Putting Our Children In School | Hamza Yusuf
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- čas přidán 19. 10. 2020
- Hamza Yusuf talks on why we should homeschool our children and why we should, at least in their early stages, not give them up to the school system
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I'm 15 but for real the schools nowadays especially in uk they teach lgbt bad stuff although alhamdulilah I came across shaykh Hamza last year watched alot of videos and read books this guy is absolute genius
Alhamdullilah! Keep watching Hamza Yusuf my brother, he will benefit you a lot, May Allah bless you and your family, Ameen
I'm getting most of the books he recommends ,bcz I trust him and trust his words,I respect his thought and I'm blessed I learned from him a lot of things, and I had misconceptions and doubts, he always finds answers to almost everything, and convinced me as well, may Allah bless him for this Ummah, true scholars are thin on the grounds nowadays.
Youre right sister they teach this now to kids :((
I’m a Christian and I do not want my daughter to go to public school because she should be innocent and not learn about LGBT.
❤ Alhamdulillah ❤️
Don't send her!
It's not hard to home school, you will see her grow and reach each milestone. Rather than some stranger at public school
Stand up for and protect your family. Learn how the ABC that used to be learned changed to LGBTQ it's a very dark history.. May Allah (God) protect you and your family ❤️ Ameen
I don't understand why they need to teach anything like that, especially so innocent no need, when I went to college we had gays but we didn't disrespect anyone, just treat people how we would like to be treated
We're homeschooling. It's been a real blessing. If you are looking for courage to start, just jump of that cliff. You can do it :-)
I don’t have time to teach them, is there online home schooling options.
As salaamu alaykum! Maa shaa'a Allaah sister! I have to start Homeschooling with my daughter Assya!! I hope to be able to do It, because we need It!
@@aminataummassya5404 you can do it, Umm Assya. Do you live in the us? If so which state?
@@roshanburgai3902 yes there are online islamic British schools as:
LadyEvelyn
Asrahub
Ayat learning
@@yosraibrahem2856 Thank you,
Are these schools you mentioned accredited in USA?
I would love to homeschool my kids if my husband would cook and clean and tell his parents we can't see them until weekend and tell them we're sleeping/ waking early. May Allah give women supportive husbands and in-laws so they can give proper tarbiya to their kids
Aameen
I was able to homeschool my kids for a week before my husband put them in school:( In sha Allah we will be able to one day in sha Allah
If you were serious about it you would be able to do it InshAllah
You can use any family time as a learning experience. Make children interact engage in house activities, conversions, ask husband, grandparents to share their knowledge, read a book, recite the Quran. Where there is a will there is a way sister.
Ameen
I loved this lecture, sowing the seeds!very insightful
I tried so much to get my daughter admitted to a Muslim school , appeals everything but ended up sending her to a mixed school, Inshallah will keep trying
Your channel is the best among other channels that upload shaykh hamza videos. Less advertisement and consistent uploads. May Allah ﷻ pay your sincerity in spreading the knowledge of our deen.
Jazakallah my brother I appreciate your words, May Allah bless you and your family Ameen
al haqiquh you are doing a fabulous job. i really love your videos ma sha Allah they are so informative and to the point.
I love this sheikh
Thanks for uploading
Thanks for watching, May Allah bless you
While many Muslims are conscious on not sending their kids to "Christian" schools, we have to relie that "secular" schools are from the biggest challenge facing the ummah... Secularism is an ideology that systemeticlly removes Allah from our lives and promotes atheism, humanism, democracy, the rib economy and effectively makes all participants/investors part of the Kufr system. Islamic schools are offering a Muslim environment, but the secular mindset is not absent
Alhamdulillah! Please keep them videos coming in. I truly love Shaikh Hamza Yusuf for the sake of Allah. May Allah bless him abundantly ameen
Wished he was in my home country (UK) Never been fond of putting children into daycare.
May the one you love him for love you my bro, in sha Allah ill keep them coming in, May Allah always bless you with piety, Ameen
You've a giant in Shaykh Abdul Hakīm Murād there in the UK, Masha Allah.
ALLAH hu akber.
What a beautiful mind
Hy 🌺
Especially here in southern African in shaa Allah we will have Islamic schools
in sha Allah
Well said! JazakAllah! I really love what you said. I feel the same way. You speak the truth. I don't believe in daycare either. Alhamdullilah I didn't do that t my kid, even as a single mother and no grandma or mom to help me. I babysat kids and brought my son with me and I'm a teacher and ABA Therapist. Sometimes I got talked down because I'm working with lowere pay, but I didn't care. As long as my kid was happy, then I'm happy. Next step, working at an Islamic school while my son goes to school with me inshallah. Please make dua for me to help make it happen. JazakAllah khairan. ❤
I agree
I agree 100%
I don't agree with everything you say sheikh but I respect you and your intellect very much, peace be upon you.
Reduce the level of the background music PLEASE PLEASE
Where well said !! He is right kids needs their mom if one day Inch’Allah I become mom I want to be housewife because what the system teaching kids today is sooo shocking we didnt have this 25 years ago
what is the name of the background nasheed?
Very good video, whats the background music called???
It's a nasheed. Miusic is haram
Nasheed ?
The first thing everyone should fear is that our children not knowing anything about their deen.
Where's the full lecture?
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Here you go my bro
Yes
Does anyone know the reference of the Hadith regarding a woman who financially supports her husband? I’ve never heard of such a Hadith.
Nouman Ali Khan has a video on this!.
@@MonicaSĪGÑofJõñãhYUNIS hey, thank you. Could you please link this, or tell me what the title of the video is as I haven’t managed to find anything on sunnah dot com, or Islamic website/channel. Many thanks!
@@georginathompson3788 Man... That was years ago... Here's some info.
czcams.com/video/18Z1Sz2KS_A/video.html
@@georginathompson3788 Here's the ENTIRE Khutbah...
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@@MonicaSĪGÑofJõñãhYUNIS hey, thanks for posting those links. I cannot find any point at which he makes reference to any Hadith talking about a woman who supports a man financially receiving double the reward. He talks about traditional men vs women’s role as according to Islam, but not about any particular “sound”, which I take to be graded at least Hasan (if not Sahih), that is quoted by Hamza Yusuf in this video. If you have the actual Hadith number or book name then I’d appreciate if you could share. Thanks.
I completely respect sheikhs opinon and i agree that christian and catholic schools will harm our muslim children as they will want to be christian like the other children.im talking about primary schools.However non faith schools in a area where muslims are a minority are good as they teach our kids to be part of society to accept and be kind toeveryone regardless of race religion ethnicity or class.Its very important for our chikdren to grow up respecting and able to mix with others in our siciety.infact we all keep forgetting the only reason we are allowed to live in a non muslim country is by giving dawah and mixing with the people of the land.our children are also beacons of light to others.And will one day work alongside men and women.Men and boys need to learn and develop social skills with women and need to be re educated into the treatment of women as prescribed in the koran.lets not have a backward mentality when islam and prophet muhammad taught us a fresh forward way of thinking.As for high schools yes teenagers learn about lgbt sex puberty drinking and drugs gambling.The issue is not to bury pur heads in the sand we can not lock up our kids from society.The issue is our societies across tge globe are corrupt and it is better for our teenagers to know whike there teenagers of these issues so that the line of communication is open and as good muslim parents we can convey the koran and islam and explain we dont do haram things and to respect others because only allah can judge between us.if you hide youre child and teenager and do not talk to them about these issues they may go and do it behind ypure back.or when there adults that is the reality you can not make ypure child a muslim you can not force them as they grow up into an adult to be a muslim.We can try to guide them and teach them in my opinon as a mum of 6 4 teenagers boys and girls and 2 small children it has to be there choice.They become responsible for there own actions they can not survive in a jungle if you have not send them into the jungle already taught them survival skills they need to face whatever comes there way.. And also by growing up with others they will learn love and compassion tolerance which islam teaches us and something that is lacking in our umma.it irons out racism narrow mindness segregation by muslims.if im honest ive found non muslum parents much kinder and polite and well behaved and accepting and there chikdren then muslims .And also the level of education is better then muslim schools.For the deen there is the mosque for kids and teenagers unfortuanetly one of my teenagers where stabbed in the mosque.i found muslim children have serious behavioural issues and agression and muslim parents do not discipline there chikdten or talk to them.They did not parent there children.so i took them out of the mosque classes.Its ironic that there non faith schools are next to the mosque and yet nothing like that ever happened to my kids at school ever at 1 prumary school and 2 big highschools .The majority of parents at there primary school are not muslim .I stay away from the muslim mums as they gossip and backbite and stay in there own groups a small algerian group and a small pakistaini group.The algerian group are very cold and have shouted and screamed at my children unjustifiably because they where playing and he said she said they threatened to beat me up.And complained about my children to the head teacher .The pakistain sisters do not smike or return my salams ever i tried to speak to them they segregate themselves.Both groups told me islam is only for them.As a italian revert born in london grew up with mixed cultures i dont understand there hatred in there hearts to others there racism burns deep and so i wash my hands of it.in this situatiion my children will grow up as better open minded well behaved respectful loving courteous muslims in a non faith school compared to attending a muslim school riddled with badly behaved children or snooty judgemental holier then thou muslim chikdren .we go from one extreme to the other.My chikdren at higj school are proud to be one of the only muslimsvtjey see the beauty and light of guidance in our deen compared to th darkness in our world.If they have that theyare blessed theyvdibthings because they love allah and islam not because they where oppressed and dictated to or bullied by ohers.Allah will npt change our umma untill we change ourselves.we need to stop making excuses for our bad parenting skills or justification of culture for narrowmindness.we should all be cjanging everyday and it starts by admitting our issues so that we can stop.our chikdren copy us completely.How are our children going to be good descent kind muslims if we are not as parents?so its nothing to do with a non muslim school not catholic or christian though its to do with parenting ypure kids.men dont know how to be fathers sorry but its true alot of muslim men dont spend time or talk tonthere kids or teenagers mums are not savy on the reality of the problems our teenagers face and most parents are a generation behind.we need to be real and accept our society and understand it to help our teenagers to protect themselves against it otherwise they dont stand a chance.Did allah hide ibrahim away from society?or Noah?or maryam with jesus?No no weve forgotten allah has put is amongst non muslims for a reason not tobhide away .ypu can not hide away from life and whatvallah has ordained.this is a kufr disbelieve.part of our faith is to struggle always amongst disbelievers .maybe thats allahs way of spreading islam.how can youbspread islam if ypu segregate from society?are you defenying allahs will to put you in a non muslim country or town?we say we are muslims but as soon as anythings hard we want to make it easy by hiding away.That will not solve the problem.
The music in the background ruins videos!!!
Do you allow other children to attend your school?
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I would send my kids to a Muslim school if I could but there are no Muslim schools in my city.
May Allah reward you for you intention, and Bless you for your sincerity, and grant your children piety in every circumstance, Ameen
You have to move
No excuses you are raising the future generation unless you want from your progeny non Muslim
If you are a foreigner in western society you have no idea what’s happening in western schools don’t be impressed when your child speaks good English it’s not the language of the Quran
When you are in your grave you want a child or grandchild that will pray for you or give sadakaa
This is a good intentions lecture. However, the reality is that so called Islamic schools are not all good. Maybe he is just referring to public schools in the USA.
I live in an Islamic Arab country. The government schools are very bad. I put my kids in a private Islamic school. The Islamic studies teacher showed the 2nd graders a youtube video of hellfire. Yes, my daughter was traumatized and couldn't sleep for months. I put my kids in an American school. My kids were academically better there and emotionally safe. I just had to teach them myself the religion and to differentiate between right and wrong.
Ideally, yes we should put our children in Islamic Arabic schools, but the reality is that we don't have good schools, not even in the Islamic countries unfortunately.
We do our best and pray the Allah will protect and guide them.
While this message is well intentioned, it paints a very broad brush against all public schools without citing any evidence. As far as we know, brain development is really accelerated before 22years old, so it's really critical to get it right. Islamic schools are.good, but they are not competitive yet in general. Public schools can be competitive but operate without any moral development. However, public schools are also where non Muslims learn about Islam outside of a mainstream media that paints Muslims as terrorists. If all Muslims went to Islamic school, we lose an opportunity to express the beauty of Islam at younger ages. What's needed are both strong Muslim teachers to bring excellent academic standards with an Islamic curriculum, and also students who can stand up for their faith in a secular environment.
You make valid points brother. Sheikh is saying our children need to know basics (language, math,science). We shouldn't worry about them being academically competitive if our kids ahqlaq, Deen or Iman are even slightly at risk.
What's the point of earning top marks if our kids end up placing importance on things above their own creator or Deen?
Again, having Muslims kids represent and influence in non Muslim schools shouldn't come at the expense of our children.
Spreading the message is wonderful, but we must first establish and nurture our own home before we start sweeping the streets.
Kids do NOT want to be the only one standing out(let's say a Hijabi) and shoulder responsibilities of representing an entire religion. When I was younger, I was 1 of 4 Muslims in my entire school. All the other Muslim kids compromised their religions to be "accepted" amongst their classmates. That was a lot of pressure on me. If I told people what Muslims do different, they would say " your Muslim friend so and so doesn't do that". I would be peer pressured to do haraam. All I know is if Allah blesses me with kids, I'm sending them to Islamic school inshallah.
background music not needed, dont see the point of it
Its A Great Knowledgeable Video But There Is Some Cleavage Stuff At 0:40 Might Work On Removing That Some People Can't Share Or Upload On Their Private Accounts ..
GROSS abuse of the young people, just as you say. No trust for their critical and creative capacity. Arts disciplines are stifled. Humanities studies are hemmed in, kept within perimeters comfortable for the professional classes. World history is a joke at the school where I work, which is dominated by ARMY ROTC criteria. It is believed by the faculty that military crap is the best way for these young people to learn discipline. But what they are being taught is acceptance of the criminal policies of the dunya (sp?). The walls of the math quadrant at this school are decorated with the names of famous mathematicians. The most notable exclusions are all Arab and Persian mathematicians. The same is true in the science quarter. Obviously this is not a widespread practice (yet). But that is where these Babylonian tyrants are headed, and I am grateful for the Imam, may Allah be pleased with him, who keeps it real, always, always.
In Islam, women must stay in home and can go out for their needs. Khathija RA wasn't a right example because she didn't go out to work. She operated her business from home after being widowed twice and needed to support her children. She employed men to trade on her behalf. She focused on raising her children and we glorify her for not being a rich woman, but for being a great wife and mother.
Many women today are materialists and westernized. They desire to be men 2.0 by having a career. They are following disbelieving women, not great women of Islam. They don't know Islam and don't raise their children well. Such women are failing this community. Pure fitnah. All scholars should be talking about it and bring the Muslim women back on track.
Well obviously Muslim women living in the west are going to become westernised. It’s their parents fault for moving them to the west. If you don’t want your children to be taught by Christians or be influenced by western culture, don’t move to Europe or anyother western country. It’s common sense.
@Hassan Ahmed "Brothers are not doing" is not an excuse for women to not do their jobs. We are answerable to Allah for our own choices and actions. What others do or not shouldn't concern us.
@@andrewneil542 it's kind of like moving to an island and being surprised that everyone is sustained on fish ( which you do not like to eat).
Instead of trying to change the local fish based food supply, you simply need to make sure you raise your own livestock to suit your way of life.
This video is a distraction brother
you mean the background?
Yeah.. The content is great masha Allah but i end up watching the video which is not compatible with the great content(maybe i am the problem). Wish I could see the sheikh himself speaking if posible.. anyway Great work and may Allah reward U for this effort..really like this channel
it was one of my early videos which i admit does need work on the editing, sorry about that my bro, if I do ever come across the video again ill send a link on here, JazakAllahu Khair and May Allah reward you also for your manners and good character, May your reward be Jannah my bro Ameen
You are just amazing brother. I really understand the dedication commitment n effort put so that your muslim brothers n sisters like me benefit miles away. May Allah reward n accept ur work. U have no clue how this lectures transforms us a great deal more so for those of Us in Africa who dont know arabic n have no access to scholars.i think i have watched all. I love u and hamza yusuf for the sake of Allah. N if we don't meet here in this world then may Allah unite Us in Jannah.Amin..ur muslim bro..
I stopped at the almost naked women you put in the video.... and it's sad that, for the muslims that live in western countries , become normalised to see that kind women... والله المستعان... secondly i stopped it watching for that sound in the background... no matter how good is the advice he is giving, but the sins in this videos is bigger