Stop Being A “People Pleaser” 👉 RESPECT YOURSELF!
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- The BRUTAL TRUTH every people pleaser needs to hear... How to cure the disease to please!
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Julien Blanc (AKA JulienHimself) is a Swiss-born, U.S.-based self-help speaker, entrepreneur and transformational coach.
Since 2010, he has been traveling around the world and has personally coached tens of thousands of clients face to face... Empowering them to create massive success in their lives!
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Stop Being A “People Pleaser” 👉 RESPECT YOURSELF!
What causes people pleasing? In this short, Julien Blanc (AKA Julien Himself) exposes the disease to please... And coaches a client into being real and being authentic!
#authenticity #bereal #peoplepleaser
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"I am enhanced around people, and when they leave I am not enough"
Damn that hit me hard 😢
I think one of the biggest problems with people pleasing is that they don’t fear you ever walking away or being angry. So you’ll find yourself in the situation by yourself when you need help because they know you’re always gonna be there even if they treat you like crap. Stop people pleasing there’s no winning to that.
It’s good to people please for 2-3 years, and then grow out of it. Experimenting is 🔑
its definitly not good and not a thing to "experiment", it's toxic behaviour, not good for you, not good for your relationships, not good for anyone
I think if more people “ Christians “ were accepting and loving we would all confess and talk more about our temptations. But the judgment is why some of us hold it inside
I agree, there's often too much judgement in Christianity, I myself have struggled with faith not because of the Psalms or Bible, but because of the lack of support some church groups have, I know it's that way where I live.
Sending you ❤
Yup that's me...I'm OK with it, recognize it and remember that it's not truth
I love this. Needed this. Thank u
Thanks for the recap and insight, Julien!
So true yet Sad!😳
good talk man, keep it up
New Affirmation...
I am enough.
this is the nature of being a narcissist. moral of the story teach yourself what narcissism is and dont do that.
Her surface level "I do feel like I'm good enough" was the hint for me.
Nope, that's your mask. Your mask is also doing the people pleasing. The people serve a function for you. Uphold the false self-esteem and validate the mask's worth
I needed to hear that so fuking much.
WOW..
🙏🙏🙏
Beautiful lady
I started people pleasing by being beaten down and just wanting to have someone give an actual shit about me. So I allowed myself to be taken advantage. Which is funny because it didn't change anything. I still had no friends and nobody treated me with any care. Everyone still threw me aside. So why am I doing it???
No one wants to be around you because like you said you are pleasing them wich is the thing that you shouldn’t do . People like being real and authentic.
@@saadlazaar9760 actually no. People have always bullied me and ignored me. Since I was a small child I've always been the outsider, even among my own family. Also been a victim of severe abuse. You don't know me and you can't base something off of a couple sentence answer on the internet.
@@MetalDeathMusic I was also like you in my child and some what teen age but I 'was'..if you think you are not needed (which I was everywhere..never needed shit🙂) be the wanted one.. Don't trap yourself in victim shit be the warrior that's your fight and if you are crying and doing nothing then sorry but you don't belong in this field🥱
Deep
Julien, I think your videos are incredible truth tellers. A lot of what you say reminds me of what I’ve discovered from my years in psychotherapy. Are you trained in that at all?
Glad this resonates! What I teach comes from 16+ years of working on myself and 12+ years of coaching... At this point, I've personally coached tens of thousands of people FACE TO FACE in over 40 countries! You learn a thing or two... 😉
@@JulienHimself I think it’s amazing that you’ve been able to have similar realisations from your own life experience! I think what you’re doing is great; thank you so much :’)
You're so welcome! 🙏
How to stop that?
The way I did it is, I started to put myself first before anyone. I also didn't care if someone liking me after that.
A good person would understand self-love, and therefore won't get mad at you for loving yourself and not pleasing everyone around you.
He good
Quick solution to break trauma bonding:
cut toxic people.
Anyone who behaves toxically - gone, door slam, ignore.
We don't do this. We stay instead with them. We normalize their abuse and toxic behaviour. We blame ourselves and then try to change ourselves to crap fit into abuse.
And doesn't nessacary good solution too. Not everyone you please is abusive or nar. Work on yourself/inside, outside will change
@@ego5652 if theyre not for us, we have the right to leave
Damn
Nice does not always = pleaser/weak/submissive. Spreading that rhetoric is very reductive in this world. The problem is that nice people have to deal with insecure, miserable, self loathing, hurt people. So reversing a natural/genuine niceness will just fuel a viscous cycle. It’s not your business to punish pr detect fake nice people. Mind your business and focus on how you can become a nicer person in spite of or despite this world around you.
Where Is the link of full video
Enjoy: czcams.com/video/4USJ4uuawp4/video.html
nah Julien, she could very well do it to get something back like do something good, then youre guaranteed to get something good back. A lot of women do this
Except people pleasing isn't "good"
Stop being a people pleaser: meanwhile, not on rumble
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@@JulienHimself legend
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