the tragic objectification of a boy: björn andrésen

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  • the tragic objectification of a boy: björn andrésen The Most Beautiful Boy in the World (2021).
    The description of this video was auto-deleted in May along with other videos by a CZcams error. I am going through videos trying to fix this issue. Please email if there are any queries or errors.
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    Björn Andrésen on His Tortured Relationship With Luchino Visconti’s ‘Death in Venice’: ‘That Son of a Bitch Sexualized Me’ by Brent Lang.
    Whatever happened to Death In Venice’s Bjorn Andresen? by Jason Solomons.
    Death in Venice and how film has mistreated child stars by Sophie Monks Kaufman.
    Tragedy of the 'world's most beautiful boy'... The movie classic Death In Venice made its 15-year-old star a global icon.
    But as a new documentary reveals, it also condemned him to a life of alcoholism and despair by Tom Leonard.
    ‘Death in Venice screwed up my life’ - the tragic story of Visconti’s ‘beautiful boy’ by Ryan Gilbey. The Desperately Sad Story of the Most Beautiful Boy in the World by Hannah Lack.
    Björn Andrésen: ‘I was extremely uncomfortable’ by Donald Clarke.
    The face that inspired an entire generation of manga artists by Gill Princen.
    Björn Andrésen on being ‘The Most Beautiful Boy in the World’ by Nick Chen.
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  • @yilyau
    @yilyau  Před 24 dny +6

    The description of this video was auto-deleted in May along with other videos by a CZcams error. I am going through videos trying to fix this issue. Please email if there are any queries or errors. I am posting this as a comment in case YT does this again.
    Sources:
    Björn Andrésen on His Tortured Relationship With Luchino Visconti’s ‘Death in Venice’: ‘That Son of a Bitch Sexualized Me’ by Brent Lang.
    Whatever happened to Death In Venice’s Bjorn Andresen? by Jason Solomons.
    Death in Venice and how film has mistreated child stars by Sophie Monks Kaufman.
    Tragedy of the 'world's most beautiful boy'... The movie classic Death In Venice made its 15-year-old star a global icon.
    But as a new documentary reveals, it also condemned him to a life of alcoholism and despair by Tom Leonard.
    ‘Death in Venice screwed up my life’ - the tragic story of Visconti’s ‘beautiful boy’ by Ryan Gilbey. The Desperately Sad Story of the Most Beautiful Boy in the World by Hannah Lack.
    Björn Andrésen: ‘I was extremely uncomfortable’ by Donald Clarke.
    The face that inspired an entire generation of manga artists by Gill Princen.
    Björn Andrésen on being ‘The Most Beautiful Boy in the World’ by Nick Chen.
    Email for enquiries: yilyauenquiries@gmail.com

  • @whiteasparagus4331
    @whiteasparagus4331 Před 6 měsíci +1375

    The worst part is that i have seen people say he was “overreacting”, like yeah being sexually harassed and objectified and being upset about it is overreacting ig 🙄

    • @user-kb8qw7dy4t
      @user-kb8qw7dy4t Před 5 měsíci +14

      At first, I thought this video was an overreaction based on the film. I wasn't aware of what happened behind the scenes.

    • @teijaflink2226
      @teijaflink2226 Před 5 měsíci +75

      It seems pretty obvious to me that even if he was 15 he was a very inexperienced, innocent child and these men preyd on and destroyed that innocence. They took him to gay clubs too and seems like they where trying to push an identity on him when he wasn't even gay. I can totally see the shock, confusion about sexuality and trauma that could cause to a child and everyone is different, some are more sensitive than others. Visconti clearly seems like a disgusting pedophiles to me (even if hasn't done anything illegal to a child), like calling him less beautiful as attractive when he turned 16 but definitely mentally preying on children and teens.

    • @poorang900
      @poorang900 Před 5 měsíci +25

      Not to forget that he had a sad childhood and was a sensitive artist

    • @kimberleywilliams7802
      @kimberleywilliams7802 Před 5 měsíci +8

      Honestly I was very impressed and thought he was amazing for recognising how taken advantage of he was. I didn't even think that it could be seen as an overeaction.

    • @tablescissors
      @tablescissors Před 5 měsíci +2

      Of course he was overreacting, males are never expected, particularly on a large social scale to ever have to put up with this or compromise in such ways. Even actors who are paid MILLIONS upon MILLIONS of dollars will object to having to basic grooming or make-up jobs to actually look like the characters that they agreed to play - often insisting on exhibiting atypical masculinity (lest they lose status in the eyes of fellow males, nevermind the appreciation of female aesthetic/gaze vs how we cater heavily to male gaze).

  • @joanofarcxxi
    @joanofarcxxi Před 6 měsíci +1829

    I blame the grandmother most of all. Her vicarious thirst for fame. Notice how many celebrities who were famous as children become extremely troubled adults. There is a whole lot of objectification and abuse going on. Bjorn didn't cope well either. He still struggles with it, and alcohol is how he soothes himself. Very sad. Very nice video.

    • @farrah9748
      @farrah9748 Před 6 měsíci +10

      * the world is a vampire 😑 *

    • @Kallah_DaughterOfYAHUAH
      @Kallah_DaughterOfYAHUAH Před 5 měsíci +57

      Yes but MOST if all I blame the PREDATORS…especially that disgusting director.

    • @teijaflink2226
      @teijaflink2226 Před 5 měsíci +40

      It was her job to protect him as his guardian but it's possible she didn't understand how predatory these men where or why they actually where interested in him.

    • @kelly8107
      @kelly8107 Před 5 měsíci +2

      ​@@farrah9748naaah. Don't say the world. That's western culture.

    • @jenniferacrey2940
      @jenniferacrey2940 Před 5 měsíci +5

      the people that actually assaulted the boy is at fault!

  • @darialomurno05
    @darialomurno05 Před 6 měsíci +1356

    Notice how the photos where Bjorn is with his wife are the only ones where he smiles genuinely 😢

    • @adeleaslan8182
      @adeleaslan8182 Před 5 měsíci +94

      I'm glad he at least found joy with her

    • @bujki
      @bujki Před 3 měsíci

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @egg-jj4qr
    @egg-jj4qr Před 6 měsíci +1371

    I see a lot of comments talking abt how he isn’t even “that beautiful” or that he “looks average” and you could agree, but what’s the point of saying that? Imagine if he looked like literal Aphrodite. Would the p*dophilia be justifiable then? Would objectification be ok if he really WAS the most beautiful? It’s like saying “Oh, why did he get objectified when he’s not even that pretty?”… like WHAT?… No one, regardless of how much “beauty” they hold, should be treated that way. Aphrodite or Bjorn or anyone should not be dehumanized in that way . That is what you should learn from his story.

    • @BeccaBeccaBecca22
      @BeccaBeccaBecca22 Před 5 měsíci +137

      Also, this is before the internet & filters & plastic surgery when most people lived in smaller towns or cities mostly full of average looking people. What qualified as “beautiful” was different back then.

    • @sfkeepay
      @sfkeepay Před 5 měsíci +13

      It wasn’t pedophilia. Pedophilia is a sexual attraction to prepubescent children. It’s a condition, a mental illness, because human beings are generally not wired for sexual attraction to individuals who aren’t yet fertile. And, of course, it’s a crime if acted upon, because of the potentially lifelong damage it too often visits on innocent children. But your primary point is irrefutable. No one, regardless of perceived beauty, or age, for that matter, should be reduced to mere spectacle.
      It is also worth noting, however, that the age of consent in France is 15. That’s not at all uncommon in Europe, with many countries having 14, 15, and 16 as the norm. From what I can tell, only the Vatican and Turkey use 18. My point is just that, with certain rules around raw coercion not withstanding, those adults who courted Bjorn weren’t breaking any laws, and few at the time would have thought twice about it, expect perhaps for some chagrin at the thought of how foolish trying to date someone a quarter one’s age is.
      It’s odd, though, that we never seem to learn the lessons shown here. Laws totally aside, our culture remains largely fine with sexual exploitation. But, I suppose, why should that be the exception when we practice so many other kinds of exploitation without batting an eye.

    • @idontlikeu.com08
      @idontlikeu.com08 Před 5 měsíci

      @@sfkeepayyes it was. in what world does this director not sound like the textbook definition of a pedo

    • @username-yd4wy
      @username-yd4wy Před 5 měsíci

      Why are you trying so hard to excuse what happened to him? Youre a weirdo. If age of consent was 9 would you still say its not pedophilia? @@sfkeepay

    • @serchmaabaatarchuluun5761
      @serchmaabaatarchuluun5761 Před 5 měsíci +15

      Beauty standard is a very fickle thing.
      But yeah, it's weird that's what those commenters are focusing on.

  • @sephoramandondo2548
    @sephoramandondo2548 Před 8 měsíci +1227

    Finaly someone outside of the documentary covered this story

    • @candacegeorge8932
      @candacegeorge8932 Před 6 měsíci +22

      Its just a synopsis of the documentary

    • @eusounadja5738
      @eusounadja5738 Před 5 měsíci

      There are other videos

    • @lavinder11
      @lavinder11 Před 5 měsíci +2

      What's the name of the documentary? I have no idea who this kid is.

    • @sephoramandondo2548
      @sephoramandondo2548 Před 5 měsíci +4

      @@lavinder11 The most beautiful boy in the world

    • @kai_plays_khomus
      @kai_plays_khomus Před 5 měsíci

      ​@@sephoramandondo2548Are you all referring to the documentary by ARTE, the franco-german joint public broadcasting network?

  • @SILLYGOOSE908
    @SILLYGOOSE908 Před 6 měsíci +1297

    so fucking disgusting how that director treated him

  • @silentautisticdragon-kp9sw
    @silentautisticdragon-kp9sw Před 6 měsíci +1151

    Abuse from all sides. And to think that such blatant pedophilia was surrounding him and no one was doing a thing to stop it.

    • @falconeshield
      @falconeshield Před 6 měsíci +10

      Just because it was ignored at the time, doesn't mean it was right.

    • @illuminaticonfirmed1389
      @illuminaticonfirmed1389 Před 6 měsíci +54

      @@falconeshieldwhat- no one said it was right

    • @illuminaticonfirmed1389
      @illuminaticonfirmed1389 Před 6 měsíci

      @@harsh3948 nobody gives a shit if it’s called ehebephebophebiphelia dude. they still went after a CHILD. 15 IS A CHILD. WHICH MAKES IT PEDOPHILIC. even if the age of consent is 9 fucking years old that doesn’t make it any less disgusting dude.

    • @cranburrey
      @cranburrey Před 6 měsíci

      ​@@harsh3948Stay away from children and ever procreate

    • @cheesm33
      @cheesm33 Před 5 měsíci +81

      @@harsh3948 what ???? do you seriously think that age of consent laws being lowered at the time makes that claim sound any better😭 . legality is not equivalent to morality/ethics

  • @Tenshii_Artii
    @Tenshii_Artii Před 6 měsíci +790

    As someone who begun their ‘Anime phase’ first through older Manga and anime of the Shoujo genre type back when I as a pre-teen. I’ve been all too familiar with the dreamy blonde, blue eyed wavy haired boy type. I didn’t exactly find male characters in that style to be attractive per-se. But I did acknowledge that they always seemed to be drawn with beauty.
    Then years later, I heard about that Documentary, where I first heard about Bjorn. It was so shocking to learn that he was the blueprint for all those blonde pretty boys. Even with blonde androgynous characters, and even blonde girls! And when I looked back at all of the media I consumed in my earlier days, everything made sense. I could suddenly see the resemblance in the characters I already knew, and I couldn’t believe it.
    That was the exact moment of me realizing the possibility that the whole reason of having blonde hair in Japan was also seen as foreign and beautiful (Aside from a symbol of delinquency), was because Bjorn had started it all.
    He truly did look beautiful. But Goodness, what happened to him was awful. Lusted over by men, taken advantage of. Every time I hear if his story, I get disgusted with how many people that have failed him. And that his reputation basically messed up his conscious. The fact right now that there are people in the world who could possibly be In his exact situation right now, is heartbreaking.

    • @dreamwithinadreamfilms
      @dreamwithinadreamfilms Před 6 měsíci +55

      Me too! I found out about him from watching Anime, and learning that his look inspired many Japanese artists.

    • @gemh89
      @gemh89 Před 5 měsíci +27

      Youve described my 5 year old son. Everybody, particularly Polish people we meet (we're Scottish, well, his Dad is Welsh) often call him a cherub. Im already eschewing dating after splitting (but remaining close friends and co-parenting well with his dad) because I dont trust non biologically related people having too much acess to him. I live in fear

    • @desertrose1226
      @desertrose1226 Před 5 měsíci +6

      I am so glad I was born with ordinary brown hair!

    • @kelly8107
      @kelly8107 Před 5 měsíci

      Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
      He looks like an average child
      Which the use of "beautiful " disgusts me. It's groomer shit.

    • @WestCountryGurl
      @WestCountryGurl Před měsícem

      @@gemh89 You're a good parent.

  • @nat_to_world
    @nat_to_world Před 6 měsíci +485

    The fact that anyone was treated the way he was is so upsetting to hear. They literally robbed him of his childhood and mocked him for becoming a grown adult.

  • @khfan4life365
    @khfan4life365 Před 5 měsíci +146

    Abandoned by dad, mom goes missing, and raised a by greedy grandmother who didn’t care about p*mping out her grandson. This poor guy never had a chance.

  • @catastrophically.in.denial
    @catastrophically.in.denial Před 5 měsíci +472

    That’s utterly disgusting, why won’t some people let a child be a child. He was 15 and taken advantage of by so many, I feel the emotions he went through from the screen because of how heartbreaking his life has been. Why hadn’t anyone realized that he was being preyed upon by a pedophile director

    • @catastrophically.in.denial
      @catastrophically.in.denial Před 5 měsíci +8

      Another thing is that him as a person inspired lots on manga and that’s why I stopped reading manga or watching anime because of the objectification of people who happen to fit the beauty standards

    • @idontlikeu.com08
      @idontlikeu.com08 Před 5 měsíci +14

      it’s disgusting he didn’t deserve any of what happened to him

    • @mineguto211
      @mineguto211 Před 5 měsíci

      Thats stupid. you arent doing anything except stopping urself from reading and watching masterpieces cuz of a character who was inspired by his looks. What happend to him is sad, but you arent helping anyone by not watching or reading. Berserk and monster is one example of a masterpiece which had a character who was inspired by his looks.@@catastrophically.in.denial

    • @StrawberryCocoaPowder
      @StrawberryCocoaPowder Před 5 měsíci +8

      @@catastrophically.in.denial you’d have to stop consuming western media too then lol

    • @lukeriely4468
      @lukeriely4468 Před 5 měsíci +2

      We are all objectified. Even our potential for manpower. We are all preyed upon by power. There are some, who enjoy being objectified and want it. Once it stops, they become depressed.

  • @morganleanderblake678
    @morganleanderblake678 Před 6 měsíci +358

    and if you think the way they smashed his *face* in Midsommar isn't an artistic nod to his past, I have a bridge to sell you.

    • @mossmother64
      @mossmother64 Před 5 měsíci +15

      I'd love to hear more cause I think that's a wonderful and interesting take on it (I'm an English major)

    • @gzapray7203
      @gzapray7203 Před 5 měsíci +41

      I'm glad he participated in acting again. And given that one of the themes of that film is catharsis, that scene is a subtle f u to those deplorable people who robbed him of his childhood. Won't be surprised if Aster knows Andersen's tragic history.

    • @bvgg2630
      @bvgg2630 Před 5 měsíci +18

      that and the fact that it was such brief screentime. it was really a statement when you think about it.

    • @kyrastube
      @kyrastube Před 5 měsíci +10

      He also was in the movie The simple minded murderer (den enfaldiga mördaren) with Stellan Skarsgård. In that one, he is an angel of judgment and/or death. Also a pretty interesting role, considering.

    • @HawkinaBox
      @HawkinaBox Před 5 měsíci +3

      I never noticed he was in that movie

  • @AH13371
    @AH13371 Před 6 měsíci +268

    Im Swedish and let me tell you: he has a way of speaking that just hits you deep. Beautiful soul for sure

  • @Pugrandom13
    @Pugrandom13 Před 6 měsíci +270

    I genuinely dislike the grandmother who the hell preasures their grandchild like this

    • @susanlaude8969
      @susanlaude8969 Před 5 měsíci +17

      Macauley Culkin's parents, River and Joaquin Phoenix's parents, Brooke Shields' mom, Drew Barrymore's mom, most child star's parents are like this.

    • @sheila-we7em
      @sheila-we7em Před 5 měsíci +3

      Unfortunately, there have been many pushy parents in the film industry who pressure their children and become bread winners and victims of predators in that industry. What I found disturbing is that those men setting him up with a apartment and pocket money in Paris and turning him into almost a male Courtesan. Vile.

    • @Clo_Dub
      @Clo_Dub Před 5 měsíci

      Oh my god I read that wrong

    • @Pugrandom13
      @Pugrandom13 Před 5 měsíci

      @@Clo_Dub what did you read 🥲

    • @Pugrandom13
      @Pugrandom13 Před 5 měsíci

      @@sheila-we7em I know it hurts to think about it it’s just inhumane

  • @vincentshadetree
    @vincentshadetree Před 6 měsíci +417

    From childhood I read Greek mythology, and Medusa's story made it all too clear how much of a curse that being beautiful can be. People that don't have it want it, but those that do have it, likely don't because of how it puts them in the sights of those that want it. It's like walking around a bunch of starving people with bags of groceries. I thought I wanted that kind of admiration in my youth, but older now, I see how determental it would be, and I've got a low tolerance for being stressed, lol

    • @falconeshield
      @falconeshield Před 6 měsíci +40

      To think that in some interpretations Athena was PROTECTING Medusa from harm, but harm still came anyway

    • @user-rr1lo8lu1v
      @user-rr1lo8lu1v Před 5 měsíci +17

      Most good looking people are happy with that lets be fr. His case is extreme

    • @blacklight310
      @blacklight310 Před 5 měsíci

      @@user-rr1lo8lu1vtrue, they did a study on it.

    • @vincentshadetree
      @vincentshadetree Před 5 měsíci

      @@user-rr1lo8lu1v I started to reply to you, but your account looks sus, there's almost zero activity. Looks like a Bot account...

    • @SolUFO
      @SolUFO Před 5 měsíci

      @@user-rr1lo8lu1v there’s probably a point where the cost isn’t worth the reward. Most people are probably fine

  • @luminyam6145
    @luminyam6145 Před 5 měsíci +91

    Poor man, neglected by his mother and sold like an animal to the slaughter by his dirty predatory grandmother. My heart goes out to him.

  • @user-po1pi8xv9y
    @user-po1pi8xv9y Před 6 měsíci +446

    Personally I think bjorn looked a lot more attractive as an adult man then as a 14 boy(crazy I know) and I don't think his looks were androgynous as much as the fact that he was an underage boy.
    I also wished you were more a bit more critical on grpup 24, for taking an appearance of a young child and using that for glorified artistic porn.
    I heard another story about how Japanese people became less interested in Bjorn as he was just another tall white guy then.

    • @yilyau
      @yilyau  Před 6 měsíci +176

      I was going to go into group 24, but in the documentary Bjorn seems to have fond memories of Japan and doesn’t seem to hold much of a grudge against the members; there’s even an appearance of Riyoko Ikeda, so not sure what to make of that.

    • @Ri57490
      @Ri57490 Před 6 měsíci +39

      As a 14 year old boy, he looked better than most 14 year old boys (and girls). As an adult man, he looked average compared with other adults.

    • @zappers8027
      @zappers8027 Před 6 měsíci +1

      Oh, of course not lmao, as an adult he was superior in looks, @@Ri57490

    • @falconeshield
      @falconeshield Před 6 měsíci +46

      ​@@Ri57490He....probably didn't grow up well. For obvious reasons.

    • @Skyebright1
      @Skyebright1 Před 6 měsíci +2

      I think being women he was happier about it even if he was 16

  • @Venusingatorade
    @Venusingatorade Před 6 měsíci +129

    What haunts me is how his mother died and the mystery around the father of him and his sister. So sad.

  • @thatsrealroughbud...2394
    @thatsrealroughbud...2394 Před 5 měsíci +240

    I will never understand how films lionizing paedophilia aren't banned outright.

    • @ChangedMyNameFinally69
      @ChangedMyNameFinally69 Před 5 měsíci

      Sadly the intellectual elite have a weird obsession with defending immoral art under the idea that art is somehow above criticism.

    • @alexeig127
      @alexeig127 Před 5 měsíci +11

      Art can't be banned

    • @ChangedMyNameFinally69
      @ChangedMyNameFinally69 Před 5 měsíci +48

      @@alexeig127 If it depicts a criminal act it could.

    • @jenniferacrey2940
      @jenniferacrey2940 Před 5 měsíci

      @@alexeig127 rape is not art

    • @thatsrealroughbud...2394
      @thatsrealroughbud...2394 Před 5 měsíci

      @@alexeig127 You can't call media advocating for crime "art". That's the same BS paedophiles distributing CP in Canada tried. You can't try to justify paedophilic media as "art".

  • @ProcrastinationQueen
    @ProcrastinationQueen Před 6 měsíci +115

    Omg, I’ve literally read older shoujo manga that had male love interests that looked _exactly_ like this guy!! I never knew that he was the reason for that particular look in ML in shoujo around that time, that’s absolutely wild!
    He definitely has that particular model look and aura, that only a few people in the world have had, but it’s just disgusting the way they treated him. The lifelong trauma alone must be hell to live with

  • @PillBABY
    @PillBABY Před 7 měsíci +712

    watching this video was both sad, but also comforting (Since I went through similar things). I appreciate you showing that objectifying people doesn't only go for women
    honestly regardless of gender, sexuality, or ect. everyone deserves to be treated as human.

    • @dreamydaze
      @dreamydaze Před 6 měsíci +15

      I so wish that I could spend a few hours with Bjorn, I am about four years younger than him. And I am very aware of many aspects of Bjorn‘s life, as I am a fan. But your content made me more aware of a few aspects that I was not aware of, speaking of his young son, that had passed and him laying with him for hours afterwards, I can relate as a brother that had passed from viral pneumonia, and the mother, who suffered the rest of her life, with great guilt to the point where her life was ruined, and psychiatrists, tried to piece her life together again with antidepressants, electric compulsive treatment. I was totally the opposite of Bjorn, I was a very chubby boy with a very nondescript face. And my presence was very quiet. So I would love to talk to Jorn and share notes not to say that his life was better, or my life was better, but the share our pain, and maybe even some of the happy moments in our lives. I feel so bad for him as he has towards the end of his life like I do, and I pray that he finds a community or group of people that can Surround him and love him for who he is, and that he can let go of the ghost of the past, so that he can enjoy and see, and feel the best of what this world can give us.

  • @foregroundeclipse8725
    @foregroundeclipse8725 Před 6 měsíci +136

    I feel really bad for this guy. He deserved better . I hope he's able to find peace .

  • @wareforcoin5780
    @wareforcoin5780 Před 5 měsíci +201

    For once, "what about men?" lead to something worth discussing instead of an argument.

    • @Babyblue115
      @Babyblue115 Před 5 měsíci +31

      "What about men?" is in my opinion most of the times a whataboutism that people who don't want to discuss women's issues say to deflect from the topic. It's something that people who clearly don't care about the subject matter comment when they feel the need to direct the attention to something else.

    • @Babyblue115
      @Babyblue115 Před 5 měsíci +13

      There are ofc "What about men?" comments that are actually sincere. But as you can see this video talks about the objectification of men, on a channel with a mostly female audience. And it's one of the most viewed video of this channel.

    • @ah-sh9dw
      @ah-sh9dw Před 5 měsíci +11

      There's no such thing as a "what about men" that's worth discussing. The issue isnt in the "men" part but the "what about". "What about" means that it isnt a discussion on it's own rights but is instead trying to steal from a different discussion

    • @JohnDoe-nm5le
      @JohnDoe-nm5le Před 4 měsíci

      @@ah-sh9dw If the world focuses 99% of its time and attention on one group of people despite another group of people having the exact same experiences, albeit at a slightly lesser rate but a troubling rate nonetheless, then that would probably warrant a "What about...".
      It's like trying to say that back in the past when there were a lot of civil rights marches for women, that saying," What about women." was a detraction from men and their accomplishments.
      Yes, we know about various males accomplishments. They're discussed 99% of the time. So what about women?
      Similarly, we know about female objectification and women's dealing with sexual assault, harassment, and targeted sexual violence. So what about men? What about boys?

    • @mayjailersirens
      @mayjailersirens Před 3 měsíci

      @@JohnDoe-nm5le oh pls stfu. men are about 90 percent of their own problem causers, look at how men who are deemed less masculine are treated in any prison, or in a war like setting. men can be victims, no one denies that. but do you think women and girls being exploited is being explored thoroughly without dismissal? in the west women are deemed whores, bitches, prostitutes and dehumanized constantly even for the mere fact they’re girls/ women or maybe they’re wearing something a particular person doesn’t like. women have always predominantly been the victims in a male dominated society, they have always been at the receiving end of the abuse by the barbaric male society compared to males being abused. usually men are abused by family members and other men, men are the ones that don’t take male victims seriously - deeming them as weak etc.

  • @jennifersaar1611
    @jennifersaar1611 Před 6 měsíci +81

    His story is just so, so sad, and I find myself so angry for him. He never really had a childhood, did he? From the very beginning, no one let him just be a kid.

  • @bred-ib6mj
    @bred-ib6mj Před 2 měsíci +9

    The dance scene around the poles on the beach is the essence of the film. Explain everything. I don't think Tadzio was making fun of Gustav, the reason is simple. A 15 year old noble boy with some education would never make fun of a man who could be his father, rich, titled (baron), famous as a musician. Gustav is an authoritative figure. At most, a boy of that age could have made fun of an ugly peer, with crooked teeth, plump, with glasses... or a homeless person, a disabled person, but certainly not a distinguished and authoritative person like Aschenbach. I think that in the film Visconti wanted to make it clear that the blond boy wanted to experiment something with the older man, perhaps also because the boy had understood that Gustav is rich and wealthy (the same old story in short...). The famous shot in which Gustav seems to be "on top of" Tadzio from behind and the fact that both were sexually "involved" in this scene (objective data visible to all, if you want to understand...) speaks for itself.

  • @lidu6363
    @lidu6363 Před 6 měsíci +135

    A while ago, I didn't even know he existed, but now, the immemse impact on the shoujo genre is so difficult to overlook! I could name so many characters that I am certain were directly inspired by him... and my feelings about those stories are getting more complicated, considering he maybe would not have consented to it.

  • @EllawoodBlues
    @EllawoodBlues Před 5 měsíci +31

    This story is so sad in many ways but i can't get over him losing his mom at a young age and then losing his infant son...just heart breaking

  • @cutieowl347
    @cutieowl347 Před 6 měsíci +146

    This reminds me of the movie Malena and how the movie makers/director sexualized a 15 year old boy for it. They had scenes of him pleasuring himself and scenes of him undressing and kissing a woman that was twice his age, yet all everyone talks about is how Malena was sexualized in the story of the movie. It's disgusting that this sort of thing is able to happen to anyone and its also disgusting that a boy being sexualized isn't seen as a big deal.

  • @kaytaku629
    @kaytaku629 Před 6 měsíci +87

    he looks miserable in every photo :(

    • @DavidOG.
      @DavidOG. Před 15 dny

      @@kaytaku629 for a men that's attractive

  • @antiheroine3611
    @antiheroine3611 Před 6 měsíci +43

    That's effing disgusting. It is interesting to see how he inspired a whole pretty boys archetype in mangas and anime

  • @olgagachaphoenix9130
    @olgagachaphoenix9130 Před 6 měsíci +51

    I didn't know he's Swedish. His story is basically a warning for future generations

  • @captaincrunch3720
    @captaincrunch3720 Před 5 měsíci +22

    Reminds me of what happened to Justin Beiber and Usher when they were younger. He naturally has softer features and was referred to by many GROWN MEN while he was still a child as being "beautiful like a woman". The s*xual abuse of male children in Hollywood is RAMPANT but sexism and homophobia amongst men as well as a history of victim blaming in society keeps many from speaking out.

  • @MadeleinesMadeleines
    @MadeleinesMadeleines Před 6 měsíci +86

    I can’t put into words how sad this story makes me every time I remember it. Kids deserve so much more and this world always lets them down. I wish I could protect ever single child with my life.

  • @tigerlily8312
    @tigerlily8312 Před 4 měsíci +9

    Bjorn really reminds me of Leif Garrett who was also a teen actor and musician during the 70's and shared a similar beautiful appearance as him, thick wavy blonde hair and a slim figure. He also later got addicted to alcohol and drugs.

  • @vivianworden2706
    @vivianworden2706 Před 6 měsíci +42

    Of course it happens to males. Even Terry Crews was harassed and he is a physical beast.

  • @shaylenwayne9284
    @shaylenwayne9284 Před 6 měsíci +54

    He kinda reminds me of Finnick O'Dair with how young he was objectified and treated. Or how that talk show host went to touch Justin Bieber's face a while back even tho he was clearly uncomfortable.

    • @khfan4life365
      @khfan4life365 Před 5 měsíci +7

      I remember how women were with Taylor Lautner during the Twilight craze. They counted down the minutes he turned 18. As a teen, I had a crush on him, but these were grown women. Ew.

  • @whooah
    @whooah Před 6 měsíci +42

    His story always made me so sad. I hope hes doing better now

  • @saysayj7047
    @saysayj7047 Před 5 měsíci +34

    It is not a cult gay film actually. Literally barely anyone the community knows this film and I feel like saying it is a "cult gay film" is severe misinformation.

    • @eden-kx4pc
      @eden-kx4pc Před 5 měsíci +9

      really? i am film student so I know many who know this film and most of them are lgbtq+, it is a older film so maybe that's the reason

    • @ChangedMyNameFinally69
      @ChangedMyNameFinally69 Před 5 měsíci

      ​@@eden-kx4pcWell sadly we queers are self-loathing as all fuck and will take any rep it seems, moreso back in that day.

    • @Cast_Iron_Kitty
      @Cast_Iron_Kitty Před 5 měsíci +11

      I'd call it more an art film. Every scene is beautifully laid out.

    • @ChangedMyNameFinally69
      @ChangedMyNameFinally69 Před 5 měsíci

      @@Cast_Iron_Kitty Too bad it's about a dude thirsting over a child

    • @suec9426
      @suec9426 Před 5 měsíci +11

      It may be a ‘cult, gay film’ now, but I saw it in London when it was released in 1971. It was definitely mainstream then.

  • @NoFirstNoLastName
    @NoFirstNoLastName Před 5 měsíci +72

    Brooke Shields by straight men. Bjorn by gay men. Taylor Lautner by straight women. Justin Bieber by everyone.
    Like, the amount of teen stars that are considered beautiful or handsome and are sexualized by adults disgusts me but the fact that it can happen from any group just makes me sad. We as a society have to do better.

    • @fauzianalwoga1002
      @fauzianalwoga1002 Před 5 měsíci +7

      Now it's Timothee Chalamet, Robert Pattinson, Zendaya etc

    • @Venjamin
      @Venjamin Před 5 měsíci +10

      @@fauzianalwoga1002 Weren't all of those people already fully mature adults by the time they became famous, even for their looks? IIRC, Timothee was 21, Robert Pattinson was 22, and Zendaya was 19?
      Don't get me wrong, they played young characters (unless you count edward cullen as old LOL) but I dunno. It seems different than a fifteen year old, I guess.

  • @melisacaceres8740
    @melisacaceres8740 Před 5 měsíci +28

    I'm glad that as a society we came to a point where the description of the director obsessing over him sounds horrific instead of "part of the creative process". The parade of young boys is truly something out of a horror film. Poor Bjorn and poor other young boys whose youth was stolen from them for profit.

  • @fatemahe9432
    @fatemahe9432 Před 6 měsíci +51

    Thank you so much for talking about this topic, people are starting to forgot what happened to him and it’s incredibly sad.

  • @billietae5693
    @billietae5693 Před 5 měsíci +21

    Hey can you do one about k-pop? You can do separate ones for the boys and the girls, the exploitation is unbelievable and then there's things like beauty and body standards, plastic surgeries at the age of 14, diets that come close to killing people. They actually have a "visual" in each group, someone there just to look good...i cannot imagine how damaging that is for a person, that their job is simply to have a pretty face.

  • @todiann27
    @todiann27 Před 5 měsíci +13

    My high school boyfriend looked very much like him. We’re old now, and he’s still beautiful. We keep in touch.

  • @cristalblackstar8177
    @cristalblackstar8177 Před 6 měsíci +42

    Pobre muchacho. No tenia nadie que lo proteja. Espero que hoy en dia tenga paz y tranquilidad en su vida.

  • @cannonball2264
    @cannonball2264 Před 5 měsíci +9

    i noticed you missed the more recent, popular examples in japan, such as griffith from berserk and dio from jojo. i remember gasping when i saw bjorn the first time, seeing who inspired these characters

  • @breadpilled2587
    @breadpilled2587 Před 6 měsíci +37

    The quick cuts are a little distracting. Great video! Thank you

    • @yilyau
      @yilyau  Před 6 měsíci +8

      Thank you for watching and commenting, breadpilled. ☺️🌼

  • @greyghost8343
    @greyghost8343 Před 5 měsíci +7

    To think without being in this film, he could’ve been just any other boy and lived his life the way he wanted without scrutiny.

  • @davidlynch7828
    @davidlynch7828 Před 5 měsíci +1

    Thank you for the content i had never heard this story before

  • @--Paws--
    @--Paws-- Před 5 měsíci +5

    Wow, this was a really sad exposé. I didn't realize "bishounen" trope of a sailor outfit come from a real person.

  • @tracycraft2971
    @tracycraft2971 Před 5 měsíci +4

    Just happened upon this channel because I recognized Bjorn. As a young girl I always thought he was so handsome in a quiet shy kind of way. He was a good person who had a tragic life. He was a brilliant person who was so objectified. I will always love his music . Thank you for this brilliant channel! ❤

  • @AWlpsSHOW36
    @AWlpsSHOW36 Před 5 měsíci +12

    Thankyou so much for talking about this boy.
    What really gets to me is the fact that a feminist made a book showing pictures of topless and naked men as a 'reversal' of objectification and sexualizing people, which is something that happens to women a lot. But who was on the cover of this book? Bjorn Andresen. But what made this outrageous and disgusting? Is that she never ever got his consent to use his photo for the book cover. Absolute selfish hypocrite.

  • @peony70
    @peony70 Před 5 měsíci +6

    I really want to watch this, but all the rapidly flashing images made me feel like I was going to have a seizure

  • @yilyau
    @yilyau  Před 8 měsíci +171

    Captions/subtitles available in settings.

    • @Alumnia91
      @Alumnia91 Před 5 měsíci +2

      Thanks I will need it. It is very hard to listen to a breathy, whispery, overly cutesy voice. You can talk normally too.

    • @justlivinglife465
      @justlivinglife465 Před 5 měsíci

      Good call

    • @Lola-xy9bw
      @Lola-xy9bw Před 5 měsíci

      @@Alumnia91help it’s not that bad I can hear it as a person who sounds like this too naturally that is my normal voice and they is nothing I can do about it and by the way she sounds natural I don’t think it’s forced

  • @DeidreL9
    @DeidreL9 Před 5 měsíci +7

    Dirk Bogarde was a wonderful man with scrupulous standards, his innate morality meant l never raised eyebrows at this film. He himself was an exquisite young man.
    Ironically for those of us who lived through the 1980’s, we will remember singer David Sylvian, who looks remarkably like Bjorn, being called the most beautiful man in the world, much to his chagrin. Bjorn could easily be David as a young man.
    Thank you for this!

  • @Saffron-sugar
    @Saffron-sugar Před 5 měsíci +19

    To those saying he is “not that beautiful”, has it occurred to you that you might feel that way because you are not a paedophile?
    If all you see is a boy…. Good!
    If you’re wondering how he was going to school during this… Good!
    That’s how most adults feel.

    • @Saffron-sugar
      @Saffron-sugar Před 5 měsíci +5

      I’m not criticising preteen girls who think he is the bomb. Obviously

  • @dodi-wankenobi
    @dodi-wankenobi Před 6 měsíci +11

    I love your voice especially in this one. It carries the tragedy beautifully

    • @yilyau
      @yilyau  Před 6 měsíci +3

      Thanks, Dodi ❤️

  • @unseelie63
    @unseelie63 Před 5 měsíci +32

    I've actually seen Henry Cavill having to deal with the rather creepy admiration of a female co-star on a talk show.He's an adult,not a child,but you could see that he was uncomfortable and if he had to deal with that all through filming and publicity...creepy,plain and simple.So much worse,though,when the person is as young as Bjorn was.His grandmother's actions were thoroughly contemptible!

    • @samantha28391
      @samantha28391 Před 5 měsíci +1

      Henry dates much younger women. If anyone is predatory, it's him.

  • @RiniDiamandis
    @RiniDiamandis Před 6 měsíci +27

    i'm so happy he found his love of music again
    it's all he ever wanted :(

  • @audenisarat8179
    @audenisarat8179 Před 6 měsíci +6

    unrelated but your voice is so nice and your scripting is so good!!! great jobb 😸😸

  • @amberworr5612
    @amberworr5612 Před 6 měsíci +7

    This is so sad... 😔
    Honestly, he is still very handsome even now, I hope things can get better for him and that he can learn to love himself and find peace.
    Poor guy.. My heart is sad for him.
    The things people say to you as a child can really traumatize you and can stick with you forever..
    I know some of those things stuck with me, it can be really hard to move on from that.

  • @kai_plays_khomus
    @kai_plays_khomus Před 5 měsíci

    What a great, high quality video! Came across it by accident and haven't seen anything else of this channel's content yet I still subscribed because I have no doubt it's worth it! 👌

  • @Spiralobsession
    @Spiralobsession Před 5 měsíci +9

    "He was the only foreigner who bothered to learn the correct pronunciation of Björn's name" - she says, while mispronouncing Björn's name. (I'm sorry, I don't mean that as a mean comment, it was just funny.)

  • @pohanahawaii
    @pohanahawaii Před 5 měsíci +4

    👍👍 Excellent analysis, narration, and video editing!

  • @accessyourinnerlight971
    @accessyourinnerlight971 Před 5 měsíci +6

    I'm not sure if this film mentions it but Bjorn Andresen was in the horror film Midsommar as the old man who jumped from the cliffs.

    • @KB-tf8vp
      @KB-tf8vp Před 5 měsíci +2

      Whaaaat. Thanks for sharing! I would’ve never known.

    • @lo.lo_marie
      @lo.lo_marie Před 2 měsíci +2

      It does and includes clips lol. Did you even watch

  • @vegasjk27
    @vegasjk27 Před 5 měsíci +4

    He has led such a troubled life and I feel bad for him because of this. His attention seeking grandmother pushed him into the spotlight with tragic results. I hope as an adult he can find peace and happiness someday.

  • @alphabettown04
    @alphabettown04 Před 6 měsíci +20

    Oof the quick cuts make me a bit dizzy.

    • @falconeshield
      @falconeshield Před 6 měsíci

      Yeah, just listen to the clip

    • @KB-tf8vp
      @KB-tf8vp Před 5 měsíci

      Yeah, it was way too much.

  • @RyzaGlee-tc7go
    @RyzaGlee-tc7go Před 6 měsíci +73

    As a girl also, sometimes males suffered the deepest and wouldn't even realize everyone if someone didn't start taking their backs. This is really depressing for the fact that all those years he didn't find freedom and love.

  • @creolelady182
    @creolelady182 Před 5 měsíci +6

    This young guy is now about 68 now

  • @yanderepuzzler
    @yanderepuzzler Před 6 měsíci +13

    This is really well done, and I hope your channel grows quickly! ❤❤

    • @yilyau
      @yilyau  Před 6 měsíci

      Thank you, Yandere Puzzler. ❤️ That’s so nice of you to say. Have a nice day. ☺️🤍

  • @cillamoke
    @cillamoke Před 6 měsíci +17

    My heart aches for Bjorn

  • @jonboz7585
    @jonboz7585 Před 4 měsíci +2

    Such a very sad story. Sometimes being a plain looking, nerdy guy is a blessing.

  • @MoistCrumpet
    @MoistCrumpet Před 5 měsíci +4

    Ngl the movie even without any context from the documentary is pretty creepy. Just watching a grown man following a boy around staring at him with that look in his eyes makes me uncomfortable.

  • @supremeoverlord0
    @supremeoverlord0 Před 5 měsíci +3

    This is so heartbreaking... I wish his life had been better in the past, and I hope his life improves further here on out.

  • @selmahare
    @selmahare Před 6 měsíci +36

    The thing is that in Sweden Bjorn is pretty average. Walking around Stockholm to me this is how your average Swedish boy teen looks, just normal. The objectification started with Visconti, who is Italian. Southern Europeans were for the longest time obsessed with blond. If you look at most Italian TV stars, presenters and others, most of them are blond women; and in the 70s specially when Bjorn came into scene, if those Italian TV presenters weren’t naturally blond they would dye their hair blond. It’s idiotic and childish really. I’m Southern European myself and I never got the blond adulation. Bjorn’s objectification also fits into that. In Sweden that would have never happened to him, cause again in Sweden he was for the most an average boy, that looked like thousands of others. At one point in my life I was visiting Stockholm almost every year cause I had family there, and every time I visited I’d see boys that looked like him, normal looking boys, that Visconti would have never obsessed over had they been dark instead of blond. It’s dumb, the whole thing is just dumb.

    • @xadalau9758
      @xadalau9758 Před 6 měsíci +27

      To be honest, many celebrities and models aren't that special looking either - it's the camera and the big screen that make a person seem larger than life. I saw the video of his classsroom when Visconti cast him, and frankly he was not that different than the other boys, his hairstyle was what made him stand out most.

    • @rawrrayuga
      @rawrrayuga Před 6 měsíci +12

      This is so true. It’s very strange to me how people will go absolutely feral and obsess over certain traits (hair, eyes, skin, and just the structure of a body in general.) it’s very disgusting, especially a child. Objectifying a person for their looks and not even seeing them as a human being with feelings and personality. They see them only as something for their own visual enjoyment. However, the world today gives access to the internet and people are more familiar with different faces, the 70s could only view film and printed photographs. Media highly influences people perception of the world around them, and that could be said about the unfortunate case with Bjorn. The movies he starred in, he became well known for how he was portrayed, even gaining popularity in east Asia and inspiring the designs for countless Japanese animations. Hearing about his life makes my heart hurt, because he definitely wanted a peaceful existence doing what he actually wanted instead of being exploited like this. I think people view others today as “average”, because firstly, beauty standards have changed drastically in the past 50 years. Back then, he was one of the the ideals. Now, people have varied preferences. Secondly, as I said before since social media is huge factor, it’s very common to see “beautiful” people constantly every day just by scrolling around. Even if it’s sometimes deeply photoshopped. Being conventionally attractive is a sort of “norm” now, and if you don’t fit into that box people walk right over you. It just shows you how people have never really changed from then to now.

    • @teijaflink2226
      @teijaflink2226 Před 5 měsíci +8

      Yeah. I live in Sweden and while he probably looks bit better than average (of course that's subjective) I have seen many teen boys who look similar and nothing special.

    • @blion2225
      @blion2225 Před 5 měsíci

      Agree with you 100%. Perfectly said tbh

  • @finpin2622
    @finpin2622 Před 5 měsíci +6

    It’s horrible what happened to him, I feel like child actors are already at such risk of predatory behavior without the added factor of being literally objectified within the film and then becoming a worldwide star… Unfortunately as much as people like to pretend we’ve come further as a society, stuff like this still happens and it’s just heartbreaking. Look at some of the child actors in stranger things, who even though they weren’t sexualized in the show, ended up having a lot of adult “fans” who objectified them. Honestly I think child actors should be far far less common and far more protected, I understand a lot of films are perfectly normal about depicting younger characters and just want a realistic depiction but when it comes at risk to a child’s physical and mental health, we should question just how important “realism” is.

  • @finend6075
    @finend6075 Před 5 měsíci +4

    gosh these men around Bjorn are so fucking gross. it's so heartbreaking. When director told him to take off his clothes I was so livid. Hollywood is just a pit of predators.

  • @FoxNHound
    @FoxNHound Před 5 měsíci +5

    Its really sad because Bjorn is a pretty good actor. Shame they forced him into it and abused him. I hope he can heal today.

  • @sunikitti
    @sunikitti Před 6 měsíci +6

    Why are the cuts so fast?
    It’s so distracting 😵‍💫

  • @TheSlong123
    @TheSlong123 Před 6 měsíci +9

    And then he was squished by a hammer in Midsommar.

    • @DanielThureskog
      @DanielThureskog Před 5 měsíci +3

      and before that he played a angel of vengeance, who encourages Stellan Skarsgård's character to strike back towards his tormentor in The Simple-Minded Murderer.

  • @jaywilliams8386
    @jaywilliams8386 Před 5 měsíci +5

    I was especially stricken by the comments regarding Germaine Greer's use of his image long after he was a grown man. I have been deeply effected myself by this kind of gross hypocrisy in the feminist movement concerning what it says it represents and what it really does. Thank you.

    • @thirteenfury
      @thirteenfury Před 5 měsíci

      There's plenty of public domain paintings that feature young androgynous men (or boys) she could have used. Or at least fine art that might be in private collections but are known worldwide. It's pretty disgusting and hypocritical that she used a copyrighted photo of a living person without his consent or knowledge. If the book had been about objectified teen girls and had a photo of a living actress posed sexually as a child, there would be mainstream media outrage and the author would be banned from feminist circles.

    • @jaywilliams8386
      @jaywilliams8386 Před 4 měsíci +1

      GOT THAT RIGHT!!! @@thirteenfury

  • @leonhue722
    @leonhue722 Před 4 měsíci +2

    Thousands auditioned for the lead role in this classic movie and Bjorn was lucky enough in landing the part. He had an adventurous experience and was the envy of many boys who lost out.
    He would have most likely ended up the same way film or no film.
    In life, opportunities may come one's way and it's how you seize upon them and optimise the life changing experience

    • @MrMoistIITheRevengeOfTheMoist
      @MrMoistIITheRevengeOfTheMoist Před 3 měsíci

      You’re a dumass who talks like a smartass.
      It’s crazy how people like you will do anything to change the narrative for your own personal feelings, and type it out like it’s factual.
      People like you are why I discipline myself, so when I grow older I don’t let my subjective lies get a hold of me.

  • @watrgrl2
    @watrgrl2 Před 5 měsíci +3

    It’s so sickening how Bjorn was treated. It’s just as sickening that Sweden looked the other way.

  • @madisongracemusic
    @madisongracemusic Před 5 měsíci +2

    What I would do to have a conversation with him. Does he have a book?? I gotta watch his documentary

  • @brisenocturne1441
    @brisenocturne1441 Před 8 měsíci +38

    This is a very sad story

  • @medealkemy
    @medealkemy Před 6 měsíci +15

    Good video, but editing _WAY_ too manic. Gave me a headache. Not sure it's safe for epileptics 😬

    • @KB-tf8vp
      @KB-tf8vp Před 5 měsíci

      Agreed. I had to close my eyes.

  • @GothGuy885
    @GothGuy885 Před 4 měsíci +3

    youth is fleeting. and Beauty fades.
    the passing years and long decades
    now that I am old and Gray
    I long so much for Yesterday.
    but yesterday is no more
    I can never be what I was before.

  • @jelsner5077
    @jelsner5077 Před 5 měsíci +1

    I hope he is able to find some peace and contentment in his later years. Such a sad story.

  • @minmingzhou5311
    @minmingzhou5311 Před 5 měsíci +4

    What are the piano songs in the background called? Specifically the one at 3:12?

    • @oblongshapes
      @oblongshapes Před 5 měsíci +1

      I was wondering this too. Anyone know?

  • @xenarodriguez9820
    @xenarodriguez9820 Před 5 měsíci +17

    Death in Venice feels very Call Me By Your Name. The age gap is just bigger.

    • @jamessergeant2136
      @jamessergeant2136 Před 5 měsíci

      - but they hardly meet in ‘Death in Venice’

    • @samantha28391
      @samantha28391 Před 5 měsíci +5

      I was thinking the same, are we gunna act like Call Me By Your Name wasn't also kinda gross? Timothee was an adult technically but still felt predatory because the age gap is so huge

    • @silvergust
      @silvergust Před 5 měsíci +4

      ​@@samantha28391yeah a lot more ppl have started to critique cmbyn in recent years from what I've noticed

  • @taylornusteling8692
    @taylornusteling8692 Před 6 měsíci +9

    Hope he's living his best life now.

  • @user-eh1sp6wh2l
    @user-eh1sp6wh2l Před 6 měsíci +18

    ほんと!
    曰本の少女マンガの美少年そのものの
    ピョルンさまに、熱狂したでしょうね~
    日本語で歌を歌って下さり、レコードに
    なったと思います。
    「ミッドサマー」で、老人役の彼をみて
    時の流れを感じましたが、
    素敵でした~
    美しく生まれた故に、ご苦労もあったと思いますが、
    それも含めて今があるのですね〜
    ステキな動画ありがとうございます~

  • @rutho.6282
    @rutho.6282 Před 5 měsíci +2

    I wished you reference the myth of Ganymede!!

  • @sweetsugarie
    @sweetsugarie Před 5 měsíci

    I love your videos, really, really love it.

  • @justasy1092
    @justasy1092 Před 8 měsíci +21

    Great video, keep up the good work! 🥰

    • @yilyau
      @yilyau  Před 8 měsíci +2

      Thank you so much, Justasy! 🥰🌹

    • @justasy1092
      @justasy1092 Před 8 měsíci +1

      @@yilyau 🥰
      Sorry about the other comments, haha

    • @yilyau
      @yilyau  Před 8 měsíci +2

      No problem! 🤣👍🏻

  • @mirtikaschultz3282
    @mirtikaschultz3282 Před 5 měsíci +3

    I disagree with some of the comments. He was absolutely stunningly lovely in his youth. No wonder Vischonti was mesmerized by beauty (a visual person, after all, as directors re), but taking a minor to a gay club? Geez. No one should be abused or exploited because they are gifted with beauty, but sadly, all recorded histories and stories show what a terribly human failing this is. Helen of Troy has a word to say.

  • @Skyebright1
    @Skyebright1 Před 6 měsíci +13

    Like Marilyn Monroe or Judy Garland, given pills

  • @tompommerel2136
    @tompommerel2136 Před 5 měsíci +1

    On a more philosophical point: We all travel with our histories, and for those who have been graced with a kind of self-reflection that is more curios than pained, we can begin to have a better relationship with this history. It's a journey all people born in this world MUST UNDERTAKE to discover the difference between victimisation vs life, as well as mere survival vs thriving.

  • @siopaobun3829
    @siopaobun3829 Před 3 měsíci +1

    what is the piano song that begins at 3:14 ?

  • @JoeR203
    @JoeR203 Před 4 měsíci +2

    Jesus Christ these cuts to different photos every half second is ANNOYING!