Russian girls about feminism, dating and splitting bills
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- čas přidán 22. 05. 2024
- Feminism in Russia is considered as a very controversial phenomenon, many girls and women are reluctant to call themselves feminists. Let's find out why!
00:00 - feminism in Russia
00:45 - are Russian women discriminated?
02:53 - who has an advantage in building career - men or women?
03:47 - who earns more money in Russia - men or women?
04:57 - who pays the bill on a date in Russia?
07:17 - do Russian girls like to be treated like an equal?
08:23 - who provides for a family in Russia?
09:15 - do women in the West (Europe&USA) have more opportunities?
10:11 - do Russian girls consider themselves feminists?
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"It's important to remember that men and women are equal, but they can't be identical in all aspects of life."
THIS! 👍🏼
@Klaudine Garcia, I keep seeing your comments, but I always forget where I saw it the last time :). Do you leave a lot of comments?
Yeah, but will it be equitable? If women expect to be pampered and strongly expect that, boys and men may be more likely to subtly or not-so-subtly dismiss certain human adult aspects of them; and vice-versa.
In Russia, a woman and a man are not equal. In Russia, a man should always, a woman can in many cases choose to be strong or weak. A woman's choice is always influenced by circumstances.
Shut up man and women are not equal were not the same were very different
@@BibEvgen exactly
What I found most interesting was the diversity of opinions and the fact that they seemed to be genuine and not just repeating what they think they are supposed to say. And, they’re gorgeous.
Русские девушки дорожат своей свободой! Попробуй русской девушке навязать свое мнение! У меня жена с Урала, и я стараюсь вообще с ней не спорить. В крайнем случае просто делаю так, как считаю нужным. Но это в крайнем случае, в безвыходной ситуации, когда надо принимать решение и действовать быстро. 🤫🤨🤌
yes
yes because it's free country
старайся избегать ситуации, когда у твоей жены! что тов руках) не ссорься с ней в этот момент) Ушатает)
В России свобода.
I'm a Brazilian girl and I came across this video by chance
I am delighted with these girls so beautiful and intelligent.
You are kidding right? They are completely contradicting and full of double standards. Watch the video again because you clearly missed the point.
They seem very entitled and spoiled to me.
You won't like it in Russia
Russians don’t like blacks, I, as a russian living in Russia, am talking about the majority. They won’t say it to your face, but they will look askance and laugh behind your back. All jokes are based on racism
@@g.araujo1043Lol they said nothing wrong. you’re definitely one of those guys who wants a girl to cook, clean, raise the kids but all you bring to the table is an empty wallet
@@muhammadyoussef8 They basically want all the privileges of feminism, while keeping all the privilegiles of patriarch, such as men paying her stuff and making the first move. So yeah, they are spoiled and entitled as fu*k.
What you’re doing is very important. Many germans have a completely distorted view of Russia due to the propaganda. I have visited Russia two times long ago, I hope I will visit it again. It is a wonderful country with mostly kind and open minded people. Already in the 80s most russian women in Moscow had more self-confidence than many women in western societies.
Ohjaaa die deutschen haben ein sehr verzehrtes Bild von Russen ( Russland)
Im Beitrag wollten sich die meisten Frauen kaufen lassen.
Gleiche Rechte haben nichts mit physischer/mentaler Gleichheit zu tun.
Wenn ich in 30h/W mehr verdiene als meine Frau in 40h/W unterstütze ich sie trotzdem im Haushalt ... wäre es andersherum würde sie das Gleiche tun.
Beim ersten Date weiß ich noch nicht mal, ob ich mehr (max. Sex) möchte oder die Frau ist anders als zuvor angegeben ... da ist es selbstverständlich, dass jeder seinen Teil bezahlt.
Thank you so much. I love Germany, I've been there, beautiful country! I hope more people will learn about Russia from videos like this, because it's upsetting that so many stereotypes about us are still alive.
Moscow is like a completely different country compared to rest of Russia. In Moscow you get the most educated and cultured people who are very interesting.
Chill mal
"Equal but not identical" I like that. ❤️
but women dont want an equal in dating
It's not equality if only one gender is drafted into war. Why should people be allowed to vote if they do not literally fight for voting rights?
Men and women r not equal at all
just bullshit, men and women are not equal, as a man pays for the date woman cooks in the house, don't switch gender roles otherwise you will end up like west, stupid clown world , by the way the most pleasant girls were those who said they are not feminists and damn they were so attractive
I want!!
I am British. I married a beautiful Russian lady and now I live in Russia. Russians are the best!!! You should be proud of these young ladies in your video. Confident, educated, articulate and beautiful. Cлава русским женщинам!!!
I hope you weren't mobilized and send to the front line.
@@nexusi6867 😂😂😂😂😂😂
@@nexusi6867 I think you have mistaken Russia with Ukraine....currently the Kiev government delegates are roaming around to catch almost every human male from age 16 to send to the front line against the russians, including disabled poor guys.
you're smart
@@rabm1483 if your interested go to Sam’s Russian Adventures youtube.com/@SamsRussianAdventures he covers it pretty well.
I don't know how they talk in Russian but from the subtitles they seem to speak so elegant.
Actually in russian they sound even better and deeper, the translation sometimes does not reflect all of what being said.
Russian is a beautiful language.
I am from Istanbul. There are a lot of russians living here, our cultures are somewhat similar especially about gender roles and such, once I met a russian guy and I asked him out, on our date he said that he is surprised about me asking him out so early. Of course everyone is different :)
Это не стандартный ход)
Eli: “Are you discriminated against based on your gender?”
Russian Women: “yes, by my parents”
LMAO so accurate tho 😂🤣
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That’s not what they said at all ?
@@jackalspades2522 well it’s mostly a joke but frankly Russian parents are the biggest supporters of gender roles, and will be the first to say “your a girl/guy you should do this/should not do this”.
Meanwhile in the rest of society it’s less pronounced.
no i haven't heard it in a while sorry if i made you feel bad
I've been paying for just talking to women
Wow. How straightforward the Russian girls are. No bullshit and no weird manipulation. Thanks for the video
Yeah man)) no BS and no manipulations at all))) Exclusively in Russia)
It’s funny how you cannot see manipulation and bs in this , means you’re not ready for Slavic women yet
because you re fool, russian women have is are bullshit and weird manipulation without cameras of course!
то что я написал чистая правда, русские женщины это волки в овечьих шкурах, похлеще американок и западных женщин будут. Таких крокодилов, которые тебе руку откусить могут ты ещё не видел. Ни за что не женись на русских женщинах!!!
я однажды женился и чуть имущества и жизни не лишился. Отравить меня хотела моя уже бывшая bit ch!
As a foreigner what I LOVE about these is how articulate & thought out everybody is on this interview. They have opinions which seem a lot more balanced and a lot more nuanced, refined. Beauty lives not only on the outside! Pozdrav
I'm British and I hope to visit Russia soon. I really enjoy your videos, Eli, and I'm always impressed by the intelligence and confidence of Russian women when they answer your questions. They give me the impression of having very good relationships with themselves. I wish that British Girls were more like this. I think that at one time they were, but now not so much. Big thanks to all the girls who participated, they made this video what it is.
You mean not obese with a ton of make up and fake eyelashes? I wish the same, because living in UK, I found most of the local women not fit for dating. The looks, the way they dress. It's like they don't care. It is not meant as an insult, just an observation.
I'm from Russia. I decided to watch this video because I am interested in this topic. When I went down to the comments, I saw a bunch of positive statements from people from different countries towards the girls in the video and, in general, towards Russian people. It touched me very much. Stay as kind as you are. Hugs everyone!❤
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@@stevetobias9097 you're very foolish. Maybe you are 7 years old.
Very sweet. I love Russians very beautiful people. I stand with a lot of their good values❤
@@stevetobias9097 🤡
@Steve Tobias Дети в Буче😍😀🍖🍖🍗🍗🍖🔪🔪🔪🔪🔪🔪🔪
"Girls are such gentle creatures" ten minutes with my 87 year old Mother would scare that opinion the shit out of her.
Compared to m3n, most of them really are.
I would have, actually, liked to hear from more grandmas in these interviews... Or, maybe from women who are older than... 30? Well done, otherwise 💚💖
I nicknamed my mother Atila the Hen years ago, she hasn't mellowed.
@@anyamiranda9452 you mad?
@John Ko For what?
I think your interviewees had well nuanced perspectives. We are equal, but not the same and that's ok.
What impressed me the most was how natural they all were, no fake lips, eyebrows etc, very little makeup……….. for me it made them absolutely beautiful, add to that a their healthy view on relationships and bingo!
Beautiful people, beautiful country. WOuld love to visit someday. With love from the US
Приезжайте, здесь живёт много ваших сограждан и Вам будем рады.
Thanks ☺️🤗Welcome to Russia😊
@@user-zd2ml4hv2y терпилы
Welcome to Russia if you are white.
❤️❤️❤️🥰
Regarding splitting bills. Here in Russia if you suggest a girl to split a bill, 99% that she will stop any communication with you.
Чушь, когда я познакомился с моей женой, у меня были трудные времена с деньгами и она покупала мне сигареты на протяжении полу года ))). Теперь я неплохо зарабатываю а она занимается нашими детьми...
@@smilk1000 В каком году это было? Ты считаешь, что твой случай определяет общую ситуацию или что? Я говорю по итогам моего опыта и опыта моих товарищей. А это сотни свиданий.
I met my wife when I was 18, we were students, I was just looking for my first job and I had no money
I was ashamed that I couldn't pay more or buy something else.
But my girlfriend (wife) was trying to buy some snacks for the movie night and even gave me money, under different excuses, so that I would buy some think for us (she was already working at the time)
I am truly grateful to her for her love and attitude towards me. And your words about money for women are true, but only for certain girls. There is no need to lump everyone into one group, I think you are wrong in this
This was from 2018
@@kirillkit2722 OK buddy, not 99% but 95%.
Где Вы находите таких девушек? А взятые с потолка проценты выглядят так себе. Обычно наоборот девушки предпочитают оплачивать то, что заказали. Другой вариант - платит тот, кто пригласил, но в любом случае об этом договариваются заранее или просто берут деньги с собой на всякий случай.
It is impressive how modern and open Russian society is with regards to the women, but now I want to see a video interviewing the men.
The girls are as pretty as they are open-minded and I like how most of them tend to say what their parents or grandparents told them. That's class right there
Damn, Russian women seem to be incredibly smart, intelligent and sophisticated. They are being asked a random question out of nowhere and they give a perfect answer without even stuttering as if they were prepeared for it. Even the way they speak (softly, calm, feminine) is absolutely beautiful.
Yes and I absolutely love it!
if you approach from the right side, the flower will open itself
Was that really necessary to chop Theon's dick off? That put me off big time!
the russian language is very soft in general. so wrong how everyone sees it as aggressive, they've never actually listened to it lol
Не ведись на это , чувак . Внешность обманчива , да среди них много красавиц и они не такие агрессивные феминистки как у вас но среди них тоже хватает проблемных и коварных особ .
While talking about being a feminist with friends I realized that every country has it own definition of what it actually really is.
If the actual theory was taught in schools all countries would be on the same page about what feminism is. If people don’t teach kids about communism they will not recognize a communist takeover until it is too late. One look at the West today and it’s obvious.
is about destruiction of traditional family, the bullshit of equal rights is just a lie, everyone who knows the pioners womans of this movement know for what is it about
Could you name a country that defines feminism as "Making sure women have more limited choices"?
@@aki42 None.
If you look at the historical context of how it developed as a movement there's no questioning what it's about because many of the old struggles are still relevant today
Great stuff as always. Thanks for the updates. Peace and love
So I have been living in Russia for 19 years , and I want to say that u will not face discrimination if u have character and self-confidence, u will be able to build a career just like any man, and gender stereotypes in our country are gradually coming to naught🙏
What always calls attention in these videos is how well educated the people are on them, how regular people can express themselves in complex ways. If you contrast this with some other major countries like the US, the educational system speaks volumes.
They chose those people on purpose. All of them are probably from a university. Like common,. do you think they go into some desert 500km away from moskow just for this interview ? probably not lol
@@Maximum7077 If you interview the same group in the US there is a lot of "yo bruh i dunno man" deeply retarded, especially now they enter by woke quotas and not SAT score
@@Maximum7077 As a girl from Russia, I want to tell you education is mostly similar in different regions of Russia. So, all schools have the same program of studying. And when pupils graduate a school they are already educated enough to express themselves. I know the pupils have different program of studying in the USA depending on the school or region. Of course there are such people which can't express thoughts in a structured and consistent manner, but there are very few of them. I think there are such people everywhere and in every country. By the way the education in the university is not the most important thing that is an index of educations or knowleanges. In Russia it is mostly outdated trend. You know when your parents told you that you must go to the university otherwise you will be miserable and poor... But the education in the Russian university is extremely outdated and inefficient often. That is why many people try to go foreign universities. And many employers pay attention to the experience. So unfortinantly Russian education is useless for many people...
They are bit behind in terms of feminism over there, after a few generations the destructive effect of feminism will have degenerated their minds as well.
Russia has a very good education and it's true, but for some reason the best institutions of Russia, MSU and MGIMO, in the world ranking are for some reason ranked 100th 😁🤣🤣🤣
Я как мальчик ощутил дискриминацию в детском садике ,когда прибыла мед. комиссия для подготовки в школу ,врачи сказали мальчикам раздеться полностью ,а девочкам оставить трусики .
😂😂😂
Интересно кстати почему так
Дискриминация
Hahahahahah, ja tozhe kstati
Жесть
Great vids Eli! Been sending links.. keep on Rockin' !!
THX ELI FOR YOUR HEIGH LEVELS OF TOPICS 👏👏
Thank you Eli ! I am 58 And will never get the opportunity to visit your beautiful country. The internet has been a great tool to bridge that barrier that has been put in place by the controllers. People like you are making a huge difference in the world we live in. May God bless this world for a better tomorrow for the children.
Beautiful? 😂 are you blind?
@@rosaschwanz3038 к чему это?
@@rosaschwanz3038промолчали бы лучше...
Добро пожаловать или вы должны следовать за мечтой! 🔥
@@rosaschwanz3038take a walk troll
WOW. This was a very good video, very enlightening. This was really great to see and hear what Russian women have to say about being a woman and their view of feminism, and men. I am a 67 year old male in northern California. I'm really looking forward to watching your other videos. Keep of the good work!
Good grief you need to go and explore the world. Too much brainwashing by cia funded media demonizing Russia and China
Мне так жаль, что большинство девушек с видео просто не понимают что такое феминизм. Это не борьба за равноправие, это не ненависть к мужчинам, это борьба за права ЖЕНЩИН и я полностью поддерживаю ту девушку, которая сказала, что если знать смысл слова, то очень странно не быть феминисткой.
Я вот не понимаю. За какие равные права борются феминистки, если у нас они и так уже давно есть. Вы историю в школе проходили? Ещё в 30-х годах при СССР началось движение за освоение женщинами мужских профессий. Моя мама заканчивала инженерную специальность. И работала на заводе. Моя теща заканчивала лучший в СССР химический институт и работала химиком-технологом. А это сердце завода: именно химик-технолог решает какие именно ингредиенты и в какой пропорции нужно смешивать, чтобы получилось хорошее моющее средство или яблочный сок, или ещё какая продукция. Хочешь - работаешь по любой специальность, хочешь - выбираешь сидеть дома с детьми.
Голосовать? Это право у нас есть. Учится и работать там где хочешь? Это право у нас есть. Отправить мужа в декретный отпуск вместо себя? Это право у нас есть. Домашние обязанности? Это решается индивидуально в каждой семье. Так за какие равные права вы боретесь, если они у нас и так уже давно есть?
@@ekaterinach4913 Борьба за то, чтобы тебя не считали куском мяса, не домогались, за закон о домашнем насилии, за отмену обрезания женщин в некоторых странах, 79% женщин, которые сидят за убийство, сидят за оборону, за право женщины на аборт, против сексуализации женщин везде, где только можно, за шведскую модель проституции, против стеклянного потолка, за равные зарплаты, против обвинения жертв насилия и за их нормальную защиту. В конце концов за простое уважение к женщинам, вы не представляете насколько часто я вижу комментарии от мужчин 40+ о том какие же женщины тупые и на самом деле у нас нет проблем и пусть пойдут на войну и решают мужские проблемы, у 80% моих знакомых либо нет отца, либо он мусор, пора такое прекращать.
@@ekaterinach4913 но если вам вдруг не будет достаточно моего комментария, можете просто загуглить, не знаю почему никто никогда не гуглит
@@ekaterinach4913I’m not russian but russian men are attractive in my opinion.. is it true that women doing the chores is the norm in russia?
@@r__n2888not all chores. cooking, mainly
This video really showcases how articulate Russian women are! It was very interesting to watch - thank you :)
They just chose smart people who know two languages. Ordinary Russian women do not know English, they look and speak slightly... differently.
@@wanchwhocheh1681 But all the women in the video only spoke Russian?
@@TinaKGreene yes, I mixed it up with another video
As a westerner these videos are really enlightening. It’s easy to get lost in the politics of the differences that there are on an international stage, but it is clear that there are many similarities between both sides. Thanks for posting.
What are the similarities? That everyone has utter lack for women's rights?
@@wadafik apparently lol
@@wadafik Why do women need rights.. everyone are born with rights. Russian women are educated. Women choose to give up rights and all westerners are triggered
@Marco Zepeda anger depends on who was provocative . If courts value emotional hurt then it is tangible and you can retaliate with physical hurt and vice versa.
But you are missing the main point. You are being with a partner because you trust them. If you get hit by your partner, then leave the partnership because trust is broken. I don't understand why courts have to get involved in a human relationship. If you can't even trust the person you choose and use government to create security (domestic abuse laws) for you to be with your partner, then that's not a real relationship. It's failing and inability on your part to successful judge your partners character. That's just projecting your insecurity on other person just for you to feel safe. No one needs rights for anyone. Rights are a lie to transfer power. For instance , creating domestic abuse laws will give the emotional abuser a leverage over physical abuser. There is a subconscious threat placed on you and you will feel repressed.
@@emergence8217 You can't give up the rights you are born with. They probably choose to surrender, that's different than giving up personal rights.
I really like how composed these young women are and how well they understand themselves. They are articulate and know what they are talking about and another thing I noticed, each girl had a solid vocabulary and were able to speak with the appropriate word in its rightful place. Lastly, feminist or not, femininity is not dying in Russia, in fact it's flourishing !
Awww, you, dog! 😂
Please put the drugs away before you comment child. Immancipation of women I was reading was what the western world got wrong and they're suffering now because of it. It's an interesting read nonetheless whether you r pro or anti feminist. You do realize that anyone can frame a video and interviews so that it doesn't reflect the views of those being interviewed? Some of the captions are stated in such a way that they r suspect as if that's really what the person was saying or meant... No offence peace and love for all ♥ ☺
wel most do but some are stil to much in there am a weak little woman role,if thats youre choice oke but dont use the am a weak little thing excuse just to get youre way.
one almost litteraly said i like to be seen as weak so i can take less responsability,its fine if thats youre choice but dont hide behind it be honest about it just say i dont want equal rights i want my traditional woman role so a traditional guy knows she is the woman for him.
i am not a traditional person when it comes to a partner, i like a woman who is equal but who can ask for help if she needs help or even just wants help but not a woman who wil use the am not equal card i dont like that.
i dont hold open doors because i think its stupid i dont hold doors open for my friends either and we just split the bill like i do with everyone,am youre bf not youre mommie.
Good news is that the articulation and narrative skills presented in this video by the girls are quite, well...normal. I mean it's not unheard of.
What a joke, if they actually understood themselves, then they wouldn't follow feminism and shoot themselves in the foot.
Excellent video - Thanks!
thanks for sharing, ❤ from Australia.
Not only are Russian women incredibly beautiful, but so refreshingly intelligent. I just love the way they answer questions with such assertiveness and education behind their words.
I'm from the UK and I agree with the russian women interviewed in the video. I love Russian culture and art and would love to visit some day.
You are sincerely welcome.
tmi
You are welcome
In Russia there are very aggressive men, they really hate feminists, so many women are forced to take a position against feminism without understanding the essence of the movement. This speaks first of all about the superficiality of all judgments
For God's sake just say it loud. You love russian women.
I'm proud of our women 😊
daria marry me❤
This was a very enlightening video, I really enjoyed it. Thank you and please keep them coming. So many of these women you interviewed have incredible intelligence that as a Canadian man, I do not see this level of intelligence from Canadian women. The women you interviewed show great common sense and realize the difference between men and women. All they ask for is be treated fairly and with respect.
They just chose smart people who know two languages. Ordinary Russian women do not know English, they look and speak slightly... differently.
@@wanchwhocheh1681 I've never seen such stupid excuses before. Start respecting your surroundings, do not spread your complexes to others. “We hate in others what we cannot forgive ourselves.” You can interview me, I'm smart and beautiful. And there are a couple of English words for you!
@@beaufsichtigen. because I'm Russian ahahahahahhahaha
@@wanchwhocheh1681 так я тоже Russian, но любите и уважайте себя
I expect my fiancé to pay for pretty much everything and he does but I cook and clean, iron his clothes, pack his lunches and do other house work. I prefer it this way honestly. His job seems really hard and i’m grateful he pays the bills for us. I’m American and 25, my boyfriend is 32
Это как у нас в России😊, счастья вам.
@@user-zd2ml4hv2y нет у нас в России не так
Умница какая👍
@@user-zf3tq9dq3l А как?
У меня именно так и есть.
So you're his servant then.
I really appreciate that you showed the variety of women’s perspectives in Russia. Like everywhere, some people are old school, some people are progressive, and most people are somewhere in between.
прогрессивные, это в основном лгбт ?!
I would call that entitled* (progressive is a misnomer)
Russia is significantly less progressive overall than Europe or even NA.
@@SolntsaSvet progressive people nowadays deny that genders even exists, so I guess they are very stupid not "progressive".
@@samyakhp4353 well I wouldn’t say entitled but maybe more classical progressive instead of American progressive or radically progressive
no one wants equality, everyone wants preferences
Great video! Looking forward to visit soon and learn from Russia social aspects. Regarding relationship roles I agree 100% of humans intelectual development/career, and the bilateral participation on daily basis activities. I am amazed in how well educated and the respectful posture of Russian women while on camera. Bravo!!
i am so grateful for your videos. I am dating a Russian man, and your videos have taught me so much about him. I am an American. Thank you for your beautiful work )
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You made a good choice 👍
no need to steal our men😡 they are already the last knights on earth😂
В России не приветствуются такие отношения. Между мужчинами. Молодец, что уехал в Америку. Только пусть он там и остаётся. Нет желания видеть таких в России снова. Это противоестесственные отношения. Он может жить как хочет, в России его ни кто не тронет, но в глазах остальных он потерял своё достоинство и свой статус быть мужчиной.
@@user-zt6hq2te9cуспокойся, написала женщина американка
I visited Leningrad and Moscow in early November of 1976. I was in high school visiting from Calgary, Canada. So much has changed! I look forward to visiting again! Thanks, Eli, for being such an amazing tour guide of Russia 🇷🇺. ✨😺💫
In 1976 Soviet Union, not Russia
@@denisslugin9363 in 1976 I was in the Russian Soviet Federated Socialist Republic, more casually referred to as Russia, and it was one of many Soviet Socialist Republics that made up the Union Of Soviet Socialist Republics (USSR) in 1976.
@@denisslugin9363 не позорься балда!
@@deniskalashnikov9607 Which?
I'd even advise you to visit then. Comparisation would be so interesting!
I am from United Kingdom and majority of people here split the bills because we believe even we have different genders men and women are equal and both considered as human beings with flesh, bone, feelings, emotions and pains. So it's fair both to be treated equally.
One thing you can always count on with Russian women is to be blunt and straightforward. That's something rare nowadays.
In Russia there are very aggressive men, they really hate feminists, so many women are forced to take a position against feminism without understanding the essence of the movement. This speaks first of all about the superficiality of all judgments
Years ago, I have met girls from Russia and Ukraine who thought it wasn’t necessary to even bring a wallet with them if they went out with friends and there would be men amongst them. That was indeed a culture shock! :)
Yep, that's sad
Probably because real men would be there.
Really!? I wouldn't feel myself confident if I leave home without my money, cellphone and passport.
@@RK-yu7mp Expecting 'real women' to be things you pamper, and not necessarily regard as strong independent people; and maybe even something to be bought and then tossed. It's traditional relational commerce underneath the 'chivalry' and dating traditions. It certainly works well for 'playas' as well as more sincere, traditional men.
@@maxhirsch7035 I think you went ahead and assumed a whole lot. You’re also throwing out the evolutionary differences between genders and the nuances there within. Since humanity began, men have catered to women in various ways to try and gain access to sex. “Going out “ and men paying for women is just a modern version of that. It also doesn’t mean that the participation of both genders in this “ dance” equates either one to being lesser or worth more. I was being a bit facetious, though. Women are free to pay for their own drinks-thats completely fine.
I was raised by a father who took good care pof my mother. My brothers and I know that it is the best thing to do by paying for everything on the ist and possibly 2nd and third dates. Shows respect and care for the woman you are socializing with.
Если девушка утверждает, что она не феминистка, но получила образование, имеет банковскую крату, владеет собственностью, голосует, можно с полной уверенностью сказать, что она феминистка. Просто не знает об этом.
Про дискриминацию. Работал я как-то в строительном магазине подходит мужик , спрашивает что-то о товаре. Подходит девушка , мой куратор с опытом работы 5 лет, хочет помочь с выбором. Мужик начал ее отгонять, аргументируя , что она девушка , что она вообще в этом может понимать xD , это при том , что у меня на тот момент от силы было 1 месяц опыта. Это был самый "дискриминирующий" случай, который я видел
мужик этот козлина, женщины умнее и в разы порядочнее современных мужчинок , мне жаль наших женщин, которые не смогут найти себе пару среди Наших Военных или Рабочих , остальные - это абсолютный позор и балласт
@@user-uo6nd4pl5m Чушь сказала. Тот факт, что ты написала этот коммент уже говорит о твоей деградации с нотками мужененавистничества
@@user-uo6nd4pl5mпричём тут ум? 😂 Дело скорее в опыте. Мужчин больше в технических специальностях.У них в этом больше опыта. Если девушка всю свою жизнь занимается тем, что рассказывает о косметике в ютубе, зачем у неё спрашивать про прокладку труб например?
@@user-uo6nd4pl5m вы не лучше этого мужчинки, раз так думаете о мужчинах
Давайте уважать друг друга, угнетают и мужчин, и женщин, всякое бывает
God every single girl is so damn pretty
So are you!
@@dk2428 trolling?
@@LiviuXSA 99/100 ;) Depants on your personal preffrs
my thoughts exactly!
Hi I am single boy 💕😀
They are so respectful . ❤️ 💗
Fascinating interview!
Я учился на мехмате НГУ в Нске, наши девушки были очень круты и умны. Из 10 самых лучших студентов, девушек точно было половина, хотя их было сего 25-30% в общем потоке.
Та же тема в мгу ) еще падруга армреслингом занималась) удар был мама не горюй справа )
I'm mexican practicing my english and really you're help me to do it.
The lyrics in your videos and You talking are a increíble way to connect us with the rest of the world
Russian girls are so kind and beautiful :D
Not everyone
@@wanchwhocheh1681 ^American
this is why i love russian women! Love from the USA!
Same
Very interesting topic 😊
Unlike so many videos on CZcams, you can tell this was well thought out, seriously. By the end I not only felt I knew a little more about Russian people, but it was captivating in its entirety. Well done!
I love how every girl is smart and honest
Watching people get down to ground level and interviewing the average citizen is much better than listening to podcasts that craft a selectively curated narrative for outrage and views.
From someone who has grown tired of manosphere content, thank you.
@@wanchwhocheh1681two languages? They were asked and answered in Russian, their native lang.
each girl talked only on the basis of her personal experiences in her childhood. there is no general trend. the parental environment has the deepest influence.
I don't know buddy, seems like there are some general trends
those parents still are part of the population, and they don't get their morals from story books, but from their own environment as well. that's how society works
yes, underrated comment of yours
there is a clear general trend
ever since i’ve started dating my boyfriend from russia i haven’t paid for a single dinner or ANYTHING when we are together, i love the chivalry that was passed down through the generation.
Yeah, it's very convenient for you. 😁
Be glad to have him. Western men dont care anymore
@@nexusi6867 Lol, if she was asked to be traditional in return (cook and clean), she wouldn't do crap i bet.
@@xAmiin And she might have a solid body count.
Are You traditional in turn?
Элли, отличный канал и видео! 👍
Another great presentation Miss Eli and thanks for this parade of brilliant and beautiful young ladies!
Мне нравится, что вы показали разные точки зрения. У нас может быть очень субъективная точка зрения на этот вопрос в обществе. Например, я училась в Москве на технической специальности. У меня были моменты, когда старые преподаватели относились в девушкам более снисходительно, многие относились одинаково. Однако при всем этом декан факультета (аэросмический) женщина. Достаточно женщин преподавателей по математике физике и т.д. В дальнейшем по профессии (IT) также встречала много женщин на разных позициях. Однако, я все равно понимаю, что это только одна сторона и где-то еще может встречаться дискриминация. Однако все мы люди, и все мы разные🤷♀️ как-то так
Женщины (умные) неизбежно должны быть феминистками, потому что они прекрасно понимают разницу где отношения а где их общественный вклад в будущее детей. И когда в последнем варианте (на службе итд) мужчины делают вид что соблюдают понятия равенства, а закулисно решают исключительно в свою пользу - это надо ломать, это такой же принципиальный вопрос женской роли в заботе о потомстве, как и тема "хранения очага", включающая между делом суровую дрессировку чувства заботы у будущих отцов
@@andy_nvrmnd вы прямо столько ярлыков понавесили. На всех и со всех сторон. Не понятно, что вообще для вас значит феминизм, и почему вдруг умные женщины обязаны вам быть феминистками? 3 года оплачиваемого декрета входят в ваше понятие феминизма? Ведь это явно не входит в рамки равенства полов, ибо у мужчин таких привилегий нет.
Хотя я ваш коммент перечитала и поняла, что я понятия не имею о чем вы вообще😂 что вам там ломать то надо? Сделать квоты на женщин на рабочих местах и набирать по объявлению, а мужчин увольнять, ибо слишком много?
@@lukkam6591
Почему моё понятие? Общее понятие. И ваше женское и наше мужское. Декрет мне представляется разновидностью медвежьей услуги, поэтому не входит. Будь всё как в идеале в нашем обществе - декрет было бы "что есть что нету" для вас
@@andy_nvrmnd дичь какая. Надеюсь ваш феминизм никогда не воплотиться. С таким декретом вам в США надо, там женщина рожает, а через месяц на работу, или уволят. Я понимаю, что вы не понимаете о чем говорите и не представляете себе, что такое роды и физические отличия в жизни женщины и мужчины в принципе, поэтому разговор считаю оконченным
@@lukkam6591
Ну вообще-то я понимаю всё очень хорошо. вашу реакцию тоже понимаю. США не идеал, но стремится. А что касается в идеале - забота о детях это такой же достойный труд или даже больше .. конечно он должен вознаграждаться, но это в идеале, со всей ответственностью, - это совсем не тоже самое что кормить чем вздумается, высовываться из окна орать "Антоша, домой", отправлять в бездарное учебное заведение с облегчением вздыхать, не видеть весь день, а вечером устало поддерживать формальные разговоры
Men and women should be equal in terms of having equal access to economic opportunities and equal protection under the law. Men and women will naturally sort themselves out in society, anything that is forced will probably not work out too well.
Great questions Eli, it's great to see you explain how you decide which questions to ask. These are important questions and often times the general public is never asked for their opinion.
what do you think of patriarchy
"will naturally sort themselves out". Men and women are not trash to be sorted out. Each individual will choose their path. There aren't specific categories reserved for men or women for them to sort themselves into.
@@maika2449 Who sorts out trash? People have different interests they will sort themselves out in society according to what they choose to do.
@@ArturoGarzaID Misunderstood you then. Thought you implied some "natural categories" that men sort themselves into as opposed to women and vice versa. Apologies if that's not what was meant.
like natural outcomes
lovely video and content. South Africa
Gave me some very good insights into the world of women. Thank you.
Can we just all admit how beautiful these girls are 🙌👍
They look like super models
Right, a regular Russian woman it's Kind of a super model
Not all that hot maybe 3
Stfu its obvious. They eat good. Live clean. Food and environment affects alot.
@@jacobsinger97 what's that got to do with anything? You can live in the jungle and still live clean and good
I think people often confused personal roles in personal relationships with questions about social justice. For example, the struggle for making sure that women get paid on par with men, or that women should have the same education opportunities, is about equal access to economic and social resources. That is not the same thing as gender roles in a marriage, or a romance. From the interviews it seems that these Russian women like traditional gender roles in relationships, but are mostly positive about equality in other areas. I think this is an important distinction and it is valid to make it. Of course, the two do influence each other somewhat, but they don't have to necessarily.
"...The struggle for making sure that women get paid on par with men, or that women should have the same education opportunities, is about equal access to economic and social resources."
I don't think you can rationally dis-entangle the two, without wrecking what makes it possible for women to make the much-improved choices they've already gained through advanced economies. Economies cannot overcome scarcity by paying more. Quite the opposite, scarcity is overcome by producing more with less.
One of the largest "problems" (although that's not objective) is that women are FAR more likely to choose to take time off for child bearing and rearing, often for many years. Which means they lose far more years of valuable experience in the workforce. To the extent we already (or want to) try to force firms to pay them more to make up for that, the less output/cost would simply be passed on in prices to women's families, and would fall disproportionately on the poor, since the poor rely much more heavily than the middle class and wealthy on productivity (labor), rather than passive investments.
Government can involve itself to make it appear that this problem is solved (i.e., through regulation, subsidies, preferential treatment of larger companies, etc, which is itself, incredibly dangerous), but it is all appearance. Unfortunately, we're already WAY down that road, as corporatism and special (corporate and bureaucratic) interest domination has already taken over the U.S. to an alarming degree. Contrary to a LOT of wishful thinking, economic laws are not magically overcome by government and egalitarian-speak; and governments are incredibly dangerous (and violent) mechanisms for social engineering.
@@towardcivicliteracy YES
@@towardcivicliteracy Решение простое. Отпуск по уходу за ребенком в России оплачивает государство. Хотя вопрос, планируете ли вы в ближайшее время детей часто звучит на собеседовании. И учитывайте, что социальное равенство между мужчинами и женщинами в России имеет большую историю, чем в любой другой стране. Полагаю, что этот вопрос принял такие гипертрофированные формы в некоторых странах, как раз из за того, что с этим вопросом долго тянули.
100% ! Я русская. Женского пола.У меня есть свой бизнес, который приносит хороший доход и я могу быть независимой. Но! В отношениях с мужем я хочу быть слабой женщиной, где я всегда прислушаюсь к мнению мужа.
В России женщины стремятся быть феминистками во многих сферах, кроме брака и отношений(в основном).❤
Thanks for the video Eli.I love Russian culture,people and history of the Russians people's.Thankyou so much Elina.
Fine, very informative video.
This is a great video with logical personal insights into the cultural diversity that exists in modern society. I applaud the creator for making top quality content and displaying it in a raw, realistic and pragmatic context. Congratulations on doing a superb job!
Thanks for the video Eli. I love Russian culture and history. How nice to see different well-articulated views from each of these amazing women. Keep making videos.
The russian terrorist government completely rewrote the entire history of russia from the very beginning, and catherine the 2nd and peter the 1st began to rewrite it. For example in russia, people think that the Second World War began only in 1941 and not in the 39th, so says the official history in all russian schools. Throughout history, there have been almost no heroes in the russian government, only bloodthirsty villains. If someone like Nemtsov had appeared, he would have been thrown behind bars or he would have been killed, and Navalny could have been the next. I say it as a person who's been living in russia all his life. I wanna leave this prison
There is nothing left of Russian culture, neither architecture nor national cuisine has been preserved. You will probably laugh, but on holidays we eat cake, pizza, and sushi.
Good topic to discuss.
Stumbled on this video. Excellent that the interviewer let people talk freely! Plus the views of Moscow as she did her interviews were very interesting to me. Great job Eli, informing and letting everyone see the depth of field among young Russian ladies on this controversial topic. Great job!
а мне думается что эля, это профессиональный провокатор !
@@ElifromRussia do you know any of those ladies? the one with braces and the glowing smiling red head wit glasses on her head? I think I need a Russia wife.lol bless you dear
This is Moscow. Moscow is not Russia. The smartest and most educated people in the country flock there, as does all the money. The rest of Russia is like neo slums
I'm half German half Russian and this video is beautiful.
From my family (из Казани) I only know their stories.
My mom did Russian Ballet for 8 years, 5 days a week, 2 hours each day. She studied at university, her best friends studied at university.
Her aunt, my great aunt, was a German professor at university at the time.
My great grandma was a Tatarian actress and I loved her humour.
My grandma worked in the technical field but didn't study at university (she came from a village and the education available wasn't the best).
I really love my family and I love having conversations with them because they are all very knowledgeable and have a unique perspective on life and I wouldn't change it for the world.
Привет, землякам из Казани!
Hello from Kazan)) hehe
Mom, aunt, grandma... Were there any men in your family? Did you talk to them at all?
Russian women use common sense, and that's why I love them.
Greetings from Argentina.
I'm positively surprised by the answers these young ladies gave. In Western countries, where women's rights are in more advanced stages, women do not seem to be that articulate and direct, while in Russia, they presented their thoughts with clarity and respect. Being a feminist doesn't need to be translated into losing your femininity, and these Russian ladies are the perfect example of that. Thank you for sharing
Вы сильно ошибаетесь насчёт слабой продвинутости свободы женщин в России. Равноправие женщин и мужчин было принято в России ещё в 1918 г. Женщины наравне с мужчинами воевали, на своих плечах несли работу в тылу на военных заводах, и восстановление страны после войны. У женщин было столько прав и обязанностей, а мужчин в живых осталось так мало, что мы нахлебались этого очень много! Никто никогда не ущемляет женщин в карьере, только потому что она женщина! Ограничить женскую карьеру может только сама женщина, т. к. у неё появляются дети, или ей это надоест!
no, it's in west where their 'rights' need to advance, in this region the rights have been there for decades.
Women rights more advanced in western countries???
You’ve probably never heard of communism in Russia
At the time Russia was giving equal rights to women to be launched into space, American astronauts were beating their wives for cocking bad meatloaf..
and America was still deciding whether black people were people (and could ride the bus and use the same swing pools.. whist in Russia they were opening universities and providing government funding for African students to get free education in medical, engineering and other professions)
The first woman (and man) in space was Russian and the only reason Americans allowed a female space program was not to look bad next to the Soviets 🤷♂️
It’s just in Russia we have sense to not confuse rights with tradition, where as in America you lost sense to tell men and women apart 🤷♂️🤦♂️
@@user-ke3so7mf2nон не ошибается, там просто университетский уровень образования - это образование сельской школы в России
А пропаганда на таком уровне, что если завтра в сми им объявят приказ президента убивать матерей, то 3/4 страны будут его исполнять 🤷♂️
In Russia there are very aggressive men, they really hate feminists, so many women are forced to take a position against feminism without understanding the essence of the movement. This speaks first of all about the superficiality of all judgments
You did a good job of interviewing very smart women. Thank you it was very informative concerning the culture of Russia.
Какие умные и красивые наши девушки. ❤приятно их слушать, речь граммотная.
Traditional values ladies and gents. This is so healthy.
btw the brunette girl in black with wide-opened blue eyes speaks so clean pure pleasure to listen to her.
What wonderful people. I wish you all happiness and peace in the new year. This stupid war is fu**ed up.
In Russia there are very aggressive men, they really hate feminists, so many women are forced to take a position against feminism, no matter how sad it may sound
Though I'm an old married man I do enjoy hearing what Russian people have to say and what they feel. Thank you for these videos. Hello from the state of UTAH in the u.s.a., johann
You have that ‘it’ factor that makes a CZcams channel successful❤️ can’t wait to watch your channel grow!
Thanks, as a French it was very interesting.
Russian women are so beautiful and articulated 😯great video!
I enjoy these videos a great deal My father was a veteran of general Patton's army and World War II After the war ended my father met Russian Soviet soldiers He met the Soviet Russian soldiers in Berlin He got to know them somewhat They bartered with each other for things that they wanted to exchange My father told me many many things about the Russian Soviet soldiers He always spoke of them in a very respectful and honorable way He said they were very tough And there was a lady who was in the Russian Soviet army If and my father said that she was a very very beautiful woman She had fought in the war and killed nazis with a machine gun And my father spoke of her beauty even 20 to 25 years later I have nothing against the Russian people And I hope to meet Russian people and make friendships Especially a nice lady
Germans are good people too... they were just sick of jewish banking cartel plundering their country. My grandfather was Norwegian partisan and my Grandmother is German. Russia is in the same situation that the German faced then. They try to get out of western Financial system.
Thank you🥺❤️
Hi there😁
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Come to Russia, what is you problem? We don't mind if kind and smart people will come to our country.
I really enjoy the conversational manner in which Eli explores Russian culture and contrasts it with the rest of the world. Well done!
As an American I love these videos on CZcams because they bring the human element to the table when countries are torn between policies. In the end we only have each other.
bro i fell in love so many times on this video haha
You definitely make such good videos and touch on such interesting topics. I enjoy watching your videos and learning more about Russia's diversity of viewpoints, cultures and regions. Keep going!!!
Street interviews are often the best to watch. Thanks for sharing this. Keep doing these videos please. ♥
Desde Sudamérica un abrazo parar los rusos, rusas, son gente educada, amable, patriota, un referente. Nunca se sienten mal, los amamos. RUSSIA❤
Обнимаем ❤😊
In Russia it is forbidden to be unpatriotic, otherwise you will end up like Navalny, whom they tried to poison and now he is imprisoned for more than a murderer
I think it is a bit of a pity that you've asked these questions in the capital only. It would be great to ask it in different cities or even small villages.
Bes to show the world then get into other things .... You are good at that. I like how you represent your country...
Love the way these women think . I have daughter and told her the exact same thing yes we are equal in value but not the same. Men has his strength and weakness and woman has hers and so we balance each other . You know ying /yang or heads and tails of a coin . 1 can't be exist without the other. mutual love and respect is the key . Behind every great man is his woman .