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  • @JUICEtries
    @JUICEtries Před rokem +11

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  • @sapphirewingthefurrycritic985

    I feel bad for single dads not having a changing table in the men's public restroom. Dads are just as important as moms.

    • @vinaayagamkarunagaran3439
      @vinaayagamkarunagaran3439 Před rokem +7

      its sad that society thinks that moms should do the "taking care of the house and kids" part and the dads should do the "jobs that need you to get physical and/or involves tools", its even worse when some people reach a point and expect moms to be a stay at home housewife while dads are expected to work so hard to provide for their family to a point where they barely have time to interact with their kids.

    • @ryanewald9740
      @ryanewald9740 Před rokem +2

      If you have ever had the misfortune of cleaning a public restroom those thing always end up damaged or abused by women either sitting on them and ripping them off the wall or leaving shit covered diapers inside them. If those things are installed in men's room they never get like that.

    • @Dooodle2949
      @Dooodle2949 Před 11 měsíci +2

      at least we have unisex bathrooms (also why is the word unisex when uni is one?)

    • @shaereub4450
      @shaereub4450 Před 11 měsíci +3

      At the fast food restaurant I work at, there's one in both men's & women's.

    • @WaltherBrandl
      @WaltherBrandl Před 8 měsíci

      If there is no changing table in the men's room I'll just go change our kid in the ladies room. IDGAF.

  • @wolfrosefrost5475
    @wolfrosefrost5475 Před rokem +44

    When a story attempts to make a character be unlikable yet tries to make you sympathies with another character that did worse, especially when the unlikable character has a more compelling backstory and/or reason for a chance at a redemption. Bonus disdain when the supposed unlikable character is nicer than they appear and is being the reasonable one in a situation.

  • @patrickzadelaar
    @patrickzadelaar Před rokem +44

    I find it strange that a woman can accuse a man of doing something horrible without any prove than the man needs to prove it's not true. But if that man accuse the same woman of harassment and threatening with unaliving with prove the police looks him straight in the face and say: "we see no case". Loyer did not agree with the police. Yes this happened to someone I know in may 2023.

    • @vinaayagamkarunagaran3439
      @vinaayagamkarunagaran3439 Před rokem +7

      i feel sorry for whoever you know who went through that bro

    • @Juzokinnie
      @Juzokinnie Před rokem +6

      This one drives me up a wall. It's so horrible. I think it's based on the thought process that women are weaker so people tend to believe that women cannot be a threat, which they absolutely can be. This standard is extremely damaging.

    • @GrahamLavelle-hn3sz
      @GrahamLavelle-hn3sz Před měsícem

      ​@@Juzokinnie I don't think thats the reason

  • @mindmaster323
    @mindmaster323 Před rokem +33

    Story 13: I had a math teacher in middle school who would let students hug him if they were having a bad day. He was a pretty cool dude who cared about his students. He could be strict but he genuinely cared about helping us learn the material. His name was Mr. Van and he was probably one of the better math teachers I've ever had.

    • @JuanTonSoupXP
      @JuanTonSoupXP Před 5 měsíci +1

      Mrs. Stone was mine. That woman taught me more about math in that one class my 8th grade year, than I ever got anywhere else. She was strict asf, always about business (regarding teaching during her class time) but one thing that can’t be ignored is why she was the way she was. The woman genuinely gave a shit about sending us to high school with the knowledge we needed.

  • @TheReal_CoachCason
    @TheReal_CoachCason Před rokem +14

    Here's a couple I've experienced. 1: Managers at my work: If we see you on your phone while on the clock, we'll give you a write-up with no questions asked or warning. Also managers: "On their own phone while on the clock anytime I see them. 2: Parents say I can't drink even though I'm at the legal drinking age, meanwhile it's they're perfectly fine with my brother smoking cigars whenever he wants while being under the legal smoking age and can't buy his own tobacco.🤦‍♂️😤🤬
    It's annoying when the younger sibling is always the favorite.

  • @halowaffles
    @halowaffles Před rokem +10

    For the first story, if a salesman adds on charges you didn't agree too, don't call to take them off. Instead, get a lawyer and file a lawsuit. They'll have to pay a small settlement that'll cover the lawyer fees plus some nice little pocket change. If you call to remove it, all that happens is they stop charging you for the thing they never should have added.

  • @schizophrenicmelancholy2706

    To me, literally any double standard involving gender I despise with a passion. It would be unfair to say “I hate the one that affects my gender, specifically/doubly”, but it is more prominent while somehow being more obscure, if not outright ignored, and I have to fear it happening to me.

    • @Benjamin1986980
      @Benjamin1986980 Před rokem +7

      Well, you feel the ones that affect you personally far more than the ones that affect others, and you see them. Many, if not most forms of us are completely unofficial and more less invisible unless you're directly involved.
      The double standard that irk me most are the ones that are official. For example, you can specify that you are not going to hire anyone who is a straight white male. However, if you replace any of those three words, it's suddenly illegal. This is despite the plaintext of the civil rights act. However, laws that aren't enforced effectively do not exist and so blatant, well-documented discrimination goes unchallenged

  • @bombdotcom2168
    @bombdotcom2168 Před rokem +8

    It bothers me seeing how many double standards men (single dads specifically) have to deal with.
    The fact that men are instantly viewed as dangerous regardless of the situation or as incompetent to watch children is ridiculous

  • @reeceulf
    @reeceulf Před rokem +33

    The gameplay in the background is a painful experience thank you for reminding me what it feels like to be alive

    • @RawrLess
      @RawrLess Před rokem +3

      I NEED TO KNOW the name of that game play, it seems so relaxing

    • @starlightwolf9093
      @starlightwolf9093 Před rokem +2

      ​@@RawrLessspirit of the north and it is not relaxing, its pain

    • @bensoncheung2801
      @bensoncheung2801 Před rokem

      🦷🦷🦷
      🩸🩸🩸

    • @Mitzi-chan224
      @Mitzi-chan224 Před měsícem

      ​@@RawrLessSpirit of The North, it's pain

  • @jessicajayes8326
    @jessicajayes8326 Před rokem +33

    Being neurodivergent makes everything you like cringe. When my mom sings Disney songs to herself, it's cute. When I do it, she asks if I've taken my meds!

  • @DanielGonzalez-qk6sd
    @DanielGonzalez-qk6sd Před rokem +14

    Story 16: what sucks more is OP is gonna realize that it wasnt just an elementary school thing. Its an “all school” thing.

  • @thesupershinymegagengar2034

    Ooohh!!! That respect one and "men don't cry" REALLY drove me up the wall, because they both hit too close to home! I have a great aunt who has been treating my like dogshit since I was freaking five! Every time she screams her head of at me for doing what she thinks is wrong (which is literally everything I do), I used to cry a lot. Then she snaps at me, saying and I quote "You a boy! Boys don't cry! Girls cry!" Keep in mind, I was a kid... when I grew resentful towards her as I got older, she had the gall to lecture me about respect. I'm 22 now, and I talked to my mom, who was also treated badly on a daily basis by my great aunt, about this too. She asked if I'm alright, after my great aunt recently mistreated me, as usual. I told her how much I can't stand that atrocious excuse of a woman, and she said "I understand how you feel, but you have to remember that she is your aunt. You have to respect her, even a little."
    As if she ever deserves any...😒 It doesn't matter whether she's family or the fricking president of the United States. Why in God's green earth should I show even a little respect to someone who has never respected ME as a person, since freaking childhood?! No hate towards my mom at all, but make it make sense!

    • @Juzokinnie
      @Juzokinnie Před rokem +4

      That is so horrible. Personally, my great aunt was the sweetest and loveliest old lady ever. I think there's a standard in general that you must respect your elders even if they treat you like garbage. I've been told I need to respect my grandparents when I tell people that I hate them. I've gotten the "But they're your family so you have to love and respect them." It makes me livid because my grandfather has groped me, screamed at me for not meeting his standards, threatened to destroy my stuff, gaslit me, screamed at me about how I'm lying to "make him look bad" when I try to hold him accountable for his actions/abuse. People constantly tell me he's a good man and it takes all of my willpower to not expose the years of manipulation and abuse he put me through. In other words, I completely understand your pain and anger, and you have the right to be angry. That lady does not deserve your respect. I think people need to break the standard of "older people deserve respect automatically." There is a certain amount of authority older people have, which pertains to ensuring needs and priorities are taken care of. But an adult does not deserve to be the highest being that can not be defied if they don't earn that respect. An abusive adult doesn't deserve an ounce of respect.

    • @sukaidoreikudaleyangel9347
      @sukaidoreikudaleyangel9347 Před rokem +1

      Dude you really need to go no contact with both your mom and her aunt, cause she is one of those people who enable those type of people behavior like your great-aunt, look I know she your mom but you need to tell her she has to cut her aunt out of her life and yours, if she doesn't you will cut both her and great-aunt out of your life and before you say yeah but she your mom yes that's is true, but no mother wouldn't allow her child to endure what she/he went through okay you need to cut that aunt out, so you can have your mental state back best of luck.

    • @bombdotcom2168
      @bombdotcom2168 Před rokem +1

      I hate the "They're family you have to respect them" shit.
      My aunt treats me the same way and if I have the audacity to stick up for myself, I'm told I need to be more respectful

    • @thesupershinymegagengar2034
      @thesupershinymegagengar2034 Před rokem

      @@Juzokinnie Bro, how did your grandpa not get arrested at that point?! That's horrifying!

    • @thesupershinymegagengar2034
      @thesupershinymegagengar2034 Před rokem

      @@sukaidoreikudaleyangel9347 Thank you. And don't worry, my grandma and my other great aunt talked to my mom about that, so it's all good.

  • @lahlybird895
    @lahlybird895 Před rokem +9

    Mom: I won't let you hang with your internet friends unless you get there first and last name and their parents profiles and information so I can meet them and talk to them
    Also mom: never give away any personal information on the internet at all ever about any of us

  • @ryanewald9740
    @ryanewald9740 Před rokem +8

    When people call their pets fur-babies it's cute but when I call a baby a skin-dog it's weird and "I am the worst pediatrician in this hospital"

  • @TheGoowolf
    @TheGoowolf Před rokem +9

    When two lady friends hold hands, people assume they are friends. When two male friends hold hands, people assume they're gay. Can't a guy hold the hand of his best friend?😊

  • @cdmcintyre1854
    @cdmcintyre1854 Před rokem +5

    I had a similar situation in the Air Force. The TI said when we got back from an assignment, “Light ‘‘em if ya got ‘em.” Referring to cigarettes. Then 15-20 seconds later the rest of you get in the barracks and start cleaning. So later I asked for a pass to the BX(Base Exchange, store for you civilians). Bought a lighter and a pack of cigarettes. So I lit one and burned it until smoke break was done, I got to enjoy smoke break without actually smoking. (My parents didn’t raise a dummy) When I left Basic I gave an almost full pack of cigarettes to a friend that actually smoked. Got to enjoy “smoke break” and not have to actually use those cancer sticks

  • @VashXTrigun
    @VashXTrigun Před rokem +4

    Story 12 is currently relevant to me, since
    I recently managed to complete my bachelor's degree and am looking for a job.
    Today I saw a job vacancy online that was for an entry-level position, you'd think would be starter friendly, but they still asked for X years of experience for it. Maybe I missed something, but that seemed strange to say the least.

  • @geekchic8798
    @geekchic8798 Před rokem +11

    A number of people say that all video games and animated films/shows are considered for kids, yet they clutch at their pearls when said things contain blood, swearing, sex and so on and they bitch, complain and wonder why places/TV channels/cinema/streaming services sell/show them to children.

    • @Juzokinnie
      @Juzokinnie Před rokem +3

      Even worse is when people are okay with that stuff in animated films but lose their marbles when it's in a video game. What drives me up a wall is my dad's father thinks schools should show kids real war footage yet lost his marbles and said I was playing a violent videogame because he saw guns in. The game I was playing? Overwatch. Like ah yes an animated game where the goal is to capture the object/escort the payload where you use weapons to stop the enemy team from stopping you is soooooo much more violent than forcing kids to watch real war footage.

    • @geekchic8798
      @geekchic8798 Před rokem +3

      @@Juzokinnie I can't believe that your grandpa thinks it's okay to show actual war footage that contains blood, dying people and so on in school, yet gets triggered when you play Overwatch. It's like if a teacher let their class watch 50 Shades for sex ed, but wigs out if a student was reading a manga or comic that had a bit of or no fan service.

    • @BlackTheBerserker
      @BlackTheBerserker Před rokem +2

      This is a weird one to me because I've had to have conversations with my dad multiple times about this matter. He talks about how cartoons have so much violence and gore now, but I then have to point out those shows he's thinking of quite literally aren't made for young children. Hell, my cousin once showed part of sausage party to her kid because she didn't bother to check the rating or read the description, and just assumed it being animated meant it was for children.

    • @geekchic8798
      @geekchic8798 Před rokem +3

      @@BlackTheBerserker Your dad thought animated shows aimed towards adults were for kids? Omfg, didn't he look into those shows first? Hell, didn't your cousin put 2 & 2 together with the title sausage party or the dvd cover or the image on the streaming service?

    • @BlackTheBerserker
      @BlackTheBerserker Před rokem +2

      @@geekchic8798 Lol, she didn't put it together until she started hearing the dialogue.
      And with my dad, honestly, the thing is, he will realize my point when I make it, but inevitably he'll come back with the same comment months later as if we never had the conversation. It really feels like a boomer mentality that he just can't break that animation is a kid thing. This despite that fact that he logically knows say, "Family Guy" isn't for kids.

  • @alexissmith5589
    @alexissmith5589 Před rokem +7

    Parent: Lying is wrong. Also Parent: There's Santa, the Easter bunny, tooth fairy and an invisible sky daddy that will punish you for *Insert bulls**t reason here*

    • @apenas_tarso
      @apenas_tarso Před rokem

      And i learned that
      There is no easter bunny
      There is no tooth fairy
      And there is no queen of england😒

    • @JamesDavy2009
      @JamesDavy2009 Před rokem

      @@apenas_tarso England has a king now.

    • @mancave10369
      @mancave10369 Před rokem

      @@apenas_tarso
      This is the real world and you need to WAKE UP!
      *Welcome to the Jungle starts playing*

    • @apenas_tarso
      @apenas_tarso Před rokem

      @@mancave10369 "YOU DAARE CHALLENGE MEGAMIND?"

  • @fullmetalgamer6062
    @fullmetalgamer6062 Před rokem +19

    My step-dad: Lying is wrong
    Also my step-dad when he introduced me to people: This is my oldest son.

    • @thesupershinymegagengar2034
      @thesupershinymegagengar2034 Před rokem +7

      I have a (not so) great aunt who does the same thing. She always makes such stupid religious lectures to me about lying, no matter how many times I've been telling her the truth. Yet she always go around saying outrageous stuff. From always calling me a liar to claiming herself as the nicest person that ever lived. It's a true scientific marvel someone like that can spew so much horseshit without running dry.

    • @SenseiRaisen
      @SenseiRaisen Před rokem

      ​@@thesupershinymegagengar2034sounds like a religious nutjob Karen.

    • @saagisharon8595
      @saagisharon8595 Před rokem

      because there's lying and then there's just telling people stuff that not only can't they confirm but also have no right to attempt to do so

    • @fullmetalgamer6062
      @fullmetalgamer6062 Před rokem +1

      @@saagisharon8595 So, you're saying both are lying.

    • @saagisharon8595
      @saagisharon8595 Před rokem

      @@fullmetalgamer6062 it's not really lying unless you either caused damage or gained trust

  • @slumpdotexe
    @slumpdotexe Před 11 měsíci +3

    Me and my mom are currently suffering from covid and she told me "eating ice cream isnt going to help you get any better" while she was vaping. So i told her "vaping wont help you get better either" to witch she responded "are you an expert on that?"
    For somebody with a degree in science,she really lacks intelligence.

  • @wolfskinchanger
    @wolfskinchanger Před 6 měsíci +1

    As an American:
    You're expected to give two weeks' notice before you quit so that your bosses have time to find a replacement; those same bosses can fire you without even two seconds' notice, leaving you to scramble to find another job.
    (Edit to add) As a man:
    "Talk to her, okay? She knows tools way better than me; I can barely tell a screwdriver from a bus driver."

  • @Lynxan
    @Lynxan Před rokem +7

    Amen on the smoke breaks, though I can give it a step further. When I was in the army I had to maintain the grounds, including cleaning up all the buts the smokers just tossed everywhere, easly over a hundred each week.

  • @SenseiRaisen
    @SenseiRaisen Před rokem +4

    My mother: *rage when someone lie about the most minuscule thing*
    Also my mother: *proceed to put me a title of a career i never want, and make my work like a huge deal as well exagerate the price of some things, despite were more cheapee*

  • @emdelicatelyme
    @emdelicatelyme Před rokem +3

    Loudly demanding everyone accommodate and validate you, while not only denying others the same right, but also showing zero respect for the country that allows you the freedom to do so and the heroic people who volunteer to protect those rights with their lives.

  • @lilithhecataniangoddessesm187

    I’m not sure if this would apply to all places, but it’s when everyone seemed to be forced to become a 100/100% saint, like no one can have their own unique characters anymore, some aren’t even flaws but are still flaws to those annoying people

  • @helix7773
    @helix7773 Před rokem +3

    For the "taking your kid to the park and being suspected of being a pedo" problem, I suggest getting a T-shirt made with a recent family photo on the front of it complete with yourself, mom, and kid that you happen to be there with.
    Any questions about who you are and what you're doing there, just point at the shirt. Bonus points if your kid has a matching T-shirt too. Damn near beyond reproach at that point. A damn shame it's even necessary though.

    • @discovario
      @discovario Před 10 měsíci

      If I’m being honest that story sounds fake asf 😂. I was grown up being around men 24/7 and taken there mostly without my mom and never bothered. No one cares unless you ACT suspicious. Maybe if he was acting like he was a pedo, that’s why. And usually women are scared other men will hurt their children so that’s probably why they’re weary but yk.

  • @josephwilliams2406
    @josephwilliams2406 Před rokem +4

    Here's one thing i used to hate, back when i worked retail i was in the discounted area. Its an arra where the store card isn't even needed because the prices are already discounted. Despite this when our manager left, a manager from the other side came and tried to force the standards of the regular store onto us. Why force customers to open an account they don't need un an area where it's not needed, don't force us to cover for the regular store because they can't deliver

  • @ArcTrooper-Fives
    @ArcTrooper-Fives Před rokem +2

    I got draggeg into court along side my Dad because he was dropping me off at school. the opposition got slapped with 5O hours of community service for defamation which is a crime in Australia

  • @SenseiRaisen
    @SenseiRaisen Před rokem +3

    I get frown by a group of karens just because my 2nd sister decide to tag along after i buy a new motherboard for replace the one who busted off. People assume you're a pedo o a creep just for be with someone the considerate "young" despite there isn't any contact at all (i'm 34 and my 2nd sister is 23) and just waking to take the bus.

  • @Aggro-bbx
    @Aggro-bbx Před 5 měsíci +1

    I hate how I gave my heart to this girl and she screamed “ew! It’s still beating!”

  • @nunyabidness117
    @nunyabidness117 Před rokem +5

    Every man is assumed to be a rapist and predator.

    • @BoatsBigDay
      @BoatsBigDay Před 11 měsíci

      While bias based off of gender in this way is very damaging and things like dirty looks from strangers at the park and being fired from jobs where you have to work with children is super messed up, one point made about this topic in this video strikes me the wrong way. The point about ‘seeing a woman out at night and she starts grabbing her pepper spray and speed walking away’ is a very self important(?) view of the situation. She’s not judging you personally and you have no idea what she’s been through or how recently. She has taken no action that causes you harm or could possibly cause you harm, she’s simply taken action to protect herself

  • @MrXemrox
    @MrXemrox Před rokem +1

    20:34 Remains me of an Cyanide & Happiness video about a lady was a pro boxer, she won, but got brused up, and when she and her boyfriend started to head home from the stadium but people in public thought the boyfriend was one of those types of "boyfriends" and she fought the "defenders".

  • @ImNotCreativeEnoughToMakeUser
    @ImNotCreativeEnoughToMakeUser Před 9 měsíci +1

    If someone calls an animal a "fur baby", they're "normal" and "just being cute."
    However, if I call a child a "flesh doggie", somehow I'm suddenly a "psychopath" and I need to "stay at least 500 feet from any vulnerable individuals"

    • @GrahamLavelle-hn3sz
      @GrahamLavelle-hn3sz Před měsícem

      WHY ARE THERE SO MANY OF THESE COMMENTS!? IM GENUINELY SCARED OF EVERYONE WHO CALLS KIDS THAT NOW

  • @JackieOwl94
    @JackieOwl94 Před rokem +2

    21:15 That kind of thing happened all the time when I used to fence in high school, along with spelunking and other rough and tumble activities. My friends took me aside before a concert and asked me about my bruises all over my ivory arms in my short-sleeved black dress. I was positioned in the front row, as was my instrument, so everyone saw and made comments. I chuckled and regaled about my sparring matches and asked why the other fencers weren’t getting interrogated. The response was: you’re a girl, and a tiny one at that. We were scared for you. You shouldn’t do anything that would put you in danger.
    At that time, I was one of the least likely people to been in that kind of situation, so I was offended for being called weak when most of my body composition was muscle at the time.

  • @AspieGirlArianaHale
    @AspieGirlArianaHale Před 2 měsíci +1

    When men have reproductive health issues, they’re treated right away … but women who have PCOS/endometriosis pain are told to “suck it up”, as our gender is “built to handle childbirth”, so you’re not entitled to pain relief or treatment unless you’re legit dying (& even then, you get a laughable amount of “pain relief”, only to get scolded/accused of hypochondria when you ask for something stronger). If that’s not double-standards, IDK what is. 😕🤷‍♀️

  • @jus-7421
    @jus-7421 Před rokem +2

    Indentured Servant: I hate this place! But my contract will end and I'm going back home.
    Chattel Slave: You're escaping?! What's the plan?
    Indentured Servant: No I'm leaving because I'll be finished and move on with my life. When's your contract end?
    Chattel Slave: .....It doesn't..
    Indentured Servitude and Chattel Slavery may have some similarities but at the end of the day, the indentured servant was still considered a "person" whilst chattel slave was considered "property". Big difference.
    Chattel Slave: Contract?

  • @Eevee_133
    @Eevee_133 Před 8 měsíci

    I know exactly how it is about being interrogated by doctors or nurses about beating up an SO. So about a year or 2 ago, my wife (fiancé at the time) and I were out riding e-scooters and one of her wheels got caught in a drainage grate and she flew over the handlebars. She had a really deep cut on her forehead where her helmet had dug into it. Take her to the ER, they claim they need to look at her alone, and then I get interrogated about beating her up. It took a lot of convincing for them to believe me. Was a really sucky situation

  • @TLSoulDude
    @TLSoulDude Před rokem +1

    The TV/video games one thing bugs me, too. Everyone's got hobbies or methods to decompress or deal with stress. Most of it's just fun escapism.

  • @Lynxan
    @Lynxan Před rokem +2

    The worst ones are things like the last one. It is crappy to assume, but if there right.... sometimes it really is better to be sure, as bad as it can make someone feel.

  • @JuanTonSoupXP
    @JuanTonSoupXP Před 5 měsíci +1

    It’s absolute horse shit that leaving the toilet seat up is seen as gross/that it’s expected for men to put it back down after using the restroom.

  • @starlightwolf9093
    @starlightwolf9093 Před rokem +1

    I'm stuck in that exact spot in that game, I ended up rage quiting because of how many times I got stuck, and since there's no checkpoint there, I have to do everything all over again

  • @Satnanat
    @Satnanat Před rokem +3

    Men bitching about having to play as woman characters in video games but if women complain about the infinite amount of male protagonists we’re accused of being “woke”

    • @VergilTheLegendaryDarkSlayer
      @VergilTheLegendaryDarkSlayer Před 5 měsíci

      The men who bitch about playing as women in video games are bitter leftists

    • @GrahamLavelle-hn3sz
      @GrahamLavelle-hn3sz Před měsícem

      This is why I like games where you can play as either gender or gender only comes up once or twice. Try playing baldurs gate 3, that game is more choice than story lol

  • @wargamesmaster
    @wargamesmaster Před rokem +2

    Does "you're a man, you must know how to repair things" counts? Because that happened to me before and it fricking annoys me.

    • @wolfskinchanger
      @wolfskinchanger Před 6 měsíci

      It does count, because the inverse also exists in that women are often assumed not to know how to repair things.

  • @evoamer2686
    @evoamer2686 Před 11 měsíci +2

    My grandma got upset with me for having an opinion on political views that opposed her own. She went on a tirade how millennials are ruining this nation. I’m gen z. >.>

  • @dogofwar6769
    @dogofwar6769 Před rokem

    My late step-father had something like this. He would say 'We need to do-' and there some random task. But when he said 'We' he *_always_* meant _me._

  • @DoorShutter
    @DoorShutter Před rokem

    Story 1: I've had this happen to me. I bought a Google Pixel 6 from the Google store. AT&T started charging me 15$ per month for insurance. I caught it after about 4 months.

  • @magmaspeedcubes
    @magmaspeedcubes Před rokem +7

    Sports/extracurriculars are a hobby
    Video games are an addiction

    • @Juzokinnie
      @Juzokinnie Před rokem +1

      Playing videogames is not an addiction as long as it's in moderation. Moderation is key. If you do anything too much, it's an addiction. If someone were to hypothetically be so interested in basketball that they skipped sleep, meals, and spent as much time as possible playing on a regular basis, that would be an addiction. Of course I doubt that would happen because exhaustion is a thing and sports helps people become tired, but if that were to happen it would be an addiction. To claim that so much as being interested in video games is a blatant lie. Video games are a fairly common addicition, it's easy and it takes much longer to become exhausted. But just because someone plays a video game doesn't mean you should assume they have an addiction because even as common as it is, majority of people still realize that important things and taking care of their needs take priority over their hobby. If someone is not taking care of things that take priority on a regular basis as a result of it, like their needs (food, sleep, work, bathroom, hygiene, chores, etc.) then yes, it's an addiction.
      Ironic how you are arguing for a double standard under a video about double standards.

    • @magmaspeedcubes
      @magmaspeedcubes Před rokem +2

      @@Juzokinnie I'm pointing out the double standard.

    • @hennie5307
      @hennie5307 Před rokem

      One is much healthier than the other

    • @hennie5307
      @hennie5307 Před rokem

      @@zouraplayz not close to being that common. The benefits outweigh the risks a hundred times over.

  • @guyfromyourwalls
    @guyfromyourwalls Před rokem

    So this tall and nerdy guy in my class once got a 3+ in his math evaluation because of double standards despite getting the answer wrong. And it’s not just that, it even happened once in French. Luckily, this only applies to his favorite teachers. Another double standard moment are these two girls who sat next to each other for 6 months in a row despite having a seating plan. Even if they’re being so immature, the teacher usually does nothing but I remember a few times that they’re told to be mature. This even applies with our current music teacher whom we all hate and they’re all on their phones all day being loud and the teacher does something about when it comes to us but not with them. The same thing happened to my friends who are in different classes too.

  • @nickronca1562
    @nickronca1562 Před 2 měsíci

    I needed story 19 as comic relief from how infuriating the rest of these are

  • @SiegeTF
    @SiegeTF Před rokem +1

    I walk around with my boobs out and its disgusting.
    A woman does it and its brave, and liberating, and beautiful and stuff!

  • @GrahamLavelle-hn3sz
    @GrahamLavelle-hn3sz Před měsícem

    Story 43: first thing when i move out: buy a dress and walk around in public. Im male. Im just gonna get a tatto of the number of comments about my dress in the first week

  • @BadEconomyOfficial
    @BadEconomyOfficial Před 6 měsíci

    2 really annoy me:
    If someone hits, assaults or verbally abuse you, it’s one thing or not illegal. When YOU do it back, it’s “illegal.”
    If you allow your friends to do certain things, like lean against your car 🚘. It’s fine, but when someone you DON’T know leans against your car 🚘 you’re easily offended by what they did and say “These guys are my friends! DON’T lean on my car 🚘!” When the guy you don’t know is just trying to make friends.

  • @TheChosenOne0420
    @TheChosenOne0420 Před 9 měsíci

    #35 I was abused as a kid and ended up repressing everything and it gave me really bad anger issues I thankfully it’s gotten better recently though

  • @4lexIsNotReal51
    @4lexIsNotReal51 Před 9 měsíci

    Story 19 is the best hands down

  • @Notaperson_o-o
    @Notaperson_o-o Před rokem +1

    story 5 : probably also fentanyl

  • @jerk
    @jerk Před rokem +1

    🧠🧠 finish listening to ALL the stories here czcams.com/play/PL5FcevqxOz5tuU1qghkOUcBqGKHKXHO0f.html
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  • @frostyalplayz
    @frostyalplayz Před rokem +1

    Keep up the great content

  • @marypuppet110
    @marypuppet110 Před rokem

    All those poor guys in jobs like teaching or in day care center. In college about 15 years ago, I remember one guy friend of mine wanted to work in day care because he had a natural talent with kids! He was the oldest of all his many cousins and was their babysitter for all his teenager, he loved it, and even took babysitting jobs in his neighbourhood. Where I live you need college education to work in daycare center (those are not the same as someone making a daycare in their house, tho they still need to be approved) because it's more of a teaching environnement like school but with games and activities to suit toddlers, from babies until they enter primary school at 5 of 6. When he had his first internship they said to him that he needed to be with a woman at all time, could never be alone with a group of kids for more than 5 minutes and he was forbidden to enter the nursery so if a colleague needed help changing diapers for like 10 babies, he couldn't help whatsoever. I know rules were different from one daycare center to another, but still. That experience crushed him seriously and proceeded to abandon his degree. That's just really sad. Like it's not because a guy want to work with kids, have a great paternal instinct and loves kid in general that he's a creep!

  • @cute_protogen
    @cute_protogen Před 5 měsíci +1

    What is the game in the background?

  • @user-zw6ml7qu8e
    @user-zw6ml7qu8e Před rokem

    i am 13 years old and i sometimes come in early to play chess with my teacher my teacher is a good person and i know he wold never do anything like that but i guess i could understand why that could be a little wierd

  • @shadowretz377
    @shadowretz377 Před 9 měsíci

    Apologies for not being on topic for the video, but what's the game being played in the background? Didn't see anybody else in the comments ask

    • @wolfskinchanger
      @wolfskinchanger Před 6 měsíci

      "Spirit of the North". Haven't played it myself, but it's on several systems.

  • @bubblestheaxolotl4974
    @bubblestheaxolotl4974 Před 4 měsíci

    W spirit of the north gameplay

  • @TheVillageIdiot829
    @TheVillageIdiot829 Před rokem

    No wonder my Toyota was shit

  • @Joel-nu1ed
    @Joel-nu1ed Před měsícem

    18:51 And I still think emails are a pain in the a And I am gen z

  • @schizophrenicmelancholy2706

    17:45 I feel this as a 5’ 5.5” male.

    • @Lucifer-do7mf
      @Lucifer-do7mf Před rokem

      why are these girls so obsessed with this anyway? my boyfriend is almost exactly the same size as me. why the hell does this of all things matter to these ladies?

    • @schizophrenicmelancholy2706
      @schizophrenicmelancholy2706 Před rokem

      @@Lucifer-do7mf I’ve actually read about that myself long ago because I was annoyed. Turns out, a tall boyfriend makes them feel safe, vulnerable, and/or subby. Other than that, it’s an internet trend to have a talk boyfriend to spoon them, get stuff from tall shelves, carry them, etc. Overall, it’s just kinda selfish.

    • @Lucifer-do7mf
      @Lucifer-do7mf Před rokem

      @@schizophrenicmelancholy2706 makes me wonder what they bring to the table. i prefer my smaller bf. at least i dont get neck pain when looking up to talk to him XD

    • @JamesDavy2009
      @JamesDavy2009 Před rokem +1

      @@Lucifer-do7mf "I'm into shorter guys" -Lazuli (a.k.a. Android 18)

  • @overlordmadness1548
    @overlordmadness1548 Před 11 měsíci

    Story 13: yeah that may be causing more harm then good doing that but what happens if what the Male Teacher is doing is taken the wrong way. The Male Teacher’s life is pretty over. It’s not his fault, it’s damn society’s.

  • @Mitzi-chan224
    @Mitzi-chan224 Před měsícem

    What about "women can't be gamers!!!!"?

  • @thehund
    @thehund Před rokem

    story 28 100% facts

  • @thatanimeguy8461
    @thatanimeguy8461 Před rokem

    keep going

  • @stevenfragoza46
    @stevenfragoza46 Před rokem

    most annoying double standard I know of is baby's kick pregnant women all the time...
    BUT AS SOON AS I DO IT I GO TO JAIL

  • @jamescook6564
    @jamescook6564 Před rokem

    I can blame the Army as to why I smoke today. You didn't get a break unless you smoked, I know it's wrong but you cannot fight the government.

    • @yulee3266
      @yulee3266 Před 7 měsíci

      You can fight the government its been done multiple times

  • @saagisharon8595
    @saagisharon8595 Před rokem

    44
    When a woman has an abortion that isn't for health reasons, she contributes to negative growth. If she gets knocked up shortly after highschool, she was most likely a mean girl anyway. Still, why aren't there government funded organizations to help these would-be single mothers if population growth is so important?

    • @dieblaueflamme4387
      @dieblaueflamme4387 Před rokem

      Because normally they do receive help from the society and gouvernement.
      Grundgesetz (constitution of Germany)
      Artikel 20, Paragraph 1:
      ,, Die Bundesrepublik Deutschland ist ein demokratischer und sozialer Bundesstaat"
      ~(The BRD is a democratic and social federal state)
      Artikel 6, Paragraph 1:
      ,, Ehe und Familie stehen unter dem besonderen Schutze der staatlichen Ordnung."
      ~(Marriage and family do benefit from special protection by the order of the state)
      Artikel 6, Paragraph 4:
      ,, Jede Mutter hat Anspruch auf den Schutz und die Fürsorge der Gemeinschaft."
      ~(Every mother has the right of protection and care of the society)
      I do not know how the constitution is not clear about the issue.

  • @bennood2031
    @bennood2031 Před rokem

    Smoking thing isn't a double standard for the record - reason is that if your working in something like engineering you need them to give 'pause' to your thoughts to help actually the development cycle during work. Your not thinking about anything else other then what your working on.

    • @jeffs7573
      @jeffs7573 Před rokem

      So, what short break does a non-smoker get doing the same job?

    • @bennood2031
      @bennood2031 Před rokem +1

      ​@@jeffs7573 Coffee? Watercooler talk? come to mind pretty instantly. Really anything that lets you walk away from the desk for 3-4 minutes? Everyone has a way of doing it. People just point at the smokers because it's more obvious.
      Honestly - if they don't let you 'walk away' to think - your probably working a dead end job tbh.

  • @solsotice6775
    @solsotice6775 Před rokem +1

    Story 31 to me very much sounds like someone who is either a feminist or is out of touch with reality.

    • @BoatsBigDay
      @BoatsBigDay Před 11 měsíci

      Sounds like you’re out of touch with reality because what the poster was saying is a very real and common issue and double standard

  • @Leavemealoneheh
    @Leavemealoneheh Před rokem +4

    Happy pride month
    (Day 1 of waiting until my friends figure out I'm not straight)

  • @bensoncheung2801
    @bensoncheung2801 Před rokem

    ☹️☹️☹️

  • @whatdoyouexactlymeanbyhandle

    Early gang

  • @welloup2338
    @welloup2338 Před rokem

    Wait we Irish we’re slaves?? I didn’t know that hahaha

    • @thediamondkittygamingmore6614
      @thediamondkittygamingmore6614 Před rokem

      You- you didn't know you were slaves?
      I'd be happy to fill you in, I guess.
      You've only been independent for like a century

  • @withinseven1762
    @withinseven1762 Před rokem +3

    HAPPY PRIDE MONTH 😎

  • @mothaclysm
    @mothaclysm Před rokem +1

    owo

    • @bepyn4ik
      @bepyn4ik Před rokem

      Why do you want money?

    • @mothaclysm
      @mothaclysm Před rokem

      @@bepyn4ik What?

    • @Leavemealoneheh
      @Leavemealoneheh Před rokem

      UwU

    • @bepyn4ik
      @bepyn4ik Před rokem

      @@mothaclysm it says "translate to English" and when i click it it says something about money

    • @mothaclysm
      @mothaclysm Před rokem

      @@bepyn4ik owo don't mean money

  • @vonwthaud289
    @vonwthaud289 Před rokem

    TO ZHE

  • @FurretAnimationsIsEpic
    @FurretAnimationsIsEpic Před rokem +3

    these videos are getting stale

    • @stormdoesgaming8919
      @stormdoesgaming8919 Před rokem +2

      How? A lot of them may be of similar topics overall, but it's always different people telling different stories. No story is repeated in any videos, it's all fresh new ones. So I don't understand what you mean by "stale", unless you're referring to the video topics, which imho -- no, they haven't gotten stale yet. Maybe you're just getting cynical, in which case why are you still watching?

    • @fullmetalgamer6062
      @fullmetalgamer6062 Před rokem

      Your mom is getting stale.

    • @FurretAnimationsIsEpic
      @FurretAnimationsIsEpic Před rokem

      @@stormdoesgaming8919 they’re simply boring

    • @Lucifer-do7mf
      @Lucifer-do7mf Před rokem +3

      @@FurretAnimationsIsEpic then... dont... watch it? nobody is forcing you

    • @average_commenter1
      @average_commenter1 Před rokem +1

      Why are you here then? Again, nobody is forcing you to watch these videos

  • @user-me7iw6ft8z
    @user-me7iw6ft8z Před 9 měsíci

    The argument with pronouns is so dumb. It doesn't matter what you prefer it matters what you are.

  • @phiakate
    @phiakate Před rokem +1

    Men complaining about the consequences of other men having hurt women and children over the years. Suck it up buttercup. Too many examples of women and kids being hurt and manipulated and no one being held accountable.

    • @BlackTheBerserker
      @BlackTheBerserker Před rokem +4

      So, I find it weird that you're commenting this under a video about hypocrisy. Like, you're talking about how other men did those things, and yet you think it's okay to tell men who've done nothing to suck it up? Like, that's the definition of hypocrisy. That's like walking up to a black person who's done nothing and telling them that they need to stop committing crimes. Like, what? And if we're talking about accountability, men, especially men of color are far more scrutinized and penalized than women for the same crimes. Hell, with children especially. It is far, far easier for a women to get away with abuse. Hell, women often still get full custody even if abuse is proven.
      Now, if you're talking about the assholes who miss "the good old days" and want to get away with what they used to with no consequences, I get that, but your post doesn't remotely read that way, because you literally use the term "other men." As if a group should be held to the standards of the worst members. If we applied that to logic evenly literally everyone would have to "suck it up" about everything someone else did just because they have an arbitrary similarity. Attitudes like that breed resentment and push people toward toxic ideologies because they rightfully feel unfairly targeted.

    • @BoatsBigDay
      @BoatsBigDay Před 11 měsíci

      So I agree and disagree. While bias based off of gender in this way is very damaging and things like dirty looks from strangers at the park and being fired from jobs where you have to work with children is super messed up, one point made about this topic in this video strikes me the wrong way. The point about ‘seeing a woman out at night and she starts grabbing her pepper spray and speed walking away’ is a very self important(?) view of the situation. She’s not judging you personally and you have no idea what she’s been through or how recently. She has taken no action that causes you harm or could possibly cause you harm, she’s simply taken action to protect herself. Men being upset about that really need a reality check.

    • @BlackTheBerserker
      @BlackTheBerserker Před 11 měsíci +1

      @@BoatsBigDay So, at the end of the day, our emotions are valid. It makes sense for someone to feel uncomfortable in that situation, and frankly, even I as a man watch my back if I'm walking around at night, especially because men are more likely to be victims of violence. However, in that same vein, it's also valid to feel bad when you see someone is afraid of you. Even if you understand why someone is uncomfortable, it's still a crappy feeling, and you shouldn't diminish that. You also don't know what the guy has experienced or gone through either. You mention she's taken no action in that situation to harm him, but neither has he. They both have perfectly valid reasons to feel the way they do. Once again, our emotions are valid, and you shouldn't diminish one's over another.
      Now, if I were to speak to my own experience, and I admit I'm only bringing this up because you mentioned children, but yeah, I ended up having to change majors and colleges because of what I went through. I spent 3 years working as a preschool teacher, and I was under infinitely more scrutiny, accused of things that clearly never happened, and help was actively withheld from me even if available just by virtue of being male. Meanwhile, my coworker who I ended up leaving the job over(in conjunction with the discrimination), was fired after I had left due to her being under investigation for hitting the children. She also got her friends jobs who were threatening other teachers right in front of the kids, and in many cases she flat out refused to do her job. Despite all my warnings, nothing was done until after I was gone. To his day, I don't feel comfortable around children anymore, to the point where I don't feel comfortable ever having kids, and while I'm not sure on this last one, it's probably affected my ability to have normal relationships with people in general(but that one is probably a combo of a lot of things). Hell, my friend is in a sticky situation with his ex, because despite the fact that their kids clearly want to live with him, and she constantly yells at her children and isn't emotionally available, she still constantly threatens to take his children away from him. Fact of the matter is, this dynamic actively protects female abusers while hurting males who've never done anything.

  • @CarsFnaf
    @CarsFnaf Před rokem +3

    A grandma IS a grandma cuz her son/daughter has a kid and that makes her a grandma ; she didn't choose to because a grandma , a man that thinks he's a woman and saying he's pronouns are she/her doesn't make him a woman . That comparison is dumb , Bro thought he did something.
    Grandma: don't call me grandpa cuz I not your grandpa I'm grandma.
    Man: don't call me he/him cuz I'm not a man.
    Me: but.... you are a man , the fact that you think you can just say " i M a wOmAn " and just become a woman is silly , cuz you can't

    • @thediamondkittygamingmore6614
      @thediamondkittygamingmore6614 Před rokem +2

      My friend you're going to have to get with the times or you get left behind.

    • @CarsFnaf
      @CarsFnaf Před rokem

      @@thediamondkittygamingmore6614 and you should learn basic Biology or you’ll look like a fool . Oh and remember Men can’t be Women and Women can’t be Men and there aren’t more then TWO genders

    • @zoekizziar4543
      @zoekizziar4543 Před rokem +1

      Why does it matter that much to you what another person wants to be called. Also Grandma is a pronoun just like mother and father because Grandparent is the nongendered term.

    • @CarsFnaf
      @CarsFnaf Před rokem +1

      @@zoekizziar4543 they might be...... but parent and grandparent terms as well as regular pronouns...... they can't be customized or chosen. It's just the basically English language. "Facts don't care about your feelings!" - The Daily Wire
      . Also the reason why it matters so much is that when they want to teach such incorrect things to young kids to get them to question themselves is completely wrong , they shouldn't be worrying about such stupid things specifically at a young age .

    • @BoatsBigDay
      @BoatsBigDay Před 11 měsíci

      @@CarsFnafjust wait til you realize gender is a social construct and it really does not matter at all how you define yourself as long as you’re happy, healthy, safe, and not hurting anyone around you

  • @exceptformeandmymonkey6964

    Liberalism

    • @JamesDavy2009
      @JamesDavy2009 Před rokem

      In my country, the Liberal Party is becoming a lot like your Republican Party.