Social Confidence - How To Face Rejection With Confidence
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Rejected, rejected, rejected really cracked me up
LOL
I have been watching this video for the last few years whenever I'm getting any kind of rejection. It really transformed my life and the way I look at this situation, and it always amazes me how accurate Dr. Aziz gets in such a short video. One of my favorites.
Thank you so much, I'm grateful it's so useful to you!
Thanks for all the amazing information. After watching this I feel like if you can make such a transformation, and you were just as socially anxious as I am; I too can change myself and approach people without freaking out that people will judge me and reject me.
Just want to say thank you so much! You are so inspirational and have given me so much more confidence in myself. Honestly dating is a lot to do with your mindset. You have to be positive, persistent and brave in order to succeed. You're so right with what you say about rejection being part of life and it doesn't necessarily mean anything about you as a person. You have to reframe these situations, learn and keep taking risks and putting yourself out there in order to succeed. That's what shows real strength in character and separates the men from the boys!
thanks Dr. aziz for being my role model
I apperitiate your work GREAT SIR
Very true dis wat 'Dr Aziz' is saying and he seems so down to earth noil, Gd luck to him and at least he is trying to Help.
Aziz sir, your videos are changing my life positively, thanks ever very much :)
Rejected, rejected, rejected !!!!! 😂😂
Calvyn Wright Haha, indeed : )
You say truth and keep going man. I will watch every video of you.
Do you finished?
Hey...I really appreciate what you are doing ....Infact i normally watch more videos like this and normally after i finish i promise to do the exact methods on having a high self esteem ...yet later on that day when something of that matter happens to me i totally do not apply the methods taught to cope after for instance"depression".....I mean after I've watched this video I'm sure I'm gonna take into heed your advice.....a gross thumbs up to you sir and please keep up the good work ....And I'm sure that u know that it touches some peoples life like it has done to me...I'm kindly requesting on advice to resolve my self-esteem problems...I'm a dude in middle school and have a sibling who has a topnotch self-esteem about herself and yet I'm the total opposite and it somewhat thumps me to the ground when people often question the comparisons with her and I...through that it has made me not noticingly (pardon my grammar) often made me face-downwards when speaking to people......
I would appreciate a response in advice and thanks a lot for taking your time to read my paragraph considering my self conscious
I'd actually prefer if she started screaming, "rejected!" Haha would probably make me laugh and ease the tension.
LOL :)
Wow. Amazing video as always. Definitely made a breakthrough today listening to this! Thank you! Everything you put out is on point! 👌🏼
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Really like your presentation style, from these older vids to the newer vids. Very good advice. Think I'll try your book soon
Awesome, let me know what you think!
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Hi Dr. Aziz, I'm watching your videos daily. They really help me to get out of shyness and social anxiety. I had a relationship a few months ago, actually, it was going only 2 months and suddenly he told me that he needs to break up with me and he unfriend me from FB and block me from his phone and also he has changed his number also. I felt a really worst kind of rejection and it was very painful because I really loved him. Getting a harsh rejection suddenly by someone you love is a very painful. I couldn't tolerate that pain, now I hate him for doing those things for me. Even though he did those stuff I didn't go to react to those things.What I did is I also changed my number. Because In those times I couldn't react to those things as I was in love with him so much. That relationship wasn't bad he also treated me nicely first but suddenly he changed. But what I felt when I was in that relationship is I'm not stable within my self yet. I was worried about what others think of me etc. Even I was shy to hold his hand in front of my friends because when they staring at us I felt really uncomfortable so I tried to hide our relationship from my friends and family also. That's not I was cheating only reason was shyness. because this was my first relationship I haven't had any romantic relationship before.So being romantic with a guy in front of my friends and family is a very strange thing for me. So I didn't know how to be confident do what I need. From my childhood, I wasn't doing what I like to do. I was always worried about what others think of me so if others are going to look at me strangely I'm not gonna do that.So in that relationship also I hesitate to be with him in public that's because I was shy to be with a boy in a romantic way in public. So I always said no to most of the things he asked me to do.I think he might get fed up with me. :( Now I feel Why I'm So much thinking about others' opinions. I feel terrible about my self. So, Dr. Aziz, I thought I should make up my self and I should love my self more and be stable within my self before going to another relationship. So as you tell in this video I also thought that harsh rejection from my bf, I will create it to become more confident person i n the future. And I need to ask you a question and I request for you to do a video about it. Here's what I felt, I told you still I feel I'm not stable within my self, that means I'm not relaxed as a person if I see someone more confident and pretty or handsome than me.I'm going little backward in front of them.And I hesitate to go forward in front of them.I'm always judging my self, looking at my self at the outside(subconsciously). I need to stop that. But I don't know how to do that. and this is my 2nd question, As I mentioned earlier from my childhood I didn't do anything I like. If someone is looking at me like I'm a bad girl. I never gonna do that. So I always being a nice neutral girl.Everyone liked me as I was not going beyond anyone. I also don't feel like breaking that, Being in nice girl boundary from going beyond anyone. So I was in my safe phase all the time.But that's not what I want it always avoids me from doing great things.and things that I like to do and it always avoided me from being the person I want to become. now I fed up with it. I need to change that. That's why I hesitated to be with my bf in front of my friend and family also. Because most of my friends didn't have boyfriends.So if I go in front of them with my new bf, they will stare at me I was afraid of it. I was scared of what they gonna think of me and what they gonna say to me. So I have always hesitated, I just need to change that.I need to create my own space. I need to create confidence to do what I need to do no matter what others gonna think.Please do. Aziz helps me to get rid of this. I know this comment is too long.But now I really really need a help from you.Please give a reply to this.
What's your situation like now?
Your advice in this subject is the best I’ve learned so far. I agree that confidence is the foundation for all success in life, especially dating and relationships. I’ve been acting on your advice and it’s been helping me tremendously and much faster than I expected! Self-compassion and self-love is incredibly effective for me also. And I love talking to strangers everywhere I go, especially cute girls. Makes going out a lot of fun and very adventurous. Who will I meet today? What opportunities will I create for myself? ❤️❤️❤️
That is completely awesome Adam! I'd love to meet you at one of my live events in 2020.
This must b ur purpose . ur very good n effective with what u do . great talent on being relatable. Never quit brother. Ever
Thank you so much 😀
The dilemma I’m in currently is that not only am I getting rejected but I’m getting rejected all the time. Sure, rejection is a part of life but if it is straight up happening almost on a daily basis, how do you keep any self esteem up?
You are my new best friend.
Nice to meet you Sheldon!
I have been reading so many books on dealing with rejection so that I can take action and I am adding this video to my armory. I am going through what you used to through, so you are very relatable.
What if I can't even have the chance to take risks and/or I can't literally put myself out there or be "part of the game"?
Hi, thanks for the video. I have issues with rejection and it stops me approaching and interacting with women who I find attractive. I am going to try to put some of these ideas into action to build my cinfidence.
And how's it going now my friend?
Hi there and thanks for the videos, they're very inspiring. I tried approaching women, and had some success but I stopped and havn't really been actively approach
appeoaching and interacting women for a while. Recently I've realised that I still need to improve my confidence in this as well as other areas of my life and I hope to do that by taking your advice. Is the course '30 days to dating mastery' still available?
Even better, that course has been incorporated in a far more comprehensive program. Check it out here: www.TheConfidenceUniversity.com
@@GetMoreConfidenceHi, thanks for the suggestion but I think I might start with one of your books about social confidence.
always get out from comfort zone as much as we can right hehe
But if the ghost of sparta sees you you're gonna end up dead just like Zeus
Yesterday i was Rejected,Rejected,Rejected....
I can relate!
Get More Confidence I think it's easier to get over rejection if you have a friend who tell you ''Are you crazy? look how ugly is she'' 😂
Дарко 94 LOL!
REJECTED! REJECTED!
I wish this video was shorter. 5minutes would be ideal. That way I can watch more.
Hello Dr. Aziz, I'm your huge fan. However, I just don't understand why you criticize pick-up artistry here. Do you really believe pick-up artists pretend to be someone else they're not? If so, I'd recommend you watch videos of RSDJulien. "Excuse me! Can I ask you a question? Are you single?" can be amazing opening line provided that a man has sky-rocketing confidence and self-esteem that you always discuss in your videos. Arguing that pick-up artistry doesn't work is actually unscientific.
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What is it you like about that?
@@GetMoreConfidence I just thought it was a great point because it’s something I definitely need to work on right now.
Not just with women and dating but when it comes to putting myself out there and pursuing my dreams of becoming a financially independent freelance content creator. If I could successfully change my story like this I know I would take more risks and rejections would have less of an impact on my self-esteem.
the only thing that treats my social and generalised anxiety is prescribed Xanax / Alprazolam
I'm glad you've found something to work at the moment. There are effective alternatives. I'm seen many clients progress in their lives and, with the help of their doctor, ween of medications. Something to think about in the future.
@@GetMoreConfidence will definitely do, I've experienced the awful symptoms that medication withdrawal had on me its awful. unfortunately medications like Xanax have a very short half-life and are addictive.
you look like Ted mosley
Miles Watkins omg i was gonna comment that
what do you have against world of warcraft😂😂
Nothing! Although, Magic The Gathering was my thing!
I wanna love you You like me so much
Thank you!
I’m sorry but this video is a crock of BS, to be honest and is inaccurate on multiple points. In reality, ungodly confident people are self delusional and resort to ego stroking themselves and flatter themselves with what makes them feel good and surround themselves with an echo chamber and can become reckless - an unwise way to live. The best way to become a better person is believing and obeying God via the Bible only and who are humble. If a woman rejects a man or if a man rejects a woman, it IS personal because you don’t meet what they want. As a result - you have to mourn and then acknowledge and deal with that person’s choice and leave that person alone in peace and you then have a choice - to either embrace singlehood freedom (which is totally healthy) or if you are a Godly polygamist, then find someone else.