Do You Think Your Spouse Is A Narcissist? WATCH THIS!
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- čas přidán 2. 07. 2024
- Feeling unheard and unseen in your relationship?
Is your spouse constantly seeking admiration or making you feel like you're never good enough? You might be dealing with narcissistic traits in your partner. But before you throw in the towel, listen up!
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This episode of Relationship Radio dives deep into the world of narcissism, unpacking the two major types: grandiose and vulnerable narcissism. Dr. Joe Beam and Kimberly Beam Holmes will help you identify these behaviors and offer practical communication tips to navigate a challenging relationship.
Here's what you'll learn:
- How to identify the signs of grandiose and vulnerable narcissism in your spouse
- Effective communication strategies to deal with narcissistic behaviors ️
- Ways to build a stronger, healthier marriage, even with narcissistic challenges
- The importance of self-esteem in navigating difficult relationships
Is this episode for you?
Are you constantly walking on eggshells around your spouse?
Does your partner put you down or constantly need reassurance?
Do you feel unheard and unseen in your relationship?
Are you committed to making your marriage work, despite the challenges?
If you answered YES to any of these questions, then this episode is a MUST-LISTEN!
Time Stamps:
0:00 - Narcissism, self-esteem, and how it relates to relationships.
8:45 - Narcissism and how it affects relationships.
12:39 - Narcissistic personality disorder and its treatment options, including cognitive behavioral therapy.
19:10 - How to navigate relationships with people who may have narcissistic tendencies.
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Narcissistic marriages will fail not from the spouse that is enduring the abuse but ultimately the Narcissistic spouse will discard and monkey branch. Ultimately you can show them grace,empathy, unconditional love, support etc and it will never be enough to fill the void with in them and they will seek new supply in another partner. This also leads to limerence and that dopamine fix from another partner.
My wife was married to me and I was the narcissist. Or at keast I had the behaviors as one and for so long I wouldn't recognize or admit my own narcissistic ways. Can't get help if you can't take accountability
Hey can you expound on how you started to become self aware. Are you still married and what can I do as a wife married to a man that has these behaviors but no accountability?
I appreciate you for being vulnerable to share.❤
Kimberly I would like to suggest you do a interview with Dr Ramani on this subject.
I was coming to say this! There are so many subcategories.
Dr. Ramani will not approve Kimberly.
@hereim5648 I reckon she will she is also pretty understanding of those with narcissistic pd.
you are right. this colab can clarify a lot of queries I blv
I loved for 25 years ~ I became very ill. He wasn’t open to therapy and we couldn’t get NOWHERE in conversation ~ nowhere! Jesus is there only true help
My wife called me a narc and told me to look up the word. I did. I found lots of irony in that.
Most people will never meet or even recognize a real diagnosed narcissist.
People don't go to evaluate themselves if they're narcissist or not.
Marriage Helper always don't emphasize the abuse narcissist brings to the relationship. MH always say you can overcome them with love. Sure. But how long? Until you became insane and mentally crippled?
You should be very very patient with narcissist but if they don't take responsibility for years then do something, set boundaries, save yourself. If you don't do any of these, then the phase comes when narcissist will discard you.
Narcissist does love bombing (gains trust), then devaluing and then discarding you.
Such great advice on this episode! Too many people just want to monetize off of the feel-good trend of labeling someone a 'narcissist' so that in your HURT, you can justify doing terrible things to HARM your spouse, your children, and ultimately yourself.... but very few people will help you to understand WHAT is happening and help you to HEAL a broken marriage like you do. Thank you for all that you do!!!
Labelling people is actually a sign of shame wounding (low self-esteem). Those who want to label are the ones who need to be watched. Healthy people look at the traits in themselves. There is a line that is crossed though when Labelling is needed. Once real abuse is identified so that we protect ourselves appropriately. Problem is seeing abuse everywhere can be a trap. You need experienced advisors to help decernment. People who will report your own faults as well as the abuse you may be experiencing.
Nope. Tried that. He cheated for years and then he left overnight.
Whoa. Sorry to hear that
Feeling like I was confident and strong prior to betrayal of my spouse. Now, after listening I think I have falling into the Vulnerable narcissism category as the betrayal left me questioning everything.
You are assuming that the partner hasn’t tried to “love” in every way possible to reach an emotionally immature, empathy lacking, spouse for decades! and unless that narcissistic person wants to take responsibility for their own abusive ways and relational neglect, all you get is two sick people.
They know how to manipulate others, including psychologists so many will not be diagnosed, and even if u stay and they do therapy, they will always hurt u, because in the end, they won't actually do therapy 😢😢😢😢
True. A very good psychologist is needed and the psychologist must interview the spouse and preferably other trusted family members. The reality of lies and abuse has to come to light.
Therapy, relationship books, and especially this channel, only made him more sophisticated at deniability, blame shifting and appearing innocent and even victimized to others. Initially he was unconscientious and unskilled in relationships. It actually got worse when he was unconscientious and knowledgeable. He learned how to say the right things in the right way while doing the same or worse damage. Everything, even good counsel, was weaponized.
I ❤ Dr. Beams. He is so good and trust what he says. I listen to all of his vides.
I kind of do think this. But I also think a majority of the American population leans in this direction as well.
Satan is a narcissist
I thank you so much I've tried to understand the complexity of narcissism in my life. Your podcast has been really really good for me. There is hope. You have made it easier to relate this in my life. Again thanks for doing the show.
In short narcissism is a type of person always think their self better than others. They never acknowledge mistakes. Yong sabihan ko na sa amin walang word na sorry. ang tataas ng mga pride. What I say is what I said, period. Napaka superior. Akala mo perfect hindi nagkamali. Kailangan lumuhod ka at dapat ako ang masunod wala kang say. At bakit. Hindi ba ako tao noong una kaming nagkita. Ano ang laki ng nagbago yong pera sa wala pang pera kilalang kilaka ka ngayon na may pera na aba..parang ang liit na ng tingin sayo. Tandaan mo kahit kelan hindi ako nagmanakaawa para asawahin ako hindi rin napikot kasi na buntis. We both make a decision and start everything. Napa consuderate ako sa lahat ng bahay pero wag nma akong apakan kasi pareho tayong wala at pareho tayong umangat. Sabihin nlang mas marami kang nagawa kasi sigaw ka ng sigaw pero tumulong ako sa lahat.
Jordan Peterson suggests self esteem is a nonsense concept
The evils spewed and the constant sabatage, no thank you. Better off alone.
sometimes kem is not practical