3 Psychotherapy Techniques That Identify Your Client's Real Problem

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  • čas přidán 2. 06. 2024
  • When helping a client, we can get hypnotized by detail. We often get transfixed in looking at the shape and colour of the person's life, and the miniscule ins-and-outs of what's surrounding their issues.
    Here I'll describe 3 easy psychotherapy techniques you can use to cut through the detail in your therapy and counseling sessions to identify your client's real problem.
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Komentáře • 74

  • @AM-oq1hd
    @AM-oq1hd Před 3 lety +100

    1) ask ourselves what are they not getting from their life (unfufilled needs)
    2) what faulty pattern matching is going on
    3) what are their metaphors telling you about what they need and about them

    • @EveningTV
      @EveningTV Před 2 lety +13

      Thank you. The actual content begins at 03:29

    • @treavam5653
      @treavam5653 Před měsícem +1

      Thank you!

    • @cheyenneoliver5835
      @cheyenneoliver5835 Před měsícem +1

      What if it's not any specific thing that's causing their unhappiness, like sometimes depression can be without a specific cause?

    • @sereneamani1713
      @sereneamani1713 Před 8 dny

      @@cheyenneoliver5835 My take on your question is that there is always a specific cause(s). They and we just don't know exactly what it is. That's where ongoing assessment with the right questions begin the process (i.e. durations, triggers, thought process and content, etc.), and the use of the 3 topics from this video.

  • @saintluke2nd
    @saintluke2nd Před 5 lety +47

    I liked how you used the analogy of the light coming through the stained glass in reference to consciousness coming through the emotional ego structure.

  • @alexandragoldstein8789
    @alexandragoldstein8789 Před 4 lety +60

    Absolutely love your channel. Studying to be a therapist right now and I wouldn’t be able to get through it without your help

    • @mremington8
      @mremington8 Před 2 lety +3

      if you believe that, his content is failing you

  • @asterism1943
    @asterism1943 Před 2 lety +3

    You had me at what are they not getting from their life, what an important place to start

  • @hcwz9859
    @hcwz9859 Před 2 lety +12

    Absolutely invaluable information. I’m a counsellor and this is so helpful when supervision is not accessible

  • @anyariv
    @anyariv Před rokem +2

    Most beautiful mataphor about the human individual I ever heard.

  • @yoongis.tangerine
    @yoongis.tangerine Před 3 lety +23

    binge watching your videos so that i can be my own therapist

    • @sheiswomantomessalynn5562
      @sheiswomantomessalynn5562 Před 11 dny +1

      Attempting at Being your own therapist is equivalent to being inside of a cereal box trying to read your own label. Invest in your wellness from a trained specialist. 😊

    • @sereneamani1713
      @sereneamani1713 Před 8 dny

      @@sheiswomantomessalynn5562 Who can then help teach one to be their own therapist eventually

  • @fatimatahira7787
    @fatimatahira7787 Před 3 lety +3

    Really well explained concepts!
    Amazing videos!

  • @ashishmeher9979
    @ashishmeher9979 Před měsícem +1

    Thank you for sharing your wisdom.

  • @gerlindechristina238
    @gerlindechristina238 Před 9 měsíci +1

    With the Glass stained windows you are sharing an amazing metaphor! Thank you.

  • @deborahferguson1163
    @deborahferguson1163 Před 3 lety +2

    Really a good conversation!

  • @susantompkins4254
    @susantompkins4254 Před 3 lety +1

    Thank you very much, this is a big help for me much appreciated

  • @ABlackGirlandHerCoffee
    @ABlackGirlandHerCoffee Před rokem +1

    Thank you for this.

  • @Twiglet142
    @Twiglet142 Před 3 lety +7

    Very insightful! I learnt a lot in 8 mins about thought patterns. I was wondering if you've created any podcasts?

  • @tauanemenezes3608
    @tauanemenezes3608 Před rokem

    This was so helpful. Thank you!

  • @terriensberg5487
    @terriensberg5487 Před 2 lety +1

    This is brilliant.

  • @alexpodolski4068
    @alexpodolski4068 Před 2 lety +1

    very pragmatic approach!

  • @CharlesBudde-vx6vi
    @CharlesBudde-vx6vi Před 3 měsíci

    A variety of clear and evocative points

  • @damienhunt4264
    @damienhunt4264 Před rokem +1

    Another excellent upload.

  • @relax.meditate.wellness

    Thank you for this. 🙏🏼

  • @wendyparker3475
    @wendyparker3475 Před měsícem

    This channel has helped me so much as a developing therapist. Thank you for your wisdom and insight!

  • @user-lw3cw2nr3z
    @user-lw3cw2nr3z Před 8 měsíci +1

    Sir, I just started watching your videos and I am loving it already

  • @paradisecolors
    @paradisecolors Před rokem

    Your videos are always very helpful and insightful. Thank you :)

  • @saracarson8835
    @saracarson8835 Před rokem

    Thank-you for this video x

  • @ranamerez8392
    @ranamerez8392 Před rokem

    big respect to your knoeledge

  • @lauranutricion8807
    @lauranutricion8807 Před 5 lety +3

    Thanks for sharing this valuable information

  • @natgreen5903
    @natgreen5903 Před rokem +1

    Love it 😊

  • @ranamerez8392
    @ranamerez8392 Před 3 lety

    I was asking myself this question one week ago and you just gave me the answer. I love your channel. but once we know all that. how to approach the client.

  • @komaldogra7849
    @komaldogra7849 Před 6 měsíci

    Very very useful and love all your videos.
    Would be more helpful if you could elaborate more on the third point,Sir .

  • @luannemartin7708
    @luannemartin7708 Před 3 lety +4

    I am a very busy counselor and love your channel!

  • @naturallyyounaturallyme1324

    Thank you

  • @diznyland6214
    @diznyland6214 Před 3 lety +12

    I’m not a therapist or even studying to be one, just someone that is dealing with a lot of depression and uncertainty.
    I was feeling particularly down today and this video helped to teach me some new ways to have better control over my negative thought processes.
    You definitely have a new subscriber. Thanks for putting out this content!

    • @billycasper3351
      @billycasper3351 Před 3 lety +11

      I'm seeing a psychiatrist tomorrow the first time in my life. I searched this video out because I couldn't figure out how will I explain myself tomorrow. I don't want 5 sessions just to explain myself, my problems, especially when it's costly. This video helped a lot to organise my thoughts. Wish me luck.

    • @dotdashdotdash
      @dotdashdotdash Před 3 lety +5

      @@billycasper3351 how did it go?

  • @letstalk1033
    @letstalk1033 Před 2 lety

    You are very knowledgeable. I am starting as a counselor and will like to know if you have any tips on how to start building myself for my career

  • @deanneharrall1241
    @deanneharrall1241 Před 5 lety +1

    Thank you!!

  • @user-lw3cw2nr3z
    @user-lw3cw2nr3z Před 8 měsíci +1

    Am a psychologist from Nigeria, have applied some of your techniques and they worked.... Pls sir, can I get a link to take your courses..... It would help me in the clinical line

  • @rebeccatshibangu4872
    @rebeccatshibangu4872 Před 4 lety +2

    Love this channel

  • @ZininaKate
    @ZininaKate Před 3 lety

    Precious❤️

  • @Merrin9997
    @Merrin9997 Před 5 lety +3

    Your voice is so calming..How did accquire all these knowledge? Any books you refer?

    • @Nyx773
      @Nyx773 Před 4 lety +2

      Read the full description of the video and click on the links.

  • @carlthomson1970
    @carlthomson1970 Před 4 lety +2

    I like your vids, I’m at Leicester uni and will tell everybody about you

  • @maxwellcooper2
    @maxwellcooper2 Před 4 lety

    Fantastic

  • @SouthParkStudio
    @SouthParkStudio Před 3 lety +1

    I’d love some insight! Prih-vuh-see but still pronounced Pry-vuh-see... I’ll never understand accents. Or why mine isn’t weird to my own perspective.

  • @gotama570
    @gotama570 Před 2 lety

    That's the problem first you have to be in clear what is a normal life for a human being and that takes a lot of knowledge and discussion

  • @aprilthomas1489
    @aprilthomas1489 Před 2 lety

    Wow I am missing every single one of those basic needs except for privacy. I think sometimes people are just beyond hope

  • @evav465
    @evav465 Před 3 lety +2

    In my country therapists without university degree are not taken seriously though some coaches without uni degree are good in fat.

  • @nedeljkorvovic7326
    @nedeljkorvovic7326 Před 2 lety +1

    You have the same eyes like Anthony Hopkins...

  • @JustT0m752
    @JustT0m752 Před 3 lety +1

    I feel hypnotherapy might be the most appropriate form of therapt for me. However, I can't meditate even though i practice every week for about ten years. I am concerned I wont be able to be hypnotized either.

    • @saracarson8835
      @saracarson8835 Před rokem +1

      Hypnosis is a beautiful, gentle and very effective therapy. A good hypnotherapist will help you go into hypnosis....its nothing like what you generally see on you tube. Best decision I made was to study it xx go for it xx you won't regret it

  • @VS-eb1fl
    @VS-eb1fl Před 3 lety

    2:00 3:20 4:50 6:25

  • @SporadicUploads1
    @SporadicUploads1 Před 5 měsíci

    I was violently bullied for years in school and cannot ever trust people or like life again what am I supposed to do.

    • @SporadicUploads1
      @SporadicUploads1 Před 5 měsíci

      The premise that I'm supposed to just be ok now takes away my opportunity to get fulfilled in my childhood teens and 2os (age 31 now) and I see only hideousness in aging.

    • @SporadicUploads1
      @SporadicUploads1 Před 5 měsíci

      The idea that it's my responsibility to get better and enjoy life just forgives the psychopath bullies that the society loves and gave scholarships to. I hate and distrust you all monkey demon monsters I hate my species.

    • @mihaiapostol7864
      @mihaiapostol7864 Před měsícem

      ​@@SporadicUploads1there are some bullies out there indeed. but please don't forget there are also kind people. and that those bullies were bullied themselves. a person that receives love & attention and feels his life has meaing won't bully others..

  • @SporadicUploads1
    @SporadicUploads1 Před 5 měsíci

    My needs are too unmet it hurts I dont want to have been born. It was violent bullying in the schools.

  • @RussianBot69420
    @RussianBot69420 Před 4 lety +5

    Im guessing I cant use this on myself?? Lol

  • @thehawk69er46
    @thehawk69er46 Před 4 lety

    God your amazing

  • @buddhaneosiddhananda8499
    @buddhaneosiddhananda8499 Před 2 lety +1

    Actually you need psychic powers, and experience and a genuine care... without these things, you haven't got a hope...

  • @joycepearljones4907
    @joycepearljones4907 Před rokem

    Mental Health and Cairo Egypt Gazing Up Stain
    glass Window; Rainbow: methofore shapes and colors; light from the same source = the sun. Local shape and color in that church; facade; enfused prejudice proble,s and need; bambozled;

  • @sararichman6612
    @sararichman6612 Před rokem +2

    Maybe the sun is god and the right question to ask is not what im not getting out of life but instead ask what am not giving to life.

  • @mremington8
    @mremington8 Před 2 lety

    dude, im a reasonably smart guy, but that opening nearly had me switching off completely - id skip the long unecessasry prelude to your otherwise good content

  • @timnewton9042
    @timnewton9042 Před 8 měsíci

    Your clients are broken and you know better than they do whatever they say - I won't be coming to you for therapy!

    • @mihaiapostol7864
      @mihaiapostol7864 Před měsícem

      why did you have that impression? he said in the video, "listen to what your clients have to say behind their metaphors"