Why is Papakastu an accepted form of prostitution in Japan ? - Japanese interview
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- Today's interviews are about “Papa Katsu”. It means “Sugar Dating” in English. This is when a younger woman goes out with a rich, older guy, and receives money from him in exchange. In Japan, this is currently tacitly accepted. I’m going to interview people and ask their opinions on sugar dating.
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Another high quality, insightful street interview. You are doing an excellent job with your channel.
From these interviews one can see Ellie is obviously a virtuous woman. Not easy to find Yamato Nadeshiko among You Tube influencers!
“BRILLIANT” video as usual!
These are some great topics and great listening practice.
If their faces are not blurred, no one will tell you that truth! 🙄
There is effectively no difference between papakatsu and compensated dating.
Perhaps ask those that are indifferent or approve the question, “would you approve of your daughter engaging in papakatsu?”
Also, although this will not apply to everyone, arguably, there is also some form of exchange when people date, or marry. Sure, it’s not spelt out from the beginning, but in many cases there is an expectation.
It's just like a sugar daddy/momma in the U.S. probably way more common here.
If there’s no sex, why would any guy pay her to take her to dinner and that’s it. Forget it.
For many Japanese men, just going out for dinner and conversation with a young woman is enough. Going further can be too risky, especially if co-workers or family finds out.
For 1 million yen, I want more than dinner. 🤣
Nice. Pls post some more. Thanks
Relationships between all people are give and take, meeting the other one's needs.
"おじいちゃんと遊ぶ" had me laughing so hard
Waiting for equivalent interview for Mama-katsu🙏🙏
You think this is a modern creation?? It’s as old as rich men and pretty women. Abraham had multiple concubines. Solomon had a thousand concubines.
followed your IG, keep it up!
That was better than I thought it was going to be
that laugh was so natural it was funny
I have seen girls approaching men for papa Katsu recently. I think Japan’s economy and difficulty for young women to find good jobs and spending money is a growing problem.
Thanks!
I dont know why but the term sugar daddy makes me think of the american cereal frosted flakes with tony the tiger ''THERE GREATTTT''
You can buy and sell anything but not the heart. Papakatsu can be a form of companionship but I think that those who buy it and those who sell it are people who struggle to find the genuine side of the heart. Unfortunately it’s becoming an issue for many people in this “too modern” world. It can’t be a positive thing.
You mean theirs or someone else's (genuine heart)?
Or seek to commoditise intimacy based on the physical only
Consenting adults entering into an arrangement for the beneficial of each other, no pimps involved each can walk away each can agree the extent of the arrangement, dinner only or dinner plus bedroom activity. The same in any relationship.
No, there's much more in a relationship than just money and sex or insincere interest.
Any kind of dating for money is a transaction. It's very impersonal.
It’s called supply and demand, it’s a beginning of time thing woke people are foreign to. Why don’t they condemn sellers only the buyers?
Pretty girl power exists in many forms. Handsome man power, not so much.
You are asking the wrong people, sweetheart.
Young men don't know what it's like to be older. And getting older can do funny things to a certain type of man's brain.
And young girls who don't know what's it like when you don't really have other options. Please remember that not everyone is good at school.
Ask the men who give young/er girls money in exchange for their company and girls who accept money for such services.
They will tell you exactly why they feel the need for doing this.
Excluding their opinion is like talking 💩 about them behind their back. (pardon my french)
The girl in white hat gave you some good answers. She seems to be mature and smart, but at the same time a little bit naive too. It was cute that she didn't know what p.r.o.s.ti.t.u.t.i.o.n is.
Your analysis is correct. It would be interesting to hear the perspective and motivation of the men and women participating in the transaction. What are their expectations, regrets, etc.
@@mztokyo7630 Thank you. I would love to see such an interview myself.
she IS interviewing the wrong ethnicity of men.....LOTs of men, both foreign (german, irish, british) and white and black guys 'hit' on asian women MORE than asian men! the danger part is, once they realize they been taken for a ride, some if not a LOT, do deal with it violently, resulting in death...
I don't think have to interview people engaging in パパかつ is necessary to understand what public think of it. I agree that we can get many different perspective if we ask people why they do such activities but does not always justify the activity. If something is bad, it is bad - but we can ateempt understand these people and help them.
We have big problem in Japan with underage girl doing this sort of activity. It is not true that all パパかつ is underage but if we allow it at all, the chance too high school girl go into it is not zero.
The answer always is inbetween, we need to ask people not doing パパかつ and people doing. Because you will get bias if not I believe. Sorry for English I am learning!
@@mztokyo7630what expectations? Lol prostitution is the oldest profession. The motivations and expectations have changed very little in the last thousand years
Prostitution is concentuial. Rape is not.
ELLIE さんは、笑いのとき 、とても
面白いですね。😂😂😂
There's way too much agreement. 2 people, half an opinion. Yes, it's the same thing. Paying for time is the gateway.
Japanese culture is so difficult to understand. There are thousands of hostess bars, maid cafes, websites to rent a girl friend, but Papakatsu is dangerous because the age gap makes it considered exploitation? Just difficult to understand the boundaries. They have laws that makes selling anal sex legal but vagina sex illegal.
Fascinating point indeed. I would think anal sex is also very dangerous long term. Vaginal sex is healthy and natural. Someone got confused when making the laws.
Never try to understand it 😅
UNDERSTAND the SAKOKU
The people interviewed don’t seem to know what a sugar daddy is spending his money for, they reach an agreement of what he will receive for his money
You can tell from all these interviews (with this channel and all the other channels) that nobody has any idea what they are talking about. Nobody's thought about anything and they just give off the cuff in the middle answers and even then they tend to contradict themselves. Little ability in logic and reasoning.
With the number of women working that "side of the fence" these days, makes us wonder if those people commenting are being honest or being polite.
The girl at 13:21 seemed to be the most interesting as she has definite opinions on various parts of the conversation
Interesting? She is naive as fuck. She may have done it herself already. In Asia a man in his early 30s is already considered middle aged. As they expect you to die by 70
Just found your channel, and I love your content! I watched a bunch of your videos, then I ran across this one. As I watched the interviews, it became very clear that none of the interviewees know anything about sugar-dating. I got to know two young women who were, at the time I met them, both in sugar-dating relationships. This is how they explained it to me. The sugar-couple will spend a month or two (or three) spending time together, getting to know each other. During that initial period, no money or gifts, or expensive shopping trips take place. The initial few months is for seeing if the couple can develop a genuine, real, friendship. Then, it is only after the couple decides that they truly enjoy spending time together, that the sugar relationship begins. The two girls I knew said that they were these men's girlfriends, and that they engaged in all the normal activities that any other adult couple would normally engage in. The only difference was that the girls received a generous stipend each month--to "help them cover their rent, bills, etc." The men weren't paying for sex, the girls maintained. Instead, they were paying for a girlfriend.
Some people may argue that this distinction is just a matter of semantics, and I think there's merit to that argument. But in the end, it's an open, honest agreement between two consenting adults. If it works for them, great! I'm not going judge.
日本語の字幕もあったらいいです。それでもありがとうございます。
Feminists: Marriage is papakatsu too.
A lot of times it was and is, marriage was just used as a cover to make it more acceptable, that's why in my view the only factor that sanctifies a sexual relationship is actual love between the individuals, not externally decided claims of marriage which can be fake or arranged for the interests of others but not bot in the relationship
Lots of women in Japan see sugar dating as free money+free food+no sex. So be careful to make sure expectations are matched if you want to get an arrangement
I am still not clear about what papa katsu entails. The line between prostitution and coffedate seem to have been blurred
In America, it's called mutual arrangement.
The girl does it for money. There is no love between girl and sugar daddy. The girl needs money to spend it in frivolities; she reallly does not need that money, because she could have a decent job. So, in sum, it is the same as prsostitution.
It's so rare though.
If you are going to make videos targeting a western audience it would be helpful to give the monetary specifics between Papa Katsu and Rent a Date (through a company) and Prostitution. Did the people you spoke to know what the average cost was on a date? All I see is that either these people were lying about what they really knew because they were being recorded or incredibly ignorant.
mamakatsu hoshi na
I think most people that do this is not open about it, maybe to their closet friends. We have the same debate in my country about this, if this prostitution or not. Because we had a dating site called sugerdaddy. I dont believe it is, because a suger daddy is not only looking for sex, they want a relationship when they are lonely. If they just want sex they go for a prostitution. Big difference and as long as both are adult and consent to this it should be up to them.
The naïveté of some people is astounding.
Oh, wait . . . Thailand and other countries already have that.
Takumi flashback in AE86
Ellie is beautiful! 😍
papakatsu is not necessarily a form of prostitution. In many cases, people make arrangement to not engage in any sexual behavior.
this type of relationship only deals with commodities; time and money.
if the label of prostitution can be assigned to such a relationship, some couples also fall under that definition.
the only merit in the relationship is the ability for the man to keep the girl entertained. the moment the money is over, so is the relationship.
papakatsu is just a job for the girls. thats it
You just described 90% of marriages out there. You'd be naive to think this is any different
@@MarcoCholo-iz9js Nope, you just have a very narrow concept of marriage.
@@Daniel_RG I see you're a glass half full type of guy. Good for you 😂
@@MarcoCholo-iz9js Actually, it sounds like you don't see much action at all, but you are very opinionated, which is not that good for you 😂
@@Daniel_RG I'd agree with you if I didn't see so much action of course, nice try though 😂
In other words. パパ活はがち危ない、女性の人生が大きいリスクかかる
lol bro would let the papakatsu of his female friend treat him to something. I would too
British but I always find perspectives interesting. I'm largely similar to the 1st guy, if 2 (or more) consenting adults have an agreement, that is none of my business.
Perhaps sugar dating is more extreme, like a 21 year old and a 60 year old, so then that is transactional I would suggest. I'm also not sure if it usually involves sex..? It sounds quite similar to "escorting", which legally I think doesn't include sex otherwise it's prostitution, and so things like "girlfriend experience" are popular, with a clear understanding that you sleep with a girlfriend, but you are legally paying for her time rather than her body, hence legal.
Regardless, whatever agreement freely consenting adults make, it's fine by me.
I don't accept that the girls are "forced" into it, anymore than anybody is "forced" into an office job or into construction to earn a living.
Lastly, as somebody with a 4 year old daughter, although I'd rather she was a Nobel winning rocket scientist, if she did end up engaging in that activity to make money, although it wouldn't be my preferred way for her to earn, she would at that point be an adult capable and deserving to make her own decisions, and potentially make her own mistakes. But it's not like I'd disown her for it. I have 18 years to help her become an adult, the rest is on her at that point. Similarly, if I was a single and lonely older guy, I'd not be against the company of a beautiful and charming lady for an evening.
If only I had money I'd live here.
So basically when a young girl dates a older man aka a rich oap! 'Sugar Daddy, I thought this was a south asian thing, Indonesia, Thailand, Philippines etc, etc.
Wow!! The things you learn about Japan. 😀
This is a long time "Global" tradition. But it's nice to see how the Japanese people do it.
the young people are delusional that there is not sex involved. its kind of funny.
What is the name of the reporter .She is very cute
Ellie 😍❤
Anyway topic is Sus😂
ありがとうございます。
Makes you wonder why they feel they can't rely on their own girlfriend for that or any girl for that matter
Because unfortunately most have the social skills of a turtle. This is commoditised intimacy.
Guess as long there are those, who have the financial resources to waste for that crap .. go ahead and enjoy.
The other's better save their money for much more useful stuff.
Relationships are only a scam anyways !!
Well, there are many grey shades around this topic, isn't that easy I think.
Let's say the man is rich, let's say he is widowed and let's say he is lonely. In some cases that man wouldn't like to fall in love with another woman, but still like women's company.
Growth women will expect something serious, a relationship, but young women don't.
So, he can have great time with someone who won't ask anything more than that, maybe it's a dinner, maybe a weekend vacation and so on.
Would you think it is bad? I don't think so.
Ofc, there could be maniacs or perv around the world, so yeah it can also be dangerous.
Personally I'm not against it, if it's mutual and everything is clear then it's fine.
She had the best answer. Playing with grandpas.
And the difference between this and being an 'escort' is?
Literally eveything on Earth is biased to women's advantage. WTF.
if they are doing it under mutual agreement, but what if the rich man already has a wife or so, just like the usual rich man?
ngl, it would be understandable if they were forced to do papakatsu because of poverty and lack of work, but I have no sympathy for these women, many of whom wear luxury goods such as Chanel and Hermes and do papakatsu, even though they have work to do. They just do it because it's an easy way to make money. And some of them are even trying to get money by making up stories about being SA by men, even though they were having consensual relationships with men.
From the interview I believe the perception of older Japanese men is pretty bad in the eyes of Japanese women.
inspired by the video, and just for the heck of it, i papakatsu'd a girl who looked just like ellie, and took her out for some tonkatsu for dinner.
2:17 "Sugar dating involves money changing hands, and you have to pay taxes on that income, but many people don't seem to pay them. What do you think about this?" Just imagine if income from OnlyFans were also taxable.
Is it in many countries. It's a job at the end of the day so.
so is prostitution.........having your john (idiot paying for sex) pay before sex or after. All these women having 'sugar daddy' relationships, better pray that their 'sucker daddy" dont hold any sorta weapon or tools.
Most girls don't want to pay tax. If they can get away with it, they won't pay.
Everything is about money, do what's the difference
They are young and only see the surface of society. What young women don't realize is that the more money they receive, the more their partner treats them like slaves. The more beautiful the woman, the more expensive it becomes, and the high pride they had until then is hurt. When they're feeling down, it's the men in the industry they turn to, and then they get stuck in the deep end. There may be times when they turn to drugs. They end up not being able to love others because they only see money.
It's a really sad thing to see a woman like a treasure fall.
根本的な男女の性に対しての思考の違いが出てますね〜
Prostitution or papakatsu like escorting is one of the oldest professions in the world. This interview shows fundamental difference between men and women how they think and view towards sexuality. In general, men think it’s ok women think it’s dangerous
僕がアメリカ人で留学と海軍と製薬会社で日本に10年以上住んでた。
この話題が人間として、ずっと昔から、そうなっているよ。
日本の戦国時代に強い大名、御織田信長とか豊富英義は奥さん以外たくさん若い愛人がいました。
生物学が変わっていない、だから現在も一緒です。成功なったが結婚していない、又は離婚したか、又はセクスレス結婚で「若い」女性と恋愛関係をするね。
若いの意味は何ですか？50年の男性で女は何歳？19年25年27年30年35年40年？
何歳で変ですか？本当にカッコイイと成功している50年ぐらい男性がいつもホステスと飲んだりするから、お互いが2人でデットするなら、それが別に問題ないじゃない？逆に日本が現在人口減少だから、予定外の妊娠は良いだと思います。日本は赤ちゃんは足りないから、若い男性ができないなら、しょうがないです。
Are you sure the interviewees are so naive?
Hong kong singapore fillipeans viet nam and probably other places its called A MINOR WIFE .. i know because i had a few. but in those place its sometimes free. they just want a nice person to be with.. ive had pay to keep them and others just be with for free.. did not matter i was married, mattered not.. asia is fun.. Different culture and rules.. as long as you take care of your wife its OK to have a minor wife.. so civilized..
if your wife looking after you can she have a minor husband? lol not civilized just plain old self serving behavior
I wanted her to ask if the roles were reversed, an older women buying a guys time. I watched the whole video hoping for that question.
Allie is a very beautiful girl.
What’s the difference between sugar dating and getting married? It’s the same thing in my opinion.
Nah, in marriage you are not together just because the other person has money
@@Daniel_RGIf only that were true.
@@Daniel_RG Really? Present her with a prenup and watch what happens..
@@murphy6700 First, why would you? And second, do you think nobody marries with a prenup?
@Daniel_RG with a hooker you pay her to leave. You stop paying once she leaves.
With a wife, you can't stop her charging your credit card. You pay pay pay, then she gets a headache! Hahahahaha
I thought I had papagatsu for dinner last night
Wow This presenter is really cute.
Isn't that their business?
I'll be your PapaJatsu
Do you know anything about josei you fuzuku?
it is compensated dating pretty sad it is all about the money.
Up & down interviews - on one hand - those showing Japanese women as some of the most virtuous women on the planet 🌎
Next interviews --you gotta be careful when engaging -some keeping some deep secrets…
The crazy ppl now day do anything for money.... i think human turn money into GOD for this life at this rate....
The Japanese and their apathy.
you mean sugar daddy. not dating
Western women and SIMPs are yelling, "misogyny." lol
Girls interview Japan. It can only be created by a man