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  • This is the marriage advice no one told me before I got married! We discuss issues that can arise like cheating, arguing, power-play...
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    Salaam and hi!
    It's Amara here, I hope you are well.
    After doing HEAVY magazine research in my single-dom, I figured I knew what to expect from marriage... I didn't. 🙈
    This was meant to be 10 of the most important things I've learned so far, but we went into so many tangents that we had to cut it down to 7! 😂
    I hope you enjoy the video and PLEASE share below any marriage tips you have for me & anyone reading. There's so much to learn! Way more than the articles led me to believe... 👀
    See you in the comments below! 💜
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Komentáře • 214

  • @TheXs.Official
    @TheXs.Official  Před 3 lety +42

    Thanks to everyone watching! 💜
    What are YOUR fears or experiences with marriage? Anything stick out??
    Let us know below! ✍️
    ALSO, 100 points to whoever finds our little hidden message!! 👀🫒🧃

    • @leonnox901
      @leonnox901 Před 3 lety

      Respect and good communication is very important.

    • @aj__love5919
      @aj__love5919 Před 3 lety

      Huge take away Stay away from magazines and articles 🤣 speak through miscommunications, but if there are arguments on one side just reason with it peacefully. I would say my fear is that I wear my emotions up my sleeve so I am a very easy to talk to person. Which is why I would say the fear is to not get used.

    • @IsmiFarha
      @IsmiFarha Před 2 lety

      Mash’Allah- i’m so happy I found your channel. I am also in an inter-racial marriage, but my husband is the Pakistani one. I agree that communication- honest, sincere communication is key. Also, I learned you don’t need to feel “in love” all the time, but you need to always prioritize respecting and loving your partner even when it’s difficult. May Allah bless your marriage and grant you more peace, love, faith and baraka 🤲 Ameen

  • @blacksling9
    @blacksling9 Před 3 lety +100

    I am not Muslim…but watching you two makes me want to be. You are physically beautiful. But my god your love and caring for each other makes your physical beauty look like nothing. If you are what true Muslims look like I am converting. I am serious, if your wife is an example of a Muslim wife I want that. You two are a fantastic example!

    • @TheXs.Official
      @TheXs.Official  Před 3 lety +23

      Your words are so touching and humbling, thank you. We carry out our lives in accordance with Islam. It is the basis of everything we do. Obv individuals differ in their conduct but the religion only teaches love and reason. We are both praying you find the wife you desire. If you ever have any questions or want some support with anything, feel free to hit us up. We’re more than happy to help. ☺️
      We intend on discussing a lot of topics, especially how we have navigated through life as Muslims. I hope you can gain some value from some of them, in shaa Allah (god willing). 🤲🤍

    • @blacksling9
      @blacksling9 Před 3 lety +20

      @@TheXs.Official ! I will watch with reverence, and joy…in Shaa Allah.
      I binged watched your videos, I am now sipping on the last two, a little bit at a time. Wish you made one everyday.
      It really is fantastic to see love and respect, consideration and caring all administered in such kind and humble ways.
      I look forward to your next video…till then may you both be blessed!

    • @fibrahim4fi
      @fibrahim4fi Před 2 lety +12

      That is beautiful May Allah guide you to the straight path Ameen.

    • @yumnasejal1433
      @yumnasejal1433 Před 2 lety +1

    • @nakiryahanif1733
      @nakiryahanif1733 Před 2 lety +1

      May Allah guide you to Islam cause it’s love and peaceful hit me up when you convert

  • @iqra1297
    @iqra1297 Před 3 lety +52

    “Advising us to do the same thing they did, when they’re not happy with the situation they are in” YES YES YES!! WELL SAID👏🏼 exactly.

    • @TheXs.Official
      @TheXs.Official  Před 3 lety +8

      Advice is free but not always in your best interest. Depends on the situation and individual. NOW EVERYTHING I TYPE SEEMS SO INTENSE 😩😩😂🤷🏽‍♂️

    • @iqra1297
      @iqra1297 Před 3 lety +1

      @@TheXs.Official YES EXACTLY! Again, GREAT VIDEO❤️ and there’s such a big difference between you typing and Amara😂 I love how you interact with everyone! It’s so refreshing:)

    • @TheXs.Official
      @TheXs.Official  Před 3 lety +1

      @@iqra1297 LMAOOO Iqra 🤣💖💖 I'm glad you can tell the difference between our typing x

    • @namkebanyanklariti
      @namkebanyanklariti Před 2 lety

      Yes yes yes infinitum ad naseum.

  • @leonnox901
    @leonnox901 Před 3 lety +45

    She's a good wife King also you seems to balance her, I'm not Muslim but love what it stands for.

  • @iqra1297
    @iqra1297 Před 3 lety +76

    Amara pink is your colour MA! You’re literally like the older sister I never had😭 I love how you openly talk about the topic of marriage, most of the time people expect us to already know the ins and outs based off what we see (from our parents own marriage etc.) or hear. Everyone’s experience is different. Thank you for this video❤️

    • @TheXs.Official
      @TheXs.Official  Před 3 lety +9

      Aww thanks Iqra 🙊🙈 I feel so fancy wearing a different colour 🤣 my little sister gave me this one! Everyone's experience really is different and there's so much I stressed about that I wish I was reassured about before. 😂 I hope I can share bits sometimes for girls especially to feel reassured by ❤️ talk about things girls might worry about. & YES PLZZZ. I LOVE BEING A BIG SISTER. IT'S THE BEST THING EVER. 👭 I have my 2 sisters from my parents but have adopted more along the way. 😂 Plenty of room for more 🤗 x

    • @iqra1297
      @iqra1297 Před 3 lety +1

      @@TheXs.Official I love the fact that your parents adopted! It honestly is such a beautiful and precious thing to do! The only hijab colour I ever wear is black😭🤚🏼 AND YES! IVE ALWAYS WANTED A BIG SISTER😭 imagine the embarrassment that would have been avoided when I first learnt how to do a hijab, if I had an older sister to teach me🥺 Oh God, I’m getting shivers remembering😩

    • @TheXs.Official
      @TheXs.Official  Před 3 lety +6

      😂😂 Nono I didn't mean real adoption, I meant a lot of my sisters' friends have become little sisters to me too now. I don't think I explained well 🤣❤️
      ...but sidenote, adopting is such a beautiful thing to do mA. 🤲 X
      Black is my main go-to aswell, I'm trying to be more adventurous. Maybe you can too now 😂 we'll do it together! X

    • @iqra1297
      @iqra1297 Před 3 lety +4

      @@TheXs.Official OHHHH😮 See, sometimes my brain cells go to party in Hawaii leaving me stranded on my own😔 ANYWAY, I’ll give an update on my ‘adventures of a hijabi trying to wear colours other than black’😎

    • @TheXs.Official
      @TheXs.Official  Před 3 lety +3

      🤣🤣🤣🤣 you're hilarious ❤️ YES! Keep me updated x and tell your brain cells to send me pics from Hawaii 😚 xoxo

  • @dinomauss1157
    @dinomauss1157 Před 2 lety +27

    Amarah seems so innocent about how life is, and it’s so beautiful to see how real and humble and catering her husband is to her. Nah watching this made me smile so much, I’m in a interracial marriage too, a very different kind of one. allahumma barik to you both, it’s so refreshing to watch you guys 🤍🤩 the happiness he clearly consciously wants her to feel is so apparent. Allahumma barik.

  • @rukiakameel6244
    @rukiakameel6244 Před 3 lety +22

    That Hijab colour looks GORGEOUS ON YOU DARLING 🌸

    • @TheXs.Official
      @TheXs.Official  Před 3 lety +1

      🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈 thank you thank you. It's my 'i'm feeling fancy' option right now so I appreciate that 😂❤️

    • @rukiakameel6244
      @rukiakameel6244 Před 3 lety +2

      @@TheXs.Official well you’re WORKING IT SIS! Also love the insight on married life, will revisit this if I get married in the future Inshallah! 🥰

  • @Orion801
    @Orion801 Před 3 lety +41

    It's someone's prayers that brought you guys together, one of your parents or both. I really enjoy the time give to watching your videos. Thank you for sharing the moment.

    • @mz8194
      @mz8194 Před 3 lety

      Prayers? Get real. They just found each other and it turned out a to be good match.

    • @Orion801
      @Orion801 Před 3 lety +7

      ​@@mz8194 Maybe your parents prayed that you would have wisdom and know everything, or maybe you just think you know everything. I found out a couple years ago that my mom, who has a strong faith, prayed that I would find a wife with characteristics she knew I needed in my life because she knew me my heart and character better than most people.

  • @sunya8199
    @sunya8199 Před 3 lety +23

    You guys speak so humbly and amaras personality is so addictive she just brings so much happiness and positivity❤️ her smile literally is so beautiful ❤️❤️💕

  • @princessmuslimah5706
    @princessmuslimah5706 Před 6 měsíci +1

    As a newly married muslimah, Im so grateful for this channel. Thank you for being so transparent and relatable.

  • @yonab8649
    @yonab8649 Před 3 lety +26

    You guys are so positive and happy. All young couples need to watch this. You guys are the best.

  • @misbahailia3345
    @misbahailia3345 Před 3 lety +7

    Sufiyan's impression of Amara 14:14, 😹 Never gets old!
    It's adorable how he copies the way she nags lolz. I can picture Sufiyan mimicking her, even when they're an elderly couple Insha'Allah.

  • @omufirika2023
    @omufirika2023 Před 3 lety +14

    My faith in love being restored how beautiful 😍

  • @gilbertwilkerson5310
    @gilbertwilkerson5310 Před 2 lety +7

    Great video, from a guy that has been married 40 years, you give good advice, I wish you both the best.

    • @TheXs.Official
      @TheXs.Official  Před 2 lety

      That's so humbling to hear, alhamdulilah. 🙏🤍 Thank you for commenting! ☺️

  • @OfficialMNIB
    @OfficialMNIB Před 3 lety +16

    - Colour deficient - 😅 😂 🤣 😹

  • @aishafaisal2249
    @aishafaisal2249 Před 3 lety +10

    I’m getting married and this was very eye opening and refreshing thank you ❤️❤️

  • @michellelockett6518
    @michellelockett6518 Před 2 lety +4

    Wow you deserve a medal bro 👍😂. Some great advice here. If you have kids the advice about positive comments is true there. Always respect, listen and praise positive behaviour and achievements to your children too 😊

  • @zuenahhamad3236
    @zuenahhamad3236 Před 3 lety +21

    I think am ready for marriage now😂😂😂love you guys❤❤

  • @lifeitself4377
    @lifeitself4377 Před 2 lety +3

    Sufiyan is so LUCKY to have her mashaAllah. They are both amazing mashaAllah 🥰

  • @aniqasattic1004
    @aniqasattic1004 Před 3 lety +7

    I love the “reset” bit at the end so much and not falling into power play. It’s so easy to fall into that trap, but it’s so important to stay on the same level and talk things out.
    Your advice is on point, and as the years go on some things will change, but some of things you’ve said will form the foundations of your marriage.
    ❤️

  • @shengiemathed5555
    @shengiemathed5555 Před 3 lety +5

    The headcover colour is beautiful and it definitely suits you.

  • @saudaabdu3056
    @saudaabdu3056 Před 2 lety +3

    Amara’s energy is beautiful, its her laughter for me😂...... I just found myself an inspirational channel about imaan and islamic relationships❤️💚💛

    • @TheXs.Official
      @TheXs.Official  Před 2 lety

      Awwwwww thank you sis! 🙈🙈❤️ & so happy you've joined us xxx

  • @fawziasarwar3836
    @fawziasarwar3836 Před 3 lety +13

    What a great video, so much good advice. Married 5 years now and everything you said is so releatable. I love watching yous talk together, may Allah swt bless your marriage with so much love and happiness 💗 Thank you for giving out REAL advice 💌

    • @TheXs.Official
      @TheXs.Official  Před 3 lety

      Made me light up to read this ❤️ so nice that you've been married longer than us and found relatability in this. Ameen wa iyyaki. May Allah SWT protect you and your family, bless you in adundance and give you all places in jannat al firdous 🤲 ameen x

  • @JayEm74
    @JayEm74 Před 3 lety +4

    I am not religious at all and I appreciate you both. Way to be an example and candid.

  • @namkebanyanklariti
    @namkebanyanklariti Před 2 lety +5

    You guys have learned a lot about each other and the dynamics of an healthy relationship.

  • @kulsuman9869
    @kulsuman9869 Před 3 lety +4

    When Amara was talking about like not being able to trust people / Sufiyan. I think that was more anxiety, rather then how she feels about Sufiyan. And I am the same with people, I get really anxious when it comes to trusting people. But what's worked for me is, yes looking at their character like Sufiyan mentioned. But also, trusting God. Bc in uncertain situations, God is the certainty. So being like this person is a good person, and they have the capability of hurting me. But I will believe that they won't bc god has control over them, and God is mercifull and loving.

    • @TheXs.Official
      @TheXs.Official  Před 3 lety +2

      Yes, definitely more anxious thinking. Not based on reality at all or the person. & Remembering God really does ease it and bring you back, it's just a very active thing you have to remember to do in the moment. That you don't need to fear hurt off the ones you love when Allah SWT will always be your biggest protector and deepest relationship. ❤️🤲

  • @nicolegordon129
    @nicolegordon129 Před 2 lety +4

    Prayer can produce peace and intimacy. I believe a praying man is attractive as well. Yes. Play together. My husband loves that.

  • @lisagab
    @lisagab Před 3 lety +10

    You guys are speaking truth and making it fun at the same time😍😍

  • @ansarana8471
    @ansarana8471 Před 3 lety +13

    I LOVE YOU GUYS TOGETHER 💗💗💗💗

    • @TheXs.Official
      @TheXs.Official  Před 3 lety +1

      WE LOVE THAT YOU LOVE THAT WE LOVE THAT YOU LOVE US TOGETHER!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @aj__love5919
    @aj__love5919 Před 3 lety +16

    Amara&Sufiyan are officially MY FAVORITE CONTENT CREATORS♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️😭 I love the advice that both of you gave about talking it through fights in marriage. You guys are hilarious and Amara can you please show your makeup routine!! I only wear makeup when I have to so I go for neutral looks girl your looking so graceful Masha’Allah. Sufiyan can you please do more videos on reciting prayers your voice Masha’Allah when you recited was outstanding!! I love both yours and Amara’s British accent in general even both of your dimples are adorable 😊 I can relate to Amara because damn there are so many sites for advice on marriage 😂 I have not found the one but tips really do help😍♥️ JazakAllah!

    • @TheXs.Official
      @TheXs.Official  Před 3 lety +4

      WOOOOO! We're honoured! 😂💃💖 So glad you enjoyed the video. I don't wear makeup much day-to-day so routine is about 3 products and very boring, too boring for video 🙈 but I like it neutral too. This is about as fancy as my makeup gets 😂 & Yesssss ❤️ his voice mA mA. I shot that's footage secretly of him one day to keep because it's so beautiful mA & I love to play it when he's too shy to recite for me 🙊 really happy the advice helped & remember, BE BETTER THAN ME. STAY AWAY FROM THE COSMO ARTICLES! 🙈👀 They don't tell you that you need all the love languages! 🤣 Xx

    • @aj__love5919
      @aj__love5919 Před 3 lety +1

      @@TheXs.Official which neutral pallet do you use for the eyeshadows♥️ And I’m staying away from those magazines 😂 🤟🏼 I can’t wait for the next videos but I already know you two will nail it!!

    • @TheXs.Official
      @TheXs.Official  Před 3 lety +1

      @@aj__love5919 I don't have a palette, too many options for my 1 look. 😂
      I mix the concealer on my lid with powder and bronzer instead & hope you like this next one 😌🤭

    • @aj__love5919
      @aj__love5919 Před 3 lety

      @@TheXs.Official it works perfectly and we are all waiting for your next video !🙌🏼

  • @kazzz786
    @kazzz786 Před 3 lety +4

    You really made me think about my marriage, you don't realise but just get comfortable with each other that sometimes you let the little things slip like the basics in appreciating each other an letting them know, may Allah(swt) bless you both abundantly in your journey and reward you for helping others in theirs InshAllah 🥰🤲

  • @kizzeherron3114
    @kizzeherron3114 Před 3 lety +5

    Love the transparency

  • @TasteThisNow
    @TasteThisNow Před 3 lety +3

    I just came across your channel and binge watching all your video. You guys seem like such a lovely genuine couple.

  • @waldensiansylph4869
    @waldensiansylph4869 Před 2 lety +2

    This had been so helpful 🙏 I feel more need normal now.
    I do some of these things, the anxiety and scatterbrainedness. 😅
    Reading all the articles and books, looking for the red flags, linking music with emotions too much, fear when watching a show where a guy is bad to the girl, or seeing divorce everywhere frightening me.
    I'm not used to guys either, what they're capable of scares me.
    But a praying, godly man of real integrity is very attractive, will feel safe and truly incredible

    • @cooljool1
      @cooljool1 Před rokem

      if the guy is bad to the girl its usually because the girl disrespected him or over stepped her boundaries

  • @norineaa
    @norineaa Před 3 lety +5

    Such a great video and everything is very eloquently stated mashaAllah! Happy to have stumbled upon your channel - now a new subscriber. An Egyptian 🇪🇬 tuning in from Canada 🇨🇦!

  • @maryamjae1300
    @maryamjae1300 Před 3 lety +9

    best channel to watch on a Sunday evening. lots of love x

  • @universalachiever6474
    @universalachiever6474 Před 3 lety +2

    Hello
    Your video was very realistic and make sure both of you continue to keep your communication open and honest
    I like the fact both of you understand how dangerous pre​con​ceived notions can be... Especially as it relates to marriage
    Wishing both of you all the best and continued success!!

  • @claudettegill8400
    @claudettegill8400 Před 2 lety +1

    I love you all. My cheeks hurt because your videos keep me smiling throughout. Well said and well done Amara and Soufian. Wish When I got married years ago that I had the maturity that you both speak with. Beautiful as always.🌺💕

  • @varnettiekohres5760
    @varnettiekohres5760 Před 2 lety

    Greetings from Austria! Have been married 18 years but can and am still learning a lot from the two of you, especially the point on poer play or silent hostility in a marriage. Great video! 👍

  • @1DrkVixen
    @1DrkVixen Před 3 lety +11

    Love is so beautiful! Thank you for sharing!

  • @timothyjackson1779
    @timothyjackson1779 Před 3 lety +5

    I think this was great. Communication and compassion are king. I would add that you have to be each other’s shield from the outside would and not allow others to the steal the peace you create in your home. A great marriage requires 3 things, Commitment, Companionship, and passion. You guys are awesome. Never stop putting in the work to maintain your marriage.

  • @thenkaliway85
    @thenkaliway85 Před 2 lety +2

    This channel is my happy place ❤️💯

  • @fatimamohamed978
    @fatimamohamed978 Před 3 lety +2

    Thank you for a very good and entertaining❤️. Thank you guys, for so much good advice❤️

  • @flexjuva
    @flexjuva Před 3 lety +3

    MashaAllah this video was very uplifting.May Allah continue to put Barakah in your union Ameen..

  • @GoodBoyFx
    @GoodBoyFx Před 2 lety

    yo Sufiyan that hand levels up n down, excellent visual man.. totally makes sense. One has to remember to rise up to redeem themselves n it makes sense. What sucks is when you are right n she harms u..but still acts as if u did something wrong while in reality she did.. but she can't C her own mistake AT ALL... thats what happens, the disconnect... i felt that in my marriage n i was waiting for her to apologize, she just never did... cuz she even tho did me wrong, just never saw it. BUT yea those hand levels make me realize the distance between us grew n grew.

  • @sm2293
    @sm2293 Před 2 lety +1

    This was so refreshing thank you for sharing Sufyan is a very wise man and Amara I resonate with you so much reading all the articles😂

    • @TheXs.Official
      @TheXs.Official  Před 2 lety

      We're so glad you liked it. & THE ARTICLES LIIIIIE 😭😂❤️

  • @stanny76
    @stanny76 Před 2 lety +1

    This gave me hope! Thx you.

  • @ashleighmharadzirwa7779
    @ashleighmharadzirwa7779 Před 3 lety +3

    Well said ,love you guys

  • @denden8326
    @denden8326 Před 3 lety +2

    Great advice guys. Sending love from Jamaica.

  • @yabobayo5787
    @yabobayo5787 Před 2 lety

    I think you guys are figuring out and awesome.
    I try to think of my marriage as service to my partner instead of having crazy expectations. Or receive exact same in return. Obviously one shouldn’t let themselves used and abused and hurt but just being there for each other in the honest ways makes the journey easier.
    May God help us.

  • @lorettakasana7984
    @lorettakasana7984 Před 3 lety +2

    Am married and found this so insightful!very applicable,healthy and real great advice!

  • @amymycroft8735
    @amymycroft8735 Před 3 lety

    Jazakallah for being so open. MA SHA ALLAH

  • @wasfamilton9212
    @wasfamilton9212 Před 2 lety +1

    Hands down mashallah the most beautiful merging of a couple I've seen. God bless your marriage even more and protect it. Had to say mashallah several times whilst watching and such sound and meaningful advice.

    • @TheXs.Official
      @TheXs.Official  Před 2 lety

      What an incredibly sweet thing to read! Thank you so much 🥺💖 Ameen to your dua 🤲 may Allah SWT bless you xx

  • @sairahussain6260
    @sairahussain6260 Před 3 lety +7

    Hi I’m a new subscriber love you pair as a couple your so fun to watch easily relatable

  • @yumnahsalie4996
    @yumnahsalie4996 Před 2 lety +1

    Thank You for sharing interesting topic Alhamdulillah. So true us women usually overthink things and that can cause problems.
    You both explained it so well.
    The funny thing you said about watching a movie and it effecting the mind and outplay the negative emotion of it. Reality and fantasy are totally different in life yes.
    Shukran 😊

  • @clairegordon7951
    @clairegordon7951 Před 2 lety

    This moment spent listening to you both was very refreshing and different from the norm.
    I can see that you both were meant for each other and I pray and hope that you will grow closer and deeper in love and look forward for some bundle of Joy running around in the house calling you both mum and dad.🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Be blessed.

    • @TheXs.Official
      @TheXs.Official  Před 2 lety +1

      What a lovely comment to read. Your words are so touching and kind ❤️ thank you. & We can't wait either! 🥰🤲 ...maybe we'll have to send our kid to bed or something when I'm having some 'shooting his dad in a video game' therapy though 👀😂 blessings to you too. Thanks for commenting. 💖

    • @clairegordon7951
      @clairegordon7951 Před 2 lety

      @@TheXs.Official U R most welcome🤣🤣

  • @Maryam-cy6qn
    @Maryam-cy6qn Před 3 lety +5

    Favourite video so far 🤍

  • @eleeaislamey551
    @eleeaislamey551 Před 3 lety +1

    Thanks guys. Very very valid and good points. I think courtesy is so key. When you just want to kill each other in a marriage, remaining courteous is very important.

    • @TheXs.Official
      @TheXs.Official  Před 3 lety +1

      Courtesy & also finding your spouse attractive. 😂 My aunty once told me to make sure I marry a man I find very handsome so that when we want to kill each other I can think to myself 'ahhhh...at least his face is nice, I can't be that mad'. 🤣 It's so real! Glad you enjoyed it. Xx

    • @eleeaislamey551
      @eleeaislamey551 Před 3 lety

      @@TheXs.Official ha ha that's very sweet. I'm Bangladeshi and my husband is West Indian. We've been married for almost 14 years now Alhamdulillah plus 2 kids later..... Looks don't last...especially after children!!!. Rather as you said, the Deen and the manners is what remains.

  • @littlepapermoon5565
    @littlepapermoon5565 Před 2 lety

    Beautiful couple masha'Allah, beautiful advice and I've made notes insha'Allah thank you to you both :) x Always so fun to watch!

  • @sybilbailey5503
    @sybilbailey5503 Před 3 lety +1

    Very interesting topic quite enjoyed. Your wife is beautiful and so jolly.May God continue to bless the both of you.

  • @monckgeezy817
    @monckgeezy817 Před 2 lety +1

    Love your energy.

  • @rukhsanarauf3264
    @rukhsanarauf3264 Před 2 lety

    Aw mashallah this vlog is so sweet stay blessed xx

  • @shaidakousar6493
    @shaidakousar6493 Před 3 lety +2

    Love your videos, keep them coming, power couple, I would love it , if you can do a scene from etugrul gazi, etugrul and halima , how much patient they are?

  • @urwahxx3399
    @urwahxx3399 Před 2 lety

    Only came across your channel last night and I cannot stop watching.. your videos are just so wholesome mashallah and I absolutely love your vibe!!! Also Amara your pink hijab look beauuuutiful on you mA ❤️

  • @shaz2324
    @shaz2324 Před 3 lety +3

    Ma Sha Allah great advice guy's

  • @a4adventure67
    @a4adventure67 Před 3 lety +16

    You have said very good things May Allah bless you .cute couple Ma shaa Allah..Much love and God Bless🖤

    • @TheXs.Official
      @TheXs.Official  Před 3 lety

      Alhamdulillah. It’s advice for ourselves also. May Allah improve us all 🤲🏽☺️🖤

    • @a4adventure67
      @a4adventure67 Před 3 lety

      @@TheXs.Official آمين يارب العالمين

  • @halalpolice7544
    @halalpolice7544 Před 2 lety +3

    7:49 he reversed her game 😂😂

  • @wazy317
    @wazy317 Před 3 lety +5

    Forget about all the advise others have given you about how to live as a married couple, you have to find what works for you. The only advise you should take to heart is when it's about the Dean of Islam.

  • @joannatongs1941
    @joannatongs1941 Před 3 lety +2

    Just discovered you, love that you are so real.
    This is from trinidad and tobago

  • @HM-uk7bw
    @HM-uk7bw Před 3 lety +11

    MashaAllah the most beautiful hijabi I have ever seen 😍

    • @TheXs.Official
      @TheXs.Official  Před 3 lety

      Oh wow, that's such a sweet compliment 🙈🙈 if that doesn't make a girl feel good in her hijab then I don't know what could! So kind x

  • @a4adventure67
    @a4adventure67 Před 3 lety +6

    Like before watching the video 🖤

  • @khadijahassan7130
    @khadijahassan7130 Před 3 lety +3

    Amara I keep laughing with you , you're so funny 😆🤣😂

  • @jodieblake7398
    @jodieblake7398 Před 3 lety +3

    Super amazing couple!!!!

  • @nerakami1
    @nerakami1 Před 2 lety

    ok.. you guys are just way too cute. Absolutely love your interactions together.. Hey Safari... what a gwan??

  • @proudmuslim1011
    @proudmuslim1011 Před 3 lety +7

    Such a beautiful couple Masha’Allah. May Allah continue to bless you in your marriage 😊 Really good points made.

    • @TheXs.Official
      @TheXs.Official  Před 3 lety

      Ameen 🤲 jzk for your duas. May Allah SWT reward you. Glad you enjoyed the points! ☺️

  • @RosesareRed38
    @RosesareRed38 Před 3 lety +10

    Ah the video that I’ve always wanted to see! I’m Pakistani from the U.K. and I’m turning 28…still not married. I’m so glad though because I was pretty immature before and seeing stuff like this is really helpful! I admit even now I fantasise about marriage but I’m trying to tell myself that it’s not always going to be rainbows and sunshine. Also I would never read a magazine from a western perspective because it’s all BS. I would rather get actual ISLAMIC advice! Why are so many people falling into the trap of western values when they don’t even work! The women are rude and that is something that is pushed onto them. Men are being feminised and you can see there is a problem because young men in the U.K. have a high suicide rate. So instead of fixing a problem we’ve made things worse. I hope that insha Allah I can find a husband like Sufiyaan who I can also talk to so comfortably (I’m an introvert with anxiety). Ps love the videos and keep them coming! ❤️❤️❤️

  • @mastershonobi110
    @mastershonobi110 Před 2 lety

    Thanks guys!!!!! I’m 15yrs in…2kids. It’s constant work…😅😅😜🙌🏿

  • @najmamohamed8461
    @najmamohamed8461 Před 2 lety

    Assalamu alaykum warahmatullahi wabarakatu my dear brother Suyan and sister Amara! This is my first vid of yours, and I just wanted to say THANK YOU SOOOO MUCH for making this vid, I know Amara you were a bit worried about whether people would find this helpful and I totally find this SO helpful as this year although I’m not married yet I’m about to be engaged and 🤣🤣🤣🤣 the same as you with your researching I just like watching vids like this to just get an idea of what to expect, and I love and appreciate your authenticity and genuine advice. Thank you both So much and May Allah reward you for all your good and positivity you being and I pray to Allah that he may bless you all with MANY BLESSINGS AND MUCH HAPPINESS, Allahuma Ameen 🤲🤲🤲🤲.

  • @amputeeinfluencer
    @amputeeinfluencer Před 2 lety

    I love the power play example. I can use it in my relations.

  • @muntahamalik3174
    @muntahamalik3174 Před 2 lety

    Love this!

  • @Stephanie-bh6jw
    @Stephanie-bh6jw Před 2 lety

    you guys are amazing. love from Trinidad!!!

    • @TheXs.Official
      @TheXs.Official  Před 2 lety

      That's so kind! Thank you, Stephanie 🥰🥰🥰💖

  • @A14BYT
    @A14BYT Před 2 lety

    Lol 😂 I was just like you Amara when I first got married 🙈

  • @hafsakhalid4645
    @hafsakhalid4645 Před 2 lety +1

    Y’all are sooo hilarious 😂😂😂❤️❤️❤️Allah bless y’all ❤️❤️❤️

  • @rebelwithahaloxx1002
    @rebelwithahaloxx1002 Před 3 lety +2

    I hope you're both feeling better. This is so sweet Mashallah. Amara is literally my spirit being! I love you both and this was so helpful ٱلْحَمْدُ لِلَّٰهِ ❤❤❤❤❤❤

    • @TheXs.Official
      @TheXs.Official  Před 3 lety +1

      🤗💖💖💖 Feeling loads better, alhamdulilah! Your comments are too sweet 🙈 thanks for the love ❤️ SO happy it was helpful to you! Makes me happy x

    • @rebelwithahaloxx1002
      @rebelwithahaloxx1002 Před 3 lety

      @@TheXs.Official omg you know I'm a regular commenter 🥰🥰🥰 ٱلْحَمْدُ لِلَّٰهِ

  • @nafeesaharamide493
    @nafeesaharamide493 Před 2 lety +1

    You both are really intelligent.

  • @audramitchell9894
    @audramitchell9894 Před rokem

    I really like your videos . I've dreamed of the lack of power plays ..to reset ...I really appreciate Equality .
    It's like you 2 came together as a couple for true relationship with value's. With a sentimental heart , Your wonderful human beings 🌹❤️🌹

  • @joshgroom8421
    @joshgroom8421 Před 2 lety +4

    This has little to do with religion- although it helps you folk- it's being honest and digging deep and wanting a positivie marriage- working together. Being humble and keep building

    • @sincereselector7386
      @sincereselector7386 Před 2 lety

      Well as Muslim, it has everything to do with religion. It is complete guidance. You don’t have to discredit the religion brother. Just respectful opinion

  • @sajalmaqsood1077
    @sajalmaqsood1077 Před 3 lety +2

    I would love to see sufiyan's mother on the channel😍☺️

  • @sonya7sf
    @sonya7sf Před 2 lety +1

    Amara pink is your colour, I think you should try other brighter colours. Love your channel 😍

  • @yvonnebacchas5435
    @yvonnebacchas5435 Před 2 lety

    Love your video God bless you both. My homie

  • @traceysanchez1293
    @traceysanchez1293 Před 2 lety

    I so agree with being sweet and very polite. It does make a difference. Pertaining to goals ,I get where youre coming from and that feeling of I have something to offer this world other than being a parent or wife especially as a woman i know that feeling to well. But what I do understand all to well now as a parent is only when you're in it is then you does know. Being a parent sometimes require you making really hard sacrifices and most times it ends up being the mother sacrficing her dreams or putting it off for a later time. For instance I went back out to work after my baby and that child decided she was not going to eat at all and she cried alll day long untill eventually she lost her little voice. I was uncomfortable leaving my baby. It was so hard and I made the sacrifice to be home with her. Yes there are mom's out there doing it, but u never know what life will bring you.

  • @shahidahrouf
    @shahidahrouf Před 2 lety

    Ok, I am now officially invested in u guys
    MA ur videos r so raw and real and awe inspiring mA ❤ 💖 alhamdulillah
    Allah akbar I'm learning so much and resonating so much with the things u guys r saying
    May u both ways b happy, blessed iA..

    • @TheXs.Official
      @TheXs.Official  Před 2 lety

      This is so sweet ❤️ may Allah SWT keep you happy and blessed too. So happy you're enjoying the videos! ☺️💖

  • @lalitasingh9908
    @lalitasingh9908 Před 2 lety

    Hi I'm a new subscriber to your channel
    Love all ur videos
    Where are you guys living at this moment

  • @senasezer422
    @senasezer422 Před 2 lety

    I have been in a long distance marriage for 2 years now and I think one of the most important things I have learnt is that I cant expect my husband to fix it everytime Im upset. Sometimes I really find myself getting upset over the smallest stuff even though I percieve myself to be on the rational side rather than emotional. In marriage shaytan tries a lot to cause fitnah between spouses, hence I get upset over the smallest things sometimes and even ask myself "what the heck happened now Sena??" So at those times I say to myself this doesnt make any sense, he doesnt have to fix it everytime I get upset, I will use my reason and stop this pointless mood swing. I think this is a very important point.

  • @95afaf
    @95afaf Před 9 měsíci

    You guys are so lovely MashAllah ❤

  • @Kiimii_
    @Kiimii_ Před 3 lety +1

    Wow
    I pray that inshallah one day my marriage could be as cute as yours 🤩

  • @muyimbwacatherine3309
    @muyimbwacatherine3309 Před 3 lety +1

    The new thing i learnt is power play

  • @aminahganiyu4599
    @aminahganiyu4599 Před 3 lety +14

    This is super helpful - as I’ve been checking articles and reading books trying to prepare myself for marriage. Thank you for sharing 🤍

    • @TheXs.Official
      @TheXs.Official  Před 3 lety

      Alhamdulilah, so glad it helped you! Thank you for letting me know. Makes me happy to hear ❤️

  • @nasreenaskem6645
    @nasreenaskem6645 Před 2 lety

    Salaam to both of you and lots of congratulations i like your video and also you are Marshall lovely couple

  • @lawright1223
    @lawright1223 Před 3 lety +2

    You guys are so funny and cute.