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  • Bridezillas get humbled in 10 seconds or less - REACTION
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    Hey fam! 🌟 Grab your snacks and buckle up because we've got a wild ride ahead! 💍🎢 In this epic showdown, we're throwing shade at the Bridezillas - yes, those mythical creatures who thought they were untouchable. Spoiler alert: they're not! 🚫👰 Watch these divas go from "I do" to "Oh no she didn't" in just 10 seconds flat! 😂🕰️ It's a humbling experience like a wedding cake face plant, and you don't want to miss it! Get ready for the tea to be spilled and the laughter to be unleashed. 🔥🍰✨ #BridezillaBeatdown #WeddingRealityCheck #HumbledIn10Secs 😘👰🎉
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  • @CharlotteDobre
    @CharlotteDobre  Před 5 měsíci +3876

    Last video of the year! It's been a wild 2023, thank you to everyone who tuned in and made this my best year EVER. Just a heads up that I will be reducing uploads in January to 3 times a week on Wednesday, Friday and Sunday. There will be no video tomorrow or the next day. I know a lot of you love the daily uploads but I've been pushing myself really hard these last few months. I need a break so I can come back better than ever. Thank you for understanding and Happy New Year!

    • @ryliebell4892
      @ryliebell4892 Před 5 měsíci +56

      Love you Charlotte ❤❤
      See you next year 🎉

    • @meowiestwo
      @meowiestwo Před 5 měsíci +63

      Enjoy your break Charlotte! You deserve it after serving us petty realness on the daily. Happy New Year!

    • @danielleottway9431
      @danielleottway9431 Před 5 měsíci +31

      Thank you for all you do for us! Rest rest rest Queen! You've more than earned it!!!!

    • @mary_vids
      @mary_vids Před 5 měsíci +26

      Happy New Year Charlotte 👑 I will be ever grateful to have stumbled upon your videos on FB and hunted you down on CZcams lol.
      You are a vibe and I look forward to more videos however few they are because you make my day. So Thank You❤❤❤
      Stay safe Petty one.
      Cheers🥂

    • @paranormalelizabeth
      @paranormalelizabeth Před 5 měsíci +14

      Take time for yourself Charlotte. Each upload will be all the more special. ❤️ Happy New Year to you and Mike and all my fellow potatoes.

  • @WeedGrandma
    @WeedGrandma Před 5 měsíci +3719

    Had to miss a close friends wedding because I was 38 weeks pregnant. The day of their wedding the bride and groom came by, cooked me lunch, and just pampered me since I couldn’t really leave the house. I cried and tried to give them a gift but they turned around and gave my husband and i $500 because “we have everything we need, you have a little one”
    I, of course, did the same thing when she got pregnant with their first.

    • @glamoursangel
      @glamoursangel Před 5 měsíci +266

      This is actually really sweet, and it kind of made me tear up.❤

    • @nicoledavis9528
      @nicoledavis9528 Před 5 měsíci +78

      Love love love this!!! ❤❤❤

    • @emilyantus2025
      @emilyantus2025 Před 5 měsíci +110

      That's amazing. What an incredible couple! Aww I love that friendship for you!

    • @mysterylovescompany2657
      @mysterylovescompany2657 Před 5 měsíci +73

      These are the friends all decent, kind, humble ppl deserve. I'm sure you earned them. ❤

    • @silvermoon9762
      @silvermoon9762 Před 5 měsíci +47

      that there are some great friends! I'm currently 34 weeks pregnant and now crying over how sweet and caring your friends are 😭🥹

  • @porcelina956
    @porcelina956 Před 5 měsíci +2508

    I feel bad for the Groom in a coma who risked his life to save a baby only to have his own bride to be describe a baby as "baggage" and gaslight someone into going to Vegas.

    • @NXGGLOBALPRODUCTIONS
      @NXGGLOBALPRODUCTIONS Před 5 měsíci +93

      True, but things worked out for him too! 😊

    • @PrincessQ-fj9ly
      @PrincessQ-fj9ly Před 5 měsíci +117

      Me too. But hey, better 5 years wasted than 50 years wasted and besides, he got a beautiful family with a new loving wife and 4 adorable children in exchange. 😊 So things worked out well for him in the end. ❤

    • @solene2014
      @solene2014 Před 5 měsíci +10

      ​@@PrincessQ-fj9ly ta photo de profil est trop mignonne toi aussi tu es une enfant 😊

    • @strengthincompassion
      @strengthincompassion Před 5 měsíci +6

      Period

    • @cc1526
      @cc1526 Před 5 měsíci +36

      Interesting you say it like that. Maybe the bride had some kind of personal vendetta against babies because she “blames” a baby for injuring her husband, him having to go through PT, and having to postpone the wedding. I didn’t think about that possibility until you put it that way. No way someone describes a new born as baggage to their friend without having a personal issue. I really dislike kids and even I would never say something that grotesque. It’s a crazy theory, but she sounds crazy enough for it to be possible.

  • @thelostviking9998
    @thelostviking9998 Před 5 měsíci +667

    I was the best man at my best friends wedding. When I walked up to give the speak I unrolled this huge rolled up piece of paper that was 60 meters long ( picture the guy in a medieval cartoon about to announce the king who has 100 different titles) then just said congratulations you two are meant for each other and I hope to one day find what you have. Raise your glasses for the bride and groom. That was it.

  • @Caro-uj9rr
    @Caro-uj9rr Před 5 měsíci +159

    When my best friend got married she was 36 weeks pregnant and, unfortunately, I couldn't attend the wedding because I was also pregnant and got Covid the week before. And even though this woman was very pregnant and it was her wedding, she and her husband left their own party to come to my house, leave food from the buffet at my front door and have a chat through the window, all because they really wanted me at their wedding. And that's just one of the many reasons why she is my best friend and the godmother of my child. She's amazing and I couldn't be happier that our children get to grow up together ♥

    • @oliviamehrer6844
      @oliviamehrer6844 Před 5 měsíci +8

      Oh that’s so wholesome and cute 🥹

    • @GingeRenee
      @GingeRenee Před měsícem +2

      Your very lucky, please treasure that friendship always. I would love to have a friend in life like that. 😊

  • @LadyLuna
    @LadyLuna Před 5 měsíci +3309

    The roleplay was *chef’s kiss*. Also, I just can’t understand people who think it’s okay to ask others to change their bodies just because of wedding pictures. The audacity!

    • @Good.Morning.Petty.Potatoes
      @Good.Morning.Petty.Potatoes Před 5 měsíci +108

      Have they never heard of photo shop? 😂

    • @what_equals_42
      @what_equals_42 Před 5 měsíci +23

      I really hope Charlotte does that again in the future. It was so much fun.

    • @Kris_Si2
      @Kris_Si2 Před 5 měsíci

      Absolute ZERO chance that mole story is real. I’ve had moles removed several times purely for vanity reasons so 100% out of pocket costs, not covered by insurance. The most expensive one was $250. I don’t care if you go to top flight A1 cosmetic surgeon of the world, nobody is charging $10k. And more obviously, nobody is paying that randomly to their wife’s friend because, duh, photoshop.
      That girl made a TikTok video so she could point out her mole to let everyone know how much she “LiKeS HeR apPeRanCe dESpiTe hEr FLaWs 🤪”

    • @jesclifford88
      @jesclifford88 Před 5 měsíci

      @@kevinkent6351what a hideous comment! Sometimes you can’t remove them for safety reasons and some people aren’t so fxcking vain!! It would fully be covered up by makeup also. You sound vile. Makes sense your names Kevin 😂

    • @Good.Morning.Petty.Potatoes
      @Good.Morning.Petty.Potatoes Před 5 měsíci +2

      @@kevinkent6351 What a gross comment. 🤢 You should remove your comment.

  • @igeorgoudi
    @igeorgoudi Před 5 měsíci +1224

    I am glad the firefighter got a normal wife after the first one, especially after saving a human that his " first bride" called so easily baggage.

    • @BrianAndresScott
      @BrianAndresScott Před 5 měsíci +14

      Me too

    • @Jeff-ok6dr
      @Jeff-ok6dr Před 5 měsíci +27

      He dodged a bullet

    • @what_equals_42
      @what_equals_42 Před 5 měsíci +73

      Talk about opposites. He was willing to die for a baby he didn't know, she couldn't even sacrifice having one friend at her bachelorette for the wellbeing of a baby who should have been her honorary niece/nephew. I'm sorry that poor guy had to spend 5 years with a self-obsessed jerk, and I hope his new wife is as good a person as he is.

    • @meganchambers8108
      @meganchambers8108 Před 5 měsíci

      Aside from just being a massive hero, I bet he's also FIIIINE. Bride is dumb af.

    • @jesclifford88
      @jesclifford88 Před 5 měsíci +32

      Im just hoping she didn’t benefit from divorcing him. What a horrible woman!

  • @theweyrd
    @theweyrd Před 5 měsíci +483

    Just gave birth to my own daughter, at 5 days postpartum taking a shower was about all the excitement I wanted or needed. That bride.. unbelievable.

    • @Ottermamapoeia
      @Ottermamapoeia Před 4 měsíci +20

      I was still in the hospital five days after my first... Lol

    • @hannahxx17
      @hannahxx17 Před 3 měsíci +18

      Shes also the kind of person that if she ever has a child will be mad that the baby shower gifts are for the baby and not for her

    • @jennifersilves4195
      @jennifersilves4195 Před 3 měsíci +15

      It's been decades since my last baby and yes.
      No-one is partying after giving birth.

    • @isabelleblanchet3694
      @isabelleblanchet3694 Před měsícem +6

      Partying when you have trouble walking, a baby wanting to nurse every 45min, and are bleeding like a super heavy mega period... so much fun...

    • @Sonnenanbeterin1991
      @Sonnenanbeterin1991 Před měsícem +1

      she can be traumatized but what she said... its a nogo who said this about a baby ?

  • @genxrants
    @genxrants Před 4 měsíci +261

    There was (and still is, I think) a trend of fictional stories masquerading as TikTok drama. Sometimes it was just two actors, but most of the time, it involved a group of friends. I suspect the Wedding back and forth was one of those "dramas."

    • @mandidc9975
      @mandidc9975 Před 4 měsíci +23

      Yeah, no way that's real.

    • @whimsysmith2835
      @whimsysmith2835 Před 4 měsíci +34

      The part that makes me sure is that ANYONE criticized the guest at all. Not to mention her “it was just a blanket” admission, too hilarious to be real.

    • @fester6799
      @fester6799 Před 3 měsíci +11

      Some people are shameless tho I know a ex couple who had booked a holiday the guy (who paid) was hospitalised due to illness and the woman decided to go on holiday anyway. Still worked out in the end he left her for his nurse lol

    • @kellidinit3725
      @kellidinit3725 Před 3 měsíci +2

      I think so too.

    • @insertfunnyname9763
      @insertfunnyname9763 Před 2 měsíci +5

      Pretty sure it's not real because it sounds like a story I'd make up. I like making up really goofy stories when I'm with my friends and that wedding story is genuinely something I would make up at tell them about lmao

  • @alyseceleste
    @alyseceleste Před 5 měsíci +1007

    The “5 hour between cocktails and dinner” happened to me too. Everyone went across the street to a restaurant for dinner and drinks because the bride took photos for FOUR HOURS!

    • @jydeinden
      @jydeinden Před 4 měsíci +87

      I think I would have just left the wedding... I mean who on earth wants to sit and do nothing for 4 hours?

    • @naylas3908
      @naylas3908 Před 4 měsíci +37

      That’s crazy! In my country, the ceremony is in the morning, then pictures, then reception with lots and lots of appetizers, great quality and hot if they have to be (we’re European after all). They may have a couple speeches at the wedding, but not necessarily. Dinner is ALWAYS served at a reasonable hour, and the food is usually great. Usually speeches and sketches are after dinner. Again, we’re European, food is important. 😂 The dessert may be after the dinner and funny skits, and after the dessert, the party starts.
      I don’t like weddings, but at least ours have great food and we don’t have to wait for it. 😂

    • @cw7147
      @cw7147 Před 4 měsíci +28

      I was just about to post! Pigs in a blanket and "little biscuits" is not enough to sustain adults (who are likely drinking) all day until dinner

    • @BasedSockHead007
      @BasedSockHead007 Před 4 měsíci +16

      What time did the reception friggin start like 10 pm 😂 got DAMN

    • @BasedSockHead007
      @BasedSockHead007 Před 4 měsíci +7

      ​@naylas3908 my bestie (hired photographer the whole day) did pics FIRST, which is HELLA smart.
      1. First look that's perfect for you and spouse with minimal crying because they can get the bride before the mascara turns into the black Nile all down your face lol
      2. Not a ceremonies worth of crying, as some ceremonies can be long and with no one to hover and fix makeup, it's gunna be all cakey and weird and smeary, then yall can literally hug every guest as they make their way to the venue, maybe take a couple silly pics or something fun, or fuck it, skip aby extra all together!
      3. Guests don't have to wait hours and YOU'LL be able to...guess what....ENJOY COCKTAIL HOUR! ❤ which imo ends up being th3 best part and sadly for my step sister they wrapped up as she got to the venue :c

  • @IrieRogue
    @IrieRogue Před 5 měsíci +512

    Lmfao, when she said "a short 5 hours" I laughed my ass off. Glad she was saying it in gest.

    • @jewels2799
      @jewels2799 Před 5 měsíci +56

      You didn't do it on purpose, but thank you for the laugh. Ingest means take something by mouth, in jest means in a joking matter. Still, accidental hilarity 😂

    • @eduardocruz4341
      @eduardocruz4341 Před 5 měsíci +8

      Heck, on a normal day breakfast and lunch is like 5 hours apart if you have breakfast from 6 to 7 and lunch is usually between 11 and 1...lol

    • @BeeWhistler
      @BeeWhistler Před 5 měsíci +6

      @@jewels2799Topical pun. But yeah, it was a nice lil satire.

    • @Rosarium2007
      @Rosarium2007 Před 5 měsíci +7

      @@eduardocruz4341yeah but they were saying the cocktail hour food was minimal. So think of maybe a bit of bread, possibly with meat inside, as what you get a couple of for breakfast along with a bunch of booze. You are going to be hungry sooner than five hours. And if it was like a two o’clock wedding, people may not have had a full meal since noon and if cocktails are 4 to 5 then dinner is after nine or even 10, that’s a long time without a full meal.

    • @one_mel_swoop
      @one_mel_swoop Před 5 měsíci +3

      Right? I was about to lose my mind.

  • @KisaRinny
    @KisaRinny Před 4 měsíci +126

    My bachelorette party was literally just me, my bridesmaids and my mom watching romcoms. We ordered pizza, did each other's make up and played board games. Best party I ever had ❤

    • @jupiterresident1537
      @jupiterresident1537 Před měsícem +1

      I know right! It's simple things in life and the people who make best memories!

  • @spacecoyote55
    @spacecoyote55 Před měsícem +15

    Them bridesmaids who ditched the witch and supported the new mom are humanity at its best. Beautiful story amongst some prickly ones.

  • @FanStoryVideoStudios
    @FanStoryVideoStudios Před 5 měsíci +829

    Those bridesmaids who showed up to help the new mom are real gems, we love to see it 💖

  • @wilwyman451
    @wilwyman451 Před 5 měsíci +667

    A Navy buddy married a girl he met while we were in France. They had their wedding in Cannes and the ceremony was shorter than a shotgun wedding. The reception afterwards was about 10 hours of non stop food and drink with never ending fun. Best wedding I have ever been to.

    • @alloallie
      @alloallie Před 5 měsíci +20

      In France, it's not legal if it isn't a city hall wedding with the mayor as your officiant, so yep !

    • @roksanamakowska-michalak369
      @roksanamakowska-michalak369 Před 5 měsíci +24

      Ah, fellow Europeans know how to handle a wedding and host an amazing party for family and friends ;) I think that is a huge mental shift from North American ppl - they believe a wedding is for them and they're center of the universe at the expense of own guests, while Europeans, we tend to treat wedding as social gathering where our guests are equally important (if not more important) as bride and groom, hence the delicious and plentiful hosting plus superb entertaining. As it should be ;)

    • @AgrianRamos
      @AgrianRamos Před 5 měsíci +13

      @@roksanamakowska-michalak369Mexico is part of North America so it’s not in North America only in the USA n Canada they are boring AF! We have 3 days weddings

  • @KaytieHltz18
    @KaytieHltz18 Před 5 měsíci +80

    At my sisters wedding she wasnt the bridezilla but her husbands family were terrible! They took half of the food and put it in tupperware before the food was served all because they had a party the next day and didnt want to buy food. Almost all the guests were hungry and we had to get food after the wedding. It was ridiculous!

    • @schrdngrskat3847
      @schrdngrskat3847 Před 4 měsíci +10

      Wowww.... That's so selfish! They better have paid for it!

    • @KaytieHltz18
      @KaytieHltz18 Před 4 měsíci +5

      @@schrdngrskat3847 they didn't

    • @lizardking5210
      @lizardking5210 Před měsícem +4

      @@KaytieHltz18ugh that’s shitty

  • @sirgab_a_lot262
    @sirgab_a_lot262 Před 4 měsíci +177

    I found it hilarious when she was trying to justify the cold pigs in the blanket but then she tried to explain that some of the pigs in the blanket didn't have the pig part in them and I quote everybody loves the blanket part instead of the pig part😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @DiamondNYC
    @DiamondNYC Před 5 měsíci +562

    The bridesmaids (especially the ones that didn’t even know OP), showing up with diapers, other gifts and support are freaking ICONIC!!! They sound like an absolutely amazing group of women!! I LOVE this story and I love how the fireman found true love in the end and how the selfish C word bride received karma!! 😁😁😁

    • @BrianAndresScott
      @BrianAndresScott Před 5 měsíci +13

      Well said I agree with you 💯

    • @Meanne77
      @Meanne77 Před 5 měsíci +18

      You have to wonder how all these great women could be first with the bride in the first place! Bride was the black sheep of the group i guess...

    • @PrincessQ-fj9ly
      @PrincessQ-fj9ly Před 5 měsíci +8

      Same here. Don't you just love it when Karma does its work? 😊 I certainly do. 😊

    • @DiamondNYC
      @DiamondNYC Před 5 měsíci +1

      @@BrianAndresScott Thank you, and Happy New Year! ♥️

    • @DiamondNYC
      @DiamondNYC Před 5 měsíci +2

      @@Meanne77 I was thinking the same thing. Happy New Year! ♥️

  • @mrtrick8389
    @mrtrick8389 Před 3 měsíci +38

    If she thinks pigs in a blanket is cool for a wedding, then maybe for the Honeymoon they just rent a room at a holiday inn and eat at the Denny's buffet 😂

  • @kaidark3360
    @kaidark3360 Před 5 měsíci +58

    About the wedding in which there wasn't much food between the 5 hours: I attended a wedding as a little stand up photographer. Basically, I just stood there and took three photos, which printed out in a little printer and I cut them and gave it to them.
    So with this wedding, before all the lovely speeches started, people got food before hand. And this was an ACTUAL decent amount of food. So they didn't have to sit there and listen to speeches while going hungry. (Also the wedding was so pretty and the speeches were amazing. I almost cried 🤣)

  • @jomc6734
    @jomc6734 Před 5 měsíci +177

    If I were at a wedding and had to wait 5 hours between cocktail hour and dinner, I probably would have left to try to find food.

    • @Traci2000
      @Traci2000 Před 5 měsíci +13

      I've never in my life spent 5 hours at a wedding. Not even my own, lol.

    • @Zaft_K
      @Zaft_K Před 5 měsíci +8

      Many years ago, we attended a family wedding out of state. At the time, our children were 6 and 4. The rehearsal dinner the night before started with cocktails (no food) at 6 pm. When there was no sign of dinner starting by 7:30, I ordered food for my hungry and tired children. After they ate, I took them back to the hotel so they could go to sleep. Never got any food myself. The early afternoon wedding was lovely, but again there were cocktails, no food, for several hours before dinner. This time, we picked up some sandwiches after the wedding and went back to the hotel for naps. I didn't make it to the reception (kids slept for hours), but my husband did. The kids and I watched "Shrek" on the TV and ordered a pizza.

    • @suzanneevans1771
      @suzanneevans1771 Před 5 měsíci +3

      @@Traci2000 I have - we drove 6 hours to get there, the ceremony was nearly 2 hours, another 2 hours just waiting for the couple to show up to the reception, nearly 2 more before there was any food. Afterwards, because we were the furthest travelled, the couple invited us back to their home, where they decided it would be great to sit down and watch the video of the 2 hour-long ceremony!!🤪

    • @emmrose1
      @emmrose1 Před 5 měsíci

      Check the bushes. Lol

    • @tsugima6317
      @tsugima6317 Před 5 měsíci

      Or Door dash!

  • @StingRaeTheSingingSiren
    @StingRaeTheSingingSiren Před 5 měsíci +399

    I love how those bridesmaids became the village his wife needed 1 week postpartum! That’s amazing! And so glad that the hero finally got the love and life he deserved. 👏

  • @lilash6041
    @lilash6041 Před 5 měsíci +11

    8:48 this story... that girl just gained all of them as bffs. How awesome.

  • @SkaySunIvy
    @SkaySunIvy Před měsícem +5

    The speeches at my brother and sister-in-law's wedding happened DURING dinner close to the end. It was nice because everyone ate first or were still finishing their food when the speeches started

  • @nutty77
    @nutty77 Před 5 měsíci +262

    God, after I gave birth to my son, I bled heavily for 2 weeks, then another 4 weeks of light bleeding. Partying would have been a definite NO

    • @krystal6137
      @krystal6137 Před 5 měsíci +21

      Yes, no one told me about the bleeding afterwards! I didn’t expect it, especially after a cesarean but it was awful and compounded by the fact that I have a bleeding disorder. New moms take 4-6 weeks recovery for a reason.

    • @Jerseybytes2
      @Jerseybytes2 Před 5 měsíci +11

      @@krystal6137 I remember it well. it was the "present" that kept on giving.

    • @pixel1577
      @pixel1577 Před 5 měsíci +22

      @@krystal6137Nobody told me either!!! Boy was I in for a surprise! I feel like the reality of postpartum should be talked about way more

    • @neocat81
      @neocat81 Před 5 měsíci +9

      sil just had a baby Dec 6th. they did not travel this Christmas. we saw them on zoom (they are in Indiana, the rest of our fam is in Utah and her fam is in Colorado)

    • @christinedehn3257
      @christinedehn3257 Před 5 měsíci

      I've read that the open wound left from childbirth is about the size if a dinner plate. If it was visible and on the outside of your body no one would be expecting you to go and party with friends.@@ndawn90

  • @SahrishRawra
    @SahrishRawra Před 5 měsíci +413

    At one wedding we attended, my poor dad was sat right next to the speakers. Everyone was visibly bored and tired of the speeches. Kids were complaining, and everyone was hungry. When the 8th person went up to speak my dad said out loud 'WHO CARES!?' and put his head in his hands. I think about 5 tables around us burst into laughter. I ducked under the table.

    • @mysterylovescompany2657
      @mysterylovescompany2657 Před 5 měsíci +58

      This is why we kept our speeches to my Dad, husband, my bestie & my husband's Mum, & gave them a 5 minute limit.
      You never want your wedding to feel like your annual corporate meeting.

    • @emo7636
      @emo7636 Před 5 měsíci +19

      This is hilarious, your dad sounds like a hero.

    • @ridinwithjake
      @ridinwithjake Před 5 měsíci +1

      *was sitting

    • @H1GH.FL1Y3R
      @H1GH.FL1Y3R Před 5 měsíci +8

      😂😂 you're really here correcting people's grammar?

    • @Chloe__________xx
      @Chloe__________xx Před 4 měsíci +2

      I understand your dad. He’s a real one 😂

  • @anime_lover_2139
    @anime_lover_2139 Před 2 měsíci +7

    She squealed so loud for the bridesmaids showing up for the baby that I got an ad 💀

  • @kismetcaffet9862
    @kismetcaffet9862 Před měsícem +4

    The last few bits is precisely what I love about the internet.

  • @belladharma
    @belladharma Před 5 měsíci +546

    I feel like we did our wedding wrong after listening to so many wedding-related episodes. Beach wedding that cost under $1k, my dress was like a hundred bucks, and my FIL paid for dinner directly after at a local steak-and-seafood restaurant right near the beach, then we just continued the honeymoon at the same beach destination. And most guests stayed, too, so we all hung several times during the week 🤷‍♀️ No drama, no crazy requests, nothing. I think we did it wrong, but I still loved it 🤷‍♀️

    • @tellmeaboutit9975
      @tellmeaboutit9975 Před 5 měsíci +33

      We live about 2 hours from St. George Island in Fl. My cousin got married at a lighthouse privately then just had a reception on the island. It was awesome.

    • @saucieq
      @saucieq Před 5 měsíci +19

      Same here, 20 guests $100 dress and local deli buffet and small cake!

    • @oHalloweenie
      @oHalloweenie Před 5 měsíci +40

      No you did it right

    • @wisygirlywopitty770
      @wisygirlywopitty770 Před 5 měsíci +32

      Simple mariage are actually the best. No pressure. Precious moment with loved ones. You did a right and good mariage 😊

    • @lunamia__09ram
      @lunamia__09ram Před 5 měsíci +18

      DID NOT DO IT WRONG.. I WANT THE SAME THING.. my wedding ** reception ** afterwords. I want like a 4 day destination wedding .. who w.e comes 👏👏 if u dnt wanna stay all 4 dayz leave early . I ant *!!! And everyone still gets a vacation
      Edit. [[ p.s it would be destination wedding cuz I live in Chicago.. so Florida Beach is glamorous 😊 ]]

  • @DariasDealer
    @DariasDealer Před 5 měsíci +394

    My sister's wedding was popping. She also called me to include me in me not being in the wedding party due to my severe anxiety. No one was upset, she told me to still buy a black dress to be included in all the photos. I was very happy with how my sister handled everything. Definitely not a bridezilla

    • @happylittlevibe
      @happylittlevibe Před 5 měsíci +17

      That's so sweet of her so you felt comfortable just being in the pictures just as you were a part of it?

    • @DariasDealer
      @DariasDealer Před 5 měsíci +30

      @@happylittlevibe honestly walking down the aisle, it was two looks.. traditional African and traditional American dresses, a dance with bridesmaids and groomsmen...she knew I have fun but being in the aisle with all eyes looking...I can't do it. She sent me the website I could use to pick a dress and I'm still in the bridesmaid and bridal party photos...I just wasn't forced or guilted about not wanting to be in the actual ceremony. My older sister is about the only one that gets I have anxiety and I'm AuAdhd. Growing up in a black family my dad never believed in any type of mental health stuff and forced me to participate in all events. Used to call me antisocial.

    • @jamescurfman3284
      @jamescurfman3284 Před 5 měsíci +16

      @@DariasDealer Your sister really is awesome, looking out for you like that. I hope you can find a way to manage your anxiety better. Some people learn to, or so I have heard. I have not managed to make my own any less bothersome. But I hope you can find a way for yourself. :)

    • @DariasDealer
      @DariasDealer Před 5 měsíci +8

      @@jamescurfman3284 I'm 37 so I'm finally at the point where I just don't do anything I don't want to.

    • @jamescurfman3284
      @jamescurfman3284 Před 5 měsíci +2

      @@DariasDealer That would help.
      I actually meant about putting yourself out there.
      What about the things I actually want to do, but I already know would make me anxious? How do I push through that?
      If you ever manage to get over that particular hump for anything, please share with the rest of us. Hope can be a motivator. :)

  • @lm13981
    @lm13981 Před 5 měsíci +14

    My friend had a bachelorette party in 2020 ( before the craziness started)when I was close to my due date. She was super cool about me missing the trip to Austin , I had an unscheduled c-section. I even sent some money to help cover some of her food and drinks. So grateful she wasn’t a bridezilla 💕😁

  • @lindabartholomew6435
    @lindabartholomew6435 Před 2 měsíci +3

    I'm so grateful that weddings in our area are beautiful, simple and a reasonable cost. No crazy bridesmaids parties, no alcohol, no expensive gigantic meals. Just family, love and refreshments. Money like that should be spent either on the honeymoon or a house. Your wedding is one day, but marriage is your life!!

  • @luckdragongirl
    @luckdragongirl Před 5 měsíci +504

    I have had two moles removed in the course of my life. Not for vanity, but because my grandmother had a mole similar to mine, and she died of melanoma when my dad was 6. My parents decided to have the largest mole removed when I was 10. The other one, I had removed at age 20. Anyway, having been through that process twice, the bride doesn't seem to realize that your skin has to heal after having the mole cut off. Even then, you can get a scar. My scar on my neck (that was my big mole) is about half the size of that large mole. It's very easy to see the scar.
    Also, why can't the bride just have the photograph get the mole out of her personal photos of the wedding? Probably less than $10K to add that edit to it. She can leave it for anyone she's giving the photos to. I don't get how her mole ruins everything.

    • @lotstodo
      @lotstodo Před 5 měsíci +34

      I had a small carcinoma removed from my neck and I reacted to the suture material. I have what looks like a small bite for a scar. If anyone asks I say it's a eel bite.

    • @erikarussell1142
      @erikarussell1142 Před 5 měsíci +2

      Yes, it does leave a pretty good scar. It makes no sense to force someone to go through any kind of body modification just to attend or participate in the wedding. Stupid dumb, people need to do better.

    • @catzie17
      @catzie17 Před 5 měsíci +20

      I have also had 2 moles removed. 1 looked like I got shot, the scar was so big, and the other looks like I got stabbed. The moles were smaller than the scars but given a family history of skin cancer, I don’t take risks.
      That bride was just being ugly and I hope the lady kept the money.

    • @what_equals_42
      @what_equals_42 Před 5 měsíci +19

      Yeah, mole removal is not a thing to treat lightly. I've got a gnarly-looking scar on my upper chest from a childhood mole removal, and every now and then someone will notice it and assume I'm a melanoma survivor. No, that's just what happens when you cut a big mole off a young child- the scar stretches as you grow up, with the added bonus in my case of crappy suture marks because decades ago no-one cared about minimising the scar. 😅

    • @OldJoeBlows
      @OldJoeBlows Před 5 měsíci +12

      I 85% think the story was bs. I too have had two removed. I love the internet bc ya all don’t know me. I was born with a raised mole on the lip of my who-ha. When I was five my mom had it removed. I remember it clearly, how scared and traumatizing it was to take off my tights and lay down with all those strangers 😢 I’m going to be 51 years old in a couple of weeks and I can feel how scared I was. And, it did scar! I have a scar on my who-ha! I’m definitely glad I don’t have that mole. Mom knew. The second does look like a bullet wound scar on my shoulder.
      So, yeah if it is true, she’d have a scar and they are freaks for asking.

  • @junecleaver8868
    @junecleaver8868 Před 5 měsíci +285

    Went to a $20k wedding 4 years ago. There was a cocktail “hour”, but hardly any food. They didn’t check id so underage was being served. And it was an open bar. Dinner took a long time to be served at the top of steep stairs. The number of young people throwing up was something!! Furniture was covered in vomit. Nobody could navigate the stairs. Some trashed mother let her kid destroy all the centerpieces. It was a mess.

    • @jewels2799
      @jewels2799 Před 5 měsíci +14

      I kinda wish I was there just to have a video to show the craziness. I bet someone would offer a large amount of money to get that video, especially since it was a 20k wedding. They wouldn't want embarrassing footage out there😂
      Edit: had to change the amount I had written 40K rather than 20K. Reason is still funny

    • @angelofmusic1992
      @angelofmusic1992 Před 5 měsíci +6

      lol I’ll take that over some other weddings I went to

    • @dominaevillae28
      @dominaevillae28 Před 5 měsíci +7

      A $20,000 wedding should have wristbands for the drinkers with their name printed on it & a dedicated person to check ids and actually put the wristband on the guest😱. I can’t imagine that won’t catch up with that facility eventually.

    • @mignalyortiz4589
      @mignalyortiz4589 Před 5 měsíci +9

      That's why people don't want kids at a wedding. Parents don't watch them.

    • @UsandEveryoneWeKnow
      @UsandEveryoneWeKnow Před 5 měsíci +5

      That's less than the average cost of a wedding in the UK. Were you saying it was a trashy cheap wedding, or an expensive one?

  • @A8T8T
    @A8T8T Před 5 měsíci +5

    To be quite honest, your “What did I just watch?!? I love it!!” Reaction was exactly how I felt when I saw one of your videos the first time 😂😍

  • @MissJaxxieD
    @MissJaxxieD Před 2 měsíci +2

    The wedding food in my hometown was always bomb! Usually served writing the 1st hour at the reception, rarely were there cocktail hours, and only the family and wedding party would stay for that.

  • @MochiSyrup
    @MochiSyrup Před 5 měsíci +331

    As someone who lives a decent way from Bayonne... Hearing someone call that a "destination wedding" is killing me 😂

    • @janedb85
      @janedb85 Před 5 měsíci +23

      Same here! Jersey girl born and raised, that had me HOWLING

    • @MochiSyrup
      @MochiSyrup Před 5 měsíci +11

      @@janedb85 me too. Proud jersey girl. I'm wheezing 🤣

    • @dominaevillae28
      @dominaevillae28 Před 5 měsíci +7

      Our wedding was a destination wedding in that the groom and I lived out of the contiguous 48 on two separate continents. If my inlaws hadn’t moved we would have flown my family to their location; we ended up having it in my home town because in involved flying the fewest amount of people and my family could do all the legwork.

    • @InteriorDesignStudent
      @InteriorDesignStudent Před 5 měsíci +2

      It looks heavily industrial.

    • @Jerseybytes2
      @Jerseybytes2 Před 5 měsíci +6

      @@ndawn90 that wedding might as well have been held in a parking lot in Newark. at least they wouldn't have to wait 3 hours for the boat cause they could just take the path train out of there and grab a slice of pizza in the city

  • @okcdog5439
    @okcdog5439 Před 5 měsíci +173

    Charlotte, as someone who is officially retired as of today, let me congratulate you on changing your schedule to something that will be more manageable for you. I found your channel not long ago and I've often wondered how many hours it must take to go through all those social media posts, find those that would make good content, film & edit your reactions and post them to CZcams - EVERY. SINGLE. DAY. I know you have help, but that schedule has to be grueling for everyone. I hope the schedule change will allow all of you to spend more time doing what you love with those you love.

    • @kaseymeier5944
      @kaseymeier5944 Před 5 měsíci +14

      Congratulations on your retirement! 🎉

    • @CharlotteDobre
      @CharlotteDobre  Před 5 měsíci +13

      Thank you so much for saying this and happy retirement!!!

  • @SkyesWorkshopEDU
    @SkyesWorkshopEDU Před 4 měsíci +3

    Omg sounds like the bridesmaids who showed up for Mom and baby are the sweetest

  • @muachelo7252
    @muachelo7252 Před 4 měsíci +16

    For the wedding food thing, we had amazing catering and buffet style at our wedding. Everyone loved the food and got as much as they wanted 👌 and we ate right away and did speeches while people were eating. Best day ever!

  • @QueenWendyLu
    @QueenWendyLu Před 5 měsíci +110

    Double hugs to the rogue bridesmaids. What a blessing to know who your friends are.

    • @KnawedOne
      @KnawedOne Před 5 měsíci +1

      Love the rogue bridesmaids

  • @aimeedazey8536
    @aimeedazey8536 Před 5 měsíci +257

    I feel like it would be soooooooo much more stressful to be a bridezilla than it would be to just be a nice person and have fun with the whole experience. It is supposed to be one of the happiest times of your life, after all.

    • @jamesfracasse8178
      @jamesfracasse8178 Před 5 měsíci +3

      True dat but to be brutally honest here this is not Disney world where everything and everyone goes smoothly.
      Life can and will sometimes throw a wrench 🔧🛠️ in the works so don't assume said Bride and/or groom will be all sunshine and unicorn 🦄 cause in reality things happen so deal with it or go home 🏠🏡 6:26

    • @lotstodo
      @lotstodo Před 5 měsíci +4

      I checked on my venue so many times before my wedding.

    • @DaninMaine
      @DaninMaine Před 5 měsíci +6

      Some people are addicted to stress and chaos.

    • @MrsWheezer
      @MrsWheezer Před 5 měsíci +6

      It can get pretty stressful planning a wedding. It seems like everyone has a strong opinion about what should happen. All I cared about was tying my life to my husband’s.
      I wound up outsourcing. 🤣
      You have opinions about the food (my mom)? Here’s the caterer’s number. They have the budget.
      You care about what we use to serve the cake (my husband)? Here’s the place where you can buy an engraved cake server.
      You care about the flowers (my mom)? Here’s the florist, budget and what I’m allergic to.
      Rehearsal dinner? Have fun, in-laws. Tell me when/where to be and who I’m inviting, and I will be there thankful and with a huge smile on my face.
      We’ve been married 24 years, and I still go with a ‘if you care so much, have at it’ philosophy. 🤣

    • @aimeedazey8536
      @aimeedazey8536 Před 5 měsíci +2

      @MrsWheezer I love this!! Absolutely perfect!!! 💯☺️

  • @tinygh0ul
    @tinygh0ul Před 4 měsíci +4

    You and the bride laughing in unison after she said “I think you should stop” got me
    Love your content - enjoy your much deserved break!

  • @Branwhin
    @Branwhin Před 5 měsíci +10

    AWWWW! Oh, I love those bridesmaids who showed up for the impromptu baby-shower bachelorette. SO adorable! And the bride ... WHEW. Yeah, Darlin' I get it that if you or your spouse has a dangerous job, that stuff is real and it's hard. But you knew that going in. YIKES. Happy New Year, Charlotte, family, and community!

  • @breannemartin4764
    @breannemartin4764 Před 5 měsíci +130

    I am a petty potato hear me roar! 😂❤🎉

  • @joellebrodeur1015
    @joellebrodeur1015 Před 5 měsíci +303

    After learning what I hated about weddings that I attended, I planned my wedding carefully with those things to steer clear of.
    My wedding was 5 hours total. 1 hr ceremony mass, immediately followed by cocktail hr with drinks and finger foods and only a 3 hr reception. We had a buffet of cuban food and other items that we knew our family and friends liked (yes, we asked a food preference months in advance to make the menu). We only had 35 guests tops, so this kept everything under control. We also had on the back of RSVP cards song requests. This was used to compile the playlist and people loved hearing their "jam" during the reception.

    • @lauraf4202
      @lauraf4202 Před 5 měsíci +43

      Ironically, this sounds like the sort of lovely event that should have been longer. X

    • @user-cc5gj5mo2r
      @user-cc5gj5mo2r Před 4 měsíci +18

      I love the song request idea!

    • @miovicdina7706
      @miovicdina7706 Před 4 měsíci

      ​@@lauraf4202I was thinking the same!

    • @miovicdina7706
      @miovicdina7706 Před 4 měsíci +7

      How lovely and thoughtful of you ❤

    • @addyrovirosa1800
      @addyrovirosa1800 Před 4 měsíci +3

      Omg as a Cubana I love that you had Cuban food. If I'm ever blessed with a wonderful person I would def serve Cuban food at our wedding.

  • @frigid4real
    @frigid4real Před 5 měsíci +5

    11:20 this is a skit/sarcasm. It's complete satire.

  • @BjorkL
    @BjorkL Před 27 dny

    "A short 5 hours after cocktail hour" with pigs in a blanket during cocktail hour is a LOOOOOONNNNNNGGGGGG time to wait! I would've shouted for joy too! I gets hangry sometimes.... 😂 11:47

  • @chynne33
    @chynne33 Před 5 měsíci +31

    The one with the bride trying to guilt the new mother to go to Vegas. The bride sounds like one of those people that would sue the family of the baby her (then) fiance saved and say it was their fault he was in a coma.

  • @NativeNYerChicHK
    @NativeNYerChicHK Před 5 měsíci +220

    We had a destination wedding and didn’t invite ANYONE 🤣 It’s what we wanted and we didn’t want anyone to feel bad if they couldn’t afford to attend so we fixed that by telling everyone they just weren’t invited 🤷🏻‍♀️

    • @luckdragongirl
      @luckdragongirl Před 5 měsíci +15

      That's perfectly valid. If I ever get married, my ideal wedding is at the courthouse. I don't like ceremonies and being in front of people like that. Just a nice courthouse wedding, a small party (maybe) with family and some friends at the house. That's it. I don't even want gifts or cash.

    • @DeannaJacksonDJsDelectables
      @DeannaJacksonDJsDelectables Před 5 měsíci +10

      The folks that could afford to come came to Jamaica with us for ours, and we had both a Zoom Meeting and I also did a TikTok live for the folks who couldn't come.

    • @anabltc
      @anabltc Před 5 měsíci +11

      Isn't that eloping

    • @NativeNYerChicHK
      @NativeNYerChicHK Před 5 měsíci +15

      @@anabltc Kinda, except it wasn’t a secret like eloping traditionally is.

    • @anabltc
      @anabltc Před 5 měsíci +10

      @@NativeNYerChicHK eloping with love, I like it 😀

  • @ZaraLovesDuo
    @ZaraLovesDuo Před 4 měsíci +6

    9:53
    Was not expecting that

  • @reddit_readings
    @reddit_readings Před 21 dnem +1

    The entitlement!!
    The mole is beautiful ❤❤ why not take the $10k and say, yes, it’s enough for my dream vacation 😂

  • @artemis543
    @artemis543 Před 5 měsíci +126

    I am team table 19!! Lol..
    The last wedding we attended was a mini destination wedding about 2-3hrs from the city. We had a get together with the bride prior and she asked if we have any suggestions for the wedding in general. The first thing we suggested was that she and her husband must eat breakfast, with snacks available during their preparation (HMU, dressing, picture taking). They prepared snacks before the ceremony which included a bottle of water, chocolate bars, and candies, and snacks/drinks/cocktails after the ceremony for the guests while waiting for the dinner reception.
    No one was hangry and everyone enjoyed and joined the program/games before dinner was served. Great wedding!!

  • @jbkoch96
    @jbkoch96 Před 5 měsíci +106

    My wedding had no cocktail hour, no speeches, none of that extra stuff. We had the ceremony. Right after was the reception and right after that the dance. Simple yet fun and beautiful.

    • @jbkoch96
      @jbkoch96 Před 5 měsíci +12

      Also we had no catering. Everything was made by my mom and family. It was kind of like a pot- luck. The place we were at had a no alcohol rule because it is a camp ground for children's bible school but I still get compliments 2 years later about how much people enjoyed it.

    • @TsundeRea
      @TsundeRea Před 5 měsíci +1

      We ate first then drank and danced and had speeches. It was great!

    • @jbkoch96
      @jbkoch96 Před 5 měsíci

      @@TsundeRea that sounds lovely

  • @evedaemonium2399
    @evedaemonium2399 Před 5 měsíci +2

    3:48; can you Imagine the bridezilla getting a Ty message Back saying "thank you so much, this will Definitely be enough. I'm off to remove a mole, Babe. Take care & have a wonderful wedding" BC that bridezilla IS THE MOLE! Mwahahahaha 😂

  • @littley-joming2582
    @littley-joming2582 Před 4 měsíci +2

    3:26 "No, not enough but thank you anyway!" :)

  • @bessieknox
    @bessieknox Před 5 měsíci +83

    I was at my baby brother's wedding and they forced me to make a speech they shoved the microphone in my face while I was crying, all I can say is I'm a blubbering freaking mess congratulations I'm so happy for you guys as I was crying tears of joy! They said that was the best speech throughout the wedding...😂😂😂🎉❤

    • @LazyIRanch
      @LazyIRanch Před 5 měsíci +5

      Aw Bessie, the people I've seen do the "ugly but happy" cry at weddings are my favorite people! I _know_ they are genuinely happy for the couple, and a sweet heartfelt, blubbering speech replete with mascara running and snot bubbles will always get me crying too!
      Never hold back when expressing joy, because it doesn't happen often enough. 🥲

  • @zeroplacestv
    @zeroplacestv Před 5 měsíci +48

    My wife's best friend had a destination wedding. Gave everyone over a years notice AND the people they really wanted there couldn't afford the trip, the bride paid for their airfare and resort room. THAT is what friendship is.

  • @paigechampagne2757
    @paigechampagne2757 Před 2 měsíci +1

    13:20, loved my mom's wedding there's was two speeches and everyone was eating the whole time and it was a taco bar like hell yeah no garbage 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

  • @wiolettajankowska1183
    @wiolettajankowska1183 Před 4 měsíci +5

    Charlotte if you ever have the chance to attend a Polish wedding in Poland, definitely take advantage of it. An amazing two-day adventure 😁

  • @Comrade_mommy
    @Comrade_mommy Před 5 měsíci +140

    I feel for that mother so hard. I literally ended up cutting off all my friends after I had a baby. I was like, I had a baby a week ago, no I’m not leaving her with my mom and going out drinking all night. Like I got the confusion bc I was The party girl before getting pregnant, but confusion and some disappointment is one thing. Calling me a buzzkill, boring, a bad friend; telling me I’ve changed and it’s not like I’m even a good mother, that’s a whole other fcking thing. (Especially since the one who told me I was a bad mother kept popping out babies and dumping them with her disabled mother before leaving to find a new man.)
    There’s a few events that teach you about who you’re hanging out with. Having a baby is one of them. I’m not even saying they were bad ppl, just immature & incredibly selfish. I have some empathy bc I didn’t even know how insane having a baby was. The insane hormones that nature smacks you upside your head with to ensure a bond. Like you go from, I just met this baby, it’s funny looking, to, I will kill anyone who looks at her sideways. Like even having other ppl hold her for to long makes you long to have your baby back. Like books don’t emphasize enough how insane that time after having a baby is.
    We also don’t have enough edu as a whole about the changes new parents, especially the mothers, can go through.

  • @barbaraboskat8038
    @barbaraboskat8038 Před 5 měsíci +67

    My son was recently Best Man at 2 weddings. The first wedding did speeches at the reception as usual, but they were kept short and sweet.😊 At the second wedding, they did the speeches at the rehearsal dinner, which was brilliant! That way guest weren’t waiting and hungry at the reception!

  • @wendyg.2664
    @wendyg.2664 Před 5 měsíci +1

    I loved the photo of Steven He popping up to say "Emotional what?" 🤣🤣

  • @audreyodipo9695
    @audreyodipo9695 Před 2 měsíci

    I love these bridezilla and AITA videos, they Crack me up! Some people really think their wedding day is their day to be absolutely rotten and people should just take it coz "it's my special day!" 😅😅😅

  • @izzyrainydayz
    @izzyrainydayz Před 5 měsíci +18

    If Table 19 happened at my wedding I would be laughing the rest of the night 😂

  • @Glitch_1000
    @Glitch_1000 Před 5 měsíci +77

    Wasn’t expecting the role play for the first story, Charlotte! What a treat! 🤣🤣❤️❤️ Happy New Years Eve, Petty Potatoes 🥳🥳🥳🥳

  • @themermaidstale5008
    @themermaidstale5008 Před 3 měsíci

    I like how you role played the event woman. She was pleasant and not arrogant or superior to the potential scammers. The OP’s last post was she expected the wedding party to show up all kitted out. Kitted out means dressed to the nine, in this case, for the wedding ceremony, gowned, coiffed and face full of cosmetics donate by a professional MUA. Bride, MOTB, MOH & all other attendants on the bride. Jajajajajajaja!

  • @Muddy_Mud_Pie
    @Muddy_Mud_Pie Před 5 měsíci +2

    12:36 honestly if I have a wedding if you wanna say something, write a letter and I’ll read it after the wedding- both me and my partner hates speeches

  • @iambored2094
    @iambored2094 Před 5 měsíci +115

    You acting out the hotel scene, perfection 😂 Happy New Year Day, everyone ♥️ 🎉

  • @LadyMFUnicorn
    @LadyMFUnicorn Před 5 měsíci +11

    14:33 lol I love this I think it's an inside joke and they are playing us lol

  • @sherriehelminiak9441
    @sherriehelminiak9441 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Your videos always make me smile. Thank you. They helped me keep my sanity through nursing school last year. ❤

  • @Just.A.Savage22
    @Just.A.Savage22 Před 3 měsíci

    I am so glad my wedding was in our house, random fb guests, and my dress off amazon. We pinned our rings to my pup, Jaylas, collar. I had the fancy day once but to my current husband and I knew we didn't want that. I think I'll keep this one😆

  • @angelalay9909
    @angelalay9909 Před 5 měsíci +64

    Hubby and I had a wonderful wedding in our backyard, by our pond. We had my sisters as bridesmaids in gorgeous summer dresses that they picked, and I did the catering myself. One of the aunts asked me for the caterers card, because she loved it. All that mattered to me as marrying the love of my life.

  • @oldschooldiy3240
    @oldschooldiy3240 Před 5 měsíci +23

    The girl with the mole TAKES the $10K, and has a cover glued over the mole for the wedding! Then after, she has the cover removed!

    • @MrMykeel
      @MrMykeel Před 5 měsíci +2

      Brilliant idea. For the 10k she pays maybe 600 to 1500 to a special fx cosutmer who makes a sillicone face prosthetic to cover it, glues it down and paints it by hand so it is perfect. Then keeps the rest.

    • @lehon481
      @lehon481 Před 5 měsíci

      Yes! This is exactly what I was thinking. Just cover it professionally for the event.

    • @justalittlealien
      @justalittlealien Před 5 měsíci

      Yes especially because if she's american she'll get taxed on that money

    • @oldschooldiy3240
      @oldschooldiy3240 Před 5 měsíci

      @@justalittlealien No, she won't....receiving money to have a requested medical procedure done would not be considered "taxable income"....without checking with a tax accountant, I think it could even be reported as a gift, IMHO

    • @emguzik1724
      @emguzik1724 Před měsícem

      Brilliant!

  • @nataliemiller7894
    @nataliemiller7894 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Love your work! I follow you for a few years now and now my husband whenever I listen to you shouts is that char!?! Turn her up! He loves the petty

  • @AllThePeppermint
    @AllThePeppermint Před 4 měsíci

    Of all the probably three dozen or more weddings I've attended or been a member of the bridal party, my bestie's was by far the best organized and most fun!
    Such a great mix of people unafraid of dance and have fun! It was an hors d'oeuvres reception (pro-tip: Don't underestimate ordering Costco platters. We had so much food that some of us who stayed late to help clean up took food home.) following a mid-afternoon wedding.
    If memory serves correctly, we immediately went from ceremony to pictures and while we were doing pictures, people were socializing and eating. The bride and groom purposefully planned not quite enough chairs to seat EVERYONE all at once time to encourage people to dance and mingle, which was a superb idea because we weren't struggling to get around a lot of empty chairs. Her dad was the last to give his speech and he brilliantly ended his speech with excitement, "Let's celebrate this wonderful young couple! Let's dance!" Right on queue, the DJ started playing a great song! Might've been Don't Stop Believing by Journey? People crowded the dance floor for hours!
    The wedding started at 3pm, reception started around 3:30-4, and the dance floor opened by 4:30-5pm. People stayed dancing until like 8 or 9pm, we had such a great time!
    They got married in 2011. In the years since, I've often heard others talk about how her wedding was the most fun wedding they had ever attended! Her wedding, in my book, is the gold standard for weddings. It isn't about Instagram or other social media. The bride really tried to prioritize the comfort and enjoyment of the guests while still being on budget, and it completely paid off! They're still happily married and had their fourth and final child less than a year ago.

  • @robina.9402
    @robina.9402 Před 5 měsíci +72

    I worked for a catering staffing agency, and it's wild to hear about wedding food being bad, not enough appetizers, and apps getting cold! Most times they feed staff the leftover food while everyone is dancing, and it was a highlight of the job. Especially if there were desserts!
    We also worked for event planners who did not let you stand still the entire cocktail hour. You had to be circulating not-stop and were expected to go back and get a different dish if no one was taking yours. God forbid something get cold. Guest would see me coming and literally start waving me off, "No more! We have to eat dinner!"
    I actually loved the job, especially weddings, because pretty much all the guests were happy and in a good mood. I did work in retail previously, so that might explain my experience. I'd consider going back for extra money, but I injured my back and shoulder, so it's no longer an option.

    • @srhfitzpatrick
      @srhfitzpatrick Před 5 měsíci +5

      I was thinking the same thing about the food, but maybe we worked for good catering companies and they hired subpar catering??

    •  Před 5 měsíci

      I can't do it anymore but I did that for years and yes, the food was the best perk of the job! And always the endless circling with trays of food, keep moving, keep moving! lol...ah memories.

  • @tosiebel5522
    @tosiebel5522 Před 5 měsíci +72

    I always hated wedding food and the wait so that was a priority at my wedding. The ceremony was like 10-15 min, the cocktail hour was about 15 min then 2 very short speeches (10 min top) then delicious food!
    One mistake I made was having it at noon in a beautiful but HOT AF garden 😂
    So after we ate we all got into our swimsuits and jumped in the ocean 🌊
    It was so fun!

    • @chitowngal9201
      @chitowngal9201 Před 5 měsíci +3

      Did almost exactly the same for my wedding!

    • @ladytimeoin
      @ladytimeoin Před 5 měsíci +2

      My wedding was immediate family (and partners) only. We had the ceremony and then walked down to a pancake place for lunch. Our parents both offered to cover the meal. No speeches, no weird wedding food, just pancakes...

    • @maameakuaofosuayeboah3710
      @maameakuaofosuayeboah3710 Před 5 měsíci +1

      Sounds like a lotta fun. One a lot of people are I’ll always remember

  • @sunshine34567890
    @sunshine34567890 Před 5 měsíci +3

    Keep the money and ditch the friend lol 3:41

  • @nicolesalmon4583
    @nicolesalmon4583 Před měsícem

    I love that dude from table 19. I could listen to him tell ANY story.

  • @psychobaby8096
    @psychobaby8096 Před 5 měsíci +47

    My best friend from highschool had a destination wedding. I wasn't able to go because of money issues but I was still her 'honorary maid of honor'. I helped plan the bachorlette/bridal shower, went dress shopping, etc. She never made me feel bad for not being able to go and even got me a thoughtful and beautiful maid of honor gift. She also had a reception about a month after they got back that I helped set up and cook for.

  • @Ms_Represent
    @Ms_Represent Před 5 měsíci +66

    Fun fact about the $10,000 Venmo payment (which I'm assuming took place in the U.S.): If tagged as a "goods and services payment" by the sender, the recipient is liable for backup witholding and it is reported as >$600 in income to the IRS, regardless of whether the payment is accepted or not...if taxed at ~20%, she now owes the IRS $2000 of the "income" 😬

    • @gaminglowlights1941
      @gaminglowlights1941 Před 5 měsíci +11

      So glad this Administration "fixed" the gig economy! Pay your fair share! Said no one ever...well maybe not no one, politicians maybe. There are going to be some very surprised people this April when they get a 1099 in the mail this year...

    • @andreabradley5837
      @andreabradley5837 Před 5 měsíci +7

      @@gaminglowlights1941 I believe they have postponed it again. The IRS doesn't have the manpower to deal with it.

    • @SoManyRandomRamblings
      @SoManyRandomRamblings Před 5 měsíci

      ​@@gaminglowlights1941 the 1% are so determined to dodge paying appropriately that they get their lobbyists to convince the politicians that it's the little guys rather than them holding everything back with their greed

    • @darkforcesjedi
      @darkforcesjedi Před 5 měsíci

      I don't think she "owes" the IRS anything. If it's mis-reported then she may have to get it corrected but for an amount that large it's worth the hassle. IANAL but it looks like a gift to me which is not taxable to the recipient.

    • @ciannamessinger
      @ciannamessinger Před 5 měsíci

      I would've still taken it

  • @puzzlechick163
    @puzzlechick163 Před 2 měsíci

    God after hearing wedding horror stories I'm sooo thankful the ones I've been to never skimped on food. When my bestie had her wedding, the cocktail hour had SO MUCH food. Several different hot stations making fresh wings, meatballs, pasta, paella, etc, not to mention all the usual cold cuts, salads, veggies, cheeses, fruit. The groom himself told us ahead of time to fill up on the apps because they were going to be the best part and he was not lying xD Another friend had dozens of passed platters of apps at their cocktail hour, and tbh I could have just filled up on the empanadas they were serving bc I still think about them sometimes.

  • @dmmmitry8450
    @dmmmitry8450 Před 3 měsíci

    The story about Vegas was amazing. The one about a mole snd 10k is everything!

  • @ramachandra776
    @ramachandra776 Před 5 měsíci +91

    I think the lessons from Charlotte's last video of the year are :-
    1) Don't be a bridezilla , if people don't make it to your wedding on account of personal matters that's ok .
    2) Don't ask others to make physical changes to their body so that they won't ruin your wedding photos . That they are present is enough beauty .
    3) Dont give long winded speeches at weddings . Say "Wish you a happy married life and thanks for inviting me" and sit down .
    4) Carry protein bars at somebody else's wedding so that you dont get hungry while others are giving their long winded speeches .
    5) Call out anyone if they are being a bridezilla , even if they are family .
    6) Charlotte is always gorgeous and funny , even when she is enacting a bridezilla and her mom 😊 .

    • @ashc9725
      @ashc9725 Před 5 měsíci +3

      To number 2, I completely agree, though I've changed and not changed my hair for weddings. My hair was in horrible shape, and very oddly 2 colours for my sister's wedding. She paid for me to have it dyed one neutral colour. And my friends, I coordinated the wedding ,asked that I refrain from shaving my head until after the wedding. But both were superficial requests, and really the only thing they asked of me.

    • @dominaevillae28
      @dominaevillae28 Před 5 měsíci +4

      My SIL didn’t come to our wedding due to circumstances mostly under her own control. At the time I think I was mildly annoyed but I knew she felt bad about it and the feeling passed.
      Once we we all living in the same city, we had problems getting along for several years. After we worked things out, she mentioned she thought I had been mad at her because she hadn’t come to our wedding-😱 wait, what!? you weren’t there? I had actually forgotten🤣. We have a collage of wedding pictures hanging up so I could see she hadn’t been a bridesmaid but I think that in my memory she had made it to the wedding as a guest.

    • @PrincessQ-fj9ly
      @PrincessQ-fj9ly Před 5 měsíci +1

      Yep. That about sums it up, and I agree with ALL of those lessons. ❤

    • @graceaxisa4213
      @graceaxisa4213 Před 5 měsíci +1

      I loved it when Charlotte played the bride and mother of the bride ...I have ALWAYS taken a protein bar to weddings. I've done it for years 😅

  • @chrisycochran2916
    @chrisycochran2916 Před 5 měsíci +65

    Always carry snacks with you! A protein option and a sweet option if you can. I have found this to be useful for too many reasons: dietary or medical restrictions/emergencies, keeping myself or others from transforming into Hangry Karens, having something I can give to homeless folks since I never carry cash, amazing small children and convincing them my purse is magic, encouraging animals to get out of the road so myself and other cars can get by. Pocket snacks are always useful.

    • @murphychurch8251
      @murphychurch8251 Před 5 měsíci +1

      I always keep some fruit bars in my car. Mostly for not being forced to drive while being really badly hungry, as that can be downright dangerous. 🙈

    • @UTU49
      @UTU49 Před 5 měsíci +2

      I think you might be a genius.

  • @driskey82
    @driskey82 Před 4 měsíci +1

    “That’s what your dad said” killed me LMFAO

  • @KristaBot3000
    @KristaBot3000 Před 2 měsíci +1

    I wanna take Charlotte to a classic lower-middle class wedding in the deep South. NOBODY is hungry. In fact, if you aren't rolling out of the wedding over-full and happy about it, the wedding was likely terrible.

  • @annt7384
    @annt7384 Před 5 měsíci +59

    I’m not a wedding professional, but I do book event space fairly regularly for work. There are times I’ve woken up in the middle of the night wondering if I really booked that venue for the right date, and then I remember there’s no way i could contract with the other vendors working the event because they always check the venue booking before proceeding with our contract.

    • @dominaevillae28
      @dominaevillae28 Před 5 měsíci +5

      I’m sure they check for their own benefit but is really helpful for you as well🙂

    • @dede4004
      @dede4004 Před 5 měsíci +7

      Good for you. I am a professional pianist /organist and have played dozens of weddings. One young girl called me to play for her wedding, and I showed up at the church for the rehearsal. The minister at the church didn't even KNOW there was a wedding booked for that weekend. He said no one had contacted him about it, and they are usually booked months in advance. Which meant the bride never made arrangements with the church.
      The pastor was shocked, but he would do it, because surprisingly THAT was the ONLY weekend that year that just happened to be open. But, he wasn't pleased at all, neither was I.
      Then, I tried to use their organ and it was locked. The pastor told me that NO one can play the organ except the organist they have, and that organist wouldn't play the wedding, at that late notice.
      The bride asked if we had any equipement that we could bring in.... (which we did) but it took going back home GETTING the keyboards, speakers, sound board, wires, and everything else. And, it would cost 600 dollars for this.
      The bride's father was LIVID....at me and my husband for charging for this, but we didn't goof up their wedding.....they did. They just didn't want to pay for it.
      Then.....everyone finds out that the groom couldn't make it for the rehearsal, so his buddy stood in for him, which was weird.
      The next day....when the wedding was taking place, thick white smoke and a horrible smell started coming into the sancutuary.
      Turns out, someone in the fellowship hall (where the reception was going to be,) had terribly burned the Sweedish Meatballs, and the smoke and horrid smell was going everywhere, including the sanctuary. It was nauseating, and I trying not to retch while playing the ceremony.
      Also, when I actually met the groom, I was shocked because he was so scary looking, and seemed like he was mad at the world, with a scowl and angry face, and demeanor. Maybe he was a nice guy, I just couldnt tell......anyway.....this was a wedding that
      I will never forget.

  • @dinasilva9263
    @dinasilva9263 Před 5 měsíci +147

    Happy new year everyone. Thank you Charlotte and her team for all the laughs through the year. I appreciate you soooo much. Let's celebrate and hope for an amazing 2024 to everyone. ♥️

  • @yakkowarner3539
    @yakkowarner3539 Před 5 měsíci

    This was one of my favorite video so far!! Excited to see what the new year brings!

  • @aurorarheuben-bathe1947
    @aurorarheuben-bathe1947 Před 3 měsíci

    Our ceremony was 20 minutes max. I had a full italian bruschetta and antipasto spread catered for cocktail hour with a movie (The Princess Bride) playing. Buffet style so people could eat however much they wanted. Dinner was served within 3 hours of the start of the ceremony. 5 hours is just insane to me.

  • @norrineretz2011
    @norrineretz2011 Před 5 měsíci +49

    We had something similar to the first story happen at my job except they did pay a deposit for something. They were originally going to get married on a certain date, but before COVID hit, they apparently ended up pushing it back to 2022 (no idea why). They had last talked to the Events Manager in 2020 just before he was let go for personal reasons, but they didn't speak to a single person until the week of the event. All they had was a receipt that they had paid their share of the deposit. No copy of an updated contract, no e-mails, nothing. We also had an Outlook calendar with confirmed dates in it, so it's not like the Events Manager couldn't put it on the calendar. Something clearly wasn't properly confirmed and the venue hall ended up being booked by someone else. Not sure what the end result was, but moral of the story: always pay your deposit, always take a copy of your contract and any updated revisions, and always check in with your venue periodically, especially if you book 2+ years out.

  • @elizabethmetz8386
    @elizabethmetz8386 Před 5 měsíci +84

    After suffering through some rough weddings I made sure that my wedding prioritized my guests as much as possible. I booked a venue that had amazing food made onsite and everyone said it was delicious. Also, we ate less than an hour after the ceremony so there were no starving angry guests. 😅 It was the best time ever 🥰💃🏻

  • @story.stitcher
    @story.stitcher Před 4 měsíci +1

    The two (italien) weddings i've been to, had the speaches inbetween the courses. there were a lot of courses. And while waiting for the next plate (which happens in a big wedding) there were speaches, dances, games or Little sketches by the bride and grooms friends.

  • @annamcpherson2018
    @annamcpherson2018 Před 3 měsíci

    15:30-15:56 Absolutely love how the guy goes from third of all to fifth of all. What The heck happened to fourth of all? Accidentally edited it out buddy? Lol great video char! Keep em coming dearie!

  • @NovelasDoMundo
    @NovelasDoMundo Před 5 měsíci +9

    "BITCHELORETTE!" LMAO! 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
    I LOVED THAT ONE!

  • @Idiotbreadloaf
    @Idiotbreadloaf Před 5 měsíci +8

    The bride at 13:45 looks unhinged. It's like her eye is twitching while she's talking and has this crazy look in her eyes.

  • @jazzad
    @jazzad Před 4 měsíci

    I love when you part play the stories you tell.

  • @AS-ok2ni
    @AS-ok2ni Před 18 dny

    Table 19 rules!!! That Dad of his, was most likely like oh no, we don’t give gifts to jerks.