Let's Normalise.......
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- čas přidán 16. 02. 2023
- Bump Lovers, we want to hear from you, what else should people normalise in this day and age?
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Hahahaaaaa! We need you as our 6th host to enforce this gospel 😅. P
Pumla for president 👌
Always hits the nail on the head!!!
Not just president but president of republic of East Africa & Africa at large.
Hahahahaaa! Bobi Wine should lend me his mic. P
@@pumlanabachwa8668 wabula totumye wesitukidde, president message ajifunye 🤣🤣🤣
I agree with every point in this show
I love Bump love...I'm 24 but i learn alot
Lets normalise Mental Health Awareness
Lets Normalise a woman getting tired!
Lets normalize a woman who doesn't want marriage or kids
Lets normalise a man genuinely loving their woman...in Africa, if she's loved alot, they say she bewitched him!!
Madness
We shouldn't normalise being ungodly
A big thumbs up
Mothers and Dads normalize Apologizing to your children. This saying "Omuzade tasobya" is a 100% lie and it cultivates toxic parenting. Parents should ask kids if they are parenting them well or if they need to improve in some areas (Regular parent child check in). This gives the child & parent a healthy relationship
I agree, evaluation might even help in reducing childhood trauma caused by ignorant parenting..
I asked my daughter one day, she w as s 2 years, on how better to deal with her bse she has a strong will. She gave me her opinion and I did what she suggested. I got the results I needed bse I asked. So I agree with you 100%
Add volume please
Thank you ladies,seriously people should normalize the issue of not wanting to get married. Its not a must,stop pressurizing others.
Thanks
I love Pumla's self awareness. Not everyone needs to be creating and running a business. Some people are better at working in already established spaces.
Normalize letting people and their opinions go.
You got it 👍🏾. Because for shuwa...who will buy your things if we are all in business? P
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Hi ladies, I really really love this topic, my opinion is we should normalise having difficult conversations especially when we ain't comfortable with something. Be it relationships, friendships and all. Thank you ladies. Love love from me
Love this
Normalize leaving introverts alone, stop forcing them to be outgoing and talkative.
Ladies l loved the fact that you mentioned about people who normalize living a very an healthy life in the name of being happy
Rachel thanks for stepping in with the normalising moms who choose to stay at home comment, people think it's because we can afford to which is rarely the case. A few of us have chosen that route cause our kids need us more and even tho it's not an easy decision to make, we look at it as what's best at the moment.
Woo showing love to our children. I need the grace......I feel like I will make them so pampered.
Normalise friendships that wane as you grow older!😊 I needed to hear this today.
I absolutely love this. People should stop expecting others to know everything about them
We have a special episode on this coming soon. P
@@pumlanabachwa8668 looking forward to it!😊
Angie omeke teaches love ...I learnt to love from her...wish next episode she will be here.
I was discussing with my husband about our daughter. How to help her strike a balance between standing up for herself and being respectful. Thank you Manuela for this.
People should normalize being okay with people breast feeding their kids until they wish. Those things of 'omwana akuze mujjeko' are so nagging
Rossette you are right. When a woman marries a rich man, all hell breaks loose 😂😂🤣🤣. Oh, she loves him for his money. And so what? 😂😂Everyone is loved for something at the end of the day.
Yup! P
🤣🤣🤣🤣@hell
I get friends at every stage of my life.....I thought I was a fake friend
I really needed this from you ladies.
We should normalize giving ourselves a gift of order
I have been here from day one. Our CZcams is now growing day by day. I love the way bump love is engaging with people in the comment section.
Thank you for journeying with us Shilla 😊. P
3:40 on point
5:59 the dads banange
5:58 spot on
10:28 those people who say that’s how I am. As for those who use zodiac signs to normalise bad behavior wapi wapi
Loved this show. Thank you ladies
This has been a very organic conversation. 🎉
Thank you ladies …I am personally learning a lot from you ❤be blessed 😂
We shouldn’t normalize needing people’s money urgently 🤭
😂😂😂😂
Manuela l love the fact that you have mentioned about rewarding ourselves after earning. But l think should also mention about learning how to manage our small finances and living within our means.
I think the celebrity who Rachel is talking about might be Jennie Mai Jenkins. She changed her mind and when she met a good man she became a mum.
About Pumlas point on black tax: people need to stop normalizing having kids for other people to educate. No, thank you ! Let's normalize having one or 2 kids or the kids you can afford.
For real. You have 10 kids and say they are a blessing then you take them for your relatives to support. No thanks. P
It's Jennifer Aniston
@@HerRoyal_Awesomeness it's both
I remember my hubby took me for the first ANC appointment and fellow pregnant ladies there were so bitter because they attended to us first. I hated it that the nurses told him he doesn’t need to come for the subsequent appointments.
That was wrong of the nurses
so bad
I find it hard to normalize missing Angie Omeke on the show. She's an incredible piece of art on the show. Thank u ladies for the show.
I feel you gurrrrllll. Even me I can never normalise her absence. But worry not...she'll with us in the episodes to come. Thanks for loving her. P
Missing her too
Same here!
As an Alpha female.. Pumla you're a God sent. Love ❤
Thanks Eve. Simply speaking our truths. 🙏🏾. P
Thank u so much for the stay home mum point. My hubby n I are pilots n I got pregnant after flight sch so I couldn't get in the workplace but 3 yrs later got pregnant again. Being Bush pilots in tz it days n nights away from home. If we both gone who stays with the kids. Maids r not reliable. Grandparents r tired already. So I stayed home with them. Some times the judgement is too much tht I end up doubting my decision but I thank God for people like you all who can bring perspective into life. Thank you so much 💓
Well done mama, you made the right decision for you and your family, no one should make you feel otherwise..
This is so beautiful to read. I admire women pilots so much. Please look for the show we did about women putting their careers on pause to look after kids. I think it will speak to you. You're doing the right thing honey. Very well done. P
Hello Shem...
Am Ug..But.. TZ..
In medical prof....one of us had to be home with the kids
Racheal girllllll that's awesome!!
the only power that cuts me off guard on bump love is the truth that pumla is a bold strong lion and rosette abit calm but lovely the kaboom manuell loud,outgoing and kaliddalu the ka racheal bambi a very cool,simple gal añ then Angie a princess very soft BUT they bring out everything so well.
#I HAVE LEARNT THAT U DON'T NEED TO CHANGE YOUR PERSONALITY FOR ANYTHING. ALL PERSONALITIES CAN SORK TOGETHER AND BRINGS OUT A BETTER THING ON EARTH. thanks ladies
Thank you ladies.
Normalise not inheriting your friends enemies!😂😁
I have come to normalize that people are busy and occupied with family,work and other engagements so my dear friend, if you text me and I don't respond in days, kindly understand that am engaged and perhaps dealing with certain situations here and there. Don't take it personal.
Even if you are dealing with nothing. Free time doesn't mean availability. You might just not want to engage. And it is okay 👍🏾. P
Wow...loved every bit of this episode...💗❣️❤️
Thank you!
Banage nze Pumla, I love very much,that comment is so strong,normalise not wanting to have children.
Normalize accepting peoples choices is my fav ❤
I loved the point Manuel brought up abt friendships, we’ve seen it happen a lot mostly with ladies
Let's not normalize borrowing from friends and failing to pay back without a care to update the person you borrowed from on why you are failing to meet the obligation and the lender has to "look for you" to get updates.
Such an important one. P
Indeed? atleast let the person know that you are unable to pay back not just hiding away
Thanks Pumla...ohhhh I don't want to have anymore children alsoooo..... Eish!!! The whole "you're widowed and young, you will need to remarry and have a baby or two for him"... Eyish!!!!
Eyish! P
Well spoken rossette
Normalize growing apart as friends and move on. I can't say you are my friend if you are doing nothing for my life. As Rachel says you are not filling my cup anymore or enriching my life in anyway. It's okay that you got busy and it's okay that I don't see you anymore and I don't see you as someone I feel I want in my life anymore because I don't feel like you got my back anymore. They are friends for every season of life .
There are friends for every season. True. P
Let’s normalize not cooking for our husbands ,sometimes you just don’t want to cook .
Sometimes you just don't want to cook 👏🏾👌🏾👏🏾👌🏾👏🏾👌🏾👏🏾👌🏾. Truth! P
Apana!🤣🤣this one, I disagree
Totally agree with u..
Everyone needs a break. Even employees get leave and public holidays
@@rachaelmwine611 wow
@@rachaelmwine611 mazima apana😃
Can we normalize that motherhood is really difficult journey and not to judge each other on their parenting style
Right on this one 👌🏾. P
And normalise that even the one with one finds it challenging. The one with ten, finds it challenge. And all their challenges and experiences are valid.
Thank you Racheal…❤
Banange thank you guys for talking about this, sometimes we have alot in our plates and we can't check on all friends all the time, recently a friend told me, she thought i was her friend, the thing is we have grown apart somehow and there is family and all that going on. But she gave birth 3 months ago and I hadn't found the time to go and see her baby. She is extremely mad at me she says I let her down and disappointed her, but she also doesn't check on me really. But she is extremely mad. Meanwhile I helped her do her all baby shopping. But she still says I am a bad friend. This is a good topic guys thank you for talking about it
Oh WOW! Imagine. People should learn to accept and appreciate the way we love them and not demand that we love them a certain way. Kasita gwe you know you were being a good friend. P
Here i was thinking i'd be the first but its ok... i'll settle for top 3..watching all the way from Zimbabwe🥰
Hahahaaa! We love that you're here Tsitsi ❤. P
I thought I had a problem coz every stage of my life I get new friends and I thought it's had for me to keep friendships. I have those that stay but most just feed with every stage of my life. Thanks bump love. I have got to know it's normal
Very true people should normalise saying sorry
Kindly do not normalize budgeting on our income. Wowww I loved this coz this is exactly what's happening and I wish I could tell this person to their!!! Thank you Bump Love
Pumla thx well said,I keep telling pple dat some friendships are situatuional not superglue........
People should normalise to show people love when they are still alive 🙏🙏
Well done ladies👏👏👏👏👏
Miss Pumla Pumla...Miss Pumla is my resounding board! Amen...growth is growth, and we can change for the better always. Plan for retirement and life in general.
You got this right. P
I am totally with Manuela on the point of normalising that not every one can be an entrepreneur. I am like Pumla, I can only work for other people. I am not good at entrepreneurship.
me too
Oh yah...path I hv taken to stay home. Raised lots of qns!
Ehh Pumla. You are so smart. Not that the rest aren’t but I love your Colours today. Love you ladies
Thank you Kristine. P
Why are you entering my Caribbean cruise money ? 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
But Madam Economist Nabacwa🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽😂😂😂😂😂
Mubutuufu. Why? 😅😂😅😂. P
I love you ladies ❤️
NABACHWA I love you gaaal..nze wamma nange as long as someone is ready to employ me...mukwaano am a good employee....Manuella thanks for empowering us who are team working for others....
Wamma we are good employees. Hehe! P
I agree with you pumla people have failed to normalise that people tend to be judgmental
Exactly, let us not normalize to live on other people's budgets, black tax is so painful 😫
Another thg we shouldn't normalize is domestic violence. It hurts seeing pipo that started off with love ending up in beatings, punches and side kicks.
Eh! This one we will fight till the death! P
Munyumidde as always. I laughed along and raised ka leg
Normalize that sometimes men may not have money😉
Bambi. So true. P
When Pumla mentioned that point on ladies not wanting children and marriage, I felt well represented !!!
As for black tax, parents/ relatives take care of your children. Give birth to the number of kids you can afford to take care of!
Normalize accepting pples' choices & decisions.
Stop asking pple to explain themselves/their decisions.
Yes Tiny. I'm just glad to be representing you and many more who feel like they are not allowed to say they are.not about that life. P
PUMLA always represents us who don't want marriage and kids very very well... I don't want to get married and I only have 1 child, who is enough for me... So don't pressure me.. Mbu every woman wants bla bla bla... Iam not every woman.
Well done Ladies! Society and its pressure can sometime be overwhelming though. Normalise women not wanting to get married or have kids. Kids are a big project no one should be pressured to have them. Like pumla am not planning to be an employer anyway, I feel like potential companies survive on the mercy of potential/ reliable employees- they need us.
A special thank you to Pumla
They need us 😊. P
I eagerly wait for all your videos ...
Love from Nairobi, Kenya
Nairobiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii. Thanks for the love Janet ❤.
@@pumlanabachwa8668 yes we nairobians love your show infact one day you should collaborate with some shows in Kenya ...we celebrate you.
To some extent we should normalize criticism "good criticism"
We should definitely normalise positive criticism. Just let it be the right time, place and delivery. P
Pumla I am loving your current hairdo! You are glowing 🌸❤️❤️
Hahahaaaa! Where did you see me? Lol. P
Normalise being intentional about your friendships with the same energy you have for romance. Our friends shouldn't be so easily disposable nga we can easily forgive partners for worse
So true. We are so quick to dismiss our friends for the least and yet forgive our partners for sooooooooo much worse. P
Pumla, banange thank you. People feel like every woman should have children.. kwegamba it's a MUST. I have been told a number of things, mbu it will reach a time and start calling them to give me one of their kids to stay with, I am also questioned what I do with my money, tolina mwana, toli mufumbo, sente zo zikolaki... Banange I am just 27.
Even at 37. If you don't want, you don't want. Let them leave you 😅. P
Pumla... love you love you! thank you📌
Thank you ladies, please don't budget in our income! Thank you. Management.
Yes people, why are you budgeting in our money?😂😂😂😂😂😂
Am with pumla on not wanting to thing about manya loses, profit sijuyi my business
I'm with you dear
Discussion Tip Topics bumpy ; Homosexuality in schools; children being recruited etc.
LGBTQ ..Children waking up to say they feel female or male etc..
Children indulging in sexuality activities lately at a much younger age ...( Their interaction with the cartoons and progs on tv that are awakening their consciouses to higher knowleges such as same sex marriages, wall street markerts and the spiritual realm.
Raising Godly Children in an Information overload and self opinionated society
Thanks for this Faith. Much needed topics. P
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I think we shouldn't normalize giving to children more freedom than they can handle.
Minute 17:44 ... minute19:00 upto 20:22 hits so deep!📌 thank you bump love
Please do a talk on health and fitness
Miss me some Angie too🥰
Friendships change but you guys loss of a loved one isn't something that should be passed.
Let's normalise people not being religious. In Africa It tends to be assumed that when some isn't a sworn Christian or Muslim, they automatically have no moral compass. The religious people always assume they know best, its not right. And I'm speaking as a Christian myself. In Pumla's words, as the ladies tent to say "Let's do better".
But it is… someone wit no religious inclination can’t be trusted…
Eh Ruth let’s normalize the fact that we have different options and look at different qualities in people.
@@rutheglance9673 eh Gundi. Be better please. If your doctrine doesn't preach inclusiveness and love for all,, then guuurrrrrlllll, maybe you need to look for another. I'm not religious yet here you are trusting our content. Oba you only listen to the religious ones? Be better please. P
JD...I'm totally with you on this one. People need to get off their high horses. The sourest hearts I have met in my life live in the chests of people who call themselves savedees. Let them release us please. P
@@pumlanabachwa8668 my dear it has nothing to do with doctrine… the religious inclusivity m referring to all it could be Hindi or Islam or Christianity or Buddha whatever…. But everyone in this life needs to hv an inclination towards something Greater than him or her as human … if u think m being random try dating a man who fears no one or u can report to no one… m
Sure that can mirror our spirituality..there r morals that cut across from
The ATS to Pentecostal but if someone has none then they r a danger I insist 😀😁
Wabula Pumla, wama Kona ka full pint, its Friday. Love the show ladies
It's Friiidddddaaaayyyyyyyy 💃🏾. P
Another thing we shouldn’t normalize is thinking or saying “ this is all I can do” not thinking beyond the box. I feel that many of us have the ability to do much more but do not explore . Maybe because people just fear the unknown but yet there’s much we can do if we put our minds to it. They say the only place you can find untapped brains is the graveyard , meaning we can co a lot more than we think we’re doing. Let’s not normalize our abilities .
Love this. P
Please don't normalize inappropriate habits in the name of "it's my life"
We wake up at 5am to go and work while they are in their beds sleeping, after they take you for granted. Budgeting on our money. Am even annoyed.
Me too
Mubutuufu We are all annoyed. P
Normalise appreciating stay home mums and not judging their situation
For sho. Trying to do better here. P
We shouldnt normalise Bodyshaming . I love that one we should normalise the choice of not getting Children and even later change the mind and the one of not burgeting other people money. Thank you very much girls as always you are wonderful and most beautiful
Pumla makes my days 🥰🥰
Kisses 😘. P
Yes. Stop budgeting my money in your life!!! It’s rampant in the African American community too!!! The notion of “you made it out so it’s your responsibility to help those you left behind!” I’m tired. I can’t even enjoy my money because so and so had 3 kids they couldn’t afford even after the first one but because “I made it out then I have money”. Stop budgeting my money for your life!!!
It’s different if someone fell on hard times but no you are intentionally living a life of lack and having plenty kids. That is not my responsibility!!! Your electricity bill is not my responsibility. Your rent is not my responsibility.
I hear you loud and clear. This African problem of having 5 kids you can't afford needs to stop. Burdening the community with your decisions. No thanks! P
Ho...bitter fact banange
My husband took our children to play at ignite at quality. It’s a play area. The owner is my friend and she told me she was amazed that their dad took them to play on an evening when there was soccer. She says most dads never come there compared to moms. I agree that dads don’t baby sit. Those are their children too.
Rosette's number one point needs to be on a billboard. Perfect
We are not from the western world. Let's not do whatever they do because eventually we won't have any values
Totally AGREE! P
😅😅Lemmi look for these billboard pple already
The way i love Rosette
How I wish u pipo think ov having a Whatsapp group too coz u don't know how u hv helped me as a first tym mum
I love you P
I like your opinion Pumla, let us not normalize to be super woman, if you are tired, say it and don't feel bad about it again if you don't feel like doing something like cooking, say it, as woman we always hide our feelings for the sake of making others happy