Margaret Rudin Case Analysis | Black Widow Motivated by Greed
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- čas přidán 13. 09. 2024
- This video answers the question: Can I analyze the case of Margaret Rudin?
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I like when toxic people find each other, therefore not screwing up two regular peoples’ lives.
LOL. clean up that gene pool!
There's a quotation about that.
Don't know if I can find it.
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Yes, and hopefully there are no children involved.
LucyVanPelt That's a great comment!
I appreciate that this video was uploaded on what would have been the couple's anniversary. Purposeful? With Dr. Grande's attention to detail and dry humor, probably!
I have noticed he usually uploads a video on the same date as an important date in the video. Impressive, Dr. Todd.
Anyone suspect Grande is an evil mastermind?
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Absolutely
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If you think your spouse will kill you , get out of the marriage, get out of the house
Maybe do the second one first
Excellent advice
as a former nurse that worked in psych settings i have to say i love your channel and come here frequently. i still have learned a lot from listening to you and i appreciate that. at the same time your pieces on narcissist hits home, i was married to one for nine years and went through hell. i just recently recognized that i might be fly paper for narcissists and i had to end a lot of friendships because they were narcissistic and abusive, i am still learning so thank you for your dedication to bring us your videos.
This couple were too much of everything! Too many marriages, too many divorces, too much secrecy, too many fights ! I’m glad the law finally caught up with her .
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It is a nice shirt...
The nice way to say it is, that shirt looks nice on you.
I wonder why someone would stay in a marriage if they were not only seriously unhappy, but actively wanted to kill their spouse/knew their spouse actively wanted to kill them.
Because divorce she’d likely get nothing or little. Plus its such a pain /s. Murder you get all the money and no ex to deal with.
The good part of the question is, why remain married to someone when you suspect they might be wanting to murder you? Especially when you’re the breadwinner of the household. Maybe a divorce would give so much to the other spouse it would ruin your business.
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@@Mama_Bear524 rrr
The only reason I can think of is that it costs too much money to get a divorce. Murder is free but gets you life in prison.
Marriage, like murder, is a permanent solution to a temporary problem.
Dr Grande has taught me how to tell people that they are bi polar without them flipping out on me. I just hit them with a "Just a reminder, I am not diagnosing anyone, only speculating what could be happening in a situation like this".
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Dr. G, You’re a beast! I don’t know how you get these videos out so quickly but I certainly do appreciate it. As a fellow psychologist, I love your content. Please keep it coming!
Very nice hat!
He reads from Wikipedia then puts his analysis on it
@@2legit2Kwit That's not entirely true. I have often followed up watching one of his videos by checking out the case on Wikipedia and it never has the same degree of finite detail that Dr Grande includes in his telling of the story. Clearly he visits a number of areas of research before broadcasting a video on anything.
I wait for the day we find out ‘Dr. G’ is a set a triplets…
Nice hat. Who are you trying to look like, a secret agent?
When you start firing guns at each other, you need to separate. If you feel the need to put caveats in your will stipulating that your spouse can’t benefit from offing you, you need to separate. If you hate your spouse enough to kill him/her, you need to separate.
This comment seems to pay homage to Dr. Grande's signature use of understatement.
Marriage counseling goals.
Zackly. Lol.
There’s no fun in that at dysfunction junction
My mom has bpd and I’ve seen her legit shoot at someone she even had the swat team called on her once for a fight with her at the time husband (as with some with bpd she had … several) that involved her apparently pointing a shotgun at him and trying to pull the trigger. Had he not stuck his thumb behind the trigger and had it almost cut off in the process , story might have ended like this one 🤦♀️ I mean truth is really stranger than fiction sometimes. And if you ever ask for her side of the story, oh man she’s the victim 100% and takes zero zero zero responsibility for her actions.
On a side note she has helped save a lot of dogs from being put down and gotten them adopted so I guess there is a silver lining to everyone
@@HeatherHolt Sorry that you had to go through that. I know someone that pulled a gun on her husband. She lost custody of her two kids because of it. She's never been diagnosed but bpd does fit. She's remarried and has another baby now. Lord help them both.
Who would have ever thought of a murder mystery that includes Las Vegas, holy oil and scuba diving ?
There were enough red flags in this story to decorate the Kremlin on Lenin’s birthday!
Brian, you have spoken truths as big as a building, and funny too.
Hahaha
Long story short... the coochie
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Brian Garrow Hilarious. Thanks.
Happy to see all the subscribers that are being added to your channel! You deserve it and thanks for all the great episodes.
“Obtaining as much information as possible before the marriage allows somebody to make an informed decision, this can help prevent a lot of unpleasant discoveries after the marriage.” This seems like a no brainer, however we can observe that people will either not give enough time to get to know each other or they will only see what they want to see. Generally speaking, although marriage is one of the most important decisions in someone’s life, it is done with very little scrutiny.
Insightful thoughts as always, thank you Dr. Grande. Also, I hope you have a pleasant weekend.❤️
I smiled, reading your comment - I once met a clinical psychiatrist (a real man of/for the people), a great empath♥️. He said only Marry after 25 years of intense dating😉😍🔥
@@dortesandal4303 Lol, that’s a good one.👌🏼
Its hard to decide how long and WHAT is needed to know about a person before marriage. cohabitation is correlated with high divorce rates, and that seems like the best way to gather info about someone before marriage. being sexually active before marriage (especially for the woman), which is also a function of most cohabitating couples, is correlated with higher divorce rates. So, i don't see the evidence to suggest that we need to figure people out (to the extent of sleeping with them or living with them) before we marry them. But I do get that if marriage is a really important decision, we'd want to discern if the person is right for us. It's just not clear WHAT we are discerning/ looking for. We are pretty lost in this department, I think.
@@dortesandal4303 I'm curious, what are the differences between an empath, empathy, and sympathy?
@@dortesandal4303 Wise words.
Charles Dickens said, “A loving heart is the truest wisdom”. It seems like these two people, despite having 8 marriages between them, had neither a loving heart nor wisdom.
Very nice! 💛
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about 12 months before the murder, I represented an insurance company in the trial of a case filed by Margaret. I cross -examined both Margaret and Ron on the stand. When Ron "disappeared" and was subsequently found in a trunk at Nelson's Landing, it was pretty clear to me what had happened.
She got a very light sentence, considering it was obviously first degree murder.
No proof she did it
She's gross
Delighted you're "not diagnosing but only speculating" this early on a Saturday Dr Grande !!
Imagine this greedy tick’s disappointment when she discovered Ron was “stingy.”
At 11:27 the word *detonation* takes the WHOLE CAKE🌷🌺🌷. ROFL...ROLLING ON THE FLOOR LAUGHING. 🌺😀✅🌺
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Your sharp “deadpan” humor is immensely entertaining, and your voice is so soothing.
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People get married every single day without really knowing much about their partner. It's amazing people rush into something that important. I took my time and didn't marry my wife until I had visited the club she worked at a few times and gotten several lap dances from her!
Hahahaha, omg. You gotta stop, I'm dying.😂😂😂😂😂😂😂👍🏻
Lololol
This
This is the way!
Wise man! 😂😂😂
“You gotta keep the lawn mowed, so you can see the SNAKES when they comin fo ya”
What an evil woman! Great advice when you said "Obtaining as much knowledge before the marriage, allows someone to make an informed decision."
Also loved the little smirks you had when talking about her defense attorney! 😂♡♡
It would be interesting to have Dr. give his take on Frederick Bourdin, a French guy who pretended to be a boy who went missing in 1994.
"Detonation of his career"!! Love it!! It seems almost that defense attorneys pull questionable maneuvers in court to open up a basis for an appeal. As Geragos (sp?) or the defense attorney for Scott Peterson has publicly admitted that: He hopes that a judge will find fault with the competence of his defense strategy to earn Peterson a re-trial!!?? I am not picking on reputable defense attorneys here but this seems like a very unfair situation for taxpayers and innocent family members alike.
I was thinking that too. I wonder what the repercussions are if a lawyers defense is later found to be incompetent. Like for the lawyer. Maybe nothing (besides bad press maybe?) in which case it would be a pretty shady idea but one that could work to at least get a retrial.
This never occurred to me. It makes all kinds of sense, now. Thanks!
I remember that Geragos is a man of dubious principles, so I would not put it past him.
I remember watching this on one of the unsolved mysteries type shows. I love watching those then learning about the mental health (underlying factors, etc) about these people in these cases.
Interesting now I see where he also gets his material from .... He does clinical analysis on basically everybody and still counting he connects the dots mentally he's like forensic files the show except from a psychologist point of view ⚖️🧐
This case was also covered by Forensic Files. Unsolved Mysteries is a really iconic series to.
I love when you break down a court case Dr Grande! You're the best! Thank you for your analysis!💖💖
The problem with trying to get to know someone before you marry them is that narcissists can pretend to be one way for quite a long time, and then they change once they know they have you. I speak from experience, unfortunately.
Same here unfortunately
@@janemerenda399 I’m sorry. :(
Yes..............they literally feel you relax. It’s like shark sense
It’s sad how some don’t take marriage seriously anymore.
Great video Dr Grande!!!
Haha! The accidental look of horror on Dr Grande’s face in the cut after he said, “she married and divorced 4 times” is priceless!
I went back to see that, thank you.
First time playing the video, I was listening but not watching.
Yep, that cut in editing was just coincidentally on point!
Dr Grande is one of my Like before even watching youtubers. There’s no question in it, I’m going to enjoy it! Keep up the good work!
Watching your new videos is a part of my daily routine. Thanks for all of the thoughtful and consistent content!
Dr. Grande, your videos teach me so much! Will you make one about the Dalia Dippolito case?
Dr. Grande’s gettin’ ready for fall in that nice, fall shirt.
I remember this fiasco on COURT TV.
Man, I loved that channel!! The new Court TV online is just too confusing for me.
Ah, the black widow case! Great subject, Dr. Grande. She only served 20 years. This one should be good!
Can't believe I'm here so early! 😳
I saw the forensic files version of this. Forensic Files is a great show.
*Dr. Grande posts a new video*
Me: YAY!!!!
Also me: GotDANGIT that means I have to do my friggin' dishes now
At least you'll be entertained now 😉👌🏼
No worries, the dishes will definitely wait for you. Nobody will sneak into the kitchen and wash them for you 😅😅😅
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@@kimsmith819 😂😂
I listen to this channel while doing housework too. Makes the work go faster, doesn’t it?
I always enjoy your video's and your great sense of humor, dr. Grande. Love from the Netherlands
Thank you Dr Grande for another great case analysis/speculation. Very well researched. Don't know how you manage to fit such a cogent and factual story into a video in less than 20 minutes. You have it down to a fine art at this stage. Love these videos. Thanks again Doc!
Indeed. Thank you, Dr. Grande. ✌
I used to work in a "Family Law" office. (Translation: Divorce) The first lesson I learned - Water rises to its own level. The second lesson I learned - Marry in haste, repent at your leisure.
What? No OCEAN?! 😂
Perhaps the obvious shit storm was enough. 😎👍 Thank you Dr.Grande for another glimpse into personalities to avoid.
Good god...
If I had to tell someone to fully investigate the circumstances of my death if I died violently,
I'D GET A FREAKING DIVORCE!!!
Why stay with someone you think capable of killing you with whom you fight all the time!!!
Moved the coffee cup again.
You left Christmas out. What happened?
Always interesting.
I've been keeping up with this case.
Her eyes are creepy
His back drop is where is Walldo book
I can’t believe they let her out on parole
Thank You! Hope you're enjoying your afternoon!
So happy you're doing this one! Thank you, Dr. Grande.
Very interesting and informative video with aspects I hadn’t heard before.
The delivery and analysis is very stoic. New sub. Excellent content!
Yes I agree -the good Dr is handsome in this shirt. And all his very colorful shirts. Ps I’m a older married woman. Not trying to stalk the Dr. Just loving that I found this channel! 🤠💕
I appreciate your uploads Doc, wish you were my Doctor/Therapist as I think your approach is smack on every time 😊
Can l have one of those heart kisses too, Dr Grande, if l say thank you for all you do to make my day? You're the best!
By the way, l'm not Agusti - l'm his wife.
I met Ron Rudin at his office when I first moved to Vegas. I remember his big white Cadillac. I worked in a phone room in that strip mall in Charleston BL. 5132 West Charleston BL was the address.
I followed this closely after it happened.
Great analysis Dr.
Tea Time with Dr. Grande speaking about a Black widow. Who could ask for anything more? 🧡
Her favorite part of the marriage vows was probably till death do we part !😅😅😅😅😅😅 so many red flags, one wonders how he could walk around without tripping 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣. How i look forward to my daily doses of laughter! Tyvm
So glad I have a simple, humble life--No money for anyone to misappropriate their true intentions...
Dogs are not supposed to chew on rabbits!
For once, I'd like the good Doc to diagnose the psychological profile of these husbands who stay with wives intent on killing them for the money. That would be truly interesting. Lol
Hello this is Ms. Klein. A fan from Pennsylvania!! 🙋♀️
Hi dr grande, how are you? Things going well? Its a melancholy type of day for me, thanks for your awesome vids have a good one
Good morning!! Another excellent analysis with dry humor
Another interesting case. Thank you Dr. Grande!
The case is a mystery:
Lawyer didn't know anything
Plea deal guy didn't know anything
She runs away but comes back to USA 🇺🇸
Who is pulling the actual strings?
Good presentation
Divorce is so much easier than murder.
When I clicked on this link, Dr. Grande had posted this 3 hours ago and the likes were at 666. This means he is receiving an average of 222 likes per hour. I hope you find my analysis to be informative, thank you for reading.
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People who get married 3+ times skew the average for marriages that end in divorce, because the chances of a happy marriage after you've already been married thrice are very low. Just stop aiming for monogamy at that point
How Very Sad for Ron, and his Family!💔💔💔💔🙏🙏🙏🙏 RIP
Hi, Dr. Grande.🙋🌵🪴🌵🪴 I'm watching you again!☺️ I remember when this happened. Apparently, I've read/watched Alot of True Crime! Lol
looking forward to this one! thanks for all you do!
Never heard of the case but as always enjoy your analysis. Thanks Dr G😊🧡🧡
Snapped would be a good place to see stories like this.
@@nadiazahroon6573 Yes thx I used to watch that show 👍
@@zenawarrior7442 Watch the Marie Hilley case.
@@nadiazahroon6573 👌Thx for the suggestion!
👍🏻awesome as always Dr. G!
Interesting to note that this Dr. Grande vid was uploaded on September 11, 2021, *exactly* 34 years after Margaret & Ron were married - September 11, 1987.😊
Great video again! How do you manage to keep the quality. Love the analysis and your sense of humor.
Oh man when she said she saw a red blob I thought she was talking about that old movie "The Blob" It's red and came through the sink in the bowling alley in one scene 🤣☺❣
Dr. Grande,
Thank you for your work. I’m wondering if you have ever considered looking at Patty Hearst and how she behaved during her kidnapping by the Manson family?
I e been watching some of your old videos (2 years ago) & your humor is always so fascinating to me 👌🏼🤣🤣 it's never a good sign when you think your wife is planning to kill u. Maybe just divorce to broad 🙄🤦🏼♀️🤯
Man, it's nucking futz how much easier it was to commit crimes, hide evidence and evade the authorities it used to be. Even as recently as 20 to 25 yrs ago, forensic evidence gathering and surveillance technology was just atrocious compared to now. Not to mention the fact that now information moves so quickly that it is next to impossible to 'disappear', unless you legit know what the hell you're doing and have a ridiculously high affinity for disciplining oneself.
Dr. Grande, could you please speculate about the situation involving CZcamsr Jordan Cheyenne, who accidentally uploaded video of herself trying to coach her (already) crying son to look more sad for a thumbnail? What drives people to behave that way? Will that kind of manipulation have a lasting impact on her child?
Thank you for the suggestion. That video is coming up next.
The guy turned around because he heard it was raining in California? This sounds absolutely stupid, but there are actually many people in Nevada and California who are like this. It rains so rarely that these people are terrified of driving in the rain. So its not as bad of an excuse as it sounds. Its actually one of the less stupid things these murderers did.
You da man!!! Dr. G!!!!
❤ your channel.
Ooh goody. Kids just left and I've fed the cat. Crime time. Go for it, Doc 🙂
Do a review of the Ryan Waller interrogation. I would like to know what the hell these Police interrogators were thinking??? And how they missed it!!!! lol
The ''til death do us part' part =)
Good morning, Dr. Grande! Have a restful weekend! ❤️
Great video! Please do Steve Jobs soon. That would be a very interesting read.
Does anyone else think 🤔 this marriage couple are drama magnets? People like this are the reason I have zero appetite for soap operas. 🤔🇺🇸❤️
I always found that couples with life stories that read like a Dostovesky novel are made for each other. After absorbing the details of this case it's hard to feel much empathy for either partner. Margaret's sister seems to point toward an amoral childhood or at least conspiratorial (Ya ya) sisterhood?
"... his big break..." 😆👍
Just appropriate the Sept 11 time of the wedding, but that is not causal. 😍😂😍It just seems how inappropriate it is that there is so much mistrust in a marriage, where there should be perfect trust. Thanks for the perfect analysis Dr. Grande. ✅👍✅
Thanks for making it this early too. 👍😂👍
There is no rhyme or reason for these dark crimes, unless Margaret was the instigator. 😅😀😅
Just so..
I DON'T LIKE THE FACT THAT MY CHANCES OF SURVIVAL SEEM TO BE LINKED TO THE COMMON SENSE OF OTHERS.
I was trying to figure out who killed who at first when his previous wife offed herself. This is a sad story with what seems like rippling effects.
That they got married in that quickie chapel made sense. The likelihood that they would get divorced was pretty high, and divorce proceedings are always long and arduous. So, get married fast, saving time that could be spent on the divorce.
That was a brilliant video. Thank you Dr Grande.
😍 it the shirt for me, thanks for the video
How about the jewelry that Rons previous wife gave him its was an golden bracelet that has Ron written with diamonds on top of a gold. And the police found this near the skeleton or something like that. Like if somebody is going to kill somebody and they have their name on a bracelet on their hand wouldnt you wanna remove it?🤣🤣
I feel like this Lovato guy could watch shooting, then wake up 5 months later in the dead of night, covered in sweat and go “I think that guy got shot!”.
It seems like we have heard of numerous instances where women tell their friends or family that if something happens to them, their husband/boyfriend will be the one who is responsible. THEN, almost unbelievably, they stay in the relationship. This is the first case I have heard of where the GUY suspected his wife might kill him, and not only stayed in the relationship but gave her 40% and then 60% interest in his estate. What was he thinking? Was he thinking? Seems like there must have been something else going on that we don't know about. Was she blackmailing him? Secondly, it always amazes me when people who have committed premeditated murder are sentenced to "life in prison" but with the possibility of parole after 20 years or so. In the first place, that is NOT life in prison. In the second place, does the person they murdered have the possibility of coming back to life after 20 years? Because the murderer is alive, they have at least the chance of going on with their life, while the victim never can. This is not justice.
I busted out laughing when you read what her lawyer said in court 🤣!!
Another great video
Very well written
Can't wait till you start writing for HBO.
Cheers mike.
Lucyvanpelt....Very well said!