How A DNA Test Led One Woman To Discover Her Secret Family History | Megyn Kelly TODAY

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  • In the final installment of the Megyn Kelly TODAY series “Secrets: Telling My Truth,” Wendy Spencer joins Megyn Kelly on Megyn Kelly TODAY with her husband and daughter to talk about how a DNA test led her to uncover a shocking secret about her father and her true biological family.
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    How A DNA Test Led One Woman To Discover Her Secret Family History | Megyn Kelly TODAY

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  • @louisasmiles
    @louisasmiles Před 3 lety +521

    Then his daughter married a man of colour. I love how life turns it around, the granddaughter is stunning... Its all so nuts

    • @joekerr9197
      @joekerr9197 Před 3 lety +29

      Well he also had a child with a (part) jewish woman as well...don't forget that. Lol...

    • @rosaliegross494
      @rosaliegross494 Před 3 lety +2

      Joe Kerr r

    • @indigenousspinster_6665
      @indigenousspinster_6665 Před 3 lety +2

      @@joekerr9197 her Jewish side we’re white Jews 🤷🏽‍♂️

    • @thrshwll1526
      @thrshwll1526 Před 2 lety +11

      Ironic isn't it? Serves him right. God works in mysterious ways. His granddaughter is stunning and intelligent. Beautiful young lady

    • @Ophorey
      @Ophorey Před 2 lety +1

      She is indeed dazzling

  • @staceysherene5488
    @staceysherene5488 Před 6 lety +1149

    This is why her mother didn’t tell her about him

    • @commentfreely5443
      @commentfreely5443 Před 5 lety +8

      and Mohammad's father died 4 years before he was born.
      dna test, anyone?

    • @candybramlett6651
      @candybramlett6651 Před 4 lety +37

      I don't think her mother knew that he was such a blatant racist. She barely knew the man when she got pregnant by him.

    • @danielx8
      @danielx8 Před 4 lety +3

      Why she slept with him?

    • @daviddkazee5562
      @daviddkazee5562 Před 4 lety +4

      She got black in her blood. One brop rule !😂😂😂😂

    • @hd-xc2lz
      @hd-xc2lz Před 4 lety +7

      @Shaq love, it is possible. It was said that the mother had phone conversations with the birth father well past the time of the one night stand.

  • @Archer335
    @Archer335 Před 5 lety +565

    I love the daughter’s statement:
    “... I don’t believe our ancestors make us who we are.”
    This is a very wise statement. I’ve always felt that way.
    Also, the man who raised her should be considered her father.
    He took responsibility, emotionally and financially and with his time and effort.
    All the biological father did was impregnate her mother in the heat of sexual
    passion and walk away - end of story.
    Having said that, the three talking with Megyn seem like a lovely family.

    • @bosslady1973
      @bosslady1973 Před 4 lety +14

      I like how this quote is used, however, being black and white myself, does this quote still apply to why black people treat white people unfairly because of slavery? There are people who hate white people because of slavery but this didn't happen directly to them or their immediate family. Yes, ancestors go through things good and bad, but when will we take a person's character as who they are instead of their skin color? Your comment just made me think 🤔

    • @Archer335
      @Archer335 Před 4 lety +10

      Boss Lady,
      I know. Bigotry is patently wrong, regardless of who is guilty of it. This is one sad world we’re living in.

    • @antoineporche-rideaux4006
      @antoineporche-rideaux4006 Před 4 lety +11

      @@bosslady1973 also our ancestors are a huge part on what makes us who we are . Black people get our strength sense of family spiritual back ground and our bravery from our ancestors who were alaeé

    • @bosslady1973
      @bosslady1973 Před 4 lety +3

      @@antoineporche-rideaux4006 But that bundles EVERY white person into that. When do we hold those responsible for what they do and for those that have no part of it at face value?

    • @bosslady1973
      @bosslady1973 Před 4 lety +5

      @@antoineporche-rideaux4006 I don't know many black people that can do a family tree. It's awesome if you can, but my grandma can't recall any relatives past her grandmother. I feel many of us don't know what our ancestry is so how do we feel this ancestral tie?

  • @Portygal406
    @Portygal406 Před 4 lety +202

    Mother looks SO young - and her young daughter is a beauty, too.

    • @whipchick90
      @whipchick90 Před 2 lety +3

      Yes, her skin is amazing for her age! I'm 57, so I can say that lol.

  • @MorganAlexis
    @MorganAlexis Před 6 lety +3111

    49? Wow she looks a lot younger

    • @minorka2
      @minorka2 Před 6 lety +144

      M. A. Manago she looks like a 30 something year old!

    • @erikcortez1611
      @erikcortez1611 Před 6 lety +45

      Wendy's 'scary' good looking, regardless of her lineage.

    • @soylabonita
      @soylabonita Před 6 lety +43

      Beautiful family. It is sad. She looks gorgeous.

    • @johnmckee7988
      @johnmckee7988 Před 6 lety +1

      M. A. Manago I

    • @joshwim8
      @joshwim8 Před 6 lety +9

      I thought the same!!!!

  • @cherylmurray7942
    @cherylmurray7942 Před 6 lety +674

    This is one case where not knowing one's parent was a great thing. She did not get a chance to learn his beliefs.

    • @MinaMina-nb5tl
      @MinaMina-nb5tl Před 6 lety +14

      Cheryl Murray I 💯 percent agree with u on this one. I laughed a little at your statement because of the truth behind it. The truth ain't ALWAYS PRETTY it can b very ugly n 😢 SOMETIMES!

    • @mrsshayful
      @mrsshayful Před 5 lety +4

      Cheryl Murray that’s sooo true!

    • @shalanathomas7751
      @shalanathomas7751 Před 4 lety +2

      Yesss!

    • @michellersmith727
      @michellersmith727 Před 4 lety +2

      Everything happens for a reason.

    • @atlsongbyrd6084
      @atlsongbyrd6084 Před 3 lety +2

      A lie is never a great thing no matter how horrible your biological parent is!

  • @treefloraken8263
    @treefloraken8263 Před 4 lety +474

    When the daughter said “our ancestors don’t make us who we are...” the whole audience should have burst out in applause.

    • @brandoncrabb7195
      @brandoncrabb7195 Před 4 lety +19

      @E W I mean where does that statement lack truth? We may exist because of our ancestors but we don't inherently share their beliefs.

    • @kershab33
      @kershab33 Před 3 lety +2

      Why our ancestors play a big role in who we are good or bad

    • @KD400_
      @KD400_ Před 3 lety +2

      @@kershab33 not necessarily if u find out that one of ur descendants was a slave owner u would distance urself from that specific ancestor

    • @actual_doge3221
      @actual_doge3221 Před 3 lety +3

      @@KD400_ Yes, exactly. Today's German people are typically deeply ashamed of their historical past and try to distance themselves from it. If your grandfather was a Nazi, doesn't mean you need to live with that defining who you choose to be.

    • @sharanharvey5552
      @sharanharvey5552 Před 3 lety +7

      The daughter don't understand her Black heritage...our ancestors do define/influence who we are today.We gather strength a sense of pride in knowing what they endured.The daughter white great-grandfather being part of KKK will be a constant reminder for her to treat all people equal.

  • @Germatti13489
    @Germatti13489 Před 4 lety +181

    I am adopted, my Dad is still my Dad. A biological father is different, he'll never be dad.

    • @spirit1366
      @spirit1366 Před 4 lety +4

      AMEN

    • @gudlisner501
      @gudlisner501 Před 14 dny

      For health reasons it’s important to know but otherwise it’s the relationship that counts.

  • @yachtboy6756
    @yachtboy6756 Před 6 lety +2851

    A man that raised you IS your father. Any other man is just spem doner.

    • @storybellz
      @storybellz Před 6 lety +121

      Except in this case, the father put doubts in her head because of his own words. HE caused her to seek out the test by saying that he always wondered if she was really his. It's sad, yes. But, he shouldn't have said that if he didn't want her to go there.

    • @jenm1336
      @jenm1336 Před 5 lety +4

      You listen to Dr. Laura?

    • @SirenScorpio
      @SirenScorpio Před 5 lety +49

      Even with those doubts he still raised her.... He probably only put that bug in her ear due to blatant infidelity, insecurities and pure saltiness. As alot of parents do, drag the kids into the adult foolishness that the kid didn't ask for..... Unfortunately this happens more than it's talked about in dry interviews like this one

    • @heph_zibah1837
      @heph_zibah1837 Před 5 lety +1

      Yacht Boy facts that true

    • @MariE-bz2eq
      @MariE-bz2eq Před 5 lety +5

      Mooch M He a better man that I am. No way I would raise another man's kids if my wife cheated on me.

  • @onebigkahuna69
    @onebigkahuna69 Před 6 lety +2161

    What you hate in other people will end up in your family.

  • @angiesleeps3890
    @angiesleeps3890 Před 4 lety +43

    49????? Girl you look 30. Beautiful family.

  • @nicolepreissl9792
    @nicolepreissl9792 Před 4 lety +28

    This goes to show you that racism and bigotry are taught and learned behaviours, not natural. She’s a true example how if you’re raised with good people, despite what your parents, grandparents etc have done, you can turn out to be a good person and rise above all that toxic negativity.

  • @Devandanerd
    @Devandanerd Před 6 lety +706

    It's not funny but when she said 'he was afraid that he might have black in him' I laughed so hard

    • @Bestme78
      @Bestme78 Před 6 lety +76

      Devandanerd its the fear of most racists.

    • @d.joseph98
      @d.joseph98 Před 5 lety +49

      Devandanerd all whites have some black in them😂

    • @borokobomo8285
      @borokobomo8285 Před 5 lety +54

      his biological daughter gets a little black in her every night from her husband.. i'm surprised he tried to reconnect to her after knowing her family situation he must not be so racist after all

    • @SabakaJunglay
      @SabakaJunglay Před 5 lety +4

      bet he does

    • @jazminewaters2404
      @jazminewaters2404 Před 5 lety +5

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 why am I laughing

  • @sabbath2112
    @sabbath2112 Před 6 lety +635

    her and her daughter are both very pretty

    • @MohamedOmar-wc6mb
      @MohamedOmar-wc6mb Před 6 lety +2

      Jamie Jared yes pretty

    • @marshayost1430
      @marshayost1430 Před 5 lety

      Mohamed Omar ûy

    • @SmoothOperator2013
      @SmoothOperator2013 Před 5 lety +3

      What? I'm going to give you a grammar lesson. For a sentence to be proper the nouns can stand by themselves; example, her is very pretty? or She is very pretty? She and her daughter are both very pretty.

    • @1rage17
      @1rage17 Před 5 lety +3

      @@SmoothOperator2013 Grammar police here, and you're not even correct. This person said their sentence correctly. Not every single thing typed on these kinds of things need to be perfect

    • @SmoothOperator2013
      @SmoothOperator2013 Před 5 lety +2

      @@1rage17 There is nothing wrong with correcting someone's grammar. The problem is people feel insulted rather than learning from their mistakes and using it as self improvement.
      I am correct.
      First you state that I am wrong, then you state that not everything has to be perfect. Try to break the sentence up. Her is very pretty? Her daughter is very pretty, but she is pretty. She refers to subjective noun third person. Which means she is the subject of the clause. Her is an objective noun. The direct object or indirect object of the clause.

  • @RaiRaiBrown
    @RaiRaiBrown Před 4 lety +51

    Wendy is a beautiful lady inside and out. She dealt with all of this with such grace.

  • @tors14
    @tors14 Před 4 lety +74

    This is an amazing story. It’s almost as if it’s right out of a movie.
    But can we also just quickly address how stunning this woman is? She’s 49?? Man, give me what she’s got! She’s clearly a classy woman and a woman who is very loved. That’s gotta be the secret.

    • @victorhspencer1
      @victorhspencer1 Před 11 měsíci

      TEDx PaloAlto Know where you come from, but choose who you are / Wendy Spencer

  • @wynpyt
    @wynpyt Před 6 lety +420

    Cosette is the perfect equal mix of her mom and dad!!!! And mom looks closer to 40 than 50!!!!

    • @trinaj9749
      @trinaj9749 Před 6 lety +10

      WynWyn I was thinking the same thing she looks no where near 50.

    • @iiiezra
      @iiiezra Před 4 lety

      She looks 30 to me lmao

    • @sweetismami28
      @sweetismami28 Před 4 lety +2

      I said the same thing. I just kept looking like were is the aging?

    • @deisyalejandraalvarezhidal651
      @deisyalejandraalvarezhidal651 Před 2 lety

      Yes! She looks younger and she's very beautiful

  • @sonogramgrl
    @sonogramgrl Před 6 lety +2323

    Wow, such a racist man has such a racist son, but his daughter was not racist. She actually married an African American man, and has a biracial daughter. I bet that ol racist is turning in his grave. Good for him! So glad that her Dad didn't have a hand in raising her or she could've ended up a much different person.

    • @angieromano6671
      @angieromano6671 Před 6 lety +22

      somewhere in a cycle, something's gonna break. the ones served on his plate's the one his forefather threw up. someone in the cycle somehow is going to have to take that in. Karma is one word from KKK.

    • @greatestshopper1077
      @greatestshopper1077 Před 6 lety +99

      His daughter didn’t grow up in the cesspool of Hate... even in a broken home love of humanity can prevail.

    • @irock5624
      @irock5624 Před 6 lety

      Stacy Johnson the old guys racist and so aren’t they against his beliefs

    • @wms72
      @wms72 Před 6 lety +55

      Bill Miller didn't raise his daughter with his racism. That's why she's not racist.

    • @ahalpert
      @ahalpert Před 6 lety +64

      Yea sounds like it was a blessing in disguise that she was raised by a man who clearly had far fewer issues...seems like God was protecting her so she could have the family she ended up having...

  • @brinamarie9525
    @brinamarie9525 Před 4 lety +52

    Wow. The irony that the grandpa would one day discover he had a daughter who half resembled what he hates, and half resembles who he loves. May Jesus heal his heart and call him to a greater love.

  • @jesssingleton1200
    @jesssingleton1200 Před 3 lety +10

    Applause to the man that raised her and stuck by her even though he knew she wasn't his!

  • @ieshaodom3486
    @ieshaodom3486 Před 6 lety +1735

    so we just gonna ignore the fact that he said he took part in the murder of M.L.K,Jr.?!?!

    • @sweetiebrelovephil9694
      @sweetiebrelovephil9694 Před 6 lety +199

      the man is dead..what u want to do dig him up and ask what the F##k ?

    • @beverlybalius9303
      @beverlybalius9303 Před 6 lety +152

      Well we can't help who or what our ancestors did....that's a fact. Just don't do evil and treat others how you wish to be treated.

    • @ieshaodom3486
      @ieshaodom3486 Před 6 lety +54

      +Beverly Balius True... We have got to do better! People have to be more responsible & evaluate the consequences of their actions.

    • @jeromelove1284
      @jeromelove1284 Před 6 lety +90

      Let God deal with him

    • @Dime.Society
      @Dime.Society Před 6 lety +3

      Sweetie BreLOVE Phil 😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @alisonmorgan7238
    @alisonmorgan7238 Před 6 lety +176

    WOW what a story! I am glad she had a better dad than the biological one and not his influence!

  • @REE71901
    @REE71901 Před 5 lety +24

    The daughter and her husband seem like nice , good people. God bless them ❤️

  • @Pippa-tf8je
    @Pippa-tf8je Před 4 lety +24

    She turned out to be a wonderful person with a loving family - Some people do not even have one decent & loving parent!! ❤

  • @b_uppy
    @b_uppy Před 6 lety +96

    Accept him for the "way I am" he says, while he uses racial slurs against others. How ironic!

    • @lauriemashek5419
      @lauriemashek5419 Před 18 dny +1

      I would have told him, I accept this is who you are but you have to accept me too. My beliefs are such that being in your presence is extremely uncomfortable. You are correct, your dad is the man who raised you.

  • @Abidemi.
    @Abidemi. Před 6 lety +902

    Victor looks like raven's dad Victor from that's so raven

  • @maryreinhardt8661
    @maryreinhardt8661 Před 5 lety +22

    Cosette's comment, "I don't believe our ancestors make us who we are," was brilliant!

  • @barbarawilliams7194
    @barbarawilliams7194 Před 5 lety +46

    What a beautiful Family! I was beyond impressed with their Daughter's response!
    GR8 job Mom and Dad!!
    It goes to show it's NOT ALWAYS nature over nurture!!

  • @iwnunn7999
    @iwnunn7999 Před 6 lety +190

    She does look younger than her age.

    • @smarterdaily8858
      @smarterdaily8858 Před 5 lety +2

      Bet she has some Black in her. She is indeed beautiful!

    • @auntymoo8372
      @auntymoo8372 Před 5 lety

      Rich/evil people's - baby fetus face cream.

    • @Caroleccs
      @Caroleccs Před 5 lety

      Wendy's cute. BUT HAVE ANY OF YOU PEOPLE WHO'RE RAVING OVER HER EVER HEARD OF COSMETIC SURGERY??!!?? GOOD GRIEF!!!!!

    • @muurisoras5878
      @muurisoras5878 Před 5 lety +2

      She probably learnt to use cocoa butter from her husband

    • @natoshiapurnell5652
      @natoshiapurnell5652 Před 3 lety

      It's that melanin in them genes

  • @sof8978
    @sof8978 Před 6 lety +325

    wtf i thought she was still 29

    • @randyjuarez8462
      @randyjuarez8462 Před 5 lety +1

      sof897 no she is 19 with the video and photo art program it's all fake and very funny how people can be fake and think there hidden in this world she's not even close to any real program technology upgrades yet but I have to give it a thumbs down version is very out dated for me lol....cheesy....

  • @Anewday1979
    @Anewday1979 Před rokem +18

    I just want to say, look at her, her amazing and handsome husband and their gorgeous daughter. What an unknowingly ancestral cycle change. Beautiful beautiful BEAUTIFUL family. They all three handled this with dignity, resilience and strength. I Love and adore them.
    Our race and sexuality are not a choice. What is a choice is everything else. No matter where we come from, how bad the conditions are or what blood courses through our veins, it’s our perception and how we in which we choose to deal and process it all. And just as important, is our desire and determination to rise above our past conditions and heritage to become much better. It’s where we want to go and and who we desire to be and become. Setting the bar higher and doing better are the words that inspired me by the ever so amazing, Mr. Sidney Poitier.

  • @MidlifeCredo
    @MidlifeCredo Před 5 lety +10

    DNA advances are such a crazy thing. I'm adopted and recently took the tests and found so many things I wasn't even looking for. Mind blown.

  • @sarahsahar5622
    @sarahsahar5622 Před 6 lety +93

    She is a beautiful woman.and she has a beautiful family.

  • @joycethomas84
    @joycethomas84 Před 6 lety +281

    such a beautiful family!

    • @juungakagi4262
      @juungakagi4262 Před 6 lety +1

      Joyce Thomas What? From an affair?

    • @louis5555gmail
      @louis5555gmail Před 5 lety +4

      Cung sensel, I think Joyce is talking about Wendy's family (husband and daughter).

  • @ktswaz
    @ktswaz Před 5 lety +73

    This man is not her father/Dad...he is her sperm donor! Who raises and loves you through your lifetime is your Mom and Dad! I’m adopted and therefore have a egg and sperm donor out there somewhere! My parents are the people who call daily, worry about me and love me thoroughly!

  • @tommoclement
    @tommoclement Před 6 lety +8

    My Adoptive Dad will always be the best Dad I know & lucky to have.

    • @dianerankin1708
      @dianerankin1708 Před 2 lety +1

      My bio father deserted me when I was 12 yrs old. My mother married a man who I call dad. He was bi racial I am black he treats me as his child. I will always love him as my dad.

  • @PoshSpice-89
    @PoshSpice-89 Před 6 lety +666

    Wait... so am I the only one who just realized that we just found out who killed mlk jr.

    • @butjay11
      @butjay11 Před 6 lety +105

      I just stumbled on this by chance. I couldn't get a picture but heard the commentary and I was like, What did she just say? MLK's killer was just revealed on the Meghan Kelly show and she just glossed right over it. WTF!

    • @madisonproteccmyidentity5598
      @madisonproteccmyidentity5598 Před 6 lety +25

      Kimberly Bernard Wasn't it already revealed who killed him though?

    • @ritakatula2801
      @ritakatula2801 Před 6 lety +5

      am not sure if i heard it right......

    • @bellacortez
      @bellacortez Před 6 lety +49

      Weve already been " told" who killed mlk however we know who they say killed him is false.
      The govt killed him

    • @mrs.kittylarou4970
      @mrs.kittylarou4970 Před 6 lety +21

      Kimberly Bernard he was one of the men who did it

  • @minigolfandothergames7096
    @minigolfandothergames7096 Před 6 lety +31

    Wow. I think everything happens for a reason. And I feel that the man she called father was in her life to protect her from the revelations of her biological father until she was strong enough to handle what was reviled. Her family (Mother, husband, daughter, and the man who raised her). Is her strength.

  • @TheSaltySiren
    @TheSaltySiren Před 3 lety +6

    I love what Cosette said. “Your ancestors don’t make you who you are.” Brilliant! I wish everyone else thought this way. Maybe all the hatred would stop.

  • @alixgiggles5329
    @alixgiggles5329 Před 5 lety +100

    The wizard is just rolling in his grave! Got black in your family now ❤ Love wins

  • @DD-nd3fh
    @DD-nd3fh Před 6 lety +12

    Just goes to show that a person should NEVER be judged on the actions of their ancestors, and people shouldn't have to apologise for being related to horrible people.

  • @celyncapo
    @celyncapo Před 6 lety +119

    Her daughter is beautiful

  • @mariawinzler
    @mariawinzler Před 3 lety +24

    Last year we found out my sisters and I have an older sister. Due to the lack of a relationship with my paternal mother, we where shocked. My paternal mother refused her as she did all her kids she did raise. Its a sad but glorious opportunity to have an older sister. She even looks like me!!!

    • @indigenousspinster_6665
      @indigenousspinster_6665 Před 2 lety +6

      Paternal mother? Do you mean Paternal grandmother?

    • @adeho789
      @adeho789 Před 2 lety

      @@indigenousspinster_6665 I think she must have been raised by 2 lesbians. One is more motherly/nurturing, the other wears the pants and flannel shirts, you know, the more parental mother, who they call Pop.

    • @indigenousspinster_6665
      @indigenousspinster_6665 Před 2 lety +4

      @@adeho789 i think what she meant was Biological mother, she clearly doesn’t have a basic I understanding of familial terms

    • @indigenousspinster_6665
      @indigenousspinster_6665 Před 2 lety +1

      @@adeho789 and no that doesn’t exist in lgbt relationships, neither in lgbt families 😂

    • @adeho789
      @adeho789 Před 2 lety

      @@indigenousspinster_6665 Oh, yes, that does make more sense. I think you're right on biological mother. Some people are even worse! I knew a guy in his 20's who was an only child... He didn't know the difference between nephew/niece and cousin. He claimed to be really smart and have a high IQ, yet he couldn't get those straight. /:

  • @MississippiGirl0103
    @MississippiGirl0103 Před 5 lety +13

    Her daughter is beautiful! And I know it had to hurt her hearing mom hearing that about her grandfather. So sad 😔

  • @ThePhilosopher-ww6jt
    @ThePhilosopher-ww6jt Před 6 lety +82

    You can't judge yourself or your life based on what your ancestors did. The past is dead. The future is alive.

    • @splendorinthegrass4557
      @splendorinthegrass4557 Před 4 lety +5

      ThePhilosopher1748 hunny the past is still here...

    • @BB-ts4mz
      @BB-ts4mz Před 3 lety

      @@splendorinthegrass4557 no its is not really. It is just ignorant people that holding on to it as excuses. And makes the world miserable for people who want to live in peace and harmony, together. ❤✊🏻✊🏼✊🏽✊🏾✊🏿Not all people are racists. I believe racism will get better in the future, because it is up to us how we gonna raise the future generations. If we teach them the right thing it will get better.🌺In conclusion just love one another no matter what.

    • @PoliticalAbstract
      @PoliticalAbstract Před 3 lety

      @@splendorinthegrass4557 Exactly.

    • @PoliticalAbstract
      @PoliticalAbstract Před 3 lety

      @@BB-ts4mz Umm nothing has changed like that. We had Trump as a president for four years and more racial tension than when Obama was president.

  • @dereka.b.8136
    @dereka.b.8136 Před 5 lety +13

    So she's at least 50 years old ! She looks good !

  • @AyatAljobori
    @AyatAljobori Před 4 lety +309

    “Meeting my daughter is the best thing ever happened to me!”Off course you are old and you need help. If it was earlier in your life when you had to pay support and school that wouldn’t be the case.

    • @na-nz2yy
      @na-nz2yy Před 3 lety

      Ok?

    • @atlsongbyrd6084
      @atlsongbyrd6084 Před 3 lety +13

      How do you know that ? Her mom is the one that lied and didn’t tell him that he had a daughter!

    • @ree2105
      @ree2105 Před 3 lety +2

      What a loser. (Bill Miller)

    • @lindawilliams223
      @lindawilliams223 Před 2 lety +1

      Ayat. You have a problem with people paying child support. Just be happy and move on.

    • @deniseowens1163
      @deniseowens1163 Před 2 lety +1

      @@atlsongbyrd6084 the story said he kept in contact with the mother.

  • @jen.g3384
    @jen.g3384 Před 4 lety +12

    Wow! God bless this woman and her new family. What an amazing example of class & kindness. It just goes to show us that we are not defined by our parents & if God wants to change the hearts of children He will! XO

  • @bonikoneti7123
    @bonikoneti7123 Před 4 lety +7

    Their daughter is absolutely beautiful ❤️❤️❤️

  • @robprocks
    @robprocks Před 4 lety +6

    Wow she looks so young, and very beautiful!!!
    My goodness, Wendy and her daughter can pass as sisters!!!

  • @bethanyhanna9464
    @bethanyhanna9464 Před 4 lety +11

    I'm about to turn 46. I wish I could say I've aged as well as this beautiful woman. Wendy won the genetic lottery there.

  • @francismuiruri9064
    @francismuiruri9064 Před 4 lety +27

    Who is a dad? In my tribe we say whoever raises the child is the dad not biological.

  • @melanie4life45
    @melanie4life45 Před 6 lety +38

    Well...I was not expected that. Mind blowing

  • @Carpenterdane
    @Carpenterdane Před 2 lety +8

    We just recently discovered a nephew that was my deceased brothers son proven by DNA test. We finally got to meet with this 25 year old nephew. Oh Lord! He was an absolute know it all. No one could carry on a conversation with this kid because he thinks he knows more than anyone!

  • @zd111809
    @zd111809 Před 6 lety +4

    I just love Megyn!!!!! She interviews the most awesome people with the most unique stories and is always so composed....

  • @AnnettepSalmon
    @AnnettepSalmon Před 5 lety +3

    This is such a powerful story. What I took away is that racism is taught based on your environment, upbring, social setting etc and not something that you inherit. So sad!

  • @nicky5684
    @nicky5684 Před 6 lety +46

    Our ancestors do partly make us who we are.

    • @cutepanda8763
      @cutepanda8763 Před 6 lety +15

      I think what she meant is that, her great-grandfather actions can't influence her as person, neither can her grandfathers beliefs, even if they are related by blood.

    • @jiffyyoyo6253
      @jiffyyoyo6253 Před 5 lety +4

      Absolutely.

    • @damonicajones4396
      @damonicajones4396 Před 4 lety +1

      I kinda was thinking that too, but I realized what the baby was saying🤔, cute girl.

  • @Kathleen5429
    @Kathleen5429 Před 6 lety +174

    What? Riveting? And then you give us 3/4's of a human story and don't wrap it up with a finish??? What's up with that? You. Left. Us. HANGING. Terrible interview.

    • @beauty4717
      @beauty4717 Před 6 lety +10

      Kathleen5429 i thought I was the only one it doesn’t make sense

    • @thriftyshadesofgreene5266
      @thriftyshadesofgreene5266 Před 6 lety +5

      I'm here saying the same thing ..waiting for the pin to drop\shoe to drop & yawnnn.This was not a riveting anything.

    • @nkwari
      @nkwari Před 5 lety +1

      Megan doesn't want to say too much and turn off her FOX News fans

    • @simplyme7711
      @simplyme7711 Před 5 lety +3

      I so agree. She just cut the interview with no real wrap-up or closure.

    • @justlynda59
      @justlynda59 Před 4 lety

      Centennial It looks like it was on NBC? The Today Show? Not Fox.

  •  Před 8 měsíci +4

    I am stunned how gracious Wendy reacted and handled that. Also her husband and daughter. Actually it is horrifying. The only good thing I took out of this story is superficial, but true. She obviously has great looks, as I really thought she was in her 30´s.

    • @hanaluong2672
      @hanaluong2672 Před 6 měsíci +1

      Yeah, she took after her biological father, but she is so beautiful, unlike him.

  • @gailhawkins2694
    @gailhawkins2694 Před 3 lety +3

    "I don't believe our ancestors make us who we are".... What a remarkable young woman!

  • @christienscheepers2915
    @christienscheepers2915 Před 6 lety +29

    If my grandfather kicked your grandfather it is on my grandfather ........if my son kicks your son , it is on me because I should have taught him better !

  • @beverlyhollenbeck3406
    @beverlyhollenbeck3406 Před 5 lety +5

    Wow. Well done for handling this news so well. My husband and I are still struggling with recent discoveries. I wish you and you family all the best!

  • @hs7921
    @hs7921 Před 3 lety +4

    Well thanks for this. I’m on my 3rd decade of searching, and prepared for some bad and ugly, so it’s inspiring to me to hear this story.

  • @jawbuster79
    @jawbuster79 Před 5 lety +45

    The DNA test reveals I am 26% golden retriever.

    • @kgfes
      @kgfes Před 4 lety +2

      Good for you. You are from better stock than most

    • @Simplelivingslowliving
      @Simplelivingslowliving Před 4 lety +1

      Oh nice. How's your barking?

    • @ashleewhittlesey7874
      @ashleewhittlesey7874 Před 3 lety +1

      Lol i love this thread

    • @angiealexis3717
      @angiealexis3717 Před 3 lety +1

      LMAO! Thanks, I needed a good laugh! :'D :'D :'D :'D

    • @ms.sherlock
      @ms.sherlock Před 3 lety +1

      Awesome I am 25% golden retriever and 25% dachshund, 20% irish wolfhound and 30% border collie! I think you may be my cousin!

  • @tamaramorton8812
    @tamaramorton8812 Před 4 lety +4

    Very interesting. I applaud this woman and her family are for how they handled the grandfather's vile prejudices. That couldn't have been easy. When I was a young woman, I would've had the same opinion that this daughter expressed regarding how our lives are not determined by our ancestors' but feel differently as I've gotten older. Although as adults, I think we can pick and choose what characteristics we're going to take on but making major behavioral changes takes a lot of self awareness and internal work.

  • @porkchop0711
    @porkchop0711 Před 4 lety +5

    First of all their daughter is so beautiful ❤️ Second it's a good thing that the dad that raised her was the dad that raised her because she would have turned out like him too since they learn it from their fathers and mothers, it's good that she didn't grow up with him.

  • @elsjemassyn8921
    @elsjemassyn8921 Před 5 lety +17

    What a beautiful family. So sorry Wendy Spencer's dad was a racist and a disappointment.
    The old man is missing out on having this beautiful family in his life by his attitude. He doesnt deserve them.
    Sadly he was brought up by a racist and just carried the torch of racism further into his future.
    Hope he turns his life around and find out what he has been missing out on most of his life, being part of the human race (whether black, indian, white, asian) were all family

  • @phillyjilly9796
    @phillyjilly9796 Před 6 lety

    And she does it again gracefully. Great interview.

  • @EvadoCouto
    @EvadoCouto Před 6 lety +31

    dang she doesn’t look 49 at all

  • @corryjookit7818
    @corryjookit7818 Před 5 lety +19

    Her daughter is lovely and has a beautiful French name. Cosette is the name of the single mother in Les Miserables, in the book by Victor Hugo, France's beloved author.

  • @carrolwhyte1357
    @carrolwhyte1357 Před 5 lety +1

    What a beautiful result of this couple. This daughter is so precious and beautiful. God bless them all and cover them. No ancestors should make you who you are, very well said

  • @elisebond
    @elisebond Před 5 lety +1

    woah, was not expecting that last twist. Props to her for dealing with it so well. What a lovely family.

  • @MissDeniseR
    @MissDeniseR Před 6 lety +15

    She had a lucky escape, you are not defined by your family history, it is what you do in your own life that matters. The man was a product of his upbringing, he knows no better.

  • @musicgal421
    @musicgal421 Před 5 lety +16

    Wow this family is absolutely amazing! God bless them! Wanting to find out the truth and getting pinched in the stomach like that! What a wonderful sweet family! Her parents raised her right and thank goodness her biological dad didn’t raise her. Her husband is beyond classy! Now they’re doing an amazing job as parents!!

  • @enriquerivera9040
    @enriquerivera9040 Před 4 lety

    You guys are a beacon of light for that family!!!! You have the chance to save them all!!!!! Good luck!!!! may God bless you all

  • @19491Tommy
    @19491Tommy Před 4 lety

    Good story, and Megan did a wonderful job covering so many aspects in a short period of time .

  • @Eckertainment
    @Eckertainment Před 3 lety +6

    "People oughta accept me for the way I am." .....Yeah maybe offer others the same courtesy, bro

  • @bluedancelilly
    @bluedancelilly Před 6 lety +7

    Interesting story.

  • @BROTHERARTMUSICArturoJCastro

    This is an amazing and interesting story. May God bless this woman and her beautiful family with peace and eternal love. 🙏

  • @staceyadams2272
    @staceyadams2272 Před 2 lety +1

    Considering his father he is very liberated. Now Wendy can turn things around for him. Hope she will still get in touch and be patient to know him. Thank God, that family curse is broken. Praying for your success. Don't give up.

  • @bingbong6768
    @bingbong6768 Před 6 lety +17

    We can't change the past but in the future love can conquer all.

    • @bonitahobbs2097
      @bonitahobbs2097 Před 5 lety

      bingbong. Fairness can change the past n present times!!!

  • @JustBree716
    @JustBree716 Před 6 lety +100

    my grandfather was a biracial man, half black and white. he was raised by a black woman who i really doubt was his mother and a stepfather whose last name i carry who is not my bio great grandfather. i plan in the next few years to research and find out what man or woman was so bold to carry a mixed kid back then. its so exciting when i think of it. my papa was a very lightskinnes handsome man with thick jet black curly hair

    • @sarahsahar5622
      @sarahsahar5622 Před 6 lety +3

      Candace Reynolds good luck, maybe find help because a dna test might not be enough.

    • @tamaraweber3296
      @tamaraweber3296 Před 6 lety +6

      I wish you the best on your hunt for the truth of your ancestry and you have a happy outcome. "Reach for the Stars"

    • @nickismith7487
      @nickismith7487 Před 6 lety +6

      The so bold part throws me a bit, may be u used the wrong words idk? I'm a 54 yr old biracial person is that "considered back then"?? My black mother had no problems from it or me growing up. But goodluck 🖒

    • @tikierawatson2670
      @tikierawatson2670 Před 6 lety +2

      Candace Reynolds do your results of your DNA on youtube I would watch it. Along with all that click they like your story.

    • @AliceRinGameLand
      @AliceRinGameLand Před 6 lety +2

      misuzu9254 example other than the US is Mexico. Though many people will try to deny it. But the history and facts are all there

  • @tieskeellis8531
    @tieskeellis8531 Před 3 lety +1

    The mom and the daughter are both so beautiful.

  • @angelr2041
    @angelr2041 Před 2 lety

    I love the girls response. So insightful and mature.

  • @RuneTraverse
    @RuneTraverse Před 6 lety +17

    The granddaughter is extremely pretty.

  • @LukaSlone
    @LukaSlone Před 6 lety +15

    I was adopted as an infant and had no real idea of my ancestral origins. I took a DNA test and found my birth families as well as a couple surprises in my DNA :)

    • @lateef3462
      @lateef3462 Před 6 lety +1

      Luka Slone how much did it cost and how can someone accesses this

    • @LukaSlone
      @LukaSlone Před 6 lety

      Lateef, I took my test through Ancestry DNA and it was 99.00 when I did it but now, I think, it's 79. Just log into the site and sign up for their free trial. I cancelled w/o having to pay and I was still able to take the test and I can still access my results.

  • @cathnu2
    @cathnu2 Před 3 lety +1

    That daughter's comment is about the best thing I have ever heard on the internet. "Our ancestors don't make us who you are". Super intelligent answer. Don't be ashamed of yourself girl you are beautiful inside and out. My great great grandmother was a Cherokee Indian. I was told I had Indian blood in me once by my grandmother. My mother never really talked about it but I felt my grandmother was ashamed of it. Then in my adult years I learned that back in those days being Caucasian with an Indian was like an African American being with a Caucasian in my lifetime. Who you love is who you love. Who you are is who you are.

  • @JeppinGreenMachine
    @JeppinGreenMachine Před 4 lety

    They are handling the news and shock of that very gracefully. Shows what wonderful people they are no matter the DNA 🧬 they may share with another person who has not yet grown in good ways.

  • @irma567
    @irma567 Před 6 lety +234

    Well that bis a switch , racist has biracial granddaughter .......... lol

    • @Nunawariyaku
      @Nunawariyaku Před 6 lety +7

      ahahaha best story ever :D
      Take this! Racist! xD

    • @meheretoday6968
      @meheretoday6968 Před 6 lety +14

      I'd suggest there are many many racists out there who have biracial children lol you are simply not told about it..

    • @irma567
      @irma567 Před 6 lety +1

      my biofather is one off them

    • @cate7199
      @cate7199 Před 6 lety +5

      And a Jewish daughter. =-D

    • @98babyrere72
      @98babyrere72 Před 6 lety +1

      Haha I'm one but my grandma is black

  • @jordanpeters3746
    @jordanpeters3746 Před 5 lety +25

    My grandmother claimed that my mother was fathered by a member of the British Royal Family ... nobody believed her. She was living in a very working class area of London when my mother was conceived. However ... in 1999, long after my grandmother's death, I came across a web-page that detailed the movements of Prince Albert (later to become King George VI) around the time of my mother's conception. He attended a gathering of "working-class leaders", accompanied by only a single companion, at a location very close to where my grandmother was living ... on. believe it or not May Day (it is reported from other sources that the Prince was toying with becoming a Socialist!) He was in the habit of popping over to Paris, incognito, for a day or two, where, so his brother's diary noted, he had liaisons with women. My grandmother claimed my mother was conceived in Paris. If my grandmother's claim is true (that my mother was fathered by a "member of Royalty") then Queen Elizabeth may be my aunt.

    • @jordanpeters3746
      @jordanpeters3746 Před 5 lety +10

      My mother told me that when she was very young (maybe about 4) her mother took her to "large house in the country" ... where a man came into her room and spoke to her ... she thought that he was her father. Her mother later told her that her father was "a Duke". Albert was then the Duke of York. In 1930 my grandmother had a total mental breakdown, after the man she was living with left her for a younger woman ... my mother ended up in an orphanage. A "mysterious benefactor" arranged for her to be fostered out and provided for her education.... my mother thought that he was probably a relative ... my grandmother came from a family background that included people who owned farms and were fairly well-off. Immediately prior to my grandmother being taken away to an asylum and my mother being placed in an orphanage my mother said that "Three well-dressed men visited the house ... she thought that they had 'come from her father'". Its possible that money was provided to a family member to support my mother.

    • @JMJMJ1
      @JMJMJ1 Před 5 lety +3

      David Peters that is a crazy cool story ... Have you done a DNA test yet?

    • @Gr95dc
      @Gr95dc Před 5 lety +1

      Wow that's crazy if indeed he was her father

    • @jordanpeters3746
      @jordanpeters3746 Před 5 lety +2

      After not having looked at my Ancestry account for a couple of years I, for no reason, felt inclined to check it ... and found a message, posted a few days earlier, from a descendent of the man who my grandmother lived with until 1930. He had married and had chldren after he left my grandmother. As he is recorded on my mother's birth certificate as her father his descendents by his wife should have the same DNA as my branch ... if he really was my mother's father. I haven't yet figured out how to persuade them to have their DNA tested (at my expense). Do I want to prove I'm not of "royal blood"?

    • @Gr95dc
      @Gr95dc Před 5 lety +2

      @@jordanpeters3746 I mean that could be interesting, just like adopted kids wanting to know who their real parents are

  • @giaa888
    @giaa888 Před 4 lety +1

    She has aged so gracefully

  • @llw53one
    @llw53one Před 6 lety

    These segments make me like Megan Kelly. They are so thought provoking. I appreciate this family sharing their story. I did not expect the turn of events at the end. It is sad.

  • @nisuaiukaurua3621
    @nisuaiukaurua3621 Před 5 lety +5

    See, eventually down the line,
    Our generation, combined,
    Our connected bloodline,
    We can change for the better,
    In time,
    Our future lifetimes,
    True example, may this
    Family shine,
    ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐

  • @carolynwhite9313
    @carolynwhite9313 Před 3 lety +7

    I found a half sister I never knew about. We have met and are working on a relationship.

  • @sabrinawilliams3854
    @sabrinawilliams3854 Před 5 lety

    What a story. Interesting perspective Cosette “Our ancestors don’t necessarily make us who we are” Beautiful family.

  • @lindapesnell5723
    @lindapesnell5723 Před 5 lety

    ❤️ Thank You ❤️

  • @CottageontheCorner
    @CottageontheCorner Před 5 lety +8

    But look at life...a terribly racist man who had a violently racist father...ends up accidentally creating a daughter who is so different that she marries a man of colr and creates children who are both. It's almost like God taking that horrible man's hate and making something/someone beautiful out of him since he's so useless.

  • @mareaux28
    @mareaux28 Před 6 lety +22

    strom Thurman had a black daughter....no different then being on the plantation.

    • @laesexysis
      @laesexysis Před 4 lety +1

      He had more than 1 black daughter. I believe there are 2 others. His daughter that came out and told the truth is my aunt.

    • @bethparker1500
      @bethparker1500 Před 3 lety

      Such a horrible man and he made laws for us to obey

  • @fiinakaanduka3013
    @fiinakaanduka3013 Před 6 lety

    Wow, such a beautiful daughter and a beautiful family.

  • @JuneLong25597
    @JuneLong25597 Před 5 lety +2

    7:35 gave me chills