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  • @sandrawelch6653
    @sandrawelch6653 Před měsícem +448

    That little goat is like a puppy dog!!

  • @pittysbad
    @pittysbad Před měsícem +434

    in 1963, my father in law purchased a 280+ acre farm with a barn and pond for 28,000. we are still on a part of it.

    • @TerriPs91
      @TerriPs91 Před měsícem +54

      You are blessed!

    • @jackiemiyar3568
      @jackiemiyar3568 Před měsícem

      AWESOME! keep it in your family and dont sell to just anyone unless you investigate who you are selling to PLEASE. All our farmland is being sold to companies/elites that hide under LLC's...yes indeed you are truly blessed!

    • @lorribondurant9217
      @lorribondurant9217 Před měsícem +23

      That’s wonderful

    • @LL-wu8zt
      @LL-wu8zt Před měsícem +16

      Love it!

    • @jenniferkinkead6614
      @jenniferkinkead6614 Před měsícem +22

      Such a wonderful blessing.

  • @lovelight9164
    @lovelight9164 Před měsícem +390

    As much as it hurts my heart to say this. Both my mom and dad in their 80s have both passed in the last 5 years and I'm so glad they didn't have to see the great depression for the second time in their lives.

    • @cristallaprade5487
      @cristallaprade5487 Před měsícem +39

      Same here. My parents were blessed to live during the golden years of the best country in the best time in world history.

    • @dberger1010
      @dberger1010 Před měsícem +42

      I totally understand. I miss my mother so much, but I am also happy she isn't here to see or go through this. She was a child during the depression.

    • @mariamartin94
      @mariamartin94 Před měsícem +13

      Same here🥲

    • @brendahaire8824
      @brendahaire8824 Před měsícem +12

      Same here

    • @americanharleyrider8
      @americanharleyrider8 Před měsícem +13

      Same here. Dad passed in 18. Mom passed in 01.

  • @paulasansom6088
    @paulasansom6088 Před měsícem +394

    I'm one of the boomers who never earned much from my work and finally retired a bit early to take care of my mother when her alzheimer's required it. Finally got SS but didn't spend or save wisely. I have now entered debt management program, owe $14,000 still on my double-wide sitting on 32 acres of homeplace property. Not able to do much physically but doing what I can. I never married and have no children. If everything stays on track, I'll be debt free before I'm 78. Wish I had done better with finances when I was younger, so take heed, yungins.

    • @relevant.c5411
      @relevant.c5411 Před měsícem +38

      stay in Christ because he has bigger and better things coming ur way brother. ;)

    • @rubies200
      @rubies200 Před měsícem +25

      Prayers 🙏 to you!

    • @DianeWhittle
      @DianeWhittle Před měsícem +26

      I love you, you are so genuine and wise

    • @user-xu1fd3gi7f
      @user-xu1fd3gi7f Před měsícem +9

      Same here ❤

    • @Basedme944
      @Basedme944 Před měsícem +22

      Manufactured homes cost over $100,000 these days! It's ridiculous!

  • @Corad60
    @Corad60 Před měsícem +84

    I don't comment much. I lost my job after my husband passed 2 years ago. Company folded. At my age, I can't get hired for a part-time job at the dollar store. I have a good savings but with inflation, property taxes, and pray no major repairs are coming. Thank goodness I have spent 5 years prepping with food and growing what I can. Thank the Lord I am debt-free. Stay focused folks! Pray!

    • @JustJoyHowdy
      @JustJoyHowdy Před měsícem +1

      Live long. Peaceful. Prosper and be blessed!

  • @tonilc68
    @tonilc68 Před měsícem +303

    Good Afternoon to everyone! Stay alert, the clown show is ramping up! 🙏

  • @annamccosker7878
    @annamccosker7878 Před měsícem +114

    My husband and I are exactly in the position you stated... We have to financially support my mother and father because Medicare doesn't pay enough to support them. They literally wouldn't be able to buy groceries if we didn't give them money every single month. I'm so thankful that I'm married to a generous man and also grateful to The Lord for making it possible for us to live and give to them. God is so good to His children 🙏🙏🙏

  • @lastboyscout-5511
    @lastboyscout-5511 Před měsícem +133

    Retire? Personally I will have to work up until lunchtime on the day of my funeral.

  • @wolfeinthewilderness7232
    @wolfeinthewilderness7232 Před měsícem +137

    I agree 1,000,000,000% on multi-generational homes. Never would have said that years ago. Not now, the whole world has changed for the worse. Have to live like the Waltons again out of necessity. Welcome to the new Greater Depression.

    • @Pallasathena-hv4kp
      @Pallasathena-hv4kp Před měsícem +21

      The Waltons is an excellent comparison.

    • @misskaren1679
      @misskaren1679 Před měsícem +15

      Multi generational families were the norm until WW2 when the GI Bill made single family home ownership possible

    • @lindacordery7555
      @lindacordery7555 Před měsícem +2

      Love the Waltons watch everyday have taken a lot of tips from the program need to put back on tv full time ✌💜🙏

    • @Pallasathena-hv4kp
      @Pallasathena-hv4kp Před měsícem

      @@lindacordery7555 I agreee!

  • @Bigmama-rj9ih
    @Bigmama-rj9ih Před měsícem +20

    My daughter and 2 grandsons moved in with us in 2020. I went to take care of my dad, who was in hospice. After he passed away, we continued to live together. I have been preparing since before 2000. My daughter has a very good job and works as much as she possibly can so we can get our debts paid off for both of our families. We live very frugal. Our son with 5 kids thinks we are crazy because we don't go out to eat or run around doing what I consider to stupid stuff. We have horses, cows, pigs, chickens, turkeys, geese, ducks, and guineas! 2 small gardens, and I go to produce auctions when we need to. My husband and I homeschool school her boys, and they are learning not only school work but real life work! Some days are hard, but I wouldn't have it any other way! Thanks for doing what you do, girlfriend. You help keep this boomer going!

  • @FarmhouseWorthy
    @FarmhouseWorthy Před měsícem +241

    I love how Francis follows you. Those babies are so loving.

  • @pauladams7344
    @pauladams7344 Před měsícem +88

    You may not be planning to retire but your body has other ideas. Trust me on this one !

  • @dellametcalf3270
    @dellametcalf3270 Před měsícem +54

    I'm retired after 40 yrs as a med-surg, ICU and Psych nurse in four different states. I realize I'm blessed: home paid, no debt, been prepping big time, cash on hand. Unfortunately I've cancelled my home owners and car full coverage to liability only. 2014 car paid for. Reusing a paper plate if lightly used..being frugal. I have a friend who's mother will hire me part time in a hardware store and I'm going for it! Patara is spot on folks.

    • @cluckieschickens
      @cluckieschickens Před měsícem +16

      I would not cancel your homeowners insurance. That is very dangerous, unless you have the funds to rebuild if your house is destroyed.

    • @farmgirl8629
      @farmgirl8629 Před měsícem +2

      shop around, you need the home owners insurance. That's your roof!

  • @Boone22
    @Boone22 Před měsícem +338

    I feel is higher than 78%, when you have millionaires complaining...is far worse.

    • @tiffanyisaacson1407
      @tiffanyisaacson1407 Před měsícem +49

      More like 95 %

    • @letthelightshinein
      @letthelightshinein Před měsícem +28

      Preach

    • @cosmiccometchichi
      @cosmiccometchichi Před měsícem +19

      Notice all the celebrities popping out the wood work to do ads for pizza and stuff? Wonder why?

    • @susanrocksvold534
      @susanrocksvold534 Před měsícem +8

      ​@cosmiccometchichi I don't know I cut my cable TV in 1/20🎉

    • @bman5438
      @bman5438 Před měsícem +3

      ​@@susanrocksvold534 I stopped satellite 8/20. Miss internet, but not TV.

  • @chennanclubine1659
    @chennanclubine1659 Před měsícem +509

    Yes! Jesus is our only hope!

  • @hossieb4874
    @hossieb4874 Před měsícem +197

    Prayers for those suffering in Houston TX. 🙏

  • @glendabenard3772
    @glendabenard3772 Před měsícem +103

    Yes I Iive from paycheck to paycheck. I live on SSI. And we all know that's not enough to live on.

  • @tiffanyisaacson1407
    @tiffanyisaacson1407 Před měsícem +211

    I still live at home, and thank goodness, and no, I'm not ashamed. I couldn't afford rent at $815 every 2 weeks on a full-time custodian elementary school job . Im happy my parents put things in my name to help me out later, and I don't have to go through probate. Im never home anyway. My life is at work, whether or not I want it to be 😂 for a misley $12.75 an hour with some benefits that are lousy 😢. I only have weekends off and holidays. I'm single, have no children, and not very many friends. I enjoy my privacy and quiet . My paychecks suck at$$. I live in Missouri !!!! Life is hard no matter what state you live in. I'm 46 in August!!! Thank you, Joe Biden, for sending my social security to Ukraine!!

    • @Kim-eh2ov
      @Kim-eh2ov Před měsícem

      And to the illegals flooding the borders

  • @LauraRose-zw3bh
    @LauraRose-zw3bh Před měsícem +81

    I'm living paycheck to paycheck I work 57 hours a week I 67yrs I dont make enough in S.S. I live alone. If I don’t work I willbe out in the street 😢

    • @lynnshoen
      @lynnshoen Před měsícem +11

      I will probably be there before you. Hopefully things will be better for you, I don't want to have neighbors , Don't want others to go through this.....

    • @reginathompson9350
      @reginathompson9350 Před měsícem +1

      Sending prayers

  • @sheriaustin8750
    @sheriaustin8750 Před měsícem +62

    66 yr old grandma, still employed, been with the same company for 17 yrs. I've been putting off retirement and now I'm glad I did. Oh well, a girl can dream

  • @donnaf5922
    @donnaf5922 Před měsícem +49

    Boy! All my life, I dreamed of the life you are living. Now at 60, and disabled, it will never happen for me. But thank you SO MUCH, Patara, for letting me live it through your videos!
    ❤️❤️❤️😊

  • @jholcomb9532
    @jholcomb9532 Před měsícem +130

    I LOL' d at that goat prancing down the drive! Thanks, I needed that.

  • @traceyparker1407
    @traceyparker1407 Před měsícem +255

    I have been saying this for a long time. I have family members living like millionaires on the outside but are literally mortgaged to the hill, credit cards maxed out & are living paycheck to paycheck. They are one medical issue, car accident &/or paycheck away from bankruptcy. We aren't & don't look like millionaires, but our stuff is paid for. We pay off our credit cards monthly & are debt free. The stress they must be under, I can't imagine. Pray, prep & be peaceful. TRUMP 45-47 🥰 🥰 🥰

  • @JstcountryGirl
    @JstcountryGirl Před měsícem +21

    I’ve already come to terms with my 22yr old son living with me for at least the next 10 yrs. He has a good job & works full time but there’s absolutely NO POSSIBLE way he could afford to live on his own.

  • @grandmabear9069
    @grandmabear9069 Před měsícem +52

    Believe me, the +60 is feeling it as well. Older parents; six children ages 26, 26, 29, 31, 43 and 45. They're ALL feeling it Big Time.

  • @Susie-QSlotsVegasStyle-th4wc
    @Susie-QSlotsVegasStyle-th4wc Před měsícem +81

    keep praying America - we need it more than ever now !!!

  • @brendah4773
    @brendah4773 Před měsícem +72

    5:44 I don’t ever remember NOT living paycheck to paycheck. It’s been this way for years 😅

  • @keithandsmarie4358
    @keithandsmarie4358 Před měsícem +13

    Hubby lost one job in 2019. My Dad died right before the vid, then lost my business at the end of 2020. For 3 years we've been doing vehicle repairs as the youngest one is 2010. Can't do car payments. My property taxes have almost tripled since 2020. Trusting in God.

  • @Becky-se8ok
    @Becky-se8ok Před měsícem +23

    My mother turned 80 in February, and she’s STILL working. FULL-TIME!!!!! I don’t believe she will EVER feel she’s in a position to Retire!!!! SHAMEFUL!!!!!
    And I’m now in my 60’s, and I don’t see any way in h*ll, that I will be able to ‘retire’ one day!! Fortunately, I have a small business that I love!….doesn’t bring in as much as I’d like, but at least I take enjoyment from it, which is a TRUE BLESSING, and I KNOW THAT!!!!

  • @simplyvon9790
    @simplyvon9790 Před měsícem +27

    I'm a 1966 kid. We cared for my parents at home for 10 years until alzheimers took them Home to Jesus, they died in their beds and home surrounded by their family. It was very hard! If not for my siblings and our own sons, it wouldn't have been possible. It is very difficult but such a blessing!! We now have our 2 sons( 30 and 32) and our DIL living with us. We bought a 5th wheel camper for the married couple to live in. I'm washing more clothes and cooking more than ever. We just dug a bumper crop of taters yesterday, and the veggies are coming on great for canning. My hubbie just had a heart attack and congestive heart failure so we pulled my hubbies 401k out and paid off our equity loan and hospital bills. No early retirement for us!!

  • @debbiegalvin7944
    @debbiegalvin7944 Před měsícem +21

    I listened to my mom and dad.... both dead now. My greatest lesson was, don't live beyond your means. I've lived debt free for a decade now.... husband died in 1996 but I raised my daughter and she is doing well in life. If GOD calls me home tonight.... Thank you God for my many blessings.

  • @lynnschantz9185
    @lynnschantz9185 Před měsícem +102

    Frances is just so happy.

  • @pinkva23
    @pinkva23 Před měsícem +116

    You are the only CZcamsr I allow my 6 year old daughter to watch with me. Everyday. Thank you.

  • @starfire1184
    @starfire1184 Před měsícem +107

    I love how Buddy jumps and hops. So so cute

  • @joe1940
    @joe1940 Před měsícem +46

    Real estate prices are obscene right now. People are asking a fortune for "fixer uppers" aka dumps that are barely fit for human habitation.

    • @danniemcdonald7675
      @danniemcdonald7675 Před měsícem +1

      That's because buyers (many from out of state or another country) are buying them, offering $30-50,000 over asking price sight unseen. Then they come in and do bare minimum as far as "fixing it up," just to make it look nice. Like on those TV shows. A guy who was doing some repairs for me said someone contacted him about a kitchen remodel. Just cosmetic ... paint and new flooring. There had at one time a leak, and the subflooring was rotten. Instead of replacing the rotted wood, the owner said to just cover the old flooring with the new, and it would look OK. He told him he didn't work like that and refused the job.

  • @kathleenstahl3315
    @kathleenstahl3315 Před měsícem +32

    Francis does the BEST SIDESTEP I EVER SAW😂🤭👍

  • @kittiesher7978
    @kittiesher7978 Před měsícem +92

    What you are saying is so true. Our grown children are on their own however they are having to call us for help. So far we are blessed to able to help them but the well is getting low. Praying for the building of faith. The country needs the Lord.

    • @c007zy
      @c007zy Před měsícem +2

      We are in the same position, so thank you for making me feel less alone!

  • @aevans73
    @aevans73 Před měsícem +91

    I am almost 48 years old and I couldn't agree with you more, Patara. I'm going to be working until I die.

    • @JanaLemons-dl7tk
      @JanaLemons-dl7tk Před měsícem +10

      If it's any consolation the Hebrew teaching is that they ask for empowerment - not retirement.

    • @padillas4357
      @padillas4357 Před měsícem +5

      I'm 48 too, and agree. I will also be working for the rest of my life.

    • @aphillips5376
      @aphillips5376 Před měsícem +4

      52, yup

    • @natashahodges5128
      @natashahodges5128 Před měsícem +1

      SAME!!!!

    • @angielay3313
      @angielay3313 Před měsícem +1

      I’m 48 too with five daughters aged 18 down to 10. Yep- I don’t plan on ever getting to retire. My hubby is retired but works at the schools so only 9 months a year.

  • @garytowner9375
    @garytowner9375 Před měsícem +270

    Our generation of government has destroyed our kids and grandchildren. My grandchildren don't even want to learn half the time. And they always take the easy way out. I'm lucky that my kids are hard working. But still waking up .

    • @chrisv.4071
      @chrisv.4071 Před měsícem +6

      This adminstration has

    • @debandersland5631
      @debandersland5631 Před měsícem +17

      It goes way further back than this administration.

    • @mariamartin94
      @mariamartin94 Před měsícem +13

      @@debandersland5631Incrementalism is sneaky until reality slaps you upside the head.

    • @TinaMarie869
      @TinaMarie869 Před měsícem +3

      ​@@mariamartin94truth 😢

    • @xbemos
      @xbemos Před měsícem +1

      Thank you for admitting such

  • @jimh8729
    @jimh8729 Před měsícem +154

    I agree with you 100% !!!! 2008 was the year it all went in the toilet! Remember Michelle saying, "Barack wants to TRANSFORM America" ...and the audience cheered!!!!!!!!!

    • @EastElbow
      @EastElbow Před měsícem

      Yep they sure did!!. They broke our healthcare...

    • @robertcarmosino6563
      @robertcarmosino6563 Před měsícem +11

      I remember

    • @galadrielwoods2332
      @galadrielwoods2332 Před měsícem +17

      *Michael saying…..

    • @kellyalger2394
      @kellyalger2394 Před měsícem +11

      "This is how freedom dies, with thunderous applause..."

    • @Brenda-lz2vp
      @Brenda-lz2vp Před měsícem

      ​@@kellyalger2394yes and we need to do everything we can to save it this election

  • @LWCtabby
    @LWCtabby Před měsícem +51

    sometimes "retirement" is not a choice but forced upon you - I loved my job of 18 years but new management wanted "their" people in and slowly but surely eliminated the older employees. Also, health conditions can make retirement necessary. Like you I dreamed of working all my life - but circumstances are not always under our control.

  • @roxannehaney7819
    @roxannehaney7819 Před měsícem +16

    Everyone looks at me like I have three eyeballs when I try to tell them. I’m not doing it anymore. They think nothing is happening or will happen. I am so done !

  • @sweetNess856
    @sweetNess856 Před měsícem +29

    I never knew I wanted to give snuggles to a goat until now.

  • @ladya9920
    @ladya9920 Před měsícem +26

    Anyone who has a home or even own their home in this day and age is truly blessed. Covid was a definite line in the sand. Now most are stuck wherever they are.

    • @johnsmith-bk4ps
      @johnsmith-bk4ps Před měsícem

      They are getting ready to push bird flue on us

  • @Roy-rq3sy
    @Roy-rq3sy Před měsícem +6

    My husband is 75 and still works in a fish plant in Nova Scotia, Canada with a bad back and knees from working on cement floors in the dampness. He has great strength in work ethic.

  • @lindagrapes8044
    @lindagrapes8044 Před měsícem +37

    Francis follows you around like a little puppy. So adorable.

  • @melissaw.9583
    @melissaw.9583 Před měsícem +62

    40 days of over 90° here in WV and no rain. The farmers are asking for prayers. Yet we keep getting notifications that the severe storms will be ending soon. It's bad! Beyond bad! Still trying to prep as much as possible & do what needs to be done.

  • @JoJo-to4ux
    @JoJo-to4ux Před měsícem +20

    I’m definitely one of the 78%. I’m paying my bills, have gas money so it doesn’t go on a credit card, and plenty of food in the pantry and freezers because we garden and shop sales. If I have $20 left after everything is paid, it goes in the savings account or extra payment on the credit cards. But I feel like I’m never getting ahead. I just praying and prepping and thankful I have a roof over my head, my family, and food to feed us. So yeah, I’m paycheck to paycheck, but I could have it a lot worse.

  • @stephd1425
    @stephd1425 Před měsícem +6

    Myself,son,DIL and grandkids recently moved to a multigenerational home in the country. It's not just financially beneficial but you can teach them things they need to know how to do today.

  • @user-gh8sl7iu3y
    @user-gh8sl7iu3y Před měsícem +54

    Are all goat kids that energetic and entertaining? Lil Francis is a one goat show 😊

  • @DianePlatukis-hk6jw
    @DianePlatukis-hk6jw Před měsícem +66

    Look how that little goat baby loves you PATERA, and I know you love it. 😊

  • @janetfitton4500
    @janetfitton4500 Před měsícem +44

    Back in 2007/2008 I was working for a big company (had 30 years with this company) and a single person. They went through a big down sizing and a lot of people got a buyout. It was either take the buyout or get laid off. I took the buyout and got a pension (thank God). I am now 76 and with everything going up and the inflation I am living month to month. It is really hard for all ages.

  • @donnaf5922
    @donnaf5922 Před měsícem +15

    I am month to month on disability. I was living comfortably about 3 years ago.🤔 Now, I am struggling to have ANYTHING left by the end of month. Thank you Jesus, the only thing I have debt on is my house. I have given up many things, and the struggle just gets harder and harder!! Thanks, joe!!🤬🤬🤬
    May God please help and protect us ALL. 🙏🙏🙏

  • @markporter298
    @markporter298 Před měsícem +33

    Hey Patara! Booma here, born in 59. Started drawing SS at 62, but still work part-time. Wife still working full-time. House paid off, no other debt. Worked 2 and 3 jobs for many years while our 4 kids were growing up. All the kids are doing great. Oldest bought a house 7 years ago before things went nuts. Sold my in law's house to my son and my parents house to my youngest daughter at WELL BELOW market value to help them get a start in life. They all have steady jobs and have all worked multiple jobs at various times. We are so proud of them and feel like we've all been blessed. I'm glad we were in a position to be able to help them. Blessings to you and your family.

  • @djluvin
    @djluvin Před měsícem +10

    2 of my three kids don’t speak to us anymore because we set our boundaries, and told them what might be coming.

  • @rosalielindley3583
    @rosalielindley3583 Před měsícem +12

    I’m 65. My husband and I have had 17 year old daughter move in, my 45 year old daughter with Down syndrome moved home and my 85 year old mama and daddy moved onto our land. My daddy passed away in April. It is stressful trying to keep everybody fed, able to work, go to school, doctor appointments etc. it’s been hectic to say the least.

    • @rosalielindley3583
      @rosalielindley3583 Před měsícem +1

      @@Nisa-gm5wg would probably be the best thing for him. But bless his heart he probably just wants to be alone to grieve. My mom has a lot of days like that. 😢

  • @annieoakley4795
    @annieoakley4795 Před měsícem +82

    Im barely holding on myself. Not paycheck to paycheck yet. Thanks to preps. But over the Biden years my savings is almost dwindled down. That's after getting a second job and occasionally work a 3rd one.

    • @donnapippo8659
      @donnapippo8659 Před měsícem +14

      Same here…it’s become a challenge every day.

    • @bettyir4302
      @bettyir4302 Před měsícem

      @@donnapippo8659 We're going through some super tough times and it hits doubly hard to see the savings flying out the door. Very scary. Every day it is something wor$e than the day before.

    • @GrammyG1
      @GrammyG1 Před měsícem +3

      Same with us.

  • @janicerhoades8851
    @janicerhoades8851 Před měsícem +13

    Patara you are right on the mark. My mother and stepdad are penniless because they can’t stay out of the casino. They are in late 80’s. We are in our late 60’s. I am an only child and I have talked until I am blue in the face. You just can’t help some folks. Yes our government has serious issues.

    • @katie7748
      @katie7748 Před měsícem +4

      Yep. My in-laws (early 60s) are the same way. Booze, cigarettes, gambling, and shopping. But not an extra few cans of food or backup fuel or even extra shampoo.

  • @patriciarobinson2553
    @patriciarobinson2553 Před měsícem +13

    Patera please pray for us in the Houston area we have been without power for the past four days. Thank you for educating us about prepping it really made us realize how in prepared we are

  • @carlasenecal3434
    @carlasenecal3434 Před měsícem +87

    Just make this one more comment 😂we moved my mother into memory care last week. She hates it. I just didn't feel like I could take care of her as dementia continues to get worse. It is shockingly expensive. We are still in shock. And there are still added costs above the bottom line😢just spent the morning on the phone and texting and emailing nurses and caregivers. Mom will pass away with nothing. Selling her house and cashing in her money market funds. And we will also have to pay additional to help pay when medicaid takes over paying. What a horrible situation to put her in.

    • @mariewheeler5626
      @mariewheeler5626 Před měsícem +6

      Don't regret cashing in the MM. Anything that deals with Wall Street is uber inflated. I cashed out my 401K, I had two of them. I kept tabs on my funds for about a year. I cashed out, without knowing the maniac roller coaster of 0:00 Wall Street, in 6 months I got a 20% return on my investment! That is so unreal!

    • @trutsieo5430
      @trutsieo5430 Před měsícem +17

      Maybe dementia is a blessing for her. She won’t know all of the details that you know. Idk you but sounds like you are doing the best you can. Dementia takes a toll on the loved ones in lots of ways.

    • @NIKKIRHODES1212
      @NIKKIRHODES1212 Před měsícem +6

      I’m in a similar situation but my stepdad won’t place my Mom and she really needed it years ago. It’s all financial and I get it, but her care is my first biggest concern. This disease is one of the worst I’ve ever experienced, but at least my Mom is unaware.

    • @virginashaffer172
      @virginashaffer172 Před měsícem +2

      Sadly, once people go into that situation…it hurries up the process to where they completely give up and lose their minds completely. Once they start falling…it’s all downhill from there.

  • @Kay-zo9ol
    @Kay-zo9ol Před měsícem +4

    I buy very little from the grocery store. I grow , preserve, make or barter, or do without. Medicines for my husband’s Parkinson’s are purchased but I grow herbs for daily problems. I’m in my seventies.

  • @barbchumbley9142
    @barbchumbley9142 Před měsícem +15

    What is going on in Pigeon Forge? A family had their home seized under eminate domain to run a rode through their property for a road to a campground? They low balled an offer, homeowner refused, were made to vacate property and their home was torn down without the owner receiving one cent!!! She is still responsible for the loan on a home that doesnt exist!! The mayor of Pigeon Forge is involved in the campground deal!! How can this happen legally???

    • @makadutaarzola9453
      @makadutaarzola9453 Před měsícem +2

      That is absolutely horrible. I don't know how some people live with themselves and their decisions.

  • @stewey2298
    @stewey2298 Před měsícem +9

    Avoid debt at all costs. I'm mid 30's male out here in CA. it's rough. I work as a dishwasher at a small cafe. and Recently the guests are just not walking in the door like they used too. This week is giving me flashbacks to when I worked at another much bigger cafe during lockdowns and they went from a staff of 35 down to 5 for a few months. 2 weeks ago I had 37 hours a week, this week I'll be lucky to get 14.

  • @robindykeman8404
    @robindykeman8404 Před měsícem +86

    I'm 60. Yes in the middle. Trying to get the parents home ready to sell, and still helping my daughter with bills. It's a huge treat to be able to treat ourselves with dinner out. We are still able to do at least the 5 products extra for the pantry.
    Can't wait until things lighten up.

    • @GrumpyGrannysGoatsNGardens
      @GrumpyGrannysGoatsNGardens Před měsícem +11

      Thank you for your service to your family, Robin. My grandkids are living paycheck to paycheck, and I am seeing the multigenerational living as our best opportunity. It's working so far!

    • @Jomama02
      @Jomama02 Před měsícem +10

      Hon it's not going to let up. In fact it's going to get a whole lot worse before it gets better. Hang on....

  • @marykaykolb2207
    @marykaykolb2207 Před měsícem +18

    Francis is adorable!!! Makes me giggle watching him hopping around after Patera. 😊

  • @ER-yv5mu
    @ER-yv5mu Před měsícem +11

    I'm retired, now 67. I was going to hold off on SSI till 72, but I realized I needed to put together a special needs trust for my disabled son, so I'm drawing Ssi since 66 yrs. I'm doubling on my payments with plans to be debt free in 5 yrs. I feel like God will always care for me but I'm doing my part in that responsibility. Love your channel, need to start learning canning. I've shared your channel, hope it helps. ❤

  • @TheonewhomJesusloves895
    @TheonewhomJesusloves895 Před měsícem +7

    I'm retired and my husband plans to be retired in 3yrs. We are Gen Xers. We will see what the world looks like by then and decide. We can't keep working for ever either. We bought our house 25 yrs ago and today its worth 6x what I paid for it. My husband needs to rest now and give his body a break. Yes, God will provide, we trust in Him 🙏

  • @Boone22
    @Boone22 Před měsícem +120

    Most retirees are working harder than they did at 40. Just retirees are doing needed work to survive another month.

  • @MarjorieBurns-gu9tf
    @MarjorieBurns-gu9tf Před měsícem +18

    You are an incredible person!!! You care for the older generation, the younger generation, for all who will listen. You even care for the foolish. You try to prepare everyone, as much as is possible. And yet you manage to radiate hope, and you have humor, and even joy. You are truly the light Christ asks us to be. Too many of us live in fear. You are courageous! Thank you!!!

  • @Susan-wz7mb
    @Susan-wz7mb Před měsícem +40

    I think the winter will be harsh and not in a weather kind of way. The government numbers don’t seem correct. There are some that aren’t yet feeling it. But, they still see it. I asked someone stocking at target yesterday if she thought prices were going down…. She said no. I think they are not going up as fast but the damage has been done. Now, come layoffs and closures (big lots, Walgreens,etc.). Welcome to Bidenville!!!

  • @user-pg7gq9sj4b
    @user-pg7gq9sj4b Před měsícem +53

    Francis is adorable. You should keep him as a pet.

  • @deniseclarke2009
    @deniseclarke2009 Před měsícem +9

    I'm a boomer, no debt feeling blessed. Working as a gardener, a new career. Lost my job and career because I refused the jab. never retiring studying permaculture design.

  • @katehobbs5327
    @katehobbs5327 Před měsícem +18

    Illegals can get 20% down( paid by government) on any new or used home and get full financing. Special program for “ new comers”
    Thank you, American Tax Payer.

  • @janemckissack2714
    @janemckissack2714 Před měsícem +5

    Retire! Not going to. After 30 years as an RN I went into my beekeeping as one of my jobs for now 24 years. Have always enjoyed my beekeeping.

  • @DeeDee-dl7sl
    @DeeDee-dl7sl Před měsícem +35

    Francis following you around is just adorable!!! 🥰

  • @KittKatt9690
    @KittKatt9690 Před měsícem +10

    So, I'm a boomer 67.5 years old and so happy I have a work at home job. So happy everything is paid off. I planned to work until 70 but will seriously be happy to work longer if I need to, to keep ahead of what our government, or the world government has in mind for us. God Bless you and your messages to us. You are helping me keep on track. I appreciate that. God bless you and Francis. He is such a blessing to see him jumping around and enjoying life like all of us should be doing.

  • @susannebradley6153
    @susannebradley6153 Před měsícem +67

    Went back to work at 66 so I can make ends meet.

    • @skc137
      @skc137 Před měsícem +10

      76 young, will be trying full time!😊

    • @patjones5723
      @patjones5723 Před měsícem +6

      😢😢😢 ❤ Hang in there 😊

    • @Brenda-lz2vp
      @Brenda-lz2vp Před měsícem

      I'm 68 been retired 2 years think I'll look for something part time I'm an RN

  • @michelelindseth8250
    @michelelindseth8250 Před měsícem +11

    My parents are not alive, and yes, l am an early boomer, i paid off my credit card years ago, but my rent takes more than 60% of my SSA
    money. Of course electricity runs a/c so in the hot summers of AZ our bills get quite high.
    The grocery store takes what is left. But l know my Savior lives! I can still pray fo r free.

  • @SCook49
    @SCook49 Před měsícem +7

    You are correct- I am having a hard time just keeping up with some medical bills that insurance won’t pay. Then on top of this, water under my kitchen floor from a leaky tube on the back of my refrigerator that I was not aware of. When it rains it pours! I love to see that little goat hop around- having so much fun. Thanks Patara for your videos- I do look forward to them. I feel for our younger people that can’t buy a house- shame on our government, shame on, shame on.

  • @kimberlyduncan4442
    @kimberlyduncan4442 Před měsícem +26

    That goat was saying "Tell it like it is, Mama!!"

  • @pattymankowski5375
    @pattymankowski5375 Před měsícem +8

    Yes your spot On
    .both my adult children have moved from Florida to North Carolina living with us.Praying it works out for all of us

  • @juliebailey5751
    @juliebailey5751 Před měsícem +14

    We got rich in our 401K under Trump. We retired this year. I dry my blankets out in the sun. I don't use the oven. I eat 1.5 meals a day. I cut my rx in half. If the dryer doesn't dry completely, I put the clothes outside to finish. I leave my house 2 days a month. In Oregon, we have to contribute a percentage to PGE to help the poor pay their electric bill.

  • @sheilalindenstein8263
    @sheilalindenstein8263 Před měsícem +53

    Patara, your critters are precious!! God bless!!!

  • @MK-xr4lg
    @MK-xr4lg Před měsícem +33

    Driving to work this morning i thought to myself i will never get to retire.

    • @robinsilver8934
      @robinsilver8934 Před měsícem +5

      Same… and I’m not happy about that, but I’m still soooo grateful to have a full time job.

    • @lorettatayor5840
      @lorettatayor5840 Před měsícem +2

      Me neither.😢

  • @judypierce7028
    @judypierce7028 Před měsícem +37

    Franceis is so cute. He is like a puppy. In some cases, there are more older people working at fast food places and Walmart than young people. You are right. There is tremendous pressure on young people who want to invest in a house. It is sad!!! Thank you Patara.

  • @rogergrove2453
    @rogergrove2453 Před měsícem +6

    This message is so important. We are trying to help two elderly Dad’s, 94 and 84. Plus just found out that our (second)non Christian daughter is divorcing. The rest of kids can’t afford a home with one son looking at Med school. Trusting God will lead us one step at a time.

  • @Bama_J
    @Bama_J Před měsícem +61

    Thanking God he allowed me to retire 2 years ago debt free!

  • @simplygardening1936
    @simplygardening1936 Před měsícem +9

    Just keep stacking. I may not be the one eating it, never know when your called up, but somebody got 8 quarts of strawberry jam last night. Tonight they will get 4 or 5 of blackberry-blueberry jam canned up. If I am not here my children or grandchildren will have it. If they aren't here, then I pray someone with a good soul gets it. All we can do is keep on keeping on. Made me think of Carl on the roof eating a huge can of chocolate pudding 😂

  • @hoperichardson1193
    @hoperichardson1193 Před měsícem +5

    Totally agree. I moved my grandma in with us. My 2 adult sons live with us. My husband took a second job and I went back to work after 4 years of staying home and homeschooling our daughter. We are still completely committed to homeschooling well so we are definitely feeling the squeeze.

  • @esmysyield2023
    @esmysyield2023 Před měsícem +19

    It floors me how 8 billion people can be led by the nose by less than few thousand. Its mind boggling how people are preparing to suffer with no legitimate reason too other than a few rich people say we should. Smh. Not against preparing. Its just stupid that we have too.

  • @regardenthare
    @regardenthare Před měsícem +61

    118*f again ( week 2 over 110*) here in AZ. Still canning 5 bean salad, chicken stock and baking bread today. Things gotta get done so we can make it from check to check (and try to put some back).

    • @loydacoulombe1397
      @loydacoulombe1397 Před měsícem +5

      I am here also. The heat has been relentless. Finally ended my garden this week. Not looking forward to having to purchase more produce at the store :(

    • @DesertDweller74
      @DesertDweller74 Před měsícem +1

      Been 112 here in Mohave County for more than a week. We gave up gardening because it's just too difficult to get things to thrive here. We need to prep differently than the. Midwest and South. Going to finally invest in a freeze dryer and buy it all to FD foods. I'll make large batches of stews, chili and other meals and keep that dryer running. Seems to be the only way here in the desert. Where there's a will, there's a way! 😊

  • @conniegage2141
    @conniegage2141 Před měsícem +7

    I have been helping my daughter and husband for 10 years. Im going broke trying to keep up. She is my only relative left. I am 70 years old. When I m gone, they will have to figure it out.

  • @JRCHomesteadTexas
    @JRCHomesteadTexas Před měsícem +54

    We're fortunate to be making ends meet, but we also live a pretty conservative lifestyle. We also don't carry debt. It is getting harder to backfill preps.
    Thanks Patara for your steadfastness.
    Remember y'all to Pray, Plan, Prep

    • @Cthomas5678
      @Cthomas5678 Před měsícem +9

      I agree with you 💯 i panic when I get down to my last bottle or can of something 😜😳😳😳 when I open something and realize I don’t have several or more I make plans to get stocked back up on that item.

  • @ajett5081
    @ajett5081 Před měsícem +10

    We are beginning to live like the people in " Little House on the prairie."

  • @joannsomers2406
    @joannsomers2406 Před měsícem +6

    That jack butt goat.....is the most adorable thing in the world. You two make my day. Love to all, JoAnn in Mississippi

  • @latauarobison6521
    @latauarobison6521 Před měsícem +32

    Oh my gosh you got that goat smiling! 😊lol

  • @susanjacobs-nu4eg
    @susanjacobs-nu4eg Před měsícem +9

    I almost forgot,HUGS PATARA,and the rest of us too

  • @KNorrisNC
    @KNorrisNC Před měsícem +5

    I have worked since I was 14 on “official jobs” and am in my mid 50’s now. I never had money, worked and lived pay check to pay check my entire life. Worked a lot of years for 7 days a week. I bought a mobile home late in life because we just couldn’t afford much but now I have house payments until I am well past retirement age. I am like you, no retirement here. I’ll be going to work for the rest of my life…it’s just what it is. I’ve been putting some money aside for the last few years for a little emergency fund. I am lucky enough to have a job with retirement and insurance, I thank the Lord for that every day.
    I so enjoy your videos, the truth is refreshing!! So few understand the things of this world these days but you are spot on!

  • @karencastle5012
    @karencastle5012 Před měsícem +26

    You have a friend for life in Francis 🥰

  • @tdleitch
    @tdleitch Před měsícem +6

    I’m with you sister. Gen X. My mom is in her mid 80s. Luckily my dad’s federal retirement and their savings is sustaining her after he passed. My oldest son and his fiancée just graduated college in May and are struggling to find a job so they are having to move in with us this month. It’s impossible for people to live in a single family home anymore.