Opening
0:30 Introduction
0:52 “Seduction” Defined
1:11 The Answer
1:27 “Manipulation” Defined
3:06 Summary & Conclusion
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I am so surprised that this channel has such little quantity in content, but still supersedes it by far in its quality. Some creators will upload several times a day for years before accumulating an impressive following, yet you have done it effortlessly with two fantastic videos, one of which not even reaching four minutes long!! Your analysis in the art of seduction is one of the best I’ve seen, even from channels who have a number of videos about the subject, and I especially appreciate how here it is not considered to be a tool only for the romantic and “high-value.” I understand that these videos must take a while to write and produce, but you really should consider doing it more often, if allowed. I get the impression that you are merely sharing your thoughts and tips on an age-old subject, however I think that what you have to say would be highly valued among those wishing to learn more about the topic, and even those simply in passing.
Hello, Kiera! Thank you so much for taking the time to write such a wonderful comment. You’re very kind! Everything you said is so encouraging and flattering. I had no idea when I was making this video that it would draw in such intelligent, warm, and beautiful people but I’m pleasantly surprised each time I see a new comment. I am so grateful to you for your sweet words, and for your acknowledgement of my very small channel. I am looking forward to making new videos in the future - if for nothing else, then at the very least for this friendly, inspiring sense of community I’m finding here. Thank you again for commenting and for watching! Take care, and best wishes!
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You too, my dear!! You’re very welcome. I was just really surprised and impressed to find such a well-produced video and have it be from such a small channel, I felt I must give some encouragement. You’re also very charismatic and clearly know what you are talking about, so it seems as though many would listen to you, but of course, if it’s not feasible with life circumstances, then don’t feel obligated, you are a great contribution already.
@@kiera6326 you are now seduced!
I thought there was a new upload, when I got a comment alert. 😅 we are waiting
@@TheMeansofSeductionhey, when are you gonna come back?
I enjoy watching videos...i would really love to see more.
I appreciate you leaving a comment of encouragement. Thanks for watching!
In your last video you mentioned doing a video on how to use your voice when seducing. Is it still on? Can’t wait!! ☺️ greetings from Germany
Ahhhh I see what you did there!
I liked that you gave the answer straight and not sugarcoating it.
i would love to see a vid on seducting through text mesaages given by how digital life has been
Great suggestion. I will add that to my list of video subjects. Thanks for watching!
I don't think seduction is always something done/stratetized consciously by a person. I think most people who seduce have a sense for it, a not a learned way of doing it. I believe that this carried mostly by intuition/feeling/observations that with the head.
The analogy with manipulation with objects is a good one. I would add that seduction is more similar to learning a "movement" (surfing, backflip, skating, swimming), than with learning a step-by-step process on how to make a table, or build a car, etc...
I'm not so sure about seductive people planning their manipulation... at least I don't have that capacity to plan. I can feel I can influence someone, but personally I can just do it when I'm with the person.
What you think? Do you think seductive people know how to maneuver people? A bit like in chess or boxing? Like I move here, so you move there, so you can't do this... how do you think it works?
Do you have a sense for identifying that? I don't 😂
All great questions, and certainly great topics for further discussion!
Seducers often mislead our expectations. They come off as naturally charming, but everything charming about them has been learned, curated, and practiced. It’s true that if somebody makes something look effortless, it rarely ever is...
As such, I do believe the best seducers are those who fully understand what they’re doing and calculate nearly all controllable details they can. I believe these people typically accomplish this by learning their strengths and weaknesses first, then by watching the way people respond to their actions, language , etc.
I don’t think seducers plan their interactions any further than imagining probable outcomes and workshopping techniques to get there, all long before a handshake or meeting is made, because real life always deviates from our expectations and seducers need flexibility in the moment.
Seduction is always an improvisation of sorts, but a performance nonetheless, and it’s not successful without self-awareness and prior self-preparedness. For example, improv actors create brand new characters and new scenes right in front of a live audience by feeding off their co-actors’ actions and dialogue that wasn’t pre-rehearsed. While it’s fair to say that just about anybody can join in, I think we can all agree that improv shows would be far less entertaining and effective at story-telling if the actors had no previous experience onstage and no basic training. Seducers also do more than just show up and join in; they make every new meeting a chance to train, they learn from what works and what flops, and they treat every unexpected exchange as a improvised performance of their latest skills.
With time, I think all the knowledge, practical experience, and patterned behaviors a seducer develops might make their endeavors look and feel effortless in the moment, but I’d wager there’s still strategy behind every move.
You gave a great, well thought, response to his question, and I appreciate that.
@@TheMeansofSeduction So mastering seduction is going to take a long time.
@@simi6153 Understanding and practicing any skill can happen over a lifetime, with mastery being subjective. Even those I’d call “masters” of their given trades would never wish to see their progress plateau or fully peak. So, in that sense, it seems the true masters are probably just those who understand mastery comes moment by moment with individual victories and overcome obstacles...before something unique and unexpected swiftly reminds them that they are still mere apprentices and life-long students. You can develop seductive skills over time, but it doesn’t need to take a long time and there’s no prerequisites necessary to practice. Just have fun, experiment with the interactions you have, and learn as you go - mastery will creep up on you. Thank you for your comment!
I totally agree with you about this, I don't think that seduction is everytime intentional, sometimes we don't even realize. Yeah people can seduce one another by their movement and words, voice and all which is intentional and very much manipulative in the sense where the other person is totally into him/her. So, someone is into us then we are sometimes doing seducing with our behaviors and all. If someone is not into us i don't thik that any kind of seduction is worth while, in this case that's not manipulative. But in former cases that is totally manipulative for our intention to be succeeded. But I don't know if there is any tricks or something to make someone into someone and then using our intentional/ untentional seduction. I don't know may be, not everytime seduction is manipulative or even intentional. Not for everyone. I think its natural when we find someone of that particular vibes hits us and make us look to them in a seductive way because as the vibes are matching so obviously there is gonna be some sparks.
This channel is a hidden gem! It really shows that you put a lot of effort into your videos and their content! Looking forward to your next lessons
Thank you so much for watching and commenting! I appreciate your patience as I make new videos. Take care!
Please continue making these videos I love them
Thank you for watching!
You could say more that it's "influential" vs. "manipulative". Truthfully, everything we say is manipulative because all speech is given with a desired outcome.
lol i didn't know i've been doing this since i was a kid and know people actually believe my mysterious, charming persona and every little spill that i say.
Your videos are an absolute masterpiece, this feels like forbidden knowledge.
An example of seduction that really stuck with me is sayuri/chiyo in the movie/book the life of a geisha. The way they pay attention to even the little details and make themselves 'living art', seems to be the epitome of seduction.
For nothing else videos like this makes people better understand manipulation is not inherently a bad thing, so is not seduction, it is neutral, it is the ethics and Morales framework we build around it that determine it's efficiency in being positive or negative forces in our lives and others.
I've stopped using social media and I came across this channel and I'm enjoying it. Thank you for such information.
I don’t use social media either, save for this CZcams channel. It’s just not worth the emotional, psychological, and social damage. I’m happy to hear you’ve left it behind you. I hope you’ve found the personal benefits of not using it outweigh the “advantages” of having it; I sure did, and I’m all the more grateful I deleted accounts and never looked back. I wish you all the best on your journey! Take care.
This channel is so unique, aesthetic and interesting. Great video.
Seduction is not necessarily manipulative, because you can always CHOOSE to turn your attention away from said efforts to seduce.
I agree with this. seduction gives the target a CHOICE -- yes or no.
a dating coach described the difference as tempting someone on a diet to eat delicious dark chocolate cake versus tricking a vegan to eating a meal that secretly has meat in it.
the first is seduction the latter is manipulation
The fact is that people WANT to be seduced. You are bringing them on a journey
You have such a beautiful voice! And I love the music too.
Thank you so much! I’m glad you liked the music and my narration. Thanks for watching!
I really enjoy watching your videos. I feel so much more empowered after watching them. It is an excellent work! We are not usually used to see such a good work about a subject.. I would be so happy to see more on this channel..
This comment warmed my heart. I am so happy to hear that you’ve found some self-empowerment through my few videos. That’s the greatest compliment I could be paid, truly. Thank you for watching and leaving your comment. Take care!
Only two videos on the channel and I already know as soon as another comes out I will greatly enjoy watching it. I love all of the old movie clips, the editing style, the content, and your voice is perfect for narrating it, 11/10. Please make more of these!!
Thank you so much!
Looking in the eyes deeper as if you are "searching" something INCREASES your sex appeal
Please please please please make more videos. Your work until now is very entertaining and somewhat enriching.
This channel is gold!! Looking forward to more videos!
I really love your videos! You sound very seductive! and i love the way you break things down
Please upload more often... Your videos are amazing!
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These videos are sooo put together!
Just discovered this channel today, honestly can't wait for another video! ❤
This is my new favorite channel 💕 Please don't stop uploading videos
Love your channel. Taught me a great deal. Hope you make more videos about it 🤩
I can't wait for more videos!! I love the theme!!
Hi, Laura! Thanks for watching! Hope all is well.
Love the music choice! Really, it’s great.
Hello, Sydnee! Thank you so much for watching and commenting. This is the first comment I’ve seen about the music I use in these videos, so I find your feedback especially helpful! I’m glad to hear that the music fits and I’m on the right (sound)track with my direction for these videos. Thanks again for commenting! Take care!
Why just to...just stumbled upon to these great vids...wanna watch everything about it...please continue...
You have me very intrigued. I also love the use of clips from old movies. The body language says a lot. It’s something to watch over and over again to learn movements and mannerisms. Great job. ❤️❤️❤️
I was wondering if you would make videos on seductive language? Possibly also NLP, hypnotic seduction, covert seduction, and embedded commands in seduction?
Thank you so much for watching and for commenting! I’m glad you enjoyed the video and all the clips I featured. I think the film clips illustrate my points better than my words do sometimes! Also, yes, I will certainly make note of your suggestions for future videos. Those are great ideas. Thanks for the inspiration! Take care!
@@pmymode so cool she actually ended up making this video from your suggestion!
I'm really enjoying your content please upload more
I love your videos, you are brilliant
Since every action leads to a re-action, we literally manipulate all the time. I mean in order to raise kids we have to manipulate them to show them what kind of behaviour is acceptable in a society, so manipulation has a too negative conotation when it is actually neutral. Regarding seduction i think it is the heightened awareness and the strategic use of manipulative behaviour to aquire something that makes the difference. You didn´t talk too much about the moral part of it tho. Like where are the boundaries, what can be achieved without hurting someone etc.
We "model" to them what behavior is acceptable, not "manipulate."
Loving this content and looking forward to more.
Hi, Victoria! Thank you for watching!
Upload more
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Very interesting! Looking forward to new content!
I just subscribed . Keep going 💜
Manipulation is merely a tool. What it's used for is up to you
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Great video!!⚘💜😍
Hello !
Your video is so different from what I use to watch on CZcams about seduction.
Please post more.
I’m waiting for voice seduction . When are you dropping it?? I loved your videos! 🙃🙃
I just round this channel anda this si amazing, i hope you keep goign on. Greetings from Argentina.😁😁😁
Your videos are so helpful. Please make more
Loving your channel. Gracias 👍
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Thank you!
I really like that you use the black and white movies in your videos and I love your channel I'm waiting for the next video 🥰🥰
Love your videos!
Thank you, Charles!
although seduction is manipulative it is up to the person to determine whether to help someone or use it for negative as well. I appreciate you for making this video.
Waiting for the next lesson!!
Please I need more of this content
I really want to learn how to manipulate people, especially males..
Love it
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I subscribed, 👍. Great content, I guess I really act this way naturally. Please add more to your page. I love how you explain and voice sound. I know I could count of you💗
Hello! Hope all is well. Thank you for subscribing and for watching! More videos to come.
I am definitely suscribing to this channel.
Thank you for watching and subscribing! I appreciate your comments on my videos. Take care!
More videos please ✨
This channel only has 2 videos? Oww
Please make more videos!!
Your content is extremely insightful and interesting, and your video structure is fun; when is seduction using your voice coming out?
As a man this is golden information
Life is a game guys. Enjoy.
Waiting like those who waited for Rihanna's new music
Binge watching all your videos. I wanna become cleopatra 😭
I experienced this first hand about 2 years ago, the effect kicked in after a year, and I was literally bewitched for about 6 months. I was so oblivious at the time, and looking back I believe it was pure seduction at its finest from a fine and experienced woman.
super interesting. feels to me, a very honest presentation. this presentation, for me, illustrates well, some of my aversion to the concept.
I am unsure if you will respond due to the date that this video was produced, yet I was curious of you had read the Art of Seduction by Robert Greene, and what your thoughts on the book were if you did. Thank you for the wonderful videos!
I need moooooore videos ❤❤❤
Great videos😎☺️😘 appreciate
please upload more
This is a writers haven!
Love the video, hope you upload more. You are more informative than these gurus and PUA’s.
Definitely planning to upload more, when and as I am able to. Thank you so much for watching and leaving your feedback here! Take care.
@@TheMeansofSeduction I would like to know where did you get these information from. What shall I read to improve my “seduction skill” I check on CZcams it’s just weird guys and uneducated on this topic.
Alan Roger Currie is the King of verbal seduction. he's been at it since the 90s.
You must have read Robert Greene - Great Video!
Great content
Thank you! I’m glad you enjoyed the video. Take care.
I loved your videos and appreciate your work so much... Please do share seduction by voice also...
why don’t you have more videos???
Please make more of this videos
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I like your music taste , I love boogie woogie piano 🎹 genre of blues🎶
Wow nice
We are in a manipulative world, everyone does things that direct others to serve their needs in one way or another and that's okay. There is free will after all.
please post more videos
This was beautifully explained. I hope that people understand why manipulation is an important skill.
still waiting for the video Seduce with your voice!!
Can we please have more🥺
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Pls come back
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Sounds like Teal Swan's voice as the female narrator.
You are not the first to make this comparison! Interestingly enough, I saw a similar comment and it pushed me to look into the name. When I found her CZcams channel and checked out the most recent video there, I definitely noticed why some would hear us similarly. I am not Teal Swan, but I’m curious how many of her viewers will also make this comparison over time. Thanks for commenting!
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Thank you for your reply! I enjoyed your video. :)
I think she sounds remarkably like @shoe0nhead
please post more
Should of carry on making videos
When will you be making new videos? 🌸