My boyfriend has been keeping a deep secret from me | Jeannie Mai Divorce | EP130 | The BTS Podcast
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0:00 - “My boyfriend has been keeping a deep secret from me”
18:15 - Intro + Rate your Week
24:15 - Song of the Week
38:58 - Jeezy files for divorce from Jeannie Mai
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If it's a South African man... My deepest condolences my sister.
Not the condolences 😭😭
I quickly came here to say mmmmh sorrows,prayers😂😂😂😂
😂😂because our men ma'am???....haaaai
lol what is it about South African men?? I’m from America so I really have no idea
Nahhh pls tell me what's bad about them cuz I'm talking to one💔💔
As a South African, as soon as she said the man was South African, I knew she was in for a ride 😭 the men down here are a different breed
Mzansi for sure 😂
😭😭😭
LMAO.@@YoungworldNetwork
Shame man 😂😂
@@YoungworldNetwork Mxm wena!🤣
The simultaneous ‘AYE’ gets me every time! I love you ladies! 😂
I really laugh out loud
Ladies …. huge improvement on not speaking over each other, this was a good podcast I wasn’t overwhelmed. You guys gave each other a chance to speak. Thank you, I enjoyed as always. I always look forward for the story + advice. Love the way you guys feed off each other’s energy, never a dull or awkward moment
Yeeeesssss... I loved it too, they didn't speak over each other it was SO GOOD❤
Thank you for noticing wow 😭😭😭 we appreciate the feedback ❤️
@@TheUncutpodcast_ Thank you for taking the advice and applying it. With that kind of mentality you guys are going to be very successful and get very far in life. Rooting for you!
Beatrice’s expressions/sounds while the dilemma was being read is senddddding me!! 🤣🤣
You three are really my sisters across the pond lol my favorite thing about your podcast is that it reminds me of the conversations I have with my own friends! The serious talks with jokes and laughs mixed in lol Also, I really just love that Black people around the world are all so different, yet we share so many similarities that tie us all together. Wishing your pod nothing but success and longevity, thanks for the insight and the entertainment 💙
Thank you for taking the time to send this message! 🥰 Love that you love it ❣
As a South African, listen we have some great men, but we also have some other creatures. She's must run af fast as she can. He's married and wants her as a second wife if there aren't other women in- waiting.
Creatures has taken me out 😭
Creatures! 😂
Creature from the Black Lagoon
Creatures to rahtid 😂😂😂😂
I think she needs to leave. If he can lie about something so serious what else could he lie about? The sister telling her that was a blessing in disguise
Honestly….men should come with references and letter of recommendation. It’s the audacity of consuming our time for me😮
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Omg thank you for not talking over each other, I'm a balkan child with english as a second language and it's really difficult to understand what you're saying when it's multiple people speaking 😂
Love the podcast, i feel like the girl should run from that man, like we cannot choose our parents or kids, but we can choose who we have them with. It's only gonna give her trouble with her kid and it's better to be alone than with the wrong person.
As someone who has been married for 13 years happily, I've watched a lot of marriages fail around me and I can say that it's the best thing that ever happened me.
Y’all let Tammy sing her Hallelujah😂😂
It went on for wayy too long 😅
Girl, I'm 20 years old and I saw the Jeannie divorce coming.i called it from the get go.
As soon as she said South African man??😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭I said sorrows sorrows prayers...bc as a South African woman myself...they are menaces😭😭😭
These men never want us to be happy chileee 😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂
wait why?? what do they do??
@@mousetrap-8817fr I wanna know
@@mousetrap-8817I've been searching all over these comments for an answer 😭😭 I'm still in the dark!
Just found y’all I’m from the USA and I’ve been binging your reels in Insta you ladies are hilarious I was really going through something this weekend and you guys brightened my mood :) keep going! ❤
Same 🤞💪❤🎉
The “hey Ha” sis I was in sync with y’all 😂😂😂😂. There’s so much to unpack in this vid but sis best of luck with whatever decision you’ll take ❤
I was thinking the same thing about Jeannie and Jeezy; she loves that man 🥺🥺
See two things can be right at the same time. Though Jeannie has said horrible things in the past, she has clarified/taken back her statements, apologizing. She liked black men but was with a white man in her previous marriage. I still feel empathetic towards her because divorce and bein a single mom is never easy; especially when someone didn't want children previously after seeing how damaging her family was to her as a traumatized and SAd child.
Her mom didn’t believe her and her abuser continued to stay with them and abuse her! Jeanie better than me because mama Mai would be dead to me!
@@angelsweet9611 the same happened to me but it was my grandfather, basically you learn to expect that you deserve it in a way or blame yourself because the people who are supposed to protect you aren't. You assume you're not a priority or deserving of better, just like how people get habituated to being abused in marriages etc.
I heard South African and immediately I KNEW😂😂😂😂
My darling, South African men BATLOA HURDA MY SISTER😭😭
THEY WILL HURT YOU. RUNNNN
😢😭
Yes 🙌🏾 our weekly dose of BTS! Ooo👂🏾
Let’s get into the glaaamm! Y’all look goodt sisters 💕
Thanks siss! We had a party to attend afterwards 🤣❤
Love you three so much!! Great episode! Thank you for speaking on the BAME moniker. Please do an updated q&a that would be so awesome!
no prob! & we definitely will!
Sounds like a Zulu man 😂😂
She should run... if he's lying about being married and the number of kids he has he has no limit on the lies he is willing to tell.
My Monday afternoon entertainment 🤝🏽
Appreciate you!
It’s Monday morning here on the east coast (US)
y'all look so STUNNING😍!
Also I’m happy to hear my country being mentioned 😂❤love you girls so much
first time listening/watching you guys and I love your energy! So glad I found a new podcast I like! Would love to hear about your friendship and how you come up with the idea of this podcast, difficulties and challenges as women podcasters. I wonder why don't you have a better setup as in a round table like the red table or Breakfast club podcast?
I literally came back to hear Tammy say that halleluuuuuuuuuuuu it’s been looping in my brain
I personally would really like to know more about you guys. From how y’all have gotten here to your friendships and just a bit on your personalities.🌻 Love the podcast mad heavy. Y’all have me on chokehold 🔥
Every time you all do the scream and sound effects, it reminds me of Gina Yashere. 😂 She would be a great guest for the pod. Love watching you ladies.
When Jeanie said on LIVE TV . “I like my dark meat on the side but white gets me right “. I knew Jezzy wasn’t the SLEEZIEST person in the relationship 😂
P.s : Love the Pod you guys crack me up every time and y’all looked STUNNING 😻🥹
My sister you are entering into a polygamous marriage.
And she didn't even know 😭
Isit that bad? I mean at the end of the day all ur bums still get squeezed
Thank God I found you ladies you're so unique. Watching you from Ghana ❤ yes please tell us about your friendship 😢
Love your pod started watching from TikTok, yes do a video so we want to get to know you guys 💕
Gorgeous ladies 😍 I’m a new sub!
I busted out laughing as soon as you mentioned the Osbourne situation. PLEASE 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Lovely episode! But let’s get into the glam!!!😍😍😍😍
Thank youu!! ♥
You ladies look beautiful! I love the podcast!
“I got one Gucci bag and two oranges…”
“you want one??”
😂😂😂
*New subscriber! I REALLY appreciate the conversation about the prenup! You can negotiate the terms of the prenup. If both parties have a lawyer and come to an agreement, it’s works out. People make it negative and it doesn’t have to be.
Hey everyone, omg this story... I think we should as women protect ourselves a lot more. ( english isnt my first language sorry if i misunderstood things but)
Like we shouldn't go cross a continent to see a guy we don't know and that havent proved anything to us yet, take the risk to get pregnant, accept lies and humiliation in front of others (the second wife thing)... We shouldnt accept any of these treatments and keep up with some standards
. If we want people to respect us we have to respect ourselves first and know our limits : cut off when we know we are disrespected even if it can be hard because this is about someone u lovED.
Leave him , go build your life with your child, make your own money. And you'll find a guy who will respect u if u keep in mind your standards and manage stick to it
Plus you're sooo young !
Wish u and yall the best anyway !❤
😂😂😂😂😂the expressions are always sending me😂😂😂
I am new and I love it here 😊
Just heard east africa an knew it was gonna be crazy 😂
LOOOOL
Hello ladies, I’m knee here and really enjoyed this episode. For someone that lives in the US, legal documents/ cases are public (in most if not all states). You can pull from traffic citations all the way to bankruptcy and divorces).
Hey Jasmine! Ahhh okay that’s interesting. So it’s not state-dependent
No you can easily Google marriages and court case here in the United States
I’ve never been this early😭
Hahaha welcome!!
Wife and kids could be living in a completely different province so it's possible not to meet. Some men down here (South Africa) have wives in the home province (umfazi wasekhaya) and then do their own thing wherever they're working.
it would be so nice if you guys did an episode of "Get to know us" just basic stuff. if there is one already can i get the link. Beatrice said you have been friends for long, when i started watching i thought at least two of you might be related 😂 cuz the vibe was crazy or childhood friends
You guys look absolutely gorgeous!!!!😍
Thank you! xx
« It’s her buddy »💀😂😂😂😂
Can’t believe about Jeannie and Jeezy 🥺
So so sad!
Jeannie did try to clarify and apologise for the ‘dark meat on the side’ comment and said she meant if she’s meeting guests on the show then that’s her ‘on the side’ because she was a married woman and honoured her marriage. The comment was crazy and absolutely out of pocket but I highly doubt she meant she had black men as side pieces, that seems to have been taken too literally.
Also both Jeannie and Feddy married outside of their preferences but loved each other enough anyways. She didn’t think black men were unworthy of being her ‘main piece’ she just happened to fall in love and marry a white guy.
U girls look awesome. Love the glam
Thank youu! ❤
Yes please do a get to know usss💗💗
“what!?” sorry for the listeners “what!?” 🤣
First Lady needs to run. Because if she stays she’ll need to be very emotionally and mentally strong. Especially if she is moving in with him full time. P.S a South African woman
omg please explain why??
@@mousetrap-8817 because if he’s still married to his youngest children’s mother and is introducing her as a second wife. There’s a high chance he’s looking for something polygamous and there are people and families that encourage polygamy. If he isn’t then his current wife will become a bitter ex wife who’ll constantly see her as the home wrecker. I mean there’s a reason they’re not divorced it’s either he hasn’t tried or she doesn’t want to part ways with.
Also, we’re African and believe what you want, but witch craft is real. The current wife can resort to that to get her way.
Lastly he has no problem lying to her now, especially about big things. The chances that he’ll stop when they’re married are ridiculously slim imo. Unless he repents like Paul before they even get married, she should not consider marrying him.
Edit: plus that wedding is traditional. Sounds like a front to get a second wife to me.
Not going to lie my ex told me he had 1 child and it went up to 4 !
The phone thing is definitely South African 😂
I hate that excuse of "I lied because I didn't wanna lose you," because it implies an assumption about the person that they'd react badly without even giving them a chance to react TO the information. Essence of victim blaming, ya know? I don't even think everyone who says that means to be manipulative per se, but it really does have a sinister vibe.
Congratulations! This is a great podcast. Insightful and entertaining. Do you guys ever travel back to Nigeria and do volunteer work mentoring girls/young women to encourage them to do well in school and pursue careers in STEM, communication, etc.? Perhaps use your platform to visit schools in the village, and build centers, latrines, wells, etc.
Yeah I want to know how y’all met and what made y’all do a podcast with you 3 and not other people etc
Fear South African men
Oh noo not them too! 😭
why??
I’m early 😊
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I lin in Atlanta. The State is Ga, w/in most states are counties and Atlanta is a city w/in fulton county
In the US, marriages and divorces are public record.
If your intuition says that something is wrong, I would trust it. I know it's easier said than done, but walk. A lot of us should have walked away. Save the time and the drama.
This sound like a Zulu man 🤣🤣😭❤️
A South African man stuck it to my sister. She nearly died of depression. Another one, too, has fallen into that trap, and now she's getting divorced. I had to South african friends abroad and and that's a different sorry 😂😂
Lmfao there's sooo many quotablessssss in this episode. 💀💀💀
We need to know the language 😂😂😂
Yoh? Chaai dawg. My deepest condolences shem. I heard where the guy was from and worried already shem. A whole different breed daar😭
my chat😭😭😭😭
wait why??
Rip #justiceformohbad 🕊️💔
There are so many countries that have mutual languages, and I couldn't tell you what languages they all are. So I'm not offended if someone thinks I speak Nigerian
I recently started watching this pod. I enjoy their content I just wish they translated their Yoruba when they speak it.
In Islam, sex outside the confines of marriage is considered illegitimate coupling. It is sinful and the person owes you nothing. Whereas with marriage, as a woman you receive dowry and for both people in the couple it saves u from diseases and major emotional turmoil/heartache. The emotional and physical safety of having a spouse is the best incentive.
WE WANT MORE ABOUT YOU !
noted!
He will never get divorced
A point in the video was made that being of faith, believing in a higher power that's keeping them together was made as a positive, but it's a negative. People of faith endure way worse in marriages because religion has them in a chokehold. Religion perpetuates and upholds gender norms, so women end up carrying the brunt of these toxic marriages. Oprah has a network that aired a series called “Black Love”. The show was full of Christians and was supposed to shine a bright light on Black couples. However, anybody who watched the series would know that these women were putting up with massive red flags. They were breaking their neck just to keep a husband because they were women of faith. The amount of femicide, especially at the hands of a partner, is too prevalent to think Christianity will smooth that out. 9/10 Christianity promotes struggle love.
I think people misunderstood the comment Jeannie made and ran with it (I am American btw). It came right after they were talking about how she actually likes black men and always did but her family made her feel like she had to marry a white man in order to have a decent life, that was when she said the attraction never went away even while being with a white man everyday she still “on the side” liked black men, and then side “i
like my dark meat on the side” to be funny (she easily coulda said chocolate on the side). No one has a problem with the constant “chocolate, caramel, vanilla” comments people make towards black people but this is what got over analyzed.
Also her and her first husband divorce due to infidelity also, another woman was pregnant before the divorce was done. She got married in 2021 and due to COVID didn’t have a wedding but they planned to have a big party. Adrienne on The Real did the same, only few select family and friends were there. Both of them also had destination weddings.
We need a pack story yes please
We got youu! 🥰
Lol the amount of times I've been asked if I speak Ugandan... honestly lol
Why's Beatrice like this?🤣🤣🤣🤣
🇿🇦 😂😂😂😂😂 My People
If your relationship starts on lies that means the whole relationship is just one lie... It will not stop... They have to continue to lie to sustain that relationship.. that's my belief anyway...
The wedding was during covid
We want to get to know you!!!!
Hahaha okay noted!
As a Ugandan, i have a feeling this lady is Ugandan. That said feel like young ladies now days overlook all the bright red flags just to tick off a societal expectation from them. This thinking has trapped and its still trapping many in bad relationships and marriages. Anyways I hope she left, someone better is out there for her.
I heard South Africa, and I knew.... i just knew.. 😂😂😂 the men here leave you during the holidays and go get married at their home town...then come back like nothing happened 😂😂😂 they will go to the extend of saying their wedding rings are for losing weight...after God, fear them.
You guys need to have shitsngigs on!
South African and Zulu for sure!
😂😂😂😂My sister you Don't have Hope on our Zulu brothers
WESSER and WESSER 😂😂
Why am I not suprised🫢🫢🫢
There's no two ways around it... she needs to run, not walk. Too many red flags 🚩
I fell off my chair at wealthy South African men chile, aint nothing like that in South Africa. We in the ghetto
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣I was shocked as well. Like where????
😭😭😭it’s a south african man idk what she expected
wdym??
I love when you guys joke in your African accent lol the joking use of AAVE can be a little offensive.
Is she dating Andile?
Haaaaaaaaaaaa
Sharon ur soooo fineee honestly