@@BeautifulDelights951 Maybe it's because he knew people would hate Godly people. I had a situation where my son would skip school and smoke drug with his girlfriend. I told my wife he shouldn't do that and she pretty much wouldn't say anything to him about it. My wife and his girlfriend got into an argument in my front yard and the boat called the cops on my wife and lied that my wife hit her. Fast forward 3yrs later my wife hangs out with them but I won't have anything to do with her. We are at separate ends of it cuz I detest the girlfriend
@@jukejoint523jordan6 Sorry to hear about your situation. It's a tricky dynamic parents and children. I wonder if we put more emphasis on our marriages, and spouses work together, then maybe parents can handle and guide their children better. The relationship between a mother and her children is always different to that of the father and the children, both are still needed. It's hard, not easy.
A Message to Parents! God sees your tears and knows your disappointment! He feels your pain and understands and knows the sacrifices you made for your children! He knows how it feels because we disrespected God and dishonored him in our lives, but yet He forgave us…🙌🏽✨🙌🏽 And as heart wrenching as it can be sometimes to listen to their complaints and disrespect… He wants us to continue to pray for them …lay them at the feet of Jesus and forgive them… “For they know not what they do” God forgave us… We must forgive our children! 🙏🏽
Soooo……. We just gonna leave out the part of the Bible that says for parents to not provoke children. That’s why there’s going to be billions of parents pushed into the lake of fire because you think you have a free pass- when the majority of us got here via fornication anyway. Most of you are gonna be surprised that God is no respect of persons as soon as the flames touch your feet
Thank you so much Pastor Creflo Dollar..My name is Lisandra and I am from Papua New Guinea..I always disrespect my old widow mother..your message has changed me completely.. please pray for me coz as of today ..I will honor my mother and take care of her as long as she lives..
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Dear San Lee , ask her for forgiveness on your knees as a sign of RESPECT. Gift her and show her LOVE even if she doesnt return it , do your part according to God. You will live long! This is the only commandment with a promise.
My mom is toxic and plays the people in her family against each other. When I was in my 30s I had to pull way back from her and I prayed and studied the word and God showed me how to set boundaries and still be in respectful honoring relationship with her. It has to be very surface and is not a deep rich relationship but I am able to honor her
Your duty is to respect her regardless. One of my nieces parents were strung out on crack. They never disrespected their parents. Same for me and mine discarded me. I didn't want to die young like like my disrespectful dad. You don't answer to your parents, you answer to God. So be careful. Pray and ask God to help you.
My two adult sons ages 20 and 25. He has described them 💯. Don't appreciate nothing or listen. I went through teenage parent trauma. I'm at peace in my home now. I asked them to leave.
My dear daddy, a man who truly loved the Lord,his wife and children, passed away when I was in college. My dear mother passed away in my arms. All the love and sacrafices my loving parents made for me. God blessed me to take such care of my mom. She passed away at age 92 in my arms. All is well with me because of how I honored and took care of my mom. Today, I want for nothing and I have a long good life ahead!!!Thank you Jesus...
HONOR IS RECOGNIZING WHO QUALIFIES FOR YOUR UNDIVIDED ATTENTION. HUMILITY IS THE ABSENCE OF SELF. HUMILITY IS THE GARMENT OR CLOAK OF GREATNESS. HUMILITY PRECEDES HONOR.
My husband and I sacrificed and did without to save enough for both daughters to go to college. They both graduated and got great jobs. They have no college debt, and both married and own homes. As each daughter turned 30 they turned their back on us. Now my husband has cancer, and they have abandoned us. I have two grandsons, and the youngest I have never met. It breaks our hearts. Both my husband and I respected and cared for our parents. My Dad called me every morning, and I cherish the memories of those calls. Our girls grew up with all their grandparents in their lives. I see that this is widespread. I lift up those parents whose adult children have turned their backs on them. God Bless them!
I am so sorry you and your husband are going through this. My adult daughters drive past me to go to their dad's. He and I weren't perfect parents by any means but I turned my life around while he steals from them and uses them. I don't understand it. I'm finding too that there's a lot of estrangement in families. Not just families like mine either. I'm terribly sorry. I feel all the pain of these parents reading these comments. I will always love my children but they can hurt you so bad. I pray that your husband is doing better and you have found a way to fill that void in your lives. God bless you and keep you.
They didn’t turn their back on you, theh felt u simply weren’t somebody that was worth having around due to your character & behaviors . People of advanced age playing victim and not taking accountability for why others don’t want to mess with them is sad
This is the teaching that’s needed!! Parents are suffering and being emotionally abused and manipulated by their children who are disrespectful and refuse to see the sacrifices their parents have made!
This goes both ways. Every week you turn on the TV a family has left this earth at the hands of other family members. Also a lot of parents are absent. If something isn't healthy you don't force it.
LMFAO ! Parents don’t make sacrifices. Hopping in bed then doing what you’re legally required to do isn’t a “sacrifice”. Parents aren’t abused by kids - power dynamics don’t even work like that. You all make spotting the Narc parents so easy . Kudos to your children for not putting up with the BS . Kids don’t need to see what u needed to do as a result of u not using protection
@@Bb-jm6wxyou are clueless! There are a few bad parents but most work hard for their babies & sacrifice everything only to see self entitled children NEVER GROW UP & REMAIN IMMATURE!
@@Solidrock-jq6rp there aren’t a few bad ones, there’s a host of bad ones. I’m not clueless, the ones defending abusers are. The fact that the word “sacrifice” was used is a giveaway of a bad parent , all that was sacrificed was condom use. And bad parents are the emotionally immature ones, by definition. Can’t even take accountability for their actions and behaviors and wonder why nobody wants to deal with them. They don’t work hard for their babies. They treat them like crap and are selfish and do what they want to do and neglect em. Bad Parents are the self entitled ones , parents owe the kids everything & kids don’t owe their parents a thing. The parent effed and brought the kids here, not the other way around .
Yes, and whose causing it? The same people God told to not provoke their children- y’all will find out when y’all are getting pushed into the lake of fire for disobeying God, because 98% of you all got pregnant by way of fornication, and think God is going to let it slide because you got knocked up during the process.
This has been a painful truth in my life. I wondered what I'd done to cause it, I knew in my heart that I had done my best. God knows, and I know. I don't claim to be perfect but I loved and provided for them. Taught them to have faith in God, wisdom and knowledge. Then they just "turned" on me like I was an enemy! My faith comforts me and I pray God's mercy on them. To abandon a parent in their senior years is heartless. I pray for myself too, that my heart doesn't grow bitter. Thanks for speaking on this sir. It's an epidemic today.
Thank You Pastor Creflo. I had 7 children. I lost my oldest in 2019 from suicide, but my wife and I raised all seven of them together. My 3 oldest were from a ex girlfriend, but we got custody of them when they were really young. Now I will be the first to say that I am not the best, but I tried my best to be a father. I went over 30 years without seeing my father, but I loved him all the same. None of my children have been in trouble with the law. Five have graduated High School. Two have graduated college and 3 in the military. I may have been a little hard, but I know as young black children growing up without a lot of means you have to work harder. Still my oldest adult children can be so disrespectful to me and my wife. It really hurts sometimes, especially knowing how much we've sacrificed and been through to get them where they are
AMEN AMEN, BROTHER, I'M GOING TO THE #SAME THING WITH MY #2 OLDEST DAUGHTER. I HAD THEM #EXTREMELY YOUNG AND I #SACRIFICED MY LIFE 2 #NURTURE AND #RAISE THEM #HOW GOD SAID 2 RAISE THEM UP😇🙏
I understand, that ungrateful, mindless behavior all to well..but God has our back...what they do will cone back to them..As the same for us with are parents. My father died when I was 11,and my mom was what she should have been,and at times its hard to deal with her,but I still respect her,I haven't talk to her in a few months cause I'm done on hard times but I love my mom and will take care of her when she needs me
@@maureenbolden8451 may be, but I was raised in the Church by my grandmother. My dad wasn't around and my mom was not all there. Still I could never distract neither of them. I was taught a disrespectful child's days are numbered. Plus I had a very religious grandmother with a heavy hand. She firmly believed in if you spare the rod you spoil the child. Maybe I should have taken more of her approach, but I did raise my children in the Church. Kids these days are just so uncanny in their life these days
Young adults know disrespect there parents and grandparents the more you do for them the more they disrespect you. PRAY 🙏 FOR ME. I agree 100 precent with the pastor.
Praying n Jesus name..It gets better going through alot with grown meth addict son...Its one of the most hurtful evil&stupid you have ever know! Help all Father God remember me & husband n Jesus name..ty praise u
Amen! Alleluia 🙏 Yes, i think the disrespect and dishonor that adult children show today to their parents is a sign of their disrespect and lack of love for God.
@@romniejones1004 Actually, the Bible does speak of parents respecting children just as it instructs children to honor their parents. There is an often ignored scripture which reads, "Fathers, do not provoke your children to wrath....".
@@tincredible yea but it doesn’t mention a consequence and one is not always because of the other sometimes parents don’t really do anything wrong and the child is just an ungrateful brat.
When I was 12 years old I saw my aunt disrespect my grandmother on numerous occasions, I resented her for it. I’m 57 and it’s still fresh in my mind. My grandmother was a wonderful person in my eyes, I don’t care what mistakes she may have made. My aunt had no right to mis treat her.
She probably did have a right to treat her like that. And every action isn’t a mistake . I can already see the low accountability in this comment . A “mistake” is something done on accident. The definition of “mistake” doesn’t apply to bad things someone does on purpose , so stop misusing the word that way
These words are so true.I have a daughter that fights me and curse me out and I'm letting her and her kids live in my house, because she can't live with none of her so called friends 😮💨😥
The best thing you can do is to get her out of your house as the disrespect will only grow as she will only continue to take advantage of you & disrespect you as long as she is staying there & being taken care of.
OMG! He just described my son. He is the ONLY Human thus Far who Actually is Telling this Truth in the Media. Everyone else is Telling the Parents to Pray, Love, Forgive basically ACCEPT This Unacceptable Behavior from our Children. Please Keep TELLING Mr. Creflo what Society FEFUSE to say and do. I HEAR U. Thank u!
I still love my daughter and I will always pray for her and my grandchildren; however I have given up on wanting a relationship with her. Lord knows I've been through it,but now I'm at peace.
I stop watching Pastor Dollar a long time ago, but I’m going through exactly what he’s talking about here & a friend of mine who knows my situation sent me this message & I was blown away. Pastors don’t talk/preach about this enough in this era & children are going crazy, not good. Thank you Pastor Dollar for this was a explosive WORD 💣
He is definitely telling the truth. Amen Amen. My 45 yr old son needs to listen to this. I haven't seen him in 12-13 yrs. He holding something against me and I have ask what is it? He always say I am not holding anything against you. I call him more than he calls me. I put him in the hands of YAHWEH. I have apologized for any wrong doing if I did anything etc. He text pictures but that's not the same as in real person. I love my son and always will be here for him if he needs me. All Praises to YAH in the name of YASHUA HAMASHIACH.
Thank you pastor these messages are not preached anymore children are just on rampage. So rude and disrespectful even 13years old talking back wanting to do as they please and expect you not to ask questions but still buy things for them andvery demanding. Oh the tik tok sexual dances they dance😭
Thank you Pastor Dollar for this message. My mom poisoned me with antifreeze and I still love and honor her. I'm still in pain from what she did, both emotional and physical pain, but I know that God is consoling me. My children disrespect me, because of what my mom did to me, and one of my children said that they don't care what she did to me. I'm not worried though. Some children will say anything when they just naturally don't like authority. I'm just glad God is Omnipotent, Omniscient and Omnipresent, because he's my witness.
My mother raised us to honor and respect parents and uncles and aunts and grandparents. Today I’m so glad I was obedient and obeyed her. This next generation what a mess. So very sad for them.
@@goldenhouse1537 yes because you’re 20s is when and where you learn about life and when you learn how you were treated badly the entire time. They realized they were brainwashed their entire childhood. Look in the mirror 🪞!
My soon to be 17 year old daughter is extremely disrespectful towards me. She had me go to jail over her false allegations. I promise once she is 18 she is getting out of my house forever.
It's taught behavior. They're teaching our children phrases like "I don't feel safe at home" in schools. I worked in both law and social Services-I tried to warn people about cashing in on our kids, dividing them away from parents back in the 1990s I'm the only white blue-eyed parents in the family, the marriage was based on the wealth I had & taken away and these ungrateful children came back from college calling me "N.az.i." Human brain is not fully formed until 26 years old-I beg you to protect yourself, but do not ban your daughter from your life. She's going to need you more than ever.
Angels stop believing that bs about a damn adult brain not being developed until age of 26. So why was our great grandparents…grandparents and parents married before 20 raisiing a family..working jobs..saving and providing. That’s a bunch of bs and that’s why these fully grown adults take advantage of these silly parents in the good old USA. If your daughter is like that at 17 and no respect put her arze out before we hear about you on the news.
Imagine disrespect..to the point of a grown child adult, jumping in you're face..to the point you feel the heat from their breath,🔥. Nothing can compare to this." So trust me ..first hand , I know.🙏"
Yes my grown kids turned on me and encouraged their friends to do so as well... they think that because they are grow we are equal! I'm just trusting the Lord at his word!
@Stacy Palmer, if by "equal" you mean they realized they have the same legal rights you do, then they are correct. They ARE equal in that regard. this doesn't mean they shouldn't show you courtesy; without a doubt, they should do that, and should remember to ask themselves how Jesus would perceive (1) what they are saying and (2) how they are saying it. But let's not confuse being entitled to respect and courtesy with being entitled to unquestioned obedience, and let's not forget that just as our children should be courteous and respectful to us, we owe them the same and should be courteous and respectful to them, too, even when we sharply disagree with what they have decided to do with themselves and their time. Being told no by your kids when you are having a hard time coming to terms with the fact that actually, they CAN do things without your permission or approval is one of the hardest things that we parents have to learn to live with once that 18th birthday comes around. Watching them (temporarily in many cases) make decisions that we think are not going to turn out well, or which show rejection of biblical values and acceptance of worldliness, is painful. But ultimately, it is their right to do so, and our responsibility as parents to quietly bind their minds and ours too to the mind of Christ, loosing from both of us any stronghold that cause us to hang onto wrong thoughts, attitudes, desires, and behaviors. It is our responsibility to ask the Lord to remove from our children the effects of mistakes we made in the process of raising them and in the way that we have interacted with them as adults. This is the kind of prayer that too many parents have too much pride to ever utter. Defensiveness rises up and we justify ourselves with, "I was a great mom/dad", "I sacrificed so much for that child", "I did the best I could", etc. The reality is that some days your best may have been superb, but other days, your best wasn't that great or may not at all have been what should have happened at the moment. Letting go of defensiveness and pride, and being willing to pray this kind of a prayer, is liberating and becomes life giving and life changing in troubled relationships. Early on, the words you choose speak volumes to your child about the degree to which you (the parent) submit yourself to Christ and model that submission to Christ. It's so easy, so tempting, and so common to day, "Do it because I said to do it. I'm the parent and I make the rules." Are you the parent? Of course. But compare this statement to, "Do it because the rule in this house is that we live to please Christ. We can see in the book of Ephesians chapter 4 that God tells his people to avoid coarse jesting ad obscenity. We are his people, which means we must avoid those things. We can see in the book of Joshua chapter 7 that sin done in secret by one person has a negative effect on the whole group. Your actions can have a negative effect on the rest of us here. Because God gave me this house, he expects me and those that he placed here to live in agreement with his word. So, thus and so is the rule, and if we want to die in right standing with God, we're going to have to all follow that rule. It's for me just as much as it's for you." God is ALWAYS going to have authority over us. But you're not always going have the legal right to be in authority over your child. If your relationship is based on dominating and exercising your authority, you won't have much of a basis for a relationship once somebody's 18th birthday says you don't have that authority any more. On the other hand, if your model of authority demonstrates an obedience to a God whose authority will never end, then as the child matures, not only are they obedient to you, but you are also discipling them into lifelong obedience to Christ. Does this mean they are guaranteed to never make a stupid decision, rebel, or be disobedient? No. At times, young, middle aged, and older adults make stupid decisions and rebel against God. If you have raised them showing that your own authority is simultaneously an act of submission to Christ, then you will have trained them up in the way they should go, and in those moments of them seeming to have lost their minds, you can continue to speak the word over them that when they are old, they will not depart from the Lord's ways. And again, I call to mind the fact that not even the best parent modeled submission to Christ perfectly 100% of the time; there are times our children saw us do things we shouldn't have, or speak using words we shouldn't have, or heard songs or watched movies or videos that did not glorify the Lord and which made sin look cool, glam, and fun. That is why is is so important to ditch our pride and ask the Lord to remove from our children the effects of mistakes we made.
Thank you Pastor for the Word of encouragement...my husband and I are looking after my mom and my mother in law...I can truly say it is an honor looking and caring for them...sometimes it's not that easy..but is the right thing to do...God is just amazing
I finally found a message that really hits home! I have a daughter 37 a son 31 who I have adored and spent every dime they ask for, only to be called vile names. My daughters seen her mother disrespect me. She now has 3 granddaughter she has lied to and now they said I hate my paw paw .She stood in my face and lied with accusations that were not true. My son is a police officer who has called me such vile names that I do not dare repeat. How can he respect the public when he can't respect his own father? Yet their mother my ex-wife has drilled it in their heads that I am no good other than an ATM machine. I know in my heart and every fiber of my body I was a great dad and father. This all started when I turned my life over to my Savior Jesus Christ. This is the work of satan himself. God knows my pain; He knows the truth!
AMERICAN PATRIOT the enemy are not your children or ex wife. They are being used by demons to destroy the family unit. I would advise you first to ask the Holy Spirit to help you forgive them ALL totally first so God can help you. GOD can not forgive us or listen to our prayers with unforgiveness. Also pray for your children and Ex wife. They are under the enemies bondage and are being used to destroy the family you have. Please take this seriously and watch God Bless you and change your family. He will do it once you seek HIM and remember as a believer you have spiritual authority over your seed. That is GOD given PRAY for them daily. Spend time with God in prayer daily and watch the Almighty move! Your pain will be turned to joy. I have the DEVIL passionately !!
It's o.k. brother ! . . Your "NOT" alone ! . The truth "ALWAYS" wins ! In this world or the next the truth will come out for everyone to hear ! . . . ✝️
I wholeheartedly agree with this message. That’s why I stayed loving and honouring my mother who still abuses me! Who has always abandoned and rejected me. I still care for her health and everything but I’m literally dead inside. I know no other life … I wonder what her punishment will be for doing this to me? What was it the Bible said: Parents Lay Up for Your Children, Parents do not discourage / drive your children to Wrath.
So sorry you were abused Pamela 😢 God is going to bless you big time because you did what he would have done, rather than doing what you wanted to do. Love bears all things, love changes hearts 💕 you keep up the good work and you will reap what you sow ( good seeds and good fruits). Stay strong 💪 ❤
Your life sounds as if you were me I have lived the same life abandoned by my mother raised by my grandmother and have been on my own since as long as I can remember but when I was baptized at age 32 years old the Holy Spirit showed me that demon that had my mother the drugs she was using she was not capable of raising me and my sisters so she gave me to the one that she knew that would love me and raise me until the woman that I am today I do not hate her I love her all the more but I just want to let you know you are a blessed individual God sees your hurt and your pain and by you being honorable to your mother God will bless you as long as you live
7/10/22: I stopped watching Creflo years ago, but this caught my attention. It is so on point and needed, he is speaking truth about dishonoring parents.
Im going to ask my parents for forgiveness. I had been extremely disrespectful to them and I need to apologize big time for the things I’ve done and said. I know I’ve done wrong to them but I will make amends for all the horrible things that I’ve done. I’m not a Christian nor do I follow any of the Abrahamic faiths but I still agree with this pastor’s message.
It takes a real man to own up to your mistakes,God loves you and He sees the sincerity in your heart. You are loved by God and me. I don't have to know you to love you. Jesus did the exact thing for me,He loved me before i even knew Him. Anil i'm so proud of you,i'm decreeing and declaring totally restoration for you and your family. It was a message you were meant to see. I'm excited for you a healing for your family is taking place!!!
@@charlestine6786 thank you so much, god bless I appreciate it. I’m ready to make amends for all of my wrongs. I’ve been doing good since I’ve repaired my relationship with my parents. Thank you for your kind words, I appreciate it a lot. 🥰🥰🥰
WOW. I’ve been through hell and then some. I’ve been to the point where I seriously doubt myself as a single mother and a provider. When I did all I could do worked 3 jobs and tried my very best to protect them every day. I knew they were blessings to me and I hadn’t done anything to deserve ❤️them. I tried praying 🙏🏾 and I haven’t stopped. My pain is so deep where I’m physically sick when I’m around one of my child. LORD all I desire is peace and my adult child to change their mindset and give there live to Jesus. Because no matter the pain and disrespect I’ve received from my child. It’s time I seriously don’t know if we every feel that motherly love I once had. I’m BROKEN and yet I love and only want the best. Prayers 🙏🏾
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I wish you well and may Jehovah change your story. It's so sad to stay in a home where there is no peace but exchange of swear words. Really wish you well and the God that parted the red sea for the children of israel may He part your sea in Jesus Christ name
People born during this 1990ish 2000ish generation really wasn’t raised right, and now it’s coming back to bite the parents. A lot of children born during that time had parents who spoiled them and gave them what wanted, because they wanted their children to have what they didn’t have growing up, which made these kids grow up to feel entitled. Which made them unable to except no for and answer. A lot of parents wanted to be their child’s friend and not be a parent.
@@Proverbspsalms Train wreck is so true. I’m dealing with my 19 year old stepson that is so entitled because his mom treated him like he’s a king,that’s her only child. My husband is laid back on correcting his behavior but I’m the bad guy.
@@anatachasimeon2529 that’s crazy. Hope he gets it together. And creflo has got to be the cause of his own arrest when that situation happened with his daughter. These people preach a false gospel- so i can’t even say they don’t practice what they preach.
@@anatachasimeon2529 that’s crazy. Hope he gets it together. And creflo has got to be the cause of his own arrest when that situation happened with his daughter. These people preach a false gospel- so i can’t even say they don’t practice what they preach.
One of my grandsons is getting married this weekend. He did not invite his mother, me or his great grandmother (my mother) even though for the little my mother gets in social security she gave him a place to sleep, food, and wanted WIFI to use his cell phone, but never contributed a dime even though he worked. He was being spoiled terribly. I did not approve of how he behaved many times. And I challenged him. The bum could have at least helped pay some of the bills he incurred. His mother and great grandmother defended him. And he snubbed them both. I can understand he did not invite me, I would not have gone anyway. But my daughter and my mother do not deserve this. They did so much for him. Their feelings are hurt. They didn't expect this kind of treatment. I was not surprised, I know he's a taker, not a giver, so my feelings were not hurt. I feel bad for his new wife, she doesn't know what's coming. He never introduced her to us for a reason.
This is good. Preach this on 9:00 am show on TV .young people need to hear this , this help parents it terrible these children . Cuss you out, try to fight you
@@AngJones-di6wgbeing born 😂 no child plays a part, parents of today don’t take accountability for their parenting skills . They sleep around then blame the child
Amen ‼️My children try to talk to me like I'm stupid 🤬 I raised you so you can be all you can be because of me working myself down for you to have a wonderful life
This is the part where i say to people regarding my parents, especially my mother .... For everything, she's still my mom. Am Catholic and have sincerely had to start making confessions for all my own past disrespect. So grateful God gave me opportunity to make right on so many issues
What is underneath the "disrespect" of parents? Pain? Maybe listen and have empathy. Yes, demand respect but give them the grace to express their pain. Respect does go both ways.
That's not always why these kids in this generation disrespect parents.THEY THINK THEY KNOW MORE,THEY DONT WANT TO FOLLOW RULES,AND GET MAD WHEN TOLD ANYTHING NO MATTER HOW NICE AND RESPECTFUL ITS SAID..THEY TALK SMART,ROLL EYES WHEN TOLD ABOUT HARD WORD INTEGRITY AND GOOD MORALS...SO NO I DONT AGREE WITH YOU BECAUSE IM LIVING IT...AND I REFUSE TO BE DISRESPECTED IN MY HOUSE BY SOMEONE WHO HAS NEVER HAD TO GO THROUGH ANYTHING, HAS BEEN WELL TAKEN CARE OF AND HAD THE BEST...THAT WILL CAUSE A GOOD PARENT TO GO OFF...AND ANYBODY RUNNING THERE MOUTH ABOUT RESPECTING A DUSRESPECTFUL KID OF ANY AGE CAN HAVE SEVERAL SEATS,BECAUSE THAT MINDSET IS APART OF THE PROBLEM!!!
When we hear this scripture, we always associate it with younger children, teens and even though that pertains to those age groups, I'm glad that someone is telling the truth of the matter. My God, Thank you cause I have a sibling who is disrespectful towards our dad. They just don't know, smh...
I too just thought it applied to young children. I do not understand when adults treat their parents so bad. And if you dont like your parents.. YOU ARE GROWN so you CAN LEAVE your parents alone and move on.
I hate this present world. I’ve lived this with my eldest daughter and it’s a pain that’s so grievous. The spirit of narcissism and entitled are rampant. The spirit of this world tells them from a young age that they don’t have to give respect to anyone but they want respect from everyone. My daughter said I Will get respect from when I give it to her. Thinking they can yell, character assassinate and curse then demand respect ???? They lost their minds. My heart hurts knowing how many parents are feeling this heart break right now.. The audacity of these grown kids to think it’s ok to dishonor their parents and it’s not going to have consequences? They’ve got a rude awakening coming. It’s gonna hit hard when these precious grandkids grow up and treat them the same. Only then will they understand the pain they’ve inflicted but by then it may be to late to make amends. It’s so sad.
Let’s not forget about don’t provoke your children to wrath! Let’s not be one sided! Don’t disrespect children cuz that’s where the parents blessings come from.
It's is up to God to punish the parents, not the children. Rebuke not an elder. Most are overindulge entitled brats who want their parents to continue to take care of them until they are dead! All of these parents are not provoking these demon seeds.
Thank you so much for this message . I would NEVER dream of treating my parents the way my 3 children treat me . I made my mistakes , however, the schols had a big hand in their attitudes
Thank you. I needed to hear this. I have 3 two who disrespect me, and my daughter doesn't even talk to me it hurts . I saw on her in store yesterday that she totally avoided me, which was a knife in my side, but yet she posted things on Facebook and Instagram asking and praying to God
I protect my elderly. I have been hurt, treated poorly but I have forgiven. I have come to realize I will never receive the approval I seek. I pray and do my best. The Lord gives me grace and strength.
I have 4 children I raised them alone most of their lives. Guided, protected, prayed for, encouraged sent to college, and went without so many things working and trying to keep food on the table while their preacher father ran with women and lived as he pleased (no moral or financial support- two of them (both with Master's degrees) and in their early forties are mean, disrespectful, and now absent for years because their mother was so awful. One of them thought she should be able to call me a b*tch encouraged by a white secular therapist (I am a Black woman, not happening) There is a grandchild I will never meet. Initially, I was confused and deeply hurt...after so many years of abuse and slander, I let it go. I embraced the other two who love and respect me, who honor me and know the truth and I have to admit joy came back into my life. I love the two who are absent, I pray for them but I no longer miss them. I have been healed. I gave it to God.
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Such a timely message! He’s right that a monumental amount of children have gladly taken all their parents lovingly gave & sacrificed for them, only to be snubbed and lied about and publicly humiliated as these punks now cry on social media to anyone who will listen about how bad their parents were🙄 . It is disgusting and disgraceful and I have no sympathy for them. They have willingly chosen to listen to the lies of Satan, whose goal is to see that they spend eternity in hell. As the Bible puts it, “Thinking themselves wise they became fools . . .” Yep!
@@livefromtheground7274 I did to and I started praying for my Parents as I prayed for myself. Prayed goodness that the Lord clear our minds from haunting thoughts of past hurts. Prayed that the Lord search our hearts and heal the wounded places leaving no place for pain to hide. Prayed when they were feeling sick. Prayed when they leave the house. If A bad thought came to mind Prayed against it with positivity. Quite frankly told the Lorx in complete transparency and he heard my hearts cry IF I have to continue to carry on feeling like this I don't want to be here anymore. The Lord heard me. It took time. He tested the fruits of my lips. And it took time but I learned to speak a little bit gentler. Started shutting down negativity around me and creating a space of peace. Being intentional to engage with my parent and it was awkward coming out of that space I lived in so long but to the Lord be the Glory He laid that path of healing and I walked in it. And when the enemy ( past trauma anger resentment rejection bitterness ) came I spoke against it acknowledged it took two to three years All I can say is be sincere and transparent with the Lord. Complete Honestly. He will walk with you through it to the end.
Yeeees, and that's what it is all about: That lying nasty imp Satan!!!!! Get thee behind me Satan in the name of Yeshua, I fight you in the blood of the lamb!!!!! Good parents, the devil has taken them over; but they WILL pay for disrespecting the Creator and their parents!
@@livefromtheground7274 Me too. It's so painful. No, I was not a perfect mother, but I gave blood, sweat, a n d tears. My son only calls me when he wants something. Now, I'm learning to set boundaries. Now I was physically, emotionally, and abused my my sperm donor. I will NEVER honor him. PERIOD!
Preach! He's telling the truth. We need to touch and agree in prayer for one another concerning this. Strong Christian families is what will bring revival. Let's do it CHURCH!
I use to be disrespectful toward my mother who raised me single handed.After my father passed away. The lord said to me you have no right to be angry if it were not for me you would be the same as her.I had no right to judge her or be angry.This is a good word from Creflo.
I’m learning that if you had Narcissistic, ungrateful and unloving parents. More than likely your children more than likely will mirror the same things to you as well as your spouse. I learned to not take it personally but to value yourself more and love yourself more and go live your life. Don’t even bother. Let them go and let this miss your presence.
That's a fact. I totally agree 100%. Thank you for speaking the truth.🙏🏾💜🙏🏾Please continue to speak on this, because people need to understand the truth will never change. You are preaching and speaking the truth. May God Bless You Always.
I made PEACE with my father for my Soul 3years ago. My oldest son has disrespected me twice in the last 6 years. First time I didn't worry because I knew something was going to happen and it did. He apologized and forgave him and allowed him to be in my space again. 6 months later He was disrespectful Again but I knew it was going to happen. I am no longer speaking with him because according to him myself and my oldest sister are dead to him. I'm doing just fine. Him not so much
Yes I have that problem with my daughter. And she has put that disrespectful attitude. She keeps separations in the family. I have lost my son she also did it with him. But we were healing me and my son. I pray for her all the time and my grandsons.
Thank you and God bless you this word is long long long over do,so true 💯🔥 🙏 on everything, wish every pastor could preach this at the same time one Sunday,LOUD AND CLEAR,, everywhere the children are lost,we need to speak it in our homes all so,
This is so true. The trouble is that other adults in the circle are 1st ones to offer sympathy for the disrespectfull young adult children. And are ready to criticize your patenting and offer things they did not earn so they are friends, but yhey dont realize that that kid would treat them with distain the min the gifts stop.
This is so true. My daughter refused to care for me when I had surgery on my dominant arm. She has lost everything. My other daughter slanders me in front of her children. One of them thought they could make up 3 Rd hand lies about something never said. Now 1 of them is in a vegetative state. I have been so broken. We are in the last days.
Wow it's great to listen and hear the transparency of pastors..you are not speaking on something you yourself didn't go through yourself.... Thanks for sharing and teaching this important message we need desperately to hear this word 🙏
Thank you Pastor Dollar for this Word, Admonishment and Opportunity for us all to self correct and live a better life. God bless you. I pray healing and blessings over your life.
Our moms back in Baltimore MD used to tell us kids."I brought you into this world,and I can take you out of it"!. 🤕🤒😖. God Bless us all and forgive us for creating the monster children we have raised.
Sometimes the fault is not really the children. Some parents are just never meant to be parents. Some don't even deserve respect. I have read some horrible stories in my life of what fathers and mothers do to their kids. We can only give it to God. Some things are just too big for this place we call earth!!!
Regardless to what a parent did it’s best to just not have them in your life rather than disrespect them and get I. Trouble with God. Remember our parents wasn’t always our parents. They had trauma in their lives before we was were born. Forgiveness on both sides is the key!
This is sooooo true. These disrespectful adult children just don’t know that they are on their way to a fiery grave if they do not honor their mother and father.
Let Let- Be encouraged! I know exactly how you feel. When you know that you did your best raising them- & even sometimes messed up- at some point you have to forgive yourself and as the other writer said- “keep rowing “! Again Forgive yourself, and keep it moving. It hurts but we will make it!
Thank you sir!!! Prayerfully this will ring throughout the universe from every pulpit, street speaker & leader with godly boldness & love. Selah! Where's continual teaching of following week
I’m trying to give Creflo Dollar the benefit of the doubt and assume he’s coming from a good place (and also to not hold his own parenting history against him), but this clip highlights a big reason many people end up leaving the Church. So often ministers preach “children obey your parents” and how much is owed to a parent but it is VERY rare that they preach about how to be a good parent. In fact as someone who grew up in the church, I’ve only heard one sermon directed at parents. Dollar’s message can very easily be understood as saying that adult children have an obligation to put up with abuse from their parents. Even if that’s not his intention many abusive parents will take it as such and impart that to their kids.
I bless the Lord for all your services and the word of encouragement to lift me up pray for the lies and the rumors that been placed out against me my child and my grandson and words taken out of content I was up on the warfare thank God I made it all is not quite well but just continue to pray
I'm agree with the message. I pretty sure the sermon was longer than 6 minutes, but they is what I have to base it off of. I hope that the rest of the message also included not provoking your kids to anger. Parents have to ask themselves why their adult children no longer visits them and why they don't bring the grandkids around. Gen. X was told to bottle up their pains and frustrations and my generation have no problem expressing it. It's really difficult honoring parents who don't show honor....BUT WE HONOR THEM ANYWAY. That not an easy road to walk on.
MY THOUGHTS EXACTLY. When are people going to stop teaching on one scripture and not the other? They are near each other, and both are very important scriptures and valid. Why? Because GOD knew that some parents would be toxic and abusive towards their children. And take advantage of that, and do their children any kind of way, and demand respect. And that is just not how that work.
We have been WARNED folks. Don't be surprised.READY!!! God Bless the person reading this.
Ty Back @ ya..
I do not usually watch Creflo Dollar. But this caught my attention and I agree with this man 💯 percent. Amen Amen.
I'm with you a 💯 percent!!👍👍
Lorraine me too.
Yes Ma'm!!!!
We spoiled them as society.
I agree also I don’t listen to this brother at all but the title caught my attention.
that needs to be preached all over the world. That is definitely needed this word.
We are living in the last days--daughters against mothers, sons against fathers. Love of many will wax cold
Correct that scripture. JESUS SAID that HE will pit a house hold against each other.
@@thephoenixrising4614But Why did he say he would?
@@jukejoint523jordan6 Yes I was always confused about this one. Yet we are told that God restores relationships.
@@BeautifulDelights951 Maybe it's because he knew people would hate Godly people. I had a situation where my son would skip school and smoke drug with his girlfriend. I told my wife he shouldn't do that and she pretty much wouldn't say anything to him about it. My wife and his girlfriend got into an argument in my front yard and the boat called the cops on my wife and lied that my wife hit her. Fast forward 3yrs later my wife hangs out with them but I won't have anything to do with her. We are at separate ends of it cuz I detest the girlfriend
@@jukejoint523jordan6 Sorry to hear about your situation. It's a tricky dynamic parents and children. I wonder if we put more emphasis on our marriages, and spouses work together, then maybe parents can handle and guide their children better. The relationship between a mother and her children is always different to that of the father and the children, both are still needed. It's hard, not easy.
A Message to Parents! God sees your tears and knows your disappointment! He feels your pain and understands and knows the sacrifices you made for your children! He knows how it feels because we disrespected God and dishonored him in our lives, but yet He forgave us…🙌🏽✨🙌🏽
And as heart wrenching as it can be sometimes to listen to their complaints and disrespect… He wants us to continue to pray for them …lay them at the feet of Jesus and forgive them… “For they know not what they do” God forgave us… We must forgive our children! 🙏🏽
Thank you for sharing this! ❤🙏🏽
Soooo……. We just gonna leave out the part of the Bible that says for parents to not provoke children. That’s why there’s going to be billions of parents pushed into the lake of fire because you think you have a free pass- when the majority of us got here via fornication anyway. Most of you are gonna be surprised that God is no respect of persons as soon as the flames touch your feet
Thank you so much Pastor Creflo Dollar..My name is Lisandra and I am from Papua New Guinea..I always disrespect my old widow mother..your message has changed me completely.. please pray for me coz as of today ..I will honor my mother and take care of her as long as she lives..
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Dear San Lee , ask her for forgiveness on your knees as a sign of RESPECT.
Gift her and show her LOVE even if she doesnt return it , do your part according to God.
You will live long! This is the only commandment with a promise.
I'm so happy for you that you've seen the light. Bless you and your Mama.
@@stepstoknowinggod That took alot of courage... I pray that my grown children wake up and realize what the Lord commands
Amen!
My mom is toxic and plays the people in her family against each other. When I was in my 30s I had to pull way back from her and I prayed and studied the word and God showed me how to set boundaries and still be in respectful honoring relationship with her. It has to be very surface and is not a deep rich relationship but I am able to honor her
Amen. Thank you for sharing that and pointing that out. God bless.
I needed this. Thank you for sharing
You'll be blessed for that.
Amen Amen 👍💯
Your duty is to respect her regardless. One of my nieces parents were strung out on crack. They never disrespected their parents. Same for me and mine discarded me. I didn't want to die young like like my disrespectful dad. You don't answer to your parents, you answer to God. So be careful. Pray and ask God to help you.
My two adult sons ages 20 and 25. He has described them 💯. Don't appreciate nothing or listen. I went through teenage parent trauma. I'm at peace in my home now. I asked them to leave.
Good
If they were raised better u wouldn’t have that issue
My dear daddy, a man who truly loved the Lord,his wife and children, passed away when I was in college. My dear mother passed away in my arms. All the love and sacrafices my loving parents made for me. God blessed me to take such care of my mom. She passed away at age 92 in my arms. All is well with me because of how I honored and took care of my mom. Today, I want for nothing and I have a long good life ahead!!!Thank you Jesus...
HONOR IS RECOGNIZING WHO QUALIFIES FOR YOUR UNDIVIDED ATTENTION.
HUMILITY IS THE ABSENCE OF SELF.
HUMILITY IS THE GARMENT OR CLOAK OF GREATNESS.
HUMILITY PRECEDES HONOR.
My husband and I sacrificed and did without to save enough for both daughters to go to college. They both graduated and got great jobs. They have no college debt, and both married and own homes. As each daughter turned 30 they turned their back on us. Now my husband has cancer, and they have abandoned us. I have two grandsons, and the youngest I have never met. It breaks our hearts. Both my husband and I respected and cared for our parents. My Dad called me every morning, and I cherish the memories of those calls. Our girls grew up with all their grandparents in their lives. I see that this is widespread. I lift up those parents whose adult children have turned their backs on them. God Bless them!
Amen
Believe me, we are not alone 😢
I am so sorry you and your husband are going through this. My adult daughters drive past me to go to their dad's. He and I weren't perfect parents by any means but I turned my life around while he steals from them and uses them. I don't understand it. I'm finding too that there's a lot of estrangement in families. Not just families like mine either. I'm terribly sorry. I feel all the pain of these parents reading these comments. I will always love my children but they can hurt you so bad. I pray that your husband is doing better and you have found a way to fill that void in your lives. God bless you and keep you.
They didn’t turn their back on you, theh felt u simply weren’t somebody that was worth having around due to your character & behaviors . People of advanced age playing victim and not taking accountability for why others don’t want to mess with them is sad
@@DorothySbornaku chose a bad dad for them and now is playing victim ?
This is the teaching that’s needed!! Parents are suffering and being emotionally abused and manipulated by their children who are disrespectful and refuse to see the sacrifices their parents have made!
This goes both ways. Every week you turn on the TV a family has left this earth at the hands of other family members. Also a lot of parents are absent. If something isn't healthy you don't force it.
The one who is mature will bridge the gap.
LMFAO ! Parents don’t make sacrifices. Hopping in bed then doing what you’re legally required to do isn’t a “sacrifice”. Parents aren’t abused by kids - power dynamics don’t even work like that. You all make spotting the Narc parents so easy . Kudos to your children for not putting up with the BS . Kids don’t need to see what u needed to do as a result of u not using protection
@@Bb-jm6wxyou are clueless! There are a few bad parents but most work hard for their babies & sacrifice everything only to see self entitled children NEVER GROW UP & REMAIN IMMATURE!
@@Solidrock-jq6rp there aren’t a few bad ones, there’s a host of bad ones. I’m not clueless, the ones defending abusers are. The fact that the word “sacrifice” was used is a giveaway of a bad parent , all that was sacrificed was condom use. And bad parents are the emotionally immature ones, by definition. Can’t even take accountability for their actions and behaviors and wonder why nobody wants to deal with them. They don’t work hard for their babies. They treat them like crap and are selfish and do what they want to do and neglect em. Bad Parents are the self entitled ones , parents owe the kids everything & kids don’t owe their parents a thing. The parent effed and brought the kids here, not the other way around .
Amen! This generation is very ungrateful.
Yeah, who raised these children . . . Oh wait!
@@jessicatullis2807you ate
Amen 🙏🏾
@@jessicatullis2807exactly
Yes, and whose causing it? The same people God told to not provoke their children- y’all will find out when y’all are getting pushed into the lake of fire for disobeying God, because 98% of you all got pregnant by way of fornication, and think God is going to let it slide because you got knocked up during the process.
This has been a painful truth in my life. I wondered what I'd done to cause it, I knew in my heart that I had done my best. God knows, and I know. I don't claim to be perfect but I loved and provided for them. Taught them to have faith in God, wisdom and knowledge. Then they just "turned" on me like I was an enemy! My faith comforts me and I pray God's mercy on them. To abandon a parent in their senior years is heartless. I pray for myself too, that my heart doesn't grow bitter. Thanks for speaking on this sir. It's an epidemic today.
Amen! and Amen! So true. I've read statistics showing the numbers are high-- maybe 25% or more of all families are experiencing this.
Don’t worry their children will do the same like my grands do to my daughter. My oldest grandson love me to pieces.
Nobody turned on u and u didn’t try your best. You treated them the way you treated them & then you got your Karma . Kudos to them !
@@StephenB-iy7prtheir children won’t do the same if they treat them well. Your grandson will treat you accordingly when he starts to see your ways
@@Bb-jm6wx you're a bad joke...yet I laugh at your ignorance
Absolutely! My boys treat me like garbage. It’s worse than death. 😢
Thank You Pastor Creflo. I had 7 children. I lost my oldest in 2019 from suicide, but my wife and I raised all seven of them together. My 3 oldest were from a ex girlfriend, but we got custody of them when they were really young. Now I will be the first to say that I am not the best, but I tried my best to be a father. I went over 30 years without seeing my father, but I loved him all the same. None of my children have been in trouble with the law. Five have graduated High School. Two have graduated college and 3 in the military. I may have been a little hard, but I know as young black children growing up without a lot of means you have to work harder. Still my oldest adult children can be so disrespectful to me and my wife. It really hurts sometimes, especially knowing how much we've sacrificed and been through to get them where they are
AMEN AMEN, BROTHER, I'M GOING TO THE #SAME THING WITH MY #2 OLDEST DAUGHTER. I HAD THEM #EXTREMELY YOUNG AND I #SACRIFICED MY LIFE 2 #NURTURE AND #RAISE THEM #HOW GOD SAID 2 RAISE THEM UP😇🙏
Sounds like they could be angry over their birth parent for not raising them
I understand, that ungrateful, mindless behavior all to well..but God has our back...what they do will cone back to them..As the same for us with are parents. My father died when I was 11,and my mom was what she should have been,and at times its hard to deal with her,but I still respect her,I haven't talk to her in a few months cause I'm done on hard times but I love my mom and will take care of her when she needs me
@@sequillarochelle4044 Amen lil sister
@@maureenbolden8451 may be, but I was raised in the Church by my grandmother. My dad wasn't around and my mom was not all there. Still I could never distract neither of them. I was taught a disrespectful child's days are numbered. Plus I had a very religious grandmother with a heavy hand. She firmly believed in if you spare the rod you spoil the child. Maybe I should have taken more of her approach, but I did raise my children in the Church. Kids these days are just so uncanny in their life these days
Young adults know disrespect there parents and grandparents the more you do for them the more they disrespect you. PRAY 🙏 FOR ME. I agree 100 precent with the pastor.
Praying n Jesus name..It gets better going through alot with grown meth addict son...Its one of the most hurtful evil&stupid you have ever know! Help all Father God remember me & husband n Jesus name..ty praise u
No, they return the disrespect that was given to them their entire lives.
Thank you Creflo for your testimony of transparency. You are one in a trillion of people. And especially, Christian and Jewish people.
Amen! Alleluia 🙏 Yes, i think the disrespect and dishonor that adult children show today to their parents is a sign of their disrespect and lack of love for God.
No child has a right to disrespect their parents and no parent have a right to disrespect their children they both are gifts from God.
That's not what God said respect your patents
Respect your parent not parents repect children you missing the real messege.Pray for you
You only included the other cause the focus was on the kids.
@@romniejones1004 Actually, the Bible does speak of parents respecting children just as it instructs children to honor their parents. There is an often ignored scripture which reads, "Fathers, do not provoke your children to wrath....".
@@tincredible yea but it doesn’t mention a consequence and one is not always because of the other sometimes parents don’t really do anything wrong and the child is just an ungrateful brat.
Asking for the Lord to heal my 20 year old daughter emotionally and mentally...HURT PEOPLE HURT PEOPLE...Help her find you Lord
May He answer your prayer. I stand in agreement with you that He will heal your daughter. Amen and amen.
I have one of those. Breaks my heart. Rude, disrespectful and ungrateful. Give you all and get back nothing but disrespect 🤧
I needed this I say this all the time.We are all human we all make mistakes.Honor your mother and father♡
This level of brainwashing is sad
Noooooooo
When I was 12 years old I saw my aunt disrespect my grandmother on numerous occasions, I resented her for it. I’m 57 and it’s still fresh in my mind. My grandmother was a wonderful person in my eyes, I don’t care what mistakes she may have made. My aunt had no right to mis treat her.
She probably did have a right to treat her like that. And every action isn’t a mistake . I can already see the low accountability in this comment . A “mistake” is something done on accident. The definition of “mistake” doesn’t apply to bad things someone does on purpose , so stop misusing the word that way
These words are so true.I have a daughter that fights me and curse me out and I'm letting her and her kids live in my house, because she can't live with none of her so called friends 😮💨😥
The best thing you can do is to get her out of your house as the disrespect will only grow as she will only continue to take advantage of you & disrespect you as long as she is staying there & being taken care of.
OMG! He just described my son. He is the ONLY Human thus Far who Actually is Telling this Truth in the Media. Everyone else is Telling the Parents to Pray, Love, Forgive basically ACCEPT This Unacceptable Behavior from our Children. Please Keep TELLING Mr. Creflo what Society FEFUSE to say and do. I HEAR U. Thank u!
Right they say to keep loving them baby who❤
They are grown children, leave them to their own survival.
My son, too. It’s terrible. I needed this. I will start by honoring my parents and not speaking badly of them, anymore.
I still love my daughter and I will always pray for her and my grandchildren; however I have given up on wanting a relationship with her. Lord knows I've been through it,but now I'm at peace.
Noname he learned it honestly. What did you think would happen?
I stop watching Pastor Dollar a long time ago, but I’m going through exactly what he’s talking about here & a friend of mine who knows my situation sent me this message & I was blown away. Pastors don’t talk/preach about this enough in this era & children are going crazy, not good. Thank you Pastor Dollar for this was a explosive WORD 💣
He is definitely telling the truth. Amen Amen. My 45 yr old son needs to listen to this. I haven't seen him in 12-13 yrs. He holding something against me and I have ask what is it? He always say I am not holding anything against you. I call him more than he calls me. I put him in the hands of YAHWEH. I have apologized for any wrong doing if I did anything etc. He text pictures but that's not the same as in real person. I love my son and always will be here for him if he needs me. All Praises to YAH in the name of YASHUA HAMASHIACH.
Thank you pastor these messages are not preached anymore children are just on rampage. So rude and disrespectful even 13years old talking back wanting to do as they please and expect you not to ask questions but still buy things for them andvery demanding. Oh the tik tok sexual dances they dance😭
Ditto!
Children become adults, but we insist on treating them as children. So self serving.
Thank you Pastor Dollar for this message. My mom poisoned me with antifreeze and I still love and honor her. I'm still in pain from what she did, both emotional and physical pain, but I know that God is consoling me. My children disrespect me, because of what my mom did to me, and one of my children said that they don't care what she did to me. I'm not worried though. Some children will say anything when they just naturally don't like authority. I'm just glad God is Omnipotent, Omniscient and Omnipresent, because he's my witness.
My mother raised us to honor and respect parents and uncles and aunts and grandparents. Today I’m so glad I was obedient and obeyed her. This next generation what a mess. So very sad for them.
Obedient and obeyed , like a slave , instead of thinking for self .
I have 5 grown daughters ..none of them respect me..they have treated me horrible 😢😢😢 but I still pray for them.
All 5? Sounds like u need to take accountability. U raised them & ur the common denominator
@@Bb-jm6wx yes, I have taken accountability. They didn't used to be that way. It was until they got in their late 20s.
@@goldenhouse1537 yes because you’re 20s is when and where you learn about life and when you learn how you were treated badly the entire time. They realized they were brainwashed their entire childhood. Look in the mirror 🪞!
This should go VIRAL!!!!!!!
Spread the Word !!!
Fuck The Baby Boomers They The Reason Gen X,Y,Z Fucked Up Now And Don’t Wanna Fuck With Them.
My soon to be 17 year old daughter is extremely disrespectful towards me. She had me go to jail over her false allegations. I promise once she is 18 she is getting out of my house forever.
It's taught behavior. They're teaching our children phrases like "I don't feel safe at home" in schools. I worked in both law and social Services-I tried to warn people about cashing in on our kids, dividing them away from parents back in the 1990s
I'm the only white blue-eyed parents in the family, the marriage was based on the wealth I had & taken away and these ungrateful children came back from college calling me "N.az.i."
Human brain is not fully formed until 26 years old-I beg you to protect yourself, but do not ban your daughter from your life.
She's going to need you more than ever.
@@TheFoolintherainn I agree and thank you 🙂
Angels stop believing that bs about a damn adult brain not being developed until age of 26. So why was our great grandparents…grandparents and parents married before 20 raisiing a family..working jobs..saving and providing. That’s a bunch of bs and that’s why these fully grown adults take advantage of these silly parents in the good old USA. If your daughter is like that at 17 and no respect put her arze out before we hear about you on the news.
Imagine disrespect..to the point of a grown child adult, jumping in you're face..to the point you feel the heat from their breath,🔥.
Nothing can compare to this." So trust me ..first hand , I know.🙏"
Yes my grown kids turned on me and encouraged their friends to do so as well... they think that because they are grow we are equal! I'm just trusting the Lord at his word!
AMEN AMEN AMEN, SISTER. #SAME HERE 💯💯💯💯💯
@@KM-oy5yh They have NO clue what's in store for them... I pray for mercy!🙏 Our VICTORY IS GOING TO BE 👍GREAT!!!🙌
@@staceypalmer476 AMEN AMEN AMEN ❤️🩹 💖 💝 🙏 🙌 👏 ❤️🩹 💖
@Stacy Palmer, if by "equal" you mean they realized they have the same legal rights you do, then they are correct. They ARE equal in that regard. this doesn't mean they shouldn't show you courtesy; without a doubt, they should do that, and should remember to ask themselves how Jesus would perceive (1) what they are saying and (2) how they are saying it. But let's not confuse being entitled to respect and courtesy with being entitled to unquestioned obedience, and let's not forget that just as our children should be courteous and respectful to us, we owe them the same and should be courteous and respectful to them, too, even when we sharply disagree with what they have decided to do with themselves and their time. Being told no by your kids when you are having a hard time coming to terms with the fact that actually, they CAN do things without your permission or approval is one of the hardest things that we parents have to learn to live with once that 18th birthday comes around. Watching them (temporarily in many cases) make decisions that we think are not going to turn out well, or which show rejection of biblical values and acceptance of worldliness, is painful. But ultimately, it is their right to do so, and our responsibility as parents to quietly bind their minds and ours too to the mind of Christ, loosing from both of us any stronghold that cause us to hang onto wrong thoughts, attitudes, desires, and behaviors. It is our responsibility to ask the Lord to remove from our children the effects of mistakes we made in the process of raising them and in the way that we have interacted with them as adults. This is the kind of prayer that too many parents have too much pride to ever utter. Defensiveness rises up and we justify ourselves with, "I was a great mom/dad", "I sacrificed so much for that child", "I did the best I could", etc. The reality is that some days your best may have been superb, but other days, your best wasn't that great or may not at all have been what should have happened at the moment. Letting go of defensiveness and pride, and being willing to pray this kind of a prayer, is liberating and becomes life giving and life changing in troubled relationships.
Early on, the words you choose speak volumes to your child about the degree to which you (the parent) submit yourself to Christ and model that submission to Christ. It's so easy, so tempting, and so common to day, "Do it because I said to do it. I'm the parent and I make the rules." Are you the parent? Of course. But compare this statement to, "Do it because the rule in this house is that we live to please Christ. We can see in the book of Ephesians chapter 4 that God tells his people to avoid coarse jesting ad obscenity. We are his people, which means we must avoid those things. We can see in the book of Joshua chapter 7 that sin done in secret by one person has a negative effect on the whole group. Your actions can have a negative effect on the rest of us here. Because God gave me this house, he expects me and those that he placed here to live in agreement with his word. So, thus and so is the rule, and if we want to die in right standing with God, we're going to have to all follow that rule. It's for me just as much as it's for you."
God is ALWAYS going to have authority over us. But you're not always going have the legal right to be in authority over your child. If your relationship is based on dominating and exercising your authority, you won't have much of a basis for a relationship once somebody's 18th birthday says you don't have that authority any more. On the other hand, if your model of authority demonstrates an obedience to a God whose authority will never end, then as the child matures, not only are they obedient to you, but you are also discipling them into lifelong obedience to Christ. Does this mean they are guaranteed to never make a stupid decision, rebel, or be disobedient? No. At times, young, middle aged, and older adults make stupid decisions and rebel against God. If you have raised them showing that your own authority is simultaneously an act of submission to Christ, then you will have trained them up in the way they should go, and in those moments of them seeming to have lost their minds, you can continue to speak the word over them that when they are old, they will not depart from the Lord's ways. And again, I call to mind the fact that not even the best parent modeled submission to Christ perfectly 100% of the time; there are times our children saw us do things we shouldn't have, or speak using words we shouldn't have, or heard songs or watched movies or videos that did not glorify the Lord and which made sin look cool, glam, and fun. That is why is is so important to ditch our pride and ask the Lord to remove from our children the effects of mistakes we made.
Turn the mirror on yourself
Thank you Pastor for the Word of encouragement...my husband and I are looking after my mom and my mother in law...I can truly say it is an honor looking and caring for them...sometimes it's not that easy..but is the right thing to do...God is just amazing
I finally found a message that really hits home! I have a daughter 37 a son 31 who I have adored and spent every dime they ask for, only to be called vile names. My daughters seen her mother disrespect me. She now has 3 granddaughter she has lied to and now they said I hate my paw paw .She stood in my face and lied with accusations that were not true. My son is a police officer who has called me such vile names that I do not dare repeat. How can he respect the public when he can't respect his own father? Yet their mother my ex-wife has drilled it in their heads that I am no good other than an ATM machine. I know in my heart and every fiber of my body I was a great dad and father. This all started when I turned my life over to my Savior Jesus Christ. This is the work of satan himself. God knows my pain; He knows the truth!
Right now I'm paining/hurting because I've been experiencing the same thing all weekend and for four years. IT HURTS..!
Unfortunately this is one of the enemy's strongest weapons against us our children, but he is a defeated foe
AMERICAN PATRIOT the enemy are not your children or ex wife.
They are being used by demons to destroy the family unit.
I would advise you first to ask the Holy Spirit to help you forgive them ALL totally first so God can help you.
GOD can not forgive us or listen to our prayers with unforgiveness.
Also pray for your children and Ex wife. They are under the enemies bondage and are being used to destroy the family you have.
Please take this seriously and watch God Bless you and change your family. He will do it once you seek HIM and remember as a believer you have spiritual authority over your seed. That is GOD given
PRAY for them daily. Spend time with God in prayer daily and watch the Almighty move!
Your pain will be turned to joy.
I have the DEVIL passionately !!
@@alicewhashintong555 hey.
PRAY for their salvation and LOVE THEM with the LOVE of Christ. Ask the Holy Spirit to guide and heal you.
It's o.k. brother ! . . Your "NOT" alone ! . The truth "ALWAYS" wins ! In this world or the next the truth will come out for everyone to hear ! . . . ✝️
I wholeheartedly agree with this message. That’s why I stayed loving and honouring my mother who still abuses me! Who has always abandoned and rejected me. I still care for her health and everything but I’m literally dead inside. I know no other life … I wonder what her punishment will be for doing this to me? What was it the Bible said: Parents Lay Up for Your Children, Parents do not discourage / drive your children to Wrath.
God bless you, keep you and protect you.
So sorry you were abused Pamela 😢 God is going to bless you big time because you did what he would have done, rather than doing what you wanted to do. Love bears all things, love changes hearts 💕 you keep up the good work and you will reap what you sow ( good seeds and good fruits). Stay strong 💪 ❤
Your life sounds as if you were me I have lived the same life abandoned by my mother raised by my grandmother and have been on my own since as long as I can remember but when I was baptized at age 32 years old the Holy Spirit showed me that demon that had my mother the drugs she was using she was not capable of raising me and my sisters so she gave me to the one that she knew that would love me and raise me until the woman that I am today I do not hate her I love her all the more but I just want to let you know you are a blessed individual God sees your hurt and your pain and by you being honorable to your mother God will bless you as long as you live
I'm so sorry pray to God and read his word ask him for guidance. I pray you be comforted by the holy spirit.
This is mental slavery on another level, and it is religion-driven thats the sad part. Please wake up?😳
Thank you...for addressing this! It is a horrible and devistating epidemic!
My God this is an ON TIME WORD!!! 🙏🏾🙏🏾
Pastor you hit the nail on the head these kids needed to be in the house to hear the word of God🙏🙏👍
Amen Amen 🙏 that is a good Word for these last and evil days. To God be the Glory
Children miss there blessings when they don't honor their parents
Amen this is greatly needed should be preached in every church
this hits home more than you could ever believe Thank you pastor Dollar, this means more than you can ever know...I had to share on my FB page!!!!!
7/10/22: I stopped watching Creflo years ago, but this caught my attention. It is so on point and needed, he is speaking truth about dishonoring parents.
Im going to ask my parents for forgiveness. I had been extremely disrespectful to them and I need to apologize big time for the things I’ve done and said. I know I’ve done wrong to them but I will make amends for all the horrible things that I’ve done. I’m not a Christian nor do I follow any of the Abrahamic faiths but I still agree with this pastor’s message.
It takes a real man to own up to your mistakes,God loves you and He sees the sincerity in your heart. You are loved by God and me. I don't have to know you to love you. Jesus did the exact thing for me,He loved me before i even knew Him. Anil i'm so proud of you,i'm decreeing and declaring totally restoration for you and your family. It was a message you were meant to see. I'm excited for you a healing for your family is taking place!!!
I feel bad for your parents
@@aqilaebrahimi1930 at least I’m making amends for my past mistakes, don’t be a fool.
@@charlestine6786 thank you so much, god bless I appreciate it. I’m ready to make amends for all of my wrongs. I’ve been doing good since I’ve repaired my relationship with my parents. Thank you for your kind words, I appreciate it a lot. 🥰🥰🥰
WOW. I’ve been through hell and then some. I’ve been to the point where I seriously doubt myself as a single mother and a provider. When I did all I could do worked 3 jobs and tried my very best to protect them every day. I knew they were blessings to me and I hadn’t done anything to deserve ❤️them. I tried praying 🙏🏾 and I haven’t stopped. My pain is so deep where I’m physically sick when I’m around one of my child. LORD all I desire is peace and my adult child to change their mindset and give there live to Jesus. Because no matter the pain and disrespect I’ve received from my child. It’s time I seriously don’t know if we every feel that motherly love I once had. I’m BROKEN and yet I love and only want the best. Prayers 🙏🏾
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I wish you well and may Jehovah change your story. It's so sad to stay in a home where there is no peace but exchange of swear words. Really wish you well and the God that parted the red sea for the children of israel may He part your sea in Jesus Christ name
Prayers for you ❤
Same as me
Amen! Praying for our nation’s adult children 🙏
Much needed ...something is happening with our children and grandchildren.
Yeah what’s happening is the awful parents not taking responsibility for the train wrecks they caused
People born during this 1990ish 2000ish generation really wasn’t raised right, and now it’s coming back to bite the parents. A lot of children born during that time had parents who spoiled them and gave them what wanted, because they wanted their children to have what they didn’t have growing up, which made these kids grow up to feel entitled. Which made them unable to except no for and answer. A lot of parents wanted to be their child’s friend and not be a parent.
@@Proverbspsalms Train wreck is so true. I’m dealing with my 19 year old stepson that is so entitled because his mom treated him like he’s a king,that’s her only child. My husband is laid back on correcting his behavior but I’m the bad guy.
@@anatachasimeon2529 that’s crazy. Hope he gets it together. And creflo has got to be the cause of his own arrest when that situation happened with his daughter. These people preach a false gospel- so i can’t even say they don’t practice what they preach.
@@anatachasimeon2529 that’s crazy. Hope he gets it together. And creflo has got to be the cause of his own arrest when that situation happened with his daughter. These people preach a false gospel- so i can’t even say they don’t practice what they preach.
One of my grandsons is getting married this weekend. He did not invite his mother, me or his great grandmother (my mother) even though for the little my mother gets in social security she gave him a place to sleep, food, and wanted WIFI to use his cell phone, but never contributed a dime even though he worked. He was being spoiled terribly. I did not approve of how he behaved many times. And I challenged him. The bum could have at least helped pay some of the bills he incurred. His mother and great grandmother defended him. And he snubbed them both. I can understand he did not invite me, I would not have gone anyway. But my daughter and my mother do not deserve this. They did so much for him. Their feelings are hurt. They didn't expect this kind of treatment. I was not surprised, I know he's a taker, not a giver, so my feelings were not hurt. I feel bad for his new wife, she doesn't know what's coming. He never introduced her to us for a reason.
PRAY FOR HIM to receive salvation and LOVE THEM like Jesus Christ taught us.
Forgive them everything.
ASK the Holy Spirit for help on this.
GOD BLESS
This is good. Preach this on 9:00 am show on TV .young people need to hear this , this help parents it terrible these children . Cuss you out, try to fight you
It's so terrible for him cause he is heading towards destruction. Please remember him in prayers. He is extremely self centered.
AMEN AMEN, SOOOOO #SAD!🙏🙏🙏
@@nancydoswell3809 💯💯💯💯
My mom says she wishes she never had me. So now I honor her & make her dream come true with NO CONTACT👍🏾
agree
good for you!
Did you respect her and treat her right? My son is putting me through hell right now, sometimes, I wish I could turn back time.
What part did you play in your mother turning her back? What is the entire series of events?
@@AngJones-di6wgbeing born 😂 no child plays a part, parents of today don’t take accountability for their parenting skills . They sleep around then blame the child
Amen ‼️My children try to talk to me like I'm stupid 🤬 I raised you so you can be all you can be because of me working myself down for you to have a wonderful life
This is the part where i say to people regarding my parents, especially my mother .... For everything, she's still my mom. Am Catholic and have sincerely had to start making confessions for all my own past disrespect. So grateful God gave me opportunity to make right on so many issues
Creflo this is what every adult child needs to hear this
What is underneath the "disrespect" of parents? Pain? Maybe listen and have empathy. Yes, demand respect but give them the grace to express their pain. Respect does go both ways.
That's not always why these kids in this generation disrespect parents.THEY THINK THEY KNOW MORE,THEY DONT WANT TO FOLLOW RULES,AND GET MAD WHEN TOLD ANYTHING NO MATTER HOW NICE AND RESPECTFUL ITS SAID..THEY TALK SMART,ROLL EYES WHEN TOLD ABOUT HARD WORD INTEGRITY AND GOOD MORALS...SO NO I DONT AGREE WITH YOU BECAUSE IM LIVING IT...AND I REFUSE TO BE DISRESPECTED IN MY HOUSE BY SOMEONE WHO HAS NEVER HAD TO GO THROUGH ANYTHING, HAS BEEN WELL TAKEN CARE OF AND HAD THE BEST...THAT WILL CAUSE A GOOD PARENT TO GO OFF...AND ANYBODY RUNNING THERE MOUTH ABOUT RESPECTING A DUSRESPECTFUL KID OF ANY AGE CAN HAVE SEVERAL SEATS,BECAUSE THAT MINDSET IS APART OF THE PROBLEM!!!
AMEN. EXACTLY.
@@sequillarochelle4044 that sounds like your losing control and you cany handle it.
@@ChaarityWilliams Basically the kids are out of control!
@@staceypalmer476 Or parents are losing it.
I talk to my mother every day now, I'm glad she's there for me. She can't take care of me, but she can listen to me and see how I'm doing.
When we hear this scripture, we always associate it with younger children, teens and even though that pertains to those age groups, I'm glad that someone is telling the truth of the matter. My God, Thank you cause I have a sibling who is disrespectful towards our dad. They just don't know, smh...
I too just thought it applied to young children. I do not understand when adults treat their parents so bad.
And if you dont like your parents..
YOU ARE GROWN so you CAN LEAVE your parents alone and move on.
So true. We expect some rebellion from teens and younger. It is abhorrent in adult children; they cause so much pain.
Thank you, Pastor Dollar.
I hate this present world. I’ve lived this with my eldest daughter and it’s a pain that’s so grievous. The spirit of narcissism and entitled are rampant. The spirit of this world tells them from a young age that they don’t have to give respect to anyone but they want respect from everyone. My daughter said I Will get respect from when I give it to her. Thinking they can yell, character assassinate and curse then demand respect ???? They lost their minds. My heart hurts knowing how many parents are feeling this heart break right now.. The audacity of these grown kids to think it’s ok to dishonor their parents and it’s not going to have consequences? They’ve got a rude awakening coming. It’s gonna hit hard when these precious grandkids grow up and treat them the same. Only then will they understand the pain they’ve inflicted but by then it may be to late to make amends. It’s so sad.
Let’s not forget about don’t provoke your children to wrath! Let’s not be one sided! Don’t disrespect children cuz that’s where the parents blessings come from.
It's is up to God to punish the parents, not the children. Rebuke not an elder. Most are overindulge entitled brats who want their parents to continue to take care of them until they are dead! All of these parents are not provoking these demon seeds.
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I'm a 33 year old man who struggles with this on a day-to-day basis with my father 🤦🏽♂️💯
Thank you so much for this message . I would NEVER dream of treating my parents the way my 3 children treat me . I made my mistakes , however, the schols had a big hand in their attitudes
Thank you. I needed to hear this. I have 3 two who disrespect me, and my daughter doesn't even talk to me it hurts . I saw on her in store yesterday that she totally avoided me, which was a knife in my side, but yet she posted things on Facebook and Instagram asking and praying to God
I have seen a lot of kids who claim to be Christian but act like this towards their parents. I don't get it.
I protect my elderly. I have been hurt, treated poorly but I have forgiven. I have come to realize I will never receive the approval I seek. I pray and do my best. The Lord gives me grace and strength.
Hello Pastor Dollar and first Lady Taffy, 🙌!
Pastor Dollar this 6 minute message was powerful 👏 🙌 🙏 😳 to my soul!!!!!
Thank you for this message ! What a great message to get out ! May God bless you !
Could listen to this every day . Thank you Creflo .
I have 4 children I raised them alone most of their lives. Guided, protected, prayed for, encouraged sent to college, and went without so many things working and trying to keep food on the table while their preacher father ran with women and lived as he pleased (no moral or financial support- two of them (both with Master's degrees) and in their early forties are mean, disrespectful, and now absent for years because their mother was so awful. One of them thought she should be able to call me a b*tch encouraged by a white secular therapist (I am a Black woman, not happening) There is a grandchild I will never meet. Initially, I was confused and deeply hurt...after so many years of abuse and slander, I let it go. I embraced the other two who love and respect me, who honor me and know the truth and I have to admit joy came back into my life. I love the two who are absent, I pray for them but I no longer miss them. I have been healed. I gave it to God.
Great message! Bravo Pastor, Bravo!
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I don't listen to Mr. Dollar but my friend sent this to me. I agree with this lesson.
Such a timely message! He’s right that a monumental amount of children have gladly taken all their parents lovingly gave & sacrificed for them, only to be snubbed and lied about and publicly humiliated as these punks now cry on social media to anyone who will listen about how bad their parents were🙄 . It is disgusting and disgraceful and I have no sympathy for them. They have willingly chosen to listen to the lies of Satan, whose goal is to see that they spend eternity in hell. As the Bible puts it, “Thinking themselves wise they became fools . . .” Yep!
I’m experiencing this now and It’s horrific!
@@livefromtheground7274 I did to and I started praying for my Parents as I prayed for myself. Prayed goodness that the Lord clear our minds from haunting thoughts of past hurts. Prayed that the Lord search our hearts and heal the wounded places leaving no place for pain to hide. Prayed when they were feeling sick. Prayed when they leave the house. If A bad thought came to mind Prayed against it with positivity. Quite frankly told the Lorx in complete transparency and he heard my hearts cry IF I have to continue to carry on feeling like this I don't want to be here anymore. The Lord heard me. It took time. He tested the fruits of my lips. And it took time but I learned to speak a little bit gentler. Started shutting down negativity around me and creating a space of peace. Being intentional to engage with my parent and it was awkward coming out of that space I lived in so long but to the Lord be the Glory
He laid that path of healing and I walked in it. And when the enemy ( past trauma anger resentment rejection bitterness ) came I spoke against it acknowledged it took two to three years
All I can say is be sincere and transparent with the Lord. Complete Honestly. He will walk with you through it to the end.
Yeeees, and that's what it is all about: That lying nasty imp Satan!!!!! Get thee behind me Satan in the name of Yeshua, I fight you in the blood of the lamb!!!!! Good parents, the devil has taken them over; but they WILL pay for disrespecting the Creator and their parents!
@@livefromtheground7274 Me too. It's so painful. No, I was not a perfect mother, but I gave blood, sweat, a n d tears. My son only calls me when he wants something. Now, I'm learning to set boundaries. Now I was physically, emotionally, and abused my my sperm donor. I will NEVER honor him. PERIOD!
@@chbaker3592 the enemy is Satan not the children !
PRAY FOR THEM !
WE ARE COMMANDED TO DO THAT !
Preach! He's telling the truth. We need to touch and agree in prayer for one another concerning this. Strong Christian families is what will bring revival. Let's do it CHURCH!
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I use to be disrespectful toward my mother who raised me single handed.After my father passed away.
The lord said to me you have no right to be angry if it were not for me you would be the same as her.I had no right to judge her or be angry.This is a good word from Creflo.
I’m learning that if you had Narcissistic, ungrateful and unloving parents. More than likely your children more than likely will mirror the same things to you as well as your spouse. I learned to not take it personally but to value yourself more and love yourself more and go live your life. Don’t even bother. Let them go and let this miss your presence.
That's a fact. I totally agree 100%. Thank you for speaking the truth.🙏🏾💜🙏🏾Please continue to speak on this, because people need to understand the truth will never change. You are preaching and speaking the truth. May God Bless You Always.
This is so true thatz why alot of young people sleeping in their Graves. Frist commandment in the Bible RESPECT your PARENTS.💯
I made PEACE with my father for my Soul 3years ago. My oldest son has disrespected me twice in the last 6 years. First time I didn't worry because I knew something was going to happen and it did. He apologized and forgave him and allowed him to be in my space again. 6 months later He was disrespectful Again but I knew it was going to happen. I am no longer speaking with him because according to him myself and my oldest sister are dead to him. I'm doing just fine. Him not so much
What could have happened that so drastic that it made him not even want to acknowledge you all as living human beings?
Thank you so much. It is wonderful to hear. ❤
Yes I have that problem with my daughter. And she has put that disrespectful attitude. She keeps separations in the family. I have lost my son she also did it with him. But we were healing me and my son. I pray for her all the time and my grandsons.
More than likely its something YOU DID
Thank you and God bless you this word is long long long over do,so true 💯🔥 🙏 on everything, wish every pastor could preach this at the same time one Sunday,LOUD AND CLEAR,, everywhere the children are lost,we need to speak it in our homes all so,
This is so true. The trouble is that other adults in the circle are 1st ones to offer sympathy for the disrespectfull young adult children. And are ready to criticize your patenting and offer things they did not earn so they are friends, but yhey dont realize that that kid would treat them with distain the min the gifts stop.
This is so true. My daughter refused to care for me when I had surgery on my dominant arm. She has lost everything. My other daughter slanders me in front of her children. One of them thought they could make up 3 Rd hand lies about something never said. Now 1 of them is in a vegetative state. I have been so broken. We are in the last days.
Thank you Pastor, I too needed this word. A timely word to do better by my parents 🙏
Wow it's great to listen and hear the transparency of pastors..you are not speaking on something you yourself didn't go through yourself.... Thanks for sharing and teaching this important message we need desperately to hear this word 🙏
Thank you Pastor Dollar for this Word, Admonishment and Opportunity for us all to self correct and live a better life. God bless you. I pray healing and blessings over your life.
Thank you for this sermon much needed
Our moms back in Baltimore MD used to tell us kids."I brought you into this world,and I can take you out of it"!. 🤕🤒😖. God Bless us all and forgive us for creating the monster children we have raised.
AMEN, AMEN Pastor! Blessings Always!
Sometimes the fault is not really the children. Some parents are just never meant to be parents. Some don't even deserve respect. I have read some horrible stories in my life of what fathers and mothers do to their kids. We can only give it to God. Some things are just too big for this place we call earth!!!
Regardless to what a parent did it’s best to just not have them in your life rather than disrespect them and get I. Trouble with God. Remember our parents wasn’t always our parents. They had trauma in their lives before we was were born. Forgiveness on both sides is the key!
Thank you for this message, we could all use this word and blessing these days.
This is sooooo true. These disrespectful adult children just don’t know that they are on their way to a fiery grave if they do not honor their mother and father.
My children are very disrespectful ungrateful and don't think they should help when I'm struggling 😪
Plz don't feel alone ! My husband and I are in the same boat ! Just keep rowing "sister" , just keep rowing ! . . 🚣
@@BrickCityBella no, I didn't. I just spoiled them as children trying to make up for their absent father. 😒
Let Let- Be encouraged! I know exactly how you feel. When you know that you did your best raising them- & even sometimes messed up- at some point you have to forgive yourself and as the other writer said- “keep rowing “! Again Forgive yourself, and keep it moving. It hurts but we will make it!
What did you do to cause this? Parents never EVER admit they are the problem
THEY WILL NEED YOU
Thank you sir!!! Prayerfully this will ring throughout the universe from every pulpit, street speaker & leader with godly boldness & love. Selah!
Where's continual teaching of following week
I needed to hear this thank you!!
Amen pastor this need to be said
Thanku!! Thanku for this and thank God for this!!!
Such a needed sermon! Thank you
Thank you for the message
Thank you love u creflo dollar I needed to hear that amen
I’m trying to give Creflo Dollar the benefit of the doubt and assume he’s coming from a good place (and also to not hold his own parenting history against him), but this clip highlights a big reason many people end up leaving the Church. So often ministers preach “children obey your parents” and how much is owed to a parent but it is VERY rare that they preach about how to be a good parent. In fact as someone who grew up in the church, I’ve only heard one sermon directed at parents. Dollar’s message can very easily be understood as saying that adult children have an obligation to put up with abuse from their parents. Even if that’s not his intention many abusive parents will take it as such and impart that to their kids.
Thank you for speaking on disrespect 🙏 God bless you
I bless the Lord for all your services and the word of encouragement to lift me up pray for the lies and the rumors that been placed out against me my child and my grandson and words taken out of content I was up on the warfare thank God I made it all is not quite well but just continue to pray
I'm agree with the message. I pretty sure the sermon was longer than 6 minutes, but they is what I have to base it off of. I hope that the rest of the message also included not provoking your kids to anger. Parents have to ask themselves why their adult children no longer visits them and why they don't bring the grandkids around. Gen. X was told to bottle up their pains and frustrations and my generation have no problem expressing it. It's really difficult honoring parents who don't show honor....BUT WE HONOR THEM ANYWAY. That not an easy road to walk on.
MY THOUGHTS EXACTLY. When are people going to stop teaching on one scripture and not the other? They are near each other, and both are very important scriptures and valid. Why? Because GOD knew that some parents would be toxic and abusive towards their children. And take advantage of that, and do their children any kind of way, and demand respect. And that is just not how that work.
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