Magic Thinking What it is and why Fearful Avoidants do it | HealingFa.com

Magic Thinking is a way of thinking that actually gives you more fear and anxiety. It might seem like Magic Thinking is helpful and gives you more control, but it can actually be quite harmful. In this video, I will talk about what magic thinking is and why a lot of Fearful Avoidants use it.
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00:00 Intro
00:27 What is Magic Thinking?
01:05 Law of attraction
02:23 Tool to have control
05:45 Radio channel
08:30 Why do you use Magic Thinking
10:15 Changing your mindset
13:15 Black and White
15:33 Outro
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[@VenusianStarseed]

I have a terrible cycle 🔄 where I > I have magical thinking about meeting someone amazing > I meet someone and then get limerence for them because I am projecting onto them and let down when they can’t live up to that > we break up >fall into hopelessness >use limerence to cope> rinse & repeat

[@Sweetroses369]

While studying the law of attraction and the law of assumption,it appeared to me as magical thinking. You would always hear them saying you’re manifesting every moment of your life. Or you thoughts create your reality. Coming from an Avoidant attachment, I am always judging myself and my thoughts. So when I started studying these laws, I felt as if I couldn’t have a negative thought because it would become true for me. That created all sorts of anxiety within me. I was literally scared to think. I felt as if every thought would happen instantly. This kept me in my head a lot. It was watching your videos that set me free of this thinking. I’m currently doing EMDR and it has been life changing for me. Thank you for clarifying this information. You are truly saving lives. ❤

[@miamckersie3667]

Your content always helps and inspires me thank you thank you!

[@nicolesheehan1298]

I have to take this opportunity to tell you JUST how instrumental you have been in my healing. I had just discovered attachment theory but for the life of me I couldn’t place myself neatly in any of the boxes. Then I found your channel talking about fearful avoidant and MY GOD… let me tell you I freaked out! It’s like you’re inside my head! I’ve never felt SO validated in my life. I have been devouring just about every one of your videos and a switch has flipped in my brain-I feel 90% healed (if you could ever measure such a thing lol) and I just know I’ll never be as bad as I was just a few short months ago. AND thanks to you I know I will only get better every day❤
So from the bottom of my heart, THANK YOU for going through this massive effort to put your insight out into the world. I am eternally grateful for the immense healing you’ve facilitated in me 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

[@breemarie9393]

Me toooo!!! It was like all the puzzle pieces finally CLICKED I was shocked

[@nicolesheehan1298]

@@breemarie9393 Amazing!! 😍🫂

[@azuresea8086]

Paulien, it's wonderful to see you are posting again. Motherhood x2 is making you even more beautiful inside and out! Your videos have helped so much. I play them on a loop while I sleep!

[@LastRebel1978]

Dear I have listened to hundreds of people and read a myriad of books and many many sermons over the last 20yrs trying to figure out how my wife’s thinking works so I could reach her with my this point of view. My mother also has her version this and of course so many around me that I love but cannot tolerate at this age being stuck in the same room with their fear and anxiety. I can feel it all over me but yet have no way to help these folks. I struggled with anxiety and insecurity as a teenage boy but seen it and hated it and challenged it by just being honest and accepting not everybody has to love everybody. Not saying it wouldn’t be nice if we could but that’s not reality. So between honesty and respect because if you want to be able to pick and choose who you like don’t like and want to be around, you have to allow them the same respect or freedom. When you understand that people who can’t tell you no nicely when you respect them the first time aren’t people you really want to be friends with anyway.
Anyway, you are the best simple person to person explanation that some FA might be able to digest, I’ve ever heard Thanks for sharing your journey. Best regards.

[@dddottir5935]

Im in a HUGE problem.
Ive been a fearful avoidant my whole life, but recently, I developed a crush on someone and it… it became ANXIOUS or preoccupied attachment. I went from one side to the other ¿¿??! I honestly don’t know what’s going on. Is this normal?

[@owenlarson07366]

I’m having a hard time understanding without examples. What kinds of thoughts/outcomes do FA have or try to avoid?