Our IVF Journey Part I | How We Got Pregnant

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  • čas přidán 26. 09. 2019
  • Hey Fam! This is a LONG VIDEO! But my hope is that you see our hearts and why we decided to share this intimate process of our lives. Love you all. We hope it helps someone. Lets talk about it!
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  • @teedee643
    @teedee643 Před 4 lety +225

    This is why people need to stop asking couples "when are you starting s family"!! You never know the internal pr personal struggles that people are going through. People need to begin to be more sensitive and mind their business until a couple says so. Also a great ego lesson and lesson on how much we put on women or how women feel like failures when we cannot carry a child or have difficulties...This was a great lesson on what we go through and have to take month after month..and how a man responds when its actually him...
    Always remember God made doctors and science. Faith without work is dead. You prayed, believed and he ordered your steps with a lesson in what faith is. God Bless you both!

    • @TheColeLife
      @TheColeLife  Před 4 lety +20

      White Plains Apartment rental wow! Thank you so much. We appreciate your response. Yes, it is definitely a sensitive topic when people keep asking but we do understand people aren’t trying to hurt us - it’s just a lack of awareness which is unfortunate. And you’re right, so much weight is put on women to have children and not much is put on the men. It’s not easy when you’re the one who is the cause but thank God we have identity and confidence and live that supersedes that. Again, thanks for watching and commenting! 🙏🏻

    • @teedee643
      @teedee643 Před 4 lety +4

      @@TheColeLife Love your guys' channel and wish you all the blessings you both deserve! Get ready for a new normal especially when traveling :) You are both going to be amazing parents.

    • @leoneranger9348
      @leoneranger9348 Před 4 lety +2

      Totally agree. People mean well but honestly, couples are struggling out there with conception. Let God work, let your coupled friends figure it out (or single ladies wanting to conceive) and just be supportive. Great news for the Cole's though 🙌🏾💚

    • @debraperry3530
      @debraperry3530 Před 4 lety +1

      White Plains Apartment rental so true

  • @anamorlamusic
    @anamorlamusic Před 4 lety +212

    “It’s hid under faith but it’s really fear of having an expectation” 🔥 - y’all just be preaching without even knowing it. Thank you guys for being vulnerable and sharing this journey.

    • @Leesoko
      @Leesoko Před 4 lety +4

      I was just about to comment about this ♥

    • @TheColeLife
      @TheColeLife  Před 4 lety +8

      Ana Morla honestly, it’s our honor to share our story. Lexi definitely preaches without knowing it. Some deep words there!! 😂😂🙌🏻

    • @portiawebb533
      @portiawebb533 Před 4 lety +1

      Ana Morla 🙌🏽

    • @Naijadimples
      @Naijadimples Před 4 lety +2

      Gosh you took the words right out of my mouth...I’ve just come back from church and stumbled on this video and wow talk about receiving a double blessing. Congratulations guys and enjoy every moment.

  • @vikumugisha1635
    @vikumugisha1635 Před 4 lety +93

    I'm glad that u talked about the ivf, some Christian have this misconception that babies should be conceived the through the sexual intercourse only! Forgetting that God ( The Greatest scientist that have, is and will exist) bestowed on is the knowledge and science( even though some use it wrongly) , which may help us when the easiest way( non medical way) isn't working, and I strongly believe that if God is the One and only giving the miracle of human life He can also make us pass through the medical conception bcz of reasons sometimes we don't understand. We as Christian has to understand and accept that God has many ways of making us parents biologically or thru adoption.
    I congratulate you that u shared ur journey and help people open eyes on God's way of working!
    God bless you and your little bundle of joy on the way.
    Love from France 😘😘

  • @49rjohnson
    @49rjohnson Před 4 lety +91

    No matter what process it took for you to become pregnant, God was and always will be in control. You were selected because he knew you would be obedient. The purpose of your journey was also to help others. It’s about HIM and through this someone will become a believer of our Father! Blessings on a happy and healthy baby Cole.

    • @claudettec.1251
      @claudettec.1251 Před 4 lety +1

      May God continue to bless you both. He is fairhfilm

    • @denisebay5800
      @denisebay5800 Před 4 lety +1

      Amen

    • @marthawambua7363
      @marthawambua7363 Před 4 lety +1

      Amen!

    • @TheColeLife
      @TheColeLife  Před 4 lety +3

      49rjohnson thank you for this! I agree - God works everything together for His glory. And we are happy to give Him all of it. 🙏🏻

    • @Naijadimples
      @Naijadimples Před 4 lety +1

      Oh yes you nailed it 👏🏽👏🏽 even as a believer this video definitely renewed my faith and realigned my mind. Truly an awesome God

  • @Nae2Curly
    @Nae2Curly Před 4 lety +96

    Thank you for being so open with us! The Cole Life Fam 4 life! 💛

    • @TheColeLife
      @TheColeLife  Před 4 lety +2

      Janae Mason we love youuuu 😢✊🏻

  • @brandonweddle2577
    @brandonweddle2577 Před 4 lety +107

    What the Heck Brian you just made me cry like a baby!!! Much love bro. Praying.

    • @TheColeLife
      @TheColeLife  Před 4 lety +14

      Brandon Weddle maaaan listen!! 😂😂 I didn’t mean to I promise. We appreciate your prayers. God has been amazing.

  • @avalangrin4904
    @avalangrin4904 Před 4 lety +46

    People of God need to talk about struggles in and through the valley. The valley is where faith is tested. You shouldn’t feel weak if while in the valley you have fears or doubts. I always felt I wasn’t being a perfect Christian when my struggles sometimes brought me to my knees saying “Why God?” I look back on those valley experiences, and I know God saw me through them. I can’t imagine making that journey without Christ Jesus. There is value in the valley. You gain a deeper understanding of life and its many blessings and have more compassion for others and their struggles. Thank you for sharing your story. It brought tears to my eyes. I am praying for you. 🙂

    • @TheColeLife
      @TheColeLife  Před 4 lety +2

      Ava Langrin I couldn’t agree more! The valley is where we grow and mature. And it’s ok to ask questions and struggle with something as long as we keep our trust in God through it all. Thank you for the encouragement and love. 🙏🏻

  • @Sheerohcooks
    @Sheerohcooks Před 4 lety +234

    As I watch this, my thoughts of how insensitive it is to keep asking people " when are you having kids?" Are really highlighted. Is it possible that being nosy could be hurting someone?
    Plus: I love watching these two❤💙. Each time I'm from their channel, my faith is built and I feel a lot of need to trust God even when I can't see or understand what He's doing

    • @TheColeLife
      @TheColeLife  Před 4 lety +15

      Sheeroh Njuguna YESS!! Thank you for sharing that!! Soo true it’s VERY sensitive question !

    • @teedee643
      @teedee643 Před 4 lety +2

      I literally just wrote the same thing!!! #facts

    • @myralubeauty876
      @myralubeauty876 Před 4 lety +2

      True!

    • @tammyames6208
      @tammyames6208 Před 4 lety +2

      I don’t think it’s insensitive! Give people the benefit of the doubt! Everyone loves and gets excited about babies! I truly don’t think people mean any harm! We’ve become an over sensitive culture! People are afraid to say anything for fear someone’s feelings may be hurt! Lexi & Brian are helping us!! 💜

    • @Sheerohcooks
      @Sheerohcooks Před 4 lety +15

      @@tammyames6208 yes everyone is excited about babies but when you keep pressuring people who are trying and can't get one, don't you think that in expressing your freedom and opinions regardless of how well meaning they may be you will be hurting people on the inside?

  • @aquilaclark814
    @aquilaclark814 Před 4 lety +36

    Infertility is predominant in many more couples than you could ever imagine..most people just don’t want to talk about it..I hope you sharing your journey on this subject..will help other couples navigate this path to becoming parents..my husband and I experienced all of the emotions you both have spoke about..43 years ago..I tried the the fertility drug treatment for seven months..that didn’t work..I discontinued the drugs..fought extreme depression..and started praying for a miracle....long story short..God gave us 2 miracle children..Speaking of miracles..🙌🏽🙌🏽..My health issue was I had blocked Fallopian tubes..We saw the blockage on the HSG screen ..surgery wasn’t recommended and IVF was not an option back then..I’m so happy for you two..Thank God they have more options available ..and that you were able to use this option..that’s how I look at it ..only God can give life ...so he Still..gets the Glory..I’m happy for you all😋..We stand with you and believe God that everything is well with your baby 🙌🏽🙌🏽

  • @aggsperez865
    @aggsperez865 Před 4 lety +59

    I had to stop this vlog 17 minutes in to reiterate what I have said to you and a few other Christian youtubers.Your platform that you have been given must be used to glorify God at every opportunity possible.I am not talking about preaching and quoting scriptures all the time to persons who might not find that appealing; but in the every day little things, to just show a wholesome,christian life is a good thing and that serving God has its ups and downs but in the end it is the best life possible.
    This video is a wonderful example of using a practical,relatable issue to show how the hand of God operates in the life of a Christian believer.God bless you.
    We don't need stupid youtube pranks and other foolish topics to make good enjoyable vlogging content.You keep on keeping on family.

    • @nessparadis6948
      @nessparadis6948 Před 4 lety +4

      Greatly said, and I can’t deal with the prank videos!

    • @claudetteclarke8437
      @claudetteclarke8437 Před 4 lety

      @@nessparadis6948 me 3

    • @lauramulima4694
      @lauramulima4694 Před 4 lety +1

      Totally agree. They couple are spreading God’s Grace and love in a cute and subtle way. And; pranks are boring!

  • @kimmiller9614
    @kimmiller9614 Před 4 lety +107

    A doctor told me once that I was trying to hard to get pregnant, I stoped trying and finally got pregnant with my first little angel, 10 yrs later I had my 2nd

    • @anishadavid4790
      @anishadavid4790 Před 4 lety +4

      My daughter is 12 and am still struggling.Its hurts so bad.

    • @noreenlovelock9899
      @noreenlovelock9899 Před 4 lety +2

      Wow you both are so amazing thanks for being so honest and open in such a private and intimate journey in your life wow ! You both are truly blessed !! ❤️

    • @sades_travels1749
      @sades_travels1749 Před 3 lety +1

      If only things are that easy. A Dr should have known better, glad it worked out for you. After going through 6 IVF cycles and have stopped 'trying' in the last 2-3 years still waiting for it to happen.

    • @nakintuflorence2438
      @nakintuflorence2438 Před 3 lety

      @@anishadavid4790 I have a solution if u don't mind giving it to u Iam serious not a joke

  • @thedrifflife5792
    @thedrifflife5792 Před 4 lety +13

    First of all CONGRATULATIONS on your pregnancy. I too have been through IVF, I’m 8 months pregnant today actually. Oh it’s been a longggggg, hardddddd journey to get to this stage. God was and still is the centre of eveything! One thing I’ve learnt is having faith and patience. Only Gods timing. Once agin, congratulations!!!

  • @rashondadani
    @rashondadani Před 4 lety +21

    “Hidden under faith....Fear of having an expectation” Alexis, this spoke to my ENTIRE soul. ABBA always finds away to deal with our hidden places. Wow! Thank you for sharing.

  • @mmaolisae3675
    @mmaolisae3675 Před 4 lety

    Y'all are just so dope!! Thank you for being so open and vulnerable. I know your journey will bless many people. Can't wait for part two!

  • @kristalmonique
    @kristalmonique Před 4 lety +2

    Wow you guys are amazing!! Your transparency is blessing me! Praying for a safe and smooth pregnancy and delivery 🤗💕🙏🏽 The lessons expressed in this video apply to so many things. Thank you for this video! Married almost 10 years and no kids yet so I get it. This was super encouraging!

  • @dashofreality
    @dashofreality Před 4 lety +4

    Thank you for being vulnerable and sharing your testimony, you never know when and how it can encourage someone else going through the same situation. Praying for continued covering over you three. Love you guys. ❤️

  • @futurernfrancine4660
    @futurernfrancine4660 Před 4 lety +3

    Thank you both for being so open and honest about this process you've been experiencing. This was raw and I could see the pain it caused you guys. Your faith in God has and will continue to be rewarded. Much love from a fellow Michigander!!!

  • @tjifill4916
    @tjifill4916 Před 4 lety +1

    This. Is. A. Blessing. The process.... thank you! Dealing with the fear of expecting... not just where pregnancy is concerned but this speaks to a lot to everything we go through building our faith... being dissapointed.. trusting God...
    THANK YOU!!!

  • @lethimtalk498
    @lethimtalk498 Před 4 lety +3

    what a ministry you two have! this is a blessing, your realness is so pure (I cried through most of this video) and its what is needed in this day and time. We are praying for you both as you continue in this journey, God bless you!

  • @pastoralexiaburgesshuart2020

    This is such a blessing for the Body of Christ. So many are going through this difficulty. This share and helping to encourage others is so vital and appreciated. Thank you. Blessings and congrats!

  • @carenn4461
    @carenn4461 Před 4 lety +8

    Thank you guys for being vulnerable and openly sharing this journey with us. Keep trusting God and praying for good health. Blessings!

  • @Nathou2010
    @Nathou2010 Před 4 lety +3

    This is one of the greatest videos I’ve ever seen on CZcams. The sincerity and transparency is so assuring for others - which sounds weird but I’m sure there’s a lot of individuals and couples that are struggling with this issue or something similar. Your journey is yours but it’s a helping hand for others. I’m so happy that your family is growing! Can’t wait to see the little one. ❤️

  • @leoneranger9348
    @leoneranger9348 Před 4 lety +2

    Congrats on the pregnancy and well done for being open. Conception issues and carrying successfully to term are real issues, and a lot of couples are and have suffered the same way. Always great to hear the breakthroughs - you know this bubba will be so appreciated and loved 😊

  • @smeraldalourdes8351
    @smeraldalourdes8351 Před 4 lety +1

    Wow!!! You 2 are AMAZING!! Thank you for opening up your hearts. For being so raw & honest! This video had knowledge, emotions/tears, vulnerability, faith, love & so much more wrapped into 1. Your story will truly be guidence for many. I don’t normally leave comments but this time I just couldn’t help myself. Thank you for sharing your the inner home ❤️.

  • @LadyBC305
    @LadyBC305 Před 4 lety +87

    Wow, your vulnerability and honesty is going to bless so many people! Although I'm not in the same season of life, I wish you both well, and may the Lord continue to bless and keep your growing fam 😊❤

    • @TheColeLife
      @TheColeLife  Před 4 lety +5

      Bianca Wilson thank you!! It wasn’t easy to share but we hope it helps someone. Thank you for watching and supporting us. That’s so huge for us! 🙏🏻

  • @terryjohnson8948
    @terryjohnson8948 Před 4 lety +1

    I am so happy for you! Thank you for sharing your life struggles, sorrows, and the journey it took for you to get to where you are now, I am sure you have a lot of prayers going up for you, including mine. May God continue to bless you.🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽❤️❤️❤️🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @riseupwarriors6483
    @riseupwarriors6483 Před 4 lety +1

    Wow! This was beyond beautiful. The oneness between the two of you. Moving from faith to trust in God. Powerful! Thank you so much for sharing such a difficult yet real journey with us. So happy for you both! ❤️❤️❤️

  • @tiaxshalese
    @tiaxshalese Před 4 lety +66

    It takes courage to make a video like this! I love y’all and the baby sooo much☺️! Thanks for sharing y’all💕

  • @latrecewilliams6901
    @latrecewilliams6901 Před 4 lety

    Thank you for being vulnerable and sharing your story! There were so many gems in here about faith and mental health that I could write a short book but a main thing I kept thinking about during this video is how in Supernatural Childbirth there's a story about a woman who thinks she's in faith and puts herself at risk because of it and he tells her "faith works, and this is not working." There's so much power and freedom when you take God out of a box and align your faith with what God has specifically for you. Blessings to you all and the little world changer you're about to raise!!

  • @bukolavic
    @bukolavic Před 4 lety +26

    What I love most about u guys is your faith in God, it's so refreshing to see young couple who loves God like u do. May God perfect what He has started in your lives in Jesus name.
    Congratulations again

    • @TheColeLife
      @TheColeLife  Před 4 lety +1

      Bukolavic thank you! That means a lot.

  • @antoniajohnson7284
    @antoniajohnson7284 Před 4 lety +11

    Thank you for sharing this with us! God bless your marriage and journey to your first baby!

  • @Binga7686
    @Binga7686 Před 4 lety +1

    Wow wow. Just joined your channel and came up on your story. I was fascinated by your spirituality and honesty. It must have been so hard on you both but what you have been thru was meant to be. God is using you as a tool to help others in similar situation emotionally and physically. I am not familiar with the process and can read on the Internet however sharing your journey makes me feel honored and grateful. You are healers who was placed together on this earth to help others who are suffering with depression and feelings of inadequacy guilt and worthlessness. You have just helped hundreds of couples by uplifting them into a new space where they can start over again. Having a child is a special gift and a blessing that you both take seriously and i really admire that about you both. You make wonderful parents snd family. God Bless you

  • @carolynricks3123
    @carolynricks3123 Před 4 lety +18

    You’re absolutely correct, conception is a miraculous process orchestrated by God. I loved your Father in love description of moving past faith to trust. God will use your IVF journey as a testimony for His glory!!! God is in control of every step of your process and THERE WILL BE GLORY, AFTER THIS!!! 🙌🏾

    • @TheColeLife
      @TheColeLife  Před 4 lety +1

      Carolyn Ricks it truly is miraculous! Creation of life is astounding! And yes He will! We hope it blesses people and lets them know how great He is! Thank you for the love! 🙏🏻

  • @topnotchtn4538
    @topnotchtn4538 Před 4 lety +2

    Brian, thank you for sharing such personal details. It takes a strong sense of self to express that on an open platform. What you've shared will help so many men....and even women going through health/ fertility evaluations. May God bless you and your beautiful wife. ❤

  • @angeledamfine
    @angeledamfine Před 4 lety

    Wow! Thanks for sharing that! That was so honest and real! It is not easy being so vulnerable but it’s in telling your story that you heal! God bless you guys and I’m so happy for you!! So encouraging ! Love y’all!!

  • @nelletathompson4702
    @nelletathompson4702 Před 3 lety +2

    Your openness and vulnerability has helped so many others.. May God continue to use you guys to be a blessing.

  • @brittneycurtis4928
    @brittneycurtis4928 Před 4 lety

    Thank you so much for sharing and being open about your journey through this. You don’t know how encouraging it was. My husband and I have been trying for some months now and are trying to fight doubts and thoughts from creeping in. Trying to keep the faith. This was very timely. Blessings to you all!

  • @lindairankunda1311
    @lindairankunda1311 Před 4 lety +6

    This is such a blessing to so many im sure! Thank you for sharing!! God bless

  • @Novembersongbird
    @Novembersongbird Před 4 lety +35

    I love to hear my girl get her thoughts out .... God has a way of humbling us...So happy for you both... God is so faithful...

    • @TheColeLife
      @TheColeLife  Před 4 lety +2

      November Songbird Lexis amazing isn’t she? 😂😂✊🏻 and yes He definitely humbled ME, that’s for sure! Thanks for the love! 🙏🏻

  • @TotallyTates
    @TotallyTates Před 4 lety +7

    Wow! Such a vulnerable, sincere video! This hit a spot in me watching it and made me emotional. No I didn’t have to go through that process, but my husband and I found out our son would be disabled & had a 25% chance of living after birth, when I was 5 months pregnant. We were only 20&21 years old. We didn’t tell people. We wanted to believe he’d be healed before I delivered him then share the testimony. That wasn’t Gods will though. So As time got closer and closer to him being born, we decided to tell people. It hurt so bad feeling alone, but once we opened up we received much prayer and love. Our son is our miracle baby and a living testimony. I thank God you all are being strong together and Thank you so much for sharing your journey. I KNOW it’s not easy. But God gets the glory in it All. Keep enduring Cole Family! You guys got this, by God’s grace!
    - Much Love From The Tate Family! ❤️

  • @mrsabe4
    @mrsabe4 Před 4 lety

    My goodness!!! How did you guys drop into my CZcams stream?? I am so blessed, encouraged and lifted seeing and listening to your videos. Eternity only will reveal to you how much help you guys are to millions. Love you!

  • @shashavengesayi6055
    @shashavengesayi6055 Před 4 lety +3

    Thank you for sharing your story. I'm only 21 and still don't know whether I want a family, but this is really insightful especially from a guy's perspective. It's sad how many ppl have kids they don't want or can't take care of, and then there's the other side of it.

  • @patricesawyer4453
    @patricesawyer4453 Před 4 lety

    So thankful for this video. I am currently experiencing the same challenges, from faith, negative tests and tears to currently awaiting IVF. I love your honesty.

  • @aero113322
    @aero113322 Před 4 lety

    You guys are amazing. I never heard much about infertility because people don’t talk about it, but since I started working in the NICU, I’ve met so many parents who have also struggled through this journey. It’s also important to spread awareness, I’ve stopped asking couples “when are you going have kids” because I truly have no idea what they are going through.
    I love hearing how your faith has grown throughout everything and how you’re both glorifying God through it all!!! Please keep us posted throughout. Praying for all (three!! Or four, five, six?;) of you!

  • @adelhutson9360
    @adelhutson9360 Před 4 lety +19

    I can so relate. But God has been speaking. To God be all the glory for great things He is doing and will continue to do. Congratulations to both of you.

  • @cookieuspsgov
    @cookieuspsgov Před rokem +2

    Love that you shared this difficult journey with us. So true when you stated that the Black community often shy away from subjects they feel are taboo. Thanks for letting your guard down and sharing ❤️

  • @tryingthings9036
    @tryingthings9036 Před 4 lety +2

    This is faith wow,i apprecite you guys for sharing this experience,i really felt your sincere heart ,may GOD CONTINUE TO KEEP YOU BOTH IN HIS LIGHT.LOVE YALL.

  • @takingupspacewithora4121
    @takingupspacewithora4121 Před 4 lety +3

    @The Cole Life thank you thank you, ive been married for 6 years and have actually been trying to get pregnant for almost 4 years. my husband is very patient and we have faith in God. Like you i thought we'd get married and then boom baby but didnt happen like that. ive been going through procedures and all the other medical stuff. All the best for your pregnancy. God bless you. All the love from South Africa

  • @keyeemanna636
    @keyeemanna636 Před 4 lety +2

    Thank you for sharing this with us. I'll pray for you. Praying for your healthy pregnancy, safe delivery and a healthy child. So beautiful.

  • @luthozono4503
    @luthozono4503 Před 3 lety +1

    Just discovered your channel and I’m in tears. God bless you!

  • @tammyames6208
    @tammyames6208 Před 4 lety +1

    Love you two!! Your walk with God, your WITNESS, your Authenticity, being OPEN, vulnerable, accepting of questions...so amazing!! Were praying for you both! May God continue to use your lives to build up, inspire & encourage others! Congratulations!! Your beautiful baby is on the way! God is molding and shaping this life inside of you Lexi!! May this journey continue to reveal Christ’s love over and over!!! Brian, you have blessed men to know they’re not alone! Thank you for being so open! Lexi, to share your emotions and concerns I know, connects with so many!! Keeping God in the center is such a reminder to all, that HE IS FIRST in your lives! That’s the most inspiring...That God Gets The GLORY!! Hallelujah!! Blessings to you both!!💜

  • @FirstLastHoe
    @FirstLastHoe Před 4 lety +1

    Thanks guys!!!! It's so amazing to see how God works in our life especially in document videos and journals

  • @cocoloti1535
    @cocoloti1535 Před 4 lety +46

    Amen 🙏🏾. Lexi and Brian...I love your heart, your candor, and your faith in God. I’m so excited for you. But I totally called it a month ago! When you were taping the video on the way to The Caymans, Brian was so giddy and excited and Lexi was so tired and exhausted! I said that you had to be pregnant! Lol Praise God!!! Standing in agreement with you that God will continue to bless your family with more babies, more babies, more babies!

    • @TheColeLife
      @TheColeLife  Před 4 lety +1

      Sherry wooow!! That’s so hilarious. Way to call that one. She was so tired though!! And I was sooo excited! 😂

  • @busolamomoh9810
    @busolamomoh9810 Před 4 lety

    Yoooooo I love the way God is using you guys!!!! This has been so encouraging! Congratulations!!!

  • @marthataruvinga8047
    @marthataruvinga8047 Před 4 lety +5

    I've watched this quite a few times
    This was so timely, first it ministered to me 😭 and also resonated with me.
    In all this you said things that are in my heart/spirit but I could not articulate.It's like you pulled it out of me so I could understand and put words to my own feelings and thoughts.
    This is ministry, may God bless you, protect and keep you 3 until baby comes 😍❤

  • @donnaowens3023
    @donnaowens3023 Před 4 lety +3

    Thanks for sharing,someone needs to hear this.Thank you so much, going to let my friend see this because she's going through the same thing right now.She needs to know she's not the only one going through this.Love you both so much and the baby to come.Blessings to you both and may you both continue to for fill purpose and destiny.It's your ministry to be a blessing to other married couples.

    • @TheColeLife
      @TheColeLife  Před 4 lety

      donna owens wow, thank you for sharing this with her. She is absolutely not alone at all. We will be praying for her journey.

  • @sherylrush9005
    @sherylrush9005 Před 4 lety +2

    Thank you for sharing something tests so Intimate and personal so many people suffer in silence and feel so a shamed your story will help so many people who have gone through the same struggle god has your back always

  • @denisebay5800
    @denisebay5800 Před 4 lety

    I just subscribe to your channel because of your amazing honesty. Hope many people can watch this video. God bless you and be always with you🙏🏽

  • @rebeccajean-baptiste6836
    @rebeccajean-baptiste6836 Před 3 lety +1

    I just came upon your IVF story and it is amazing! I’m currently pregnant with my IVF miracle and your story has given me so much hope and encouragement. ❤️❤️

  • @preachingpoet
    @preachingpoet Před 4 lety +1

    You are both so beautiful! I am here crying with you both and when she wipes his tears, that for me was a picture of Christ’s compassion!

  • @tonishaanderson6128
    @tonishaanderson6128 Před 3 lety +2

    When Lexi wiped Brian's tears! These two are adorable ❤ May God truly bless them with the next two kids naturally and I pray they have a long and happy life together x

  • @victoriab241
    @victoriab241 Před 4 lety +1

    Your prayer of servitude was wonderful I subscribed after seeing the sibling video couple days ago wonderful fam , congrats on your baby girl

  • @jjabb
    @jjabb Před 4 lety

    Well done. Your truthfulness is so golden. Thank you for everything. All your points are relatable. Your family is blessed.

  • @moniabonkoungou6774
    @moniabonkoungou6774 Před 4 lety +20

    Alexis looks AMAZING!!!!!! She is GLOWING!!!!!

    • @TheColeLife
      @TheColeLife  Před 4 lety +5

      Monia Bonkoungou doesn’t she though?! That girl is FINE!! 😂😂🤷🏻‍♂️

  • @chilefernandez
    @chilefernandez Před 4 lety

    Woooooow! What a series of events in spiritual growth, deepening your understanding of God and evolving your unity with eachother. It's crazy and amazing how such difficult experiences in a Christian's life seem like tools for destruction but in tuning into God closer, you're actually rebuilt. Brian said thanks to the viewers for allowing you to be vulnerable, but I must correct that..that power is in your hands, not ours. So, thank YOU for pushing past vulnerability to serve a greater purpose.👏🏼❣️🙏🏼 Look forward to the next video.

  • @pamelaivonne-cole
    @pamelaivonne-cole Před 4 lety

    Thank you so very much for sharing your story! I was just saying today that transparency is the key to freedom! 🙏🏾💛

  • @euniceoderinde7755
    @euniceoderinde7755 Před 2 měsíci

    I just love how this amazing couple openly and honestly connects with their audience. Their genuineness is truly admirable and heartwarming. God bless them!

  • @veonca29
    @veonca29 Před 4 lety +2

    Congratulations to you guys so very happy for y’all!! This video is so inspirational of how Gods Grace and mercy is always on us all we have to do is believe thanks for reminding me of this.

  • @CA-he4nj
    @CA-he4nj Před 4 lety +2

    SO SO SO DEEP!!!! FEAR OF HAVING AN EXPECTATION!!! THAT WILL PREACH!!! PRAYING FOR YOU! LOVE YOU!

  • @tanyaparker-callsign.kk7ic238

    The main message I got from this video is to remember the work it took to conceive it will take that much and more after baby manifest. Children change the dynamics of relationships stay strong during the tough tired times. Many blessings 💕❤️🌈🌈❤️💕

  • @meliq13
    @meliq13 Před 4 lety +15

    You two are so beautiful. I pray nothing, but the best for you and your little bun!! 😊

  • @saranghae2808
    @saranghae2808 Před 4 lety +2

    Thank you so much Lexi and Brian for sharing this story. I am SO blessed hearing how GOD helped you during this journey. I am currently in a season where I am going through some issues that make me wonder what GOD's Ultimate Plan is. Your story just gave me so much encouragement. GOD Bless you guys. Love you!!!!!!!!!!

  • @anamorlamusic
    @anamorlamusic Před 4 lety +23

    “It’s in the place of mystery when you really start to develop a relationship of trust with God” 🔥

  • @carolynwilliams6153
    @carolynwilliams6153 Před 4 lety +17

    Thank you for sharing your journey, and congratulations!

  • @giselleclarke7762
    @giselleclarke7762 Před 2 lety +1

    Well, I ttrust you guys see the benefit of your struggles now. Your story will help many many people. We want to live trouble free lives but the testimony comes out of the trial. And testimonies build others up. Bless you guys.

  • @jrmason42
    @jrmason42 Před 4 lety +2

    This video has set a lot of people free. I pray that you have a stress free pregnancy and a pain free delivery!

  • @lailaheiress1274
    @lailaheiress1274 Před 4 lety

    Your story has truly blessed me and encouraged me🙌🏼❣️ Thank you for being vulnerable in front of an audience and sharing your story🙏 I count it as a privilege to be able to watch this❤️❤️

  • @zoetaguma
    @zoetaguma Před 3 lety

    wow, such powerful testimony. I love how Lexi your mindset shifted to how can i serve God in this season? This really, really hit me and inspired me, even though i am single and not anywhere near this season of life. Thank you for sharing!

  • @ajt5897
    @ajt5897 Před 4 lety +1

    You both are in my prayers. May God continue to bless your union abundantly!!

  • @Beyonce2410
    @Beyonce2410 Před 4 lety +3

    You are not alone hun Infertility is a struggle I can feel you we are also pregnant with IVF, we been married for 7 good years. After trying a lot and one Ectopic pregnancy our best option was IVF we pray a lot and ask God to assist us and yes we were lucky it works on our first try still 4 months to go until delivery. Yes God is real 💯, I respect you and your husband to talk openly about, we are planning to share our journey with friends and family as soon we delivered. Take it easy hun and enjoy your pregnancy soon you will feel the baby kicking up the storm. Sending blessings and lots prayers your way. ❤️❤️❤️

  • @cbass5621
    @cbass5621 Před 4 lety +3

    You two are an amazing couple. Very inspirational on many levels. I appreciate your always putting God first and remembering that even during the rocky times. It's not easy. May God continue to bless you and your extended family to come.

  • @wandagaines2678
    @wandagaines2678 Před 4 lety +32

    So glad you were able to have a baby. We couldn't back in the day (I'm 66) and we were never able to. We prayed for YEARS but never got that blessing. So we adopted, still isn't like carrying a baby. So so so happy for you.

    • @phyllisferguson3889
      @phyllisferguson3889 Před 4 lety +11

      Wanda Gaines, it doesn't matter. You are still a mother and a great one also.

    • @lavonneward6068
      @lavonneward6068 Před 4 lety +15

      Wanda Gaines your blessed to give a child a home plus the ability to call you Mom ....I was adopted at the age of 7 years of Age .....now 52 and still proud I was selected!!

    • @wandagaines2678
      @wandagaines2678 Před 4 lety +5

      @@phyllisferguson3889 I thank you. It means a lot.

    • @wandagaines2678
      @wandagaines2678 Před 4 lety +3

      @@lavonneward6068 thank you so very much. That's good to know.

    • @TheColeLife
      @TheColeLife  Před 4 lety +8

      Wanda Gaines that is beautiful that you were even able and willing to adopt. I know God blesses you for it. Thank you for being amazing! 🙏🏻

  • @cierravallery9617
    @cierravallery9617 Před 4 lety

    Love your videos. And your heart for God. And your humility. You guys are so authentic!!! Honest. I know this will bless a lot of families.

  • @shayanaprice8744
    @shayanaprice8744 Před 2 lety +1

    Thank you for being so open! My husband and I literally have the same issues and we didn’t think it was him due to him having a 11 year old son… 2 years later and this testimony is still blessing individuals like myself ♥️

  • @deborahblackshear3325
    @deborahblackshear3325 Před 4 lety +2

    Awesome and congratulations. Healthy Mom and healthy baby, that's my prayer.🙏🙏🙏❤❤. Nothing is wrong with going to the doctor to see what's going on so you know how to pray and have a plan. Lexi you are so beautiful, glowing.

  • @kimmcnatt6301
    @kimmcnatt6301 Před 4 lety

    Thanks for sharing this journey with us! I can’t wait to watch the second one. I’m so happy for you both and can’t wait to see your miracle baby soon! ❤️

  • @reggiBB
    @reggiBB Před 4 lety +7

    This video has taught me a lot in regards to faith. Like
    1) Faith IS holding out hope for an expected end and NOT holding out hope for until you think something should happen.
    Going off of that,
    2) Just because you want something bad enough and you HAVE the faith for it, doesn't mean you will get it (when you want it or how you want it).
    3) For God knows the plans that He has for you. They are good. They will give you an expected end. - Come what may, be still and know that your LORD is God.
    Thank God for you both and for this wonderful blessing of a child he has placed in your lives

  • @hausofrlateish
    @hausofrlateish Před 4 lety +22

    My heart is so full watching this video. Being so open and vulnerable to the world is not easy. I applaud your courage. This is why I don't like asking person's about pregnancy, because you never know what's going on internally. I pray God's strength, grace and blessings over the both of you and your pregnancy. 😇🙏

    • @TheColeLife
      @TheColeLife  Před 4 lety +2

      La Teish we really appreciate you saying this. It definitely is difficult to hear people pressuring and pushing you to have kids while you’re trying to but not succeeding. It wasn’t easy to share but well worth it!

    • @hausofrlateish
      @hausofrlateish Před 4 lety +1

      @@TheColeLife I completely understand. I'm asked that question daily and I just have to remind myself that they don't mean any harm just being nosey. I definitely appreciate y'all honesty. It's definitely relatable. Thank you and congratulations again 😇🙏💖💖

  • @drrn8883
    @drrn8883 Před 3 lety

    You both are a blessing to so many watching this. May the Lord continue to bless your lives, your family, your marriage and your beautiful baby. 🙏🏾 As I listened to you sharing your journey, I heard a book title as you were speaking. However the Lord lead you, make sure you write down jour journey for the future. Someone will need to hear your testimony. I am blessed by your positivity and your commitment. Oh, your makeup is flawless!👌🏾

  • @akiandbee3312
    @akiandbee3312 Před 4 lety +2

    Thank you guys for sharing such a private issue with us. Praying for a healthy and happy pregnancy. God bless you ❤️

  • @damilolaibitoye6568
    @damilolaibitoye6568 Před 4 lety

    I've always being watching your videos and gosh!! You guys are awesome. I pray God be with you all through this process. I love you

  • @phyllisferguson3889
    @phyllisferguson3889 Před 4 lety +26

    Congratulations! Wishing for a healthy baby.

  • @sribrahmanamudiyanselagevi6929

    It was very emotional and heart-touching...Love you so much❤❤❤Your faith is incredible...God protects your family forever...

  • @jayleigh_bee
    @jayleigh_bee Před 4 lety +1

    Lexi, your words are gospel come to life... Patience and faith, trusting in God to have HIS plan, in HIS timing... To bring you THIS very child, perfect for you both, entrusted by God to care for, nurture and raise HIS child? Amen, lady! Patience and faith have brought you through darkness and you've burst forth into the brightest light! Congratulations! God bless and keep you, now and through all of life's journeys!

  • @ednanelson1897
    @ednanelson1897 Před 4 lety

    I am so happy for you. May God continue to bless the three of you. Thank you for being so transparent. I know you are helping more people than you will ever know.

  • @sharonmongro5704
    @sharonmongro5704 Před 4 lety +3

    Congratulations I'm so happy for u i will be praying for y'all glad u kept ur faith and belief. Keep praying and believing

  • @CatB1PYT
    @CatB1PYT Před 4 lety +8

    Our imperfection, usually makes us impatient. We can’t be anxious over anything, because our Heavenly Father knows what we need, at the proper time. I have accepted the fact that after my Hysterectomy, there would be zero chance of becoming a Mother. It was challenging and often depressing but I had to accept it and receive the other blessings that would come my way. I have over 50 nieces and nephews. May not be my own, but I have to find joy through the time I spend with them. Continue to remain faithful and gracious. Thank you for sharing your challenges.

  • @damianaernest2581
    @damianaernest2581 Před 4 lety +4

    Thanks you so much for this....You guys have greatly blessed a soul somewhere is Africa...God bless the Cole Life

    • @TheColeLife
      @TheColeLife  Před 4 lety

      Damiana Ernest it’s our honor to do this. I’m so glad to hear you were blessed. We love you!

  • @hopesingleton9351
    @hopesingleton9351 Před 4 lety +3

    Congratulations!!! This is an amazing journey and I’m so glad you are allowing us to take it with you🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

    • @TheColeLife
      @TheColeLife  Před 4 lety +1

      HOPE SINGLETON happy to share our journey! Thank you for watching and coming along with us.

  • @a.mariemcnally8382
    @a.mariemcnally8382 Před 4 lety

    New subscriber here! Babies are truly a gift from God! Congrats to you both! I can relate on so many levels!