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"You're not satisfied with what he brings to the table, but you can't get up from the table because you don't know where to go." Daaaamn. Now that's deep.
She's a hot mess. Girl just get you a thug and let him slap you around a few times and knock you up with three kids then you'll look back thinking DAMN I should've stayed with my ex 🙄🙄🙄
One thing I have noticed when watching troubled relationships like this is that an individual is able to point out the flaws in another but unable (or unwilling) to acknowledge the flaws in themselves.
Narcissism They Blame Everyone For Their Issues Will Destroy The Good Qualities In A Person, Hurt People Repeatedly And Show Absolutely No Remorse... TOXIC
When She said he was selling drugs, the judge was like no no no, (I'm not gonna let you snitch on him in my court) LMAO. Don't be with someone who can't on their own and always looking for validation, it's a disaster!!!!
trahapace150 who said she wasn't? She's still attractive "to me." How does "Big Beautiful Woman" turn into "caping?" I didn't give her a pass on her behavior.
Right. The same person who tells a man he's not manly for crying will then be mad at a man who can't handle his emotions healthily and hits someone instead. I would rather someone who can cry and address their feelings than someone worried about the "men don't cry" foolishness.
She's sad and broken. Something happened to her. Idk what, but it's screaming like a flashing red light. He seems very sweet, and I hope he finds a woman who can appreciate the him. She's not it tho. Hurt people- hurt people!
relationships is weird. he need to leave she's either gonna be the reason he gets arrested or killed. she straight up went into court talking about his drug dealing in front of a judge.
She’s insecure and she couldn’t even hold her head up when judge Lynn read her. She’s trying to deflect from her own issues by picking at him. He loves her and she’ll regret messing this up when she sees a good guy is hard to come by. She needs to get it together ASAP. Get her confidence together. Sleeping around to feel needed, wanted and beautiful isn’t the way to go.
But when you tell this kind of woman in order to feel wanted and beautiful you should go to gym it backfires on you hardly as of he is "verbally abusive " and "body shaming " 😊
Sis knows whats up and the same time she doesnt she just needs help and i want the best for her. What she did to this young guy ..🥴 im just sorry for him at that point ...ok its 5 years old anyways 😅
Wow, she's just MEAN! They are on the opposite end of the "empathy" scale. She IS "hollow". There's someone out there for him. She's never going to be happy.
She is hurting... idkw but she doesnt want him. He is the guy who is always there no matter what... i hope she finds peace and he finds a woman who desires him.
Yohnathan Far Oh, is that you on the show? No disrespect but you are too good for that relationship. Whatever growth she has to make, she has to do it on her own, so she can stand on her own. As opposed to crushing you with the weight of her expectations, insecurities and her own inadequacy. It isn't healthy for either of you to be together while she makes that journey, and tbh it may not be safe for either of you. You on the other hand, need to examine exactly why it is that you have made the decision to be in a relationship that obviously doesn't fulfill you, and what compels you to continue to be around a person that doesn't respect and accept you as you are. Yes, she has problems she needs to address on her own. But that you choose to continue to deal with her as she is, is a problem that you should address on your own also. The fact that she called the police on you and encourages you to get into fights, means she doesn't value your safety. If you didn't leave before the police got there, as a Black man, you'd be in jail or even dead. I caught it when you said you destroyed her personal property, had an emotional outburst and are also a bit irresponsible with money, so I can't put it all on her, because you have behavior that you need to address also. If you feel it's something she brings out in you, then it's _still_ your responsibility to leave a situation that brings out destructive behavior in you. I'm not trying to be condescending, I'm saying this because I've been in that situation, in a toxic relationship where I thought that if I tried enough and gave enough, I could help my partner through whatever they were going through, so that we could move forward together. It doesn't work like that. No one will ever change, if you don't give them the opportunity to change by giving them the chance to find themselves, as opposed to finding their flaws in you. And that goes both ways, because you're not giving yourself the chance for growth either. You should examine why you feel responsible for seeing her through this process, even though it has been detrimental and unfulfilling to you thus far, it enables destructive behavior in you, and whatever you've done for 5 years hasn't worked. I caught that you've been on your own since 15, so I see your upbringing wasn't the easiest. I can relate, and maybe you should start there. Best of luck. You are a handsome, sensitive man, and being able to express that sensitivity is very special. It didn't say you had any children lol, so you're ahead of the game. Think about it. Best of luck to both of you. Sorry for the long post 😝😋
After reading your lovely post you made points that show me you know something about something like this point one you said what ever growth she has to do it on her own? Yes I've had huge expectations from her and sometimes insecurities and her own inadequacy. It isn't healthy while she makes that journey I don't understand why? 😯 Point two what compels me to be around her even tho She doesn't respect and accept me as I am. Well, it's the love and hope that she will. mostly the hope there was a point in time where I was respected accept came when I kept doing the same mistakes over again countless mistakes on my behalf. Everyone has problems but it's who's problems you can live with and work through. Thank you for caring about my safety because cops krazy. Point three you been thru the same yes I want to help whatever she's going thru so we can move forward together yes that's me. Why doesn't work like that? I'm going to tell you something that touches my heart you said I need to give her the chance to find herself or she gunna find flaws in me. Years ago 2 to 3 years in we had arguments and we would break up and she would say give me time to find myself I'm lost I don't know what I'm doing I don't know what where doing. And I be sooooo hurt because I wanted to be there I wanted to help I didn't understand what that means and I still dont.😳😳😳😳😟😟😟😟😟😟😟 She would say I don't feel like I'm growing in this relationship or we reached the end I would get so upset and emotional. Point 4 I want to see her thru some how yes I'm partly to blame because I didn't listen when she said things like point 3 about space and time and finding herself because I wanted us to stay together I didn't want to lose her. Thank you for your eye opening words of power and encouragement words of hope and wisdom it's ok I enjoy reading I will think about. Write me back anytime 😌😏😶😏🤔🤔🤔
Yohnathan Far I believe when it says to find yourself, it is for her to figure out her passions and goals. It is for her to work on her emptiness. It is for her to figure out why she can not be by herself... why she has to be with any man to fulfill her emptiness at that point and time. She is hurting and she has to figure out why. It may be her past. It may be other things... She cant love you or anyone if she doesnt love herself... Sometimes people come in your life for a season and they are not meant to stay.. If you continue to accept what she gives you and you dont feel closer to her, it will make you accepting of the neglect she displays (distance). You can be her friend only and be there for her but not her partner. She is trying to find herself (purpose). Best of luck.
The judge was spot on with her advice. She definitely needs to do some soul searching for herself in order to seek inner peace. And home boy seems so sweet and loving, I hope they work out in years to come.
PatsBooks Yes that's obvious. Hence why I said that she needs to do alot of soul searching then after, the relationship may be saved in future years to come.
I bet the reason she went off on him for having emotions is because she's so out of touch with her own. I hope she gets some help and does what she needs to do to be happy and I hope he finds someone who appreciates him for who he is- a good guy!
His support for her needing to grow and change and find herself at the end was beautiful. She needs to be a whole and happy person on her own for a while. Maybe in 5 years they can meet up again and work it out.
QUESTION OF THE DAY!!! Question: Do you feel mature enough to be married? Ebony: With him yeah.. Why did she say that? Here's why.. She thinks so low of Jonathan that she feels that she is now the head of the relationship, so her thoughts are more "mature" than his, so what she says goes... She just diss off the man manhood... She basically say Ebony (correct): With him yeah, but with anybody else.. No... Dawwg she dont feel mature enough for marriage its just a front.. LOL JUST LIKE...!
I don't think there is nothing wrong with the guy I think he's just in touch with his feminine side if that makes sense. I think he is really nice, sweet and cool
She needed to hear that from Judge Lynn because she wouldn’t have accepted it from him. I hope that she sought help and found what she was missing. And I hope that he was able to move on as well. You could tell she was shaken when she spoke at the end. She smiled but she seemed to be fighting back tears.
The best way to get over a guy is to get under a new one....this seems to be her mantra. She needs to sit her azzzz down. Get some help and gain some self respect girl. Love you first!
The judge nailed it! I admire that the lady took what the judge said to heart and realized that she needs to work on herself before embarking on a serious relationship.
She clearly isnt happy with herself & is constantly trying to find that happiness by sleeping with other man. He deserves better and I hope he finds it :)
Weak? Dude beat up his roommate & had her scared when they were supposed to be working on their relationship & she’s laid up with her “friend”- to the point she had to call the police! The only weakness I’ve seen is him not leaving her!
I think think she is a lovely lady and has been out on her own taking good care of herself and it hasn't been easy. But I think the Judge was so wise in counseling her. I think the young man is great too but he needs to find someone who appreciates him.
She wants a street dude. She doesn’t want somebody who is emotional whatsoever. She cheated and I’m willing to bet it was with some thugs. She’ll find somebody to slap her around sometimes
she's absolutely ridiculous...I'm confused - she's confusing...she doesn't want him she feels he's isn't rough neck enough...she's so quick to get with another dude... in-between time... yup validation...
They are both immature, especially the woman. If they stay together, counseling is a must. If he's solving his financial problems with selling drugs, he would be out in my book.
Basically you just can’t date ratchet people. These type of people usually grow up in dysfunctional violent homes so if they date someone normal it throws them out of place. They basically become a fish out of water. I’m speaking from experience my last relationship was with a man who grew up in pure ratchetiness. It was so bad he didn’t want anything to do with his family & I never met any of his family members . To make a long story short, he made my life a living hell! He would intentionally create drama & arguments when things became too peaceful. I basically got out that toxic relationship it’s not worth losing your peace of mind over.
I can relate to him... I don't blame her, I blame him. You need to love yourself first so you won't tolerate disrespect. The woman does not love him and will continue to walk over him. I hope he wakes up
Peggie Jarvis Exactly. He didn't want to catch an ass whooping so he only hit the inanimate objects in the house. That showed me that he was perfectly in control of his outburst and was just being as ratchet and tacky as his gf is. He didn't act out of emotion. He was selectively destroying her stuff. These two people are tacky and have no business being together.
It's hard when you don't know what direction to go in life. The judge was spot on when she said this woman didn't know what she wanted because she doesn't, clearly. She's looking for gratification in sex and it isn't working. People like her do tend to see everyone else's issues and not their own. She is pretty though and just needs to get herself together mentally and spiritually and she'll find happiness within.
This was some preaching advice!!’ Honey she hit it the nail on the head with this one baby!!! Also everything she said is like the best 💎 of knowledge, I learn soooo much applying what she says to others
but how tf are you a workaholic with no work ethic? her problem is her self. she can't get right with him or no other man, trying to find someone to fill a void instead of taking a step back and looking at what she's gotta do for her. I still think she's gonna sleep around tho. all's she knows is that she's got a problem, she's not sure what it is yet...
Broneisha Williams the reason she stays with dude is because she can only get sex from the guys she wants but they don't want her attitude and looks appealing enough for anything else so that's why she stays with dude.
The moral of the story.... never give a woman your complete heart. And if they try to emasculate disrespect or cheat on you...give them the gift of missing you.
I wish Judge Lynne could post advice/steps on how to combat self dis-satisfaction. Many of us are in that situation and we just don't know how to tackle it.
The first time I can see that if you break up with someone you think that's the end of it all but if you break up and make you every other week you know it's not the end of it all. That's just her wack ass excuse to throw her 🐈 around.
they both have emotional issues. She is emotionally confused, and constantly needs validation. He is emotionally insecure which is why he keeps going back to a woman who tears him down and his manhood. The judge is right on this.
I like him too :-) He's charismatic and he seems to be loving. He's also a cutie pie! Hopefully he'll be able to draw the line between friendship and romance while she works on herself.
He needs to find some self respect , personal dignity and get away from her. Everytime he had money problems it was caused by reacting to her bullshit. She's with him because he's the only person that'll put up with her big nasty ass and he keeps needing a place to stay.
"You're not satisfied with what he brings to the table, but you can't get up from the table because you don't know where to go."
Daaaamn. Now that's deep.
She's a hot mess. Girl just get you a thug and let him slap you around a few times and knock you up with three kids then you'll look back thinking DAMN I should've stayed with my ex 🙄🙄🙄
Cuddle Usagi thank you lol
But then us tax payers have to pay for those kids...
Zero Todona not for too much longer
child! you aint lying lol
Cuddle Usagi 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
He needs to leave before she destroys the little bit of masculinity he does have.
Ash O so true
lol
I know you mean well, but that was COLD!!! lol stop it!
Ash O he's on the Down Low
Girl there's none left
Is she trying to get him arrested? Telling a judge he sells drugs. Good gracious 🙄
Anayancy Estacio
Or get him robbed so he can prove "he's man enough " one.
Anayancy Estacio yeah.. she's crazy... calling him out in public like that... she just doesn't love this guy
Did y’all see the judges face when she said that
Not selling drugs lessens your chances of getting arrested for it.
Depending on where they live, he could be seriously hurt or killed by her always calling the cops on him for stupid things.
I don't like her attitude. I see him as being a gentle and kind man. She's a cheater. He can do better than her.🤷
He to good for her
Absolutely
“Ever since I cheated on him, it has never been the same before” Well no shit! 🤔😂
No kids!
I love how the audience applauded 😂😂😂
MartianBlues lmao I laughed so hard at that 😂
MartianBlues ikr
MartianBlues your right
They were like finally!!!
MartianBlues ikr! if feel the same way!
One thing I have noticed when watching troubled relationships like this is that an individual is able to point out the flaws in another but unable (or unwilling) to acknowledge the flaws in themselves.
Narcissism They Blame Everyone For Their Issues Will Destroy The Good Qualities In A Person, Hurt People Repeatedly And Show Absolutely No Remorse... TOXIC
So true
Not true because in the test given by judge Lynn she listed 8 things that were wrong about her.
this is a LOT of women.
When She said he was selling drugs, the judge was like no no no, (I'm not gonna let you snitch on him in my court) LMAO. Don't be with someone who can't on their own and always looking for validation, it's a disaster!!!!
Judge Lynn Toler is a QUEEN. goals!
RAHHicecream a
She talks too much.
@@chiwhi7581 she is the judge and she is giving at advice, sooooo!!!!
@@Kuttie03 she talk too much.
@@chiwhi7581 she is good at her job
Big beautiful woman but she's nothing but trouble. She doesn't know what she wants and already cheating.
Terrence Barnes
I agree completely.
Yes she's very pretty!
But she is very silly and tacky and has a lot of growing up to do.
MartianBlues yes she is very immature and tacky. Can't stop laying up. I'm surprised she doesn't have kids.
Terrence Barnes
Right?
The only thing she's seems responsible about is birth control.
Let's hope she stays on it 😂
His face at 1:28 lmtooo
trahapace150 who said she wasn't? She's still attractive "to me." How does "Big Beautiful Woman" turn into "caping?" I didn't give her a pass on her behavior.
YES she need to see someone. I hate when chicks try to take a man manhood by saying he's not a man because he cries. So what he cries. Men do that.
johnny bravo 0
A real man stands by his emotions. A real man feels and that's a really important thing. A good thing.
Men are people too. ❤
@@VashtiPerry Ase.
Right. The same person who tells a man he's not manly for crying will then be mad at a man who can't handle his emotions healthily and hits someone instead. I would rather someone who can cry and address their feelings than someone worried about the "men don't cry" foolishness.
She's sad and broken. Something happened to her. Idk what, but it's screaming like a flashing red light. He seems very sweet, and I hope he finds a woman who can appreciate the him. She's not it tho. Hurt people- hurt people!
Nique Franklin and heavy
Both are broken. He pulls knives. She's been on her own since being a kid.
True
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
i like this young man. he is sweet & gentle.
Ellicia Senior me too
I like how the audience shakes their heads whenever she speaks, they don't believe a god damn word that comes out her mouth and they shouldn't
relationships is weird. he need to leave she's either gonna be the reason he gets arrested or killed. she straight up went into court talking about his drug dealing in front of a judge.
Which shows how she don't really care about him, so sad..
She’s insecure and she couldn’t even hold her head up when judge Lynn read her. She’s trying to deflect from her own issues by picking at him. He loves her and she’ll regret messing this up when she sees a good guy is hard to come by. She needs to get it together ASAP. Get her confidence together. Sleeping around to feel needed, wanted and beautiful isn’t the way to go.
So sad
But when you tell this kind of woman in order to feel wanted and beautiful you should go to gym it backfires on you hardly as of he is "verbally abusive " and "body shaming " 😊
And how can you feel threatened by a man who “isn’t man enough”? I’m so lost...
He seems so kind, and he needs a woman that's gonna build him up not tear him down. It's ok for men to display emotions smh
this woman's thinking is so immature
His thinking is too. He sells dope, gets evixted, and pulls knives.
She's been on her own since she was 15, that was all I needed to here I hope she's able to get herself together
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Sis knows whats up and the same time she doesnt she just needs help and i want the best for her. What she did to this young guy ..🥴 im just sorry for him at that point ...ok its 5 years old anyways 😅
1:30 in and she already admitted to cheating.
I can smell the ratchetness through the screen already 😒
Yep, she swinging that ratchet hatchet and choppin' wood!
MartianBlues
Right! "Ever since I cheated on him things haven't been the same." Um, WTF was suppose to happen??
MartianBlues.😆😆
MartianBlues treat her like shit and she'd love u for it.
@@Jaleney
Ratchet hatchet !!! Good one!!😂😂😂
A man able to show sensitivity is a real man who doesn't feel emasculated.
Wow, she's just MEAN! They are on the opposite end of the "empathy" scale. She IS "hollow". There's someone out there for him. She's never going to be happy.
She is hurting... idkw but she doesnt want him. He is the guy who is always there no matter what... i hope she finds peace and he finds a woman who desires him.
Taylor John thanks
Yohnathan Far Oh, is that you on the show? No disrespect but you are too good for that relationship. Whatever growth she has to make, she has to do it on her own, so she can stand on her own. As opposed to crushing you with the weight of her expectations, insecurities and her own inadequacy. It isn't healthy for either of you to be together while she makes that journey, and tbh it may not be safe for either of you.
You on the other hand, need to examine exactly why it is that you have made the decision to be in a relationship that obviously doesn't fulfill you, and what compels you to continue to be around a person that doesn't respect and accept you as you are. Yes, she has problems she needs to address on her own. But that you choose to continue to deal with her as she is, is a problem that you should address on your own also. The fact that she called the police on you and encourages you to get into fights, means she doesn't value your safety. If you didn't leave before the police got there, as a Black man, you'd be in jail or even dead. I caught it when you said you destroyed her personal property, had an emotional outburst and are also a bit irresponsible with money, so I can't put it all on her, because you have behavior that you need to address also. If you feel it's something she brings out in you, then it's _still_ your responsibility to leave a situation that brings out destructive behavior in you.
I'm not trying to be condescending, I'm saying this because I've been in that situation, in a toxic relationship where I thought that if I tried enough and gave enough, I could help my partner through whatever they were going through, so that we could move forward together. It doesn't work like that. No one will ever change, if you don't give them the opportunity to change by giving them the chance to find themselves, as opposed to finding their flaws in you. And that goes both ways, because you're not giving yourself the chance for growth either. You should examine why you feel responsible for seeing her through this process, even though it has been detrimental and unfulfilling to you thus far, it enables destructive behavior in you, and whatever you've done for 5 years hasn't worked. I caught that you've been on your own since 15, so I see your upbringing wasn't the easiest. I can relate, and maybe you should start there. Best of luck. You are a handsome, sensitive man, and being able to express that sensitivity is very special. It didn't say you had any children lol, so you're ahead of the game. Think about it. Best of luck to both of you. Sorry for the long post 😝😋
Natacha JB And let us say "Amen!"
After reading your lovely post you made points that show me you know something about something like this point one you said what ever growth she has to do it on her own?
Yes I've had huge expectations from her and sometimes insecurities and her own inadequacy. It isn't healthy while she makes that journey I don't understand why? 😯
Point two what compels me to be around her even tho She doesn't respect and accept me as I am. Well, it's the love and hope that she will. mostly the hope there was a point in time where I was respected accept came when I kept doing the same mistakes over again countless mistakes on my behalf. Everyone has problems but it's who's problems you can live with and work through. Thank you for caring about my safety because cops krazy.
Point three you been thru the same yes I want to help whatever she's going thru so we can move forward together yes that's me. Why doesn't work like that?
I'm going to tell you something that touches my heart you said I need to give her the chance to find herself or she gunna find flaws in me. Years ago 2 to 3 years in we had arguments and we would break up and she would say give me time to find myself I'm lost I don't know what I'm doing I don't know what where doing. And I be sooooo hurt because I wanted to be there I wanted to help I didn't understand what that means and I still dont.😳😳😳😳😟😟😟😟😟😟😟
She would say I don't feel like I'm growing in this relationship or we reached the end I would get so upset and emotional.
Point 4 I want to see her thru some how yes I'm partly to blame because I didn't listen when she said things like point 3 about space and time and finding herself because I wanted us to stay together I didn't want to lose her.
Thank you for your eye opening words of power and encouragement words of hope and wisdom it's ok I enjoy reading I will think about. Write me back anytime 😌😏😶😏🤔🤔🤔
Yohnathan Far I believe when it says to find yourself, it is for her to figure out her passions and goals. It is for her to work on her emptiness. It is for her to figure out why she can not be by herself... why she has to be with any man to fulfill her emptiness at that point and time. She is hurting and she has to figure out why. It may be her past. It may be other things... She cant love you or anyone if she doesnt love herself... Sometimes people come in your life for a season and they are not meant to stay.. If you continue to accept what she gives you and you dont feel closer to her, it will make you accepting of the neglect she displays (distance). You can be her friend only and be there for her but not her partner. She is trying to find herself (purpose). Best of luck.
The judge was spot on with her advice. She definitely needs to do some soul searching for herself in order to seek inner peace. And home boy seems so sweet and loving, I hope they work out in years to come.
BB Bb thank you
I think he can do way better than her. They are very dysfunctional. She is not an emotionally stable woman.
PatsBooks Yes that's obvious. Hence why I said that she needs to do alot of soul searching then after, the relationship may be saved in future years to come.
Yohnathan Far You're welcome
yes! she looked so empty and sad in her eyes
She seems so emotionally unattached and lost. I.hope she finds her way. I'm glad Judge is offering her counseling.
I bet the reason she went off on him for having emotions is because she's so out of touch with her own. I hope she gets some help and does what she needs to do to be happy and I hope he finds someone who appreciates him for who he is- a good guy!
Hello how're you doing hope you're safe due to the covid 19 pandemic?
You are exactly right she's not in touch with her emotions because she's a narcissist. They do not deal with emotions at all!
His support for her needing to grow and change and find herself at the end was beautiful. She needs to be a whole and happy person on her own for a while. Maybe in 5 years they can meet up again and work it out.
Mary Contrary how sweet thanks
hell no he needs to move on to someone alot better, physically and morall
Hello how're you doing hope you're safe due to the covid 19 pandemic?
Judge hit the nail perfectly.
The problem is her and seen that with the first word came out her mouth.
QUESTION OF THE DAY!!!
Question: Do you feel mature enough to be married?
Ebony: With him yeah..
Why did she say that?
Here's why..
She thinks so low of Jonathan that she feels that she is now the head of the relationship, so her thoughts are more "mature" than his, so what she says goes... She just diss off the man manhood... She basically say
Ebony (correct): With him yeah, but with anybody else.. No...
Dawwg she dont feel mature enough for marriage its just a front..
LOL JUST LIKE...!
DEEP MY BROTHER!
Lol... she just dry snitched on him on national tv..... bruh leave her
I don't think there is nothing wrong with the guy I think he's just in touch with his feminine side if that makes sense. I think he is really nice, sweet and cool
Thank you for seeing that about me
Yohnathan Far You are welcome.. By the way there is a girl out there for you that will love to have a guy like you
Awe how sweet thank you.
Yohnathan Far You are welcome 👍
😶🙄
She needed to hear that from Judge Lynn because she wouldn’t have accepted it from him. I hope that she sought help and found what she was missing. And I hope that he was able to move on as well. You could tell she was shaken when she spoke at the end. She smiled but she seemed to be fighting back tears.
Judge Lynn hit the nail right on the head. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
She don't need him , let me get him off your hands sis 😎😎
Why would u want his weak cryin azz?
Dwahn Denson he's not weak to be me at all , just seems like he doesn't like confrontation
Brittany Reid I don't how you know that about me is amazing hit me up some time
Brittany Reid agree, he appears to be a mild mannered individual
Yohnathan Far are u the man from the show.?
0:53 the victory look for the judge when people in a relationship without having children. That makes her really happy
Especially unmarried folk
She's a big kid. Needs to be injected with a dose of maturity.
love that😂
Lol
Lol
She’s insecure so she blames her guilt and shame on him
She’s obviously been through something something to have been on her own since 15. Can’t imagine...wishing them both the best.
The best way to get over a guy is to get under a new one....this seems to be her mantra. She needs to sit her azzzz down. Get some help and gain some self respect girl. Love you first!
She's that type of a lady who cannot resist inappropriate sexual advances from stray men,instead she will smile and encourage them to continue.
She's so immature ... I'm not site that she wants from him poor guy
My Girls Room true. Se is Very shallow. And easy.
They're not compatible, because he's not what she wants in a husband. 🤷♀️
She don't even wannabe commit to anymore
The judge nailed it! I admire that the lady took what the judge said to heart and realized that she needs to work on herself before embarking on a serious relationship.
She the type that wants a thug until the real thug show up and then she will be crying and hurt that she gets treated bad. This dude is a real man
When he described her cheating all I could see was Rasputia , Norbit, and the Tap Dance Guru
😂😂😂 me too!
She clearly isnt happy with herself & is constantly trying to find that happiness by sleeping with other man. He deserves better and I hope he finds it :)
Weak? Dude beat up his roommate & had her scared when they were supposed to be working on their relationship & she’s laid up with her “friend”- to the point she had to call the police! The only weakness I’ve seen is him not leaving her!
I think think she is a lovely lady and has been out on her own taking good care of herself and it hasn't been easy. But I think the Judge was so wise in counseling her.
I think the young man is great too but he needs to find someone who appreciates him.
She is very, very immature.
He too sweet and kind for her.
She wants a street dude. She doesn’t want somebody who is emotional whatsoever. She cheated and I’m willing to bet it was with some thugs. She’ll find somebody to slap her around sometimes
Yup then she will say where are all the nice guys who treat women right 😂😂😂😂😂😂
she's absolutely ridiculous...I'm confused - she's confusing...she doesn't want him she feels he's isn't rough neck enough...she's so quick to get with another dude... in-between time... yup validation...
They are both immature, especially the woman. If they stay together, counseling is a must. If he's solving his financial problems with selling drugs, he would be out in my book.
He seems like a sweetheart. She doesn't know what she wants and that's okay, but he still wants to be around to help her.. Lord, Jesus help 'em both.
Damn I wish my man was more emotional like him.My dude is too cold for me😒
I always love the judge reaction an facial expressions , especially when she told her that "that's just weird" an it is.
He can come my way. I don't think there is anything wrong with a man showing their emotional side. He's seems like a good man. ❤️
She welcomed the judge's words because she really does not want to be with him. He's cleaving to her but just needs to let her GO!!
It seems like she just doesn't respect him as a man
She looks like she doesnt care about much of anything!
She doesn't respect yourself either. I would even go so far as to say she doesn't like herself
Lol
I just skipped to Judge Lynn's final thoughts on this one
RR aye Clart I as well! Annoyed the moment she took jabs at his masculinity after admitting she cheated. Girl bye 👋🏽
Yes.. A few minutes in and I got irritated. I then realized that they are young. But this is ugh 🤦🏾
Wow..... I did too....smh
I should have!
I tried to hang on in there..but skipped after 4mins in
15:35
"Because I'm looking at the problem"
Get that woman some aloe!
"I don't feel like he's mature enough" Look who's talking Cheater
Great assessment by the judge. This girl sounds so unhappy...happiness starts from within.
Basically you just can’t date ratchet people. These type of people usually grow up in dysfunctional violent homes so if they date someone normal it throws them out of place. They basically become a fish out of water. I’m speaking from experience my last relationship was with a man who grew up in pure ratchetiness. It was so bad he didn’t want anything to do with his family & I never met any of his family members . To make a long story short, he made my life a living hell! He would intentionally create drama & arguments when things became too peaceful. I basically got out that toxic relationship it’s not worth losing your peace of mind over.
This woman looks at Respect as a crime shes obviously making it clear that he is to nice..she can't love him cause she don't love herself.
He seems like a really nice guy....nice guys finish last. Classic
This man comes off as a sweetheart. I wouldn't mind getting myself a man like him, this woman doesn't deserve him.
He seems lonely with her. He seems like a good genuine guy who needs someone that can be there for him
Yup
This woman is crazy. Certified nuts. The smoking would turn me off too but don't get with him in the first place. KIM and let him go.
She let that guy smoke at the edge of the bed🤣
@@MrBlackPositiveandInteresting after they smoked each other. Her standards real high.
Forget this mess Judge Toler what brand of eye shadow is that 😍?
Classic case of a women not knowing what she wants in a man
She doesn't respect him, she doesn't feel protected by him.
Wants a thug
I can relate to him... I don't blame her, I blame him. You need to love yourself first so you won't tolerate disrespect. The woman does not love him and will continue to walk over him. I hope he wakes up
She not ready for a good man period
The Judges assessment is on POINT LIKE A GREEN LIGHT
Shit, i'll take him since she playing with him.
Tayamyre really lol I give you my number
THE CAMERA QUALITY IS TOP TIER. THIS LOOKS LIKE IT WAS SHOT YESTERDAY.
He pulled curtains down, knocked over the play station but he didn't touch the guy in the boxers.
Peggie Jarvis
Exactly. He didn't want to catch an ass whooping so he only hit the inanimate objects in the house.
That showed me that he was perfectly in control of his outburst and was just being as ratchet and tacky as his gf is.
He didn't act out of emotion. He was selectively destroying her stuff.
These two people are tacky and have no business being together.
Peggie Jarvis didn't want a naked guy on him lol
Peggie Jarvis
😂😂😂😂. Stop it.
Lmao
Peggie Jarvis he is not a idiot
He respects her loyalty 🤔what loyalty 🤷🏾♀️
She out here cheating
It's hard when you don't know what direction to go in life. The judge was spot on when she said this woman didn't know what she wanted because she doesn't, clearly. She's looking for gratification in sex and it isn't working. People like her do tend to see everyone else's issues and not their own. She is pretty though and just needs to get herself together mentally and spiritually and she'll find happiness within.
"Ultimately to marry this guy"
Guy in the back immediately starts shaking his head 😂😂😂😂
He needs to leave her because she will destroy him he's the easiest target he don't flair up or get angry & he's a ppl pleaser
This was some preaching advice!!’ Honey she hit it the nail on the head with this one baby!!! Also everything she said is like the best 💎 of knowledge, I learn soooo much applying what she says to others
That’s rude... He’s not man enough but you Cheated on him.... 🤦♂️
That's sad
🤣🤣🤣🤣That damn 4 second pause @14:15 by Judge Toler. My feelings exactly
but how tf are you a workaholic with no work ethic? her problem is her self. she can't get right with him or no other man, trying to find someone to fill a void instead of taking a step back and looking at what she's gotta do for her. I still think she's gonna sleep around tho. all's she knows is that she's got a problem, she's not sure what it is yet...
Broneisha Williams the reason she stays with dude is because she can only get sex from the guys she wants but they don't want her attitude and looks appealing enough for anything else so that's why she stays with dude.
I'm not a fan of smoking in general but wtf lady?
The moral of the story.... never give a woman your complete heart. And if they try to emasculate disrespect or cheat on you...give them the gift of missing you.
Rabbit Skipper men been doing this for centuries
Really? I don’t think that’s true.
I wish Judge Lynne could post advice/steps on how to combat self dis-satisfaction. Many of us are in that situation and we just don't know how to tackle it.
JESUS CHRIST does that perfectly
The first time I can see that if you break up with someone you think that's the end of it all but if you break up and make you every other week you know it's not the end of it all. That's just her wack ass excuse to throw her 🐈 around.
She wants a thug but she aint ready for that life.
Nope
Run forrest run
She's so cold and callous with regards to his emotions. Showing emotions doesn't make a man weak.
Yes!!! I love classic Divorce court! Love Judge Lynn!😄
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they both have emotional issues. She is emotionally confused, and constantly needs validation. He is emotionally insecure which is why he keeps going back to a woman who tears him down and his manhood. The judge is right on this.
wow she really is confused.
I like him too :-) He's charismatic and he seems to be loving. He's also a cutie pie! Hopefully he'll be able to draw the line between friendship and romance while she works on herself.
Him, "I told him I was gonna call the cops like 5, 8 times.."
Me, "Well, that escalated quickly."
He needs to find some self respect , personal dignity and get away from her. Everytime he had money problems it was caused by reacting to her bullshit. She's with him because he's the only person that'll put up with her big nasty ass and he keeps needing a place to stay.