What Your Grown Child Needs To Hear If He's Still Living With You -- Dr. Phil

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Komentáře • 207

  • @Anidem9
    @Anidem9 Před 9 měsíci +38

    Contrary to what people want to believe, shaming doesn't work.

    • @Jenda-ld8dj
      @Jenda-ld8dj Před 2 měsíci +3

      Shaming done correctly does work.

    • @woodyssnake8562
      @woodyssnake8562 Před 20 dny +1

      ​@@Jenda-ld8djwhat is the correct way to do it? Honest question

    • @billmcnealofwnyxnewyork
      @billmcnealofwnyxnewyork Před 13 dny

      Yea it does. Tell a 400 pound person they look beautiful every day, or call them a fatass every day. See which one triggers weight loss.

    • @rahuldahoob
      @rahuldahoob Před 7 dny

      ​@@woodyssnake8562well they ended up kicking him out into a motel... Then a van

  • @LauraWalker-uj2iu
    @LauraWalker-uj2iu Před 11 měsíci +58

    Folks making excuses for him aren’t taking into account his parents are exhausted and financially drained. He is grown. He can get a job. Doesn’t have to be a high paying job. But he is responsible for his life at this point. He’s taking advantage of his parents instead of taking accountability. Plenty of people, including myself, work even with anxiety and depression. It’s part of life and more common than you think. Some of the most successful people deal with anxiety, depression, ADHD, etc. Someone needs to give him some tough love. Coddling only makes it easier for him to stay stuck.

    • @sunflowerzelda45
      @sunflowerzelda45 Před 2 měsíci +1

      Laura thank you, yes my mind went to gee guy must be depressed. ok. this could be my son tho he is currently in prison. But he wants to come home to parole. oh trust me he is 47 strong as a bull. I gotta find a way to back out of agreeing for him to come home. He caught me off guard when he asked. What is wrong with Me? Like do I forget what a nightmare the last time he was here? If anyone can give me advice on how to have this conversation about not coming home. There are many valid problems with that picture. One No car. Two, live about an hour from town. 3, he is not gonna drive my car. So I say, but can see myself caving just so I do not have to drive him. ugh. sick and tired. Give me some ideas on how to start telling him No, not this time. Should I just say he caught me off guard? Help.

  • @pontifixmax
    @pontifixmax Před rokem +32

    Old people don't sleep until two in the afternoon. They are usually up at 5 AM.

  • @momsmushroomsjodyfoster5786
    @momsmushroomsjodyfoster5786 Před 10 měsíci +29

    I don’t mind having adult children live at home. As long as they are making progress and working towards independence. It’s not love to allow someone to waste their life at your expense. Life is a terrible thing to waste.

    • @jon6309
      @jon6309 Před 10 měsíci

      What are your thoughts of adult children who do work full time and contribute some help whether financial or physical labor in the house? A friend of mine is proud of his independence and owns a home but he is drowning in debt where there is literally nothing left from his salary to save anything. He has a lot of student loans, a mortgage he just took on and a wedding expense which was on loan. It’s so bad he couldn’t afford his medical bill and ended up getting another loan for it. What is the true definition of financial independence? Is it really independent when the person is trapped in debt? My family has a huge fear of debt and properties my family owned were paid in cash. They were affluent which helped them achieve that but for ordinary working people it’s literally impossible unless some windfall were to happen. It has always been ingrained in me to never take on debt. I always pay my credit card balance in full and I paid for my college tuition in cash. I don’t earn as much money and applying for a better job is always an option but it’s really on the mercy of the employer and I’ve never been hired for those high paying jobs I applied for.

    • @bmoshareholderappleshareho855
      @bmoshareholderappleshareho855 Před 3 měsíci +6

      I don't mind either. As long as they are working and contributing to the household expenses.

    • @kmc1steelers998
      @kmc1steelers998 Před 2 měsíci +1

      @@bmoshareholderappleshareho855 - Yup. Exactly. The problem is many of them DO NOT, some even bring their babies home with them as well.

    • @sunflowerzelda45
      @sunflowerzelda45 Před 2 měsíci +2

      yes, but once you open that door and they do not help themself you have to kick them out. My son told me he would rather be homeless than live with me the last time he left. He was homeless middle of Kansas winter. Talk about guilt on my end. He ended up in Jail long story. But what does it say when you feel better about things when they are in prison, compared to the homeless?

    • @rahuldahoob
      @rahuldahoob Před 7 dny

      ​@@sunflowerzelda45yes was unbearable for me to live with mother. I got evicted and am currently in a hotel. This guy also eventually ended up living in a hotel... Then living in a van... From what I saw on three update videos he did

  • @zg3671
    @zg3671 Před 2 lety +120

    He looks depressed 😔. He may need a psychiatrist and a career coach to get his life on track. Life is crazy. Sometimes we get off track.

    • @swolfe9668
      @swolfe9668 Před rokem +16

      He's not depressed, he's a user, he's using his parents and they've allowed it to happen

    • @russiantroubleyakutsk1612
      @russiantroubleyakutsk1612 Před rokem +15

      He needs to work at least 40 hours a week THEN see a psychiatrist or whatever

    • @markpalavosvrahotes5575
      @markpalavosvrahotes5575 Před rokem +4

      No he needs the psychiatrist first to see if he needs meds or not. He may not be able to work without them. Wait a year see if the meds help then he can decide if work or SSI is the better option.

    • @williammathis6044
      @williammathis6044 Před rokem +13

      He needs to get off his butt. Life is HARD, sitting on your tail feeling sorry for yourself is is not going to help you better yourself.
      “Depression” is such an American concept. It is a luxury afforded to those in wealthy countries because in the majority of the world if you don’t work because you are “depressed” you will quite literally die because you will NOT be eating or sleeping under a roof.

    • @zeethree
      @zeethree Před rokem +7

      People who think sad = depressed and stress = anxiety are worthless. Depression and anxiety rob you not only of the will, but of the ability to live. Don't think you know what it feels like just because you got sad or stressed. There's sad and then there's not leaving your childhood bedroom for 20 years as an adult. That's not lazy, that's being stuck and giving up.

  • @AtticTapes14
    @AtticTapes14 Před 11 měsíci +17

    Anxiety too!!!! It's not always easy even get hired at all! Some interviews rejected me!!!

  • @donovanvanderwath2787
    @donovanvanderwath2787 Před 2 lety +39

    Lets be honest life is so expensive that most jobs dont pay enough for you to move out but a low paying job is still better then nothing. He would be able to afford a few things than when he ws nt working. If he cnt get job i would say atleast help inside and around the house. If you suffering from depression you need to keep busy.

    • @kiddclofilm
      @kiddclofilm Před rokem +2

      I agree 10000%

    • @silkoakranchpitchforkranch1205
      @silkoakranchpitchforkranch1205 Před rokem +7

      Spoken like a true entitled adult child or the enabler.

    • @swolfe9668
      @swolfe9668 Před rokem +2

      Then you get a 2nd job

    • @chaseattaway1832
      @chaseattaway1832 Před rokem +2

      ​@swolfe9668 2nd job and you are burned out and still struggling no wonder the check out stats are growing who wants to be a slave for two jobs just to survive and get by

    • @bluevictory1010
      @bluevictory1010 Před 11 měsíci +2

      Then you do what we all did 40 years ago and get 2 roommates and rent a 2 bedroom apartment then split the rent between the 3 of you, problem solved.

  • @mojo_joju
    @mojo_joju Před měsícem +5

    I’m 30 and I still live at home with my parents, but we all chip in for utilities and bills. I hate traveling, so I usually give my money to my parents so they can go on holidays. So in exchange they let me stay at home. I don’t pay rent, but most of my money goes into the house anyway since I’m gonna inherit it someday.
    I’m just saying, there’s always a way. In Chinese culture, you’re expected to take care of your parents when they’re old, not the other way around

  • @brokendoll1107
    @brokendoll1107 Před 3 lety +44

    I like Dr Phil’s sincerity 🤣 “you’re old, you’re gonna die soon”

    • @BrioMidber
      @BrioMidber Před rokem +6

      I don't like Dr. Phil but he hit the nail on the head with this one. Your parents aren't going to live forever. At some point you gotta work to feed and house yourself

    • @DoctorRickSanchez
      @DoctorRickSanchez Před rokem +4

      @@BrioMidber _At 37 he might as well stay on there until they're gone and keep the house... lmao._

  • @kiddclofilm
    @kiddclofilm Před rokem +30

    Not taking taking up for this young man but life has really hit him. He looks hopeless. In todays economy it’s a complete suicide to move out and not have a good paying job but at the same time it looks like he ain’t trying

    • @silkoakranchpitchforkranch1205
    • @nodeanever3869
      @nodeanever3869 Před rokem +5

      Life hits everyone, let’s not use “living as an adult is too hard for me” as an excuse to be a bum.

    • @bmoshareholderappleshareho855
      @bmoshareholderappleshareho855 Před 3 měsíci

      If you are living with your parents, that means you're not an adult. Adults pay rent. That's what adults do. They pay rent. That's according to Judge Judy.

    • @llamapartyy
      @llamapartyy Před 2 měsíci

      ​@@bmoshareholderappleshareho855 what? i understand working being important but not an adult? lol okay

    • @bmoshareholderappleshareho855
      @bmoshareholderappleshareho855 Před 2 měsíci +1

      If you still live with parents, you’re not an adult. You’re the equivalent of child or some cases, you’re a mouse.

  • @heatherarndt5280
    @heatherarndt5280 Před 3 lety +49

    Young people today don’t appreciate standing on their own... Im 47 and I was out on my own at 21...
    Wow!! Lazy man... making an elderly man work so he can lay around!!!

    • @SnookOnTheFly
      @SnookOnTheFly Před 3 lety +1

      Yep

    • @chache516
      @chache516 Před 3 lety +8

      Depression

    • @FunGuyFruits
      @FunGuyFruits Před 3 lety +1

      21? Loser!

    • @JJJJ-he8bz
      @JJJJ-he8bz Před 3 lety +5

      I lay around and work at the same time

    • @patriciacook3981
      @patriciacook3981 Před 3 lety +7

      I'm 47 too, worked since I was 16, have a autistic son at home and have a two bedroom apartment walking distance to my job, I have a 26 year old daughter who blames me for every screw up in her life, also the fact that I have worked hard her whole childhood and done it myself means nothing to her. She has abandoned one child with my ex husband, pregnant again, and I refuse to let her live here,,,it breaks my heart everyday but I must, must stand my ground

  • @amberwhalen4791
    @amberwhalen4791 Před 3 lety +27

    Well I'm gonna help you and you're gonna like it lmaooo dr.phil is a G.

  • @DanielPerez-xl6lf
    @DanielPerez-xl6lf Před 3 lety +43

    It's the mothers who keep their 30 old still breastfeeding those aren't mothers it's embarrassing

  • @TURTLEORIGINAL
    @TURTLEORIGINAL Před rokem +36

    Telling people, “ You have a chip on your shoulder”, really doesn’t help a troubled or mentally unstable person, (Doctor) Phil.

    • @williammathis6044
      @williammathis6044 Před rokem +11

      🙄 omg. You absolutely, 100% SHOULD tell someone with an entitled attitude about themselves.
      I have had it with the weakness that is supported in this country. I have anxiety, I’m “depressed”, I have mental issues, substance issues, etc, etc.
      No one gaf, no one, we ALL have problems, losses, and struggles, but we press on.
      The coddling of the weakest among us must stop. Those of us pulling the wagon are fed up with those sitting in it along for the free ride.

    • @swolfe9668
      @swolfe9668 Před rokem

      People are not mentally unstable, there faking it to get attention, we've created a society of lazy entitled brats

    • @zeethree
      @zeethree Před rokem +1

      I think a lot of us are not pressing on anymore. It's like you're arguing we should keep playing our instruments while the Titanic is going down.

    • @swolfe9668
      @swolfe9668 Před rokem +5

      Coddling is worse, people who walk around with a chip on their shoulder need to told, tough love all the way

    • @iqherrera
      @iqherrera Před 10 měsíci

      @@zeethree
      It’s really ridiculous to compare brave men, to bums who expect their elderly parents to feed and cloth them.. 🤦🏻‍♀️
      At least the people on the titanic created beautiful music for those living their last minutes..,
      It was the weak, the old, the women and children who were given the life boats… it was the brave men who put themselves last, who prayed and encouraged others to carry on as they themselves perished…. I pray for you to give of yourself, to pray for the sick, the orphans and the hungry, only then will you feel like a valuable human being… those who are depressed seem to only focus on themselves and it makes for a miserable existence…

  • @momsmushroomsjodyfoster5786
    @momsmushroomsjodyfoster5786 Před 10 měsíci +8

    If a man doesn’t work he doesn’t eat! #Bible

  • @jehobden
    @jehobden Před rokem +15

    I wonder if this man is still alive, since he's already past the life expectancy for people in AZ now.

    • @DefKiller90
      @DefKiller90 Před 8 dny

      He's probably homeless now his parents probably pass away

  • @katieporterswhiteboard1433
    @katieporterswhiteboard1433 Před 2 lety +18

    Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh.

  • @candyfloss7283
    @candyfloss7283 Před 2 lety +23

    Has he got severe depression maybe? He looks down

    • @swolfe9668
      @swolfe9668 Před rokem

      Stop blaming everything on depression(Which is fake) he's a lazy entitled brat who is mooching off his parents and he doesn't care

    • @swolfe9668
      @swolfe9668 Před rokem +1

      He doesn't have depression, he's lazy and feels entitled

    • @x_bncc9559
      @x_bncc9559 Před 6 měsíci +2

      @@swolfe9668how do you know?

    • @jeannetteross5352
      @jeannetteross5352 Před 5 měsíci

      60 hrs a week would fix that!

    • @llamapartyy
      @llamapartyy Před 2 měsíci

      ​@@jeannetteross5352 it would make him kill himself whattt

  • @alezandradavila2581
    @alezandradavila2581 Před 2 lety +30

    I don’t judge it’s mainly a mental health issue

    • @silkoakranchpitchforkranch1205
      @silkoakranchpitchforkranch1205 Před rokem +3

      That’s the bs excuse sure. But it doesn’t matter. He is capable to flip burgers

    • @zeethree
      @zeethree Před rokem +2

      It's mainly an economic issue that is causing mental health problems. 50% are living this way now. Happening in America and Europe.

    • @nicholasselke5214
      @nicholasselke5214 Před 11 měsíci +1

      Why the sudden spike in mental health issues? Sure, there are some legitimate cases, but most people use that line as an excuse to be lazy. My own generation does this all the damn time
      If you have a legitimate mental health issue, it’s your responsibility to get that addressed. Don’t use it as a reason to be lazy

    • @llamapartyy
      @llamapartyy Před 2 měsíci

      ​@@nicholasselke5214 it's not an excuse? like the whole point of acknowledging that it's a mental health issue is not to make excuses, but to realize your faults and make steps towards independence.

  • @lordsidious83
    @lordsidious83 Před rokem +9

    Look its not ideal, but many many places in the world have parents and children living together till all ages. I cant speak for the states but here at home there is a major housing crises that you hear off every day, owing your own home is a dream. Especially now with the cost of living!

    • @jon6309
      @jon6309 Před 10 měsíci +3

      I think it really depends. There is a difference between adult children who work full time and live semi-autonomous lives versus adult children who don’t work at all and have no aspiration to financially better themselves but to heavily rely on their parents to get things done.

  • @JohnMurphy-mx7pd
    @JohnMurphy-mx7pd Před 4 měsíci +2

    Day a person begins to become an adult is the day they move out of their parents home .

  • @janellemora1728
    @janellemora1728 Před 2 lety +15

    I'm wondering if this guy has depression. Sleeping until 2 in the afternoon is simply not normal. Maybe what he needs is a good therapist.

    • @hughgraham6587
      @hughgraham6587 Před rokem +5

      He's just lazy. Living the good life at expense of aged parents. There should be a law that if they live like that for two years, that gives the right for parents to contact the state to retrieve the worthless cruff and harvest their organs for transplant. That way, they would have made a contribution to humanity

    • @quv2035
      @quv2035 Před rokem +8

      ​@@hughgraham6587Dude that is dark asf

    • @swolfe9668
      @swolfe9668 Před rokem +1

      It's perfectly normal when you stay up til after midnight or your sitting around feeling sorry for yourself Because life hasn't gone your way

    • @zeethree
      @zeethree Před rokem +1

      Where do you find a good therapist when you have no money? I've gone through 6 in the past year. They are terrible. It's basically SSRI or learn to code. There I saved you $10K. Now your wouldbe therapist can live with their parents too.

    • @swolfe9668
      @swolfe9668 Před rokem

      He's lazy and entitled, he's been allowed to get away with it and using it to his advantage, stop saying it's mental health

  • @bmoshareholderappleshareho855
    @bmoshareholderappleshareho855 Před 3 měsíci +2

    I have to work 72 works per week or else my bills will not get paid. So, forgive me if I cannot sympathize.

  • @donovanvanderwath2787
    @donovanvanderwath2787 Před 2 lety +17

    I hate it when Dr.phill tells these ppl why dont you just move out like its so easy to get a nice flat that doesnt cost twice your sallary.

  • @erich84502b
    @erich84502b Před 7 měsíci +4

    😅😂parents don't let your children do this after 21

  • @J_NYC
    @J_NYC Před 2 lety +5

    "THAT IS NOT OK"!!!!!!

  • @pauletterichards4755
    @pauletterichards4755 Před 2 měsíci +1

    I don’t mind my adult child being at home as long has they are working and contributing

  • @bumpasaurus487
    @bumpasaurus487 Před 3 lety +16

    A little more on the old guys side? Cmon now dr Phil, you’re almost the same age as him. Dr Phil was about 65 when this was taped, so not even 10 years younger.

  • @prophecyrevelations5653
    @prophecyrevelations5653 Před 4 měsíci +3

    This video was 9 years ago & I bet he's STILL not working 😂

    • @hzq-yg8bj
      @hzq-yg8bj Před měsícem

      I’m willing to bet he’s treated like garbage at every job he’s worked at, otherwise why would someone go out of their way to avoid getting a job for years

    • @rahuldahoob
      @rahuldahoob Před 12 dny

      ​@@hzq-yg8bjhis father and mother were 74 a decade ago... They might be dead by now!!

    • @DefKiller90
      @DefKiller90 Před 8 dny

      ​@@rahuldahoob he's probably homeless 😢

  • @Tiger_Woods
    @Tiger_Woods Před 8 měsíci +4

    Everyone always have excuses 😂😂😂

  • @kylemonkiewicz2803
    @kylemonkiewicz2803 Před rokem +4

    When am 40 am going to tell my kid stay with me as long as you like. Duck Dr Phil

    • @williammathis6044
      @williammathis6044 Před rokem +1

      How, pray tell. If you wait till you are 35 till finally get out on your own. Or are you planning to “inherent” the house Someone ELSE worked and earned.

    • @zeethree
      @zeethree Před rokem +1

      ​@@williammathis6044There is no other reasonable way to get a house today. Would be dumb to buy for 90% of people.

  • @doloresmartinezortega4822
    @doloresmartinezortega4822 Před 5 měsíci +1

    It's not their fault. We've always blamed young people for their situation. But this system offers no future for this generation. What's happening nowadays has never happened in the past.

  • @chrisaida123
    @chrisaida123 Před 10 měsíci +2

    I am disabled with fresh broken bones bleeding in my insides my grown son the youngest 25 yrs old don't care about my situation he won't help me when I'm calling for help it's scarey

  • @KapilSingh-f6d
    @KapilSingh-f6d Před 10 měsíci +1

    Dr. Phil is just an actor playing a role!

  • @JamesVestal-dz5qm
    @JamesVestal-dz5qm Před 29 dny

    I love how Dr. Phil is sexually motivated to educate society about adult men living at their parents houses, and other grown men who moved out at 18 and paid their own way love it!

    • @rahuldahoob
      @rahuldahoob Před 19 dny

      Sexually?!?!

    • @JamesVestal-dz5qm
      @JamesVestal-dz5qm Před 19 dny

      @@rahuldahoob Yeah. 60 year old men who are thinking about their retirement are often sexually motivated to punish 30 year old men who live at their parents houses. It's a generational thing, the perception of man children and the idea that young men living at their parents houses deserve to be sexually violated.

  • @podsmpsg1
    @podsmpsg1 Před 3 lety +28

    Easy for a millionaire like Dr. Phil to say.

    • @michaelramone9262
      @michaelramone9262 Před 3 lety +17

      He worked hard for it though.... stupid comment, just like the people who complain about Jeff Bezos.

    • @podsmpsg1
      @podsmpsg1 Před 3 lety +1

      @@paulgeorge3517 true.

    • @podsmpsg1
      @podsmpsg1 Před 3 lety +1

      @@michaelramone9262 true.

    • @MoneyMan28
      @MoneyMan28 Před 3 lety +3

      He was homeless

    • @sixstanger00
      @sixstanger00 Před 3 lety

      @@michaelramone9262 Jeff Bezos doesn't "work" for anything he has now. The workers dying in his warehouses make his fortune for him.

  • @Circlecirclecirclecirclecirclo

    My old man just left for another family when I was 16 made it easy for me to be independent

  • @justfree6213
    @justfree6213 Před 2 měsíci +1

    These coddling comments making excuses for a man who can work and see a therapist to manage a supposed depression. Many people do it! Had he not had living parents he would be working. Even when they pass away and he gets their home, a job is needed to pay the mortgage and other bills.

  • @janghardy
    @janghardy Před rokem +4

    That is not ok.. man up

  • @chandrahakim6632
    @chandrahakim6632 Před rokem +1

    Damn not calling buddy old id be like damn I’m on my way out

  • @glitch200
    @glitch200 Před rokem +4

    NEETs rise up!
    All work is slavery.

  • @afox15101
    @afox15101 Před 6 měsíci +1

    How did they afford to be on the show 😂

  • @petecakes-rm9go
    @petecakes-rm9go Před 2 měsíci +1

    What Dr Phil don't realize 70% of the aging process happens in one sleep. I think he knows that so I don't understand why he's telling the older he as should be sleeping till 2 pm.Unless he wants him dead.

  • @rasbighigh5146
    @rasbighigh5146 Před 9 měsíci

    The mother ran off and has done nothing so that forces the father to be mother and father but can't even sign his name on the lease to put his kids in a home the cost of living is three times higher than what it used to be what's your explanation to solve that

  • @FamilyHistoriandude
    @FamilyHistoriandude Před rokem +2

    She failed as a mommy.

  • @DoctorRickSanchez
    @DoctorRickSanchez Před 3 lety +15

    I wonder how old he is... looks to be 30.

    • @StarShapedHopes
      @StarShapedHopes Před 3 lety +8

      He is 37

    • @swolfe9668
      @swolfe9668 Před rokem

      He's lazy and entitled and mooching off his parents

    • @zeethree
      @zeethree Před rokem +6

      At 37 he was just ahead of the curve. Poor guy got shamed on TV for something common today. I'm sure that helped his mental health.
      Let me tell you when you're a 37 year old with no career living with parents your self esteem doesn't need any more holes poked in it. I guarantee whatever was going on in his head was far worse than any insults people want to hurl.

  • @602ent3
    @602ent3 Před měsícem

    I feel bad for his parents I hope that he at least helps with chores around the house.

    • @rahuldahoob
      @rahuldahoob Před 14 dny

      This is from a decade ago. The parents may well be dead!!

  • @johannak9064
    @johannak9064 Před 2 měsíci

    Dr Phil, its easy to say than do I can’t trow my son out and forget about him no God

  • @rasbighigh5146
    @rasbighigh5146 Před 9 měsíci

    So what about the criminal raising three kids working 120 hours a week but can buy a home because he can't file to buy a home because of domestic charges stemming from the mother

  • @cuzzohh2768
    @cuzzohh2768 Před 6 měsíci

    Dr. Phil doesn't offer like any solutions and also literally doesn't even ask like... WHY? Why is he sleeping til 2pm and obviously depressed?

  • @kmc1steelers998
    @kmc1steelers998 Před 2 měsíci

    This is NOT a laughing matter, if something happens to his parents he would be left in the world F%IU%% up, and he will be unprepared with reality of life. Insurance $, most people leave behind will run out quickly with him not working , and no other savings. To me enabling a child is child abuse. He think he has depression now, he really will if he had no help and facing homelessness like so many. I have a 21 year old traveling and working in tourism, he still a younging and doing it, and this FULL GROWN man can't come on..

  • @nathansorrells7131
    @nathansorrells7131 Před měsícem

    It’s called……. I am a lazy pice

  • @666dynomax
    @666dynomax Před rokem +1

    Dr Phil is so cool.

  • @janghardy
    @janghardy Před rokem

    Time to grow up. Yikes I married a man that still has his 29 year old only child living at home. She works 4 days a week. He works 60 plus hours a week . I take care of all household responsibilities.yard work ect .. it drives me crazy’s 2:59

    • @zeethree
      @zeethree Před rokem

      There's not really an incentive to work hard anymore now that we realize homes, children, retirement are unobtainable. Seems smarter to just coast and enjoy the family you have today because there won't be any family in the future for us.
      Your husband works hard because he got to have wife, child, and home. Not sure if it was worth it to him, but at least he had an incentive. Why would you work 60 hours if you could never afford that stuff?

    • @DoctorRickSanchez
      @DoctorRickSanchez Před rokem

      _And how old are you? You're definitely not under 49 lmao._

  • @russiantroubleyakutsk1612

    “You are stuck” 😅

  • @ctgeorgia
    @ctgeorgia Před 3 měsíci

    ...I learned nothing from this video other than Dr Phil humiliated the guy (he deserved it).
    However, what I was hoping to learn was what the outcome was and how did they get this young guy to develop some self esteem and get motivated to gain his independence???

    • @sandysmith71
      @sandysmith71 Před 2 měsíci +1

      You don’t need self esteem to work a job . Depression can get better when you are doing something that makes you feel like you are contributing to society. He needs to get a job even if it’s just a job at 7-11 that’s the only way to get somewhere is to start .

  • @nosnitchpolicy1949
    @nosnitchpolicy1949 Před rokem +1

    You people? What do mean by, you people?

  • @joseangelsandoval911
    @joseangelsandoval911 Před 2 lety +2

    Lol. Lazy!!!!!!!!! Get up.

  • @jasongoodwin2489
    @jasongoodwin2489 Před 3 lety

    25th