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  • čas přidán 22. 10. 2023

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  • @debrastarr8436
    @debrastarr8436 Před 8 měsíci +80354

    “Do you see her?”
    “I don’t, but I BELIEVE YOU.” This is the sweetest most meaningful response to that question.

    • @cynthialong688
      @cynthialong688 Před 8 měsíci +429

      I agree totally with you. It was a generous response.

    • @AshleyBaker-op6hj
      @AshleyBaker-op6hj Před 8 měsíci +180

      She was there just for him❤

    • @maniacb9171
      @maniacb9171 Před 8 měsíci +64

      Exactly

    • @maniacb9171
      @maniacb9171 Před 8 měsíci +44

      Exactly :)*

    • @freespirit3891
      @freespirit3891 Před 8 měsíci +140

      Many have said they see some of their family. They also have said this exact thing of when they are leaving, and have. We had a friend who came to visit us and other friends for the last time as he would be leaving us in a week, and he peacefully did.

  • @TristinAutumn
    @TristinAutumn Před 8 měsíci +8961

    I am dealing with an illness that has a shortened life expectancy and I just surpassed that age. I am petrified, but when I see your videos I am a little less scared to die. Thank you.

    • @lisetribeagape9058
      @lisetribeagape9058 Před 8 měsíci +548

      I will be praying for you ..don't be afraid your not alone..♡

    • @C.C.4sho
      @C.C.4sho Před 8 měsíci +271

      Ask Jesus to Send help u transition

    • @C.C.4sho
      @C.C.4sho Před 8 měsíci +263

      Read the Bible and talk to Jesus

    • @shannoninalaska
      @shannoninalaska Před 8 měsíci +273

      You are going to be fine. Better than that actually.

    • @chelseakitkatz
      @chelseakitkatz Před 8 měsíci +334

      I wish you a peaceful, easy, and joyful passing when your time comes. Maybe I’ll see you there sometime. It’ll all be alright.

  • @worcester771
    @worcester771 Před měsícem +2186

    I had a patient once who I was checking on and he started talking perfect German again he hadn't spoke German in 40 years and he smiles and looked at me and told me his beautiful wife his angel was here to take him home and he smiled and reached for her and took his last breath. So Beautiful ❤

    • @sam-ox4xt
      @sam-ox4xt Před 25 dny +17

      Shut that front door!!

    • @morganseppy5180
      @morganseppy5180 Před 18 dny +40

      That's beautiful. I feel like no one will come for me
      Edit: my mother will come for me.

    • @humaneleaguelancPA
      @humaneleaguelancPA Před 14 dny +51

      My Mother also was talking in Russian when she was close to passing. We believe she was talking with our family who had passed.

    • @meghansullivan6812
      @meghansullivan6812 Před 10 dny +4

      WOW💓💓💓💓💓

    • @kimmiemore8134
      @kimmiemore8134 Před 8 dny +13

      ​@@morganseppy5180I'm happy to see you edited this❤

  • @Sharon_-ww6li
    @Sharon_-ww6li Před měsícem +1339

    When my Mom was on her deathbed she told me she seen my father...he passed away 24 years before her. Made me so happy to know he was waiting for her..true love❤

    • @jameshepworth5633
      @jameshepworth5633 Před 27 dny +2

      Same ( Sheila Cox ) Not James commenting I’m on his phone his mum is fine!!

    • @jameshepworth5633
      @jameshepworth5633 Před 27 dny +3

      She actually said something to my sister about him passing before she got to!! She was in a hostel with vascular dementia and she was told not to mention it because she’ll only forget 😢but they sat together and she said did you just say “insert name here) is dead !! She wasn’t really that shocked because she always claimed to be psychic

    • @jameshepworth5633
      @jameshepworth5633 Před 27 dny +2

      I’m also very sorry for your loss ❤

    • @frstchan
      @frstchan Před 27 dny +2

      Delusions are not something to be happy about.

    • @jameshepworth5633
      @jameshepworth5633 Před 27 dny +2

      @@frstchan what a 🛎🔚

  • @jane-fw4nh
    @jane-fw4nh Před 8 měsíci +6112

    This made me cry. When my grandmother, Mumbo, was dying she reached up with her arms and said ‘ my girls ‘. She had 3 sisters who had died decades before and lost her mother as a child. She was 100. I still miss her so much. I hope she’s waiting for me one day xxx

    • @emscripts
      @emscripts Před 7 měsíci +96

      I never cry at these comments, I just get sad. But this one… this one hit hard. I’m tearing g up ❤

    • @bitchithoughtunew9449
      @bitchithoughtunew9449 Před 7 měsíci +80

      I cried too. Lost my bf almost 3 yrs ago . His dad came for him. ❤❤❤❤It made my heart swell with love after I was told about it

    • @imanasou_agaph
      @imanasou_agaph Před 7 měsíci +34

      My grandma, some days before she healed, she saw her parents in her dream... the week after, she healed from her pain and went up to the heavens, I miss her so much...

    • @sheila_789
      @sheila_789 Před 7 měsíci +13

      she made it to a really good age ❤

    • @DinaSamyabcd
      @DinaSamyabcd Před 7 měsíci +15

      Wow .. I wish I see beautiful people welcome me also when it's my time

  • @trisarahtops5557
    @trisarahtops5557 Před 8 měsíci +45519

    This was so wholesome. I’m glad to know that they accepted what was to come.

    • @Ragabaga
      @Ragabaga Před 8 měsíci +27

      Fr

    • @cookiecrumbs9515
      @cookiecrumbs9515 Před 8 měsíci +16

      Mhm

    • @drgnflyangeltruthseeker8556
      @drgnflyangeltruthseeker8556 Před 8 měsíci +56

      ❤YES ETERNAL GLORY..... ETERNALLY HAPPY & PEACEFUL 🕊️🕊️🕊️🕊️🕊️🕊️🕊️

    • @MzClementine
      @MzClementine Před 8 měsíci +136

      @trisarahtops5557 My grandfather called me. Asking, I've been seeing your grandmother. Would you mind if I let go. I said what do you mean Pap. You ready to go. You can go. You don't have to ask me..
      He said, when you were little, you always used to say. I'm going to see you until you're 100. You know. My hundredth birthday is an 11 days.. 🥹🥲😭
      I said wow yeah. I remember that. I used to always tell you that when I was a kid..
      Sir. You don't have to ask. I love you so much. You made the world to me.. would you like me to come over. He said no. I'm run down and look off hope. I was cute the last time you saw me quite handsome. So hold that in your memory..
      He also had his best friend with him...
      The most beautiful part. My grandfather was a racist man. The first day I was born he wouldn't hold me. Called me the n-word. Killed my mother's heart and spirit. Shock the hell out of the family whenever I told him what he said and how everything happened in the room and how mother felt.
      I was 5 years old. I said to him. You don't hold me. You won't read to me. You always make excuses. If I need help doing something, you walk away.. Are you a man of God?
      Everyone is silent My mom and grandmother are doing some pre dishes. We're waiting for the Sunday roast to finish.. My Aunt Janine is snacking on grapes very loudly. My grandmother says shush stop that. My aunt says, I can't help it they're so juicy. 😅😂
      The tension was thick in the room. I didn't care. I was tired of it. I asked my grandfather, to read to me. He said dinner will be ready soon. Kicking the grand boys off of his lap. And it wasn't a girl thing either because we have other nieces that he would read to and help..
      I said, are you a man of God quite loudly. He said yes. I said I don't think so. God knows every hair on my head. He knows every thought and every feeling in my body.. And you are not a godly man. Expressing what he said the day I was born. My grandmother broke a dish. And said Well, she's the straw to break the camel's back but I guarantee you she is the glue to hold us together..
      I walked into my grandmother's room and looked into the mirror and cried. Was very upset and came back out. And I said I'm serious.
      You are a racist man. I noticed that. You don't have any friends of any other color. Strange though. Mimi will not tell me who her bloodline is. She definitely not Italian she's lying when she says that and she knows it. Why do you say that they will kill us for our bloodline. And, if you haven't noticed. I look exactly like your wife..
      How dare you be racist to me.
      My grandfather felt very bad. Was very apologetic. Clearing his throat nervously. Completely apologized.. I said good as a man of God. I want to see you respect other people of color. I want you to have friends of color.
      I had a girl pick on me in first second and third grade. She called me hypercolor. She would swap me with her sweaters and sometimes if her sweaters had zippers they really hurt..
      I told my mother about her and my mother threatened. If you come home, beaten. Heart. I'm going to kick your butt. Kick her butt.
      Oh that scared me because my mom's scary..
      I caught the girls sweater and I said to her. I'm not taking this anymore. We were getting into our class and I looked at my teacher Mrs Meljanovich. And said, please leave us. I need to settle something okay. She did..
      I asked her what was her problem and why did she call me hypercolor. She confessed. Because you come to school really dark. You're just a shade lighter than me. And then, by our second picture you're white.. I said, I don't look white to my mom. My mom always jokes around, she found me at a bus stop and adopted me. No she gave birth to me..
      I explained to her. The grass is not always greener on the other side. Why else do you pick on me. She expressed about my hair and how long it was. I said, okay you want to play with it. She said really I said of course. I'll make my mom not do braids so you can braid it and have fun. I explained to her, how my grandfather was racist to me. And he's been nicer since I've pointed it out. That I've had racism in my life. And what she was doing was racist and mean. And my own grandfather wouldn't even hold me. Wouldn't read to me or play with me. Wouldn't help me. I stopped that whenever I was five. And I never thought I would deal with it from another fellow peer. She apologized. I said is your family mean to you She said no. I said Do you have a mom you're scared of? She said no. I said okay then the grass isn't always greener on the other side. So you wish you were me. But if you really were me I don't think you would want to be me. So love your life and love who you are.
      My grandfather's best friend was a black man. 16 years. They played bocce ball dartball together and we're really close. So that day he called. Telling me that he was with him. I told him. Let go. And how proud I was of him. That not only was he a great grandfather. But he was one of the best fathers I ever could have had as a role model in my life. Even though he was a little rusty in the beginning. He cleaned up and shined up very well.
      He said thank you. The next time I see your grandma, she keeps telling me come on. It's time to go. I'm really holding on to turn 100. I just want to make you proud.
      I laughed and said been there done that. You've made me proud a thousand times over. You can let go any day you want.
      Give my love to him. And he was gone that night. 🥹😭😭😭🫡😭 I love him so much. Just talking about him I can feel him. 😊

    • @rosemarychakanweze6429
      @rosemarychakanweze6429 Před 8 měsíci +12

      ​@@MzClementine 😢❤

  • @lindamoore2014
    @lindamoore2014 Před měsícem +437

    I’ve taken care of a lot of dying family members and our family members came for them. It’s a beautiful time even if it’s painful.

    • @enchanter7382
      @enchanter7382 Před měsícem +29

      Over two years ago I was very lucky to survive a Pumonary Embolism.
      Blood cots and fluid in both lungs. I lay in hospital hooked up to Oxygen and I had four ports in my arms and needles in my stomach.
      I can recall my mother coming to see me and take me with her.
      It was a place of loving warmth and there were familiar faces there
      I was told I had to go back and stay with my daughter and family .
      Please don’t be afraid..
      doing Earth time is hard.
      Returning to source and family is a beautiful homecoming ❤

    • @fuyukazemi
      @fuyukazemi Před 7 dny +5

      I'm glad that they were welcomed by other family. It's good to know you have a welcome committee when you pass on this realm

    • @mercysensei4714
      @mercysensei4714 Před 7 dny +3

      @@enchanter7382 woah, I also had a bilateral pulmonary embolism over two years ago with pneumonia. I feel like I know exactly what you mean. One night while in the hospital hooked up on oxygen, I was asleep and just remember warmth. I never remember what the dream was, but I woke up with hope and I started improving. Idk why I'm rambling, but it just felt so nice to meet someone who perhaps understand my feelings in a way most people can't. I hope life is going better for you and I hope your family is doing well too

    • @emilyk1109
      @emilyk1109 Před 6 dny

      ​@@mercysensei4714I actually read an article yesterday about the phenomenon of near-death experiences because for the first time, a study on this topic was done that completely avoided the possibilities of a researcher/interviewer's expectations (which often present themselves in the way any questions are phrased) via the usage of AI. I think there were around 160 participants who had to select adjectives they associated with their experiences, and a significant (as in, enough data to be meaningful) amount of people selected words such as "warm", and mentioned being surrounded by brightness and loved ones that has preceeded them in death.

  • @hollydatsopoulos7998
    @hollydatsopoulos7998 Před 26 dny +375

    This just made me tear up when he said he felt “excited” to go.

    • @farmherjourney2192
      @farmherjourney2192 Před 9 dny +8

      I was okay until that was said too. It’s so beautiful in a painfully bittersweet way to see someone that is in the process of dying go from any fear or anxiety related to dying to being excited because their loved one(s) are with them again and they feel the peace of their presence letting them know they won’t make the final journey on their own 🥹😭🥰 A peaceful and calm passing and death is something that we all can hope to have as it seems to be SO beautiful anytime I witnessed it in the LTC I CNA’ed at and there aren’t any feelings of fear as the entire room is filled with the peace that comes into them!!! ❤❤

    • @colleenuchiyama4916
      @colleenuchiyama4916 Před 9 dny +5

      I wish everyone could feel that way. Excited to go.

    • @anitapownall9556
      @anitapownall9556 Před 7 dny +4

      My grandma wanted to go so she could be with her family again. I know she was happy to go.

  • @alexjohnson3926
    @alexjohnson3926 Před 8 měsíci +4288

    This is what compassionate hospice work looks like. The world needs more people like you. Thank you for easing the transition.

    • @CristinaRubin
      @CristinaRubin Před 7 měsíci +17

      My mom was at home hospice and nurse/doctor/SW was visiting instantly when needed. They were so good and empathic and did everything for my mom to be comfortable in her transition, tried to take her pain away....there are good people out there

    • @Curious-Irish-Angel
      @Curious-Irish-Angel Před 7 měsíci +11

      For my mom, the nurses came in and out dropping off meds, and that's about it..
      The "bath girl " was phenomenal. Very supportive and just a sweetheart... We were very grateful to have her...

    • @JudyCarter-kl7be
      @JudyCarter-kl7be Před dnem

      My wife was under hospice care a few months before she passed. While they were kind and respectful to her and me they were not at this level of compassion and warmth. Still, I'm grateful for them.

  • @laurenwilliams8111
    @laurenwilliams8111 Před 8 měsíci +4109

    As a long term care nurse for my entire career so far, I can 100% confirm this happens and it's always beautiful. When they see their loved ones it's almost like an immediate relief. Like the fear of passing is instantly gone. I have actually prayed for this to happen to a couple patients who were struggling.
    Edit: thank you all for the likes 🥰 God bless.

    • @joebloggs8900
      @joebloggs8900 Před 7 měsíci +25

      Probs because they know they are dying and they think about that stuff. Doesn't mean its real, but would help peoppe processes it

    • @selenacordeiro1458
      @selenacordeiro1458 Před 7 měsíci

      @@joebloggs8900it’s real, you just haven’t witnessed anything yet but I hope you do one day. It’s crazy

    • @Autumn_moon1111
      @Autumn_moon1111 Před 7 měsíci

      @@joebloggs8900if it wasn’t real then it wouldn’t happen to the majority. I’ve seen spiritual beings that I didn’t want to see. The metaphysical realm is real. Get out in nature and get connected

    • @bellyrubs
      @bellyrubs Před 7 měsíci +143

      ​@@joebloggs8900but the thing is, it doesn't matter if it's "real" or not. Even this reality is an interpretation of our mind so who's to say what real even means. I believe if we focused on how our beliefs affect our lives it'd put an end to an illogical war over whose beliefs are right. Everyone's is because everyone's experience is valid but that never gives anyone the right to do something harmful to others that don't match their expectations.
      Just to make sure, I'm not specifically directing this at you or trying to start anything, it's just what I thought of after reading your comment

    • @christianterrill3503
      @christianterrill3503 Před 7 měsíci +5

      Did your prays get answered?

  • @renebaker6980
    @renebaker6980 Před 3 měsíci +20

    I have congestive heart failure, had a massive heart attack new year day, two stints and a pace maker. Also just got diagnosed with stomach cancer, but these videos have helped me cope and come to terms so we'll. While I wish I had more time, at least, thanks to you, I'm no longer afraid. Thank you.

  • @CymMitch
    @CymMitch Před 4 měsíci +195

    My mother was close to passing (cancer) and she saw "the most beautiful person "
    My mother in law was giddy happy the night before she passed these things give me hope for the otherside.

  • @rebeccawhite6999
    @rebeccawhite6999 Před 7 měsíci +10867

    “Your parent are really excited to see you” that hit different

    • @LisaRamirez-cc7kw
      @LisaRamirez-cc7kw Před 7 měsíci +40

      😢 it really does.

    • @nickster5286
      @nickster5286 Před 7 měsíci +16

      Yeah.... hard

    • @HorseyHonor
      @HorseyHonor Před 7 měsíci +10

      Yeh made me cry 😢

    • @bigbearblondie
      @bigbearblondie Před 7 měsíci +44

      I was OK till I read your comment. It’s tough being an orphan. Yeah it does hit different. Big hugs

    • @pippadawg7037
      @pippadawg7037 Před 7 měsíci +25

      @@bigbearblondie No matter what happened here, no one is an orphan there. :))

  • @ellesreviews8367
    @ellesreviews8367 Před 8 měsíci +10260

    This made me realize suddenly that all the people my mom talked to in the last few days were really there to get her ready. ❤ thank you

    • @MaaikeCoats
      @MaaikeCoats Před 7 měsíci +246

      They definitely were! As a nurse I’ve seen this so many times it’s so crazy and special all at the same time ❤

    • @kitkat80088
      @kitkat80088 Před 7 měsíci +46

      @@MaaikeCoats I hope I’m not being too invasive but how had that effected your spiritual life.

    • @ondemandslapperandclapper
      @ondemandslapperandclapper Před 7 měsíci +76

      I wonder how people’s relatives respond when they’re up in heaven and all of a sudden their grandson gets hit by a car and they’re up there like DAMN WE AINT EVEN GET TO PREPARE HIM

    • @LilithRaine29
      @LilithRaine29 Před 7 měsíci +112

      It's the hardest thing to see but as someone who feels spirits when they're around I know my mom was safe she was fighting with them telling them it wasn't time yet 😢 my mom waited for everyone to be asleep before she left with my dad and the rest of my family I woke up to feeling like the dust was settling again after it being kicked up almost like a calm after the storm I didn't hear her making noise or anything I went in to check on her and her eyes and mouth was open I was thinking she was still out of it so I called to her and no answer I went to grab her hand and she was cold to the touch 😢 I cried and cried along side her until they came to pick her up in a way I was glad she finally went home but she was the only one keeping me in the world as my dad passed when I was only 15 both had cancer so they didn't get to their 60s all ik is this is the most heartbreaking thing to handle I took care of my mom 2 months before she went home

    • @Mamilean
      @Mamilean Před 7 měsíci +15

      ​@@ondemandslapperandclapperI think the time goes differently. And they have the time to prepare while in the tunnel or just after

  • @Silvermoonscorpion
    @Silvermoonscorpion Před 3 měsíci +98

    Thank you for your awareness and positivity on this issue. I was a CNA and took care of hospice cases. These events really do happen among other things.
    I always received a picture in my minds eye the moment they left their body, even if it took a while longer for the body's function to completely finish.. I always had the sense they were saying they'd made it and they were ok. They often looked a bit younger and restored to perfect health and very happy, content. Blissful even.
    Other things occurred but that for another time. Again, thank you for normalizing this and raising awareness. Blessings ✨💚✨

    • @juliehansen6151
      @juliehansen6151 Před 8 dny +4

      I'm very curious about "other things"

    • @sherryfarkas-gz1bi
      @sherryfarkas-gz1bi Před dnem +1

      My mom had to go to Hospice when she lost her battle with colon cancer. The people who work in hospice are the earths true angels. They treat patients who are unaware with the most kindness & grace I have ever witnessed. They are the best part of any medical facility.

  • @kimmiemore8134
    @kimmiemore8134 Před 8 dny +5

    My fiance died 7 days before our wedding. That was 12 years ago. It doesn't hurt any less as time goes on... the pain just gets easier to keep to myself.
    I pray he is there waiting for me when it's my time. The only thing that could possibly make me happier than that is to go back 12 years in time.

  • @chrisdelawder7890
    @chrisdelawder7890 Před 8 měsíci +10487

    Made me cry. I lost my wife 9 years ago. If this is what I have to look forward to when my time comes, I will accept Death with open arms.

    • @cl8956
      @cl8956 Před 8 měsíci +287

      I know she will be so happy to be with you again when the time comes :)

    • @starsaur6664
      @starsaur6664 Před 8 měsíci +172

      Death doesn't stop us from loving those we've lost. I believe that those who have passed on also don't stop loving us. Your wife is looking forward to seeing you again just as much as you are looking forward to seeing her. ❤

    • @Mara.La888
      @Mara.La888 Před 8 měsíci +45

      Beautiful :)) Me too, really looking forward to it

    • @sherryk30
      @sherryk30 Před 8 měsíci +85

      We are divine souls having a human experience. Energy doesn't die. Your wife will come to take you wherever you want to go!

    • @heather5031
      @heather5031 Před 8 měsíci +43

      I have many friends and loved ones on the Other Side, and gaining more. I look forward to seeing them again when my work here is done. All in His time.❤

  • @VamLoveAndKisses
    @VamLoveAndKisses Před 8 měsíci +5217

    My grandad woke up from a nap in his chair to see my gran (who had passed away a year earlier) standing in front of him smiling. He said "hello love, is it time?" And she smiled back. A week later he passed away. They were married for 65 years.

    • @MsAngelaCrystal
      @MsAngelaCrystal Před 8 měsíci +87

      That's so beautiful ❤

    • @lisab7798
      @lisab7798 Před 8 měsíci +109

      I wish more stories like that were told. It helps remove the fear of death and see it as just a part of life. ❤

    • @Joshuacomments
      @Joshuacomments Před 8 měsíci +14

      That is holesome❤

    • @ddelv583
      @ddelv583 Před 8 měsíci +43

      You know he was just counting the days until he could be with her again. This one got me in the feels. 65 yrs. together - wow!!! 😮❤❤❤

    • @VamLoveAndKisses
      @VamLoveAndKisses Před 8 měsíci +23

      @@ddelv583 absolutely, he said many times he was ready to go and join her.

  • @laurabarber6697
    @laurabarber6697 Před měsícem +35

    I went to see My grandma daily at the hospital. One day I walked in as she asked me, " Why is my mother sitting on that other bed?" I don't see spirit. I said, " Because when it's time for you to go she will be the one who comes for you." I stayed and visited making sure that she was thinking right about everything and she was. I went home and was brushing my hair when it dawned on me. That message was for ME! I was the one that needed to get ready for my grandma to pass (we lived together). She passed several months later - ON Mother's Day and it was the day before my birthday. What happened the day she passed was also very amazing! I'm very certain about the Other Side and that Spirit is always working on our behalf. Happy Mother's Day grandma. I love you and I miss you. And I know you are with me now and will be the one with me when I return to the other side.💝🙏🏻💝

  • @sarahsmile8518
    @sarahsmile8518 Před měsícem +45

    This is helping me SO MUCH to be more at peace about dying one day! Thank you for your videos!! PLEASE make more!!❤❤😊😊🎉🎉

  • @83lulube
    @83lulube Před 8 měsíci +18779

    This happened to my grandfather. His sister that died months prior told him she was coming to get him tomorrow with a very wide smile. She sure did 😭😭 When he told my mom this, she just said right back "that's wonderful Daddy!" She encouraged him to go knowing it was time. She is a retired nurse and understood what happens to people that are dying. 😭😭

    • @JenniferSturley
      @JenniferSturley Před 8 měsíci +713

      This happened to my grandfather too! My grandmother died three weeks before he did. He stayed behind to take care of the paperwork and logistics and then she came to him in a dream and said, "I miss you, when are you coming to see me?" and he died the next night. They had been married for almost 70 years and were so deeply in love till the end.

    • @lisalombs1239
      @lisalombs1239 Před 8 měsíci +356

      Nearly every single one of my elderly relatives who have passed naturally have "seen the ancestors". It's a sure sign in my family that there's less than 24 hours left. We find it kind of comforting tbh.

    • @starsaur6664
      @starsaur6664 Před 8 měsíci +21

      ​@@JenniferSturley ❤❤❤❤❤

    • @JosieMize-nr1cf
      @JosieMize-nr1cf Před 8 měsíci +13

      🙏🙏🙏

    • @jamielawson5670
      @jamielawson5670 Před 8 měsíci +165

      My uncle was seeing my Dad. He had passed in 1995. He came for him, I know that some people don't believe but I do.

  • @tsdrda
    @tsdrda Před 8 měsíci +1704

    I took Communion to a man every week in hospice care. He confided to me that he was seeing angels just coming in his room and sitting in his bed while he was getting physical therapy. I asked him if he told the therapist and he laughed and said “no! He would think I was crazy.” We both laughed over that. He promised me a dance in heaven some day. ❤️

  • @heavenlyree
    @heavenlyree Před měsícem +140

    The fact that this phenomenon happens all the time and people still refuse to believe in some sort of afterlife stuns me

    • @loragorman1576
      @loragorman1576 Před 14 dny +1

      I believe 🙏 🙌

    • @Tantejay
      @Tantejay Před 13 dny +7

      There may or may not be one, I don't know.
      And honestly I don't care in the slightest.
      This is my life. I'm trying to live it following my values, who aren't religious.
      Everything else can wait until later. After all: Nobody makes it out here alive.

    • @heavenlyree
      @heavenlyree Před 13 dny +5

      @@Tantejay and that’s your choice and life even though it confuses me. I’m not to tell you that you are wrong

    • @xyincognito
      @xyincognito Před 12 dny +9

      you do realise that these are just hallucinations ...

    • @heavenlyree
      @heavenlyree Před 12 dny +3

      @@xyincognito you think they are hallucinations but multiple people seeing the same things even when they never heard of this all at similar times (aka death) is amazing proof to an afterlife. I’m sorry you don’t see it that way. But they are hallucinations to you 😊

  • @azmendozafamily
    @azmendozafamily Před 2 měsíci +39

    I can only hope my son saw his grandma like that, happily waiting and comforting him. He was born just over a year after she died, so she never met him while she was here.

    • @user-yn4xc8kt3i
      @user-yn4xc8kt3i Před 10 dny +2

      I'm sorry for both of their losses ❤

    • @Lucinda_Jackson
      @Lucinda_Jackson Před 8 dny +2

      She met him, just not in the usual way. And I'm certain she was there, welcoming him across and embracing him.

    • @Angela-vy5ok
      @Angela-vy5ok Před 8 dny +1

      She certainly knows him. God bless you 🌸💕🌸💕

  • @mommab1969
    @mommab1969 Před 8 měsíci +2882

    As a nursing student, my grandma was dying, I took time off to care for her and she kept calling out my long deceased grandfather’s name and reaching out as if someone was there. Others in the family kept fussing over her and calling her back. I asked her if she was seeing Grandpa and she nodded. I told her we would all be ok, that we loved her and that it was ok to go. The next time she saw him, she peacefully passed away. It was then that I knew I wanted to work in palliative care. It is such a wonderful gift to be with someone who is dying. I have always considered it an honour.

    • @kathleensingleton6314
      @kathleensingleton6314 Před 8 měsíci +82

      It is an honor. I have seen that many times . They will reach out and hold the hand of these loved ones. Having had seen this many times . Im looking forward to seeing my dad and my grandma.

    • @LilliesforSeverus
      @LilliesforSeverus Před 8 měsíci +105

      This.
      They need to be told that it will be ok.
      My grandmother was hanging on, we think because she was worried how my grandpa would get on without her… I pulled him aside and told him, “she needs to know you’ll be ok.” The rest of the family left the room and he told her how much he loved her, and how much he would miss her, but also that it was ok for her to go because he’d be right there with her someday. She passed shortly after.

    • @charlenepowell8917
      @charlenepowell8917 Před 8 měsíci +5

      ❤❤❤❤

    • @lilyshade4124
      @lilyshade4124 Před 8 měsíci +18

      It really is the greatest honor to witness someone's passing.

    • @derekamanwiththegivennamej1082
      @derekamanwiththegivennamej1082 Před 8 měsíci +83

      The angels said we confuse them when we celebrate the birth of a child and mourn the loss of our elderly. They feel it is inverted ( like all on earth) and we should mourn the birth of a child as he is just beginning a lifetime of trials and the elderly should be celebrated as they have completed their test and have been called home. Really makes perfect sense if you understand!

  • @SnarkyPriest
    @SnarkyPriest Před 8 měsíci +6951

    My grandfather was very old and sick with cancer, and while he was in chemotherapy he hadn’t been eating very much. One morning I woke up and there were 2 plates of food on the table. I asked him why he’d made so much breakfast. His eyes smiled and he said he and my grandmother had made breakfast together and talked about their upcoming trip. She had passed away a few years earlier and so this was an unexpected answer. He passed away a few days later. I still think about that morning and how happy he was and it still makes me smile.❤

  • @BridgetNicole88
    @BridgetNicole88 Před měsícem +42

    These make me sad but happy. Thankyou for making these,, closure is important and acceptance is healthy

  • @wisconsinbelle
    @wisconsinbelle Před 4 měsíci +39

    My grandpa started to see his dad in the last few days. One time he saw him in the middle of the night and he said it was so real he poured two bowls of cereal for them to sit together but by the time he was done his dad had vanished. He passed about a week later.

  • @ksharpe8137
    @ksharpe8137 Před 8 měsíci +1952

    When my Mom was on her death bed she sat straight up, reached out her arms and said “Mother!” in the most joyous voice. She died shortly after. I’m convinced her Mother came to usher her into Heaven. ❤

    • @starsaur6664
      @starsaur6664 Před 8 měsíci +86

      When my grandpa was on my deathbed I got the distinct feeling that both of his parents were by his side, and had only stepped away from him to give living relatives room to take his hand. They were making sure their son wouldn't have to go home alone. ❤

    • @ksharpe8137
      @ksharpe8137 Před 8 měsíci +25

      @@starsaur6664 that’s beautiful 💙

    • @dunzxoxo
      @dunzxoxo Před 8 měsíci +58

      She come to fetch her.
      When my gran died in the early hours of the morning. She came to me and said.... 'grandpa has come to fetch me, I am very happy. Tell everyone I am happy and not to worry about me'. The next thing I heard the phone ring and I knew. Was my aunt phoning to tell us about my gran ❤️😊❤️😉 never worry, they are safe and happy ❤❤❤

    • @jadedoe9966
      @jadedoe9966 Před 8 měsíci +21

      My great uncle kept repeating mom over and over too ❤

    • @ahlrequin
      @ahlrequin Před 8 měsíci +24

      Instant tears just from reading this. I can’t imagine what it’s like to witness that

  • @SylvaCyn
    @SylvaCyn Před 7 měsíci +1787

    Before my grandpa passed away, I had a dream where I saw my deceased grandma, his wife, put her arm around him and with a huge smile and so much joy in her face said “We’re leaving soon.” She was glowing and in light and so happy that her husband would join her soon. ❤

    • @your_fav_daph
      @your_fav_daph Před 7 měsíci +5

      No comments yet but I think this is so sweet

    • @yukilullabi
      @yukilullabi Před 7 měsíci +3

      Omg this is the sweetest thing, I bet they’re enjoying their time together ❤

    • @Oxymoron3
      @Oxymoron3 Před měsícem

      Wow that's incredible ❤

    • @heatherradziewicz6120
      @heatherradziewicz6120 Před 15 hodinami

      Lllllllliiiiiiikkkkkkkeeeee

  • @zombine555
    @zombine555 Před měsícem +28

    Having spoken to the elderly with an ailing mind.. this is very real.

  • @bretmaples
    @bretmaples Před měsícem +75

    My grandmother passed in February, she had really bad dementia. She was on hospice when she passed. The workers there were spectacular. I appreciate each and every one of you. It takes such a special person to be a hospice care person. To receive people at their end of life, repeatedly watch them die and still remain so compassionate. Everyone should hug a nurse, tell them you appreciate them, because they go through a lot.

    • @oldwave6106
      @oldwave6106 Před měsícem +4

      Hospice is pretty incredible.

  • @myluvforfall1981
    @myluvforfall1981 Před 7 měsíci +2042

    🥺I remember experiencing this like it was yesterday. I lost my mother to uterine cancer and she was saying “not yet mama, I’m not ready to go yet” I knew she was in a lot of pain. I couldn’t stand to see her suffer. I knew when she stopped talking our time was limited..🥺hard to process 🕊️

    • @mamaxbeanz
      @mamaxbeanz Před 7 měsíci +6

      ❤️💔❤️‍🩹

    • @crimencrochet
      @crimencrochet Před 7 měsíci +22

      I lost my Mum last year to uterine cancer, which was only discovered following a stroke. She had, what seemed to be, a steady procession of people who she had been talking to, none of whom were really there. She was scared about dying months earlier and I said my Nanna, who passed 23 years earlier, had told me she wasn't ready for her yet. Mum said, that's what she told me too! I've always had a spiritual connection with my Nan. When Mum passed away a few months later, it was the day before my Nanna's birthday and I felt comfort that Mum would be back with her for that. ❤

    • @myluvforfall1981
      @myluvforfall1981 Před 7 měsíci +10

      @@crimencrochet 🥺I’m so sorry for the loved ones you’ve lost. 🫂🕊️My mother’s diagnosis was discovered the same way, through a stroke. She had had several and I thought she was fainting during baths and feedings. I think she knew for years after retiring in 2010 from (Sentara Norfolk General Hospital 43 years). She avoided going to the doctor and was angry that I called the ambulance. The doctors told me 7/9/15 and we lost her 7/21/15. I’ll be glad when the holidays are over with because I wish she could be here with us. Some days are better than others.

    • @SuziRider5D
      @SuziRider5D Před 7 měsíci +12

      Remember that your relatives are next to us at a higher 'lightbody' vibration, and we are at a low 'animalistic' one with a perception of only 0.05% of the Universe. It is like being stuck to one octave on the piano with a mile-wide keyboard.
      As above, so below,; As Below, so Above,
      ...so their world looks like ours, but minus the evil very low-vibration shadow-parts we do not like to see.
      As an energy being, they are also perpetually at their physical peak as dictated by their DNA, until they decide otherwise. They can also travel with just changing their point of focus. It is like getting on a plane, sleeping for the 10+ hours of flight, and waking up to eat breakfast and energetically step into a tropical paradise.
      We are also (sound & light) energy beings (E=mc²+1), but our earthly physical bodies (made from local minerals and basic natural chemicals in our foods & water) are more like rocks and mud in comparison.
      So 'going to the other side' or 'Home' where we ALL 'like Jesus' and have access to all of the Knowledge of the Universe (past, present, & future) is normal. So yes, it is exciting. 😊

    • @briannasnelgro8094
      @briannasnelgro8094 Před 7 měsíci +2

      The no talking stage .... My grandma had breast cancer she battled it for 6 years. She was my best friend. When she went I had to hear her rattle in the room next door for like two days. It killed me I miss her daily. She went so fast. It was so much to handle

  • @amusedBYfools
    @amusedBYfools Před 8 měsíci +2753

    My mom's actively dying right now. I hope ppl that went before her are with her.

    • @vernell2601
      @vernell2601 Před 8 měsíci +31

      I am so sorry. Lost my parents young but went through this w my grandma. I hope your mom finds peace and your family heals

    • @wm9782
      @wm9782 Před 8 měsíci +17

      My condolences. Lost mine too. Nobody truly knows this part of the journey.
      Be strong and believe in knowing those who love us want us to gain life events to have more to talk about in the afterlife.
      God bless you and your wife.
      Let the energy flow through you as it comes dark and light alike.

    • @cherylehubicsak3070
      @cherylehubicsak3070 Před 8 měsíci +19

      My thoughts are with you. I lost my mom August 12, 2023. I was with her and experienced her transition. It was very special. Remember, until the last breath, the last thing to go is hearing.❤🙏

    • @ladyfauna1149
      @ladyfauna1149 Před 8 měsíci +22

      I was fortunate to have spent my Mother's final moments with her. She did experience seeing and conversing with family that passed before her. She also related to me, while she was fully lucid and aware of her surroundings, that she saw Death in the hospital room with us... Standing against the wall, to the left of the foot of the bed. She was calm, not afraid, and very matter of fact. I learned a lot about the stages of dying, and her acceptance of what she was going through. Even the experience of 35 years of being a critical care /ER RN, I was not able to truly be able to know what she taught me in the 6 weeks that she had to go through, up to the time Death took her by the hand, and she was at Peace finally. I miss you, Momma. ❤️💕

    • @glorWaterson
      @glorWaterson Před 8 měsíci +7

      I hope you're ok

  • @DaveRave81
    @DaveRave81 Před měsícem +17

    Why did this make me cry...just beautiful

  • @love.bug-_-
    @love.bug-_- Před měsícem +17

    omg this truly brought tears to my eyes, the comfort this person has in knowing they’ll be with their wife and family, accepting their fate. its beautiful

  • @LilyOfTheTower
    @LilyOfTheTower Před 7 měsíci +824

    My dad introduced me to my great grandfather when he was passing. I smiled and looked in that direction and just let him have the moment.
    I still dream of him and he brings me relatives I've never met before.

    • @nikkired5584
      @nikkired5584 Před 6 měsíci +23

      That’s amazing! What a gift, id give anything to see or hear from my father again. 🥺

    • @hubertfarnsworth3622
      @hubertfarnsworth3622 Před 6 měsíci +4

      ​@nikkired5584 same, my dad committed suicide in mid-late 2020, I really wish I could see him again, but I dunno if he'll even be on this spiritual plane due to the unfortunate cause of death.

    • @erinnelikewoah
      @erinnelikewoah Před 6 měsíci +3

      What a true gift my love ❤

    • @imonthewinningside8281
      @imonthewinningside8281 Před 6 měsíci

      ​@@hubertfarnsworth3622
      I will pray God gives you clarity! I have a dear relative who passed that way.... and God has been so good! in letting us know she is safe with Him!

    • @Straw_Bearies13
      @Straw_Bearies13 Před 6 měsíci +3

      That is amazing your Great Grandfather gives you that gift to meet your relatives, I would give anything and everything to see my dog again ( we had to put her down and I felt so bad that after they put her to sleep I ran out of the room)

  • @toomignon
    @toomignon Před 8 měsíci +839

    My mother was adopted by her maternal aunt as a newborn because her mother died in childbirth. The morning of the day my mother died, she looked up at the ceiling and was crying, tears on her cheeks. "Marie is looking for her baby." and repeated it. Marie was the birth mother she had never met.

    • @bobbis.172
      @bobbis.172 Před 8 měsíci +37

      Thank you for sharing ❤

    • @solsticebaby
      @solsticebaby Před 8 měsíci +56

      Well now I'm ugly crying

    • @toomignon
      @toomignon Před 8 měsíci +25

      @@solsticebaby My mother, myself, and my eldest daughter all share the middle name Marie.

    • @HellcatGamin
      @HellcatGamin Před 8 měsíci +11

      You know… I was going to say that near death people begin to hallucinate… but to think of that on your deathbed when you go? That’s… there’s something to there being another plane of existence, or another level of consciousness only reached after death. But I do think your consciousness can be weighed down by your “sins” or wrongs you have done in your life, creating the idea of a heaven and a hell.

    • @maureenhopkins430
      @maureenhopkins430 Před 8 měsíci +22

      That is so beautiful! In addition to being reunited with my parents and brother, I look forward to meeting the baby girl that I lost in miscarriage. I hope that it won’t be for a long time, but I do look forward to it. 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @stromskeshorts
    @stromskeshorts Před 4 měsíci +15

    The part at the end when the response was "excited" was oddly heartwarming and comforting

  • @Bluelilly40
    @Bluelilly40 Před měsícem +11

    This is precious, and so reassuring.

  • @avilanancy30
    @avilanancy30 Před 5 měsíci +461

    I hope my mom will be there to receive me . I was 7 when she died, I had a sad childhood with no parents. I just wanna hug her.

    • @wendypomerleau
      @wendypomerleau Před 4 měsíci +5

    • @cindyzelmer9228
      @cindyzelmer9228 Před 3 měsíci +4

      🫶🏻🫂🫶🏻🫂

    • @laurabarber6697
      @laurabarber6697 Před měsícem +12

      💝🙏🏻💝 Just ask. I feel you already know she is the one who will be there for you. Sending you a love filled hug from my heart to yours!💝🙏🏻💝

    • @death99ification
      @death99ification Před měsícem +9

      I'm sure she will be, just please don't be in any rush to get there. you have one life on this planet, best to live it to the fullest

    • @ckantrel1977
      @ckantrel1977 Před měsícem +2

      🤗🤗🤗🤗

  • @MargoIndigo
    @MargoIndigo Před 7 měsíci +2657

    being still in my 20’s and lost both parents, my mother at 18 who was my rock, the “your parents are so excited to see you” made me cry like a baby. i hope they’re there when i go. i so hope.

    • @zamalotshwamncube4971
      @zamalotshwamncube4971 Před 7 měsíci +11

      I can relate ❤

    • @SuperDrLisa
      @SuperDrLisa Před 7 měsíci +16

      My mom was seeing her twin brother

    • @iamhis5580
      @iamhis5580 Před 7 měsíci +19

      Jesus is the way🙏🏻. The only way🙏🏻. God bless you. I’m sorry for your loss.

    • @teagenthetiefling5296
      @teagenthetiefling5296 Před 7 měsíci +11

      I pray that you see them.

    • @angelaf.6836
      @angelaf.6836 Před 7 měsíci +9

      Sameeee I want my mommy to greet me! ❤️❤️❤️

  • @Slayerscrest1234
    @Slayerscrest1234 Před 21 dnem +2

    There was once a girl that meant alot to me. When and if I die before her. I will watch over her until she comes too with her family behind her

  • @lizmacleod8903
    @lizmacleod8903 Před měsícem +2

    Beautiful. I've had this experience while nursing a patient ❤

  • @gabby8339
    @gabby8339 Před 7 měsíci +1701

    My friend was only 20 dying in hospital and she said there's so many people behind me waving at her to come here. I bet she now knows they were all her family ❤

    • @laurenherring2825
      @laurenherring2825 Před 6 měsíci +3

      Poor girl

    • @ungarischfsikurs743
      @ungarischfsikurs743 Před 6 měsíci +7

      Same with my grandma! She also saw "so many people".

    • @jenfosho1981
      @jenfosho1981 Před 6 měsíci +8

      My mom said something similar she said oh I can't go in there, there's so many people. I died after a bad car accident and heard and felt my great grandma and my dad they said they love me but it wasn't my time I needed to go back

    • @masonasher9689
      @masonasher9689 Před 8 dny

      Okii but this is the one that made me cry, if that happened to me i probably would have dropped dead in that moment 😭

  • @elise7525
    @elise7525 Před 8 měsíci +5291

    last year my uncle was in the hospital for several weeks as his cancer was getting worse & one afternoon he told my mom that his dog Heidi was begging him to go on a walk and he said he needed to take her on one & that he would see my mom later. Heidi had passed away a few years before that so my mom thought the drugs had him hallucinating. But I kid you not, he passed away that night. His dog came to get him y’all… brb crying again

    • @superbwater78
      @superbwater78 Před 8 měsíci +91

      That is amazing.

    • @islandgirl1818
      @islandgirl1818 Před 8 měsíci +130

      Thank you for sharing 😢❤. I always worry about my baby dog leaving me someday in the long future.

    • @alissag8780
      @alissag8780 Před 8 měsíci +137

      This gives me hope I'll see my soul mate again. She was a furbaby that passed at 7yo, too too soon and so tragically, traumatizing. She was my partner in crime, adulting, and raising 2 littles by myself. As a Pitty, I always felt safe, even alone single woman with small children in the dark. She was a perfect representation of her breed. She changed so many people's opinions of pitties, and smiled at hate strangers sent her way. I joke she was our emotional support puppy.. but she really was.

    • @elizabethconley4996
      @elizabethconley4996 Před 8 měsíci +52

      ​​@@alissag8780i totally feel this! I lost my fur baby almost a year ago at just 9 years old! She fought so hard to just lay& basically hide. 😢

    • @alissag8780
      @alissag8780 Před 8 měsíci +43

      So truly sorry for your loss. Tears of solidarity ❤️ she came to me at the most unexpected time, I really couldn't handle more responsibilities but she gave us so so much love. I did everything I could but there was nothing to reverse kidney failure. I think the pandemic played into her delayed diagnosis. And frankly, a sh*tty vet. ✌️❤️

  • @maicey_t.
    @maicey_t. Před 2 měsíci +7

    When my great grandmother passed away a few years back, she talked about her father coming into the room.
    This is one of the most comforting thoughts to me, that a loved one comes to get you when it's your time to go. ❤

  • @AmandaE24
    @AmandaE24 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Omg this gave me chills. Thank you for all you do. ❤

  • @QueenWendyLu
    @QueenWendyLu Před 8 měsíci +921

    My grandpa saw my grandma at this foot of his bed just before he passed.
    He kept saying “she’s young and beautiful again.” just smiling. I’m so glad that she came back for him.

    • @jordangarton2478
      @jordangarton2478 Před 8 měsíci +18

      I instantly started crying what is this magic 😭😭❤❤❤❤❤

    • @stefanduer5427
      @stefanduer5427 Před 8 měsíci +19

      Same with my grandmother She saw her mother who passed away in 2001 and a young girl. The wried thing is me and my aunt could see them two even befor my grandma mentioned them.

    • @courtneysenglish2308
      @courtneysenglish2308 Před 8 měsíci +11

      My grandpa said my grandma was there, a day before he passed.

    • @saidahacidkadi
      @saidahacidkadi Před 8 měsíci +3

      ​@@stefanduer5427u see them ?? Woooow

  • @CariAndLenny
    @CariAndLenny Před 7 měsíci +1394

    I remember my grandpa telling the hospice nurse and pointing at the couch, “That’s my wife over there.” My grandma would sit on the couch that couch a lot when she was a live. He passed that same day.
    I miss them both, but I’m happy he was surrounded by family and my grandma when he passed.

  • @keithwilcoxsr8103
    @keithwilcoxsr8103 Před měsícem +2

    Thank you for making this video. Many times people are unsure and not clear what happens at the end. It is not a time for fear or confusion. God has so much love for us. Our family is waiting for us. Follow the warmth, the love, the lighted opening. God bless everyone in this journey.

  • @tracyspringer434
    @tracyspringer434 Před 26 dny +1

    The people that work with Hospice are absolutely incredible! I feel their work us definitely a calling! Our body is not who we are, but just the vessel that helps us navigate our earthly lives! Our soul is who we are & this shows that your soul lives on!

  • @gulfgypsy
    @gulfgypsy Před 8 měsíci +1207

    The day before my husband passed I heard him talking to someone - He was looking down the hallway and our two little dogs who were on the bed with him, were looking down the hallway as well.
    I asked him who was he talking to ---- He said:
    'My father. He said you can't see him but everything is going to be ok'
    My heart was breaking because I knew my husband was dying but still I was hoping for some miracle - you know?
    His father passed when my husband was only 6 years old so I know this was God sending him his father to help ease his mind and heart -- And so my husband could try to help me and let me know everything would be ok.

    • @graceharper6384
      @graceharper6384 Před 8 měsíci +48

      I am happy you got some comfort. My husband passed in his sleep at 53 years old leaving behind our 3 sons. I did not get this comfort. I hope you can offer me some adivce to over come the guilt of not having said too many I love yous, or hugged and kissed more. I am in so much pain.

    • @gulfgypsy
      @gulfgypsy Před 8 měsíci

      @@graceharper6384 (((Grace))) My heart aches for the horrible loss you and your sons are dealing with.
      Other than to offer than grief is different for each of us - Some days the pain will seem to overwhelm to the point you can barely breath and other days you can almost feel your loved one close by reminding you that love never ends -
      ANd you can look at your sons and in them see their father and know that he does live on.
      Losing the love of your life so young and without warning is a loss I cannot imagine but I can say this:
      Please be kind to yourself - You shared a love with your husband that had it's own language --- Yes, with kisses and hugs and saying ;I love you' -- But also with little looks, a shared smile - quiet moments when you know just what a blessed you each were to the other.
      Try to keep your arms open to your sons -- Let them know how much their father loves them still and was always so proud of them. If they want to cry, be there for them because even the strong man sometimes needs to let the pain in their heart come out -- If they seems sad or angry it could be because they too, feel as if their father was taken from them before they could say 'I love you' one more time.
      Keep your own heart open even when it feels as if can never mend -- It's been 6 years since my husband passed and there are times when the loss feels like yesterday - But I know he wouldn't want me to become broken and bitter - So I remind myself each day that being alive is a gift and I try to honor him by being kind to others, finding little joys to smile about - Like the day a bunch of butterflies landed on him - So when I see a butterfly I smile remembering that.
      You can do this Grace -- There is no time duration or single way of grieving -- Try to find peace knowing that your dear husband was next to you when God called him home and his last thoughts were how blessed he was to have loved you-been loved by you, called you wife and friend and of the wonderful sons you created together.
      Be Blessed

    • @lamoinette23
      @lamoinette23 Před 8 měsíci +20

      I believe animals can see the departed when they visit.. or at least sense their presence. Sending you hugs.

    • @thinkerponderer561
      @thinkerponderer561 Před 8 měsíci +8

      @gulfgypsy
      mm…bittersweet beauty in the pain… thanks for sharing your precious story…

    • @thinkerponderer561
      @thinkerponderer561 Před 8 měsíci +32

      @graceharper6384
      hello there, I know you weren’t asking me, but I thought I might put in a word in hopes that it might somehow help a little, at least…
      First, prayed for you because I know that no human can go to the depths of the human soul where such emotions lie…only our dearest Maker who holds our stories and the overall story in His wonderful Hands.
      Secondly, my small suggestion is to please jot down everything if you haven’t already…get all the feelings down on paper, cry over it, release it there…also please try writing out all the other ways you both showed love to one another other than I love yous, hugs, kisses. Considering you both have 3 beautiful sons together and you both were present in each other’s lives till death parted you for now, surely love can be found tucked in there and remembered…
      And, I truly believe just the fact that you’re feeling guilt is a healthy sign of that deeper love for your husband! You just might have to dig down and ponder and put into words on paper and treasure those…
      Lastly, my suggestion is to please consider this- meet with our mutual Maker, talk it over with Him, allow Him to take the guilt He carried on His back for you and give you His peace deep in your soul so you can come to forgive yourself instead of guilt yourself, and be strengthened to cherish those dear boys of yours gifted to both of you, the way I can tell that you want to do…
      Hugs and please lean on the Maker, He’ll bear it all and be your guide each day…

  • @judyingram-kh1vm
    @judyingram-kh1vm Před 8 měsíci +423

    My little brother died last year and on his death bed his little eyes fluttered and he told me he could she heaven and then he said , "I want to see mama", he passed the next morning.

    • @starsaur6664
      @starsaur6664 Před 8 měsíci +38

      I'm so sorry for your loss. Sending you the biggest internet hug ❤

    • @jasminecomer9436
      @jasminecomer9436 Před 8 měsíci +36

      And see her he did. She came to bring him into her arms. Bless you. I'm crying thinking about my own son, but I truly believe he's in a better place

    • @lorraine5083
      @lorraine5083 Před 8 měsíci +8

      That’s very touching. Condolences. 🙏🏻

    • @Charmayne7
      @Charmayne7 Před 8 měsíci +8

      My mom died nearly 2 years ago, and I so long to see her again. I hope she comes for me when it's time.

    • @kelliwillis417
      @kelliwillis417 Před 8 měsíci +8

      @@Charmayne7my mom died two years ago this past august and I can’t wait to see her! My dad passed when I was 25 and that will be 30 yrs ago nov 1 I can’t wait to see them both!!! ❤

  • @NaeFeldSpur-fs2cy
    @NaeFeldSpur-fs2cy Před 5 dny +2

    I wish I could like this video a million times. I worked in hospice for many years. Your videos have inspired me and reminded me of how much I miss it. I have been really thinking about doing it again. Thank you for these videos. Thank you for reminding me of who I used to be. ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @jlj8808
    @jlj8808 Před 24 dny +3

    My best friend of many years past away 2 weeks ago. He was fighting bladder cancer and treatment really took a toll on his body. A a few days before he died he told us he was having the most vivid dreams about his mom. His mom died of cancer when he was 17. I didn't think anything of it at the time. He was actually feeling better over that past week. Then he was just gone. I still cant beleive he's gone.

  • @SarahJames777
    @SarahJames777 Před 5 měsíci +6199

    "rest up we're leaving tomorrow" when you put it like that it's much more comforting thinking of them in the end. They're just resting before the next great adventure.❤

    • @user-qt1jv5gd8h
      @user-qt1jv5gd8h Před 5 měsíci +16

      It’s either heaven or hell ! Nothing else

    • @adamharrington723
      @adamharrington723 Před 5 měsíci +70

      ​@@user-qt1jv5gd8h Not everyone believes the same thing. No need to force your beliefs

    • @Melmich25
      @Melmich25 Před 5 měsíci +5

      @@adamharrington723
      Everyone’s gotta calm down I think she said it great

    • @adamharrington723
      @adamharrington723 Před 5 měsíci +12

      @@Melmich25 I'm calm. No need to white knight anything. What SarahJames777 said is perfectly alright and I agree. I was replying to the person replying to them. Should I add a tone tag for you to tell I'm /nm?

    • @olliehop20
      @olliehop20 Před 4 měsíci +21

      I knew an older woman who didn’t have much family, her adult son lived far away, and she wasn’t married, but she always had a cat who she loved dearly. I’d come over from time to time and have hours long conversations with her, just for the company. After her cat died i happened to pop over for one of our long conversations and asked where the kitty was since it seemed quieter and i saw no sign of her in the home. The lady said “she has moved on to her next great adventure” & I loved that phrasing so much. I still do. It’s comforting, I think.

  • @kathleensingleton6314
    @kathleensingleton6314 Před 8 měsíci +849

    This happens quite often with patients at their end of life to have visitation from deceased loved ones.- they have conversations and are able to see these loved ones. These people are quite lucid and need to be taken seriously. -from a retired nurse

    • @MaggieMm10
      @MaggieMm10 Před 8 měsíci +17

      Well said 🌟

    • @Journal2Awakening
      @Journal2Awakening Před 8 měsíci +35

      A lot more people take this seriously now that we are in the middle of the Great Awakening of humanity ❤

    • @1985cjjeeper
      @1985cjjeeper Před 8 měsíci

      ​@@Journal2Awakening
      Indeed there is a new era coming for humanity as a whole. I see you feel the same inkling about it as I do.

    • @liberalsockpuppet4772
      @liberalsockpuppet4772 Před 8 měsíci +20

      I'm a shaman. When my dad was leaving this life, we were both able to see my deceased mother visit him.

    • @heru-deshet359
      @heru-deshet359 Před 8 měsíci +21

      When my paternal great grandmother was getting ready, she had all those available gather aby her bed in the hospital. She told them she was about to leave and pointed to the side of the room saying "My Lord Jesus and loved ones before me are waiting". She prayed for them, blessed them, laid back in bed and went to sleep. Everyone that was there said it was the most beautiful thing they had ever experienced and were happy for her.

  • @waldohopkins
    @waldohopkins Před 15 dny +1

    Hospice caregivers are truly special! I can’t imagine the emotional drain it must be to do the work they do. And to help us as we take that last/next step in our lives is such a wonderful service and blessing!

  • @jennymoore2083
    @jennymoore2083 Před 29 dny +1

    When i worked in a Nursing Home many residents in their final weeks or days would call out for their Mum, sometimes their Dad. That really pulled on my heart strings. It was always an honour to prepare a body in their favourite outfit and brush their hair. I'm sure they heard me sing old songs like Bicycle Built for Two, Que Sera Sera and Bless 'Em All.
    It was lovely of the Nursing Home to allow nurses visit a resident in the cool room. You get so attached when your with people day in and day out and heard their wonderful and brave life stories.

  • @shannonhallett2852
    @shannonhallett2852 Před 8 měsíci +289

    My dad died a few hours ago.. he said to my mum he saw a passed friend and my passed uncle. I truly believe this happens and have seen it in my care home I work at. It's truly a special moment ❤

    • @mary-st7ut
      @mary-st7ut Před 8 měsíci +5

      sending condolences for your loss ❤

    • @lightheartedwanderer3818
      @lightheartedwanderer3818 Před 8 měsíci +2

      So comforting

    • @musamoloi2149
      @musamoloi2149 Před 8 měsíci +2

      Sending condolences ❤

    • @thedavesiknow4598
      @thedavesiknow4598 Před 8 měsíci +2

      😢 Love and hugs swnt your way. Hope you'rr hanging in there❤❤❤

    • @patriciathomas1252
      @patriciathomas1252 Před 8 měsíci +2

      I'm so sorry for your recent loss. May our loving Lord lead, guide, and direct you during the difficult days/weeks/and months ahead 🙏.

  • @Lb-df4xi
    @Lb-df4xi Před 8 měsíci +2377

    Its very comforting to think that someone we love will be there at the end

    • @shockawha9
      @shockawha9 Před 8 měsíci +25

      Comforting if its Jesus, not so comforting if you didn’t live for him and satan is waiting instead

    • @SnowWhite-ov9of
      @SnowWhite-ov9of Před 8 měsíci +50

      ​@shockawha9 speak for yourself, if Satan comes to pick me up HIMSELF I'd be honoured 😂

    • @benfuzd388
      @benfuzd388 Před 8 měsíci +9

      @@SnowWhite-ov9ofLMAO this

    • @CartoonWeasel
      @CartoonWeasel Před 8 měsíci +7

      So ill be leaving alone. Sweet.

    • @loreylane3918
      @loreylane3918 Před 8 měsíci +10

      @@SnowWhite-ov9ofsatan won’t be in charge of hell. He’ll be rotting in hell with the rest of the condemned. He has his very own cell .

  • @4castlesandcoffee958
    @4castlesandcoffee958 Před 2 měsíci +2

    This is sweet! Thus is a beautiful visual

  • @rw7668
    @rw7668 Před 11 dny +1

    This is perhaps the most beautiful thing I’ve ever seen on FB or CZcams

  • @yolandacavazos5111
    @yolandacavazos5111 Před 8 měsíci +3823

    My uncle was in his wheelchair and was in a rush to go outside . He said Rebecca is here for me . That’s my aunt who had passed 4 months before. His face was gleaming with excitement. As soon as he wheeled himself out his head rested, that’s how he passed. He was under the tree in the front yard. We had his first Rosary sitting under that tree . There was a pair of doves sitting in that tree for a couple of days. It was so beautiful,it was as if they were letting us know that they were together at last.❤😢

    • @cintyaenciso5805
      @cintyaenciso5805 Před 8 měsíci +106

      🖤🖤🖤 I'm crying because of ur comment. Beautiful. I sure hope they are together. 😭😭😭

    • @CherubChick1221
      @CherubChick1221 Před 8 měsíci +48

      Such a sweet story 💞 -- Praying the Holy Rosary is the most powerful prayer meditation there is. I try not to miss a day!! 🙏

    • @MaxMcNultyYouTube
      @MaxMcNultyYouTube Před 8 měsíci +17

      That’s so sweet.

    • @meredithaherntamilio4553
      @meredithaherntamilio4553 Před 8 měsíci +54

      Ohh what a beautiful experience your family had ,I lost my mother on my 19th bday she was only 40yrs old and had a massive cerebral brain hemorrhage, but the night before she stopped me at the door and said I love u to me ,we didn't do that on mother side of the family ever ,but we always said I love u on my fathers side of the family and I will never forget that ,I looked at her and said I love u to mom and then I left ,it's not as great an experience as yours is but it's mine to never forget 😢I'm 54yrs old and I still miss her so very much ,her sudden death changed who I was as a person, always waiting for the next tragic thing to happen..my mom would not want me to be living like this PTSD and anxiety attacks also major panic attacks, I miss her and know our heavenly father must have needed her for a very special job ,but I needed her too😢

    • @Jewels1992
      @Jewels1992 Před 8 měsíci +19

      ​@meredithaherntamilio4553 that is a beautiful story. And it is true. We never know God's plan. ❤😢

  • @jax-gj9nc
    @jax-gj9nc Před 8 měsíci +225

    my great grandmother was declining a lot and was mosty sleeping but one night she woke up and told my grandma that her husband came to take her to lunch. she told her "go have lunch with dad. i love you." she went to sleep and passed the next day around lunch time

  • @TraceyRepking
    @TraceyRepking Před měsícem +2

    I read your book! It was at my local library! Thank you for writing all those amazing experiences, it was a privilege and gift to read. ❤

  • @peggymargaret3673
    @peggymargaret3673 Před 26 dny +2

    I love this Truth, thank you for sharing, sharing the positive side of crossing over.

  • @nadineneu
    @nadineneu Před 8 měsíci +1106

    I‘m a nurse. While in nursing school, one of my patients said „I‘m going home tomorrow to see my husband.“ The next day she passed and her daughter told me the husband died a couple of years ago. Still gives me goosebumps.

    • @margaretballinger2484
      @margaretballinger2484 Před 7 měsíci +31

      Before my grandmother passed, she fell asleep and dad couldn't wake her. Her breathimg was shallow too. He called the paramedics. She woke up shortly after they arrived and was angry they interrupted the nice visit she was having with her sister. The sister passed years before.

    • @eleanordaqueen7561
      @eleanordaqueen7561 Před 7 měsíci +4

      Yes, they know. I volunteered in hospice for three years. They always told me when they were going to go.

    • @nosuchthing8
      @nosuchthing8 Před 7 měsíci

      It must be something to help people cope with passing

  • @debbycarter6559
    @debbycarter6559 Před 8 měsíci +1240

    My 92yr old grandmother said that my grandpa was coming to get her tomorrow. He passed about 8yrs before her. The next day she had passed. It still gives me goosebumps ❤

    • @LilithNefilim
      @LilithNefilim Před 8 měsíci +2

      Sounds like the notebook 😢❤

    • @Witchy-Wonderland
      @Witchy-Wonderland Před 8 měsíci

      @@LilithNefilim how does it sound like The Notebook when in both the book & movie they pass _together_ *at the same time* - not 8 years apart lol 💕

    • @laceyabercrombie6152
      @laceyabercrombie6152 Před 8 měsíci

      Wow... That's amazing. ❤

    • @sheila9314
      @sheila9314 Před 8 měsíci

      Very beautiful.

    • @user-zu3ib3un4x
      @user-zu3ib3un4x Před 8 měsíci

      My great grand parents died also 8 hours apart.

  • @jlo803
    @jlo803 Před 3 měsíci +1

    It made me water my eyes :(
    That's beautiful

  • @hp8087
    @hp8087 Před 12 dny +1

    When he said he was excited and his wife just smiled sweetly, its just a sweet moment. I hope everyone has that, they go peacefully getting picked up with loved ones long past.

  • @xkaitlynn1
    @xkaitlynn1 Před 7 měsíci +416

    My dad died at 42 of a sudden heart attack and i so hope his dad was there to hold his hand. He was the best dad and i just hope he wasnt scared.

    • @lula4448
      @lula4448 Před 5 měsíci +14

      He wasn’t scared and he wasn’t alone ❤

    • @avoiceinthedark2028
      @avoiceinthedark2028 Před 5 měsíci +2

      My dad at 44 same way

    • @Massmommamess
      @Massmommamess Před 5 měsíci +2

      my Dad at 43 same way, I was 3.

    • @babymama406
      @babymama406 Před 5 měsíci +8

      I’m sure his dad was there. When I die one day, I fully believe and plan to come back for my kids and help them when their time comes. I don’t want them to be afraid or alone either, so I’m gonna be there. I’m sure your dad’s parents felt the same.

    • @treepizzle
      @treepizzle Před 5 měsíci

      ❤️❤️❤️

  • @user-tq1or7ri6s
    @user-tq1or7ri6s Před 6 měsíci +1658

    I’m a CNA and one of the times I worked with a hospice client she was very near the end and petting her long since passed beloved cat. She was so happy to see her and I had not ever seen her smile like that. It was so beautiful

    • @horsewithnoname8795
      @horsewithnoname8795 Před 6 měsíci +112

      Less than a year ago my sister lost her beloved cat of 13 years, a few weeks ago she told me that he came to her in the early hours of the morning as a spirit, jumped on her bed and robbed himself on her face (somehow she could feel his fur) and "told her" he loved her. He was a good kitty.

    • @lisaliddicoat6175
      @lisaliddicoat6175 Před 5 měsíci +22

      I love that. Thank you for sharing your experience.

    • @alinetobias00
      @alinetobias00 Před 5 měsíci +18

      Crying 😢 that was a beautiful thing to share. Thx

    • @coroner2141
      @coroner2141 Před 5 měsíci +3

      Damn. Imagine living almost a century and the living being you love and miss the most is a cat. Skill issue honestly.

    • @nicholelynnedwards5
      @nicholelynnedwards5 Před 5 měsíci +6

      Residents not clients. Im shocked they didn't teach that. It was constantly reiterated when I was in nursing school, especially cna/gna. Hospice especially were called Residents.

  • @tinamcmichael5902
    @tinamcmichael5902 Před 4 měsíci +1

    You are a beautiful God-send to the Hospice patients and their families! May God bless you ❤

  • @Sgt-xw5lx
    @Sgt-xw5lx Před 2 měsíci +2

    Hospice nurses took great care of my father..Especially the few days before he passed..They are a special breed of people

  • @13nielsbri
    @13nielsbri Před 8 měsíci +1424

    This was like my favorite resident who had dementia. About a month before she passed she started telling me her family was building her a house and that she'd be leaving to move in soon. Everytime i said goodbye for the week she would mention the house. The day before she passed i noticed how different she was acting and looking but she was so happy to see me. Id been with her over 3 years so she always recognized me, even tho she never once knew my name but she always told me how much she loved me and appreciatee me. Anyway on her last day she said she was tired but had to rest before moving and that i needed to come visit her. I promised i would right before i left for the night. Not even 24 hours later i got a call she had passed. I cried for a week, but i know she's in that house with her family now ❤

    • @Average_Cashier_Worker
      @Average_Cashier_Worker Před 8 měsíci +31

      Oh my gosh, thats so sweeet! I hope you visit her in heaven too

    • @yadii07438
      @yadii07438 Před 8 měsíci +21

      This made me emotional, such a beautiful story, knowing that we will always be with our loved ones 💜

    • @priscaflaviana4785
      @priscaflaviana4785 Před 8 měsíci

      that's really wonderful of you to have been very nice to her.. she'll greet you one day, both of you alive and happy and well 💕

    • @user-hg4en8mi3y
      @user-hg4en8mi3y Před měsícem

      Made me cry

  • @TheTommy9206
    @TheTommy9206 Před 7 měsíci +580

    I work in a nursing home for elderly people with and without dementia . I love my job . I witnessed multiple times this phenomenon . I would talk to them and hold they hands and comfort them so that they leave this world with beautiful memories instead of being anxious and afraid that they are all alone and forgotten .

    • @CatoTato
      @CatoTato Před 7 měsíci +10

      Thats very sweet of you

    • @carmelita7348
      @carmelita7348 Před 7 měsíci +7

      I actually cried when I read your response because von many are not like you and are not caring and loving enough. Empathy is so so important. Well done.

    • @pinkdollangel
      @pinkdollangel Před 7 měsíci

      @@carmelita7348people can have opinions on different things but I get upset when I see people being mean to other people who are grieving or hate on them for believing in NDES or afterlife, it’s a belief that doesn’t harm anyone, if anything it can help

    • @lindanelson8400
      @lindanelson8400 Před 7 měsíci +5

      I was a nursing home nurse for 35 years before retiring. I love your comment. It takes a special person to work in a geriatric environment. You have to care for people, especially when it comes to nursing home residents, and they deserve it. They built this world for us.
      Once you get to know the people, you find out that there's no end to what you can learn about life from them.
      Keep up the good work, and keep caring.

    • @TheTommy9206
      @TheTommy9206 Před 7 měsíci +2

      @@CatoTato Thank you very much 🤗

  • @nursingschool449
    @nursingschool449 Před 3 měsíci +1

    All of these videos are so beautiful and make me tear up! I am a nurse myself. Thank you for the wonderful work you do!

  • @p_b2222
    @p_b2222 Před 13 dny +1

    Props to her for taking in stride, not treating them like they were an idiot or a fool. It's nice to see

  • @acidicOlive
    @acidicOlive Před 8 měsíci +1823

    Man i really hope this is an accurate representation of how it works. It would be the ultimate peace of mind

    • @claratapia8383
      @claratapia8383 Před 7 měsíci +63

      It totally really is... It is touching to see your lived one , see their lived ones who have passed. & Its like they see them & talk to them when we dont understand. I went thru this w/ my dad. I spent one month looking after him & as he got closer to the end he was talking to all his siblings who had passed & he said they were coming for him. When he gave his last breath, he waved goodbye to me and raised his hand that he was leaving this earth... Not scary, but touching... Its almost 2 years since my dad passed.

    • @aimeemariefournier1013
      @aimeemariefournier1013 Před 7 měsíci +18

      People did not going to nursing for “the money 💴 “ they go into that profession to care give and that is exactly what she’s doing. She’s taking care of her client.

    • @truff631
      @truff631 Před 7 měsíci +6

      It's not.

    • @acidicOlive
      @acidicOlive Před 7 měsíci +15

      @@truff631 wow you must be special then because you're the only person in the entire world who knows what it's like 🤣🤡

    • @throwthatassinaprayercircl2662
      @throwthatassinaprayercircl2662 Před 7 měsíci +8

      Unless… Say for example you’re a seventh day Adventist, who believe that the dead are all asleep before their resurrection on judgment day, and that demons masquerade as the dead. Then you’d be freaking out.

  • @hannahali1787
    @hannahali1787 Před 8 měsíci +3180

    When my daughter died, she mentioned seeing a angelic cat. She said it was cute and she wanted to pet it but it told her she had to wait. She wouldn’t stop talking about their white fur coat and bright blue eyes, it looked as if they came from Heaven. She passed away later that night. We have this stray cat in my neighborhood, it stays around our home often, it has a white fur coat and bright blue eyes, just as she said. ❤
    I like to think it’s her way of watching over us.
    Edit:for everyone saying I should adopt the cat, I asked around and even googled if it would be possible for me to just take in a stray cat in my country and area and various areas around me it is technically illegal and you must go through legal adoption process or take them to animal shelter since animal protection laws. My area specifically I could not find.
    I took the cat to the vet and did all the necessary work to see if she has an owner or not and there is not. She is in a non kill animal shelter and I have already started the adoption process to get the cat.
    I am as well doing in depth research on how to take care of a cat. It actually reminds me of when I found out I was going to have a daughter😅
    Lots of feelings of happiness and remembrance and some sad but more excitement.
    Edit 2: so the date has been set for me to receive the cat in 2 months after they received their shots. In the meantime I am buying cat toys, food, bed, etc. I am very excited!
    Edit 3: i just wanted to thank everyone for their support and kind words and those who have experienced loss (I empathize with all of you) and overall thank you. I honestly would have never adopted the cat (I’ve always considered it but never thought I could act on it) but everyone here has been very helpful and encouraging. I actually used to be scared of cats till I started seeing this white cat around my neighborhood after my daughter’s death. Me and my wife are still debating on the name, some neighbors suggested our daughter’s which we definitely aren’t making it our daughter’s name since that’s her’s and her’s alone, however we aren’t opposed to making a name somewhat inspired by our daughter. This is why we decided to name the cat Luna since our daughter’s name was Solana. My wife chose the name Solana since she was born during the day, and we are choosing Luna since I my daughter passed during the night. I think it’s pretty since it’s as if she isn’t actually gone, always with me is some way, perhaps this is just me but it’s like a continuation of where everything was left off. I honestly can’t wait to bring our cat Luna in to the family!
    Edit 4: hi! Happy new year’s! I kind of forgot about this comment till I received a notification for it. I just received my cat yesterday and I am literally so incredibly happy!! My and my wife are already showering her with love and we can’t wait to see what the future holds, even if my daughter isn’t there with us like we had always planned. We actually got to pick the cat up a little earlier then expected and it was just a day after my daughter’s death, it feels like she is watching over us. My wife especially loves the cat and has been amazing support for her, she looks so alive and happy and while she still gets understandably sad at times, I feel the cat senses this even when she is on the other side of the house and runs to comfort her with cuddles. It’s the cutest thing I have ever seen. The cat also clings close to me and sleep right in the middle of our bed!! She is so cute and I love her so much. I just want to thank the people who told me to adopt this cat because she has become such an important part of our lives in a short amount of time.
    Since this is my final edit to this comment I just want to say, I hope you all have a wonderful year and life!!
    If you have lost any loved ones, wheather it’s your mother, father, grandparent, sibling, and so on, then I truely empathize with you and sincerely hope you can grieve your losses healthily and may feel happiness in the future again!!

    • @Lucyyyyyy23
      @Lucyyyyyy23 Před 8 měsíci +90

      I’m so sorry of your loss but she is definitely watching over you as the cat and is so proud of you ❤️❤️

    • @Tea-pe1yq
      @Tea-pe1yq Před 8 měsíci +69

      Losing a child is the hardest loss.
      I am so incredibly sorry♥️
      We lost my brother many years ago at age 20 and my mom is still trying to cope.
      Now that I am myself a mom the very thought of losing my child takes my breath away.
      Life is sometimes cruel and unfair.
      Send you my prayers ♥️

    • @weirdanimesquad2806
      @weirdanimesquad2806 Před 8 měsíci +21

      Lots of people believe that people can reincarnate as animals too

    • @hannahali1787
      @hannahali1787 Před 8 měsíci +14

      @@Tea-pe1yq thank you, and I so genuinely hope the best for you child and you.

    • @hannahali1787
      @hannahali1787 Před 8 měsíci +37

      @@Lucyyyyyy23 thanks, I like how she (the cat) always clings to me like my daughter always did. She was the most important person to me and now she is gone, this is a fate I wish on no one.

  • @emmabaylis4144
    @emmabaylis4144 Před měsícem +1

    Oh that smile ! I am glad you followed your true path . Your soul is pure and kind

  • @hannahluterotty3180
    @hannahluterotty3180 Před 2 měsíci +2

    Thank you for having this on here. Its the one year anniversary of my grandmother passing away today, and this brought me comfort.

  • @cathyleechopping
    @cathyleechopping Před 6 měsíci +2387

    When my Nana passed in August, I was with her, and as she was taking her final breaths the entire room changed, it felt like there were suddenly a lot of people there. I hope that everyone she missed was waiting to take her home.

    • @user-bb2vn8vz5x
      @user-bb2vn8vz5x Před 5 měsíci +20

      I'm sincerely sorry for the loss of your nanna.
      May God Bless her and hold her in his arms, for an eternity.
      Just to share, the bible says that when we pass away, we don't move or anything.
      We either go up, or down.
      The bible also says that demons will impersonate loved ones.
      I've personally seen this too.
      Think about it, why would a spirit present itself like when it was alive, with clothing, when spirits aren't material beings.
      They're spiritual beings for God's glory in heaven.
      Daniel 12:13
      13 “As for you, go your way till the end. You will rest, and then at the end of the days you will rise to receive your allotted inheritance.”
      Luke 24:39
      39 "See my hands and my feet, that it is I myself. Touch me, and see. For a spirit does not have flesh and bones as you see that I have.”

    • @Candy12438
      @Candy12438 Před 5 měsíci

      ​@user-bb2vn8vz5x you disgust me

    • @sheberry2895
      @sheberry2895 Před 5 měsíci +39

      My nanny (grandmother) started taking directly to God. She was like, "Ok Jesus I'm just tired"

    • @dennisharold9342
      @dennisharold9342 Před 5 měsíci

      ​@@sheberry2895mine did also.

    • @cathyleechopping
      @cathyleechopping Před 5 měsíci

      ​@@user-bb2vn8vz5x I don't believe in the bible, so it was my ancestors that came to take her away. Fk off with that demon crap. She was a good and moral woman.

  • @queenbeebuzz5075
    @queenbeebuzz5075 Před 8 měsíci +203

    The fact that they arnt in pain is a sign as well, many people at the end will suddenly have a great day and feel better have more energy and seem like they are getting better right before they pass, I think thats pretty cool honestly

    • @irenebernardi703
      @irenebernardi703 Před 8 měsíci +16

      I always think this as God's mercy.

    • @kayleighbrown459
      @kayleighbrown459 Před 8 měsíci

      @@irenebernardi703 Scientifically, I think it's the part of your brain that processes fear and pain shutting down because...you don't need it anymore.
      So, kinda, yeah.

    • @pamelahammonds8418
      @pamelahammonds8418 Před 8 měsíci +12

      That happened to my mom. Over 20 years later, my dad was dying and then we heard him say Hello and said her name. He became so relaxed and then he started talking to her in a very low voice. He passed away the next morning.

    • @jenniferwilliams9806
      @jenniferwilliams9806 Před 8 měsíci +5

      It's called the last hurrah

    • @Leci1877
      @Leci1877 Před 8 měsíci +3

      They also call it the rally

  • @victorvonzell360
    @victorvonzell360 Před 9 dny +2

    This brings back so many memories as a former nurse I remember those days as working as a hospice nurse and talking with patients. Strange situations happened over the years. Memories that I will never forget. But there is a lot of pain in the back of my mind for those that have passed away. I wish them well because they are missed by their family and friends in the end.

  • @lowellwilliams2850
    @lowellwilliams2850 Před 25 dny +1

    The force is strong with this one ....I love the depth of this ....thanks alot 🙏💯🔥

  • @jogoldcoaster2847
    @jogoldcoaster2847 Před 7 měsíci +125

    My mum ..A Nana..had recently passed.away.....my three year old son..woke up in the morning....he was so happy...he was grinning ear to ear...i asked why are you so happy..? he said Nana came to see me and was reading a book to me..!

    • @themudpit621
      @themudpit621 Před 6 měsíci +16

      Yeah, the night my nana died of cancer, I dreamed she was better. I ran around telling everyone she was better, in the dream, and nobody would believe me, they were all sad. When I woke up, my Mum told me she'd passed away that night.

    • @JennsCorner777
      @JennsCorner777 Před 5 měsíci +13

      When my Dad died he came to me in a dream. We were at the dining table eating, telling stories and laughing and laughing just like we had always done before his diabetes and renal failure got to him. I woke up and just knew he was saying goodbye one final time. He was dying in hospital and my sister and I, had just seen him and told him we love you, we're ok you can go we will be fine. So he did. Later that day maybe an hour or two after waking I got the call from the hospital that he passed. I miss him everyday. That was 12 years ago. He still sends me reminders of his love.

    • @MrsABC7997
      @MrsABC7997 Před 5 měsíci +4

      Yes, my grandfather was in the hospital ICU, during a blizzard/ice storm. He came to me in a dream & walking! He had been in a wheelchair for years. He told me (mentally) because he never actually spoke. But he conveyed the message that he was wonderful & happy & I was to let my mother & Grandmother know. I woke up with tears. Streaming down my face with happiness at seeing him so happy! The phone rang 5 minutes later. Telling us he had passed. I passed his message along. And they both cried!

    • @dianalugo8327
      @dianalugo8327 Před 5 měsíci +5

      My son was 3 and 1/2 when my dad died. For many months my son saw and heard things no one else could, and most of the time he said it was grandpa. Some of us also heard and saw unexplained occurrences usually in my parents house.

    • @martyjones5750
      @martyjones5750 Před 5 měsíci +1

      ..same.. a few days after my husband died..my 2 year old granddaughter was eating dinner in her high chair and started waving at the darkened window.. I asked who was she waving at.?. she said grandpa..✨.. I have soo much hope❤

  • @patricianegron8318
    @patricianegron8318 Před 8 měsíci +1833

    My grandmother passed away when my mom was only 14 years old. A few days before my mom passed away she was calling out to her mom saying "Mama, mama and also told me that she was seeing many angels surrounding her bed. A few days later she passed away.
    There's no doubt in my mind that she's in heaven with her mom and Jesus. No more pain, no more tears. I'll see my mom again some day.

    • @suzieparis6821
      @suzieparis6821 Před 8 měsíci +19

      My mom too❤️

    • @ellenbrandman7724
      @ellenbrandman7724 Před 8 měsíci +22

      What a beautiful story about your grandmother! She must have been a godly lady to have had all those angel near her. I’m sure you can’t wait to meet her!

    • @anitaspencer1734
      @anitaspencer1734 Před 8 měsíci +16

      God bless all three of you! How beautiful! How miraculous!❤️😭😊

    • @True_Crime_Fanatic_
      @True_Crime_Fanatic_ Před 8 měsíci

      Where is the happy ending there really isn't one

    • @JackieGumbs-mt3px
      @JackieGumbs-mt3px Před 8 měsíci +11

      That's so beautiful heaven awaits us in Jesus name amen.

  • @kellicunningham5531
    @kellicunningham5531 Před měsícem +2

    I love these videos…my dad experienced visioning when he was actively dying…it was the most beautiful thing that I have ever had the opportunity to experience…at one point he lifted his arms as if he were flying…when my sister asked him, he motioned up towards the heavens…when she asked if he was gaining his wings, he nodded his head in agreement…most beautiful thing-he had been too weak to even speak the last few days but he was able to move his arms, like Angel wings fluttering…

  • @amb817
    @amb817 Před 11 dny +1

    This makes me tear up. So many emotions in this video ❤

  • @malcolmr3
    @malcolmr3 Před 8 měsíci +563

    I hope and pray that it’s my wife that comes for me. I miss her and can’t wait to see her again.

    • @6Jenne6La6Flaca6
      @6Jenne6La6Flaca6 Před 8 měsíci +22

      She will ❤ Love shines brightly on the other side, she can feel your love like a lighthouse in the dead of night. As soon as you reach that "in between" state where the veil thins and you can see a little bit on the other side, she will come to you. Her and all of those who passed who loved you too

    • @vickym2346
      @vickym2346 Před 8 měsíci +4

      She will❤️❤️

    • @mr.clean419
      @mr.clean419 Před 8 měsíci +20

      She will. Damn I’m crying

    • @vickym2346
      @vickym2346 Před 8 měsíci +4

      @@mr.clean419 all her videos make me cry 🤣

    • @vickym2346
      @vickym2346 Před 8 měsíci +2

      @@mr.clean419 *Hugs*🤗

  • @sheiladuncan1027
    @sheiladuncan1027 Před 8 měsíci +1660

    When my uncle passed he said he saw a beautiful angel in the corner by the door a few days earlier, then in the day he died he exclaimed his deceased wife's name and said, " It's about time you got here ! " He passed within the hour.
    Then again, my Mom has had several visits during rough episodes from her father who always told her, " No. It's not your time. You have a bit further to go." Three times now we have BOTH heard her deceased husband calling her name, and once she heard " Are you coming ?" to which she responded NO ! She's 92 now and still doing well. Mowed her pasture last month with her John Deer tractor.

    • @SS-hw9vu
      @SS-hw9vu Před 8 měsíci +48

      Sounds like the father and husband still have that in-law relationship 😉 My hat's off to your Mom. My goal is to be as healthy as her when I'm in my 90's! God bless🚜

    • @Idc99982
      @Idc99982 Před 8 měsíci +22

      You have the coolest Mom ever. I hope I'm just like her in my 90s. God bless your family

    • @stephenvanburen1818
      @stephenvanburen1818 Před 8 měsíci +18

      ​@@SS-hw9vumy goal is to make it past 50 as I am dieing now and I'm only 43.

    • @Katch.22
      @Katch.22 Před 8 měsíci +1

      That's incredible !

    • @etarose
      @etarose Před 8 měsíci

      😊.

  • @FrancineRomo-jb8dw
    @FrancineRomo-jb8dw Před 17 dny +1

    This nurse handled this so beautifully

  • @user-xd2sx9yw6j
    @user-xd2sx9yw6j Před 6 měsíci +254

    I just saw this for the first time. Before my grandmother passed, she kept asking for her purse because granddad was there to take her home. He passed 20 years earlier.

  • @alissabee5923
    @alissabee5923 Před 8 měsíci +213

    Lady I was taking care of, we used to talk about who she thought would come get her. The day she passed she opened her eyes and looked past her daughter and just smiled and giggled. It was a child laugh for sure, I believe it was her dad. ❤

    • @o.O-still-O.O-confused-O.o
      @o.O-still-O.O-confused-O.o Před 8 měsíci

      It was probably drug induced hallucinations before she was humanely euthanized after her seizable assets were exhausted. Some states still have legislation still set up for that type of shit.

    • @o.O-still-O.O-confused-O.o
      @o.O-still-O.O-confused-O.o Před 8 měsíci

      Mine has legislation specifically banning it, but some of the out of state doctors still like to argue when I encourage them to provide competent treatment.

    • @SuiteGal
      @SuiteGal Před 6 měsíci

      Of all of the comments, this one got me! Giggling like a little girl again.

    • @catoniner
      @catoniner Před 2 měsíci

      @@o.O-still-O.O-confused-O.obanning what?

  • @lcreager6231
    @lcreager6231 Před 25 dny +1

    So beautifully done. Thank you for sharing this perspective. ❤

  • @chontelleenglish
    @chontelleenglish Před 4 měsíci +1

    These always get me sobbing..... the work tou do is amazing ❤

  • @KBelle808
    @KBelle808 Před 5 měsíci +650

    I'm about to be 41 and I'm dying... I speak with my Dad and Gran every day... He died 6 years ago she died 2 years ago. I can't wait to be with them again 🙏♥️
    What you do is so important.

    • @evealehkz3943
      @evealehkz3943 Před 4 měsíci +36

      ❤😢 I am happy you get to talk to your dad and gran everyday. I can’t imagine what it must be like to know your time is coming soon. If you don’t mind, could you please let this stranger know you are okay? 🥹 I get so depressed sometimes.

    • @ShipperTrash
      @ShipperTrash Před 3 měsíci +28

      I hope you'll be in a better place and that you'll spend the rest of your life with satisfaction and happiness, surrounded by love ❤

    • @KBelle808
      @KBelle808 Před 2 měsíci +12

      @@ShipperTrash that's very sweet. Thank you ✌️🫶

    • @KBelle808
      @KBelle808 Před 2 měsíci +45

      @@evealehkz3943 I'm ok hun. I am ready and I'm so loved and supported... The world is a bit crazy right now but take a good long deep breath bcuz I know life is going to change for the better... I just know ♥️✨ depression is hard I know... Hang in there cuz you might miss the beauty of what's to come ✌️♥️🌻

    • @laurabarber6697
      @laurabarber6697 Před měsícem +13

      💝🙏🏻💝 God bless you Dear One.