How To Reinvent Yourself After 50, From Tony Robbins

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  • čas přidán 20. 09. 2012
  • Tony Robbins, Peak Performance Strategist, talks reinvention. How do you keep fresh ideas and motivations after turning 50? Part of the series Mondays With Marlo on MarloThomas.com

Komentáře • 115

  • @gutsandgrittv5076
    @gutsandgrittv5076 Před 2 měsíci +5

    I dropped every sabotaging, goalsucking person I’ve been TOLERATING for so many years and that has helped immensely.

  • @firesign4297
    @firesign4297 Před 5 lety +91

    After giving the first half of my life to EVERYONE and EVERYTHING....I just want this half TO MY SELF😊...Thank You World🙇

    • @samuraibushido7077
      @samuraibushido7077 Před 5 lety +1

      Soooooooooooo true for the Masses God!!! and the late Mya Angelou said "If we knew better we would do better!!" because as Oprah's Dr Phil said "We shouldn't be giving way 1st, what we can't give yourself!!"

    • @krazywally5685
      @krazywally5685 Před 3 lety +1

      Bang on, we give it all and then what?! We aren't next, we are now.

    • @CastleHassall
      @CastleHassall Před 2 lety +2

      I think thinking about and deciding what YOU want is key. Then doing steps towards that. At any stage in life. And don't let others make you feel you should do what they feel you should. And you don't have to "succeed" at some major goal, just doing what feels good to you is key to a happy life, and can lead to building up skills and friendships and business in the area YOU love to be in.. You love gardening? Do that. We don't have to build a huge company from it. Just be happy and do what makes you happy. Even little steps towards it.. These guys make money from making you feel you are not enough and dangling hope in front of you. But just do what YOU feel like with your day and you'd be surprised where that can lead and how that can help Ruth depression or steps etc. Nadine
      Maybe we need to regroup, recuperate, rest a while, with no pressure.. Then from there we can feel what WE want to do, even small things, and just do that and see where it takes us. We don't "need" success of big money etc, that is to buy us happiness, but we can get that by phoning a good friend or going out into nature and looking at the view or the trees and the flowers and have dinner with a friend or find a new friend through us just doing what we feel we want to do with our day.. Good luck folks
      You don't need the courses to get motivated, you just need to think about "what would i really like to do", and even if it's " have a snooze " then do that and recharge your batteries after a tough life and then regroup ourselves, keep people who keep making us feel down or upset away from us, and build what WE want in our life. The enthusiasm will come once we think about what we would LIKE to do. Even if it's relax for a while, that is a worthwhile thing as it gets our health and stress levels down which can lead to better health etc.. But you don't need to pay for a course off these guys who sneakily advertise by getting people to post about how their courses helped them. They cost thousands, just to get you to think about what would YOU really like to do. The enthusiasm will come if you decide on and think about things you would love to do.. In my opinion.. Good luck folks!

    • @Therealgordongekko
      @Therealgordongekko Před 2 lety +1

      Me too! But I’ve got 3 kids who are still needy and a Latin wife. I don’t know if I’m ever going to have MY LIFE. Sad

    • @kwizmon
      @kwizmon Před 2 lety +1

      I'm 52 and have always (well, since I was 20) give my all for others. I think for the next bit, I'll continue to do more of the same. Its kind of selfish in a way coz I gain way more.

  • @krazywally5685
    @krazywally5685 Před 3 lety +43

    I'm 50, doing a job i hate, difficult work environment. But i found my love of dogs long ago, so with what i know I'll try and find a new career looking after 4 legged friends, I have some funds and onwards I will go...

    • @annaorlovska8551
      @annaorlovska8551 Před rokem +3

      How are you doing? How is it going?

    • @TopGun_-
      @TopGun_- Před rokem +1

      Commenting to bring you great luck and support!! Never mind any of the setbacks. You know where your passion lies. The first half of your life was to gather all those experiences and put them in your arsenal in order to make this your best half of your life ! Here’s wishing you massive luck in your new successes! 😎👍. I’m 51 and ready to get back to my fitness level from my 20s and start my consulting side business.

    • @dot0422
      @dot0422 Před 7 měsíci +1

      My Godsister retired from the Army and loves dogs. She invested her money and bought a dog sitting company from someone in Florida. She has done so well with her dog sitting company that she has bought another one in Atlanta. Follow your dreams.

  • @jamesboldcomedy6914
    @jamesboldcomedy6914 Před 5 lety +43

    Self-Help doesn't need to be a billion dollar industry because it's just one sentence. "Decide and Take Action"

    • @vladimirnarcisse6607
      @vladimirnarcisse6607 Před 3 lety +4

      All you need! Do something! I would add Fail forward, take and analyze metrics, and course correct. The most important thing though is to DO SOMETHING!

    • @CastleHassall
      @CastleHassall Před 2 lety +1

      @@vladimirnarcisse6607 true, it's DOING the good ideas we have makes a HUGE difference! Good luck with making good things happen folks!

    • @tinajthesinger
      @tinajthesinger Před 6 měsíci +1

      Yes.. But people hear things in different ways and are at different stages. That's why your sentence needs to be said in lots of different ways by different self help books; so many people can hear it and change their lives for the better.

    • @coachcicely908
      @coachcicely908 Před 2 měsíci +1

      But that's the question. If it is that easy, why is the self- help industry a billion dollar industry? 🤔

  • @TopGun_-
    @TopGun_- Před rokem +10

    Guys; know that you are doing great! Everything is falling into place for you very soon! This is the best time to head in that direction which you were always meant to go. Everything up til now happened for a great Devine reason, and you are now about to reap the benefits of your tremendous wisdom gained from all these experiences. Start that workout regimen! Get the wheels moving to start that business that you’ve always had in the back of your head. Today begins the first day of the best of your life! You’re gonna do this! 💪😎👍STAY STRONG !!!
    FYI, I’m 51 and ready to get back in shape (like I was in My 20s)and make my 50s the best decade of my life!

  • @royadair5078
    @royadair5078 Před 5 lety +41

    😀 Too young for the 60and 70 year old crowd and too old for the 30-40 yr. old crowd . I just live one day at a time and accomplish as much as I can on a daily basis.👍😊😎

  • @MarcV8888
    @MarcV8888 Před 11 lety +5

    What a breakthru for me! Been reading all Tony's books for over 20 yrs. I am involved with him in his coaching certifications, and go figure, this one minute and 45 seconds changes my life more than any book, seminar or advice given by friends ,teachers or family. Thank you ...again, Tony!!!!! And no, I dont want to ride with you back to Siberia by train to have you all to myself. lol

  • @davidpuddy8023
    @davidpuddy8023 Před 4 lety +9

    Guys and gals over 50- at least your arm wasn’t bitten off by a crocodile. Now carry on.

  • @Irisphotojournal
    @Irisphotojournal Před 6 lety +17

    If a 65 year old person can ride a bike 30 miles in a day that same person can ride around the World. You just have to, Start..!

  • @TopGun_-
    @TopGun_- Před rokem +2

    Guys; know that you are doing great! Everything is falling into place for you very soon! This is the best time to head in that direction which you were always meant to go. Everything up til now happened for a great Devine reason, and you are now about to reap the benefits of your tremendous wisdom gained from all these experiences. TODAY you are going to start the best part of your life! Start that workout regimen! Get the wheels moving to start that business that you’ve always had in the back of your head. Today begins the first day of the best of your life! You’re gonna do this! 💪😎👍STAY STRONG !!!
    FYI, I’m 51 and ready to get back in shape (like I was in My 20s)and make my 50s the best decade of my life!

  • @ArtByHazel
    @ArtByHazel Před rokem +6

    Decide.
    Give up the story.
    You have experience and wisdom.
    Take action.

    • @craigscottanderson966
      @craigscottanderson966 Před rokem

      Happy new year to you and the rest of your family how are you celebrating your holidays so far?🎉🎀💟💯🎁🎁🎊🎊

  • @Ilostmyfob
    @Ilostmyfob Před 3 lety +3

    I was all excited... and then the video ended abruptly! LOL....(tossing my notebook aside,)

    • @craigscottanderson966
      @craigscottanderson966 Před rokem

      Happy new year to you and the rest of your family how are you celebrating your holidays so far?🎉🎀💟💯🎁🎁🎊🎊

  • @nicolajones3288
    @nicolajones3288 Před 2 lety +1

    Thank you - I needed this

  • @CastleHassall
    @CastleHassall Před 2 lety +5

    I think thinking about and deciding what YOU want is key. Then doing steps towards that. At any stage in life. And don't let others make you feel you should do what they feel you should. And you don't have to "succeed" at some major goal, just doing what feels good to you is key to a happy life, and can lead to building up skills and friendships and business in the area YOU love to be in.. You love gardening? Do that. We don't have to build a huge company from it. Just be happy and do what makes you happy. Even little steps towards it.. These guys make money from making you feel you are not enough and dangling hope in front of you. But just do what YOU feel like with your day and you'd be surprised where that can lead and how that can help Ruth depression or steps etc. Nadine
    Maybe we need to regroup, recuperate, rest a while, with no pressure.. Then from there we can feel what WE want to do, even small things, and just do that and see where it takes us. We don't "need" success of big money etc, that is to buy us happiness, but we can get that by phoning a good friend or going out into nature and looking at the view or the trees and the flowers and have dinner with a friend or find a new friend through us just doing what we feel we want to do with our day.. Good luck folks
    You don't need the courses to get motivated, you just need to think about "what would i really like to do", and even if it's " have a snooze " then do that and recharge your batteries after a tough life and then regroup ourselves, keep people who keep making us feel down or upset away from us, and build what WE want in our life. The enthusiasm will come once we think about what we would LIKE to do. Even if it's relax for a while, that is a worthwhile thing as it gets our health and stress levels down which can lead to better health etc.. But you don't need to pay for a course off these guys who sneakily advertise by getting people to post about how their courses helped them. They cost thousands, just to get you to think about what would YOU really like to do. The enthusiasm will come if you decide on and think about things you would love to do.. In my opinion.. Good luck folks!

  • @annageoge1767
    @annageoge1767 Před 9 lety +9

    wow that was a quick video!

    • @cherylT321
      @cherylT321 Před 5 lety

      anna geoge.And a pointless video. It said absolutely nothing!

  • @doriswhite1348
    @doriswhite1348 Před 10 lety +4

    Nice burst of PLUS; totally upped my psyche. Thank you.

    • @craigscottanderson966
      @craigscottanderson966 Před rokem

      Happy new year to you and the rest of your family how are you celebrating your holidays so far?🎉🎀💟💯🎁🎁🎊🎊🎊

  • @dabigguy7788
    @dabigguy7788 Před 3 lety +3

    I'm 44 soon, seperated from my wife, after nearly 20 years together, two young kids, who.dont even know yet, and mortgaged up to our eyeballs so no way either of us can move out. This is gonna be tough, no way around it.

    • @AhmedAlikhanUK
      @AhmedAlikhanUK Před 3 lety +2

      Similar thing happened to me. You’ve got this. “We are not now that strength which in old days
      Moved earth and heaven, that which we are, we are,
      One equal temper of heroic hearts,
      Made weak by time and fate, but strong in will
      To strive, to seek, to find, and not to yield.” - Tennyson

  • @jonathangill9081
    @jonathangill9081 Před 6 lety +18

    I'm an avid Tony Robbins fan. I've read all his books, watched all of his TEDX talks etc. But this particular video was about as helpful as a fart in the wind.

    • @Nopeyou800
      @Nopeyou800 Před 5 lety

      Jonathan Gill lmao 🤣

    • @thecastle09
      @thecastle09 Před 5 lety +1

      hes fucking full of shitttt. smoke and morrors and blahblahblah...

    • @jamesboldcomedy6914
      @jamesboldcomedy6914 Před 5 lety +2

      Tony is a salesman who regurgitates stuff that was created by more intelligent people

    • @CastleHassall
      @CastleHassall Před 2 lety +1

      @@jamesboldcomedy6914 yeah, he sells hope.. Best just to think about what we would like to do, i think, then the enthusiasm and drive will come naturally. If it's something we want to do. And not let others make us feel what we want to do is not enough etc just don't let them cause loss of enthusiasm about our own plans for our own lives etc..

    • @mikefahey5270
      @mikefahey5270 Před 2 lety

      Hey a fart in the wind can be very helpful, releasing all that gas might make you feel better Lol

  • @DelbertStinkfester
    @DelbertStinkfester Před 6 lety +3

    AWESOME!!!!!......Problem Solved

  • @scotnick59
    @scotnick59 Před 10 lety +2

    sounds like an excellent idea

  • @paulnicolas172
    @paulnicolas172 Před 2 lety +4

    Dating is out for one thing and even if you do meet someone the attraction isn't there!

    • @katiawhitestar2857
      @katiawhitestar2857 Před 7 měsíci

      True.

    • @paulnicolas172
      @paulnicolas172 Před 7 měsíci

      @@katiawhitestar2857 Have you reinvented yourself then ?

    • @Riverwillow24
      @Riverwillow24 Před 4 měsíci

      My Mother remarried after my Father passed away in her late 50,s and went on to have a beautiful marriage for nearly 30 years.

    • @paulnicolas172
      @paulnicolas172 Před 4 měsíci +1

      @@Riverwillow24
      Thanks for your reply. Do think it’s easier though for women to find love as it seems few women want to date after a certain age and a lot of men that do so there is a discrepancy I think especially on dating sites as the men in there outnumber the amount of females

  • @dagoelius
    @dagoelius Před 6 lety +59

    I just want a quiet life away from society.

  • @lifeisgood2776
    @lifeisgood2776 Před 2 lety +2

    Baggage thats accumulated before 50 as in all walks of life can be your biggest obstacles! Imho!

  • @sueware8377
    @sueware8377 Před 3 lety +4

    Did I miss something? Where were the other 2 things we should do? Bummer that this quit so soon.

  • @WaryofExtremes
    @WaryofExtremes Před 16 dny

    No kids or nieces or nephews, job is a bear and I might lose it. Middle aged. Made a lot of bad decisions.
    I'd be just fine with a terminal diagnosis about now. I'd unplug, make the long trip to see family, and chill and wait

  • @TheJimbo1791
    @TheJimbo1791 Před měsícem

    thanks a lot

  • @mooreorlessvideos
    @mooreorlessvideos Před 2 lety +2

    Tony was struggling on this one

  • @Emo666Cali
    @Emo666Cali Před 4 lety +5

    Im homless im a laborer thats getting paid shit i have 0 credit i live in a tent behind a tree behind a tatoo parlor feeling really stupid right now about my life choices i dont have the strength i once did and i dont know where im going anymore my city turned to drugs and another race moved in that wont even hire me im tired of fighting and im echausted of everything. My life was a long life if shit i did all the work when everyone else got paid..i beg God every day to get this over with let it end . In jesus name Amen

    • @videosofinterest9227
      @videosofinterest9227 Před 3 lety +4

      Bro. Go to another city u like. Any way u can.. start again.

    • @videowaves1801
      @videowaves1801 Před 3 lety +3

      Sorry to hear. As an idea if ur can make 100 business cards with an email
      Address and cell number and write handyman. Give it to the people u think may need someone who come out of Home Depot. Start building a clientele doing cleaning jobs, paint jobs, fixing walls, all minor stuff. Be great at it. Be punctual and at first offer a better price than others. Eventually u are going to need a second person to help u do the jobs. Good luck.

    • @maxsonmusic6104
      @maxsonmusic6104 Před 2 lety +1

      Life is rough. I questioned my faith recently and realized I need to understand and learn patience.... it’s my biggest down fall. Wishing you can fix the issues in your life but will take great patience 😖🙏🏼God bless you.

    • @katiawhitestar2857
      @katiawhitestar2857 Před 7 měsíci

      How are things now? Did you make some decidions and work something out? I hope so. You sounded so desolate. God bless you. ❤️🙏

    • @cmitchell5593
      @cmitchell5593 Před 6 měsíci

      You wrote this years ago..how r u now? I understand how easily this can happen. When ur younger anynshit feels temp but older u feel pissed off with all u did wrong m like yhere lite hope. I get it. However its not IMPOSSIBLE. pls write back n update me. Sounds like ud have a few stories to tell n u i got onem suggestion x

  • @tommiebusche1001
    @tommiebusche1001 Před 5 lety +1

    Thank you

    • @craigscottanderson966
      @craigscottanderson966 Před rokem

      Happy new year to you and the rest of your family how are you celebrating your holidays so far?🎉🎀💟💯🎁🎁🎊🎊

  • @purplebutterfly360
    @purplebutterfly360 Před 5 lety

    OMG!!! It's "That Girl" ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥

  • @kevywilliams3304
    @kevywilliams3304 Před 3 lety

    That’s fun 🤩

  • @superb63amg94
    @superb63amg94 Před 3 lety +1

    Just like that? Wow!

  • @michaelkoretzka
    @michaelkoretzka Před 10 lety +3

    I love Tony but that is not a wall, that is a fence you can easy climb over

  • @Cri5antajon3s
    @Cri5antajon3s Před měsícem

    Amen!!!!

  • @chocolatefudge5263
    @chocolatefudge5263 Před rokem

    Friends!❤

  • @hereBDBD
    @hereBDBD Před 6 lety +1

    THAT GIRL!!

  • @Pfr10001
    @Pfr10001 Před 7 lety +13

    He's a good speaker but all these gurus are just a rehash of previous books from the last century, like "As A Man Thinketh" from 1903. A decision? How about a bunch of decisions? A wall? How about 3 or 4 walls? "Make a decision, persevere and think positive" are all good advise, but if you get laid off after 50 from corporate America, you'd better learn how to network in the 21st century (and you and I should have already been doing that) if you want to get back in. Get a networking plan and work, work work. Good luck job seekers.

    • @samuraibushido7077
      @samuraibushido7077 Před 5 lety

      :)!!! What you Said Is Key!!! and Is Fundamental to all that is said!!!! Thank you!!!!

    • @planetwalker798
      @planetwalker798 Před 2 lety

      I hear ya. And let’s get real- not everyone has a network, nor is it a “one size fits all” strategy

  • @ramsantosjr
    @ramsantosjr Před 10 lety +2

    HUMANITY HAS LOST ITS WAY.....

  • @zachalan4294
    @zachalan4294 Před 4 lety +1

    Didn’t she say there were three steps he only listed one

  • @millicentevans9232
    @millicentevans9232 Před 5 lety

    I like you tony . I like your truth

  • @mnminnmn
    @mnminnmn Před 8 lety +9

    evidently, you get a new mouthful of teeth.

  • @mannysunset
    @mannysunset Před 7 lety +10

    Wow that list of tips was so long lol 😂 horrible message Nothing

  • @stephenwilliams1269
    @stephenwilliams1269 Před 3 lety +1

    Avoid their plastic surgeon and dentist unless you want the Mr Ed look.

  • @cpannunzio
    @cpannunzio Před 10 měsíci

    Tony, don’t quit your real job, whatever that is….

  • @chocolatefudge5263
    @chocolatefudge5263 Před rokem

    Bunnies can swimm?!😮

  • @0patience4flz
    @0patience4flz Před 6 lety +1

    A crocodile story

  • @ontaiaffney2672
    @ontaiaffney2672 Před 6 měsíci

    the make - overs are so ixpinsive!! |/:).

  • @warrensmith3070-Angel-of-Light

    Change the internal narrative...

  • @metsot
    @metsot Před 11 měsíci

    I'm 51 ..I have spiritual depression. Soon it's time to die.

    • @WaryofExtremes
      @WaryofExtremes Před 16 dny

      No kids or nieces or nephews, job is a bear and I might lose it. Middle aged. Made a lot of bad decisions.
      I'd be just fine with a terminal diagnosis about now. I'd unplug, make the long trip to see family, and chill and wait

  • @cloud.0sharon-teinasagent326

    Well that sucked

  • @shroud1390
    @shroud1390 Před 4 lety

    This guy is a huge guru and doesnt know that alligators are in florida and not crocodiles??

  • @alpersungur6979
    @alpersungur6979 Před 4 lety +1

    Ew, you're 50! :-D

  • @servicenj448
    @servicenj448 Před 5 lety +1

    that was worst f----n analogy I ever heard!

  • @sheriklecan1474
    @sheriklecan1474 Před 11 měsíci

    That advice not helpful. Very different now..

  • @iwan2bninja
    @iwan2bninja Před 21 dnem

    pity party in the comment section

  • @talalalbalushi1925
    @talalalbalushi1925 Před 2 měsíci

    BS talk bla bla bla …

  • @miloenglish4165
    @miloenglish4165 Před 2 měsíci

    Can't stand this guy's voice. How is he so famous? 🙄🤦🏻