Jordan Peterson: The harsh reality of Alpha Male life
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"You want to manage people? They're not going to like you."
Golden
It's only true because management is different from leadership.
@@ZiYaD-Bin-Fahad True. People always look up to good leaders. A good leader will inspire and wont need to "manage" others that much.
james managers say go do this. Go do that. Leaders inspire and motivate. Leaders help people grow and become the best version of themselves they can be. There are endless books, blogs, and articles that explain the difference.
@Tyler TR actually I own my own business. You are right. I dont manage. I lead.
@joshua james
A leader does the right things.
A manager does the things right.
"Works 80 hours a week, doesn't care about their kids, obsessed with success." I didn't know Peterson knew my dad
Really, my Dad left when I was 12 but I have seen a lot of families that seem perfect on the outside but once you spend time with them you see it isn't how it looks. Sounds like your Dad is driven but not caring...sorry to hear that.
kjh311 - the ironic part is you are most likely just like him. 😁
I wish my parents bwere driven. I absolutely love driven people.
I thought normal people should work about 40-50 hours a week at most?
Working 80 seem like he/she should be single since they won’t be able to handle marriage and having a children at all....
g 59*88 that’s one heck of a dedication.
My dad told me and my friends when we started a construction company; when you own the business you only have to work half days. Pick any twelve hours you want to work a day ,seven days a week.
Well said.
Yep!! LOL!!
How do you get involved in this business ?
Yup.
And in the 12 hours you do 4 hours of eating, driving and checking things and yourself. That's the fuel to make 8 hours efficient and worth doing.
In the last few months I have radically changed my views on what I want to do and be in life. As a female teen I would never have wanted to be a stay-at-home mum. The lie we are told is that in order to be a successful, happy, fulfilled woman you need to be out there doing what the men do, climbing the corporate ladder. I now see that is a lie. Women were made to do the immensely important job that nobody else can do - home-building, nurturing and fruitfulness. Our whole bodies are built to create another human being and raise it. That is not a second-rate job. It takes hard work to do it well, and it is just as valuable, fulfilling and rewarding as working outside of the home, if not more. When done well it is world-changing.
It was immensely satisfying reading your post.
Please make sure to tell this to other women, you are what the world needs right noe
How rare you are...
Thanks for the support everyone! To be honest I was expecting mostly backlash. I try to tell my female friends about this but it's a very touchy subject, a bit controversial. It's hard because many of my friends are single but would like to be married, it's just a much more confused world and getting married and having kids young (in your 20s) is a bit harder. But not impossible!
@A M I agree, and I don't yet have children but when I do I'd like to still work and be creative in some other capacities. The difference is ensuring that your work (inside or outside of the home) is for the good of the family rather than at the expense of the family.
it's funny how common sense is so rare that it now sounds like genius
no, it's a term that means "obvious truths about the way things work"
It requires a genius and smart mind to separate common sense from common madness.
@@alexandria5758
I think it is because it SHOULD be common. Not because it is common.
Yup
Brilliant
“ Everybody wants to be a bodybuilder, but don't nobody want to lift no heavy-ass weights.”
nobody really wants to take the injections needed, fuck their kidneys and eating more than 15000kcal a day plus 3g per kg of protein, thats expensive as hell.
don't be silly, its not about weight lifts anyway.
Light weight baby!!!
@@sparcx86channel42 that's probably because it's a metaphor for the fact that everyone wants to be this great, amazing, something (in mens' case a bodybuilder since we're made to think that shit is the ideal) but nobody wants to do the hard work to get there.
@@sparcx86channel42 don't forget.... roids... roids... roids... roids
@@sparcx86channel42 You have not understood the fundamental point.
"Men with obsessions are the only reason any advanced civilization exists." -brian padrick drake
No, men with obsession take all the credit from the workforce they mercilessly tyrannize.
@@innerparty1 Newton was obsessed with math and invented calculus.
Without calculus, we would have never had electronic devices.
Without electronic devices, we would have never had the internet.
Without the internet, you would have never have been able to post your shitty ignorant comment.
Being obsessed with work is completely fine IMO. I find it quite noble
@@innerparty1 if women stepped up and worked 70+ hours a week like men do, maybe they would also be ahead in the workforce
@@bullymaguire2061 Talk about ignorant, assigning the invention of calculus to one man.
The camera man is awesome, he lern the pattern of Jordan in moving.
Agreed
Might be automatic
Da
@quzacciRE Thanks!
Everyone wants to shine like a diamond, but no one want to get cut
Dalia Flora that's deep shit
Love it...
Or more precisely relating to this video: everyone thinks they want to be a top dog but arent actually willing to work themselves into an early grave, be hated by most of their subordinates, alienate themselves from their kids and partner and have basically little life outside the monomanaical pursuit of status. And more people should get real and understand they don't actually want that even if they were capable of doing it.
Dalia Flora everyone wants to go to heaven, but no one wants to die
Everyone think it be like it do, but it ain't
My wife‘s boyfriend always reassures me I‘m an alpha male.
🤯
😂😷🤣
Lol
Thats Dark as Fuck bro
Hol up
This is true, my friends dad runs a big company. And he sometimes has to work for three days straight without sleep if there’s a problem with the business.
Its not just your job though as the boss. Its everyone that works for you. I've owned businesses and managed a few pubs in my time. There is nothing worse than letting competent workers go because you couldn't sort your shit out in time. It hurts your businesses, reputation and mental health. You literally have to work like that at times. It can suck at times but I need to ensure my kids (when I finally have them) will have everything they could ever need and a safety net. When I die I want generations of my family to do well out of it.
... at least, that's what he tells his family.
@@zhain0 Give a man a fish and you feed him for a day. Teach a man to fish and you feed him forever.
Teach your kids to take care of themselves and just make sure their needs are met while they are young and starting out. Warn them that you will cut them off and then tell them to prepare.
Teach them to pass this down through generations and you will do better than many rich families which last only 3 generations.
@@dariankaltenbach8062 100%, most are lucky if it lasts 2 generations. I want to teach my kids to earn money, not work for people.
I love how his lectures are just intelligent rants.
@@hughmungus370 Absolute gibberish.
Jordan Peterson is a joke that is being passed off as intellectualism. It is hilarious how people think this stuff is brilliant.
@@juliosanchez8263 And you're brilliant? What are your successes?
Lol, it’s like Ben Shapiro.
@@hughmungus370 keep shilling idiot
"you're so clueless when you're 19 - you don't know a damn thing" - Absolute gold.
BlackManOps I’m 19 rn.
He said bloody
Not necessarily
I'm 19 sheesh
@@eonstar2441 Everyone is different
I desire a certain softness in a women. I'm not talking about a pushover. A lot of women try to emulate men in their pursuit to be seen as their equal. Equal does not mean identical. A dollar is equal to four quarters. The fact that you can not rip those quarters in half does not suggest some hidden imbalances in equity. Masculinity complements femininity. It's not suppose to be in competition with it. We're not suppose to be on the same page.
BearLionMan amen
Most women, at least here in Silicon Valley have lost their kinder gentler sides in order to accomplish their goals. I respect that but view them as competition only and not potential mates. I really don't want to be married to another dude.
Your post and your user name indicate that you are insecure. And your analogy makes no sense at all.
Ideally, yes. But since men (general, not specifically you) are often competitive & nasty to women while trying to get their attention is how men shoot themselves in the foot -repeatedly.
Women aren't attracted to nasty men, unless they've become quite damaged themselves.
Want softer women? Then men need to stop acting like complete asses to us!
This might be a newsflash, but people don't like being around bullies.
Go BearLionMan!
How often have you heard someone say, "he or she has a really great, high paying job" instead of saying "he or she has a job with extraordinary responsibility"?
All the time?
@play gray or you could just use "he" and accept that it has nothing to do with patriarchy and it simply is a grammatical point. Speeds things up
@@ariavalentine4401 I checked my Patriarchy Handbook and yes what you are saying is correct.
There's no responsibility. The higher you are in the hierarchy, the less there's responsibility. The responsible people are those who are at the bottom and actually have to get the job done, or else. If you f up as a ceo, you get golden handshake and equally high paying job at another company. Surgeons don't get sacked if they accidentally kill the patient either.
@@sebu1301 nonsense
Jordan Peterson is one of the brightest minds and best educators of our age. I wish him well and pray for his full and speedy recovery from his recent health problems.
you spelled white supremacist grifter wrong
Everyone want's to be the boss, until something goes wrong, and someone needs to be held accountable.
This is why the alpha wanna-bes won't stay in this game for long.
Trump's appointed officials, now by majority, have fallen on this sword.
...sorry, just saying.
They call me "fire on the spot Scott".
yeah so they just pin it on a worker. Welcome to the 21st century
@Jin Sakai I work for a railroad and you literally have to record all your conversations just to keep your superiors in check. They always try to avoid a paper trail. They know the safety rules and continually try and make employees break them and then when something goes wrong. It's your fault because you didn't follow safety guidelines. But if you follow all the guidelines you can't get your work done. Its just a constant game of cat and mouse.
I’m an alpha male, I know cause my mom tells me every time I come out of her basement to grab a sandwich from the kitchen.
Good alpha boy!
Slyfoot Soldier thank you sir 😎
Beta
Funny, and I assume that you are joking, but be careful when a woman is stroking your ego. It's a form of dominance. I have seen it personally with some of my friends. My advice, get the TF out, get your own place and your own car and depend solely on yourself.
She doesn't bring the sandwich down to you? You're a simp
"What happens when double the work force?" "You halve the value" Bingo. You will never hear that from an economist since they all work for the 1%.
What’s that mean in more context?
Every Economist says that..
@@questionyourself718 Correction: Every economist knows it but they don't say it.
He has confused cause and effect. The USA government removed the dollar from its relationship with gold in 1973. Funding the “great society” and the Vietnam war required printing money with no objective value, doubling the money supply. The dollar being worth half as much motivated women to work to maintain the standard of living. Price inflation in the ‘70s was a bitch. Women didn’t decide Enmass to get jobs their families needed the money. I am an economist. I don’t work for the 1%. Dr. P has no way of knowing this. University hasn’t taught proper economics in many years.
Doubling the workforce does not half the value of labor. Both the US and Europe have empirical data that disproves this assertion from the 1920s thru 2020. Value of labor is not directly tied to supply, as not all jobs are paid the same. The value of labor is impacted by supply, but also by demand. We have a global shortage of doctors right now. We could double the supply of doctors, and still see doctors getting paid more over time than they are today.
This has definitely made me think. I've told myself my entire life that I don't want a wife and children, but here at 37, I've become a seriously lonely man. I'm sure the quarantine isn't helping me in that regard, but still...Jordan has definitely given me something to think about.
Stay strong my man. Enjoy your own company while you can because one day you might get the wife and kids and miss that time in quarantine you could do whatever the hell you wanted! :-)
Better be lonely than be lonely slave..
Hmm there is still time to attract good women tho in your age
I told myself the same thing. I got married at 38, had my first child at 45 and my second at 47. Crazy what life throws at you. Not saying that this what you want, but anything can happen.
People wanna be alpha based on the perception of how others view them that’s not real confidence
100%.
They want to be on top of the food chain for the power and dominance.
Wow. That is so obvious and I never really thought of it that way. All these videos on “how to become alpha” are all ways to appear alpha to others. We try to practice how to become more confident when all we learn is how to feel as if we are. Life’s crazy
@@edpsdad8663 they are literally trying to be seen as alpha because they care about how others perceive them to be, a genuine alphamale in my opinion wouldnt even think or care about how others perceive him because he is too invested in bettering himself for himself
@@rml4289 This is called the Sigma Male.
@@starwalk3r so many people are insecure about themselves and they dont realise, they wanna impress people who do not have their best interest
I’m shocked he got away with speaking so freely and bluntly without being fired or sued. I agree with everything he said but everything is so politically correct these days people can’t speak the truth without career ending consequences.
That's because in Canada freedom of speech isn't just a figure of speech. That's why he got in trouble in the first place. Because he said forcing gender pronouns defies freedom of speech. If he was in the US he would have been censored the minute he opened his mouth.
He didn't get away with it. A huge amount of people tried their very best to shut him up.
@@MrHarumakiSensei This. A ton of people tried to slander him and back him into corners. That's part of the reason you seem him get mad in many interviews and then begin breaking things down.
Everyone else is sayin crap. Why not an honest right guy for a change ?
No one could argue with him
he's literally truth bombing his entire class about their misguided life choices...brilliant
Jordan Peterson is a joke that is being passed off as intellectualism. It is hilarious how people think this stuff is brilliant.
@@juliosanchez8263 in the era of the children of the lie, just speaking the truth is revolutionary
@@juliosanchez8263 It's more hilarious seeing people like you that have nothing to do but comment in videos of people they don't like and seemingly trying to do their own life miserable by wasting time and energy on it.
@@juliosanchez8263 It’s amazing how ignorant narcissist like you can think you hold a candle with your two Liner mental vomit and think it actually holds a candle to the facts logic and reality Dr. JBP is saying
@@juliosanchez8263 anyone who actually listens to JP would like him. its fuck hats who dont actually research anything and learn their opinions and speaking points from social media and clickbait headlines don't. its ... literally impossible not to respect that dude. jokes on you
I am a single woman, Gen X, without children. I look at what many of my divorced friends, both male and female have gone through. I also now see my friends raising their grandchildren because their children are not fit parents. I think I'm better off single. I have nothing against marriage or children but never met a man that I wanted to do both with, as we have values that are different enough that it never would have worked. I don't think sweeping generalities always apply.
Didnt generalize talking facts, your case is relatively rare
Most turn people down looking for the perfect person
I’m gonna need a bigger glass of water to help me swallow all these red pills.
the insane pursuit of status & money to the exclusion of all else is something most people are neither capable of nor desire but yet a lot of people are brainwashed into thinking they should try to do this. If that piece of commonsense advice is what passes for 'redpilling' then so be it I guess...
@Dan M7my health is very good and It's precisely because I have a desire for life that I don't want to spend all my time 'at the office' chasing some idea of status. And neither do most men despite what your 'how to be an alpha nale' gurus may sold you. This is actually the message Peterson is trying to get across here. Most people (men or women) are not capable of climbing to the top of dominance hierarchies and neither do they actually want or need to when it comes down to it. Funny how so many men seem to have interpreted it as a motivational pep talk to get to the top If you just man up and spend 90 hrs per week working your face off. If that's what you want to do then be my guest but don't give the rest of us this pseudoscience bunk about 'testosterone levels'. Mine are so high hair is coming out ofcevety orifice and burning the hair off the top of my head and it doesn't make any difference.
I need someone to talk to
Edward Chong what red pills? This guy is saying it’s a mistake to not have kids. It’s a very myopic statement.
I ahve enough money to not ever have to work for the rets of my life in my early 30's and I still want to blow my fucking brains out from time to time..
“Smoking cigars and oppressing the world..”
😂
Every Marxist ever. 😔
Cris that is just a happy side effect for them lol
To be fair they have pointed out that smoking is bad by mentioning the many negative side affects and symptoms of the drug tobacco such as teeth decay,lung cancer,heart disease,astshma
Which causes FAS or FDS
I know i grew up with Neuropathy
Absolutely priceless reality download. May be the best JP video I've seen, as he packs so much in under 6 minutes.
My dad told me back in the 70s our future problems in the work place and in the Church are not because of aggressive women but because of lazy men. How right he was.
There is no prize for being the richest person in the cemetery
...
Well better to be rich, you will find yourself on cementary anyway...
Tushae
Emma Johnson there’s not prizes for being dead, period
There is no prize for being weak
Who gives a shit about "who you think you are" in a cemetary?
I really like seeing him wearing a cardigan. It makes me feel like he's in my living room dropping knowledge bombs after a nice family dinner.
Lmao so true
Standard college professor garb
Derek C what you say?
What's a cardigan?
@@davidw.4524 google it
Once the family is not the way of life, the way of life is over.
Traditionally in most African cultures that's something our forefathers tried to teach us, but people especially in Botswana & South Africa have started to adopt
the modern western mindset that is destroying the moral standards we had set years ago to ensure our people would live in relative peace and order.
Thats ridiculous. Why does everyone have to have kids its not one size fits all bro. Kids are annoying as fuck . Fuck that shit
@@hangloosejanjuc kids raised in the right environment can be just as mature and in some cases even more mature than adults.
Not everyone wants kids. People who DO have kids feel like it's the moral responsibility of everyone else to do the same.
Look bud, I am sorry you're ties down to your family. Not everyone wants that. I get to travel 2 new countries every month and enjoy myself. I get to see the world, and explore life. Yes someday when I turn 40 that will cease to exist and I'll go work at an NGO. I don't want kids. I feel that having kids is a burden for me. No I won't change my mind. I won't regret it. I think the pressure society puts on having kids is bullshit and serves no purpose. Thank you for coming to my ted talk
His videos are mislabeled. It's about you should have kids not about alpha males.
This is basically a description of my father. He always works. In his free time he was unavailable because he was exhausted. It took a tool on my mother. I've never actually bonded with him in my life(even though I have attempted). He is a good person and has allowed our family to live comfortably. I am grateful for what I am given, but it came at a cost.
Race to the bottom if you’re faulting your dad. fathers that are always around not working tend to have bad habits or else they’d be working. What’s worse, just because a father doesn’t work much doesn’t mean they’d be around anymore! Your mom woulda left him
at least your father isnt abusive , appreciate you have a good caring father
@@baze703 do not get me wrong. I am not complaining. I am just trying reflecting on the video. Do not get me wrong, I am by no means complaining - I have a very privileged life. And my father has worked his ass off for me me got have it. But as all things it has a price
@@lisaan6322 I am not complaining, I am very privileged. I'm just reflecting. I can't even imagine how a life within an abusive family is.
Great things come with a cost, and don't come easily. I'm sure you benefited from this.
Oh man I could sit through this guys lectures with ease. That’s a good Professor, actually educating students instead of trying to humor them.
Same, I sit here with my coffee, poor but happy, enjoying over material gains this wealth of information everyone else glosses over on their way to the next ass-clown's music video, or what one idiot politician is doing to compete against the next. Not just Peterson but he is still good.
I so agree... college would have been awesome if we'd had professors like him
When you’re 19 you don’t know anything but when you’re 16 you know everything
WOAH
James Taylor what does that mean?
Ifraz Ali 16 year olds think they know everything but at 19 they realize they really don't know anything
Odexcily thank you
Damn Creed... I miss the office.
The older you get (that is if you have sense at all) the more important your family is to you.
I consider myself a self-proclaimed intellectual but this dude speaks things i know but on a much deeper level
I fear having kids and then watching my ex-wife divorce me and take them from me. Then claim a weekly check called "child support"...
Actually, the first thing that is scary is the pain and the acknowledgment of being rejected...sadly.
@DESCARGA SOCIAL LATAM absolutely! That's what I've talked to my recent girlfriend about. But, it's hard to accept that in certain cultures
let the breeders have kids, and keep your money and enjoy it, while chuckling at the breeders shopping for their cheap, inflammable, market-stall sportswear.
You need kids. Someone has to bury you.
#mgtow brother
He's absolutely right, in my college, apart from STEM degrees, the whole college is occupied with girls
Most won't even use the degree. They'll waste it leveraging a high- income Man to pay for them to breed and live easy. Then divorce the guy, take everything and ask for even more alimony (never pick up the degree).That's where half of those women's degrees go.
@@frankcrosby6222 It's been a while sicne I read so much stupidity in 1 comment, nice job.
@@kalolord 90% of psychology, sociology, gender studies, women's studies, English literature degrees.... women. Can 9 out of 10 people even support a family on these career trajectories? Triggered much? :)
@@frankcrosby6222 That wasn't your original claim. You stated most women use their degrees to leverage a high income man then divorce them and take their money.
Now you're stating that these careers can't support a family.
Make up your mind about your argument (or insult me further, whichever you find easier ;))
@@kalolord well... the divorce statistics: 70% proceeded by women. The divorce rate is between 50-80% depending on what point in your life that you make that mistake. Family courts are 99% pro-mother. Women ALL know these figures to some degree and know full well what they are doing. The marriage game is bullshit for men.
Followed Jordan for years, so glad he took off via youtube , so hardworking. For me this is one of his most hard hitting mini lecture videos, utter brilliant. I am of a similar age, he hits the button every time. I note that If this video came out now, I am sure the Woke brigade would be utterly 'outraged' in their usual narcistic manner. Keep it coming Jordan!
nearly 67 and never regretted not having kids
There is something wrong with how you view the world. It's not a common thing in living species to not multiply or have offspring.
@@SauhardaBista because humanity is so in line with nature
These students must leave this class speechless and dazed. They are not used to blunt truth. LOL.
You must have never gone to college because this is pretty standard lecture stuff.
Valentin de las Carreras
I agree. I had one professor who was so far to the side of communism that he was fired because he kept telling the student to get guns and shoot the state legislature.
@MarfMagic Ugh stop reminding me man I only got a month left
@@matthew8153 um what? how is that communism?
That blunt truth Got Them high
This man speaks some serious sense, a great mind. I’m happy he’s viral for the world to see him speak.
@Timothy Brandriff I know it's hard to understand at first Tim and that's why I was hesitant to even contact you online but oh well, I tried. Only time will show you the truth. Stay strong bud
@Timothy Brandriff - "Actually, Peterson is a fraud"
How is he a fraud? You don't think what he's saying in this video is true?
@Timothy Brandriff - I'm not following you here. I watched the video and Jefferies asked Peterson a question to which Peterson didn't agree. After reflection Peterson then said "maybe I was wrong".
I wouldn't call that getting "owned". I've often held beliefs that, upon reflection, or had explained to me in a way I hadn't considered before, decided were wrong. That's just being human. Just because you teach a course at a college doesn't make you infallible. I actually have more respect for Peterson now than if he'd have stubbornly stuck to his earlier belief.
And what do you mean by "outflanked by a stand-up comedian on a basic issue"? Are you saying stand up comics are idiots? And I'd hardly call it a basic issue. It's understanding the distinction between what is morally good/bad behavior vs. what is right/wrong behavior imposed by law/force.
You can believe Peterson is a fraud but you haven't submitted anything that would compel me to believe it also.
Peterson: "Okay. Maybe I was wrong on this issue."
Timothy Brandriff: "GOT HIM!. I FINALLY DESTROYED PETERSON. HE'S HISTORY, HE'LL NEVER WORK AGAIN!"
This makes him a fraud? Because he agreed perhaps he was mistaken? I guess we're all frauds then.
@Timothy Brandriff Doesn't matter who he "appeals" to. Facts are facts, and he speaks them very well. Many people's lives have been very positively changed by him. I suggest opening your mind to logic and reasoning. I know its hard to challenge your beliefs but its necessary
Bro I’m from Wigan too ytb
If he was my professor in college, I would have enjoyed it. Maybe 1 of my 50 professors or so was close to this.
I mean like I knew everything still his presentation skills are marvelous
"When you're 19, you dont't have a damn clue"
*is 19*
I'm certain he's right. The more I learn about life, the more clueless I feel. And when tragedy strikes, you become aware of this fact.
I'm 23 now and each year I am still in awe of how much wiser I've gotten compared to last year. In other words, I realize how stupid I've been up till this exact point, and continue to realize the same thing each year.
you're probably not the type of 19-year old he's talking about
@@averageasian5462 just turned 28. That doesnt stop. 🤣
Soheilus Yes. But it gets better mate. Much much better; or at least, clearer ..
The first step to Man ness and wisdom is knowing how much You Don’t Know. Then LIVE to acquire experience, which is the only real knowledge (Einstein quote). Then you will begin to gain wisdom from said experience .... (as relayed to me by a 56 year old mate, and a 61 year old too).
I am 49, just ... ;-)
If you're not a liberal in your 20s you have no heart and if you're not a conservative in your 30s you have no brain
I just got an ad for JP's book.
Not mad.
Something Hank Hahahaha I totally agree bro
Lukcy :(
A solid winter break read tho...
The link`s posted here, no accident.
Woah I didn’t even consider that the reason both parents now need to work. I appreciate how you show the path to each point.
Now I respect him even more. He speaks his mind so freely :)
Being Alpha doesn't have much to do with being an avoidant workaholic. He didn't utter the word 'alpha' at any time, so you've written the title at your own interpretation.
@E A The more ethical you are, the more successful you'll be.
Third Position Except dominance hierarchy is a better term to use than “alpha. Alpha when it comes to Homo sapiens is completely meaningless due to our social structure. There are more aggressive and masculine men, but these men are or should also be compassionate and have emotional maturity when it comes to raising kids, and these same men may not be at the top of their social structure of friends or they may not be the best at their job. Do you see how meaningless it would be to say “oh he’s alpha” because he’s muscular or is aggressive?
X2
@@BadMannerKorea Aggression doesnt make you alpha. What an "alpha" is, is choosen by the women.
From this point Justin Bieber is an Alpha since he is famous. Women are attracted to men who are liked by other ppl.
@@halleffect5439 So Greta Thunberg is "alpha", because media - and in response part of population likes her? :) By your definition, anybody, who is center of attention is "alpha". But society doesnt revolve around this at all.
Clowns are not rulers. They are slaves to their audience.
Peterson is right.
I used to be this guy. Then I learned how to be a good dad. Best life choice I ever made.
Are you implying that Jordan Peterson is not a good father?
I used to be the guy who worked many hours and managed others. I played a very competitive game. Then I had a chance to switch gears and focus solely on family, my wife and kids. This was the best decision I have ever made. JP is someone I look up to.
@@dumpsterdan1510 am trying to switch gears too!!
@@xJB1032x So you are saying that you are Cathy Newman?
Same here bud. I worked in operations and worked 60-70 hrs per week. No i'm in sales and life is way better.
Great lecture. Subscribed
I’ve run large businesses for over 15 years. Jordan is absolutely correct. That’s why these people get paid so much. Not many people can do it.
I find it so interesting that my dad was this example. He worked 12hrs a day 7 a week. He owned his own business, he was ultra competitive. Then he had 2 heart attacks and is being forced to relax. Being that person puts a lot of stress on you.
Everyone wants to go to heaven, but nobody wants to die.
Krešimir Ćosić I do lol
@Max I gotchu bro it was a hustle but I love to hustle
@Max I mean yeah at first I was like dude tf u doing w them mfers down there but stg y’all really not staying on gods path so what he supposed to do
@Max Fuck that nigga Samael bro
Daj te metal core quotove
I had multiple relationships up until now (27) and it didn't give me anything in return but when I was working, I felt great. Learning new skills, learning your limit, working as hard as possible are what some of us should do. I understood very well, I am not someone father/lover/boyfriend material so why putting my energy on that. I will work work work.... money money money.... lifting weights lifting weights lifting weights (the only thing I enjoy alone with learning new historical facts)
Everyone wants to be the boss until they actually are the boss and realize it's not as easy as they thought it would be
Kurt Cobain called he wants his cardigan back
I want you to be my neighbor
@@angelgonzalez5418 Lmao is that a reference
Jordan Peterson is a rockstar in psychology! So, he’s allowed to wear the Kurt Cobain MTV Unplugged cardigan!
I needed a good laugh :)
Val Valerian Mr. Rogers
The only man who dares to speak the truth with total fearlessness. A hero of our time.
He can't speak the truth because he has a dumb rule "don't criticise the world until your house is in perfect order"
e.g. benzos almosts killed him but he can't criticise the system that created, licensed prescribed etc these drugs because he's not back to perfect order because benzos fucked him up so much
He's packaging's bits and pieces of deep psychology with pop psychology and giving it a right-wing spin. He hopes to land himself a television show like Doctor Phil. The wrong person following some of his advice would completely destroy their lives.
Soldiers and police officers are examples of true heroes, not a man who talks and talks. Jordan Peterson is smart as hell with his high IQ, but he's just a thinker, not a man who takes action. Look at the people who served and currently served in the military and law enforcement. Most don't have special degrees or high intelligence, they just work hard and hope for the best their actions made or make a difference. Their are no guarantees of success in life. Jordan Peterson "thinks" he knows best, but words don't win wars or end bad people, action does.
More of us than you think.
Randy Bobandy thanks for the recommendation. I just subscribed to him. Sense talker.
In days bygone, men had to work hard, smart and ruthlessly because the price of success was everything while failure spelled death.
Women's days of empowerment are nothing compared to the darker ages when men paved the way for this bright, safe and sanitized world that we snowflakes live in. Blood and death.. that was what those men knew.
Then good not everyone is rich like US and Europe snowflakes, welcome to Ukraine, I can show you blood and death right there! Come to us 🤣
That's so true.
"You load 16 tons, and what do you get? Another day older and deeper in debt. Saint Peter don'tcha call me cuz I can't gooooooo.... I owe my soul to the company store." - Ernie Ford, Sixteen Tons
@@justsomenamelesssoul8097 zack is probably talking about civilized countrys. by civilized i don`t mean the normal people living there.
more the leaders who run the country.
@@gireaffe3457 i won't pretend i understood what you just said, i didn't
My dad was one such man. Home was his office. Day, night, weekends...Work. He was a freedom fighter. Couldn't blame him. He now Rests a well deserved rest. His mantle is on me now. But I don't intend to sacrifice my family on the alter of "nation work."
what did he do?
Why do some women want to become a man so much??
My take on it is that they want to feel secure and safe. And in the effeminate world we live in.. they can’t find a real man so they feel like they have to take control because nobody will. Unless they meet an alpha 😂 or at least a strong man
@@Spiritual_self_mastery Women were actively trying to get power without responsibility since before they could vote, give women money and they become single moms, they want what resources/protection men offer not the man. They are 100% pragmatic, give a man money and he still wants a wife. It's a difference in biology
@@Spiritual_self_mastery this has been happening long before men were effeminate, women want it all naturally. Technically it's because men let them but you can't exercise Male authority when women are the majority of voters and their guys right the laws based on their interests.
Simple to gain power and have independent life just as men do
@Forrest Black I don't think so they just want to live an independent life like men do
"There won't be a damn man left in university in ten years" wuuut
TheUnDrunkPCBastard _ I’m just trying to get my chemistry degree and dippin. These colleges are going downhill fast
That's good....you don't get a real education at university anyway.
Is that education worth the money
@@alexanderleo6809 in some countries you can study at universities for free, the question is if its worth the time
Except for STEM fields
You are getting to the core jordan... right at the core where it matters.
Noah Forman you just made my day. What a wonderful world hay
More knowledge and wisdom in 5 minutes than 4 years of my bachelor degree.
Im sorry about that 😢
Thats because most college professors only teach political correctness, and are essentially White-guilt enforcers.
@Otie Jason more than you 👌🏽
Hahh
Well then maybe you should pay attention :D. I am not quite sure how Peterson's ideas (which are not facts by the way) are of any meaning for your future career.
Wait a minute...where the fuck are the leather patches for the elbows on the sweater? Lost all credibility.
*who the fuck is this guy again?*
That's a shooting sweater you're talking about. There are no guns to shoot in Canada.
aretee3 misinformation..we have guns, but no murder..only hunting accidents. Wanna go hunting?
Hov Jordan Peterson
He should burn that jersey. Then burn it again. Afterwards, he should bury the ashes and say 5x Hail Marys.
Nurse here
Dr I worked like this hard his whole life had a thriving family practice became sick cancer! Came to the facility where for years he bossed us around! Btw great doc! Just a bit intimidating atleast for me. Then he became my pt. So humble as the care I had to do was very personal and private but he gave me unsolicited advice once during care. He said don’t work to hard ! Spend time with your family! Omg 😮 this is early 70 something yr old who just closed his practice after working non stop for over 40 years!
That’s exactly what the MGTOW movement and people like Kevin Samuels are now saying all over CZcams
Follow your purpose.
Jordan "roughly speaking" Peterson
Shh
DON'T YOU!!
🤣
Voice of Mark Zuckerberg physical appereance of Peter Capaldi
That’s all you were able to get out of the lecture??
Everyone already knew everything he just said, in 2020 no one has the balls to say it loud!
The issue is guys like myself today are called sexist an bigot at times. Due to the fact we don't fall in line with their political bullshit today; call bull where I see it been told I'm the last of a dieing breed my whole life.
A lot more of us than you think.
@@sonicice8340 I don't care what people/soyciety, thinks of me. I will tell them how it is and I have no filter either. Sigma male here though. My life. My rules. I lead a wolfpack of one and thats how I like it. No mess. No drama. No fuss. We can just train the next generation.
Candace Owens does...
3:32 I've been thinking about that for quite a while. Who really gained from "female empowerment"? Industries: twice the workforce, which can be paid less because now houses have more incomes.
When in doubt about the motifs, follow the money, and see who gained as a consequence.
Glad Jordan is feeling a little better, recovering, and working again
This man changed my pathetic life. Thank you Dr. Peterson
Jordan Peterson is a joke that is being passed off as intellectualism. It is hilarious how people think this stuff is brilliant.
@@juliosanchez8263 🤣 ID10T form for you.
Damn you Jordan Peterson. Stop being right about stuff!
Gus Grimm Well his economic ideas are a kinda retarded but otherwise i agree
Broxty My statement about disagreeing with his economic concepts but agreeing with some of his other ideas?
Are you not capable of agreeing with certain ideas a person holds but disagreeing with other ideas they hold? Or do you just worship people and follow 100% of what they say you?
You're as valuable a life form as jello. You just don't comprehend my statement you fucking simp.
Broxty Even if i grant you that my wording is off...you shouldn't lack the critical thinking to figure out what i meant. You're deductive skills are border line mentally challenged. Can you even wipe your own ass? The fact you couldn't gather from my statement the clear meaning behind it scares me.
You're the kind of person that if it's snowing outside and the "S" on a stop sign is covered up, you'd run through it then sue the city because the "Stop" wasn't clear enough for you on the sign. Can you even solve a cross word puzzle?
How do you navigate the world if you can't infer anything? Everything had to be spelled out clearly for you to understand it?
See, youtube threads like this prove a lot of what Peterson says. That underlying ostensibly peaceful, rational debate between men is the primal urge to destroy or dominate the opponent via raw physical violence. The level of hatred--and I fall victim to it myself often--that can be conjured up in online sociopolitical disagreements is the kind that can really only be satisfied by paleolithic club-wielding. But in absence of melee weaponry and physical proximity we resort to the most spiteful, venomous name-calling we can possibly muster. The word needs to be spread: the current state of division in the western world is due to PEOPLE CONFLATING THE VERY CORE OF THEIR BEING WITH THEIR POLITICAL VIEWPOINTS. It is on the left and the right in equal measure, and if it doesn't stop the future can only be chaos. "If a kingdom be divided against itself, that kingdom cannot stand."
Yeah, unfair ain't it?
Very interesting
Well said!
This Dude is so intelligent. I have seen his stuff before, and am still
always impressed.
Really because what he said doesn’t make sense. The rise of labor force doesn’t drive wages down at all that’s now how that works.
Rocky Mckay I disagree; more potential employees pursuing the Same number of positions certainly does drive wages down. That is basic supply and demand.
Dont have kids if your not ready or willing to grow up yourself
Jojocall. Please inform the poorly educated, drug addicted Wal Mart shopping masses of your observation. Then, inform the SUV driving, tanning salon Soccer Moms same.
But you will not have to inform me. I am too fucked up , my family is too fucked up, our society and the Future is too fucked up...for me to cruelty squirt more Humans into this Dystopia.
That's why I don't have kids. Too much responsibility.
After the Rain’ by Nickleback.”
“All your life, scramble and scurry
Take your time, rather than hurry
Never too late to write the best of your story
Remember to breathe or else you're gonna be sorry
Life's no race, it's a companion
Always face with reckless abandon
The ticket to life as my mother once told me
Stick with your pride and you're gonna be lonely (gonna be lonely)
Everybody says that life takes patience
But nobody wants to wait
Everybody says we need salvation
But nobody wants to be saved
The light in the tunnel is just another runaway train
The blue skies we wait on
Are gonna have to come after the rain
Spend your days happy and grateful
Avoid the taste of wanting and wasteful
Every good thing will come in moderation
Envy and greed will only lead to frustration
Choose your friends, carefree and kindly
Choose your words, careful and wisely
Always be there to lend a comforting shoulder
One will be there to share a day when you're older (a day when you're older}
Everybody says that life takes patience
But nobody wants to wait
Everybody says we need salvation
But nobody wants to be saved
The light in the tunnel is just another runaway train
The blue skies we wait on
Are gonna have to come after the rain
All mistakes, committed upon us
Always take a toll on the conscience
Every regret is a debt that you live with
Never forget to remember forgiveness
Everybody says that life takes patience
But nobody wants to wait
Everybody says we need salvation
But nobody wants to be saved
The light in the tunnel is just another runaway train
The blue skies we wait on
Are gonna have to come after the rain (ra-ai-ai-ain)
Gonna have to come after the rain (ra-ai-ai-ain)
Gonna have to come after the rain (ra-ai-ai-ain)
Gonna have to come after the rain (ra-ai-ai-ain)
Rain, yeah
Ra-ai-ai-ain
Gonna have to come after the rain.”
Life is too precious to be lived without God, love and companionship. We were never meant to be alone. We were never meant to dedicate our lives to something, versus someone. Peterson is right, women, for the most part, need babies. Men need women, women need men. All the subtleties of that are what form the crucial relationship. Porn will tell you that women should be ground beneath a man's foot, but the opposite of porn is Jesus Christ, who said "Husbands, love your wives." Promiscuity doesn't lead to freedom, it leads to solitude. How can a woman who has had sex with a multitude of men ever bond with just one? She is left, after the youth has faded, with no man, no children, and sadly, no desirability. Even wealth is cold and lonely. I was lousy at being a manager of people because I hated being the asshole that I had to be. I'd rather do it myself than boss other people. 31 years ago I did the smartest thing I ever did, I married my wife. And like the path less taken, that made all the difference. The only thing really worth competing over is life. Fight for life or death, all else is posing. Victory may be had with either event. You see, sometimes you have to choose your own reality; God or godless. Life or death. Love or whatever its opposite is. But choose something and choose with wisdom. A woman is not less than a man, just different. A good one is worth the choosing.
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😏 You wear the mask... Now get the mark, because it's the new normal? 🤨 Sure do miss freedom, but whether your a slave or a sheeple, who cares... As long as you freely obey, Reicht? 🤔 Your Papers Please!! Danke 👽
You lost me at Nickleback. ; ).
Unfortuantely that idea only works some of the time. Cool song though
Well said.
He teaches so many life lessons. I think some of his students are unaware of how powerful his teachings are. They will likely look back and remember what he taught and realize how great Jordan is.
Yes he is good, however has the Presenter Ever worn the 80.0 hour a week job shoes in a Leadership Position? Most likely No.
@@HighSpeedNoDrag are you kidding? Listen to him, he has the personality that gives itself 100% and frenetically. He is that type he's describing.
@@Rustsamurai1 He is good and as a professor excellent. He is not speaking from experience, That's all.
He's good when he's right. But most people are
@@HighSpeedNoDrag are you only allowed to understand and speak on something if you've lived through it?
What makes Jordan so exciting to watch is his PURE CONVICTION on what he is saying.
Many things I agree with and disagree with but the PURE CONVICTION is what landed him that book on 12 rules.
Great Job.
The pure conviction to get into a medically induced coma.
just curious, what are the things u disagree with ?
I’m 19 and it’s true. I’m very clueless with what direction I want to go in my career. I want to find balance in Joy and work. I don’t know a bloody thing.
Love this man! He says it as it is
So you're saying.. Women deserve less money?
😂
L O B S T E R
My gf and I actually get paid the same, but it's because I didn't want my owner's draw to be taxed at 39.6% + state bullshit.
So we shave around 10% off the taxes while doubling the household income by listing her as an employee of the company.
Poor people argue over gender, rich people are too busy doing real shit to care.
Cult Comedy ha!
Nice meme you got there....
thanks for editing out all the slow parts
I just wish one day I can sit in his class and listen to those golden words live♥️
He hits the nail on the head every time.
Omg I need this Prof at my college!
Yes we need this kind of teachers. All around the world .
fishface494 ... Your statement made no fucking sense.
Brutus Tan ..... There's a difference between a leftist and a left extremist. Just like you're a right-wing extremist.... I don't agree with either side and you sound just as clueless as he does. I'm not going to debate with you. Being "left" or "right" had nothing to do with it. You Strange ones just love putting politics into everything and blaming others for your problems.
Conversation over.
junshan wang I know, right?
Exactly!!
The term 'alpha', and people who call themselves that are usually lazy as hell.
Anytime i hear alpha these days i have to roll my eyes.
@@chrisrenfro2058 it's getting pretty annoying tbh first rule of being alpha you don't announce it to people they just know.
Sooo true. It’s the same as people who claim they make a lot of money. The ones who are successful financially usually don’t tell others for reasons that needn’t be explained
Солнцевская Братва yep. Rented
Alpha's in the society are usually high-income earners
Thank you!
You are one of the best at what you do!
I don't mind alone time, as an INFP - type, I live and love life inside my head and heart, I write every day, listen to music and work is a hobby inside my head all the time. As Admin I work all the time, so glad and thankfull I am not the only Admin @ work ore in my life.
Brb. @workwork
Wanted to listen to more of that!!
Jordan Peterson is a joke that is being passed off as intellectualism. It is hilarious how people think this stuff is brilliant.
What he's talking about, 80 hours a week, reminds me of my dad. I love you dad.
Go tell him. As soon as possible.
Yeah my pops works long hours too. I know because I work with him and sometimes even I get 16 hour days
what are you teenage boy?
My dad worked his butt off to provide a good life for us and we did thank him and brag about him while he was alive
My dad came from nothing and built an empire before his passing
Thanks for this video.
It explains the dynamics at a much larger scale than most are used.
Bonus: The man has seen it himself with his own eyes.
AgeofMachines He’s a brilliant guy, but he’s off on why wages are flat. He attributes it all to population growth, but the truth is, so many jobs are just plain not here anymore. They’ve been automated and outsourced...entire industries have flooded out of the country to take advantage of near slave labor. Hell, we outsource to prisoners in our own country for slave wages. Today, the top employer in the country is Wal-Mart, which has taken full advantage of foreign slave labor, along with most corporations...allowing them to be so cheap, when one opens, other businesses in the area have to close. We’’ve also been bombarded with foreigners into the country through legal and illegal immigration, and work Visas. This, while many more women enter the workforce. 50 years ago, most women stayed home with the kids. Feminists convinced them they were getting screwed, and now most work, creating a much higher percentage of the population taking jobs, and dramatically increasing the labor supply. Add to that, political corruption, decline of unions, and people living and working longer...it’s not as simple as he says, it’s not pretty, and it’s getting worse.
It's not just the stagnant wages that have contributed to the decline of single-income families. Since the US ended the gold-standard in 1971, the value of the dollar has depreciated immensely. Gold used to trade at $38/oz. By the 1980's, it went as high as $800+/oz. As the Federal Reserve continues to print money out of thin air, the price of everything has increased. Food, housing, healthcare, education, etc.
By the 1980's to the current time, I'm sure many 2-income families have gone from prosperous-to-struggling. Who watches the kids when both parents are working to put food on the table, and a roof over their heads? Who is there to be a positive role-model? Worst still, if the parents are separated. Of those kids who grew up in broken homes from the 1990's, up to today, how many of them end up negative and nihilistic? Isn't it harder to be a productive alpha-type, if there is no no alpha-type there to lead and live by example?
And on the other end, you have people like Elon Musk, who seem to be accurate examples of the first half of the lecture. The guy works over 100+ hours to see the success of Space X, Tesla Motors, not to mention side projects like Solar City, The Boring Company, and Hyper Loop. With that much time dedicated to work, I can imagine what little time he has left for his kids, as well as what was allocated left over for his two ex-wives, and ex Amber Heard.
Bruce Smith
Yeah I see the automation/AI/tech surge all day. Other than my dad, Peterson crisply identified my own dilemma in terms of my work/life balance and style.
Often the "relationships" as defined today do not benefit men. They only serve to reinforce someone else's agenda or worse use others to appear normal (trophy wife anyone?). Guys need the basic things they've always needed yet we live in an age where that is being hotly contested and redefined by people who will never be men. Emotional needs of men aren't met in romantic relationships as they resemble college hazing rituals constantly berating men and putting them on the defensive for being men. How royally unfulfilling. The men in doctor Peterson's speech are not relationship averse. They just see relationships like any other pursuit, weigh the costs and benefits, see next to no benefit and choose to skip the relationship. Lets not forget the parasitic variety of this where the man is picked precisely because he shows potential as a hard worker but once together is berated for working.
H1 Visas here are only part of the story. Many US companies here have identical footprints in China and India so this notion of a whiteanglo American company running everything is super comical if not delusional on levels.
Add the extra dimension of Indian companies hiring us born workers and the lines blur further.
Add the idea of more women working while the erosion of decorum between genders intensifies the pressures men face. Work 80 hours a week and get #metoo'd right out the very office that he's dedicated his life to - even if the accusations are false. Curriculum isn't playing to or developing male strengths in schools. Weak or absent men in the home and combined with men that are never fully developed to their full potential and Dr Peterson's speech takes on a starkly somber outlook.
In science we call that a 0 evidence, likely a lie, of a case study. Who the fuck cares what he saw, its not statistically relevant and its prone to confirmation bias, maybe if you pseudo-intellectuals pulled your heads outta Jordan's ass you could notice.
Mims Zanadunstedt OFC it is not statistically relevant, but let's put it like that: a highly intelligent psychology professor is likely to make qualitatively admissible empirical observations. If you don't see the value in that and take it with a certain measure of belief, then you have literally no idea what research science etc. Is about.
That's a very interesting point about the devaluation of wage earners when they double, meaning both men and women, twice the workers equals half the pay hypothetically. supply and demand in a way ive never thought of. If a stock is valued as such, double the amount of stock and its value is cut in half.
0:53 “and women are more agreeable than men” woman in front row nods
1:36 - that sound effect when he says "you're done".
Where were these vidoes all my life :(
I needed these lessons long ago.
Thx for another video Jordan
Julius Caesar
Same here. I could’ve used this loooooong ago
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Julius Caesar I like jordan but his ideas of something being wrong with women not wanting a child is kinda insane
Acute Cloudd Maybe he is right... maybe it's not something logical but psychological that makes people not to have any children children
Julius Caesar - beware the Ides of March ......
A damn good lecture...
So true!