5 Behaviors That Attract People The Most
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Are you seeing someone right now? Or perhaps you have a crush on someone? What attractive behaviors do you have that you can display to your date? Well, here are a few behaviors that attract people the most. Do you do any of them?
We also made a video on the signs you're actually attractive: • 6 Signs You're Actuall...
Writer: Michal Mitchell
Script Editor & Manager: Kelly Soong
VO: Amanda Silvera
Animator: Tris Canimo
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"There is nothing more attractive than confidence. Once you see your own beauty, so will everyone else" - E.T
My initials are E.T. too😅
sounds narcissist lmao (irony)
@@chupchupman5859 in many dating advice if you love yourself you are more bound to have a better relationship when loving others. It is not narcissistic it is simply healthier and better for the people in the relationship.
@@chupchupman5859 how is that narcissistic???? 💀
@@chupchupman5859 sounds like yo mama
1.)Casually touch them 0:40
2.)Be a leader 1:48
3.)Smile when you can 3:31
4.)Maintain good eye contact 4:01
5.)Crack a joke or two 5:20
1 month ?
it shows u wrote this a month ago-
Wtf 1 month ago
Wait what how does it say 1 month ago when this was just posted😀
@Not RickRoll 👇 j this is really not a Rick roll
"Crack a joke or two"
"Hey! You know I think that you are
*FANTA STICK*
*Weird laughing intensefises
*Turns into Fanta*
Whats brown and sticky? A stick
LMAO
Are you NICK?
* oink laughing and weezing
I asked my boyfriend what he found most attractive about me, and he told me it was my gremlin humor 😭 I love him so much ❤️❤️
Aww..so sweet of him :))
MARRY HIM
Cringe
@@mysticc6232yes
Awesome
Notes:
1. 0:39 causally touch them - a light touch may make them feel closer to you (ex. a friendly nudge on the shoulder)
2. I think they accidentally skipped #2
3. 1:47 be a leader - take the lead to show that you are capable
4. 3:30 smile when you can - smiling is attractive and don't be afraid to smile
5. 4:40 maintain good eye contact - your partner may associate eye contact as feelings as love + attraction, try to look into each other's eyes ~75% of the time, eye contact w/ partner releases phenlethylamine ("love drug")
6. 5:20 crack a joke or two - using humor may make others like you more
Hope that was helpful:)
7. Make this a proper 6 itemed list which is supposed to be a 5 itemed list so actually make this a proper 5 itemed list
Yea what happened with 2 amirite
Haha I noticed this too
It was, thank you
I mean, smiling is kinda useless when you’re wear masks 24/7 outside
"Casually touch them"
Pandemic: NOPE
This isn’t really much of a pandemic anymore, it is more chilled out now
"Casually touch them"
Me who wants to slap my friends when they do that: NO
Pepper spray: "you done goofed now, kid"
@@maskofthemother9713 lol 😂😂
@@LinkaSmasher that’s a lie
remember not to force these things against your personality and just be you! :D
@@Maito89 Damn, I hope you left him. You deserve more than that
@@Maito89 Definitely. People who want you to change for them aren't worth it
Great advice too!
Nobody can keep pretending forever. I've just got to be myself, bcz I want him to love me for me, not for a phony first impression that just wasn't me, and same for him too. What attracts me to a man is one who is being his everyday self. I appreciate honesty, and of course, a man who will be there for me through thick & thin. A man who smiles & laughs easily is very attractive. He has to be easygoing, not a stuffy & difficult type. I can't stand those. He has to be kind and helpful with a good heart. Love and trust are mutual. A man who's not afraid to show me his feelings. I enjoy the company of a man who can make me laugh and who laughs when I am being funny, instead of feeling insulted. Some can't tell the difference. After all this is how we choose a good friend also. One who understands us, one who laughs at life with us, not at us.
I don’t even know my real self.
i honestly hate when people i don't know well touch me unsolicited it freaks me out but i can see how it would endear some people lol
same here!
In my country things are weird, people have a lot of contact here, it’s normal to people when meeting each other for the first time, to give a hug or a kiss in the cheek. I’m not really a fan of this kind of behavior but it’s very common here
Me too and people do it all the time although I realize for the most part they mean well so I tolerate it🤣
Huh?
Must be a pretty gurl problem, ye
l o l
@@nugget8537 Trust me, it's not weird. Everyone else is for being so disconnected.
6 Behaviors That Attract People the Most:
1. Casually touch them 0:40
2. Be a leader 1:28
3. Smile when you can 3:31
4. Maintain good eye contact 4:01
5. Crack a joke or two 5:20
I hope that I, a time traveler, could help 💜
You missing the 6 behaviour
@@A55a551n They skipped a number in the video
@@juliakay7446 okay and what you doing
Time traveler?
How is this comment 1 month old😯
Who is here before 6.99m subs? O_OIt looks like missing point #2 ran off to check their compatible personality matches on So Syncd now: app.sosyncd.com/BdNN/4Psych2Go
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"Crack a joke or two"
Oh trust me my sense of humor is terrible that 90% of the time I ended up not telling the joke and laugh uncontrollably for 2 minutes
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4:39 is so true
My girlfriend and I were on call once and I was about to fall asleep but then I saw her staring at me as if I was her entire universe at this moment.. I have never felt that much butterflies in my entire body and mind
She made me smile and when I think about it again to this day, it makes me feel so happy and light.. I love her so much and I want to wake up to her beautiful face every morning for the rest of our lives, looking at each other with all of the love in our hearts ❤️❤️
Love really is a drug but dang it’s so good and worth it when it’s done with the right person and with respect
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I think "touching makes you more attractive" is because everyone is so starved of physical contact, no matter how small, on a daily basis that it's almost manipulative.
Being just *you* is, I guess, an attraction in itself, I like people who r just...them, in every place or every situation, they don't think it's necessary for them to change themselves for others or to fit in somewhere n well for me that's really attractive :)
I have been doing that my whole life and it doesnt get you in a relationship hahahah, idk
@@gericko4931 Better not to be in a relationship w/ someone who can't accept you. You can only pretend for so long.
@@vblackwell3347 I agree!🙌
@@gericko4931 maybe u haven't met any honest person yet n we don't think it's worth it to change ourselves for someone to love us, do we? :)
@@gericko4931 That’s because you probably only met fake people
You’re too real for that!
Just love yourself and be patient, love will come to you when you least expect it oooorr you will decide to just go for it yourself when you will feel it
"Smile, my dear! You know you're never fully dressed without one." -Alastor.
Words to live by.
The best quote from Hazbin Hotel so far.
...besides "Oh! Harder, daddy!"
I wish I could but it HURTS, I lose feeling in my face so I don't know if I'm smiling or looking like : l My relaxed face makes me either look tired or annoyed and I think I've been accidentily scaring people off for looking so unapproachable, CURSE YOU RBF >:' (
@@greatwavefan397 😳 Son?
“Oh if I wanted to hurt someone, I would have done so already”
(Did I screw that up, I haven’t watched it in a while)
Psych2Goers are all attractive.
But even if someone does not like you, that’s ok: not everyone has good taste
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Pathetic
@@jancojetidotoho411 damn why y’all just hating
@@tinafungg pathetic
Or that person just doesn't match his/her own bad taste
You had my attention before the self-promotion part.
This channel has greatly improved my mental well-being. I learned that I was “child parentified” along with other things. Thank you for what you do for everyone
Thank you Juan!
Psych2Go : 5 Behaviors That Attract People The Most
Me who is an introvert : ah yes i know now exactly what to not do
Congrats on 7 million, psychology has always been an interesting topic to me alongside science, and I've been able to understand psychology and mental health more in depth thank to your videos, so thank you
Thank you so much!
7 MILLION, Congratulations! Totally deserved number!
Fantastic video and tips! The leader thing is very true. I don't know about attractive, but I know I've gained trust and respect from new acquaintances much faster when I tried to take the lead and take the initiative to help them. It's a great mindset to practice.
This channel knows just exactly what I want when I want. Am really Thankful I got this channel. It helped me reshape and control my own life way better than before.
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Wow, I took the test you recommended and I got INFJ/so thoughtful. It says that I got the rarest personality type and I'm best with ENTP and ENFP. Also the description for my personality type was really accurate and I'm glad I don't have to just go off of my zodiac or birthstone for my personality :)
Congrats on 7 MILLION!!! I enjoy the content you put out and you’ve helped me a good bit!
Congratulations for 7M.
I'm in love with your voice, btw :)
Congratulations on 7M subscribers!! ❤️
“The most attractive attribute is confidence. That is why I always put a large pickle in my pants before I go outside.” -George Washington
2 things I learnt now.
I'm capable of pretty much all of these.
I was again reconfirmed I'm an ENFP with my curiosity to check the if that link works tho I'm not interested in dating anyone now.
Oh. And the third.
I'm more busy admiring the cuteness of your animation than paying proper attention.
I love psych2go 🤤❤️❤️
OMG
I JUST NOTICED YOU FINALLY REACHED 7 MILLIONS!
CONGRATS :D
Me a quiet kid who's liked by most of the people in my class:
*Hmmm interesting*
loser
@@thatperson2981 pov: you're mad
@RogueTheDoctor 💀💀💀💀
@@thatperson2981 well.. I’m glad I’m not you 😂 what a miserable life you must live
@@thatperson2981 He (maybe she) is looking for attention. Don't give it to him!
happy 7million!!!! i am so so so happy for you hope you reach 10 million as soon as possible!!
I keep coming back to this channel both excited to learn new things and mildly frustrated at how easily these things are to understand and not having known about it before.
_i love your animations!_
"Casually touch them" I almost got cancled for this
Ayo congrats on 7 million! I won't even lie, I could've been living with undiagnosed anxiety if it weren't for your team :,) I showed one of your vids to my parents and they took me to a therapist, I would like to stick on your journey to 10 Million ^^ and thanks for your in direct help!
Congratulations on 7 million subscribers, bless you 💐🌸
Kindness and gentleness is what attracts me to a guy. 😊
Toxic masculinity be like: looks like you gonna die alone.
Excuse my "humor".
@@ythelldoineedahandle You must be single and alone if you hide behind a youtube channel making pathetic comments.
@@etherealdreamerart Are you gay?
@@ChristianProtossDragoon Yeah. Why?
@@etherealdreamerart Why are you gay?
I just wanted to mention that you guys will hit *7M SUBSCRIBERS* soon! :D
No need to wait further, they just did
The voiceover is so soothing and satisfying. 😌
6: Make a six-item list that has six items :)
LMAO 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
7. Use the number 2 and remove number 6
😂😂👍🏼
me and my bff starring in each other eyes 80% of the time lmao
Your voice gives me chills
Well, thanks. Thanks for helping me understand that there really is no hope for... anything.
I appreciate the honesty, it's more than what most tend to put out. Have a good one, or whatever.
ITS SOKKA!!!
Also, I really like this animation style, it’s cute
This video made me feel sparks even tho i'm not 'in love', this is so cute and well made :3
Aww thank you so much!
I really like people who are funny. One of the reasons I watch Omaru Polka so much is that she's an absolute clown and she has a huge range of funny voices. She can sound like an old man, a seductive woman, a bratty child, a psychopath... the list goes on. Overall, I find humor is maybe the most attractive trait.
Congratulations for 7 MILLION SUBS! yay!
congrats on 7mil!!! 🙌
great video as per usual! :)
could you also make a video about the romanticisation of mental illness and it's effect because i've seen a rise of it all over the internet and i would want to see your opinion on it. :D
Thanks for the video, this will be great at attracting my crush she admits she likes me but as a friend but we don’t know each other super well to be honest this year has been really rough. I’m hopping to make it up to her, her heart has been broken twice this year by two friends and I want to give her that love more than anything in the world she’s a remarkable human being.
@S.K.SHAMBHAVI I hope right now I’d say we’re just friends but I wanna move up to close or best friend and eventually girlfriend. She is smarter than me though a year older and knows more about the adult world, I barely know anything I thought it took 4 years to learn how to drive that isn’t remotely right, she said it was fine though.
Love the art work in this video!
This art style! It’s so cute and lovely!!
ToT the art is SO CUTEE ITS SO CUTEEEE AAAAAAAAA
Congrats for having a 7 million subscribers :0
Congrats on 7 million!
Im so thankful i found this channel! ☺️ Happy 7M subs!
Thank you!!
I don't find it ironic that I actually have a date today. These were really helpful tips. Thank you so much. Everything should go well today 🖤
Good luck and have fun!
@@milkyway4231 thanks!
so how it went?
@@gabrielmunoz5307 Wasn't very pleasant. Maybe next time
buu, what a shame :( maybe next time 🤞
Um... if this video isn't supposed to be released, then shouldn't it be private?
Congrats on 7 mil!
I got confused and kept on going back to find #2. Yall skipped two and just went 1,3,4,5,6 lol. Thank you for the video.
You're voice is calming
Thank you! Amanda has an amazing voice - Cindy
I do most of these, even with co- workers and friends.
I live in Australia. Believe me, touching is NOT allowed here. It is frowned upon. I once lightly touched a young Turkish woman on the shoulder when I wanted to speak, then the whole group labelled me a lesbian. The other who labelled me too was a Filippina. Unfortunately when dealing with ppl with low IQs, it's best to frown at them & keep distant from them. I'm not normally a touchy person, but this incident some 20+ years ago has totally put me off it. Ppl here are not touchy and want a personal space around them of about a few steps away when speaking, at least. When I went to SE Asia, I noticed ppl there, women esp, would intrude into MY personal space. They'd be standing right in my face and I put my arms out to stop them when I saw them approaching. Turkish men like to stand so close when speaking to women, like an inch from my face. Now that I didn't mind. They were so handsome.
Thanks for introducing me to So Syncd! Ignoring the dating feature, its personality test is really TOP NOTCH! Best one I've encountered in all my life. If you're reading this, I highly encourage you to give the test a try. You don't have to date anyone, just take the personality test. It's super detailed and tells you a lot more about yourself than you might know.
Thank you for this video and all the work you do, I find that this information can be helpful for the right person, it wasn’t enough for Me because I did these hints over different parts of my life and to no success, you can’t help bad genes. but I will keep trying.
Congrats on 7 Million Subs❤✨
"6 behaviour that attract people the most"
Me: I don't need it because I'm not attracted to anyone and no one is attracted to me but still I will watch it..
I've always wondered why I received so many compliments saying I'm attractive so when this video was recommended, I immediately clicked on it and wow.. omg I never knew that 🤭 thank youu!! 😂😚
You're very welcome :) - Cindy
hahahaj I didn't remember writting something 🤣, our cute mochi🤣
Armyyyy! 💜💜💜💜
@@juliakay7446 Neeeee💜💜
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Congrats on 7 million subscribers :)
That was really informative! Nice vid.
Soon, when all is well, you're going to look back on this period of your life and be so glad that you never gave
never gave... what? WHAT DIDN'T I GIVE TELL ME WHAT IS IT
I want to listen to these and finally stop being lonely then I remember I have commitment issues.
I just wanna say that the thumbnail of your videos are so cute💕😌
Thank you 💖😊 so much psych2go for making our day better and inspiring us ...
Thank you so much ...
" so which behavior would you use on your next date? "
chocolate. I will use a whole lotta chocolate
i had a girl give me chocolate every day for like a month and didn’t question it till just now
@@diegovasquez9184 ooh, guess you are under a love spell rn
Them: casual touch
Me: remembers that I punch hit or slap all my close friends for fun
I love the pictures that you include in your videos.
You're going better and better🔥keep it up❤❤😁
I literally use theses traits on a daily basis and I do it subconsciously! I kinda realize why people like to stick around me now..
Edit: Too bad I'm likeable as a friend but no one wants to date me.. even worse is when most of your friends are taken and your the only one who is single and you just supports them but then you cry inside..😔😭
Gotta turn that mindset into a grindset
SIGMA grindset
SIGMA 💪
Wow 😮 Animation is nice and good 👍✨👏. Congrats to your channel for almost 7 M Subs ☺💯
Love your channel sooo much✨
God... I Love Your these Cute Animations... My Dear Channel!
Thank you so much! Tris has done an amazing job with the animation :) - Cindy
Thankyou so much dear tris!
Who else forgets the reason why you clicked the video because the drawings/animations are so adorable ❤️
Congrats for 7M subscribers..🥳🥳
Congratulations on 7 million subscribers!
Also, can you do a video on the Blackpill Theory? A lot of the attractiveness videos that y'all make don't address the elephant in the room: To even get to the point where these social skills matter, you have to have the prerequisites of physical attractiveness first (being tall, muscular, and NOT certain racial groups for men)
Height and race are all out of our control, so it pointless to be miserable or worrying about them. Just focus on becoming a better person, those are in your control.
@@frog6054 The point wasn't to become a "better person" (whatever that means), the point was to be attractive to the people whom you want to attract.
I don't think that'd be very healthy for you to focus on, it's essentially ideological nihilism for the dating world. While it's certainly true attractive people get a lot of wordly benefits, if you let that fact consume your life it greatly reduced your self esteem and all your focus. God made you just the way you are, in his image, and because of that you are beautiful.
@@tvhliv2397
Yep, and this black pill or red pill or whatever tf pills guys wonder why they have depression.
@@tvhliv2397 It sounds more like pragmatism to me. The root of all wisdom is to acknowledge the facts, to paraphrase a former Finnish president. The theory pretty much seeks to reconcile oneself to the prospect that one domain of living (finding love on your own terms) is closed off for a lot of people.
Congratulation for 7 million subscriber 💗💗
your voice is so calming
Playlists :hmm:
HOW IS THIS A MONTH AGO
@@alaina5685 TRUE
@@alaina5685 😂😂😂
@@alaina5685 I know how to time travel but I won't tell 😂😂😂
@@nakshatramusic21 Lol.
I might be climbing the local church tower on my next date - her idea! :)
Not sure if it's new or not, but I love this art style! Fits right at home woth some of the other wonderfully charming animations on this channel.
Thank you so much :) would you like to see more?
@@Psych2go For sure! You guys are doing great work.
I met my partner in So Syncd!
INFJ female meets her INTJ male.
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Thank you So Syncd, I'm truly grateful!
Oh boy, outside of #6 it seems that I do none of these things.
Watchers from the future!
Ayo I'm jealous 😭😭✋
I love how cute that channel is, a cute animation and a cute voice make me feel wanna watch them more 😍
Congratulations on 7 million!!
"Touching/body language is attractive"
Finnish people: we dont do that here.
me, a finnish person:
"wait what?"