Transgressions of Four Mormon Church Leaders | Gary James Bergera | Ep. 1703

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  • @mrsaint3940
    @mrsaint3940 Před 2 měsíci +4

    I was born and raised Mormon. Got sent home early from my mission and lived my most of my life feeling like I was never good enough. I don't know all the trauma I have dealt with, but these videos have been tough to watch because it is so personal to me.That said, they are also helping me get through the emotional blocker I have had my whole life when it comes to the Church. 31 now and up until yesterday I would still claim to be mormon, even though I haven't been super active in 8-9 years.... I felt strength from these videos to finally admit its not true. It sucks feeling like most of your life was a lived on a lie. Thank you for what you do. I'd be honered to be on your show. My parents moved to Missouri for the 2nd coming.

  • @JudeNance
    @JudeNance Před rokem +18

    I see betrayal by denying their affairs. As a woman, I see betrayal in the affairs. I got a divorce in 1975 because my husband had been having affairs. I wanted a man that I could trust and lay my soul next to. I never found that in my 82 years so I never got married again.

  • @scottpurves
    @scottpurves Před rokem +52

    John, you had me at "Transgressions of Church Leaders". You magnificent bastard, you!

  • @timnewman1172
    @timnewman1172 Před rokem +20

    John, I'm a non-mormon but I find your interviews fascinating! You always have done your homework and know exactly what questions to ask...

  • @brycerowley7357
    @brycerowley7357 Před rokem +80

    Please consider liking and subscribing. John puts a lot of time so much research and time into these Productions. So much of his research needs to be shared with members of the church so they can have informed consent

  • @sleepycalico
    @sleepycalico Před rokem +28

    It was randomly interesting that all four excommunicable transgressions were sexual, not embezzlement or other such criminal offenses.

  • @joanteasdale2991
    @joanteasdale2991 Před rokem +3

    They should be in prison and be processed through the courts system not the church system this is abhorrent

  • @TJAnderson
    @TJAnderson Před rokem +9

    This panel really needed a female perspective, bonus for a female historian who could speak to the impacts of the women in these situations

  • @ryanmartin8065
    @ryanmartin8065 Před rokem +20

    The language of how the wife salvation is based on the husband preisthood the history of it just wow

  • @dianethulin1700
    @dianethulin1700 Před rokem +33

    I will never-ever forget being 16 years old, moving into a new ward and having the bishop who I had just met five minutes ago threaten to excommunicate me on our meet and greet. I know now my former bishop was progressive. I immediately felt the power shift. I never felt loved and only went back to church after moving again. Excommunication is barbaric. I felt it, which is different from hearing about it

  • @cindihunter9119
    @cindihunter9119 Před rokem +33

    Is it just me? This cult is so crazy!

  • @jenowen1243
    @jenowen1243 Před rokem +6

    My ex was excommunicated three times that I know about. No one told me about the first two while I was dating him. Of course the third time was when I found out about his double life after 8 years of marriage. I think he was excommunicated again after our divorce and married to another lds woman.

  • @bodytrainer1crane730
    @bodytrainer1crane730 Před rokem +20

    I like it when guests ask John Dehlin questions. :)

  • @jeffreylylemason
    @jeffreylylemason Před rokem +20

    I love Mormon Stories.

  • @leeannlinder1931
    @leeannlinder1931 Před rokem +14

    Fascinating episode, please come back!!

  • @dianethulin1700
    @dianethulin1700 Před rokem +25

    Love that Signature Books publishing is located where my Great-Great grandparents settled. That parking lot used to host community events with music and dancing

  • @thescottysmomexperienceobr9954

    Great to see Brian! I instantly recognized his voice. Mormon History podcast is one of my favorites! 🤩

  • @Blonde111
    @Blonde111 Před rokem +6

    The higher the level in anything, the more the narcissists try to get away with murder. Often times they don’t get caught

  • @joannvandenberg4792
    @joannvandenberg4792 Před 11 měsíci +4

    I know a pedophile who went to prison for 6 years and didn't get excommunicated. Within the last year i heard that they were thinking about it. Hes been out of prison now for about 6 or 7 years.

  • @LaLaJonesG
    @LaLaJonesG Před rokem +7

    Fascinating!!! More of this please!!

  • @bodytrainer1crane730
    @bodytrainer1crane730 Před rokem +13

    Geez, this whole situation with the police breaking down the door and catching Lyman in the act.....wow.....was this even legal at the time to enter his residence?

    • @garikj766
      @garikj766 Před rokem

      With Lyman, the State at that time practiced a near perfect Theocracy. The church is the police. That justice system was biasly rigged, bent toward the power of the church, the jury would be bias, and there are no warrants/ very limited rights as per vs US judicial processes. The church also owned many supporters within the police to use them as their own internal processes.

    • @MarnieGolde7
      @MarnieGolde7 Před rokem +2

      You must be new to American cops lol…

  • @believeinnature8930
    @believeinnature8930 Před rokem +13

    Great discussion!

  • @garikj766
    @garikj766 Před rokem +7

    Good recap and visit to stories Gary, Bryan, John

  • @CatskillsGrrl
    @CatskillsGrrl Před 11 měsíci +2

    My big claim to fame was hanging out with Maxine at SEP and a shout out in from Gary in his history of BYU. 🙄

  • @grahamsmith7600
    @grahamsmith7600 Před rokem +7

    FWIW, the phrase "folly in Israel" is a phrase used in the King James Version of the Old Testament that is associated with serious or disgraceful behavior, including sexual sin. See Gen 34:7, Deut 22:21, Josh 7:15, and Judg 20:6.

  • @Lavender-blue80
    @Lavender-blue80 Před rokem +5

    One of the characteristics of cults is their emphasis on sex.

  • @steveangell1072
    @steveangell1072 Před rokem +2

    23:00
    That is how they handle it at the Ward level as well. If the person lies and says they did not do it that is the end of it. They then just leave it up to God. They do not investigate things.

  • @zappa-happy
    @zappa-happy Před rokem +13

    U work so hard, Yr so fair, respectful & sincere, I could listen 2u All day! ThankU So much John! Sending loads of love n support from the UK! 💖💖🌸🌸

  • @NebjosaMeier
    @NebjosaMeier Před rokem +7

    Speaking of gray behavior- totally black to us now- was the foot washing ceremony that William Clayton had unwed women do to him while a missionary before engaging in sex, although his journal is heavily redacted making it unclear. The ceremony was like an ad hoc temporary marriage.

    • @lakateyann
      @lakateyann Před rokem +1

      Where can I find a copy of this journal? I'd love to read it.

  • @samueljeppsen9785
    @samueljeppsen9785 Před rokem +6

    James Hamula ??? (pronounced Ham-you-la) was our Stake President. At age 32. Julie and I also served a 2 year mission with his Mother-in-law. She said James was perhaps the finest man she'd even known. We found him to be the same way. He is an incredible man and was an incredible stake president. He was also a scriptorian. Church officials have said he was excommunicated but it wasn't for apostasy. ??? When do they ever say, so-and-so was excommunicated but it wasn't for bank robbery. Excommunicated but it wasn't for embezzlement. They don't. Elder Hamula was put in charge of the Church history department. He was excommunicated in 2017, shortly after he was assigned that duty, and shortly after the GTE's came out. Hamula has way too much integrity to find out what really happened, and willingly look the other way and just sign off on it. He's not for sale. He would have objected. His objection would have gotten him in trouble. His continued refusal to go along with it, would have gotten him excommunicated. Notice, the only elder in half a century to be excommunicated, has never asked to be reinstated. If he had tried, or had gotten reinstated, it would be all over the news. James Hamula is a man of honor, and his honor is not for sale. To say he wasn't excommunicated for apostasy, is to say that he was. Knowing him as we do, we think that like the rest of us, he found out and couldn't go along with it. Therefore, it was, hasta la by-by Elder Hamula.

    • @mormonstories
      @mormonstories  Před rokem +3

      My understanding is different. He was the head of correlation. That’s different than history. And I’ve been told by multiple sources that it was a marital transgression.

  • @JP-JustSayin
    @JP-JustSayin Před rokem +5

    So this guy Carrington apparently had not recieved the 2nd anointing ... because that would have given him a pass for his "little follly in israel", right?

  • @JennLove
    @JennLove Před rokem +8

    Great episode guys!

  • @jamespeters9522
    @jamespeters9522 Před rokem +7

    Great podcast!

  • @richardredick7515
    @richardredick7515 Před rokem +4

    @JohnDehlin: John, these 2 guests are among your BEST (and you have had some VERY GOOD guests!).
    If you have Gary back at a later date, there are a couple of loose ends from this visit I'd like further clarification on.
    He stated that Heber J. Grant did not want to call Eldred Gee Smith as Patriarch. Why was that? It sounds as though he had something against Eldred. Was it his age? I would find that hypocritical, since HJG was called to the Twelve at age 26. Then, he said HJG wanted to call his SIL as Patriarch. I suspect that many of the Brethren blocked that idea, for I doubt his SIL was of the "chosen" lineage. These are two ideas that were mentioned, only. I want "meat on them bones." I want to hear the details! I am deeply interested.

  • @joanteasdale2991
    @joanteasdale2991 Před rokem +6

    It so you can't come home for your own parents funeral or closest funeral as they are afraid you won't go back no it is not it's more harmful to not let them come home just for the numbers just for the numbers good grief numbers is

    • @joanteasdale2991
      @joanteasdale2991 Před rokem

      @@deanabraden9871 so say you but I've heard many other accounts

    • @joanteasdale2991
      @joanteasdale2991 Před rokem

      @@deanabraden9871 this is not worth every play because you know it's not true

  • @michealcobia7869
    @michealcobia7869 Před rokem +9

    Has it ever been considered that those who were excommunicated and those who are not may or may not have received the second anointing and that this may have played into such action.

  • @499PUCK
    @499PUCK Před rokem +2

    Hi, just a note. It has come to my attention that many of the people who listen in have no connection to the Morgan church. It would be nice if you could explain what a persons title mean. Like Apostle, what does that title involve? Is it a ceremonial title or does it carry some authority?

  • @JudeNance
    @JudeNance Před rokem +1

    Don't you think the over emphasis on sexuality causes too much focus by everyone.

  • @bodytrainer1crane730
    @bodytrainer1crane730 Před rokem +5

    The Lyman story is all around 😢😢😢😭!!

  • @Alibee123
    @Alibee123 Před rokem +7

    Very interested in the book, adding it to my reading list. I’m gathering a better picture now of the church runnings.
    Listening to this brings so many things back to my mind. When in YSA a peer was disciplined after being bedded by a visiting seventy. My husband met with an apostle mentioned on this episode who kept patting his bottom during a prayer. Husb wants to believe it was accidental as he’s quite a tall guy. My bishop that was practicing polygamy on the quiet and my stake pres who was caught banging a temple worker (not his wife) in the temple.. It’s interesting to me that this is seemingly common within leaders of the LDS and other religions.

  • @garikj766
    @garikj766 Před rokem +2

    @56:20 There's more to it than that. The dynamics that was being lived in the community, the dynamics of practices imposed on the system of belief, the political management on beliefs, and tradition of practices changes the situation quite a bit. It would be too much to put in a post and I don't feel like getting a zealot stalker during this holiday season. They make poor company to entertain and besides its better for them to be with their families rather than freeze their butt off in the cold.
    The individual walking away from his polygamist marriage was more than likely let off the hook because that is how the trust believed, belief in practice-trust was structured, and the domain of leadership of jurisdiction was handled. The weird practice to punish and then to reunite through an apostle was a 'ploy' tactic to appease the transgressions created by expectation of the inner church dynamics still practicing polygamy. The ones that were practicing either had to have a great number of affiliations to the inner church or they were put on a long waiting que for decision (longer story to that and that evolution). Besides it being a ploy it was also to create an oath of trust by a representing responsible party. My guess is the man flaked out, after seeing how heavy his situation got and he just wanted something easier under his domain to seize control. After being confronted with a structure of practice, it was too much out of his own element to concede.
    As to law enforcement... That is a hot mess. Church uses law enforcement to bend in their own ways... their authority on 'right', to menace the arm of enforcement to build a force to 'straighten their own mess out of control' on authority in order to use for their own purposes than what is legally practiced/ legally represented. There are issues with the Church swaying law enforcement resources to promotion to sway their own wedge of law to be served or the Church can buy off enforcers that are swayed to their cause through favors or notoriety to improve their own personal life. That story with Lyman isn't the first time that law enforcement has been used/abused to serve the arm of 'law' in the Church. The Church needs to stay out of law entirely.
    The church will use law enforcement to police the extremity of their internal agenda/ get rid of political 'enemies' and to build a tighter more loyal following while still in the same practice to build who is saved and what is allowable, when really they are consolidating their own personal power and campaign for power, it's that duplicitous and insane. It makes an easy issue on power to turn a small event into a new turn in practice/and power for another 20-30 yrs to build in extreme devotion + extreme cruelty to uphold the practice + an extreme retentive counter public following to keep the practice controllable and away from public eyes/ the bias held in general membership, and then to sit back and sip on their own lemonade having an easier adjustment/power to rule than their last predecessors. If coercion/manipulation is significant enough greatly, one can just stand around, soak up the glory, and let the internal processes work themselves out then get back into 'business' favoring whatever is left over to build a new 'right'.
    What makes the church/ or a church to go above the law and to exercise their own proceedings over the law? (1) Their own commitment and dependence in Theocracy (2) The belief and addiction to own 'right' (3) Sucking off of the power to represent the extreme elevations of right for their own personal purposes not based in any practicing legal law.
    **As per the moral police turning in members to be admonished or eventually be excommunicated, this societal influence is also useful to the leadership's way and command on power. If the leadership gets tired of regulating practice and esteeming their own height in power, I suppose they got wise to nudge the other direction to build a bit of mock-morality to parody on righteousness and have its own membership destroy itself to remake a 'new world'.
    (Or perhaps they wanted create a division to hold onto their own self right and create a stance of greater height to be favored by their congregation as greater. The creation of elitism vs general membership needing to be more dependent on their leader/ their leaders image... which would otherwise be extremely vain and conceited in selfishness)
    This repeated behavior in church/ church culture makes me grievously ill. You have leaders who don't care about their own responsibility on leadership, whom they lead, and the lives they affect through their policies etc. They just want a tragedy so they can profit off of it , to feel better about themselves to save their own face, or to create a division of reality and power to wedge their own white knight after they just destroyed anyone about to 'wake up' or whomever begins to move more independent and away from the leaders. You see this same pattern in polygamy, WWII Red herring communist witch trials, social program reformation disgraces, Republican voting when the church gets involved, Prop 8, When the church turned Abstinence (alcohol) into full practice, new narratives, the ejection of political dividers to accountability, etc
    The gross thing is the moral police may do it for reasons of morality, but they are given power to hate and be put in the path of right only to be used for the church to not do the dirty work themselves and still believe they do it for a duty of greater right or more duty. Most moral police don't realize how extensively they are used until the table is turned and they are in a similar circumstance a few decades down the road for a different matter, or they give up in understanding and become a weak willed sycophant to the wills of power to the leadership... always believing internally themselves that they must be tested and proved in their righteousness or all is lost.
    The issue with vigilante Morality Police as per church member can only see morality in their own paradigm on construct, and perception of tender, and bound of knowledge they put themselves into to assume they know all. They make a great guard dog, but they are incapable of noticing their own hubris to their own way of belief towards applying a morality. They often live in a hypocrisy of their own accord without realizing their own design otherwise they divorce their own mind until they lose the capability to understand morality themselves or they lose themselves entirely to conceptualize fairly what they represent. The Moral police in the church often favors their own benefits, than to see the issue to its greater whole or how an influence affects matters and then act accordingly addressing those matters fairly.
    It gets so nutty and ridiculous to stay in such a system. The moral police has their own way to feel pride and accomplished in their own side, meanwhile...
    The power in leadership... whoever wins, has the ability to rollover the ship, throw out everyone in the ship, roll the ship back over and re-roll the leadership to their influence, strategy to wedge their own power over the liberty of the moral police, fantasy to hubris, and success.
    The moral police believes they have made a victory for the church, but they just allowed the church to put a squeeze on where their requirements of life/lifestyle are tender and they believe the leadership is all the more holier for it.

  • @selfimprovement.1925
    @selfimprovement.1925 Před rokem +6

    What’s the one thing that comes to mind? It’s MEN. Not just LDS but everywhere.

  • @ehhhh765
    @ehhhh765 Před rokem +8

    Day 1 of asking for yall to interview Owen Morgan aka Telltale (ex jw)

  • @bryanpoulsen8969
    @bryanpoulsen8969 Před rokem +5

    Commenting for the algorithm!

  • @tawnyachristensen7310
    @tawnyachristensen7310 Před rokem +4

    Very interesting!

  • @marcantoine2118
    @marcantoine2118 Před rokem +4

    where i can find transcriptions of your podcasts? listening is always very hard for me, can i find this in spanish? CZcams doesnt give me the option to translate in spanish , thanks

    • @Hklbrries
      @Hklbrries Před rokem +3

      I don’t know about Spanish translation, but click where it says “more” - and then scroll down and you’ll be able to see where you can choose to see the transcript. Hope this helps.
      Also, you can slow down or speed up the rate of speech by clicking on the wheel (sorta looks like this🛞). Hope this helps.

    • @marcantoine2118
      @marcantoine2118 Před rokem +2

      @@Hklbrries thank you is just the are a lot of Words that i dont know it would take days to finish this episode hehe but i Will try to find the important parts

  • @patricianoel7782
    @patricianoel7782 Před rokem +5

    I’m not able to find the book, Justice and Mercy on Amazon or Signature sites. Any ideas?

    • @mormonstories
      @mormonstories  Před rokem +8

      www.benchmarkbooks.com/advSearchResults.php?action=search&orderBy=relevance&category_id=0&keywordsField=bergera+justice

    • @patricianoel7782
      @patricianoel7782 Před rokem +1

      Thanks 🙏

    • @marykarensolomon7103
      @marykarensolomon7103 Před rokem +1

      @@patricianoel7782 Thanks from me too-I couldn’t find it either!

  • @patriciajessop2248
    @patriciajessop2248 Před rokem +5

    The church really needs to reconsider its policy of excommunication. It's totally outdated..!! Offenders need to be lovingly counselled and FORGIVEN.. !!! BTW Why was Joseph Smith not excommunicated???? The law equally applies to everyone...!!

    • @jeffreylylemason
      @jeffreylylemason Před rokem +1

      But really what they need to do is de emphasize the seriousness of certain sins IE over the pulpit etc.

    • @zacheryeckard3051
      @zacheryeckard3051 Před rokem +1

      The second annointing. The law DOESN'T apply to everyone.

    • @dontmakemelaugh01
      @dontmakemelaugh01 Před rokem +1

      It's good to be king.....

  • @joanteasdale2991
    @joanteasdale2991 Před rokem +13

    Boy that tells you a lot about church politics doesn't it and it's not what you know it's who you know and that women are second-class citizens for sure in this church

  • @Suane333
    @Suane333 Před rokem +2

    Time to put women in more positions of power.

  • @carolecoyote960
    @carolecoyote960 Před rokem +1

    I am a non Mormon and wondering what the goal of this show actually is? Are you a Mormon after hearing all of this or how do you balance your thinking and belief system? I find this all interesting and I'm curious.

    • @mormonstories
      @mormonstories  Před rokem +2

      This should explain it!
      czcams.com/video/mLFx9i9yzM0/video.html

  • @harryfve5
    @harryfve5 Před rokem +1

    It is difficult having your family drama broadcast. Richard’s father and grandfather might have set a bit of a presidence. Don’t think it’s completely fair not to factor that in. Cheers.

  • @brynns85
    @brynns85 Před rokem +2

    I’ll be honest, the fact that the Lyman’s marital s*xual situation (basically saying the wife wouldn’t have s*x with him) creating feelings of understanding and sympathy towards him, rubbed me the wrong way.

  • @MsCaterific
    @MsCaterific Před rokem +3

    💛

  • @JudeNance
    @JudeNance Před rokem

    It seems hypocritical when polygamy and affairs are the same?

  • @markjaye8182
    @markjaye8182 Před rokem +2

    No thinking, reasonable person (LDS church member or otherwise) would look at any of these four cases and give these men a pass. Church hierarchy may have done so to one varying degree or another historically with these cases, but that doesn't make the nature of what these men did "okay" on any level. That said (here comes my active church member bias), in the nearly 200 yrs of latter-day church history, four out of over approximately two thousand plus general authorities represents 99.8% of church leaders who have NOT "transgressed" in such egregious ways. Yes, I know I'm leaving out countless bishops, stake presidents, mission presidents, etc. from the 99.8%. But given the positions of admiration that these men hold among members, the miracle is that the number is not much, much higher than 0.2%. Again, this is not to minimize the obvious damnable actions of some, but to paint this as anything but rare is a kind of salacious fodder. This podcast should be titled "Latter-day Peyton Place". Good grief... Thanks for the two hours of detail!

  • @patriciafinn5717
    @patriciafinn5717 Před rokem

    J rueben clark i mean !!

  • @jessedewell
    @jessedewell Před rokem

    Teachers=missionaries.... Im sure it's not by coincidence that his 3 known victims were approx missionaries age and this is who he is most concerned about losing the privilege of their visits.... Like u said these people don't lose their urges or learn how to control them they just get better about covering their tracks

  • @selfimprovement.1925
    @selfimprovement.1925 Před rokem +2

    Why does this host hate the LDS church so much? He acts like this doesn’t happen in other churches and places.

    • @nancyleejorgenson9523
      @nancyleejorgenson9523 Před rokem +3

      You probably aren’t ready to hear the facts that John can tell you backed up by research. You are on the right path. Keep an open mind.

    • @OuttaMyMind911
      @OuttaMyMind911 Před rokem +3

      Does the bad behavior in other religions somehow lessen the need to shine a light on it here? That’s an odd position to hold. I saw we call bad behavior out, whatever the circumstance, instead of trying to minimize it because it might be from a part of our own community.

    • @nancyleejorgenson9523
      @nancyleejorgenson9523 Před rokem +2

      @@OuttaMyMind911 I personally believe that most if not all religions have corruption and greed that doesn’t surprise me. But I also think that we have a duty to logically call out our evidence of their lies. Hypocrisy is an evil sin. And corrupting some innocent people.

  • @selfimprovement.1925
    @selfimprovement.1925 Před rokem +2

    Prey to advances? You are doing nothing but speculating.

  • @zubenelgenubi
    @zubenelgenubi Před rokem +1

    Headline is designed for maximum interest and viewing by haters. Hope you think the results are worth the cost.

    • @zacheryeckard3051
      @zacheryeckard3051 Před rokem +3

      What cost?
      You are aware of the sexual abuse problem in the LDS church, aren't you?

    • @selfimprovement.1925
      @selfimprovement.1925 Před rokem

      @@zacheryeckard3051no but I am aware of it in the Catholic Church.

    • @selfimprovement.1925
      @selfimprovement.1925 Před rokem +2

      It’s everywhere not just one church

    • @gramyhaze8195
      @gramyhaze8195 Před rokem

      Chad Daybell and Lori Vallow, now there’s a pair of outstanding cultists 1:27:45