10 Secrets About Dating a Highly Sensitive Person
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- čas přidán 22. 05. 2024
- Being a highly sensitive person (HSP) adds a layer of difficulty to anything and everything, including dating. It’s tricky enough to navigate an overstimulating world, but adding another person to the mix? If this feels overwhelming, you’re not alone! It’s complicated, but it can certainly be done--and when it is, it can feel oh-so-rewarding. Hopefully, some of these ideas resonate with you and inspire your next conversation.
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Not anymore!
The fucking what this video was posted 4 minutes ago, ur from a fucking week ago what???
IM LATEEEEE
@@leethestar6421 WTH- YOUR RIGHT WHAT!?
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This may sound stupid but I’m scared of being in a relationship because I’m scared I’ll be a burden to my partner
It's not stupid to feel that way at all,but if they truly care and is taking the time to be with you than your not a burden to them and they genuinely like you
Atleast Ur allowed to date am not even allowed to date lol
@@rocky-jy5nx I'm not allowed I'm a rebel 😎✌
@@tanukio3o 😂😂😂
This is so relatable that it is scary
If you are chosen by a sensitive person be prepared to receive an amount of love bigger than love itself :) 💕💕💕
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Spitting fax right there
@@RM-ru5dg OMG NAMJOON HYUNG OMG OMG OMG
@@DivineDefect she might need psychologic help, just sayin
@@DivineDefect I think that she was just toxic. As a very sensitive person i can tell that many times i feel insecure and i think im not just good enough for the people i care. The Best to do is try to be the most distant. Try to tell your parents or the friends you have left to find a solution. She doesn't like you, she's just a obsesive person. I hope you will get out of this situation
I wish society was more kind to sensitive men as they are often shamed or humiliated for being so.
Agreed
It’s tough
Agreed. I'm trying to stop expressing how I feel to my grandma, because I noticed that pretty much every time I do, her default response is "get over it". And now I find myself saying the same thing whenever I read a comment or article where someone is expressing *their* feelings, and I don't like that about myself. 😟
Agreed
I agree so much, as a man and a HSP myself i feel overwelmed every time and every day. I feel só much stuff, SO FUCKING MUCH i cant deal with that so i get stuck in simple task all The time and still i have to hear such hard things. That can break a person
As HSP myself, I strongly suggest every highly sensitive person to talk with therapist. HSP in our world is a true struggle, sensory overload and most important - people overload, and by that I mean, seeing how cruel world is, how crazy patterns people are living with, how most people are selfish, egocentric, arogant and there is plague of narcissists, no matter how well you are educated, it is impossible to maintain good psychic health in such world.
100% 🙌
Totally agree with you🙏
Feeling the same. But at some point taking therapy cant help. Trying to push up myself.
@@merveeker2784 Yes me too🌸🙏🙏
i doubt therapist can help most of the people who are sensitive, the one must try to maintain health by themselfes mostly
3:00 does anyone else start feeling emotional when someone really acts genuine with us and say words that show they really care?
Yep. Found I'm most attracted to people who have no restraint on their individualism
Yes. One time I was crying for a very personal reason, not out loud just to myself, and someone asked if I was ok. It felt genuine and immediately saddened me more, but like this weird sad bc someone actually cared.
Yes; I feel that starting a new relationship where someone chooses to help me with my trauma & makes me feel worth it will take a great deal of getting used to. There will likely be much crying involved, but as long as I communicate that it's bc they're being kinder or sweeter than I've ever received, I doubt they'll take it (super) weirdly. After all, the reaction is to genuine care & engagement, I'd hope the same would be maintained.
Yeah. One time I was feeling a lot of anxiety due to a social setting, and my gf stopped what she was doing and comforted me until I was ready. She even helped me into the conversation and setting and told me she was proud of me. I only said about 4 words and a chukle. That made me cry, and she asked why. It only made me cry more. You aren't alone.
It can mean the world, it can make us feel heard, seen, and validated.
1. an HSP will notice if you're not being genuine 1:04
2. communication is key 1:31
3. HSP's environment affects them greatly 2:07
4. HSPs feel emotions intensely too 2:52
5. it may help to plan ahead 3:23
6. give HSPs some time to adjust 3:53
7. you will probably learn something if you listen closely 4:23
8. don't ignore their discomfort or make a scene of it 4:53
9. choose suprises carefully 5:34
10. stop using phrases like 'too sensitive' and 'too much' 6:14
I hope I could help!
thanks traveller ;3
Ayeee welcome time traveler
Hey
How that's even possible? @
How why what who where
Imagine if both people in a relationship considered each others needs and compromised more often. it pays off to be selfless sometimes.
i wish relationships were just like the videos show in real life
Ive been blessed to have one.
Imagine having a relationship where the other person cares...
@@dr_popcorn that's what I said?
@@joshy2joshy Yes, it is. Don't mind me, I'm just projecting about my failed love life. I haven't had a good time in a long time...
Do you like this new animation?
Yup!!
Hey buddy cna ya make a video how to be a little more sensitive for the people who are soo damn dense. I mean we can change but with some tips its easier it would be a lot of help for the introverts like me...
Who cares its not bad
yessir
It's so cute 🥺
I never date someone , I listen to this just for the future
Yes, preparations is key ;)
Preparation is key.
-Psych2Go/ My Free therapist
Me too
Same
Same
*“You’ll watch an entire Netflix series even when the first episodes are slow just because someone told you that ‘it gets better’, but what if you looked at your goals like that and watched your life get better instead?”*
Love from a small CZcamsr💙
As an HSP, I can admit that we're a little bit harder to love than ordinary people. But the love we give in return is unrivaled. 💕
When I told my therapists that I have always been extremely sensitive and feel like I may be an HSP, they never engaged on that topic. Because of my depression, I believe that they discarded this possibility (as in: "it's just caused by the depression"), instead of considering it as a co-factor for the development of my depression. These videos make me feel a little more seen.
EDIT: Just to make it clear: my therapists so far have otherwise been amazing and helped me a lot. It's just that when it comes to HSP, they seemingly try to avoid the topic somehow - at least that's how it felt to me!
This is why I don’t wanna go see a therapist, they disregard these things or put you on meds. I recommend you find a trusted healer. One helped me re align myself a bit, the rest I had to do myself. I’m a HSP extreme level too, it’s hard but we gotta try push through. Hope you feel better soon, I hope we all do 🥺❤️
I suggest you search for therapists online. You can find better therapists not available where you live.
@@buhbools133 same for ya sis
@@buhbools133 Thank you for your kind words. Therapists have helped me in many other aspects (except for the above mentioned) so I will continue to see them. I am currently looking for a new one though, since my former therapist scratched me off their list due to a misunderstanding. 😅
@@flyingdart9819 I am currently on the lookout for a new therapist, but I will look for local ones, not online. Thank you for the tip though!
Me who is single and watches Psych2Go videos: Ah yes....another loving video *sips coffee*
Am not even allowed to date lmao
@@rocky-jy5nx me too lol :D
God same thing
Well I am from a civilised tea drinking country and I say that your coffee is inferior to the beverage that built an empire (along with some enslavement along the way)
@@damn5991 yuhhh
To this day, i still don't know how to distinguish between strong anxiety and high sensitivity, or what the differences are Somehow it connects both, doesn't it? Well, in the end, both are very exhausting. A nice nap always helps me
Maybe HSP notices small details and read between the lines too often while people with anxiety can't determine whether it's just in their head or real, then it makes them anxious not knowing what's up.
I also don't know how either, it's like excitement and nervousness I can't distinguish either
It's like an overall body buzz. It's incredibly uncomfortable because your can't relax and it's constant everyday
I think being highly sensitive can lead to high anxiety depending on the situation. If I don’t find a way to get out or calm down my brain shuts down, I zone out and everything gets foggy. It’s like a defense mechanism. Not great 🥲
@@JustNicole6400 You're not alone. I know I suffer from anxiety issues and I suspect I'm a HSP as well, and more times than not the HSP aspects drive my anxiety, which my suspected HSP traits will turn into hyper-vigilance which just spells for disaster. Every small signal is interpreted as devastating and removing myself makes me paranoid that they're judging me for needing a break.
For anyone worrying, I've found very effective ways of coping with it and doing what most HSPs probably have a hard time with; I'm not afraid to anger someone if it's called for. But that's very specific for the environment and circumstances I find myself in.
I'm currently dating a highly sensitive person and especially the point about giving them space and time is really important. At the start I was having some troubles with that because I thought that she was evading me but over time (and now because of this video) I was able to see the situation more clear and adjust to her needs.
Ich bin stolz auf dich Wurstfinger
This is amazing of you. She’s lucky to have you and I know you’re lucky to have her. This was something I struggled with greatly with the last guy I dated; he couldn’t understand my need for space and would take it very personally
@@deidreritter1165 I’m currently struggling with that now. My partner needs constant attention and as a highly sensitive person and also as an introvert, I need time alone. However, I can barely be alone without having to update them every 30 minutes or so. For me, I need to be fully alone so that I can simply get my emotions in check as well as recharge from a lot of talking. Im currently working on it but after a while I’ve been wondering if they will even be able to handle me. It is definitely hard to be an HSP when you’re dating, and patience isn’t always for everyone. I wish you the best of luck!
@@pattoncase468 Best of luck to you too! Hopefully you're able to explain in a way that understood and well received
@@hj_awaken7126 Danke xD
I always felt so terrible of myself for crying so much. Now I realized I'm not alone and that it's okay to be an HSP. I've now come to the conclusion that I'm an HSP and I'm proud :)
Yes, I cry almost every day and can get really overwhelmed. Crying is not necessarily a bad thing
My wife keeps telling me that my reactions are too much. It really hurts to hear because it's not something I can do anything about and I get very self-conscious.
The "I have to tell you something..." is my "favourite". It makes me so anxious and frightened always.😅
Yeah 😰
i can relate 😅🤣
My GF and I both are HSP lol but we are emotionally open to each other and we tell each other directly how and what we feel. It feels great. :)
From a HSP, this is sooooooooo accurate! Something to note: we highly sensitive people are not trying to be intrusive when it comes to your feelings, we just genuinely feel your feelings and it's something we can't turn off.
I keep my sensitive feelings to myself but give my bestfriend a look when we need to leave and luckily she understands my body language well
Thats sweet!
@@kukac452 😄
That's great. It's always nice to have a friend or someone who can understand you with just a look :)
Also TYSM for hearting my comment!
@@Psych2go yep! Also have a nice day!!!
Seeing "I have to tell you something" just might be the most nerve-wracking thing in existence
An emoji can really help or hurt - like if someone's trying to keep a surprise, at least it's not contextless. And if we trust someone, we anticipate a 🤭 or 😏 or 😝 or 😜 or 🙈 or *any happy-looking emoji* likely isn't a bad thing. So it's worth mentioning to ppl - if it's a nice surprise, use a nice emoji; if you've got bad news, perhaps steer clear of phrasing that may trigger *catastrophic thinking*. It's stressful. 😅
Hi!
1. an HSP will notice if you're not being genuine 1:04 🐥
2. communication is key 1:31 🐥
3. HSP's environment affects them greatly 2:07🐥
4. HSPs feel emotions intensely too 2:52 🐥
5. it may help to plan ahead 3:23🐥
6. give HSPs some time to adjust 3:55🐥
7. you will probably learn something if you listen closely 4:23 🐥
8. don't ignore their discomfort or make a scene of it 4:53 🐥
9. choose suprises carefully 5:34 🐥
10. stop using phrases like 'too sensitive' and 'too much' 6:15 🐥
Thanks!
Much appreciated. Thank you. 💙
Just why would you copy & paste someone's deed, give it a lil touch just to make it look yours whilst having mistakes?
I appreciate that you help other people but damn, you could have done it better than just putting those chick emojis.
@@lazerouskyle wdym?
@@lazerouskyle nvm ik what you are talking about now and umm did you know that you can't copy and paste something in youtube using your phone TwT.
As a person who grew up in the bad part of the neighborhood, I'm bold, emotionally numb and have anger issues. It was very confusing when I got two highly sensitive best friends. As I was not used to emotions like that. So you can tell how many times I was annoyed and got angry at them. I then found your channel and it helped a lot. We've been friends for 3 years but I still have struggle with guessing their emotions.
dont guess, look at one of them and shrug concerningly and we'll give you 900 words easy. every time.
As someone who was diagnosed with autism a few years ago, a lot of the things you talk about in this video remind me of what it's like to live with it. Overstimulation, high sensitivity, preferring direct communication, and being highly perceptive in particular.
I'm dating an HSP person and she explained me all about it at the beginning of the relationship to make things easier. Giving her her needed spaces and comprehensible communication is what we needed for HSP to not being an issue among us.
(Sorry for bad English and a long comment)
Being a HSP I am convinced that I’m “wrong, dramatic, broken, insane, and too sensitive” by my partner. I was told that’s it’s really hard to be in a relationships with a person like me, but I don’t know how to became and act “normal”. It makes me feel like I didn’t deserve to be loved. In my country it’s really hard to get a professional therapist help, because apparently “Depression and other mental health issues are not real here”
But for everyone who feels the same as I do, I’m gonna be this one person who is going to tell you that you are not broken or too sensitive or too much. You are you, and your feelings are valid.
Secret 1: Sensitive people just want someone to play some Minecraft with them
Yes true
Nsh
Oh yEaH~•
lmao
Literally what my bestie does with me. He notices me slipping into that negative sensitive and he asks if I want to Minecraft ☺
Actually a hug from behind is super awesome to receive. My ex used to do that to me all the time and we both loved it.
Shows how different we all are, this would be totally OK with me also.
I dont have an issue with crowded or noisy places either
Being an HSP and a heterosexual guy is quite difficult. The vulnerability of being sensitive can be alluringly feminine, but I feel like it just makes me weak. Also I can't face dating anymore, so the loneliness is pretty extreme. It kind of worked for my ex wife that I was both the moral compass and "the chick", but my depression got too intense for either of us as the relationship slowly fell apart.
i really hope psych will make more videos abt hypersensitive ppl :D it feels really nice to be noticed, and its also nice to discover some things i didnt know about me, and other hypersensitive ppl!! love you psych 💕
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Same here
Remember, always make your partner feel comfortable and happy, however, never forget about your own happiness. If being with an HSP is too much for you, there is nothing wrong with it either, and don't let people tell you that you are being "a jerk", "immature" or "a bad person" for not being able to carry all the compromises an HSP, or any kind of person demands. Both of you must feel comfortable and happy with each other, being both able to provide what the other needs to feel loved and appreciated.
I'm not a sensitive person, but a very emotional person. You're not gonna hurt my feelings, but I can't regulate my emotions.
1. An HSP will notice if you’re not being genuine
2. Communication is key
3. HSP’s environment affects them greatly
4. HSP’s feel emotions intensely too
5. It may help to plan ahead
6. Give HSP’s some time to adjust
7. You will probably learn something if you listen closely
8. Don’t ignore their discomfort and make a scene of it
9. Choose surprises carefully
10. Stop using phrases like “too sensitive” and “too much”
If you’re an HSP, don’t feel bad, we all have our things that make us unique :)
I’m an HSP and as HSP gets strongly attached to things they like, i also always dream of this fairy tale-like romance. Not in the sense of princessy thing, just the fated one, the one for life, the one that that you just know you want and want you back. The one that will always come back to you no matter what happen. Thats exactly why i avoid being in relationship because i always seek for impossible things… i always hide my sensitivity and am not ready to show it, as its still viewed as a “weakness” by a lot of people out there
As a sensitive person i can confirm it's true.
The difference is that I've never had a date:〕
*Who's of the non-crush gang?*
🙋🏻♀️
I don't crush on people I just become obsessed with them and use my charm and charisma to make them fall in love with me and then I spend awhile playing the loving partner role and gradually my sociopathy rears it's head until eventually I'm obviously a sociopath but by then either it's an introvert or HSP and they're completely dependent on me or its a rescuer personality type and they think they can fix me my current girlfriend is an HSP I do love her but I'm not good for her but she'd deny that
@@theemofemboycatgirlw3214 sounds like it's as if you've done this multiple times? Also a bit goofy ngl
@@xSkeletrix it's who I am I never got love from my parents so I take love from my partners also I do really love my girlfriend the way she completely trusts me actually makes me love her more because she's willing to be vulnerable I'm not and the way she squeals when I pinch and bite her is adorable
I don't wanna fall in love, bcs my phobia of social interaction got worse (mentally and physically)
I swear, if I get mentally scratched by a failed interaction one more time, I'm just gonna break
Like hell, even thinking about socializing with many ppl makes me feel physically unwell
I'm a HSP and as I was just watching the video, I started crying😃
When I was growing up, my parents told me I was too sensitive, I need to get some backbone and toughen up. Now I know they were wrong telling me those things because I'm a Highly Sensitive Person.
Yeah, i was broken up with for being "clingy" when im just highly sensitive.
this whole video made me feel so happy cause i felt appreciated and even realized theres probably a few things here i should mention to my gf
im super sensitive to criticism and sometimes if i start to get upset over a thing i can't really control she'll mention how much my breakdowns upset her rather than comfort me
it's usually "i hate when you do this" or some sort of scolding about how i should act. i know she's trying to help but she always goes about it the wrong way, and sometimes i cant stop feeling as if im a burden to her.
earlier when she did this though she realized it hurt me and she comforted me, and she helped me remember how important i am to her and everyone else.
im so glad i have her.. even if she's all the way across the country from me i'll never give up on loving her..
sorry to whatever poor souls read my rambling nonsense, its 5 am and my brain still wont shut up, also typing on a keyboard gets really fun after the first minute or so
Lately, this channel has been giving me the videos I need in the moment. Whether to give me something to laugh or think about, or to bring clarity when I need it. Today, it's sort of helping me learn more about myself. Well, that and the person I like might be an HSP too, so doesn't hurt to watch things like this myself 😅
If you don't sacrifice for what you want, what you want will become the ultimate sacrifice.
Love from a small channel💙
People sometimes date others by they’re style but they don’t know what they’re like inside of them
As a HSP, I was born overthinking things a lot so if someone surprises me with a ticket to the movies and it so happens to be a horror movie, imma cry
"I want to talk to you" has always set my anxiety soaring because it was always the prelude of a confrontation. 1 person, after I asked what it was about, even had the audacity to say, "I don't want to talk about it right now," which (needless to say) only further aggravated my uneasy feeling. If I had to do that all over again, I would have walked out her door! I put up with an abusive so-called friendship far longer than I should have, and it didn't end until I had moved away and wouldn't cater to her gossip over the phone. When I couldn't be at her beck and call anymore, she was finished with me, and it was just as well. I have friends where I live now, who treat me so much better!
Sheesh better send this to some of my fav fictional characters
😪
Me who has emotional problems: Ah yes -My own kind-
Sometimes I cry about being an HSP. I feel like I'm a crybaby and just some little kid stuck in a teenagers body. My parents always say how I'm a crybaby. However, whenever I try to explain to them about me being an HSP, they find it stupid. :(( Idk what to do.
I have those kind of friend and I mess up communicating with her, but I will still find a way to bring back our friendship.
This video really helped me feel calm and understood because its hard to find people who understand sensitivity and that being called too sensitive is really really triggering, thank you for the video, highly appreciated ^^
As an HSP, I’d love it if the person who I think I’m getting closer with could watch this because I’m insecure about all the things mentioned and I would appreciate it a lot if she knew what to do in those situations…
Can you do a video on what causes people to be highly sensitive?
Highly sensitive is not a result of some events, it is inherited by someone since they were born. It is a personality, not a condition or disorder.
@@noviananurhayati thank you! I’m trying to change and don’t know where to start. I appreciate your input!
@@Hanna_Waters i am an hsp myself, i only knew about it since months ago. What i can do is accept it and adapt with it because I can't lose it or change it
I don’t remember a time where I ever felt at peace, I always feel stressed whenever I go anywhere, I’m not too sensitive but I don’t remember a time where I haven’t cried over something that bothers my friends or myself
It's such a relief to know that I'm not alone! I'm too nervous to even try courtship, I'm a nervous wreck in the first place so bringing somebody else into the mix is quite an adjustment.
I totally relate to your advice on phrased like "too sensitive"; when somebody delivers such an assessment of something about yourself that you can't help, it hurts. I'm not doing it on purpose. I don't enjoy feeling my breath constricted with sudden changes/adjustments, I don't enjoy feeling overstimulated by news and media. I don't enjoy second-guessing myself and wondering what I did wrong even when I didn't do anything wrong. I don't enjoy apologizing for myself. It's exhausting!
Can you make a video on how to handle yourself as a sensitive person? 🥺🥺🥺
Yes, how to manage being sensitive?
@@Psych2go yes! please do.
So this comment is about to be a long one. I'm HSP, and I'm currently in a poly relationship where both my partners are pretty good about how they talk and interact with me.
I have had the realization because of them and being in a healthy environment that my last major relationship was pretty bad. And watching this just confirmed alot. This has given me a little bit more comfort in my action of cutting this person out as a friend. At least for now, because i know how unhealthy it is for me to be with someone who, let alone can't communicate or deal with his own emotions and thoughts, but mine. I'm alot, but that doesn't mean I'm not worth the effort. I do hope and send him love and light when I think of him because when you love someone, you want what's best for them and yourself. Even if that means leaving.
you were in a healthy environment? im living in an environment more toxic than chernobyl
@@quatrsalmuttotabreabbitlec2417 truee😖
I'm glad you're doing better now. We can't always help other ppl or tolerate behavior that hurts us beyond a certain point. You have to make decisions abt what's best for yourself & I'm glad you're finding reassurance for having closed the chapter you closed. You don't owe toxic ppl your time or energy, even though being toxic might not be their "fault", per se.
In elementary school we had one hsp in the class. At first we tended to their every need. But over time people starting to say stuff like “stop babying her.” Which apparently is the opposite of what you’re supposed to do. Eventually elementary me began yo think this too, and we were un aware what an hsp was at the time. So we called her names like cry baby and stuff. So this video caught my attention, and gave me a better understanding.
Huh…. I think I understand now why things may upset me so easily or why I feel extra uncomfortable during certain events. I love how reassuring my BF makes me, and how he says who can say what is normal for you. As in when I feel like I’m weird or my anxiety isn’t “normal” but he’s just so sweet about it. But I feel like this video could be good for my relationship with my sister too. Cause how she reactions vs what she says makes a huge difference!! Great vid
Watching this video makes me realize I'm actually an HSP myself, it says a lot about what I've experience in a relationship. But sadly for me, my 2 years relationship with my partner just ended 4 hours ago upon writing this comment. She lost feelings for me, I tried so hard to fight for our relationship but in the end she really lost it. And we have come to an agreement to break it up. Here I am heartbroken, and watching videos to make myself feel better.
You've got a life to live, so don't focus on what if, and focus on doing your best through all the highs and lows. :)
@@justalpha9138 thank you, my friend gave me an advice to not pressure myself on everything and on the what ifs that you mentioned, because it happened. I'll be focusing on my recovery and it's the start of my college. So wish me luck, I really appreciate you showed compassion to other people
@@luxidious9997 It doesn't cost me anything so why not?
Hope you are feeling better now.
I hope you're doing much better and are happy now.
I'm a male HSP.According to the animation seems it be the female who is HSP.
I"m highly sensitive to sounds and strong light.
And will always exhausted in crowded places usually publuc places as large train stations,airports and large cafees and restuarants.
i am this sensitive person but i assure you that i can control and i can hide it
OMG! This is definitely stuff that applies to me. I'm not sure if I'm HSP of if it's just how my Autism presents itself. Probably both, but it is tricky to be certain.
Glad I married someone who can handle me being hsp. Took a long time to find them.
Hey! HSP here.. I have a little story or maybe two. So before we were able to just get lunch during school, we'd have to wait at the lunch table until everyone was quiet enough. Now I already hate cafeterias... but what would make it even worse is when the principle would go on the stage and would be yelling to get us to be quiet.... BUT WITH A FREEKING MIC. So this already loud lady, is screaming into a mic and since kids are idiots they're still talking so she keeps going and I'm over here dying. But that's just one. So the other one was when me and my mother were playing a scary game and she would always be screaming. Since she's right next to me I literally had to get earplugs and headphones because she is a very loud person. Anyway try not to hide anything from us, we'll notice.
These videos are so cute how the characters interact with and are there for each other... I wish people in the real world were like this too.
10 Important Lessons:
1) Stop Living for Other People.
2) Stop skipping the gym.
3) Stop trying to be cool -> be yourself.
4) Stop chasing relationships -> find yourself.
5) Focus on your personal growth.
6) Stop keeping yourself in your comfort zone.
7) Don't waste your precious time.
8) Have a spiritual practice.
9) Make mistakes and learn from them.
10) Start investing in yourself.
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Thank you so much. I just ended a relationship because he couldn't tolerate that I am an HSP. I feel free.
I don’t plan to date anyone yet, I guess. But I’ll definitely use these ways when interacting with my sensitive friends. I don’t know if any of my friends are HSPs but whatever. So, this really helped me! (From one of my comments, I said I was rude and cold to some people so I’ll watch my actions next time hopefully..)
I hope you the best
The art style is always getting so much better.
Thank you so much! Is this your favorite one so far? :)
HSP here! AND I have socially anxiety. So like this video was on the nose... and also, I'm more hypervigilant to being judged or evaluated, criticized, compared, dismissed and taken for granted. - I can usually feel in my body when someone wants something from me rather than being loved for who I am before I can fully understand it with my mind. 😅
I almost don't find it an issue when someone is too sensible. Like... I know it might be very annoying to deal with person like that but.... sometimes it feels normal to me for someone behave this way.... And I don't blame them.
As an HSP, Now I get why am I still single 😌 Nobody is like THAT to me and I'm happy that I won't become a burden to anyone.
Love this! Never have I ever seen a really good "explanation" 😍
I didn't know an HSP was a thing but related to all of these, so thankyou sm for making this video! I have been able to relate to you Highly Intelligent one, BPD ones, and many others, they make me feel very seen and heard & help me to express my struggles very directly to those who love me
The word : "I have to Tell you Something" or Just my "Name" is so Heart punding for me that im Always overthinking. My friend does that much with Just saying my Name Turns Out they Just want to know Something about Harry Potter.
Thanks Psych2Go. Feels nice to find a material that can easily explain me and my friends' side of the story.
Explaining these to someone else really overwhelms us.
My partner and I are both HSPs honestly, but I think that means we get each other quite a bit.
Hello!❤️
Thank you for making videos like this!❤️❤️
Hey Psych2Go. This video is good as always. Liked before watching. And as for the piano I am practicing the piece you suggested me. Audio coming soon :)
I think im a introvert , but then realize its just expectation so... i added some outcomes of acomplishes and failure in my imagination. Its actually usefull to reconstruct every movement before i execute. Well it doesn't always work to everyone, but work for me.
A few years ago... I was dating (nothing especially serious... but fun) an HSP... She SOOOoooo wanted to learn to ride motorcycles, but she was kinda terrified... SO I talked to buddies and dug out an old Rebel 250... and started just doubles with her.
She was brave, and at first there were a few tears, but she never wanted to stop... Chili dogs at the fair... Hitting the flea market just to get out of the house... dinners and movies, to ride a few more miles together... AND then I got us enrolled in MSF together (when I managed to trade into a rebuildable Rebel 250... just a second bike. We still weren't too serious... BUT I can't help taking a willing and WANTING rider under my wing... whether or not it's a girl or interested in me...
We passed, though I PURPOSEFULLY took the shabbier of the Rebel's... and scored a few points lower than she did on the course... It was okay. My ego could handle it, so long as I passed...
THEN I had the paperwork in order... I was going to make a relatively GRAND gesture... AND I presented her with a set of keys (to the tank, helmet lock, and ignition)... I'd scraped together and saved and polished coin until I could get one of the bikes completely returned to factory "Cherry" condition, between the two... The other was (sort of) whatever was left over plus what it took to get "road-worthy" again...
I spent TWO WEEKS learning and practicing how to ride that motorcycle from the passenger (rear/pillion) seat. I didn't want her to be in any danger or to overstress her... I just wanted the skills to be able to save us both "just in case"... SO I could give her all the control she could handle and all the safety I could possibly manage. I'd rather be hated alive than loved and dead... that's all...
The look in her eyes was priceless when she answered the door, and there was a bright red ribbon, neatly tied into a bow on the keyring I tossed her, and I said, "Get your gear."
"Where are we going?" She wanted to know as she caught the keys.
"Where do YOU want to go?" I responded. "You're the one in charge. It's YOUR bike." I smiled.
"Let's go to Charlie's for a dog!" She squealed, tears practically flooding into her eyes. "Let me get my gear."
You know... It was midnight BEFORE we got anywhere near Charlie's for a dog... BUT that was possibly the BEST chili dog ever served on the back of a 250 Honda Rebel...
OH you can surprise an HSP... It takes a LOT of very VERY careful planning, and you are VERY well advised to plan and surprise her (him?) on things that are completely harmless and totally "up his/her alley"... Do it right, or don't bother trying to do the son of a bitch at all... Maybe that's the secret about HSP's...Jokes and mischief should be very VERY small... Read or pay attention VERY VERY VERY well, and then deliver what's for the BEST. ;o)
This explains literally everything I thought was wrong with me. Thanks
This is one of the few youtubes I will support saying subscribe and like to. Their mental health videos have been helping me a lot recently and others to
Also it's extremely disappointing to see people like "penguins" and "Not a rickroll 👇" spamming unfunny videos on replies to a video that is ment to help people.
Aw That's really sweet of you!
It's always nice to see these super supportive and informational videos about things that I, personally, have felt my whole life~ (and I'm sure may others feel the same too)
Thank you Psych2Go for always making videos about different topics, to give us advice, to better understand ourselves, to make us smile and to help us grow as people ❤️
Thank you for telling me I'm not the HSP people always scold me saying I'm. Even if I'm having no plans to date anyone while watching this, your videos still help me get one more step closer to self love. ❤️
Both of us are quite sensitive individuals, so this insight was helpful to me in multiple ways. You released this at exactly the right time, Thank you!
Glad to hear :D How many signs did you resonate with?
@@Psych2go I think all of them were important to hear, but communicating and giving each other time resonated the most for sure. :)
For me i would be a non hsp and hsp hybrid, depends of the person to have effect or not the actions and words
10 Secrets About Dating A Highly Sensitive Person:
1. 1:02: A HSP will notice if you're not being genuine.
2. 1:31: Communication is key.
3. 2:08: HSP's environment affects them greatly.
4. 2:52: HSP's feel emotions intensely too.
5. 3:22: It may help to plan ahead.
6. 3:53: Give HSP's some time to adjust
7. 4:22: You will probably learn something if you listen closely.
8. 4:53: Don't ignore their discomfort or make a scene of it.
9. 5:33: Chose surprises carefully.
10. 6:13: Stop using phrases like "too sensitive" and "too much".
Lily listening to your beautiful voice always puts me in a good mood
I’m an HSP and I have always felt misunderstood my entire life.
I just wish HSPs would understand that for me to give them the patience they need, I need something back too...A month or more of me being the one that's mostly giving is just exhausting, especially when your own needs aren't being met and is probably a lot of the reasons people 'ghost' HSPs. I understand you're highly sensitive, but that doesn't mean that my feelings don't matter, just because yours are stronger. How about you tell me how you feel about me every once and awhile, so I know I'm doing okay...
I always wondered why I never liked surprises or being or hugged from behind. Loud noises or noises close to my ears. I have very deep & sensitive sensory perception. I was starting to think I had aspergers which I still think I might be as I have many characteristics.
I’m a very sensitive guy and my girlfriend isn’t. It’s not easy.. she doesn’t understand how certain things she says or does hurts and upsets me. I’m very dedicated and very loyal to her. I’ve tried to talk to her about my triggers but I feel like they go unnoticed and ignored.
I remember early on in the (long distance) relationship my boyfriend thought it was a good idea to have Santa’s Workshop give me a call (around Christmas). It was sweet of him, but at the time I flipped out. I had a really bad phobia of phone calls. Still do, but it’s not as bad.
Also at one point he sent me brownies from domino’s (or pizza hut… I forgot) and hopped into the game I was playing going “oh in 30 minutes you should check your front door.” This all happened maybe… 2016.
Anyway I don’t take surprises well.
Edit: No, I wasn't complaining about it... or it wasn't my intention to.
bruh
@@alexanderavila8488 What do you mean by this?
@@jelloegg That’s either ungrateful or you put your feelings first and therefore ruin what people do for you. Nice.
@@damienlockhart6288 What are you talking about? I never said I didn't appreciate it.
bruh what
I'm really scared of the emotion anger. I was in a relationship with a person that quickly got angry and it scared me so terribly. The tone in their voice and look in their eyes when I did something wrong like not responding to their text message always made me shake. Without them knowing I had a really hard time talking and texting with them because their agression and my fear of what was coming next everyday I opened discord. Eventually we had to break up because I couldn't speak for myself and never communicated. Don't know if I'll every have the confidence to try another relationship in the future, but hey being single isn't too bad, I don't even have to talk
That person was clearly a poor match with you. By pursuing knowledge that helps you better understand yourself, like this video, you can avoid scenarios where you end up in such a bad situation to begin with. Of course, I'm sure you realize that by now~ I hope things have changed for the better since then.
I relate to every single one. Recently having my first date in years, first date with a woman and realising I'm a HSP, I'm processing a lot of big emotions. I need to get a new therapist and see them pretty soon I think.
This is very helpful! I love you’re videos!
Thank you!! Do any of these points describe you?
I think I'm an hsp, I took several tests, I'm incredibly sensitive, and it's common in people with adhd, which I have.
I'm such a sensitive person and I hate myself for being that way, I already annoy people around me and it makes me feel like I'm a burden or chore and i don't like that, I've always feared of getting into a relationship since I might not benefit the other person and possibly cause them to stress out and worry about me
Such a crap feeling sigh. It’s been feeling so rough past few months too let alone weeks. Hope you get through. It’s a hard world for us HSPs ❤️✨ sending you a lot of love
@@buhbools133 thanks I just wish I could just grow out of it but it's just apart of me
@@cookiecat7872 I've found music is helpful for regulating moods and playing an instrument is a good stress relief. Of course venting is always healthy from time to time. There's also walks through peaceful places, cooking, exercise, yoga/meditation. Finding what works best for you is the first step in helping take control of being a hsp