We Were There, December 19, 2018

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  • 9/11 Family Members Ray H. and Jim G. share their personal stories of September 11th in their 9/11 Tribute Museum presentation of We Were There on stage at the National September 11th Memorial Museum.
    Ray's wife Barbara worked in Midtown for Marsh & McLennan, but on 9/11 was in a meeting at their corporate office on the 99th floor of the North Tower. His life was forever altered that day, as he learned the hard way that each day spent with loved ones should be treasured. Still, Ray considers himself one of the lucky ones because Barbara's remains were able to be positively identified, and he was able to hold a memorial service for her.
    Jim's brother Joe worked for Cantor Fitzgerald on the uppermost floors of the North Tower, and was among those who were trapped after the impact of the plane destroyed the stairwells of the building. Jim's story is one of personal healing, and the journey of coping with the loss of his brother after being haunted by recurring nightmares.

Komentáře • 85

  • @paulaharlfinger829
    @paulaharlfinger829 Před 2 lety +39

    My only brother worked for Marsh & McClellan. On a last minute whim, he and four other attorneys decided to fly to Houston for depositions on the night of the 10th, missing that morning meeting. They were the only survivors. He was devastated.

    • @marymorenomariposa
      @marymorenomariposa Před 8 měsíci +2

      thank goodness he made the decision he did. best wishes to you and him

  • @linrogers4326
    @linrogers4326 Před 2 lety +23

    What a wonderful man Jim is. His story had me in tears. He spoke so profoundly. God bless him and all the other victims of 911.

  • @taffycat93
    @taffycat93 Před 3 lety +26

    Every year or so, I come onto CZcams and look up everything 9/11 all over again. I find myself traumatized by the images and stories every time. But I keep coming back. We must never forget. 💗🙏

    • @willettej7988
      @willettej7988 Před rokem

      Me too. Thanks for helping me not feel crazy

  • @jcanyiam8309
    @jcanyiam8309 Před 2 lety +9

    I had to RELISTEN to Jim's story OVER AGAIN to TRULY understand HOW POWERFUL his story of His Brother is!!! WOW!!! Thank You, Jim- STAY WELL (You'll NEVER Walk Alone)

  • @PutDownTheBunny
    @PutDownTheBunny Před 3 lety +57

    I have heard many of these talks and they all hit me deeply. This one however, hit me a little deeper. Thank you Judith, Ray and Jim.

    • @michelledeluigi3956
      @michelledeluigi3956 Před 3 lety +1

      I know how you feel i googled there names an read there tributes from their families so sad

    • @kimberlymurray9962
      @kimberlymurray9962 Před 2 lety +1

      SAME. I am shattered right now, and I believe, wholeheartedly that I will never forget Mr. Giacconi 🙏 rip

  • @jenniferbelcher3622
    @jenniferbelcher3622 Před 3 lety +23

    I've watched most of these now and this one just stands apart. I promise you Jim that Joe will not be forgotten and that your story made an enormous impact. Thank you.

  • @tq2769
    @tq2769 Před 3 lety +31

    Jim's story about his brother Joe and Jim himself really blew my mind. I've watched a lot of these and every story is compelling, but this one went right to the quick.

    • @mommad9863
      @mommad9863 Před 3 lety +1

      Yes! I'm squalling. His story was so powerful and profound. He's an amazing story teller. I'll never forget.

  • @taffycat93
    @taffycat93 Před 3 lety +9

    It was pretty amazing that he got a few pieces of his wife back when she had been in the 99th floor! Very humbling to listen to these stories.

  • @billglaser
    @billglaser Před 3 lety +11

    Now that I hear your story, your brother will never ever be forgotten, as long as this video exists millions will remember him...

  • @dannylarry9408
    @dannylarry9408 Před 3 lety +27

    So devastating still 19 years later. Never forget.

  • @SloppyHorrorPodcast
    @SloppyHorrorPodcast Před 3 lety +10

    Who could dislike these videos?
    All of you survivors are American heroes. God Bless 🇺🇸

  • @laureenweyell8801
    @laureenweyell8801 Před 3 lety +6

    Judith is such a wonderful facilitator.

  • @3PCTManOrBust
    @3PCTManOrBust Před 4 lety +46

    Out of all the stories I heard so far, Jim's story about his brother really hit home. God bless you all!

  • @deec411
    @deec411 Před 2 lety +8

    I read the CNN bios of all those lost on that horrific day. I needed to pay tribute to each victim who were simply living their life when they were senselessly murdered. Sending prayers to the loved ones of each precious person for continued strength and healing. 🙏🏻

    • @taffycat93
      @taffycat93 Před 2 lety

      Where did you find those bios...?

  • @37Raffaella
    @37Raffaella Před 4 lety +20

    Ray is a lovely person.....

  • @leanneadams2549
    @leanneadams2549 Před 2 lety +2

    Twenty years later and I’d still like to help I just don’t know what or how but I do know that I will make sure my grandson doesn’t forget!!!!
    I will never forget !
    🥀❤️😢🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸

  • @user-zs2gv1hs5z
    @user-zs2gv1hs5z Před 8 dny

    Your brother Joe will never be forgotten and did not die in vain, your story has touched me and lives across the world, across the years and will always, love triumphed even through such unbearable pain. God Bless you and Joe 🙏 from New Zealand.

  • @petertomasetti3338
    @petertomasetti3338 Před 3 lety +32

    This guys story about the mountain is one of the best stories I've ever seen on this.

  • @Kevsadone
    @Kevsadone Před rokem +3

    I am speechless. That was utterly profound and beautifully told

  • @richardpoplis6777
    @richardpoplis6777 Před 3 lety +5

    RAY.. I AM SO SAD TO HEAR THIS STORY.. YOU DO HAVE A NICHE.. YOU PUBLIC SPEAKING SKILLS ARE AWESOME.. BARBARBA.. IS IN HEAVEN.. BELEIVE ME... GOD BLESS YOU ..RAY

  • @marcellaleitedasilvaalves6722

    Man, Jim's story was hard.

  • @cathyjresindesigns
    @cathyjresindesigns Před rokem +2

    I have watched many of these stories, and my heart aches for all of them, but this one had me in tears. God bless you all...

  • @emmas5000
    @emmas5000 Před 3 lety +7

    So sweet how Ray has a photo of his wife in his hand. Jim’s story is amazing too. God bless you both ❤️❤️

  • @taffycat93
    @taffycat93 Před 3 lety +8

    The second story is so classic of PTSD. I admire him so much for sharing his story. I'm so glad he resolved things internally to some extent. I'll remember his brother Joe, as well as Ray and his story about his wife,from this video. 💗

  • @trippylizard2802
    @trippylizard2802 Před 3 lety +6

    Can someone please speak on battalion Chief NYCFD battalion 7 Orio Palmer and what he did on the day of 9/11?
    I saw how courageous he was in a CBS documentary of 9/11. If you don’t know his name please look him up. He is an amazing firefighter who gave his life to save innocent civilians. A true hero!!

  • @juskym
    @juskym Před 4 lety +34

    Very powerful stories. Thank you so much for sharing the most tragic day of your lives. I will always remember your stories and your loved ones.

  • @KarmasAbutch
    @KarmasAbutch Před 2 lety +2

    Good Lord Jim tells a story better than most pro movie voice over / narrators. I could physically see every frame of his experience in my minds eye and his brothers face at the end forms the final image as the credits would roll. I cried like a baby. What a lesson in the power of Humanity and human connection. ❤️‍🩹

  • @robingore
    @robingore Před 3 lety +11

    Thank You Ray & Jim

  • @bacaworld7095
    @bacaworld7095 Před 2 lety +2

    Never, ever, ever will I EVER FORGET!

  • @keithbertschin1213
    @keithbertschin1213 Před 2 lety +2

    Wonderful presenter, so sorry for your loss

  • @janice576
    @janice576 Před 2 lety +3

    Wow, We will never forget..🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
    What powerful stories..
    God bless you all. 😇🙏🏻😇🙏🏻

  • @graceandglamor
    @graceandglamor Před 3 lety +3

    So touching. Almost 20 years later...these stories made 9/11 even more real for me than when I watched the original footage the day it happened.

  • @judithniles2827
    @judithniles2827 Před 3 lety +9

    Judith, we want to hear your story of September 11th.

  • @taffycat93
    @taffycat93 Před 3 lety +5

    I'm about to cry listening about the story of Joseph Michael. What an amazing speaker this man is. God bless!

  • @BabsLongfellow
    @BabsLongfellow Před 3 lety +11

    I will remember. Thank-you for sharing these deeply personal stories. With tears running down my face, I thank you both. May God continue to bless you.

    • @leanneadams2549
      @leanneadams2549 Před 2 lety +2

      Well said Barbie and I am crying and feeling the same !!!

  • @audreyperrin320
    @audreyperrin320 Před rokem +1

    I love hearing the stories I did not know anyone that was there

  • @richardpoplis6777
    @richardpoplis6777 Před 3 lety +4

    JIM.. THANKS FOR TELLING YOUR STORY.. GOD BLESS YOU.. SO SORRY ON YOUR LOSS OF YOUR BROTHER JOE..

  • @mellowyellowmom7631
    @mellowyellowmom7631 Před 9 dny

    May God bless you all!💕🙏🏻💕

  • @ubernate860
    @ubernate860 Před 2 lety +4

    I cant imagine being handed a few small pieces of your loved one. Awful

  • @mtio2807
    @mtio2807 Před 3 lety +1

    We remember. We will tell our kids. Our kids will tell their kids. We will never forget.

  • @gibsonindistress418
    @gibsonindistress418 Před 4 lety +27

    Thank you both for sharing your stories.

  • @MissBe737
    @MissBe737 Před 4 lety +13

    Thank you for sharing. Your family members will not be forgotten. May God comfort you

  • @imshaehen9971
    @imshaehen9971 Před 3 lety +5

    Touched! Xoxo from Dallas Texas

  • @QS-si3cq
    @QS-si3cq Před 2 lety +9

    I wondered how they presented the remains to those that actually wanted to see them. This is the first video in this series I've seen that addressed that. What a tough proposition to consider the forces at work that day, in that most people recovered were blown apart in the attack events and/or pulverized in the tower collapse that day.
    As the host said, people really do wonder about things like that, so it was a big, personal share to make to a room of strangers.

    • @carolines3953
      @carolines3953 Před 2 lety +1

      I’m sure the families hope their loved one didn’t suffer; that it was quick. Like Ray said, his wife was at point of entry on the 99th floor and that’s all they recovered of her so he can hope it was quick. I can’t imagine what people trapped above faced. My mind can’t go there. But to know that people chose to jump rather than face the fires inside, it’s unfathomable and breaks my heart.

  • @stephc7127
    @stephc7127 Před 2 lety +1

    I remember your brother Joe today.

  • @melinda5777
    @melinda5777 Před 2 lety +2

    Both GENTLEMEN were great! Thank you both for sharing!

  • @gretchenweddle2298
    @gretchenweddle2298 Před 10 měsíci +1

    Thank you for posting ❤ Never Forget

  • @tinaturner134
    @tinaturner134 Před 3 lety +2

    The towers were Post to be to be a safe place rest in peace lovely angel 9/11

  • @lynnlopresti5869
    @lynnlopresti5869 Před 2 lety +1

    We will not forget. These stories are heartbreaking. Thank you for sharing. I am so deeply sorry for your loss!

  • @amandac7270
    @amandac7270 Před 2 lety +2

    Thank you for sharing your stories. I’ve been listening to them all for the past week.

  • @thenanlife1141
    @thenanlife1141 Před 4 lety +6

    Truly remarkable people

  • @shawnpeters2669
    @shawnpeters2669 Před 2 lety

    They will never be forgotten.

  • @whitevaultgirl
    @whitevaultgirl Před 3 lety +1

    Thank you for sharing!

  • @HidiNichole
    @HidiNichole Před 3 lety +2

    Thank you for sharing your stories. I will never ever forget.

  • @juliamarin4896
    @juliamarin4896 Před 3 lety +3

    Thank you for taking the time to share your stories.

  • @Atheenah
    @Atheenah Před 2 lety +1

    Powerful and emotional. 🙏🏼

  • @icecreamcoveredchocolate359

    Thank you both for sharing. Heartbreaking day.

  • @BobThePlayer
    @BobThePlayer Před 3 lety

    Thank you for sharing your stories 🙏 ❤️

  • @sashas8168
    @sashas8168 Před 2 lety +1

    So heart breaking...

  • @michellemahar9030
    @michellemahar9030 Před 3 lety +1

    Thank you for sharing this. Please know that by sharing your stories you have helped so many.

  • @Augfordpdoggie
    @Augfordpdoggie Před měsícem

    Ray's story is crazy, if they gave me pieces of my wifes body, I was absolutely lose my shi and never recover

  • @haroldpuckett9196
    @haroldpuckett9196 Před 3 lety +1

    May God bless you all

  • @ashleyparks1738
    @ashleyparks1738 Před 11 měsíci +1

    I can't believe 9/11 happened and we still don't have answers for family members.

  • @ItsLina
    @ItsLina Před 3 lety +1

    Wow....

  • @VickiBee
    @VickiBee Před rokem

    I was a friend. . ..and a neighbor, but I don't think that counts. With HIS family, it makes sense, but not mine. I would want my friends there as much as family because my family has so many issues with narcissism and I was a foster child; she wasn't my real mother and he wasn't my real dad, but suddenly we were "family?" That's one reason I think someone can definitely choose family. You choose your spouse too.
    That must be what Eric meant when he said you can think of some friends as family and that some friends are better than family.

  • @allysonh6410
    @allysonh6410 Před 2 lety

    Judith does an amazing job

  • @marynelson7995
    @marynelson7995 Před 2 lety +1

    ❤️

  • @ericrerrud1145
    @ericrerrud1145 Před 2 lety

    It’s good to hear other stories. Almost every 9/11 documentary tells the exact same handful of stories.

  • @yeahnoonecaresifyouarefirst
    @yeahnoonecaresifyouarefirst Před 9 měsíci

    That was God's way of letting you know hell is real.......

  • @atulshetty3127
    @atulshetty3127 Před 3 lety

    Please interview Stanley praimnath and brian Clark in ur show

  • @sharonkostiuk9259
    @sharonkostiuk9259 Před 3 lety

    6:51

  • @fogums
    @fogums Před 2 lety +1

    Lest we forget the victims of 9/11

  • @USAOnlineCasinos
    @USAOnlineCasinos Před 3 lety +2

    Judith needs to talk less...obnoxious

  • @KK-ur6wl
    @KK-ur6wl Před 4 lety +1

    WHY CANT THIS JUDITH TALK LOUDER !!!ANNOYING