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Komentáře • 324

  • @zoeunlimited
    @zoeunlimited  Před 6 měsíci +291

    Do you think it’s easier for a man to dress well?

    • @annamariyad
      @annamariyad Před 6 měsíci +25

      I do but when I have conversations on this topic with men they always say it’s easier for us women because we have more choice! Nonsense 😂

    • @blank_line
      @blank_line Před 6 měsíci +24

      ​@@annamariyadthe problem is the materials. Yes, we do have more choice, but almost everything made for us, feels like trash in your hands. Men's clothing always had more quality

    • @bookbutterfly2408
      @bookbutterfly2408 Před 6 měsíci +15

      Men have so few options, yet they're usually stereotyped as poor dressers.

    • @chillblue1650
      @chillblue1650 Před 6 měsíci +18

      Where did this idea even come from? As a guy, it's common consensus among us that girls are the ones who look way better no matter what they wear, even if they're wearing casual clothes that are baggy and oversized. I always thought it was the other way around, so this is news to me. Guys? Looking good in lazy outfits? Really?

    • @invisiblerevolution
      @invisiblerevolution Před 6 měsíci +8

      ​@chillblue1650
      Bruh....
      *THANK YOU!!!!!!*
      I don't know how Zoe thinks we GUYS have it easy, we can look good in "lazy outfits"?????
      For starters.....
      the guys she's comparing outfits with *ARE SUPER CHADS* in there 20's, who can look good in anything.
      But the average lookin MAN....
      (above the age of 30) has to spend way more MONEY and understand what fits him right, just to look decent lookin!

  • @nykiat.n.3350
    @nykiat.n.3350 Před 6 měsíci +1567

    "Is it an outfit, or is he just a man" & "is it an outfit, or is she just skinny" is giving similar vibes though

    • @themagicknightress7132
      @themagicknightress7132 Před 6 měsíci +82

      That’s the point

    • @nykiat.n.3350
      @nykiat.n.3350 Před 6 měsíci +7

      @themagicknightress7132 yeah, I left the comment to see the comparisons 👀

    • @StephTL27
      @StephTL27 Před 6 měsíci +8

      @@themagicknightress7132 if you mean by this video clearly not

    • @themagicknightress7132
      @themagicknightress7132 Před 6 měsíci +56

      @@StephTL27 you don’t think “is he just a man” came from “is she just skinny?” It’s literally the same thing. Men and skinny women can both wear things that the average or plus sized female would look unkempt in

    • @nykiat.n.3350
      @nykiat.n.3350 Před 5 měsíci +5

      @themagicknightress7132 Good gosh if you think a comment is stupid just leave it alone grumpy pants

  • @chillblue1650
    @chillblue1650 Před 6 měsíci +370

    As a guy, I'll say fit and silhouette are everything for men's outfits. Tucking in a T-shirt to look well-proportioned goes a long way for us. A lot of clothes for men weren't made with this in mind, so it's harder to get things right. I'm glad more men are starting to understand this. We still have a long way to go, but in my online circles of guys that care about this stuff, we're starting to embrace cropped T-shirts, high-rise flared jeans, and things like that.

    • @AmbieAssassin
      @AmbieAssassin Před 5 měsíci +14

      Honestly, this is exactly what I was thinking. Even just looking at the first two men and the short of hers that led me to this video, I do think it has a lot to do with fit and silhouette. I personally find tailored clothes to be more attractive, regardless of the person, especially if someone is dressing up. It doesn't have to be skin-tight but everyone has different lines and having the right pieces in the right spots can do so much. I'll also say that sometimes finding complimentary things in your preferred style, like if someone leans more gothic, more preppy, more casual, etc., can also be really hard but I do think that gives people the opportunity to kind of branch out. Good on you and your circle of friends for just exploring. You never know what gold you may find.

    • @chillblue1650
      @chillblue1650 Před 5 měsíci +4

      @@AmbieAssassin Thanks for the thoughtful reply. Sometimes it's not "just a T-shirt" or "just a pair of jeans." A cropped T-shirt may look better on you than a T-shirt that's way too long for your torso. Same goes for a high-rise pair of flared jeans vs. a low-rise pair of skinny jeans. The men in this video clearly put in some thought and effort into making sure the clothes flatter their bodies. If a woman wore a simple outfit that is aesthetically pleasing, I'd appreciate it too.

    • @eyeofthebeholder_
      @eyeofthebeholder_ Před 5 měsíci +4

      Men with cropped tops, bell bottom pants and high boots? The 70s are coming back, baby!

    • @louisst-amand9207
      @louisst-amand9207 Před 3 měsíci

      hurray for consumerism!

  • @Yeodoongiiie
    @Yeodoongiiie Před 6 měsíci +647

    Confirmed ! Men can absolutely dress well, but the AMOUNT of effort we require to say so that he has good style, requires drastically less 🤡

    • @Nikkiberrie3
      @Nikkiberrie3 Před 6 měsíci +22

      Seriously look at Asia, especially China. Those guys can dress 😫

    • @chillblue1650
      @chillblue1650 Před 6 měsíci +21

      The same goes for girls too. They could wear the most simple, basic outfits and still look amazing to us guys. Really, it's just girls who are putting all this pressure on each other.

    • @Yeodoongiiie
      @Yeodoongiiie Před 6 měsíci

      that's true too 😄 girls dress for girls and compete with girls. But would you say that a simple outfit like nice jeans and sweater is going to blow you away as a guy? because that outfit is all it takes for a woman to say a man dresses nicely. @@chillblue1650

    • @PoofyisDead
      @PoofyisDead Před 5 měsíci

      Ngl in some circumstances i’d agree, but then again putting on a dress is literally 1 item

    • @Yeodoongiiie
      @Yeodoongiiie Před 5 měsíci +2

      it's not about how many items, but how you put together a look. how fanciful it is, and women are expected to do a whole lot more than just wear jeans and a fancy sweater. and men often get compliments with such an outfit 😄 @@PoofyisDead

  • @JFP1306
    @JFP1306 Před 6 měsíci +113

    as a brazillian woman i get the point of the video BUT since I only encounter man in flip flops bermudas and soccer jerseys i think you guys in the northen hemisfery are still getting some better than us here

    • @krisawai
      @krisawai Před 6 měsíci +5

      Well, when it's warm in the country, it's hard to come up with a bunch of combinations of clothes and, moreover, layering)

    • @anabert
      @anabert Před 6 měsíci +6

      Honestly, I absolutely hate crop tops and shorts, and it seems like the norm now in Brazil because of the ridiculously hot climate. I wish we had more cold days so I could use my trousers and lomg sleeve shirts more often. 🫠

    • @vivianlopez5202
      @vivianlopez5202 Před 3 měsíci

      Me too, I'm from Nicaragua, saludos 👋.

    • @carpezin
      @carpezin Před měsícem

      Meu estilo de roupa é totalmente nas estéticas "dark academia/light academia". Mas eu nunca compro esse tipo de roupa pq o clima no Brasil não permite kk

    • @Li.b.3602
      @Li.b.3602 Před 27 dny +1

      Well girls don't wear nice fashion clothes in Brazilian they are mostly just naked I really miss that the women can't style in brasil 😢😢😢

  • @Ray03595
    @Ray03595 Před 6 měsíci +67

    Feel like this only matters if you're a celebrity. Nobody is keeping track of the outfits someone else wears like that.

  • @aelyndorren
    @aelyndorren Před 6 měsíci +21

    Why can't people just calm down and wear whatever the heck they want... And let others do the same without judgement

    • @Airahar
      @Airahar Před 3 měsíci +3

      They can. This video is more of a critique on the double standards in fashion

  • @streetst4610
    @streetst4610 Před 6 měsíci +129

    as a genderqueer person fashion is a complicated thing for me, especially when i’m trying to pass as more masculine but i still wanna wear things that i actually like wearing, since so much of “men’s clothing” is so boring LET ME BE MASC AND CUTE PLS GOD

    • @lazypikachu2.0
      @lazypikachu2.0 Před 4 měsíci +4

      I SECOND THIS

    • @bunbun6936
      @bunbun6936 Před 3 měsíci +4

      YES FINALLY SOMEONES SAYING IT

    • @ivaneend6242
      @ivaneend6242 Před 2 měsíci

      YES THANK U MEN'S CLOTHING IS SO BORING LIKE ARE WE ALLOWED COLOURS OUTSIDE OF BLACK, GREEN AND BLUE? 😭

    • @sergi0_0
      @sergi0_0 Před měsícem +1

      Honestly I want look good but everything looks the same

    • @Grendich
      @Grendich Před měsícem +3

      cis man here, i know that feeling. maybe men would be more interested in fashion if there were some actual options.

  • @thu4061
    @thu4061 Před 6 měsíci +89

    It's definitely more 'just a man' making some of these 'outfits'. Being absolutely blunt men get praised for looking even slightly above dishwater basic so most see no point in doing more. But the ones that do branch into true style have their masculinity challenged by their less fashionable peers while also being ignored in fashion resources - making it harder to find a unique style that fits them. That's a LOT of incentive to look garbage tbh so it makes sense imho

  • @martijnkoning3354
    @martijnkoning3354 Před 6 měsíci +70

    tbh these vids from guys are the same as attractive women with basic fits and it suddenly being 'fashion'. There is also genuine channels that are high quality in their fit checks. the slippers are a very Korean thing fore those shocked. But lets get this straight, for average people most of this shit does not matter at all, just look presentable eg. clean clothes and its fine

    • @chillblue1650
      @chillblue1650 Před 6 měsíci +9

      These trendy people on the Internet will care way more about stuff like this than the average person actually does. In "real life," most people regardless of gender just don't care.

  • @Nikkiberrie3
    @Nikkiberrie3 Před 6 měsíci +120

    I’m a college student, and I dress very nice to class everyday. But I always look around on campus and the guys just seem to not care. I wish guys would actually care about what they look like

    • @Mialikesthings
      @Mialikesthings Před 6 měsíci +31

      Why do they have to care if it’s not necessary,sure there are occasion but if it’s to got to campus off thing then there is literally no reason to fully care of you look fashionable.
      Mind you all people need is be hygienic and covered,this just seems like 1st world problems.

    • @StephTL27
      @StephTL27 Před 6 měsíci +25

      It's college why should they care? Just because you do?

    • @drain5447
      @drain5447 Před 5 měsíci +26

      maybe they want to feel comfortable. maybe they dont need to seek the approval of others that are so judgmental like you. people can dress how they like

    • @cranburrey
      @cranburrey Před 5 měsíci

      School drains people out, so ofc they no longer gaf

    • @LunaDarkFall
      @LunaDarkFall Před 5 měsíci +1

      @@Mialikesthingsand somehow they still aren’t hygienic

  • @blank_line
    @blank_line Před 6 měsíci +68

    I honestly feel like we have created this problem ourselves
    Idk, I personally don't care how people around me dress, as long as they are not naked and smelly
    Maybe we should stop thinking that how we dress reflects our status

    • @chillblue1650
      @chillblue1650 Před 6 měsíci +14

      I agree. As a guy, a lot of us really don't have these incredibly high standards for women's style. We can't even tell the difference most of the time. We won't even notice certain accessories you girls wear.

    • @livvyyyyyyyyyyy
      @livvyyyyyyyyyyy Před 5 měsíci +3

      As a girl myself, in my head….dress how you want, everyone can have a personal style. Yea, I definitely see her point as there is double standards about fashion in general and with expectations, but I have personally always just dressed how I wanted, which I will say…has always been more androgynous or in grungey men’s clothes. So that kinda supports her point about men’s clothing, since it is more appealing. I guess it depends what kind of girl, guy, or person you are, but this video definitely made a point with fashion trends.

  • @WarTitan888
    @WarTitan888 Před 6 měsíci +31

    Most men don’t care about women’s fashion as much as you think. From what I’ve seen many of the critiques come from other women.
    The only times I’ve seen men give women shit about clothing is when the topic is revealing clothing.

    • @krisawai
      @krisawai Před 6 měsíci +8

      Correction, men criticize women for revealing attire or being too closed. Most people will look at a girl in a dress, and a girl in an oversize will be ignored at best, or they will think that she is a "slob".

    • @Mialikesthings
      @Mialikesthings Před 6 měsíci +11

      @@krisawainot really men themselves seem to live street fashion so is very unlikely that women are called ‘slobs’ unless it’s
      1. Breaking attire policies
      2. She genuinely is wearing dirty clothing
      3. The people are me that are snobbish (this is usually the least likely)

    • @jessy1982
      @jessy1982 Před měsícem

      Also the "tired" if not wearing makeup issue is something men notice and critize.

  • @graveyardmonarch1629
    @graveyardmonarch1629 Před 5 měsíci +35

    I feel like... People can wear whatever they want and don't need to fall victim to social norms. I literally only ever think about what my cute to comfort ratio is in the morning.

  • @Leo-st9ti
    @Leo-st9ti Před 5 měsíci +21

    I feel I often as a man am forced to simplify my outfits because I’m simply scared of standing out, this has been reinforced throughout my life as it feels not socially acceptable to make big fits, obviously this is partially just a me thing but I definitely think it has a bigger impact on the whole topic.

    • @joudaasad8841
      @joudaasad8841 Před 4 měsíci

      Or maybe because we as men just don't care

    • @Leo-st9ti
      @Leo-st9ti Před 4 měsíci +1

      @@joudaasad8841 but I do.

    • @Leo-st9ti
      @Leo-st9ti Před 4 měsíci +2

      @@joudaasad8841 this is completely illogical, I just said that as a man I want to, so clearly some demographic does and yet it’s not socially acceptable

    • @joudaasad8841
      @joudaasad8841 Před 4 měsíci +2

      I mean its true in western countries, you try to wear like a Pakistani or Arabic outfit and you will easily stand out and get weird looks everywhere while that doesn't happen as much in arabic african and asian countries. Imo culture has an effect on fashion and how people perceive you aswell so from where i come from we just don't care enough unless you are wearing feminine dresses as a man then we will be like "will thats different"

    • @jessy1982
      @jessy1982 Před měsícem

      @@joudaasad8841 Yeah culture is a big deal, look at the kilts in Ireland or gowns in Saudi Arabia, the African colourful fits or native American tribeswear. Men CAN have variety, it's just western style is plain and stiff.

  • @jmsnsage
    @jmsnsage Před 6 měsíci +80

    Can we take a second to appreciate the quality intro!? I appreciate your effort with editing Zoe

  • @nublock5000
    @nublock5000 Před 6 měsíci +42

    Loved this episode. While I do 100% think you're onto something with the outfit repetition double standard, I personally enjoy the challenge. Developing a capsule wardrobe has made that infinitely more doable.

  • @TB-up1jz
    @TB-up1jz Před 5 měsíci +30

    where are theirs @? weird to use their videos but not giving them “credit”

    • @bridgray03
      @bridgray03 Před 3 měsíci +1

      Girl I feel the same way

  • @tellercamille8080
    @tellercamille8080 Před 6 měsíci +9

    they look better without clothes on anyway

  • @shongbrl
    @shongbrl Před 3 měsíci +1

    ngl shes hella elegant, keep growing and stay at it Zoe!

  • @StephTL27
    @StephTL27 Před 6 měsíci +13

    Idk all the guys outfits seemed really good for them it's probably just their style or what they feel comfortable wearing I would have love to seen what you or how you would dress a guy for certain events

  • @lisacupcake5777
    @lisacupcake5777 Před 6 měsíci +14

    Feel free to disagree, I feel like it’s mostly woman competing with woman. Like in fashion, woman hate on other woman for wearing the same outfit. This is just what I have seen as a woman, I am open to listen :))

    • @cranburrey
      @cranburrey Před 5 měsíci +4

      I think it's more of an online thing because I rarely meet any woman who acts like that outside of the internet

    • @Anonymous__S
      @Anonymous__S Před 2 měsíci

      No joke i do wonder how the "Two women can't wear the same outfit" came from? I don't hate other girls for wearing the same thing as me (I want to think that was just America's TV shows exaggerations+Im not american) but I might feel its kind of a bummer depending on how much effort I put in (like, I want to feel original don't judge me). I don't know where I got it from tho, just kinda imprinted on me.

  • @Klexiii03
    @Klexiii03 Před 6 měsíci +17

    Don't wear something twice is a dumb instagram rule. Noone in the real world cares about seeing someone in the same outfit again

    • @chillblue1650
      @chillblue1650 Před 6 měsíci +6

      Exactly. If people actually take this rule seriously, they need to get off social and get back to reality.

    • @cranburrey
      @cranburrey Před 5 měsíci

      ​@@chillblue1650So many people in this comment section are so chronically online to the point they see someone doing something irl, they have the need to complain about it on the internet. It's tiring atp

  • @chillblue1650
    @chillblue1650 Před 6 měsíci +13

    Where did this idea come from? I thought it was the other way around. Girls look way better a whole plethora of clothes, including guys' clothes. They can wear loose-fitting or poorly fitting clothing and still look good. I'm sure factors such as fitness, skincare, and hairstyle also contribute to this.

  • @gummy5862
    @gummy5862 Před 5 měsíci +14

    Men are able to do less and get more positive social feedback, but men are also constricted by social norms. We can’t get too creative or it looks “gay” or try-hardy.

    • @cranburrey
      @cranburrey Před 5 měsíci +1

      Tell me about it. I doubt anyone gaf about this type of stuff irl compared to online

    • @LunaDarkFall
      @LunaDarkFall Před 5 měsíci +1

      If my biggest problem would be looking gay or trying to hard I would be so happy

    • @gummy5862
      @gummy5862 Před 5 měsíci +5

      @@LunaDarkFall Girly pop who said that was men’s “biggest” problem? Cry into your $50 g string.

    • @cranburrey
      @cranburrey Před 5 měsíci +3

      @@LunaDarkFall Because that's just you.

  • @beomgrunge768
    @beomgrunge768 Před 6 měsíci +12

    As a man who has a very versatile style, I can say that most men can’t dress versatile, most of them stick to only one style, streetstyle, even though it’s not creative and ruining their looks even

    • @Peerless_cucumber
      @Peerless_cucumber Před 6 měsíci +1

      Same. And it's hard to find outfit ideas since every male fashion inspo is streetstyle

    • @invisiblerevolution
      @invisiblerevolution Před 6 měsíci +1

      Speaking as an African-American brother.....
      I broke away from URBAN/STREET STYLE back in 2010.
      The think with street style....
      is that every dude, pretty much ends up lookin the same!
      SKINNY JEANS.....
      SNEAKERS....
      SWEAT SHIRT OR HOODIE...

    • @beomgrunge768
      @beomgrunge768 Před 6 měsíci

      @@Peerless_cucumber fr 💀 all of my fashion inspo are pics of girls

  • @Keesha
    @Keesha Před 4 měsíci +2

    The second guy you showed in the intro…. Ooh he was fineeee. Made me watch the video 😂😂😂

  • @mayhem875
    @mayhem875 Před 5 měsíci +3

    I’m in college in an arts program and I dress out everyday cause it’s like a fucking runway in there. The guys dress well too. Even the guys that don’t “show out” still look put together everyday. We don’t even get a pass for finals cause a lot of the time we have shows, concerts, and auditions to dress up for 🥲 but we love it

  • @user-th1en6us9s
    @user-th1en6us9s Před 6 měsíci +1

    ❤❤Love your videos

  • @arabbithole5382
    @arabbithole5382 Před 6 měsíci +9

    You are wrong! Men don't look in any outfit rather than good looking men look good in any outfits!

    • @invisiblerevolution
      @invisiblerevolution Před 6 měsíci +6

      THANK YOU!!!!!
      Dude in the video....
      was a good lookin CHAD, in his early 20's!
      Any average lookin man....
      (over the age of 30) would look like a bum in those outfits.

  • @dailyn9121
    @dailyn9121 Před 5 měsíci +1

    Some of this guys a comedy 😂 just hilarious Zoe , love it

  • @proxy617
    @proxy617 Před 2 měsíci +2

    Can you PLEASE start fashion tips for men?

  • @jayko4732
    @jayko4732 Před 2 měsíci +1

    It’s definitely an American thing, cause when I went to Australia to see my relatives… no one there had that “sluggish” style as an outfit. Everyone looked well dressed between the men and women

  • @archerestarcher
    @archerestarcher Před 5 měsíci +5

    The man throwing away the flannel and going for a puffer jacket makes me sob. I'm a pre-transition trans guy who wears flannels and other button ups over hoodies all the time, its like the easiest way to look cute in a masc way.

  • @unfortunate6808
    @unfortunate6808 Před 5 měsíci +3

    I think the simplicity part may not really be about societal expectations. I typically buy clothes I will wear a lot and am more likely to buy simple clothes. Although, this is a personal anecdote so I don't know how much this applies to other guys.

  • @abdo77066
    @abdo77066 Před 5 měsíci +4

    It's simple. The difference between men's and women's style is that men's style focuses more on comfort and practicality, unlike women's style, which focuses more on beauty and uniqueness.

  • @Akirostar6288
    @Akirostar6288 Před 5 měsíci

    Not me freaking out over your vest and ribbon bow tie thing the entire time 😂

  • @elkedekievit732
    @elkedekievit732 Před 6 měsíci +14

    Woman put these pressures up on themselves 90% of the time also ofcourse the men outfits dont look as good to you because you are not a men and it fits different. This gives off victim mentality a little bit tbh

    • @black-cat.13.
      @black-cat.13. Před 6 měsíci +4

      They like to cry for everything😅 hh lmao

  • @ellingtonlilly
    @ellingtonlilly Před 4 měsíci +3

    as someone who gets into the alt/goth scene; men, wear lace tops and corsets more. I promise you can find some flattering ones that accentuate the masculine features you wanna show of

  • @yoojinjan7664
    @yoojinjan7664 Před 5 měsíci

    I love this video 😂😂😂

  • @user-tr6vq8mu8v
    @user-tr6vq8mu8v Před 5 měsíci

    the last outfit whas so fucking good the black jst AAAAHH

  • @kimkwan-
    @kimkwan- Před 6 měsíci +3

    First time early ❤ I love your channel

  • @Tomyj9
    @Tomyj9 Před 5 měsíci +4

    Personally I wouldn’t put much stock into evolutionary psychology bc it tends to assume an Inherent patriarchal status quo & a lot of the research seems to equate correlation to equation

  • @justshakeitoff1989
    @justshakeitoff1989 Před 2 měsíci

    12:20 she just went through my Pinterest boards basically 😂😂

  • @keenandeckel
    @keenandeckel Před 3 měsíci +1

    I hate that society isn’t more accepting of women and who they are. It seems like society sets standards for us, instead of us doing and looking how we want. Men have so much more freedom, but choose wear a low budget outfit with a stained hoodie and ripped jeans, while women could go out in a simple, long beautiful red dress, and it still wouldn’t be enough. This seriously needs to change, and I’m glad that there is people like you on the internet bringing this to people’s attention, keep it up Zoe!

  • @Pixl8dwhmsy
    @Pixl8dwhmsy Před 3 měsíci +1

    You getting too famous 💫 friend. 💕 Stay safe out there!

  • @muirenoleander
    @muirenoleander Před 5 měsíci +2

    it's easier for us to dress but we dont have that much option too 😭😭😭😭 it's boring honestly

  • @myriamtouil3347
    @myriamtouil3347 Před 6 měsíci +6

    Lmao "dress better " 😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @saraz2189
    @saraz2189 Před 5 měsíci

    The stretches lmao

  • @jams_1013
    @jams_1013 Před 5 měsíci +2

    Girl…. You need to do a series including men in kpop cuz that’s a whole different conversation 😭

  • @cassiopaia3153
    @cassiopaia3153 Před 6 měsíci +1

    I´m studying fashion design and being able to interact with people that share my passion for fashion in a professional way helped me so much to just do what I want.

  • @apple-de8tx
    @apple-de8tx Před 5 měsíci

    The first cut had my mouth wide open 😮

  • @PoofyisDead
    @PoofyisDead Před 5 měsíci +3

    The more I think about it, I don’t think it’s much harder to to dress as a women, rather it’s more socially acceptable to dress poorly as a man.

    • @GearZNet
      @GearZNet Před 5 měsíci

      Bingo. Men don't care. Women really care and seem to be projecting their beliefs on men. Fashion is far more an intrasexual battle ground (i.e. women are squabbling amongst each other and men are catching strays because women are projecting).

  • @HeyArlo
    @HeyArlo Před 4 měsíci +1

    Second one looked like he was going to announce the next computer software at some con lmao

  • @sknk.hunt42
    @sknk.hunt42 Před 5 měsíci +3

    This has been bothering me for YEARS. Like in 2020 a dude would just have to paint his nails, wear a chain or a pearl necklace and suddenly he’ll be a “fashion icon”

    • @cranburrey
      @cranburrey Před 5 měsíci +2

      You'll be alright

    • @GearZNet
      @GearZNet Před 5 měsíci +2

      If this is bothering you for years you live a very good life. Good on you. 😂

  • @KinoKoenigin
    @KinoKoenigin Před 4 měsíci +1

    As a queer man I have been finding all these “men’s fits” so boring. Thank you for this

  • @catalinapinzaru9788
    @catalinapinzaru9788 Před 6 měsíci +8

    Ok, but why did you really fu*ked the first outfits on purpose? It is hard to believe you did not have more similar things in you closet to do this outfit in a proper way 3:11

    • @cranburrey
      @cranburrey Před 5 měsíci

      Especially this one at 4:26. The guy tucked in his shirt while she tied it up

  • @nikitatavernitilitvynova
    @nikitatavernitilitvynova Před 5 měsíci +9

    As a skinny woman myself with a slightly different style that isn't always hyper feminine I'd like to rate each outfit. I'll update as I keep watching the video.
    Outfit one is actually really cute on me. I did change some things. The cargo pants are jeans and they're a dark gray almost black acid wash denim. They do look really similar. The hoodie isn't as puffy and big. I don't wear that many hoodies anymore and the closest one I had with a hood is pretty thin and not as fuzzy. The layering top was almost the same colour as the jeans because I couldn't be bothered to find a white one that was long and boxy. And I threw on my leather chunky sneakers because I don't have air force one looking shoes. And mine have that thick faux leather sneaker look whilst my other sneakers are mainly canvas. And I tried all my puffer jackets. One was too big and poufy, the other looked a bit frumpy. But it's still serves its purpose. And the cream coloured puffer vest looked stunning with the cream coloured sweatshirt. Overall I'd give this look a 10/10 for when I want to look boyish.
    Second outfit is also good. It's a classic one for me. I couldn't find my Adidas slides so I went for my crab sandals as my other slides are really girly and put together with gold accents and gems. The backpack was too big because my other ones are either too small and put together or too sporty. Like going trekking kind of sporty. Overall very basic and solid 8/10.
    Outfit three is really cute too. But there were many alterations. I couldn't do my linen pants as they have paperbag elastic waistband and are striped. My sand pants were a close match. I wore a mustard yellow v-neck cotton sweater but it has its downs. It's super bulky not as thin and its really long. So it was hard to tuck in. For the shoes I tried two options. My chuncky black loafers or my more elegant flat shoes. Like the businnes man type shoe. The loafers looked better because most of my pants are full length and almost drag with thin shoes. And made me look frumpy. But the loafers with the gold chunky chains did not! And I threw on my faux leather coat in blue. I have a faux leather cropped jacket but it's a tan colour. The muded grayed out electric blue was a good combo with the nude and yellow pop. I'd give it a 8,5/10. Not something I'd reach for or think about myself but still really good. Also the coat is really long. Like past my knees long.
    I can't do outfit four at all. All my boots are black and pretty loose. I don't have a shirt that is tight and long and has an open detail and the outfit is so uninspiring to me. 0/10.
    Fifth outfit. It reminds me a lot of how my brother dresses. And it looks very boyish. Which is awesome for that gender breaking norm. I should go get a black hoodie now. Anyways. I threw on some black cargo pants that don't have excessive pockets but have a chain on one side. My highschool branded sweatshirt that doesn't have a hood but has a white graphic logo. And I cheated on two things. I went for a blend between a chelesa and combat boot that have a chunky orange/yellow tread as I didn't want to go for chain on chain with my chained boots. And I threw on a fisherman's hat in pink because I don't have a black beanie. I tired my mom's sand coloured beanie and it wasn't as good as it's one of those infinitely tall beanies. But mine is really short. The jacket was a miss because I don't really like that jacket. I mainly bought it for utility rather than style. It keeps me warm and dry which is really good. But is really boxy and not thick but a thin puffer material. Without the jacket I'd give the fit a 9/10. Even a 10/10 if it was more on theme. With the jacket a 7/10.
    Outfit 6. Jesus Christ what the hell is this? It looks horrible! I don't have sweatpant shorts that are that long. I mean I kind of do but they're neon green and I have no idea where they are so I went for my super short gray ones. The sweatshirt I found is hedious with the fit. At least it's a similar gray. But it has a print of a stamp with a dog fishing a bomb. Sorry but it was a gift that came from Ukraine hence why it's a bit random with was messaging. The hat is a tie dye lilac and white with a handmade embroidery of a cat and the word autistic pointing the cat and various cat pins. I made the embroidery. Yes I'm autistic. I threw on some mixed matched white socks. One looks dirtier than the other I have no idea why. And my short converse. I'm cold and I hate this. 0/10.
    I don't need to test outfit 7 because it's basically the same foundation as outfit 2 but with a jacket and sneakers and a hat. Very low effort in my mind so I'd give it a 7/10.
    I don't have everything for outfit 8 but I've worn iterations of it with the same sweater from earlier. The v-neck orange yellow cotton one and the same pants or a similar pair made of wool I sew earlier this year. I don't have a sweater vest of any kind. It's cute a and simple outfit. It's solid but nothing special that wows me. It's my "I want to look put together outfit but I'm too lazy" outfit. I'd say it's a solid 7,5/10. I will not leave my glasses on there though because I need to be able to see the fit. I didn't even bother trying this fit on as my living room is a mess and I want to be done with this so I can go eat. I'm having lots of fun though.
    Outfit nine I'm not going to wear because I wore it already recently. I was looking for a graduation outfit for uni. And I threw on my leather culotte pants, my pointy stiletto heels with a strap on the front. A black turtle neck and my cream coloured floral oversized blazer from h&m. Now I know it's not the same thing. But the vibe is totally in the same direction. And I think the vibe was classy high fashion but wearable. The high fashion statement is the blazer. It's oversized. It has a dusty purple floral print all over. It's chic. And the turtle neck breaks it apart quite nicely. It's not your shirt and blazer combo. It's more modern and daring. Because old school fashion would forbid anyone from wearing a regular top with an all elegant fit. It makes it weird. It's not the same as throwing a blazer on to make a fit more classy. But it's the act of adding a casual piece to a super classy fit. The outfit gets a 9/10 for me just because of the blazer. It was the best purchase I made last year. The best b-day gift ever. Better than the bright pink suit I was looking for. This blazer is stunning.
    Anyways thank you whoever decides to read all this. Now you have the opinion of a gender breaking outfit lover.
    I'd like to add that even though it seems I have loads of clothes expecially shoes most of them are not new. I'm known for wearing clothes until they fall apart. Like there are holes in them and look old and crusty. Most of the clothes I wore are one year old or even older. I believe the black cargo pants were bough when I was 16/17. That was 5/6 years ago. I also have loads because I sew some myself and they're generally really cheap clothes. I have the occasional designer item like my Tommy Jeans or a Tommy Hilfigher top. But most of my clothes are from Mango, Bershka, Stradivarious, Pull & Bear and h&m. Because I'm poor. And I need options. But options come at a big price tag when shopping sustainably. I also recycle the old clothes in the proper bins. The bottom line is I have a lot but I also keep a lot. I buy things I don't already have (I hate doing that.) because I don't want to spend 45 euros on pants that I already own in a different colour when I can get a pair I don't have for the same money.

  • @lisacupcake5777
    @lisacupcake5777 Před 6 měsíci +1

    4:52 is actual cute ❤️

  • @BruteZ7957
    @BruteZ7957 Před 5 měsíci

    Why's this so entertaining? i don't even watch any fashion stuff on yt

  • @CC-kr3mr
    @CC-kr3mr Před 23 dny

    As a woman, when someone asks me, why am I wearing that again? I reply “because I paid for it and I have a washing machine”.

  • @Phd366
    @Phd366 Před 6 měsíci +3

    How to you adjust skirts when you are skinny? Asking because I always have that issue 😅

    • @cranburrey
      @cranburrey Před 5 měsíci +1

      I think she pins them or something. Mines always slide down whenever i attempt to tuck anything in or make them shorter

  • @damroll
    @damroll Před 4 měsíci +1

    Funny thing, most of those people giving women had time for not putting in effort, is in fact other women, not men.

  • @KaleidoSaurus
    @KaleidoSaurus Před 5 měsíci +1

    I never knew this was a series I needed, but I did. I do. They just men.

  • @alphenhousplaysgames4565
    @alphenhousplaysgames4565 Před 5 měsíci +1

    is square puffy doesn't own an iron shape like in right now? i have always dressed in what's basically very sharp, edged fashion(dress shirts, bottle pants, sharp sleek shoes, everything fits near perfect). is it out of fashion to look like a lambo or a supra? is it more in fashion to look like what a suv feels like?

  • @mina_ophelia5067
    @mina_ophelia5067 Před 5 měsíci

    love you!! are these shoes????? XDDD

  • @velvetbiscuit7621
    @velvetbiscuit7621 Před 6 měsíci

    Where is your black skinny scarf from? xx

  • @LordPhantomWolfe
    @LordPhantomWolfe Před 5 měsíci +3

    As a man who's working on expanding his sense of fashion for 2024. It is very weird seeing men wear the same normal clothes that I wear everyday and passing it off as fashion. I'm trying to expand my looks of course I'm starting simple and neutral with what I am trying but I am looking to expand into a different aesthetic. Seeing people put on what I literally am wearing while at home watching the video and saying it's for a semi fancy date is super weird to me. The outfits look good but they don't feel different. They don't tap into that broadened horizon.
    A t-shirt and jeans is a t-shirt and jeans. Styling them can make them better. But just because you paid 10 times more for a white t-shirt doesn't make it fashion in my eyes. Doing something with that shirt is. If there is no styling in your style you just look like you're wearing the same outfit as I am, you just paid more for it. I'm at home after work the price of my clothes don't matter. My style doesn't matter. But you're going out and you're wearing the same thing as me with a higher price tag.

  • @windfavored2291
    @windfavored2291 Před 23 dny

    WHO IS HE IM IN LOVE

  • @Klexiii03
    @Klexiii03 Před 6 měsíci +5

    Soooo, I dress like a man. And i dont care. Dont have time to think about special outfits every day

    • @ineedgoldenretriever
      @ineedgoldenretriever Před 6 měsíci +2

      So what do you trade your time for? To watch a video about fashion on CZcams? 😂

    • @cranburrey
      @cranburrey Před 5 měsíci

      ​​@@ineedgoldenretrieverDoing other things

    • @Yanel5795
      @Yanel5795 Před měsícem

      Men dont care either

  • @Ryan__Scar
    @Ryan__Scar Před 3 měsíci

    How do I find the original video. Asking for a friend

  • @ockarstil3708
    @ockarstil3708 Před 5 měsíci +1

    i completely agree that ur points are correct but i think another important factor for the double standard are women, in my social proximity its rare for males to judge women's outfit and its usually women judging other women's outfit and especially if they wear the same thing twice (as most men are too unnoticing for it) and most of the toxicity and double standard stand from women towards women, which as a male i dont fucking understand why they do it (ofc except placing themselfs on a podium but i dont think all women do it for that reason)

  • @carlyraejepsen7837
    @carlyraejepsen7837 Před 4 měsíci

    What’s the original creator’s channel?

  • @mintallylost222
    @mintallylost222 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Girl, give us the link to the original video. Or at least put their @

  • @sienna5190
    @sienna5190 Před 5 měsíci +1

    Can someone please tell me who the first guy is!?!?

  • @raerae7993
    @raerae7993 Před 5 měsíci

    I fucking love jorts

  • @ionia2376
    @ionia2376 Před 5 měsíci +1

    What's the source for the original video?

  • @sqtisfy
    @sqtisfy Před 5 měsíci

    Idk how to put this, but I have a female friend that I think dress very cool, and I have seen almost all of her clothes but I don’t think that repeating an outfit it’s bad, or wearing something comfortable is seen as lazy

  • @DaddyKonig
    @DaddyKonig Před 5 měsíci

    Totally different from my series, “Is he a man, or is it just an outfit.”

  • @Eniramoi
    @Eniramoi Před 6 měsíci +5

    Does anyone know where the beige jacket she wears in the intro is from? I think I'm in love
    About the outfit repetition thing, sometimes when I find an outfit I love I just can't wait to wear it again. I think you don't like your clothes enough if you can't bear wearing the same outfit again

  • @michaelmcclure9259
    @michaelmcclure9259 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Speaking as a male: I kinda get where she's coming from but I don't really notice if people wear the same outfit more than once- male or female. To me that signifies being more responsible with money (yes it's a stretch but idk that's just how my brain works). Wear whatever you want, ladies- just please wear clothes :) (gents you too- if you don't look like Chris Hemsworth put a shirt on in the supermarket)

  • @houdabouabdallah7106
    @houdabouabdallah7106 Před 6 měsíci

    Wonderful and slaying

  • @JeraldEvans
    @JeraldEvans Před 2 měsíci +1

    Not sure if this is a western culture thing? Cause I don’t think there is such a pressure where I’m from in Asia.

  • @itsjustme1990
    @itsjustme1990 Před 4 měsíci

    Who is the original creator please?

  • @JerASMR
    @JerASMR Před 4 měsíci

    What’s the original video? 😅

  • @tiffanychae
    @tiffanychae Před 5 měsíci

    2:57 *never "cook" again.* 💀

  • @mythicalthings1796
    @mythicalthings1796 Před 5 měsíci +2

    Is it an outfit or are you just the beauty standard?

  • @LunaDarkFall
    @LunaDarkFall Před 5 měsíci +1

    We should talk about that evolutionary theory being disproven tho

  • @kou_isthatyou
    @kou_isthatyou Před 5 měsíci

    Thanks

  • @TEDOGIRL02
    @TEDOGIRL02 Před 5 měsíci +2

    I wanna know his @

  • @kyaroriina2023
    @kyaroriina2023 Před 6 měsíci +10

    Has anyone else, like me, noticed that only men’s jackets have a secret inside pocket!!!! Why can’t I have it too!! I need to too!!! 😤😤😤
    (Very few women’s jacket have it, I only found it in my Levi’s jeans jacket)

    • @zubatski
      @zubatski Před 6 měsíci +2

      I had jackets before and they had inside pockets. You just need to know brands that do this kind of thing and you are good to go.

    • @cranburrey
      @cranburrey Před 5 měsíci

      Highly depends on the brands because I wear women sized jackets and they have inside pockets

  • @andresmunoz1602
    @andresmunoz1602 Před 5 měsíci +1

    All I learned from this video is that I do t understand fashion

  • @mads9141
    @mads9141 Před 5 měsíci

    I have to know what boots those are at 7:45

  • @GabrielSilva-xv8ly
    @GabrielSilva-xv8ly Před 4 měsíci

    i need his @ 😭😭

  • @bernanlustig391
    @bernanlustig391 Před 4 měsíci

    WHO is the guy ?

  • @humavenado6401
    @humavenado6401 Před 17 dny

    I need his name pls??? For educational purposes 🙏🏻🧎‍♀️

  • @alusive
    @alusive Před 4 měsíci +1

    so where’s his @..

  • @SM-ys8lw
    @SM-ys8lw Před 5 měsíci +1

    i promise you, very few men care if you wear the same outfit or dress twice, in fact most of us probably wont even notice(dress more so then outfit) thats yalls thing

  • @kitkitism
    @kitkitism Před 4 měsíci

    no ref?

  • @milfjeon
    @milfjeon Před 5 měsíci +1

    WHO IS HE