How To Stop Comparing Yourself To Others

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  • čas přidán 13. 01. 2016
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Komentáře • 49

  • @atrophyofgrace2527
    @atrophyofgrace2527 Před 8 lety +38

    "you don't need to be the best, you just need to be you. "

  • @king-nick2023
    @king-nick2023 Před 8 lety +12

    I use to compare myself to others so much.then when I got to know the people they had just as much if not more insecurities as I did.

  • @lurcativereads
    @lurcativereads Před 8 lety +12

    i was really feeling uncomfortable to even post a comment for any video but after doing it it feelss good.

  • @falicialicia5191
    @falicialicia5191 Před 7 lety +23

    being a minority, I always feel like I'm not pretty enough, because nobody looks like me. I tend to compare myself to other females, but then I read something one day that changed my perspective: A rose doesn't confirm its beauty by comparing itself to daisies. It simply blooms. Thanks for the video!

  • @breakthroughmoment1647
    @breakthroughmoment1647 Před 8 lety +5

    Sit with the feeling, don't run from it. So true! Breathe and send it love. That's the key. Thanks so much for another great video.

  • @Balloonbot
    @Balloonbot Před 7 lety +5

    I was cynical about your channel thinking it was going to be an arrogant pump up yourself technique but this is honest and healthy. thanks for sharing

    • @GetMoreConfidence
      @GetMoreConfidence  Před 7 lety

      Balloonbot Thank you for letting me know. Thanks for watching.

  • @GeeksOasis
    @GeeksOasis Před 8 lety +4

    Thank you so much for this insightful video. You have no idea how much i needed this. Prior to me watching this, I was generally always depressed, and didn't even know why. I now know that it was because I always compare myself to my friends (literally, all of the time). One minute I would be fine. All of us would be talking, and having a good time, then something comes up which gets me thinking about how much I'm lacking as a person compared to them. I start to recede in this state of being for minutes, and start to become mopey. It has, and is continuing to adversely affect my friendships, and overall confidence. However, because of this video, I now know what was causing me so much pain over the years in college. I always thought about how I wasn't worth the company instead of thinking about my own redeeming qualities. I am starting to apply these techniques mentally and hope they work. Again, thank you.

  • @rayrumedi6695
    @rayrumedi6695 Před 7 lety +4

    Just started grad school. And coming into this I had all the confidence in the world. Then as I got to know my classmates, I noticed how smart, funny and outgoing they were. This, in turn, has really shot down my confidence, and to a point that I don't feel all that motivated to pursue my goals anymore. What to do?

  • @patrickqin
    @patrickqin Před 8 lety +7

    Well now I want to see this picture you guys took lol

  • @divrodricks2525
    @divrodricks2525 Před 3 lety +2

    It's super hard to be vulnerable. Like I always find myself feeling insecure, comparing myself, self-sabotaging and I am aware of these emotions and why I feel them, but bringing it up with my partners or anyone else is really scary because I don't want to feed on to these emotions, or sound stupid, or be vulnerable and then have the person use that against me or have power over me.

    • @GetMoreConfidence
      @GetMoreConfidence  Před 3 lety

      I know, it feels like you're between a rock and a hard place.

  • @tanushreewandkar
    @tanushreewandkar Před 7 lety +2

    Never commented on any video before..this is my first..!!! I always compare to people, curse myself,stop being myself and pretend to be someone else..thank you for the great video..Hope it helps in healing myself..!! 😊

  • @dean6046
    @dean6046 Před 4 lety +2

    Thanks for sharing this Dr Aziz! Love all your videos, keep it up man

  • @angiepants1614
    @angiepants1614 Před 7 lety +3

    Thanks for the video :) it was insightful and funny too! "Damn you Chris and your perfect body!" *shakes fist* haha. Don't worry, We all have a friend like Chris :)

  • @Claudis101
    @Claudis101 Před rokem

    New to your channel. But I love it ! Such good content 💯 Thanks for sharing your personal stories.

  • @FOoLzparadisse
    @FOoLzparadisse Před 8 lety

    Your videos are always so helpful to me. Thank you for making the effort to ease out our inner conflicts/self doubts.

  • @BewearTheAWAKENING
    @BewearTheAWAKENING Před 8 lety +1

    thank you so much!!! you are very kind for sharing that

  • @Whatworksthisworks
    @Whatworksthisworks Před 8 lety

    Thank you so much!

  • @elnaz7634
    @elnaz7634 Před 8 lety +1

    u have an amazing energy ,thanks

  • @user..-.
    @user..-. Před 5 lety +1

    I find myself comparing myself all the time subconsciously- small thoughts but I notice them.

  • @charat.9430
    @charat.9430 Před 2 lety

    We have so same psychological reactions that I start wonder if we are relatives in any way, shape or form.. 🤔🤔🤔 Thank you Dr Aziz that you are so vulnerable with us and you make us feel 'less alone' in the way we think/feel/react!! 👏👏

  • @raynewood4998
    @raynewood4998 Před 8 lety

    Seriously a really sweet video, much appreciated

  • @walacefranca1427
    @walacefranca1427 Před 8 lety

    Amazing video! Thanks for sharing. Your vídeos are helping me a lot to understand myself as I'm.

  • @jpmcfluffies9451
    @jpmcfluffies9451 Před 8 lety

    Dude you're awesome. Just discovered your videos. So helpful! Keep em coming! :)

  • @adrianb978
    @adrianb978 Před 2 lety

    Amazing!

  • @BTHABIT.
    @BTHABIT. Před 8 lety

    good advice that you can use in the real world

  • @genesisvalentine8993
    @genesisvalentine8993 Před 4 lety +1

    This has been helping me so much!Thank you you for sharing your experiences, I really related to this. Thank you

  • @circulareconomykid4061

    Thank you Aziz 🙏🏼

  • @tans4758
    @tans4758 Před 8 lety

    your vids rockkkkk

  • @lurcativereads
    @lurcativereads Před 8 lety +1

    HAHAHA I realy laughed from inside after watching 9.40 part of this video.

  • @bernie6355
    @bernie6355 Před 8 lety +5

    How do you love yourself?

  • @poojapatel9029
    @poojapatel9029 Před 6 lety +1

    I am going through exactly what you said , I will try the solution which you gave us in the video .... amazing explanation by the way 😊

  • @moritzzz1
    @moritzzz1 Před 6 lety +1

    Goddamnit Chris

  • @mattymobbs5125
    @mattymobbs5125 Před 8 lety

    any think on single full time dad I lost all mine when I became one

  • @wahabalani86
    @wahabalani86 Před 8 lety

    but how could you know what's good you have if you don't compare yourself to other? it's like how could you know this universe works perfectly if you don't compare it to anther universe?

  • @rurichek1
    @rurichek1 Před 8 lety +2

    But what if this advice doesn't work?

  • @BrightRomeo
    @BrightRomeo Před 7 lety +1

    It sounds like your wife doesn't really know you.
    It's one thing that we shouldn't compare ourselves to others because we're all unique. The only important aspect is that, we shouldn't compare ourselves to others based on how successful they are, how healthier, better looking, etc. ONLY compare yourself to others on one aspect, and that is on how more dedicated, spiritual and obedient you are to our Lord Jesus Christ. That is the only thing that matters because there is proven that an eternity awaits us. This minor aspects of looks, weight, wealth, etc. are only fast passing irrelevant aspects.

  • @majidalavi3368
    @majidalavi3368 Před 7 lety

    I don't think you really can count the aw moment that women do as compliments. It's merely a pity