Was told by mine today that I’m not even his and my mother had an affair. How much I wish it were true, it’s not, unfortunately. This is not the case and he is my biological father. I’ve endured much pain from him throughout the years with his lack of participation in my life.
Well damn, summed up my life right there. As someone who never had problems getting girls in my teenage years i still rejected all the girls that approached me. And now at age 28 i still have no idea how to lower my guard around women when it comes to intimacy. It's silent hell.
Hi! I know this is super old but if you don’t mind, can I ask if there’s anything you feel that could help you open up? I have a boyfriend who I think might have the same issue and I’m trying as hard as I can to help and adjust but I’m just feeling drained and upset that when we have issues about him not showing emotions he just shuts down.
I'm literally crying watching this. What led me here is years of suffering from my bf because what I now believe are his father issues. What makes it more heartbreaking is that I see it in almost all Black men I know. I plan to share your video as much as possible because it is definitely needed. Thank you so much. 🧡
Its a shame your channel didnt get more popularity, i hope youre doing good sir. Ill never be able to thank you enough for your perspective and guidence.
I noticed guys with daddy issues or with an absent father would always call me "resourceful". Took a while for my dummy self to realize what was happening.
This has probably manifested sexually for far more men than we know, but the majority of those men will likely never admit it. More power to you for being brave enough.
Thank you for sharing your wisdom and life experience. having my adult self re-father myself makes sense. i thought about all you've said a couple of times before watching this, but hearing it from someone else is encouraging.
I relate with this video, when I lost my Biological Father, I have struggled to be able, to become, my own self, my own Biological Mother has muzzled my life until know, at the ages of Thirty Three Years.
My case is worst , it is my mother who kept my dad away from.me because pf her selfishness and bitterness i was 10 years old when my father died , my dad kept trying to be in my life and until this day, i dont even know how my dad look like :( she keeps telling me my dad died nefore i was born and it was all A LIE. I resent her till this day. Her selfish ness willingly destroyed my inner child and Im go ng through so much mentally :(
Good video. Going to watch a couple times. Besides Absent Fathers, Lost Sons, do you recommend any other books on the subject? Also curious to if your Master's Degree is in Psychology.
There are two books by two different authors called absent father lost sons on Amazon I would really like to know the one he read. Does he ever respond to comments?
Hey man, how do we come out of this? i am not able to trust anyone and i get scared when a girl tries to be intimate and it starts from very beginning, just as she holds my hand. How do we deal with it?
My boyfriend definitely has daddy issues and he doesn’t see it. On one had he talks about his father like he admires him but then on the other hand keeps mentioning that he grew up in a dictatorship because of his dad. He doesn’t realize it… How can I help ? Because he’s clearly hurt and has a lot of pain inside of him. He drinks a lot too and I’m worried about him. What can I do to help ?
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I'm surprised by how this video doesn't have more views. It's such a common issue in men.
Same
Yes I'm a 24 year old Man I have Daddy issues I had daddy issues for years....
its cause were men we have to figure it out. We have to keep silent about it, And i wish i knew this 5 years ago
See but when I try to talk to my dad about my problems and what I'm feeling, he just calls me crazy and a sad excuse of a son
Was told by mine today that I’m not even his and my mother had an affair. How much I wish it were true, it’s not, unfortunately. This is not the case and he is my biological father. I’ve endured much pain from him throughout the years with his lack of participation in my life.
Well damn, summed up my life right there.
As someone who never had problems getting girls in my teenage years i still rejected all the girls that approached me.
And now at age 28 i still have no idea how to lower my guard around women when it comes to intimacy.
It's silent hell.
Hi! I know this is super old but if you don’t mind, can I ask if there’s anything you feel that could help you open up? I have a boyfriend who I think might have the same issue and I’m trying as hard as I can to help and adjust but I’m just feeling drained and upset that when we have issues about him not showing emotions he just shuts down.
I'm literally crying watching this. What led me here is years of suffering from my bf because what I now believe are his father issues. What makes it more heartbreaking is that I see it in almost all Black men I know. I plan to share your video as much as possible because it is definitely needed. Thank you so much. 🧡
This made me shed tears bro
Beautiful. Gave me chills! I would also say it’s important to see the positive they brought to the table (not just the negatives).
I'm happy I dealt with my daddy issues just before I reached 20, now I'm All cool with my old man, no more laying blame😊
Its a shame your channel didnt get more popularity, i hope youre doing good sir. Ill never be able to thank you enough for your perspective and guidence.
I noticed guys with daddy issues or with an absent father would always call me "resourceful". Took a while for my dummy self to realize what was happening.
Thanks for this, I relate all to well with this. I actually suffer from this, but for me it manifests emotionally and sexually.
😂😂😂 I got homophobia and excessive disgust
This has probably manifested sexually for far more men than we know, but the majority of those men will likely never admit it. More power to you for being brave enough.
Yes, I am
Thanks for the content, although with the volume of the music being about as loud or louder than your voice, it’s quite distracting
Thank you for sharing your wisdom and life experience. having my adult self re-father myself makes sense. i thought about all you've said a couple of times before watching this, but hearing it from someone else is encouraging.
I relate with this video, when I lost my Biological Father, I have struggled to be able, to become, my own self, my own Biological Mother has muzzled my life until know, at the ages of Thirty Three Years.
under rated, this needs billions or hundreds of millions of views. men need to see and hear this.
Very nice video, calm and clear I also love the beat
Great video my Brother. I need to share with my companion, he so needs this.
thank for making this video, it spoke wonders 🙏🏾
Music too loud bro
May the universe and all gods bless your heart with peace
My case is worst , it is my mother who kept my dad away from.me because pf her selfishness and bitterness i was 10 years old when my father died , my dad kept trying to be in my life and until this day, i dont even know how my dad look like :( she keeps telling me my dad died nefore i was born and it was all A LIE. I resent her till this day. Her selfish ness willingly destroyed my inner child and Im go ng through so much mentally :(
Awwww, I’m so sorry to hear this, you are a soldier.
Thank you so much.
Great video
Be impeccable with your words
You need to turn off the background music. It is distracting , especially for anyone with ADHD or ASD.
Dropping Jewels
Good video. Going to watch a couple times. Besides Absent Fathers, Lost Sons, do you recommend any other books on the subject? Also curious to if your Master's Degree is in Psychology.
Wise words
There are two books by two different authors called absent father lost sons on Amazon I would really like to know the one he read. Does he ever respond to comments?
Your background music is slightly distracting bro
Hey man, how do we come out of this? i am not able to trust anyone and i get scared when a girl tries to be intimate and it starts from very beginning, just as she holds my hand. How do we deal with it?
therapy, and not being intimate until you know she is nice with good intentions. and reassure yourself its ok. or talk about it.
Make more videos, please 💙
My boyfriend definitely has daddy issues and he doesn’t see it.
On one had he talks about his father like he admires him but then on the other hand keeps mentioning that he grew up in a dictatorship because of his dad.
He doesn’t realize it…
How can I help ? Because he’s clearly hurt and has a lot of pain inside of him. He drinks a lot too and I’m worried about him.
What can I do to help ?
“What can I do to help” you sound like you genuinely care for your person .
this is me.
👏
Is it possible to speak with u and get advice regarding a man I was seeing recently?
Do people really like music with these types of videos?
Hahaha the music pairing is a big problem for me too while watching 💀
Sounds fine
Do you have an email address ? I'd love to talk about this with you.
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dude, you need to speak loudly, can hardly hear what you're onto ...
I'm surprised by how this video doesn't have more views. It's such a common issue in men.