Dr. Phil: EXTREME Mom Doesn't BACK DOWN | Dr. Phil Primetime | Merit Street Media
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- In this episode of Dr. Phil Primetime, Dr. Phil and a helicopter mom go TOE-TO-TOE over how she's raising her son. The mother thinks she's raising a successful child into adulthood even though she watches every move he makes, he still has a blankie, and she even CARRIES him to the bathroom! This boy is 13 YEARS OLD!
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The child looks like he has developmental delays because of the parenting.
Yes. I was thinking the exact same thing
He is definitely stunted!
Yeah his walking and running was very toddler like 😮
That so-called jog he does to the mailbox is likely the only exercise he’s done in his life.
She is the one with the problem!!!
I'm a mom and a grandmother and I'm telling you , if something ever happen's to her or the father this child will not be able to function on his own. We should raise our children to be self sufficient and be able to handle normal everyday life. This is what we leave this world parents raising children to not deal with anything.
She's not protecting him from obesity!
I was thinking the same!
Neither is Dr Phil. Psych drugs caused it. Ozambic was a colossal failure. Do not invest in wonder drugs. Humor is cheaper.
What 13 yr old holds his parents hands while out for a walk , that poor boy is gonna be so lost in the world
I feel bad for this boy. He is still being treated like he is 4 and he is almost a grown man. Appropriate boundaries for a child’s age prepares them for the world and adulthood. This mom is actually doing a detrimental thing for her son. 😢
I'm listening to her with my mouth hanging open!!! I pray for this young man causes she's not protecting him, she's stunting him in so many ways that it's scary! I'd love to fast forward to him 10-15 years down the road and see what his life is like!
Easy! Sitting in his bedroom with the curtains closed weighing 20 stone, with his mum bringing him cola and snacks and saying you're mummies favourite baby boy 😂
🙄 and when he finds a maid to marry someday and ends up with anxiety because he needs his way to exist (poor child)
@@susandavey2361 🎯 Exactly!
@@susandavey2361😂
She doesn’t want him to grow up. She’s keeping him dependent on her to meet her own emotional needs. Not teaching you child life skills isn’t showing love in my opinion 😮
She doesn't realize that she's abusing her son. He will not be prepared when he encounters conflict in the world.
He won't have to worry about the world because he won't ever leave home.
Like most of our young today. How do they have the time to protest when they should be learning? If they have time to protest, they have time to work.
Mother enmeshed syndrome- a syndrome where the umbilical cord has not been cut . These children grow up and are unable to have a normal relationship with another female and Mom comes first. Subtly manipulated since childhood to meet her needs. I have seen depressed, hostile adults males who believe their mother is PERFECT yet beneath " their facade " , they resent always pandering towards her needs. Daily visits required not just for a week if mommy gets ill but year long throughout their adult lives.
Mother enmeshed syndrome.
Seduction also can be involved.
He's her support animal. As long as she's alive he'll never have his own life.
And when she dies, he won't know how to function. Sad
This woman is unwell.
With all the killings of kids in schools etc she’s got issues definitely
She's a narc!
I think she's more immature than the kid is.
A million percent.
She is teaching him to be fearful….the mailbox thing…
she's telling him "I don't trust you to know what to do with yourself" "you don't have what it takes to make decisions" which is stunting his self-confidence
I’m certain he’s gonna be a huge man with the strength of an ox and the personality of a child. That’s a problem.
She is also attracting energetically a disaster with her fear. More or less cursing her son with her energy, unknowingly
She fears him going to the mailbox? Watching this 13 year old boy run, he runs like a 5 year old. It's probably too late already for this kid.
She is going to scare away any girls he might be interested in. I cant imagine what she will be like as a mother in law.
He won't find anyone to marry since he stays home all day eating junk and playing video games
Well, he will never have a girlfriend, she will never let him
Women like her are the absolute worst because no woman will ever be good enough for her son. He will end up resenting his mother.
That's IF he ends up liking girls in the first place.
Incel
Step one
She's incredibly obsessed with her son. Very weird and creepy for a MOTHER
Agreed . When hes gaming creepy stroking his hair
I’m with you two.
That hair stroking just grossed me out.
@@Habschiefsgirl I sense that she means well, but that certainly has a negative effect on the youngster. I'm also wondering how much of this is conditioned into mothers.
I know too many fathers with creepy obsession with their daughter. Mother/son couples, too... narcissistic parents, that's what it is. They do not care about their kids or helping them to grow up and be self sufficient
@@No-xs1no That's from the oversexualization that's been in the media since the 50's or earlier. Schools are run with no interest in spiritual or creative development, or very little. They're factories for the cookie-cutter society and jobs.
Her selfish anxieties are crippling this kid. I actually have sympathy for him.
She's smothered him so much he can't even walk properly
He’s probably not allowed/encouraged to ‘run’ and ‘play’ like ‘normal’ children. He’ll eventually come to resent her for this abusive parenting style. She’s a very sick individual and Dad, or grandparents, should put a stop to this situation.
@@Bic1977-hd4ph totally agree!
That’s his weight. While she’s protecting him from the world she doesn’t look in her own kitchen and see what he’s eating.
Not just the weight I weighed 300 pounds and still walked and ran as normal. That walk is a lack of muscle and activity.
@@whiskeytango-pl5htYes, I think you’re right - I bet he has almost no muscle strength at all - even walking, he looked off balance
I remember when my kids were little i watched Dr Phil all the time. I remember him saying more than once .."youre not raising children, youre raising adults". And that stuck with me....
It just seems so selfish to me. She doesn't behave like this for his benefit, but hers.
If she’s protective about his health , Stanton needs to go to a nutritionist.
That kid is gonna REALLY rebel when he hits puberty 😭 lol
She’s literally obsessed with him. This is borderline creepy!
Bringing a child up in an atmosphere of fear and control --- What could possibly go wrong?
That mother is doing such a disservice to her son. She needs to raise him to be a strong, independent man that can provide for himself and for his family. Time to cut the apron strings mom! There is still time. Your future daughter-in-law will thank you.
There won't be a future daughter-in-law if she continues raising him this way.
She’s doing a disservice to SOCIETY as a whole…SHE is why this country is in an FING NOSEDIVE
Cut the apron strings? She still has not cut the umbilical cord!
@@jonnaosborne7234 😆😆😆 very true!
@@jonnaosborne7234😂
This woman will not like any woman he wants to marry.
Marry......don't make me laugh😅
He won't want that because he will be too busy with his mother. She needs to stop controlling his every move. I thought I was strict with my kids but dang no way... They got to go do things like normal kids.
He is married to his mom. I wonder if they will involve a minister
With the way she acts… meeting someone will be very difficult for him.
Or....the mother feels like he can do no wrong so she may feel like whoever he chooses to marry is the best person to walk the earth! I've seen that happen.
What happens to him if something should ever happen to her? It is her job to raise a well adjusted man who can take care of himself. Really sad.
In my experience, parental involvement is key to a child's success. A child who knows the pure love and interest of devoted parents has a much better chance to learn stability, love and confidence to become a kind, productive citizen than does a child whose parents give him over to babysitters, daycares, schools and programs from day one. Those kids tend to learn that they are just in the way of their parents seeking material things and fun. They learn that material things and a good time are worth more than respecting people. As adults, they find it hard to hold a relationship, a stable home or a job. From one grandma to another, that's just what I've noticed.
I know so many parents who have never allowed their children to grow up. These parents are now paying the freight while being disrespected disrespected by these same children. And we wonder why we've got problems.
He will more than likely come to despise his parents.
NO!
SHE IS SELFISH AND NEEDS TO BE LOVED !
ME ME ME !!!!!
I had a relative do this to her daughter. When she turned 16 she went wild.
Dr. Phil is going all in with the cultural wars! This is awesome!!!!
The way her son was running back from getting the mail…this lady has no idea what she’s in store for
She is treating him as a toddler and he is behaving like a toddler and he is overweight
Mom should be ashamed of herself
Dr. Phil thank you for standing up for America. Thank you for standing up and pointing out things that are destructive to our society. Prayers for you and your family. Keep it up. God bless you.
I wish Dr. Phil would’ve asked her “so how will he take care of himself should you meet an untimely death, possibly tomorrow?” 😱
I served in the military to pay for my education. It pisses me off that people get their education paid off when I had to spend every minute out of work on education.
Helicopter mom? That sounds like a GTA mission! 😂😂
That poor kid. That mother is mental
I'm stunned to see a dad in the picture who would allow their son to be treated like this. Something tells me he's passive in the relationship because it causes extreme consequences if he speaks up.
Dr Phil if they ever cancel you I’m just cancelling everything all together. You always try to be a strong empowered voice and support for people while maintaining and leading fair discussions. Keep it up 👏🏻
The devouring mother.
all the pictures are of him as a 4 year old. That is how she sees him, how she wants him to be.
My father is a narcissist. He sabotaged his children' independence and ability to function normally. He did this so he wouldn't lose us, we were supposed to stay dependent on him, which gave him control. I can't help but to compare this woman with my father
Her behavior might make sense if the child has special needs, but they didn't mention that he has any developmental issues in the clip.
He may not now but he will with a parent like that!
I thought he was delayed by the way he walking with his parents at 5:03.
This is going to end badly for this poor boy... She has no one to blame but herself.
Omg does he know how to cross the street by himself
Of course not, not without mommy holding his hand.😂
I wonder if he can tie his own shoelaces.
She said he eats healthy but...he doesn't look like he's eating that healthy because he's overweight. He sits around the house sedentary and plays video games. Plus she shelters him so much, she's likely not lettinging him go outside to get exercise, and probably not allowing him to play basketball or baseball. Ridiculous! She needs to stop spoiling and babying him and let him be a normal; well-adjusted boy. If she continues to enable this problem, he will never fit in to society. He will be a misfit and probably picked on and alienated.
If she loved her son. She would help him lose weight and be fit. He looks very unhealthy for a 13 yrs old.
She clearly has good intentions but is allowing her life to be ruled by fear which is a terrible disservice to this young man. Struggle is a part of life and when these growing kids don’t have the tools to cope or navigate the inevitable challenges and struggles of life it is a DISASTER for them. This is why suicide and drug addiction is so high. This father has a responsibility to prepare this young man to be a man and he is probably terrified of his wife. Wild.
Heaven forbid something happens to her and he's not ready to care for himself or ready to handle reality that poor son
In my experience, parental involvement is key to a child's success. A child who knows the pure love and interest of devoted parents has a much better chance to learn stability, love and confidence to become a kind, productive citizen than does a child whose parents give him over to babysitters, daycares, schools and programs from day one. Those kids tend to learn that they are just in the way of their parents seeking material things and fun. They learn that material things and a good time are worth more than respecting people. As adults, they find it hard to hold a relationship, a stable home or a job.
As a Single Mom I raised two boys that are now successful and respectful. It’s good to set boundaries, then you must let kids have the opportunity to exercise them. Example: “ I am allowing you to spend the night in a group overnight, however if you decide to sneak out and teepee someone’s home and I find out, not only will you go alone and clean up the mess, you will also be available for an entire day to mow the people’s lawn, rake leaves, wash their cars, or whatever chores they ask of you.” Side note: the Dad went in to check on the four boys and my Son was the only kid in the house at 1 a.m. the Dad yelled out where are the boys and my Son said please don’t yell at me Sir because I’m here” Yep true story🥰
She’ll never have grand children
That's because according to her she still has a child. 😂
Lots of people don’t have grandchildren. I don’t have grandchildren in. My kids are doing fine. It’s their life not mine.. If they have kids that’s fine if they don’t that’s fine.
Yep, no woman in her right mind would allow helicopter mom to stand there and hold it up for him. 😅
@@shijshi 🤣🤣
They will be back in 10 years because he will be an adult child mooching off his mom. She is setting him up for failure, sad.
No they won't, because that's exactly what she wants. She's stunting him on purpose so that he never leaves her. She's sick.
Everybody keeps talking about the young man and yet nobody mentions the poor Dad living with this woman.
I love this TV station!!!!! Yur awesome Dr Phil!!!
Dr Phil has a very strong projection to his voice as I always have to turn the volume down a little. If only the younger generation could speak with such confidence. Stay strong, Dr Phil!
I love Dr Phil. Why not show full episodes on here for people that can't get this channel yet. Thanks .
please,tell me you're JOKING!!!!!!!😱😱😱😱😱😱😱
I raised 6 kids. If I'm being brutally honest with myself I'd say that one of my biggest faults as a parent was that I was too easy on them. I wanted to be like by them. They are now, form the most part, weaker for it.
Her intentions are 100% selfish, she has no love for her son, none
She is teaching him to be. Fearful
Run son run!!
I wish this network was available in Canada. Something to consider maybe😊
Just get the app. I live in Sydney Australia and I downloaded the app and can watch all the programs Merit+
I’ll bet he’s bullied and there’s no surprise that he’s heavy either
No cuter than any one else’s child
Parenthood is a balancing act of letting them explore this world but also making sure they’re safe.
She should be arrested for child abuse because that is what this is.
She’s keeping him from living and experiencing it. He’s at an age where most parents start giving their child a little rope to see how they handle that and then decide whether they need to rein them back in or give them some more rope. The harm she’s doing is unbelievable and she’s not preparing him to be a husband, a father, or head of a household.
This is an example of why Fathers are important.
If this boy had a strong father figure he’d learn when he scrapes his knees he needs to get back up and keep running.
This is why Gen Z is so emotionally sensitive many are fatherless and babied/sheltered
Life has some rude adjustments for this boy because life isn’t going to treat this man like his mommy does.
Yes, mom, it is your job to love him and raise him, but you shouldn't be smothering him.When he gets out into the real world he's going to be lost 😢
Everybody needs to have a mom that they know will have their back no matter what. I think the solid foundation that a loving and secure home provides will give him the confidence and stability to make wise decisions as an adult.
She is the devouring mother. That boy will grow up convinced of his helplessness.
Amen Brother Phil
That mother is NOT doing her son any favours!!! (And pull out one of those guns & spontaneously chose to use it with poor judgment- & his mother will be in prison & not able to parent!) She has nothing to be proud about. She is not teaching her son resilience!😳😳😳
man the best thing I have heard from TV in a long time please keep it up this country has gone to You know what for a long time.
That child may easily end up rebelling against her over protective nature and doing just what she was trying to protect him from. Good luck with that, lady!
My first husband was controlled by his mother. She became so possessive that our marriage ended.
Poor kid.
Absolutely bananas
While I agree with always being there for your child when they need you, you cannot hover over them the way these helicopter Mom's do. You need to let them be their own person and you need to guide them through their problems not navigate them for them, they have to learn to be decent, independent people, you're not always going to be in this world so you need to prepare them to do things without you and let them be themselves and find out for themselves who they are.
I feel so bad for that kid. Your child needs his privacy! He needs to live his own life!
This woman is terrified of life. ALL her energies and focus on her only son will debilitate the family in the long run. He's a prime target for bullying too.
I'm curious, what's going to happen to this young man when momma is gone ?
He will live with her till she's gone, and he will just drift away from there.
When Statons mom passes away he will be a helpless young man. I feel so sorry for him and all the experiences he is missing out on
I'm a mom who begged my son not to move out 😢 even though hes almost 20, because i am afraid no one will protect him like I can, but he moved out anyway 😢. So I told him he'll always have a home to come back to if he ever needs me❤
He needs to learn the skills that you have - how to keep himself safe. Thats the way Nature intended. You wont live forever and you want him to keep going.
@@queenbee3647 well said 😊his dad said the same thing.. I let him go so hopefully he will learn to take care of himself ❤️
Bless his heart! What would that child do if she suddenly dies? She is setting up his life to struggle. We are supposed to teach kids how to grow up and survive with out us!!!
He’s not running back from that letterbox because he’s so filled with excitement of getting back to mum… mum has pumped him full of fear and anxiety and to me he looks like he’s running back from that letter box “scared of the world” 😬
I had a very scared and protecting mom, when I grow up a had an depression because I hadn’t t learn to protect myself I had to learn emotional a lot, I didn’t do that to my daughters and I am so proud off them because they can stand on their 2 feet. It has been a very hard lesson
That poor young man, she made him into an overgrown 3 year old!!!
Seems like her child exists to make HER feel safe and happy. If she wants him to feel safe and cared for, then she needs to give him autonomy. He has none in this scenario.
This is one of the worst parents I have EVER SEEN & I've seen many. I would not be surprised to see this kid turn out to be a serial killer. He has no socializing, no coping, no idea how to get along in society and no matter what she thinks she will not be around forever and then what will this young man do? This is scary bad.
He has a father in the house too🤦🏾♀️
My girls are in their 20s now .. I’ve never shielded them from life and they played out with their friends when they were young so they gained independence .. I’ve ALWAYS been there for support and advice but I’ve told them that the things they go through in life is what makes them grow! I’ve taught them to find the positive lessons from negative experiences and it turns a negative to something positive! She’s damaging her child with her behaviour.. she’s infantilising him so he won’t function in the real world!!
My niece was raised the same way. Now she's 30, still lives @ home...doesn't drive & never had a job in her life..She's depressed, anxious & the saddest human alive...
My friend of age 76 wife is like this with her 55 year old son. Still trying to raise him
I wish Dr.Phil good luck with his new channel.
Dr. Phil - your next book needs to be titled ‘Beanbags and Cheetos’! 😊
by the age of 13 my daughters knew how to take care of themselves. They would beg me to call to get a replacement part for a broken toy or to register for a community service class. I made them do it so they would know how to handle things like that. People reading this might think I abandon my daughters but i was there to guide them along the way. I still cooked and cleaned and seen that they got to where they needed to be for school. To this day they are 34 and 27 and both are successful in their fields and are very capable adults. I am very proud of my daughters and the job I did raising them.
My thought when raising my 3 children was to have them be able to take care of themselves if anything happened to me and their dad.
I personally know a single mom who was very much like this. And yes, her son is not doing very well as an adult. Makes me very sad as his classmates have gone on to live great lives and in his 30s he is still living at home and has never experienced dating someone...so dependent on her...😪
Ladies and gents meet Norma Bates and her son Norman Bates
Our Children learn from us (good and bad), The Parents need to raise their Children to be independent and have a good job, a house, and eventually a Family.
One of the last people I would ever ask advice from would be "Dr. Phil".
They will be slapped with the harsh reality that in the workforce, they are just a number and everyone is replaceable.
In my experience, kids raised by devoted and involved mothers tend to have the drive and confidence to pursue their own successful business.