LETTING GO, GENTLY
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- The real treasures in life are not found in the attic or contained in any physical thing. Our hearts know that real treasures are simply moments, memories and people.
Yet our thoughts cloud what our hearts see so clearly. Our mind tells us to hold on so that we don’t lose something or miss out on anything - that if we let it go, we won’t have enough - and that if we don’t have enough, we won’t be enough.
But no matter how much money you make or how much you have, you’ll never be more content, healthy, happy or loved. Nothing you own will bring someone back into your life or make someone in your life love you more.
If you want a joyful life that is filled with love and happiness, align your actions with your heart. When you finally let go, your heart will embrace your real treasures.
Happiness is letting go of what you think your life is supposed to look like and enjoying it for everything that it is.
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Featuring Gina Niederhumer - www.ginaniederhumer.com
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In collaboration with iNous, we recently released a beautiful deck of 52 cards - each card containing a quote from one of our films, paired with the activating visual muses of Lanon Prigge. The aim of this deck is to rekindle child-like curiosity and creativity, helping to navigate the shared waters of our human experience with grace and joy. If you’d like to consider purchasing your copy, shop here - tgc.link/reflections
Who is Reflections of Life? We are Justine and Michael (previously known as Green Renaissance). We use our passion for filmmaking and our love of storytelling, to remind our audience of one simple truth - that we are all human. The more that we understand and believe in this interconnectedness, the more we will treat ourselves, one another, and planet earth with a greater sense of compassion.
Filming - by Michael Raimondo
Editing - by Justine du Toit
Sound mix - by Tamryn Breakey
Music tracks used in this film:
Alices Theme - by Jakob Lindhagen (via Audiio)
Orange Leaves - by Goldfinch (via Audiio)
Making a Life - by Nova (via Audiio)
Fragile - by Matteo De Grandis (via Audiio)
A Great Distance - by Philip Daniel (via Audiio)
Moving Towards Resolution - by Spearfisher (via Audiio)
Minning - by Osker Wyld (via ArtList)
Nostalgia - by Osker Wyld (via ArtList)
Tea for One - by Yehezkel Raz (via ArtList)
A huge thank you to these guys, who gave so generously of their to time to help with translations, enabling us to provide subtitles in the following languages:
Bulgarian - by Polina Stoyanova
Chinese (Traditional and Simplified) - by Shun-Ying Lu
Dutch - by Karla Greven
English - by Justine du Toit
French - by Amélie Macoin
German - by Tanja Pütz
Greek - by Vicky Polychroni
Hindi - by Parul Sharma
Hungarian - by Zorka Evetovics
Indonesian - by Ary Nuansa
Italian - by Grazia Gironella
Macedonian - by Lidija Pusevska Markovska
Polish - by Anna Konieczna
Portuguese - by Sibylle Steinpass and Lucivani Valvassori
Romanian - by Anca Zaharia
Russian - by Assiya Marzhanova
Slovak - by Zuzana Beratsova
Slovenian - by Jasmina Kovačič
Thai - by Pimmi Uamart
Vietnamese - by Thi Le - Krátké a kreslené filmy
Under 2 min. in, I’m tearful & so grateful for Gina & her message. A few days before my mother transitioned, she looked me directly in my eyes and said, “stop taking life so seriously, it’s not for you to understand, enjoy your life more, please.” With tears in our eyes, we hugged and I nodded like I “got it.” For the last two days, been journaling more & letting go … finally, a decade later, at 59, her words are ringing true. Freedom. Grateful.
🥺🙏🏼💗 So beautiful. You are spreading her wisdom to me now. She is still blessing others. I needed this. Thank you for this gift! 🙏🏼💐
❤Thanks for your help and support for all of us in our process of living in the moment and finding the joy of living regardless of the circumstances that surround us.❤
Your comments resonate with me at this moment and I happen to be 59 s well. Thanks for sharing!
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I am also 59, I was meant to read your comment today. Thank you so much ❤
The joy of getting older is realizing what really matters and not caring about what doesn't.
Thank you for sharing these thoughts with us. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚
Absolutely.♥️
So true❤❤
So true but not for all older humans I’ve met. Reality is too many even in their 90s hang on to what no longer should matter.
So true! It never even crossed my mind because I don't know any of them right now, in the past yes.@@jmc8076
Solitude rather than a bad company is a bliss..
Thank you for sharing this thought Vivechya. Kind wishes Justine and Michael. 💚
Amen to that...
Indeed it is. ❤
Agreed 👍🏽
As an older women, be careful of men who pretend to be interested but who really just want a "nurse" with a purse; someone (you) to take care of them.
And NEVER let them move in with you.
Very true. They hide their malice behind a honey-tongued tongue and wear a mask of virtues. Be prudent and tell ourselves we are capable on our own we manage with our love ❤for ourselves.
Gina sounds like an Irish. My first and best friend is a Irish girl, Felicity Gilmore. I met her her in London. I m still seeking her put and would like to meet up with her. We met in St Philomena located in Euston London.
As a nurse, I agree!!
Yes I have been told that. Men over a certain age want a house keeper and / or a nurse.
So we older guys just depart to the Philippines where we're welcomed, well taken care of and vice versa
Bye now
Gotcha
Problem solved
I wish I lived next door to Gina. We'd sew and paint and talk deeply about deep things. We'd butter bread and drink tea and laugh out loud about holiday men.
Could I join you .
Lovely. Glad you enjoyed the video with her so much Jenna. Warmest hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚
I'd love being neighbors with you and Gina. Deep thinkers & logical, honest people are hard to find. :)
Can I be in your neighborhood too?💜
What a beautiful thing to say ❤
Whenever I find myself feeling down or disillusioned with life, I turn to this channel for solace. It's so comforting to have people from all ages and walks of life who've gone through the strife and struggles of life and come out on the other side, and to be able to hear their stories and be reminded that there is much beyond life than my current struggles as long as I have the courage to go on. I am absolutely amazed by the limitless wisdom and beauty of this channel. Words cannot express my gratitude to you for creating these extraordinary documentaries.
Thank you for your comment, your words mean a lot to us and encourage us. It's wonderful to read that the various stories help and inspire you when you are struggling. May there always be the right video for you at the right time. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚
I do too, that is why I am here today. I do watch it other times but especially when I need uplifting, and good advice from my elders, I come here. Thank you Green Renaissance for such beautiful visual and verbal material.
Your words stand true for me as well, kindred-spirits 🤗Thank you Justine and Michael
Yes me too. Love these beautiful souls that talk of love and peace with themselves and what is. This channel gives me peace and joy
I am feeling all the sadness you mentioned. I am trying to let go and live the moments that I am here. I stumbled across this video and I am so grateful. It really comforted me. I loved how you shared your talk along with your cookies and your neighbor’s cat. I am crying tears of joy. I feel like I was sitting down with an old friend. ❤😊. Thank you.
I am an empty nester, nearing 50 yrs old and have been struggling deeply, with sadness, anxiety and loneliness. Having a difficult time settling into my “now” life. Struggling to accept my aging face and body, my empty home and just trying to figure out what it is that I should be doing with this season of my life. Gina’s story and sweet, gentle wisdom was a balm to my angsty soul. Thank you for showing us how peaceful and joyful the second half of life can be. It gave me a glimmer of hope.
Thank you for sharing your current struggles with us Loretta. So special that Gina's story touched you so greatly. May her words help and inspire you to find your feet and settle in this new phase of your life. Sending you much love. Justine and Michael. 💚
@@ReflectionsofLife thank you! 🙏🏻❤️
❤ I’m in the same place in my life , recently alone at 67 ❤
There is so much you can be doing. Now you can find a friend to go on a cruise with. Get a job in a friendly environment. Volunteer. Find a spouse if you don't have one. You have a full life of your own that is separate from that of your dear children. Take control of it and live it!
I am 51 and experiencing a similar transition - although without children. What is so fascinating to me is how much most of us have in common. (This is beautiful life!) I wish you the very best, sending a smile your way. Happy New Year. ⏳☕️🧭💕
Having watched many of these I think I can say that healing really comes about from having a cat in your life... or a dog, but probably a cat.
Thank you for sharing this thought. Some people prefer cats, others dogs, or another animal. But a pet definitely makes a huge in a person's life. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚
Cat yes
Dogs are wonderful companions! As are cats! Nature is beautiful
Amen about having a cat!!
Not just one cat or two or seventeen but connecting with another life force.I have several cats ,a dog and two horses.I love my life , my family and all that surrounds me. Life is indeed good!
She paints, bakes, writes, speaks well, stich & have a garden 🥹it's a dream life 💕
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I also do most of what she does, and I have a family of 5 to take care of. And yes, its a dream life.
Yes. Many older divorced women have to stay in the workforce indefinitely to afford a roof over their heads, sometimes working several jobs.
There’s balance in everything… we all find time to do things we are interested in.
Perhaps you can find a way to have more of these things in your life too? I hope so ❤
I was married at 19, we have a son and a daughter. My husband passed away October of last year after a battle with brain cancer. We were married 41 years this coming Monday.
Her message resonated with me a lot, maybe in a different way however I really enjoyed and learned from it.😊
You are in my thoughts, though we are Strangers. May you find some solace, even in the grief, on Monday knowing you have been so loved
❤Finding the strength and the ability to live with love for the memories of all of the years of having such a magnificent time with your husband.
The resiliency of making a place for your healing and the way to be present and to enjoy life with a variety of things that are important to spend time in being joyously living in a creative place with gratitude and appreciation in all of the days of your life unfolding in the mystery. ❤You are blessed with the love that you experienced and the love of your life now too.❤
Thank you for sharing a bit about your life Esther. We are really sorry that you had to say good bye to your husband last year after his battle with cancer. May you find strength and inspiration for every new day, especially also for this coming Monday. Wonderful that Gina's message spoke to you and was valuable. Warmest hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚
I’m so sorry for your great loss. When my father died my mom said you never really understand what it’s like to lose your spouse until you do. 💜
the fact of letting go its never been easy however, in my solituded i find calm... thought by times i desired meet one day that married love...i dont know mmm 😊😮
I love how honestly she speaks of heartbreak! So many times people only express the courageous parts of surviving heartbreak. This lovely lady openly shared the hard part. What a blessing! Once again Green Renaissance has blessed me with a beautiful film. Thank you!
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Thanks for your comment and the encouragement to find the love of our lives in each precious moment of our lives. ❤
I agree that we are all blessed with the wonderful postings of Green Renaissance ❤
……Never a disappointment from Green Renaissance….always a careful choice with depth… I share your videos often.
This lovely lady spoke volumes of bittersweet truths.
Going within isn’t always easy, or a first choice, we gloss over our pain, disappointments & harbor them up…
However like a sailboat ⛵️ I must pull up the sails step in & let go ….of my fears… of my choices that bind me up ….. as Gina’s Mum so poignantly said “ Step over it” I liked that…
My Mum would say , often , you can’t fix others, you must mend yourself…..life is full of bittersweet memories.
I raised 2 small boys solo … & as I reflect I wonder how I did it, but with Grace! Yes grace, of many people God put in our paths, we grew together, closer than we thought it could be.
Thank you …. I’m so grateful for your dedication to share life…through sooooo many vessels…
We are the clay… For me He, my God is the potter , molding me from broken pieces… blending colorful experiences together, in my life, with much Grace, Love, & Peace…
Blessings all who watch & listen…may we all embrace Grace …& learn to become a perineal to blossom through seasons… & allow Grace to exude upon & through us….to others..
🌹 I am a perineal growing through the poundings of life..🌹
@@sharonannc.3079Hello. I think you meant to type perennial..which is a type of flower that returns every year in our gardens. You typed perineal which is located in the lower regions of our bodies. Google/YT may have auto-corrected the word by accident. Nevertheless...just wanted to help you out. Much love. 🙏💕
@@sharonannc.3079I liked your comment 😊.
@@krystal7382 😁😆😅🤣!
"Although my head understood it completely ... my heart took a lot longer to accept that" !
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I really liked the message in this video, thank you. Her mother's quote " If there is something you cannot fix, step over it... learn to step over it and let it go"...
So glad you enjoyed the story she shared. Warm wishes, Justine and Michael. 💚
I’ve learned at 30 to let go of what I can’t control and it really made a difference.
Great that you came to tat point and it changed your life positively Shem. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚
I was dependent on heroin and then alcohol. When I learned to accept and let go, that I’m not in control and at the centre of the world, then my recovery started and I started growing up. Thank you.
Thank you for sharing what happened. Wonderful that you were able to turn things around in your life, that you learned to let go. Wishing you all the best for life's journey. Warmest hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚
Thank you for the lovely video I needed just now. I am 75. I feel I am in a good season of my life and feel blessed but I still have periods of overthinking, trying to understand things.Step over it really spoke to me.
Wonderful. We are so happy that this video so valuable to you, may her words inspire and help you in your daily life. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚
I have a sister that’s never still…she’s constantly traveling, constantly seeking new adventures, new places, new people. She and I are only 11 months apart and well into our 60s, both married. I live a very simple life at a house I do not own, at the ocean. We love our simple life. I love Gina’s outlook on life… There is so much beauty all around us. If we only just open our eyes, drink it in and appreciate the small every day things… Every day is an adventure!❤
Thank you for sharing a bit about your life. Glad Gina's message resonated with you. Keep on enjoying the small things, the simple life every day. Much love, Justine and Michael. 💚
i am constantly overwhelmed by the beauty, wisdom, and sense of profound connection that I get from every single story (person) on this channel. Others go to church - I log in to Green Renaissance. And my cup overflows, as they say! As does my heart, and my tears. Just so beautiful - thank you!
Your words touch us. We are so happy that the different videos mean so much to you. Thank you for being a part of our journey. Much love, Justine and Michael. 💚
My sentiments exactly.
Words of wisdom I needed to hear... when it's hard to let go
Complete love and respect for Gina and her words. My soul is touched.
❤Yes ❤We all have to learn how to stabilize ourselves in the inevitable stages of loss and how to get back to be present and joyously living. It is a very important part of our lives and we need to make a decision to get back into our own love of living and to remain grateful for the love that is still existing and how to make peace with the past memories and the loss that is always felt. ❤We can help each other with our own thoughts and feelings about our lives and how we are going through this process of learning to live with love and care for ourselves and others in our lives. ❤
Thank you for being open to her story Gale. Warm wishes, Justine and Michael. 💚
I am in the same proces this lovely woman is. Letting go of everything what was. Just living. I am searching just now for a lovely still place to live. The city is for me to much noise and to much people. I feel lost between this kind of noise and no longer fitting. I am happy on my own and with my cat and nature and my family near. That gives me peace and quiet place comfort me. Thanks Gina for sharing your experience ❤ thanks to Justine and Michael for sharing your channel ❤ i have not much but i give every month a gift for your work. Those messages are so needed ❤
❤Blessings to you and the ability to live with love and care in your life ❤Thanks for sharing your thoughts and feelings on your own personal life in finding your own needs for peace and quiet. ❤
Thanks again ❤
Thanks to you for your lovely woords ❤🎉
I think as we age it’s easy to embrace the concept of JOMO, the joy of missing out.
Lewis Carroll wrote something in Alice in Wonderland. That would apply to today’s overstimulating world, there’s “too much of a munchness.”
Thank you Manuela, your message touches us deeply - firstly because our videos are so valuable to you and also because you feel it in your heart to support our work. We have no words. Please be assured that your support is greatly appreciated.
May you you find that comfortable and still place, away from the hustle and bustle of city life, and live happily every day with your cat and family in close proximity. Wishing you all the best and sending you much love. Justine and Michael. 💚
Thanks so much Justine and Michael ❤🎉
What a beautiful soul this woman is, with all her wisdom, the humour and her immense power to be grateful for the little things that make life precious. And again....Justine & Michael, you made the most beautiful images, a tiny mini-movie it is every time. Thank you. Much love.
❤So very true ❤
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We appreciate all your kind and encouraging words Katja. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚
Sometimes hearing or reading words in a mere 12 minutes can warm the heart. Gina did just that. Although I have not had the children she's had, I too am happy to be living alone and enjoying what nature and life has to offer every day. Thanks for bringing joy by having speakers who truly express appreciation for life.
You are so welcome Patti. We are so glad that the various videos mean a lot to you. So happy that Gina's story of 12 minutes could warm your heart. Sending you hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚
I understand loss and grief better than most. I lost my adult daughter suddenly, and the grief has shattered me. I don’t know if I will ever be at a place of acceptance. The loss of a child isn’t like other types of loss.
Sorry to read about the passing of your daughter, we hear you. It's always hard to lose a loved one but to lose a child is enormously painful. The words fail us somehow. We wish you strength for every new day, may you feel carried.
Maybe this video can be a help: ‘Through The Storm’ - (czcams.com/video/tB98ldnUcTE/video.html). Sending much love and kindness. Justine and Michael. 💚
Although I empathize with your loss, I can’t imagine how much it hurts, I don’t think you can say that you know grief better than most. Losing a parent when you are young or your spouse when your spouse is your only connection in this world is very significant.
I encourage you to leave room for others to feel their grief and not qualify it as a Les or more thing. Coming to terms with your grief in a way that you have no need to compare it with other people is the best way. And I am speaking to myself to.
@@jakeb3055 The loss of an adult child is grief on a whole different level, believe me. Yes, one can easily make comparison. If you haven’t experienced it, you”d never really understand. The grief you mention is very difficult, just not the same. I can’t explain it to you, I just know. I probably should not have posted this here for the same reason you mentioned, to give others room for their own grief. It was self-serving of me. My apologies!
@@jakeb3055 Coulda just left it without feeling the need to go into "correctional mode" It was authentic and totally valid expression of depth of pain & I agree with it.
@@liveacousticsound My heartfelt sympathy to you ! 💜❤🙏You are right ,it is on a whole different level in fact I said the very same thing to someone just recently. You should not feel any need to apologise.😪
Wow!!!! 🥺🙏🏼 "Take care of it as good as you can". My God. How gentle and timely this message. The being at ease. How gentle her soul. Thank you so much for the gift of this message. 🙏🏼💗
You are so welcome. Wonderful to read that her words meant so much to you and that this video reached you at the 'right' time. Sending you warm wishes, Justine and Michael. 💚
Lately, I feel so anxious about living my best life, not doing enough, feeling missing out on all kinds of experiences all the time, but I was gently reminded how beautiful just living is, being immersed in what’s happening around in nature. Breathing, breathing, breathing. Thank you!
Wonderful that Gina's message was so beneficial to you Terese. Enjoy life, breathe. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚
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Wow! I just stumbled into this on my news feed and boy, I NEEDED to see and hear this lovely lady. I have been alone since 2017 and I am just now learning to accept it. I am no longer the pretty young thing always looking for fun and excitement. I am almost 60 years old, childless (not by choice) and I am FINALLY learning that my life is beautiful....just in different ways now. I thought my life was over. I faced cancer and addiction and truly thought that I was going to end up dead and people would say, "She had such a sad life. Maybe it's better and she will finally be at peace." I know now that my life is NOT over. I still have lots to do but in a different way now. I am now subscribed and THANK YOU.
Welcome! So happy you came across our channel, thank you for subscribing. Wonderful that this video reached you at the right time. Thank you for sharing a bit about your life. We are glad you came through all of the difficulties trials and sickness and are here with us. Whatever life holds for you, whatever you will do, we wish you all the best in all you do. Sending you warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚
Your an inspiration.. Thanks for sharing your message.
I don’t know how I saw your video today but my gosh I needed to hear you. My marriage ended after 38 years and my rock was my older sister. Sadly she passed away before I fully recovered but she was there for me when I needed her most. I am still hoping for a beautiful life even though I am 70, have COPD, and live alone. It’s within me I know, and listening to you today I’m much more confident than I was yesterday. Thank you and many blessings.
We are so glad to hear that, in some small way, this film could help to remind you of the strength that you carry within you. Keep carrying your sisters faith and believe in you, forward in your heart. And may you grow stronger and more confident with each new day. We send you love! Justine and Michael. 💚
“Regardless of the outcome, this will always be my treasure.”
That means so much to me. Thanks 😊
Wonderful that these words were so valuable. Much love, Justine and Michael. 💚
Real friends are rare...
Thank you for sharing this thought. Warm wishes, Justine and Michael. 💚
This is exactly what I needed to hear. I’m going through something similiar at the moment and if I end up where this wonderful lady is when I’m her age, I’ll be so thrilled. She said it all. ❤
We are so happy that this was the right message for you. May her words help you along the way and give you strength. Wishing you all the best. Sending you warmest of hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚
This video moved me very much. Currently my husband of 82 and I (75) after a marriage of 51 years are really talking. Expressing how I feel, felt in an honest way. At long last speaking my truth (which does not necessarily has to be his) and he is listening. Not falling into the defensive mode which always made me shut up and just swallow (giving me stomach ache). We're healthy and with luck we may have a good 10 years left. One cannot change the past but we can look and learn. Apologise when called for, cry for the misunderstanding, accept the unchangeable and move on.
And yes I could do with a neighbour like Gina and all the 263 who agreed with Jenna.
I am really glad, you and your husband are talking...one is so grateful when at last that door opens a bit, and real connection is possible. I wish you both all the best.
Good to read your story Willeke and to realize what all can develop after years of marriage. Lovely that you start communicating. Wishing you both many more happy years. Much love, Justine and Michael. 💚
Thank you Gina, thank you Justine and Michael. I have acupuncture sessions and started Qi-gong and although I did yoga for many years, doing this opened up a lot in me. I'm dragging my husband along and he is willing. We walk a lot in the woods near by, talk and cry (me, my husband is English 😊). Btw I'm posting from The Netherlands). Love to you all.
Beautiful
What an uplifting message and congratulations on your excellent progress. So happy for you! ❤️
Another beautiful human, living her journey with eyes, head, and heart wide open to it all! 💞🌸🌎 …and I just have to say Green Renaissance you know exactly how to capture the spirit and daily essence of these lovely souls you come across!🙏💖
Wow, thank you for you kind and encouraging message. Warmest wishes, Justine and Michael. 💚
I'm 33 and reeling from a break up of an almost 9 yr relationship. So much fear, uncertainties, anger, pity, envy. Longing, emptyness and other negative emotions. It is so difficult to date nowadays especially at my age. Most men my age are married or separated or with kids or gay etc. Thank you for the enlightenment. Stay healthy and joyful. ❤
We are sorry to read about your separation. May a way and door open for you to live with more peace again, more hope, fulfillment, etc. may you be able to heal. Sending you much love. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚
U dont need to be in relationship as your relationship with yourself is great ❤
You are 33 only! You have much more than half of your life still to live! There are good people out there but you need to find them.
Mate, in my early 30s I felt I was washed up relationship wise. My business had gone down. I went bankrupt and my then partner left me. I lost my home. Hard times! I met my wife to be at 37. I am now 64 still happily married and blessed with three wonderful kids. Nothing stays the same. Life moves on and you can move with it or stay still - either way change will happen. And if you are at rock bottom, that change can only be for the better. Hoping for good things for you.
Please do not end your life. Keep your life full, dress and look great. But don't look desperate and needy for love or you will be a target for users and abusers. Sending you love and best wishes
Im just 25. When I am hearing this beautiful story, I felt how I am blessed to hear this message now. Living in present, enjoy every little thing in our life. Let things go which we cant control. Just enjoy the simplicity of the life. How amazing the message is ❤ Thank you so much Gina's kind and lovely words ❤
Wonderful that her story meant so much to you Pramu, may her words inspire and help you for your walk through life. Warmest wishes, Justine and Michael. 💚
Yes hold to this life pass so fast
A much as I loved my Children’s father after 20 years of tolerating his constant infidelity I had to leave the marriage. I was immediately emotionally released. It took a few years to become financially stable as I ended up paying for some of his debts as they were incurred while married… we were in Arkansas. I never ask him for repayment as I knew from his previous bad money management record it would have been wasted time.
God continues to Bless me beyond measure.
Thank you for sharing your experiences. We are glad you found stability and contentment after your divorce. Wishing you all the best further. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚
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I wish I had your strength..... 35 years & I know it my heart (tried to leave several times) it's is a toxic relationship & I will be able to breathe one day 🙏 This has helped a lot, especially the acknowledgement it is not easy to leave.... even support people have said he will make it a nightmare 😢 But going on living like this at 54 years is no longer acceptable to me.....this I know to be true ❤
@@susanaustin_filmproducer I had to make a break at the age of forty I was empty inside my children grow up so I made the break it’s not easy I worked bought a small house a old car made mistakes because I allowed people in my life that were on the lookout for a woman that was inexperienced My advice be very careful don’t get involved too Quickly don’t give up your independence It was lovely being me again creating a nice home playing the music I wanted to listen to no man was going to live off me plenty of them about But one day after 10 years alone only a few friends I did meet a kind lovely man who didn’t need what I had We retired and found we liked the same things He asked me to marry him had to think long and hard about it .We are still together have two cats lovely home ect In old age now Thank God for hid guidance over my life I came through.hope you do too
I had a similar experience, just too many lies. The most valuable lessons learned: to value myself more, not to seek vengenance, and to use my God given gifts to help others. God only teuly knows one's heart. It took several years after separating from my husband but now have been blessed with peace, free ness, prosperity, and joy. I never feel alone as I know God watches over me.
I'm waiting for a diagnosis and if it comes positive then I will need to grieve a lot of things and let go.. and here the green renaissance uploaded a video about letting go ❤ the same thing happened when I moved from a toxic relationship.. Please continue to share all this love and wisdom coz believe me you're saving souls
Hope you are doing well...
Wishing you all the best. I know that waiting for a diagnosis can be very unsettling...think positive things and know you will overcome anything.
@@user-dt1bc2vh3m thank you so much ❤️ .. hope you're doing well too
We are very touched to read that this video reached you at this time of uncertainty. May Gina's words help and encourage you. Whatever the diagnosis is, stay strong; we wish you all the best. Sending you much love, Justine and Michael. 💚
@@ReflectionsofLife thank you so much ❤️
Sometimes I feel a bit silly saying the same thing over & over again, how every time I watch one of your films, it’s exactly what I needed. But it’s true. What Gina had to say & how you edited it, spoke directly into what I’ve been going through. She “had” me at the opening poem. The word & theme of our true “home” & the longing to find my way there has captivated my attention for years. The way she named the pain, the process & the freedom now that she is on the other side, validated & resonated with my own. I felt like she addressed both the importance of leaning on people for help and how essential it is to go within to the “inner sanctuary” of our own “home” where only we can go. I too have the kind of mind that wants to understand, to “fix”, to “figure things out”, so I welcome Gina’s mother’s wise words. About a year ago, something happened that brought me to my knees & much of my attention has been on processing it. When Gina said, “What’s the point of dwelling on all the stuff that’s not right?”, she spoke directly into the places I was still holding on to the hurt. (In my case it happened to a loved one.) Like Gina, I’ve journaled pages & pages, sorted it all through with wise mentors & read books on forgiveness. Her words, “I felt at times I could disappear - disintegrate - I was so sad”, nailed it. “My head understood…we did it for the right reasons & with lots of care”, but “my heart took a lot longer to accept that…I don’t think the heart & the mind speak the same language. They often misunderstand each other.” Wow. Her story reminded me that the process of healing has it’s own timetable. It takes what it takes for each of us. We can’t rush it. And what a difference it makes to have even one person who can provide the safety & grace to simply listen - for as long as it takes - and to be that person in someone else’s life - to talk & “rehash” again & again & again” until “eventually you accept it.” And even then to have the thoughts like “maybe we can still fix this. This can’t be happening.” Oh how I love it when people speak the truth about how healing is messy, how it is simply not a straight path. Perhaps the message I most received from this beautiful film is about trust. How we can trust that Life, or God or as Gina said, “nature” desires to move me forward & will not let me “drown”. And how if we can catch ourselves & keep ourselves from the mind wandering into the past or future, it's possible that even in our darkest moment of grief, we might be able to notice little things like “the light shining on the water” that opens us up to see the gifts in it all, regardless of the outcome. So thank you, Gina. I am finding myself where you are now, loving my own everyday, ordinary life, seeing the beauty in the small things & truly feeling like “nothing is missing”. If getting on the other side of the pain & all the lessons we needed to learn is what it takes to truly come “home” to the beautiful life we already have, it’s so worth it. Thank you for being willing to share your story & thank you, GR for the gorgeous way you helped her do so.
Thank you for your heartfelt response. warmest regards, Gina
We have no words. You've said it all dear Linda... more eloquently and with more care, than we ever could. Time and time again, your words give wind to our spirits... and so they soar. With the fullness of these two simple words... Thank You! xxx
Thank you.......I so very much needed to hear this
@lindaparisi74 Thank You for taking the time to share your story with us all...we all go through so much in this life yet seem to somehow have the resilience to keep moving forward ❤
Thank you for bringing us ginas story. What a lovely lady , very genuine. It is good to let go of the so called big things in life. Just collecting all the little joys in life bring peace. As I get older just the joy of having a cup of tea and watching a green reinessance film is rewarding for me. Always a lot to learn from you guys. Thank you x
❤Simple pleasures are the best ❤Thanks for sharing your thoughts and the gratitude of your feelings for Green Renaissance and the peaceful life with joy and contentment. ❤
Pleasure Norri, we are so happy that this story resonated with you so much. Lovely that you watch our videos over a cup of tea, sounds lovely. We hope we can share many more stories with you. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚
NEEDED to hear this SO badly in my life right now! Thank you❤️
So beautifully and eloquently put. Simple profundity. Yet, there are traces of sadness in your acceptance. However, it no longer causes you to suffer. I am on a similar journey and this wondrous clip has become my 'walking stick' ❤
Lovely to hear that Gina's message was so significant for you. May her words inspire and help you on your walk through life. Warmest wishes, Justine and Michael. 💚
To make a new whole from all the broken pieces and not see any cracks in it is the biggest takeaway here. Gina is quietly attributing this strength to her being older but more than than it’s her awareness towards her being and not doing. She is definitely home and misses nothing. 🙌🏼Profound
Thank you for sharing these beautiful thoughts with us Riyana, so happy her message meant a lot to you. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚
there is so much love in the warmth and comfort in this Woman. Peace and quiet. My heart is grateful to Her.
We are really happy you you enjoyed listening to her. Warmest wishes, Justine and Michael. 💚
Your story spoke to the deepest hurts of my heart and soul. Just as I am needing it. Moment by moment, breath by breath, I want to get to where you are now. Thank you for sharing with us.
You are so welcome, we are glad her words were so meaningful. May they inspire and help you. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚
As always, you have captured such beautiful sentiments in the soul of a beautiful person who has traveled a challenging road but emerged into the sunlight, radiant and grateful! You and she are great blessings to this world!
Oh wow, thanks Kaitlin. So beautifully written. We are so glad that we could share Gina's story and many others with you. Much love, Justine and Michael. 💚
Today has enough trouble of it's own - Jesus ❤
The cat doesn't have a problem being a cat. It just is. The infinite now is all there is.
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A lovely film. I'm 65 and learning to let go. As I do so, the joy of the little things increases. Thank you for sharing this little glimpse of your life.
You're very welcome! We are so happy for you that you are on a beautiful journey Jan. Enjoy. Warmest hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚
This blessed woman is the definition of aging gracefully. This synchronistically popped up on my screen when I very much needed to feel her peace 🙏 thank you.
Wonderful that the video was suggested at such a fitting time. Glad we were able to share her story with you. Warmest wishes, Justine and Michael. 💚
I really enjoyed listening to this beautiful woman and her message. I even took notes! Thank you! ❤🙏🕊
You are welcome Heidi. We are glad her message contained a lot of valuable points for you. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚
I’m 57 years old female suffering from anxiety and fear.only my faith keeps me going..people only have hurt me …the world has become very scary..I do not do things which I used to enjoy..music,reading etc..how can I pull through.
@@mercyshanthi9555 One day at a time. Your faith will carry you through this part of your journey. God's grace is sufficient and He will meet you at your point of need. Lean on Him and His Word!!!!! Please remember, fear is NOT from God, it is from the "enemy." Refocus and as Gina said...start "letting go, gently!" You are in my prayers.
Me too and sent it to my friend mail to listen another day 😊
There definitely a disconnect with the heart and mind when letting go, it takes time and courage to Integrate them. ❤
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Yes it is our mind being realistic about the situation and calling time on it. While the heart suddenly gets sentimental about what was and what should of been but was not.
Du bist wie eine Blume……so wunderbar mit Gefühl gesprochen, und zufrieden mit einen ausgefüllten Leben….❤️🦋🧑🎨
Gina is correct when she says “The small things…the beauty in the small things…” Perfect x
So happy her message resonated with you Mary. Warmest hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚
Another beautiful film of an artist at home, with wise words as a bonus. 'You don't need the big things to be happy'. I feel no need to travel. When I was young a trip was something to count the days toward, to escape the present. Several years ago I was asked to accompany an acquaintance on an overseas tour. I had no time to count the months. And I didn't even pour over the itinerary. Every single thing was a complete surprise, so it was all good, no disappointments. And I learned that to satisfy this spurious desire to be far from home we have to suffer the misery of airline travel. Life here is peaceful and rich. You don't have to be a painter. I used to be a professional artist. Now in my seventies I prefer the fleeting, immaterial pleasure of learning to play piano. It accumulates no stuff, asks for no one's approval.
Thank you for your kind words about this video and for sharing your story, your experiences. Interesting. We are glad you like life as it is now, enjoy every day. Much love, Justine and Michael. 💚
How wonderful.😊 I stayed with my husband for financial reasons. We have been married for 50 years & it’s been a roller coaster ride. Three years ago I came into a small inheritance but within these last 3 years my husband also has developed prostate cancer & beginning stages of dementia so I now feel trapped because if I were to leave now my daughters would feel they are responsible for their fathers care & I wouldn’t want that. So I wait.
Thank you for sharing, we hear you. We wish you strength and all the best. May you make the right decisions. Sending you warmest of hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚
"Das Glück der kleinen Dinge", yes, that`s so true. I can relate to your story so well Gina. When I choose to think of my past, I choose the good memories. I do not think of the past a lot, because I like to enjoy the present moment and I also love to imagine what my future will bring. The past for me is like a book, with old stories or maybe a sweater I knitted. When I am done "reading" it, or "knitting" it, I am not sad! It is not gone or lost. It is right there, in the shelf, ready for me to use or not. I am grateful and I enjoy the small things in life, reading, writing, crafting, a walk in the forest, fresh fennel bulbs, given to me by my neighbour, the once a month knitting circle and so on.....
Huggs from Fairy Tale Cottage, Schurwald Forest, Germany. ❤🌲🌲🌲
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Thank you for sharing about your life Christina, very happy you enjoyed Gina's story. We are glad you found your happiness in the small things of life too. Sending you warm hugs to the Schurwald Forest, Justine and Michael. 💚
God be the Glory! We cannot do this life alone. Thank you 🙏
I love the way she explained everything I was also married for almost 40 yrs and like Gina says you need to talk about it because it's grieving the loss the company the ups and downs you grieve about everything. Now I am happy and content even though I don't have anyone in my life, if it happens it happens if it doesn't well then that's life. Next time around I will hopefully do better 🙏🏻❤️🙏🏻
So glad her message resonated with you Lesley. Nice that you are happy and content, wishing you all the best for your further journey through life. Warmest wishes, Justine and Michael. 💚
Beautiful. Her message about needing to be patient enough to let yourself come out on the other side... poignant. And much needed. Thank you.
So happy we could share this valuable story with you Lisa. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚
This video somehow made me cry! But wasn’t the tears of sadness at all instead I feel a touch in my soul. This is such a beautiful video, beautiful editing, beautiful cinematography. I hope I will find peace within myself as I get older. At least 1% of hers. And I couldn't be in love more with her house. ♥︎☻
Thank you for writing this comment and sharing your thoughts. So happy you enjoyed the video. We hope the video inspired you to find some of that peace. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚
Dalle sofferenze nasce la consapevolezza di apprezzare poi le cose semplici,compresi i ricordi belli.E'questa la vita che ognuno sogna di vivere.Graxie per questo bel video 💖💖💖🙋🏻
We are glad her message resonated with you Ombretta. Yes, hard times often teach us so much. Thank you for watching. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚
She is such a beautiful, lovely and wise woman 💚. She talks about her former husband with such grace and love. Wishing her a wonderful life😊
Thank you for your kind words and wishes Carly. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚
“Life is a conveyer belt, we just have to be patient enough to move along and know that, we will come out of sadness”
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Ich finde so schön wenn normale Menschen über normale" Sachen" reden so wie das Leben eben läuft. Weil so viele von uns genauso fühlen und manchmal fühlt man sich doch sehr einsam und dann siehst so was schönes und denkst Aha ich bin doch nicht die einzige die so denkt oder fühlt. Danke😊
It's lovely to read your thoughts, glad her message resonated so much with you. In some way or another many of us do and think the same, struggle with similar issues, etc. - no matter where we live. May her words inspire and carry you. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚
@@ReflectionsofLife thank You for all this work and time. A little but stil so important piece of Hope in such a bad time.
It is hard to overcome loneliness in old age.
Beautiful message. Her peace with life is tangible.
So happy you enjoyed the message she shared Todra. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚
I believe there’s a higher power watching over us because this just came through and is exactly what I need right now ❤
So wonderful that the video reached you at the right time. Warm wishes, Justine and Michael. 💚
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I always find joy in the small things!❤
That's lovely Ann Marie. May it never change. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚
Your videographer is stellar. Thank you for sharing these exceptional moments and inspirational people.
Thank you for your words of encouragement, it means a lot to us. We are glad that we can share these videos with you. Sending you warmest of hugs. Justine and Michael. 💚
The people and their wisdom you feature on your films never cease to amaze me. This lady says so much about life in just a few minutes. May she continue to be blessed.
Thank you for your lovely and kind message Patrick. So glad you enjoyed listening to her. Warm wishes, Justine and Michael. 💚
This ‘was’ a beautiful life ->this ‘IS’ a Beautiful life.., continue to create happy moments🙏🏻🌷…
So encouraging. I want to grow in the way I spend my quiet days. Dare to try more art and find beautiful places to spend time in. Especially now that the summer heat is going away. I identify with so much that she said about this single older lady life. Such calm wisdom.
So happy you enjoyed what she shared Terri. May her words inspire you. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚
*”I have loved you. I have had to deal with that.”*
The quote by Salma Deera has stuck in me since I read the words and felt them to be true. When I was younger and the heartache very fresh, I couldn’t fathom how _dealing with that_ could ever look anything like “living”. As I’ve gotten older and had the chance to sit with my grief it has become more bearable and I realize how true this woman’s message is that really we must take it one day at a time.
She also gives me such hope for the future: that there is still so much beauty and happiness to be had in _the dealing._
Many thanks to Green Renaissance and to this dear woman for sharing with us❤
Lovely comment, quotation and thoughts. Thanks for sharing it with all of us, it invites us to ponder. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚
I absolutely love this. Thank you for sharing. ❤
You are so welcome! Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚
Superb, as always!
I love the short video portion of the soapsuds going down the drain for itself and its metaphoric/poetic value.
Thanks a lot for your encouraging message Nicole. Lovely that you pointed out that specific scene in the video, that it expressed so much for you. Warmest hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚
This speaks to me so much - your story, your experiences, your feelings. I've been going through them for most of my life - loss, grief, solitude, overthinking, unrequited love, constant journaling. I hope to experience the kind of inner peace you have someday. What a lovely video. It made me hopeful albeit in tears.
Thank you for sharing a bit about your life. May the video encourage, inspire and help you to find this inner peace. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚
Thank you for your videos. They help ♥✌Best wishes to Gina in this one :)
It's wonderful that we can share these videos with you Paul, so glad they are helpful. Thank you for your kind wishes to Gina. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚
You are an extraordinary human being. Thank you so much for sharing your wisdom your truth and your life.
You are so welcome Melanie, it's a joy to share her story with you. Warmest wishes, Justine and Michael. 💚
!!! 04:09 THIS!!! I'm growing through a breakup atm and this resonates with me so much. This was so beautiful and I really needed this at this moment in my life. Thank you for sharing, love and blessings ❤
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Thanks for your comment and for your feelings about the way to find your joy regardless of the circumstances.
It is so important to spend time with the love of your life in simple ways that give you peace and happiness. ❤Take care and nurture yourself and have fun with the many different things that you find are creative and enjoyable ❤We all are very blessed and worthy of the love of our lives in recognizing that we are always our own best friends.
Even in a long-term relationship that is fabulous, we are still the individual who has knowledge of our best interests and the clarity of our responsibilities in our lives. Trust in yourself always and be present in life with a strong heart and mind that is open and honest ❤
ENJOY LIFE WITH EXUBERANCE
You are so welcome Martin, glad her message was helpful. We hope things come right again for you. Warm wishes, Justine and Michael. 💚
I think sometimes the partner we choose when we are young is the right one for us then , yet it can happen that’s as we grow sometimes our paths differ , we go in a different direction and we each must follow our own path and that’s ok 🧡
Thanks for sharing this view Giselle. Kind wishes, Justine and Michael. 💚
What a beautiful lady, inside and out. She has made me realise i need to worry less . I need to stop trying to make sense of those things that hurt so very desperately , yet were senseless, in my life. I need to just live and be....life is a beautiful gift
So happy you enjoyed listening to her Jacqueline. We hope her words inspire you. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚
As always, the most beautiful video, with the most beautiful message🙏🏼💗
Thanks so much Elodie, your words mean a lot to us. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚
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I am so happy to see, that more and more people are choosing to live a simple life and enjoy it. It's so beautiful ❤
Thank you for sharing these thoughts. So happy her story resonated with you. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚
I've always felt that it is better to be alone, than in a relationship and lonely! When we are alone, we can the fullness of our lives! I also love the wisdom in your words of reflection, that you are "grateful for these treasures." Thank you for your deeply moving, very "grounded" story of the substance within our unique lives, even as individuals.
So happy her story spoke to you. Glad we were able to share it with you. Warmest wishes, Justine and Michael. 💚
Indeed. Much rather be alone than lonely 😊🙏🌸
Good wisdom here. You always seems to find the humanity to share in your stories. You are creating a library of wisdom for us all. Thank you ❤️
Thank you for your lovely and encouraging message. Beautiful thought you shared about 'creating a library of wisdom'. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚
So schön. Ich dachte, die ganze Zeit, sie kommt aus Österreich 🇦🇹- das Englisch klingt so Austrian 😊 und dann sagt sie „Das Glück der kleinen Dinge“.
Alles Liebe ❤. Take care❤. Thank you for this wonderful message.
Und die Gmundner Keramik ❤. Just sipping a coffee from a wonderful Gmundner Streublumen Tasse. Greetings from 🇦🇹 ❤
Ja, ich bin aus Österreich. Liebe Grüsse, Gina
Lovely comment Maria, thank you for sharing. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚
I cried when she spoke of her treasure now I can’t stop crying bless her grateful heart happy to hear she feels there’s nothing missing in her life❤
Nice that you could allow yourself to let her message touch you so deeply Samantha. Sending you warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚
Those look like lovely, hand knit socks. As a knitter, to me, that is part of ‘a life well-lived’. Best Wishes, and Many Thanks for sharing your journey.
Beautiful message Tess. So happy you enjoyed Gina's story. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚
Jesus said do not worry about tomorrow it has enough troubles if its own ❤❤❤
This lady says such simple things but they are often with the deepest meaning ❤❤❤
We are so happy her message resonated with you so deeply, glad we could share her story with you. Warmest wishes, Justine and Michael. 💚
Another beautiful being. Ive come to realise that if you give people space and time even the ordinary people we come across every day have stories to tell us in meaningful ways. Theres a beautiful story in everyone, expecially with such lovely photographing of their quotidien life!.
Your word reflect exactly what we experience as well Brenda - we all have a story to share if we just take the time to listen and be open for one another. Glad you enjoyed Gina's story. Much love, Justine and Michael. 💚
I remember you well and always admired your wonderful creativity and you really inspired my creative journey with your amazing shop which was filled with all your excellent hand work .I wish you the best on your journey
Lovely message Colleen, glad her creative work inspired you. Warm wishes, Justine and Michael. 💚
Absolutely agree that the small things matter soooo much. What a wonderful woman who clearly has moved on from a very difficult chapter. Love these videos so much and never fail to get something out of them or relate in some way or another. GR you are still the best thing on CZcams!! TFS. A very grateful watcher in Suffolk England.
Thank you for your kind and encouraging message Nell. We are so happy you enjoyed the video and the films in general give you so much. Sending you warmest wishes to Suffolk, England. Justine and Michael. 💚
This video is poetry 🙏
Beautiful words Ramash, thank you. Warmest wishes, Justine and Michael. 💚
Wasting energy robs you of valuable living time!! How true.
So happy her message resonated with you. Warm wishes, Justine and Michael. 💚
People with faith are strong; People who doubt a lot are weak. Strong belief surpasses great actions.
Oh, just beautiful. Gina speaks the language of my heart. Thank you Gina for sharing simple and small beauties with us, for reminding us of Life! Thanks Green Renaissance!! 🌱🌳🪻
Glad you enjoyed the video so much Marietjie. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚
This is the message I needed to hear. Thank you so much.
That's wonderful that Gina's message was so significant for you. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚
I’m going through a break up after 12 years of togetherness, and I’ve been really focused on the negative parts of our relationship as a way to continue to justify why this has to happen. I have been avoiding thinking about the good times, so as not to feel their loss or doubt my decision. When she started talking about the good times being her treasure, I started bawling. I haven’t lost those times and they aren’t going away with him. I will always have them as memories in my heart as treasures and blessings. Her words helped me find a place for those wonderful memories ❤
How beautiful that her words meant such a lot to you, that you could find that place for the precious memories. All the best for the road head. Warmest wishes, Justine and Michael. 💚
I’m grateful for the time we had together. ❤
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Real treasures are simply moments, memories and people, what a Sunday Blessings 🙏💞, thank you Gina, thank you Green Renaissance for making the world a much better place 🌸🌺💗...
Thank you for your beautiful and encouraging words Leo, so happy this story blessed you. Warmest wishes, Justine and Michael. 💚
@@ReflectionsofLife Thank you 🙏💞
Don’t know how I landed here just now but it was meant to be. Gina your mums words, “step over it” were what I needed to hear today. And your wise words on life so honest and true. Thank you. 🎈
You are welcome. We are glad you came across our channel/this video at a time when you needed it. Warmest hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚
@@ReflectionsofLifethank you both🎈
Thank you for this beautiful video and the heartfelt wisdom conveyed.❤️
You are so welcome Cheryl. Thank you for watching. Warm wishes, Justine and Michael. 💚
What a beautiful woman Gina is, i love her wisdom, i too have learned to live in the now, at 63 i enjoy my life and im thankful every morning for having the gift of a new day. I thought i heard a little German accent 😊, I'm German also , but living in the US. Gina thanks for sharing from the heart 💜, viel Glück und Segen, and hugs from Washington State.❤❤
Thank you Conny, Ja zum deutschen accent...Ich bin aus Österreich.
@@ginaniederhumer6914 ahh ok :), ganz liebe Grüße an dich.
Glad you enjoyed her story Conny. Wonderful that you also learned appreciating every new day. Sending you warm wishes to Washington State, Justine and Michael. 💚
Oh this was such a special video. What a lovely woman who makes me feel excited about growing older and reminds me to focus on the moment of life not the future. Thank you for capturing her beautiful essence and sharing it with the world :)
You are so welcome! So glad you enjoyed her message. Warmest hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚