I thought I was authentic but then I realised I actually just deeply value authenticity. In reality I care what people think about me. I sometimes do things I shouldn't for the sake of not disappointing others. I end up finding people frustrating when I fail at bring authentic. When you become truly authentic, other people's negative traits will not affect you as much because you will not bend or be influenced. As a result you eventually may become less judgemental of people because they simply cannot bother you.
You don't become truly authentic, as caring for what other people think is not necessarily a bad thing. I think it's a game of balance, and it captures different aspects: 1. Please, other people 2. represent a certain persona of yourself 3. do what you really enjoy doing or what benefits you, etc. If you only do what you like, for example, there's a negative element to this, just as if you only do what is good for you. In relation to being judgmental, I misunderstood the concept with being objective, as it's a distinct negative trait as opposed to being objective.
you can be authentic and judgemental. stop trying to dictating how a person should act by presenting some traits in a positive light
I thought I was authentic but then I realised I actually just deeply value authenticity. In reality I care what people think about me. I sometimes do things I shouldn't for the sake of not disappointing others. I end up finding people frustrating when I fail at bring authentic. When you become truly authentic, other people's negative traits will not affect you as much because you will not bend or be influenced. As a result you eventually may become less judgemental of people because they simply cannot bother you.
You don't become truly authentic, as caring for what other people think is not necessarily a bad thing.
I think it's a game of balance, and it captures different aspects:
1. Please, other people
2. represent a certain persona of yourself
3. do what you really enjoy doing or what benefits you, etc.
If you only do what you like, for example, there's a negative element to this, just as if you only do what is good for you.
In relation to being judgmental, I misunderstood the concept with being objective, as it's a distinct negative trait as opposed to being objective.
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