An Overthinkers Guide to Goals
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This video is an over thinkers guide to setting goals. How to stop thinking about what you want to do, get past the overanalysing, and start actually working on your goals. I know how it feels to overanalyse and overthink everything, but I also know how important it is to force yourself to make decisions and move forward.
You can use this video to prep your goals for the new year or, better yet, start working on your goals NOW.
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Lulu A agreed!
100%
Lulu A exactly
Lulu A omg yasss
This is me to the t. I'm always waiting for the 'right time'. For example, I have to start things either on a Monday, or the first day of the month. And if I don't do that thing perfectly on the first day, I give up and wait a whole week, or a month to start again. Which is absolutely stupid.
Btw I love your videos, Muchelle! They are always helpful, and even if they are about something I don't need help with, seeing your face and a new video of yours always motivates me!
As an over-thinker+over-worrier, this video makes perfect sense+ perfect timing :D Thank you ;)
Reading the title "wow she made a video just for me" 😅 thanks girl great advice! 👌🏼
Love this video. As a chronic planner I totally related to point 3. I have goals everywhere! On the back on my door, in my journal, on a vision board, reminders on the home screen, notes in my phone... you get the picture
It's such a thing!! You just need to choose one place and stick to it - otherwise it gets out of hand haha, lots of love grrl ❤️
I think numerous places is ok IF they are all the same. I used to have different list everywhere, but I have got much better at reinforcing the same goals over and over again. Back of my door is my favourite though. Means I see it every morning
Another tip for an overthinker(ME!) is to get the thoughts out of your head...the best way is talking to someone you trust and will give honest feedback-I use my best friend/husband for this and he always gets me back on track!!Also people can help hold u accountable😉The lists can help but yes definitely one place!Im guilty of lists everywhere and needing to write a new one daily with the same stuff 🙄
YOU ALWAYS UPLOAD THE PERFECT VIDEO AT THE PERFECT TIME!
Last month was the first month I set myself goals! My goodness it made such a difference I actually met them! But these tips would have been a dream to go along with them! Xox
Thank you sooooo much for this video Muchelle!! xxx
Yaaaaay! I always look forward to your videos! You have helped me so much to start living a better life. Thank you Xx
Finally started catching up on your videos and this can really go with anything planning-related! Totally needed this, thank you!
I just procrastinate until I forget what I was originally supposed to do #perfectplan
same!! lol
haha yea when you spend so much time thinking about you are supposed to do you no longer have time to do it 😂
It's not funny anymore to me...I feel furious all the time and a big part of the reasons it because I have nothing figured out in my life and no goals and aspirations
I am so glad that there is a good Australian CZcamsr !! I just found you channel and I completely fell in love so thankyou xx
Needed this- thank you so much!!
Every single one of your videos literally saves my life!! I can't even tell you how much you've helped me since I found your channel x
You are so amazing thank you for this video!
Great video with practical advice! Thanks for sharing.
Yes girl! I definitely needed this. Im a chronic over thinker. This is a serious helpful video that perfectly alined with what Im currently struggling with. Thanks you! Waking up to a new video by you makes me so happy and excited 😊
I've been all thinking/planning and no action these days. Thanks as always for the much needed push!
Love your videos!
I really like this!! I'd love to hear more advice for over thinkers!
Shared this video with a couple of friends, with the following description:
I just watched a supremely helpful video from one of my favourite CZcamsrs on how to set goals, make plans and actually act on them - for people who are as prone to overthinking as I am. I laughed out loud multiple times during the video because it described what I've been going through so accurately! Guilty as charged. This video was the wise and practical voice of reason I needed to finally stop agonising and make some real decisions this afternoon. What a relief to have some clear priorities to start hammering away at, at last!
Thank you, Michelle, for making my life better!!! xoxoxo
you're an absolute super babe, i'm so guilty of the "i'll wait until this to complete ___" and i'm so bad for it! your content always refreshes me so much and i'm just overall grateful for your online presence
Muchelleb, you are a gift from the Gods. I have been scrolling through your videos all week since I discovered you, and it's exactly where I needed to be. I'm experiencing a quarter life crisis and my overthinking head is tired.
I really appreciate your content.
I really like that! Breaking down your goals to everyday routines makes it a lot easier
This was crazy relatable and quite reassuring that I'm not the only one constantly over thinking. I'm excited to implement these tips in my days and hopefully see some improvement!
omg I can’t believe how much I can relate to this video. I just made the decision to take the advice from your video and act on it because I’m literally done with overthinking. Thank u for this.
I️ sooo needed this! Im on my 3rd planner this year-and was thinking I️ might need a different method. Now Im just going to stick with what I’ve got and make a decision on goals for the week every Sunday. Thank you!
Your videos always inspire me to try being better. Thanks for helping me slowly put my life together
oh my gosh i 100% needed this. Thank you so so much for sharing
OMG thank you so much!!! All the love from Portugal ❤
Sending all of the love back 😘💗
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lol, you pretty much described me at every single step! thank you so much for making these videos. you are a delight.
Yessss, throughout my journey as trying to build my music business and online presence, I did really realize the only way to make a change is to start working on it right now. There is no better moment to start becoming the person you're hoping to become in the future. I've seen so many people around me never get anywhere with their goals because they would keep on postponing them in the future. "I'll start making CZcams Videos when I'm going to have a nice camera", and then when they get it, they go "But now I need the best lighting". Sometimes waiting can be legitimate if you're already taking action, but more often than not these are excuses we build up for ourselves. I feel humans tend to make things much bigger than they should, and for me setting small, easy and achievable goals is what made it possible for me to start really going forward. And as I become comfortable with these small goals, I'll slowly add up.
Thanks for the awesome video as always!
Do not act without thinking and do not only think without ever acting. Love your video!! I super need this
It is relieving to hear you address the idea of "Limiting your Research." Practice makes progress.
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Thank you Michelle, I needed this video very much :) Good tips and useful advice as always, keep up the good work! :)
Muchelle!!!! I NEEDED this video and my first commitment is to literally watch it every day until this shit resonates. I can't even tell you like.. thank you so much for this. Overthinking and having too many goals are 2 of my biggest stresses and life so hopefully your advice will help me to start kicking a bad habit 💜💜💜
Thank you for another great video! I know it's a little early, but I'm struggling to decide new goals for the new year's resolutions. I've got lots of idea but I'm not sure how to put them together. If you have any tips and tricks, please make a video!
So guilty of it all! These are some good tips! Much needed, thank you!! Overthinking + fear of failure = nightmare!!! What a struggle!
Just the video I needed! Thank you so much, I love your channel. Kisses from Spain.😘💗
So glad I could help! Much love xoxo
you help me so so much. stay happy
This is so much me IT'S SCARY
But I loved the tips, especially number 3, I'll give it a try!
I finally got to a point where I was just tired with myself. I still have more things that I want to do than I can currently manage - but I also know which one makes me want to get up early in the morning so I can get a head start. I started getting caught up in planning and then decided to stop, make a three point list of the things that need to happen immediately for this and give myself a planning session once a week but the other times I'm just jumping into it. Also Skillshare has been awesome for me - it's given me the tools to know that what I'm focusing on now are the necessary bits.
I’ve never clicked so fast! I was just talking about my parents that I wanted to quit my studies and they didn’t know how to help me so thank god you’re here ❤️
THANK YOUUU ❤️❤️ this helped Alot❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️
GREAT VIDEO!!🙂🙂 lol thank you for the Skillshare and the tips!!
Eeeeek!!! Get outta my head!!! I'm so guilty of having lists everywhere!!!! Thanks for this video!! Very helpful!!
Love this video! It's so helpful and completely relatable. Can you make a video about making decisions on big life choices like to move away or to stay in your current city, to study this or that, etc.? I can't figure out what to do with my life because I have so many ideas of what I can do so I end up deciding on none lol.
It meeeeee! So many goals, in so many formats, in so many places. Heck.
You look glowing and your skin looks so soft and clear. Idk if it's the lighting of the white background but it looks nice
Recently I have been struggling with deciding what hobbies I want to pursue as I just have too many and not enough time. Could you film a video with something to do with hobbies. Thank you for this informational video :)
Bookish Vegan i agree with this one!!
I read something once for people who have trouble choosing which hobby to pursue to just pick your top few, put them in a hat and just take one out and dedicate yourself to it. What really put it into perspective for me is the fact that if its true that it takes 10 years to master something, then in your lifetime as long as you focus on one thing at a time then you can easily master 5 or 6 things but if you keep putting it off and don't create a focus then it's much harder to master anything :)
I'd be interested in something along this line as well - how do you choose your hobbies Michelle? And with whatever hobby you pursue, how do you keep it from becoming a time waster/distraction from your goals? (I kinda tend to spend way more time on my hobbies than on pursuing my goals and feeling guilty about that... 😓 )
Thank you thank you thank you!!!
Thank you 👏🏽
This relates to me so much! 😅
Thanks for this -- a well-timed video for me. I signed up for the Skillshare two month trial; the service looks promising.
The last tip is my favourite, it's really a life changer once we stop wasting our time waiting and just start doing. Thank you for sharing great content :)
V v v true xoxo 💗
Its so me its absurd. Thank you it was really helpful.
Thank you!! I wish this video had a love button!! Xxxx
I'm starting to get really serious about the goals im setting for myself! Making extra time for myself to work harder so that I can achieve my dreams! Hoping to quit my job soon and work full time on youtube :)
I felt like this was a personal call out post, all that was missing was for her to @ me. It really drove home all the things I was doing incorrectly though, so I appreciated it!
Not waiting for everything to be perfect is SOOOO important.
I love your videos
I support you, thank you
Yep, I am an overthinker. It's actually pretty fun to be in that stage, though. Still, there's little point in staying in that stage, as plans without action don't change the world. I usually pick a word for the year instead of setting goals. I'm pretty sure I know 2018's word, maybe I'll set goals around it too. Thanks for the inspiration!
Yess, go for what works for you best - I love the word for the year :) xoxo
Thank you for this! I have a big problem where it's like, if I can't do it effectively and well, there's no point in doing it. And that keeps me from progress. I just need to start doing.
You had me at overthinkers.
Clicked on this video so fast! I'm a major overthinker.
I feel you 💖 Don't let it get in the way of what you want to do! xoxo
Love this, thank you! Have you tried Lynda.com? I'm curious how skillshare compares to it
Thank you so much for this incredibly insightful video!! Love you. I only have one piece of advice: I don't want to sound like a mom, but I think if you improved your posture a bit it would make you appear a lot more confident and assertive!! xx
I get alot out of rach and every video of yours. They're great perfect for me and very cute and friendly.
HAHAHA And jump to 2019 We have The Life Map to help us 💖 I love it
What camera do you use to film? xxx
Hey, I really liked the advices your give in this video. I'm feeling really, really stuck right now in life, not knowing what choice to make in terms of studies/career. There are many things I'd like to do, but I know I just can't do them all. I'd love to be a teacher, but also a psychologist, or a nutritionist, or a surgeon. I have already started uni this year, studying education, but I don't feel like this is "it" you know. I could do psychology pretty easily this year instead, or I could try medical school next year ( which would be kind of scary btw but also exciting). I'm afraid no matter what choice I make, I'll be missing out on something else. I don't know if someone can relate to this ?
Oh God. I keep finding more lists 😵💫
someone plz tell me a good app for daily or weekly planners etc I been trying alot but none was good enough
This video looks like it was said for me
"would I like to study French or Spanish?" I LITERALLY have to make this decision rn, lol
2.6k views 0 dislikes, I've never seen that before 👏👏👏
Might be a glitch tho..
Thank you for this video!
Have you ever taken the MBTI test? You sound like an INFJ to me!
Yes! I'm an INFJ 💖 xoxo
For the 2:26 saying i put a thumbs up happily
Thaaaanks
*"Are you going to learn French or Spanish? Make a decision!"*
Muchelle, how did you know about my ongoing internal battle of "do i devote more time and energy to maintaining my Spanish or to learning French?" 😂
what's your MBTI type? mine is INTJ Type A
I think she's an INFJ
N Bee That sounds cool.
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vertebrae If you're located in USA you can go to a local store and get a prepaid card.
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This video was good - at least you were speaking slower. Much more professional and classy.
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