How to be a Successful Single Mother | MINDSET FOR SUCCESS

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  • čas přidán 11. 11. 2019
  • I want to teach you how to be a successful single mother. Being a single mother is tough. I understand that because I was in your shoes many years ago. The limited time, endless mom duties and need to provide financially. You'd think those single mom business success stories aren't for you. But you can become a successful single mom. Yes, it's possible!
    My goal as a single mother was to be one of those successful single mom entrepreneurs with one of those single mom success stories. And with the right attitude and mindset, I was able to achieve it!
    Now I want to teach all you single moms how to be a successful single mother. Check out this video to learn how!
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Komentáře • 481

  • @LinhPodetti
    @LinhPodetti  Před 2 lety +4

    👉👉 Enjoy my content on CZcams? Connect with me on Instagram: instagram.com/linhpod/

  • @leahmolly9150
    @leahmolly9150 Před 7 měsíci +44

    I was raped😔 and got pregnant now my baby girl is all I got in the world 😓 I just want a better life for her

    • @djeechizzy9818
      @djeechizzy9818 Před 7 měsíci

      ​@aprilaustin4103I've heard alot about crypt currency and how effective it can grow your income! Any recommendations on a guide?

    • @lindapoplin7150
      @lindapoplin7150 Před 7 měsíci +2

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    • @lindapoplin7150
      @lindapoplin7150 Před 7 měsíci

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    • @lindapoplin7150
      @lindapoplin7150 Před 7 měsíci +1

      WARREN T SONIA

    • @djeechizzy9818
      @djeechizzy9818 Před 7 měsíci

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  • @ashleyannmoss7371
    @ashleyannmoss7371 Před 3 lety +191

    It was this video that allowed me to leave my toxic relationship and feel empowered as a single mom. I got my own apartment and lived by myself for the first time, got a better job, went to counseling, saved up and bought a house at 22. THIS VIDEO WAS SO POWERFUL DURING MY WEAKEST POINTS. Thank you so much!

    • @LinhPodetti
      @LinhPodetti  Před 2 lety +5

      omg Im so happy to hear! Please keep me updated on your journey!

    • @Marysamuel
      @Marysamuel Před 2 lety +2

      Wow so proud of u girl. This is the inspiration I needed

    • @theshysingingbabe9040
      @theshysingingbabe9040 Před 2 lety

      How did you really save up??
      Am a single mom from Uganda but am finding it really hard..
      Am even jobless..
      Please guys help me

    • @Marysamuel
      @Marysamuel Před 2 lety +2

      @@theshysingingbabe9040 you are not alone dear.. I think first of all is u need to get a job and have something doing

    • @theshysingingbabe9040
      @theshysingingbabe9040 Před 2 lety

      @@Marysamuel I've tried applying for jobs in all ways..but I've really failed..
      Am hoping to start up a small business when I get money..
      But...it's really hard
      😭😭🙏

  • @ladyindaroom
    @ladyindaroom Před měsícem +4

    This woman is all the way right. Make sure yall are stacking up your money.
    Don’t always want to spend, spend, spend money.
    Don’t be afraid to build up financially.
    Don’t be afraid to save up your monies and not touch it.
    I’m a single mom of two ages 19 and 20.
    They are not in college.
    Hoping and praying my daughter makes up her mind to go.
    She’s a single mom at 19 also.
    Ladies we start by making sure to not allow the wrong man to impregnate us.
    Honestly, that’s where the Foundation starts.

  • @leapaulajimenez3634
    @leapaulajimenez3634 Před rokem +21

    "You don't have to raise your kid alone just to be a good mother." -- thank you for this.

  • @noninoni454
    @noninoni454 Před 9 měsíci +19

    Most single moms have loads of family support. I have literally been alone with my kids no help no family and my story is not a story of success like hers. The fact that we are alive is the amount of success I have achieved

    • @fowziaanis9619
      @fowziaanis9619 Před 4 měsíci

      You know I'm single here Hungary from my own country. I'm a student and get pregnant. I feel like I'm alone in this type of journey but after watching u guys I feel yup I can survive inshaAllah.Alhamdulillah I have my family & husband support.the thing is I'm alone that's it.pray for me❤

    • @Ninabeana13
      @Ninabeana13 Před 2 měsíci +4

      Most single moms that I know including myself do not have support. I have nothing and when I have a tiny amount of help from the kindness of a friend, I appreciate it so much. But then it’s back to square one, I always struggle. I have lost countless jobs because the lack of support, even childcare isnt affordable 100% of the time I need it. I feel there’s no end in sight. I’m doing my best and we are healthy, alive, and the bills are mostly paid. I guess that is a small success!

    • @Celestriona
      @Celestriona Před 2 měsíci +2

      Yeah, disabled child, no parents, no family, no child support. It’s pretty rough.

    • @noninoni454
      @noninoni454 Před 2 měsíci +2

      @@Ninabeana13 Yes that is an accomplishment when the bills are mostly paid. There are blessings in the struggle

    • @noninoni454
      @noninoni454 Před 2 měsíci +2

      @@Celestriona It can be very rough. I hope you can find some time to enjoy things you might love. Sending you lots of strength and Love 💕

  • @Roxanne821
    @Roxanne821 Před rokem +27

    I have three kids. I'm low income and I can't afford to pay for childcare outside the hours covered by my vouchers. I'm finishing my degree. But meeting anyone, dating, going out feels impossible. I feel like I'm already spread too thin and I'm always with my kids. I definitely agree that we single moms need to put ourselves first so our kids get the best of us and a bright future.

  • @shivonehosein3309
    @shivonehosein3309 Před 4 lety +112

    Thank you for this I have two kids and I’m trying to finish university at the age of 31. I needed this.

    • @LinhPodetti
      @LinhPodetti  Před 4 lety +4

      I'm glad Shivone 🙂 Be your best!

    • @Sammieh8su
      @Sammieh8su Před 4 lety +4

      I think it is great that you are working toward your degree! I am in the same boat. I'm a single mother who is going to school , working, and building a CZcams channel.

    • @danielletooze3579
      @danielletooze3579 Před 3 lety +4

      You can do it 🙏 im in my second year of university and 4 months pregnant, im going to be a single mum 😊 these videos are so inspiring 💖

    • @carlyalexandria8445
      @carlyalexandria8445 Před 3 lety

      👏🏻 👏🏻 👏🏻

    • @kedkedekuethboth2267
      @kedkedekuethboth2267 Před rokem

      Am a single mom too... trying to finish my University.

  • @etjoie7188
    @etjoie7188 Před 2 lety +43

    I'm 36 and a single mom. I definitely related to you mentioning wanting the family and not getting the family dynamic you so craved. That's what I wanted with my ex and that's what he played on. Of course, I'm a single mom and stressed, but I've been watching single-mom videos all day and THIS ONE will be on repeat for me daily until I believe I deserve the best life and can work towards achieving that for myself and my son. Thank you for this!

  • @Rich_Coconut
    @Rich_Coconut Před 10 měsíci +5

    I’ve been a single mom for 8 years now, it’s still hard but it’s all worth it ❤

  • @ioanad6718
    @ioanad6718 Před 4 měsíci +2

    People need to stop talking about being a single mom is where life ends. I was so afraid to leave a toxic relationship just because i was so let down. Then i realised it was the best decision i could make for me and my baby. Instead of dealing with all those problems i can focus on my dreams and we have peace home

    • @LinhPodetti
      @LinhPodetti  Před 4 měsíci

      Agree and wishing you continued success and happiness on your journey! 💪🏽🌟

  • @brieey1482
    @brieey1482 Před 3 lety +8

    Currently 20 & single had my 1st child Jan 8,2021.

    • @LinhPodetti
      @LinhPodetti  Před 3 lety

      you are in the same boat as I was. I hope you stay strong and use my story as an inspiration.

  • @pinkyshabalala455
    @pinkyshabalala455 Před rokem +8

    Thank U ,I needed to hear this as a single divorced mother of two , sometyms I feel so lonely and depressed but I hope one day I will meet someone whom we will enjoy life together 🙏

  • @EchoWhiskey11
    @EchoWhiskey11 Před 7 dny

    So... Im here because I want to see if being a successful single mom exists. My ex left me, and took our son. Naturally I want them both safe, so I literally dump thousands of dollars each month and give her all the support so she can take off on her own, (25 percent of the obligated versus the 60 percent I actually give her). Long story short, she hasn't. It's not easy and I have a huge amount of respect for you considering you did it all on your own. Universally you have to want to succeed.

  • @inggaymukbang9510
    @inggaymukbang9510 Před 4 lety +38

    We have the exact family situation and I also became a single mom at the age of 20. You'll be my role model from now on and I will my very best to reach where you are one day. Thank you so much! Please keep inspiring all single moms out there!

    • @LinhPodetti
      @LinhPodetti  Před 4 lety +3

      Thank you, Inggay. All the best, walk with a positive heart! You can do this 😀😀!

  • @annabelelaudencia7943
    @annabelelaudencia7943 Před měsícem

    Hi I’m Anna I’m 30 y/o I’m from Philippines 🇵🇭 and I’m single mother of 2 kids and I only support to my kids I working them alone .. thanks for ur video ❤

  • @AweleJane-lt3no
    @AweleJane-lt3no Před 20 dny

    I'm a single mom of a son, all I want is financial support to establish my food cooking business.

  • @romajanetumambac2266
    @romajanetumambac2266 Před 11 měsíci +2

    I do really agree with this, I’ve got the exact same mind set to prioritize ourselves first cause once we’ve got there, they will be more happy and enjoy life with us. Don’t want to see them in miserable situation, you need to sacrifice for them.

  • @katherineallen7042
    @katherineallen7042 Před 3 lety +19

    Thank you so much for taking the time to make this video! I am a 27 year old who is now a single mother of 4. I am struggling with depression, anxiety, and PTSD day to day and am searching for financial tips and encouragement. This video really was eye opening and gave a little bit of everything. I am a fighter and will keep pressing on no matter what challenges are thrown my way. again thank you for making this video, lets me know I am not alone in this journey.

    • @LinhPodetti
      @LinhPodetti  Před 3 lety +1

      Thanks for sharing Katherine 💕 It's not an easy journey that you are on. I wish you strength to face life's ups and downs. If things get too much, please do reach out and seek proper medical help.

    • @Heseesyou
      @Heseesyou Před 2 měsíci +1

      Can you tell me what has happened since your comment?❤

    • @ArdShrivastav-we2zr
      @ArdShrivastav-we2zr Před 2 měsíci

      Hi mam😊

  • @sapnasharma7807
    @sapnasharma7807 Před 3 lety +3

    My challenge is my financial situation that is stopping me from moving out

  • @rachelbateman4908
    @rachelbateman4908 Před 2 lety +16

    Thank you! Very motivational. I left my toxic relationship when i was 8 months pregnant with our second child and now, 10 months later, i still struggle to leave my babies in someone else’s care. I love how you explained the logic behind letting go of that mentality in order to secure a better life for my family. Truly inspiring 💗

  • @momsawaken4314
    @momsawaken4314 Před 3 lety +23

    These are a lot of good thoughts! I especially agree that being a single mom doesn't have to stop you from pursuing your dreams!

    • @LinhPodetti
      @LinhPodetti  Před 3 lety +1

      Thanks! There are many different paths that we can choose to walk on. Each with their struggles and their rewards ❤️

    • @Fredchidexsynths
      @Fredchidexsynths Před 2 lety

      Hi...I love you

  • @Chloezoeybear
    @Chloezoeybear Před 5 měsíci

    I was doing good achieving my goals, doing online school, working full time taking her to childcare during the day, using her time at her dads to have a rich social life, and I just started to feel guilty like I wasn't spending enough time with her. So I caved and let her dad move in with me to help me with her. It is a relief, but I feel like a failure because all of that kind of led me to exhaustion. How do you deal with exhaustion as a mom when it seems like the grind never stops? Even a few days off doesn't really do it for me.

  • @HealthandBeautyAP
    @HealthandBeautyAP Před 4 měsíci

    I agree with you on child care. I do believe that many people think that putting your child in childcare is selfish.
    I have struggled with this through my childrens life is my husband who believes that I can have a business as long as it doesnt interfere with being a mother.

  • @butterbean5544
    @butterbean5544 Před rokem

    Thank you for this honesty! ❤️

  • @natashaletourneau5368
    @natashaletourneau5368 Před 3 lety +19

    I’m 8 months pregnant & 33 yrs old... I needed this! 😭💙

    • @SL-ve8rb
      @SL-ve8rb Před 3 lety +7

      You are not alone...I am the same age as you and 8 months pregnat as well, and very unhappy with my marriage. Sometimes I think it would be best for me just to be dead.

    • @Lafleurbrioche
      @Lafleurbrioche Před 3 lety +5

      I am 35 now and had my first at 31 went back to school at 31 1/2 and am doing pretty well. Some day its harder than others but you can do it and will!!

    • @natashaletourneau5368
      @natashaletourneau5368 Před 3 lety +2

      @@Lafleurbrioche thank you! I just had my boy 5 weeks ago!

    • @LinhPodetti
      @LinhPodetti  Před 3 lety +1

      Thank you all for the wonderful support! Yes, we are not alone. If things get too tough, please do reach out and get professional help.

    • @sim22ify
      @sim22ify Před 3 lety +1

      Congratulations!! 😊May this motherhood bring you more strength and love n happiness with ua baby boy.
      As new mum i might get difficult at times but at same time small moments with lil one will be worth it . Dont miss it , this moment will never come back when he grows big....
      Lots of love and strenght to you!!!

  • @lucyrodriguez9835
    @lucyrodriguez9835 Před 11 měsíci

    Thank you so much I been searching for a video that I could relate and be hopeful again thank you ❤

  • @courtneycastleberry3565
    @courtneycastleberry3565 Před 4 lety +28

    I feel child care is what is stopping me.

    • @LinhPodetti
      @LinhPodetti  Před 4 lety +10

      I'm sorry you feel that way, Courtney. How about family or friends, or working around your child's schedule? Take time to look after yourself, become stronger and in a better position to give the best to your child 😊

  • @HH-id1cl
    @HH-id1cl Před 4 lety +1

    Thank you for the sharing.

  • @daphneydoma7351
    @daphneydoma7351 Před 2 lety +3

    I'm 5 months pregnant with my first child and my boyfriend doesn't want us. I needed this. Thankyou.

    • @LinhPodetti
      @LinhPodetti  Před 2 lety

      Im glad I can help you.

    • @ethellukwele8492
      @ethellukwele8492 Před 2 lety +3

      Be strong my sister we are in the same situation...let's just be strong some situations are made for us to be strong, behind every successful person there is always a story of rejection because that is what will give you wisdom once you are rejected your start using your brains..I am 6months pregnant too with my first child going through the same.

    • @Preciousdxo
      @Preciousdxo Před rokem

      @@ethellukwele8492 Me too :(

  • @LanieMy
    @LanieMy Před 2 měsíci

    Thank you so much for this video !

  • @uzaramadevotha9610
    @uzaramadevotha9610 Před 4 lety +3

    Thanks for posting this; am single mum too from Rwanda africa

    • @LinhPodetti
      @LinhPodetti  Před 4 lety

      You're welcome :) Hope you're happy and draw on the strength that comes from love 💖

  • @ate_elz
    @ate_elz Před 2 lety +6

    I'm a single parent and working as a housemaid. And now I do blogging and I hope someday I will be successful 🙏

    • @LinhPodetti
      @LinhPodetti  Před 2 lety

      Good luck, yes dream big and believe!

  • @user-mx3fd3vw2m
    @user-mx3fd3vw2m Před 2 měsíci

    Thank you. You're a big help for me

  • @anonymous-fn2ky
    @anonymous-fn2ky Před 11 měsíci

    thank you beautiful soul, uve helped me with this video❤🙏💫💕

  • @jujutobinson5038
    @jujutobinson5038 Před 3 lety +8

    Thankyou so much for this video, I’m 27 had a baby at 26 went back to school to get a degree. Nothing is really holding me back b/c I’m just so determine to succeed , I just really wish that I could speed up time so I can start enjoying my success. I really can’t wait to be fully successful in my own life.

  • @isthewiz25
    @isthewiz25 Před rokem +7

    Love your video and your powerful testimony. I believe when we share our testimony about our ups and downs it empowers people who may be going through the same thing. keep up the good work. My heart goes out to all single moms and mothers, who may be in a toxic relationship. You guys are amazing.❤️🌹👏😃👍

    • @LinhPodetti
      @LinhPodetti  Před rokem +1

      Thanks for your kind words 😊

    • @isthewiz25
      @isthewiz25 Před rokem

      You’re very welcome. Moms are amazing.❤️👱‍♀️👶❤️👏😃👍

    • @mnbNnn-ni8lt
      @mnbNnn-ni8lt Před 4 měsíci +1

      Thanks so much am single mum struggling with 1 kid any support if you you can, please

  • @wayburit5440
    @wayburit5440 Před 3 lety +1

    Like and subsribed already. When I woke, i typed how to be successful single mom then this appears. And i didn't regret watching this. Thumbs up to u. Hoping to meet you personally.

    • @LinhPodetti
      @LinhPodetti  Před 3 lety

      Yay thanks so much Ching. I will make more videos like this for you.

  • @givingyourlifeameaning7865

    Thanks for sharing

  • @TheMSDiaby
    @TheMSDiaby Před 3 lety +1

    Woow all what u say i need, i lost myself in motherhood

  • @alyciagordon3447
    @alyciagordon3447 Před rokem +3

    I went through alot of financial crises during my divorce. I had to raise my kids up all alone with no help from anyone. Currently I am living smart and frugal with my money. Bought my second house already. Saving and investing lifestyle made it possible for me.., Till now I earn monthly through passive income. I am planning on retiring when my kids are done with college...
    .

    • @davidreus9321
      @davidreus9321 Před rokem

      I am a single Dad. Not quite long I started investing. I'm very curious and need help on how to enhance and increase my returns. Any good investment tips would be appreciated.

    • @alyciagordon3447
      @alyciagordon3447 Před rokem

      @@davidreus9321 I invest across the top markets but not by myself tho. i follow the guidelines of Alexandra Diana Jose. .

    • @alyciagordon3447
      @alyciagordon3447 Před rokem

      @@davidreus9321 I can correctly say she’s worth her salt as a investment advisor . I say because i see that in her results as my portfolio grows by averages of 20 to 30%.

    • @alyciagordon3447
      @alyciagordon3447 Před rokem

      @@davidreus9321 OVERALL, she made me financially stable investing with her help. So I'll advice you do get a good investment advisor for yourself.

    • @davidreus9321
      @davidreus9321 Před rokem

      @@alyciagordon3447 please how do i get in touch with her.
      Impressive. Would you mind sharing some more details. I’d like to have a talk with her.

  • @sincerlysade__6311
    @sincerlysade__6311 Před rokem

    Thank you.

  • @chanelthedll
    @chanelthedll Před rokem +2

    Glad I came across your page, thank u so much for this info. Single boy Mom of 2 boys & I am 21. No family support & a inconsistent "dad"

  • @divineamazingmoments2745

    thanks so much!

  • @SundasGul.1
    @SundasGul.1 Před 2 lety +1

    Thnk u for th story it made me stronger

  • @Ria_hymns
    @Ria_hymns Před rokem

    Your beginning story is so similar to mine oh my

  • @dushenpags4224
    @dushenpags4224 Před 2 lety

    Thanks for the share

  • @toniwishful4114
    @toniwishful4114 Před 4 lety +12

    Thank you for posting this. It made my day easier as a single mom.

    • @LinhPodetti
      @LinhPodetti  Před 4 lety

      Wow, that is really heartening to hear 🥰🥰

  • @anamariakovacs5170
    @anamariakovacs5170 Před 3 lety +2

    I like this alot because most of the videos I have seen have used self love alot and I've never understood that. One video was saying I cant love someone if I dont love myself because I dont know what love is and I dont agree with that. Love always came naturally to me, it's my make up. I understand that I should have respect and some dignity. I should not tear myself down but build myself up instead. Your approach made more sense to me and you were honest and some of those questions were brutal but it was good. It was an effort to get to the root of the problem. I feel that almost all the reasons you mentioned are ways I have sabotaged myself. I grew up in a very violent home, I was constantly made fun and put down, yelled at, physically abused and I know I wasn't in a proper frame of mind when I ended up with my ex. I know I can trace alot of this back to trauma, to so much physical and emotional abuse that it affected my mental health. I ate my feelings and was in a constant state of stress. Then I ended up with diabetes, pcos and adrenal fatigue. I think there are so many things holding me back but one step at a time right? Gotta start somewhere. My health has been improving and I've been researching on more natural but intensive methods of healing and I'm having improvement. I struggle with my confidence and any belief I can do anything at all. I was told my whole life I couldn't succeed at this or that and all my ideas were shot down. My grades suffered, teachers talked to my dad and he blamed me so I was punished through detentions, suspensions and really condescending teachers. I'd fall asleep in class because my dad stayed up all night. He even blackmailed me into doing his computer course for him! Now I have this terrible, terrible fear of failing that I'm not sure how to overcome but I feel like you are a lifeline. I'm tired of hearing from people who don't share my single motherhood state but tell me how and what I should do. I'd like to meet people but I feel so awkward. It's been 5 years and then covid. I dont know how to reach out to anyone. I'm at the point in my life (32) where it's not easy to make new, lasting friendships. I want to succeed but feel so repressed. Because I wasnt allowed to explore my options, I have pent up anger even though I practice daily gratitiude. I'm not a drinker, smoker and I don't do drugs. How do you find what you love? Like my schooling was pretty controlled so I dont know if my interests are really my interests anymore. Do you know what I mean? Sometimes you like something for a period of time because something in it appeals to you until you are there doing it and then realize it's not for you. I feel like being 32, I dont feel I have all the time in the world. I've been running out of steam with my kids and health issues that I feel spent but I desperately want to feel alive and rejuvenated! I feel like I work at something and then something comes in my life that interrupts my progress and sets me 10 steps back. Yes, I also do want to feel loved again but with someone who's not broken but I need to be in that position! All my thoughts are jumbled right now. Probably my very biggest worry at the moment is the deep seated, anxiety inducing stressful thoughts of trying to be successful. I am so afraid of failing, of wasting even more time. I hope you make a video addressing your fears, mindset of persevering when your emotional and dependent on some sort of stress relief. In your case it was alcohol and it almost was for me except it was destroying my health so fast so I had to stop. I'd love it if you made another video about healthy habits vs bad habits. Substituting for example the need to overindulge, daily routines that help. Something along those lines. Thanks for listening to my ramble and I hope it made sense. Thanks for your video and I'm happy that you are in a much better place. I wasn't to be there with you one day!

    • @LinhPodetti
      @LinhPodetti  Před 3 lety +1

      Thanks so much for sharing your story. I really appreciate it. I will create some videos about fears and mindset for persevering :-)

    • @anamariakovacs5170
      @anamariakovacs5170 Před 3 lety

      @@LinhPodetti thank you! I feel I'm missing some thing in my toolbox and I'm starting to wonder if I need a life coach. There's always room and need for growth and that's what I want to do but often I get caught up in my day to day duties and forget the longer plan that i should be working towards. I guess it's just easy to get caught up in routine and your mental state becomes a routine as well. Would love to hear how you kept yourself going, what ignited you when you were down and how you kept to your goals. See, I keep my family at a distance now and I am feeling better for it. It's good for me and so I'm beginning to see how negativity can hurt and affect any plans at all. What about the negativity you can't avoid? You could be in a bad environment which you have no control over for example working a job as a single parent that offers childcare options and ability to work from home at times and no one can compete with that but your co workers are very negative people. Sometimes your in a situation and there is no end in sight. I don't know where or how I can get certified and go to school. I'm looking at shorter term options. What mental tools would you use? I would love to hear more of your thoughts and opinions.

    • @LinhPodetti
      @LinhPodetti  Před 3 lety

      Anita Kovacs what’s your email? I will invite you to our new women success group to help give you some more guidance ? Pls email me linh@outsourcingangel.com.au

  • @dianelyssanchez2676
    @dianelyssanchez2676 Před 3 lety +2

    Fear of failure...this holds me back from doing what I truly want. Working through this now - I’m single, 34 years old and 36 months pregnant 🤰

    • @LinhPodetti
      @LinhPodetti  Před 3 lety

      You got this! Dont be afraid to try new things, only win or learn. No failure.

  • @jenniezhang4383
    @jenniezhang4383 Před 3 lety +1

    It's so good!

  • @ceciliabush3495
    @ceciliabush3495 Před 3 lety +1

    I happy for you 👍🏽 happiness and love is the greatest gift

  • @haileywilliams9295
    @haileywilliams9295 Před 2 lety +6

    Ugh felt this I got pregnant at 17 being single 19 year old mum is hard especially because I haven’t lived life now I’m tryna help my kid figure out life when I’m tryna do that too

  • @serenitydismuke7594
    @serenitydismuke7594 Před rokem

    This video helped me a lot thank u

  • @jamillarose5294
    @jamillarose5294 Před 3 lety +4

    Hi I have two kids under 3 so the childcare cost is stopping me I live in an expensive city. I have no help from family!! Their dad seems them inconsistently so I can't really work around that. I feel like my option is to wait until they are in school full time but by then I feel like I am already losing my feelings of ambitions and energy!

    • @LinhPodetti
      @LinhPodetti  Před 3 lety +1

      I'm sorry things are tough Camilla. Don't give up. We need to be positive and resourceful when times are hard. Seek out help, mend fences with your family. Hope things look up for you soon.

  • @LinhPodetti
    @LinhPodetti  Před 4 lety +27

    Thank you so much for watching. Let me know in the comment below what is the one thing that is holding you back from success?

    • @vinezacalungsod6226
      @vinezacalungsod6226 Před 4 lety

      salamat, single mom po aku but hnd ko Alam ang gagawin ko, I didn't go to college, my baby still 1yr old, im a breastfeeding mom, I really don't know what to do, pls help😣

    • @tamaralawrence5424
      @tamaralawrence5424 Před 3 lety

      Communication skills- getting nervous and having anxiety

    • @meghnasingh9601
      @meghnasingh9601 Před 2 lety

      M'am sometimes people around you don't let you live peacefully.They say bad things behind your back especially to single moms living in India and plus husband also spread lies and wrong tumors about you to others.All of this makes it difficult to live on a day to day basis .

  • @sharisss2608
    @sharisss2608 Před 2 lety

    Omg this is so what i needed ❤️🥰 happy you spread the knowledge and inspiration.

  • @abayer1371
    @abayer1371 Před rokem

    I gave you a like just in the first few seconds bc I already felt inspired.

    • @LinhPodetti
      @LinhPodetti  Před rokem

      Thank you, glad to hear that I inspired you

  • @marciacarvalho7753
    @marciacarvalho7753 Před 3 lety +3

    Thank you for this video, I am 7 months pregnant. I am Brazilian and I got pregnant here in the USA at 5 months, I am not fluent in English and I will be a solo mother, but I am positive and I will make it.

  • @momandmaam2949
    @momandmaam2949 Před 3 lety

    thanks a lot for this. I needed this advice

  • @Kamsi-yj7si
    @Kamsi-yj7si Před 8 měsíci +2

    For years I struggled with outstanding debts, bills and my children's school fees. I was at a point where I wanted to give up. I came across every CZcams channel about how to make and multiply your income through passive income. Fortunately, I had saved some money and decided to start an investment, Now I have bought my second house already, earn on a monthly through passive income and got 4 out of 5 goals, just hope it encourages someone that doesn’t believe in investing

    • @JennyStyles
      @JennyStyles Před 8 měsíci

      I went through alot of financial crises during my divorce. I had to raise my kids up all alone with no help from anyone. Currently I am living smart and frugal with my money. Bought my second house already. Saving and investing lifestyle made it possible for me.., Till now I earn monthly through passive income. I am planning on retiring when my kids are done with college.

    • @DanielRichards-kb3hm
      @DanielRichards-kb3hm Před 8 měsíci

      I am a single Dad. Not quite long I started investing. I'm very curious and need help on how to enhance and increase my returns. Any good investment tips would be appreciated.

    • @Kamsi-yj7si
      @Kamsi-yj7si Před 8 měsíci

      I invest across the top markets but not by myself tho. I follow the guidelines of Alexandra Diana Jose. I can correctly say she’s worth her salt as a investment advisor . I say because I see that in her results as my portfolio grows by averages of 20 to 30%. OVERALL,she made me financially stable investing with her help. So I’ll advice you do get a good investment advisor for yourself.

    • @LydiaJohnson-rv7qc
      @LydiaJohnson-rv7qc Před 8 měsíci

      You are right, I am one of many who has benefited from investing with Alexandra Diana Jose. 2020 is an unforgettable year in my life, back then I lost my job due to covid and had no reason to live. Diana made a good life possible for me through passive income and I owe her my life. To be honest, I feel like she is an angel of who was sent to help those who are suffering financially.

    • @DanielRichards-kb3hm
      @DanielRichards-kb3hm Před 8 měsíci

      Impressive. Would you mind sharing some more details. I’d like to have a talk with her.

  • @biancareyes5350
    @biancareyes5350 Před 2 lety +2

    First off, thank you thank you for sharing your story as a single mom. I’ve been feeling alone in this journey and your words have given me so much inspiration. I want to follow my dreams, but I put my daughter, my job, and literally everything else before myself. Thank you for inspiring me to Put Me First. To utilize my community for support. And to open myself up for Love again. Thank you again for sharing. The universe is using your story for good ❤️

  • @hienienguyen6766
    @hienienguyen6766 Před 3 lety +1

    yes that is so true. i am trying to do my best to help myself with my own son right now. thanks for your advice.

  • @ChristinaAlanna
    @ChristinaAlanna Před 4 lety +5

    Thank you for posting this. I am definitely not going to let my circumstances hinder me. I think the biggest goal I wanted to achieve is starting my CZcams channel even though I’m still a small channel it’s a good feeling to know what future opportunities will come

  • @suzsuz8524
    @suzsuz8524 Před 3 lety +4

    To be honest, not everyone in this lifetime will get everything they desire, I.e, great kids, good husband, solid finances, dream career, grow old gracefully, healthy, etc. We humans want the full package or close to full package. Oftentimes we need to make sacrifices and put in a lot of effort. Maybe we just need to be grateful at times, that is take the good with the bad, better yourself when you can, with things we can't control, learn acceptance. For things that are within our control/free will, we just do our best and be true to yourself. There are many other people in worst situations and some in better. The list always gets longer. If your a single mother, it's not the end of the world, but also don't expect that you should be entitled to receive a better life if your not willing to put in any effort. The universe owes you nothing, your already alive and you have much freewill to create the life you want right now for yourself and your kids. Whatever it is you can do right now counts the most, and certainly what we do now counts to our future, there are no guarantees, but when we are on the right path we feel at peace and the future then looks brighter. Also it maybe a little weird, but even if you are a single mum with troubled finances and a toxic ex, there will be someone in the world that will still trade places with you in a heartbeat.

    • @LinhPodetti
      @LinhPodetti  Před 3 lety +1

      I agree with you. Always be grateful cos someone else is worse off. But also dont be afraid to go for big dreams too.

  • @maimoonaahmed8614
    @maimoonaahmed8614 Před 3 lety +2

    This made me happy. Its so inspirational. Thank you.

    • @LinhPodetti
      @LinhPodetti  Před 3 lety +1

      Thank you, Maimoon, I'm glad it did.

  • @hannakane601
    @hannakane601 Před 3 lety +2

    Whats stopping me is me not working cuz of disabilities and not knowing where financially I'm gonna make it

    • @LinhPodetti
      @LinhPodetti  Před 3 lety

      I recommend changing your thoughts to positive thoughts

    • @Heseesyou
      @Heseesyou Před 2 měsíci

      What has been your journey ❤?

  • @MamaPineapples
    @MamaPineapples Před 3 lety +5

    Thank you for creating this video! it was so inspirational! I am a new mom and a single mom at that! you have given me motivation to want to succeed in being a SAHM and working from home! :)

  • @Introvertwoman1989
    @Introvertwoman1989 Před 4 lety +10

    I am a single woman too, thank you for sharing your story, i got some ideas too. I became single mom of the age of 20 too.

  • @cassidyscott4795
    @cassidyscott4795 Před 3 lety

    Just zero family... I’m very different from my family and they neglected me and abused me gave me so much trauma I was just starting to heal myself from when I found out I was pregnant and now I feel so stuck. I feel like I need to move to Africa and just completely start over but today I saw 1212 and looked it up and it’s all about family and working on connections. Then I got a ringing in my right ear. A sign from the angles. Idk if I should create new relationship with an adoptive family or somehow try to work on mine. They were so abusive to me as a child it’s really hard to move past that

    • @LinhPodetti
      @LinhPodetti  Před 3 lety

      Thanks for sharing Cassidy. Love to know what will you do differently this year?

    • @cassidyscott4795
      @cassidyscott4795 Před 3 lety +2

      @@LinhPodetti put myself and my baby first. Focus on us.

    • @LinhPodetti
      @LinhPodetti  Před 3 lety

      @@cassidyscott4795 That's a good plan. Heal yourself first and good things will turn up for you.

  • @nellypraise4165
    @nellypraise4165 Před 3 lety +3

    I'm not a student I have never been in university because of my poor background ,and I have my son at 17 and my daughter at 19 I'm 21 years old now , I live in France now and am a Nigerian it has been so hard for me just one week I came a single mom 💔😢

    • @life_of_hope914
      @life_of_hope914 Před 2 lety

      Oh dear hang in there.

    • @LinhPodetti
      @LinhPodetti  Před 2 lety

      Hang on in there Nelly and keep improving yourself. Heal your wounds so you can move forward an be the best mother for your kids.

  • @Nsroma
    @Nsroma Před 3 lety

    Watching your vids for the 1st time today. Thank you for speaking in real terms.

  • @womenpillowtalk9240
    @womenpillowtalk9240 Před 3 lety +2

    Great insight.. i was also a single young mom without a clue of what i was doing..but i managed in the last 10 years.

  • @perfectbalance1603
    @perfectbalance1603 Před 3 lety +1

    I so needed to hear this message right now!

  • @kateleighton-boyce1089

    Thank you so much, I really needed this, this is just what I needed, your wonderful 💖

    • @LinhPodetti
      @LinhPodetti  Před 2 lety

      You are so welcome. Glad it was helpful!

  • @ElizabethRitchie
    @ElizabethRitchie Před 4 lety +15

    I really appreciated your positivity and energy! I also liked how you mentioned that life comes comes down to choice. How you said " I can choose to be a single Mom and still be successful" Heck ya!. Keep up the great work!

    • @LinhPodetti
      @LinhPodetti  Před 4 lety

      Thank you Elizabeth :D I have the right ingredient: right attitude and mindset and I owned it Heck yeah!! 😊✨

    • @Sammieh8su
      @Sammieh8su Před 4 lety

      I loved her positive energy in this video as well! She was great! I hope I get some opportunities to do something with her in the future.

    • @LinhPodetti
      @LinhPodetti  Před 4 lety

      @@Sammieh8su You're so sweet thank you

  • @thvtsydneylyf3th077
    @thvtsydneylyf3th077 Před 2 lety +1

    How was your relationship with your parents and was your father at home? How are you so 'unloved' within te confines of your blood family, you had to go seek it outside thinking that a man penatrating you equated to love from family members.. seems a bit off but accountability is better than cope.

  • @adrianabueno1567
    @adrianabueno1567 Před 2 lety +1

    Thank you for this.. My ex of 7 years. Packed up and left this month ... God bless every strong woman that's here 💗

    • @LinhPodetti
      @LinhPodetti  Před 2 lety +2

      You are so welcome. GBU you too.. stay strong and positive.

  • @emilygrace5145
    @emilygrace5145 Před 3 lety

    Okay! Staying on. You are giving me hope right now in a time of some serious uncertainty. As a single mom of a 5 year old I'm scared but everyday I keep on. Dating is the last thing on my.mind and admitting I need help didn't even occur to me as an option. Thank you.

  • @orlaghc3730
    @orlaghc3730 Před 2 lety +1

    I’m at the very start of my journey, hope it goes well, your amazing ❤️

  • @misstwiththetea7970
    @misstwiththetea7970 Před rokem

    Great video

  • @emilia-elena295
    @emilia-elena295 Před rokem

    I’m so glad I came across your video, I’ve been struggling a lot on figuring out ways to better my self to support my son and I.

  • @Colour.Purple
    @Colour.Purple Před rokem

    WORD!! ❤ thank you

  • @victoriasweet2161
    @victoriasweet2161 Před 3 lety +3

    Im 20 and I just found out im pregnant by the guy who just left me from a 4 yr relationship. Im super scared I've been trying to create my own income aside from my job but I dont think I can handle this. I always wanted a kid when I had a good wealthy life with someone I loved and now that doesn't seem like an option anymore. Any advice is welcomed and appreciated

    • @LinhPodetti
      @LinhPodetti  Před 3 lety +3

      Hi Vic continue to feed your mind with positivity, because unless you keep a positive mindset you wont have the will power to try new things or work hard towards your goal. Surround yourself with positive influence friends too.

    • @ArdShrivastav-we2zr
      @ArdShrivastav-we2zr Před 2 měsíci

      Hi😊😅

  • @nontobekoxulu2185
    @nontobekoxulu2185 Před 2 lety +1

    This video just confirmed my decision. Thank you.

  • @feelfree4067
    @feelfree4067 Před 3 lety

    This year we have left my kid's Their father has chosen another life and I have 5 children am 24 years old. What advice and awareness do you have? Also i want to became a success women but how?

    • @LinhPodetti
      @LinhPodetti  Před 3 lety +1

      Hi Queen Domar, I have some upcoming videos on Single Mom Success coming soon and how to start a Virtual Assistant business. Don't forget to subscribe and press bell button to get notification

  • @meghnasingh9601
    @meghnasingh9601 Před 2 lety +1

    Thankyou soo much.Lovely video and very helpful.

  • @angelinacc4206
    @angelinacc4206 Před 2 lety

    I’m currently in the same similar situation I have no family to turn to. My mother has cussed me out including cussing out my new born. I’m just looking for a new path in life. I need to work on my Finances and move foward I just need some help.

  • @kristinannefttapping
    @kristinannefttapping Před 3 lety

    Thanks for the great points about the mindset to overcome adversity

  • @PbnJAMilah
    @PbnJAMilah Před 2 lety +5

    When you mentioned the delusional and wishful thinking part I totally related.. To this day I truly don’t understand why I thought it would be so easy. The one thing holding me back from success is my anxiety.

    • @LinhPodetti
      @LinhPodetti  Před 2 lety

      You got this, don't give up!

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      @melodyventrescagmail9098 Před 2 lety

      We are currently hiring, it’s a work from home for single mothers in the US.
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  • @mumufried9083
    @mumufried9083 Před 3 lety

    You are amazing ! Such an inspiration xx

  • @Nobody800_
    @Nobody800_ Před 2 lety

    Needed to hear this! Thank you

  • @culies8
    @culies8 Před 3 lety

    Thank you so much for this!

  • @uminotv
    @uminotv Před 3 lety

    Subscribed to the channel♥️❤️❤️😃

  • @kaykay5041
    @kaykay5041 Před 2 lety

    I really needed this. Thank you.

  • @XxEtHaN39xX
    @XxEtHaN39xX Před 4 lety +1

    This is beautiful! Thank you for sharing your journey with us ❤️😊

  • @carlyalexandria8445
    @carlyalexandria8445 Před 3 lety +1

    Needed this ❤️

  • @katherineallen7042
    @katherineallen7042 Před 3 lety

    to piggyback off my previous comment the one thing I think is holding me back right now is my mindset and motivation. I will be working hard to focus on any positives and do my very best to make each day memorable for my 4 babies. The other obstacle is my health, through my depression, stress, anxiety I have gained alot of weight causing heart strain. I need to focus on my inner mental heath as well as my physical health. There is alot of growth to be done....but in the end it has to be worth it :)

    • @LinhPodetti
      @LinhPodetti  Před 3 lety

      Yes, the journey requires a lot of hard work. Do find the necessary help to be physically and mentally strong, Katherine.

  • @richmondbuildersltdcompany4625

    Thanks a lot, you are the best advisor that really helps with a good mindset. I really love your advice. Thanks again.

  • @AsongeMatya
    @AsongeMatya Před měsícem

    I'm a single mom at the age of 20 and my mom keeps insulting me about me being a single mom and my baby daddy leaving me, I just want to be so successful and leave the house because the environment isn't good for us

    • @LinhPodetti
      @LinhPodetti  Před měsícem

      Stay positive and work hard to gain your independence.