'We Need to STOP Making These DATING MISTAKES!' - Social Media, Boundaries & Standards
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- čas přidán 11. 05. 2024
- The dating streets are still causing woe to our sisters, and with the seemingly endless tragic tales of romantic pursuit, the sisters decided it was time to share some advice on the girls in the arena. In today’s episode, your resident sisters share some game on some of the top dating mistakes to avoid, to help you navigate the streets just a little bit more successfully!
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Omg! From the thumbnail , I thought CDB had dyed her hair red ❤😂
This was my exact same thought when I watched her other podcast. It didn’t help that I was half asleep
ME TOO LMAO
Me too, lol
Same 😂
Same here hahaha
52:56 Exactly, you can be dating but I beg, have friends, learn skills, climb mountains, giggle with your godchildren ... be humaning, be developing yourself!
We gotta steal that 'be humaning' phrase chile!
57:08 Dating for optics and by social media standards rather than your own is so dehumanizing. It's so important to know yourself. Be authentic and let that authenticity determine where you find joy in the dating process. Also the best thing I've done since deciding to date for marriage, is sitting down with married couples in my family, and asking them about their relationships. It's very meaningful to get advice from people who've known you your whole life. Be selective with who you are getting advice from. If not, you can unnecessarily internalize shame because you decided to go on a coffee date and some random woman told you it was bad. Online advice can be useful, but you have to ground yourself in reality! Give yourself grace to make mistakes and adapt along the way. Enjoy your journey sisters!
The way it went from "Aww! (happy)" to "Aww... (sad)" to "Oh baby no..." 😂 I'm also wondering if sis is confusing their 'chemistry' with lust. Because the one guy wasn't making himself available enough for her, that guy was there, and she was feeling pretty lonely at this point in time.
😭😭😭 Chile the sisters are going THROUGH it. That's a great point!
THE WAY RENEE BE PLUGGING BE ENCOURAGED MAKES MY HEART SO WARM!!!!!!!!!
“You’re giving people the blue print to snatch YOUR man” haha 💀💀🤣🤣
That’s such a valid point. The person you are looking for isn’t always the person these dating coaches or friends are giving advice towards.
28:48 I had a really good clear conversation with a guy recently. We are similar and we got on well. However, he wants house, marriage and kids whilst I want a future (not now) long-term non-live-in relationship but no marriage or kids. It was one of the best and clearest conversations I've ever had with a guy. We now know that friendship is our maximum potential.
I enjoyed thos way too much❤😂 I'm learning so much! Thank you Sisters
Not me giggling in the bus. 😂People keep staring at me so I’m tryna hold back my laughter but ya’ll make it impossible 🤣🤣
Depending on her age and what she wants in this season, she must adhere her actions accordingly. If she’s in a position of long term partnership, she should let go of her current situation and see if it comes back when she’s ‘healed’.
29.37 - Courtney made such a valid point & it needs to expressed at every single stage of the relationship. Expressing expectations, changes to expectations & clarification of meaning every single time, As and when they arise. Sometimes it's clear in the beginning and then fizzles due to lack of this integral communication from both sides.
1:07:00 Unpopular opinion, but I think that the best first date is to sit on a bench in a park or along a canal and just chat. If you cant have a good time without the gimmicks/props etc, are you two really a good match?
1000% this! This is how me and previous bf met (granted, finances were also challenging at the time lol) but in retrospect, it's such a wholesome way to get a genuine feel for who someone is.
This is my first time commenting on your pod and I always listen to you guys😊but you guys honestly get me laughing hard sometimes in my car😭you don’t understand how funny you guys are🤣
Welcome round these sides sis! 😂 So encouraging, we clowns over here fr! Hope you stick around ❤
8:46 Ummmm.... sorry but .... if our dilemma sister struggles with long distance, how will she make the new relationship work? Was he not abroad?! Or have I missed something?
12:56 I also agree that this second relationship may have gotten too serious too quick as well and some reflection is required to understand what is driving this.
Can’t wait for TMS hot takes 🤭
We will be coming in HOT! 🥵
I am actually here a day after listening Courtneys video! I was not only encouraged but also reminded of the importance of ensuring my own relationship with Christ is where it needs to be but also the importance of spending quality TLC with Him. Would definitely recommend!
As always, great advice and perspectives from Renee and Courtney 😊
Thanking you kindly! ❤
Loved this episode 😂😂❤️
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Loved the realness on this episode
Yaaaaas Renee your response to the dilemma is everything !! Cause I was like WHAT ?! Girl you are the problem respectfully. And as a woman who has cheated emotionally you were wrong so I’m glad that was addressed . I also 100% agree with CBD because this was my thought also ! Why are you even trying to talk to this man UNLESS he wants to talk leave him alone . You can take the integrity issue up with God . I do think it be nice to know the breakup wasn’t all his fault but also it’s not a need to know necessarily .
Please please please, we need a part 2 of this episode😍😍😍
The ultimate duo 💓💓
This episode was so funny omg !!! 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
I literally be feeling like I am over communicating 😔
Yes, I also thought Courtney had dyed her hair. She would look great in that hair colour.
"Oohh baby, Nooo" Rene😂😂😂
‘Bad gyal, bad gel’😭😅🤭
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