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😂 it isnt the worst. You are.

I just stood up for myself at the supermarket and now I am shaking! 😂

Thank you very much. Just what I needed to hear.

It’s common where I work to have someone come up and try to push my buttons in a joking way. Most of the time, I’ll just play into their joking, just as you mentioned, in a way that is kind of a bonding experience. We all do it to each other, and there is no malignant intent. But every once in a great while, I’ve had situations where I was either having a frustrating day, or I was extremely focused on work, only to have someone come along and harp on the same joke that we all laughed about earlier. However, after the Nth time, this old joke has lost its charm, or you just simply don’t have the time, the patience, or the inclination to play along with that clueless coworker that doesn’t know when to quit & cannot read your body language. So I’ll make it REAL clear for them. I’ll drop what I’m doing, spin around to face them squarely, let out a heavy sigh, and just stare at them intently, as if to say, “WTF?! Really?!!”. But I never utter a single word. I don’t have to. The body language says it all. It’s very effective. I’ve actually seen people stumble backwards after giving them that look. But I only use that as a last resort, I’m not in the habit of trying to make someone feel bad. And if I do have to resort to something like this, I usually follow up with that person later on with the usual banter or small talk, just to send the message that I’m not mad at them or anything like that.

Here’s a hardcore example to use if your friends are real b@ll-busters: “Hey there Jeff, ya say that I’m a big wuss, I’m not acting masculine enough for your liking? It IS interesting that you care so much about what I’m doing. Could it just be possible that YOU’RE not feeling too macho yourself lately? Hmmm? Yeah…Come clean with me Jeff, I’m your buddy, your pal, you can confide in me…Is your wife still slapping you around a little too much? Do ya need a place to stay for awhile?” 🫵🤣 All in good fun, of course! Only with close friends. Not recommended to be used on somebody who is going through real trauma.

Dr Aziz, youre a gem

This changed my perspective of the world l, thank you❤

Thank you so much

Seek he first the kingdom of God 😉

And worst is that when you feel like no body will accept you or you won't be loved by someone because of the way you look i literally haven't accepted myself that oh i look this bad i just daily judge myself and based on that i make assumptions about my future and here when some people gives me compliment i just don't know how to take it ! Its fukin hard to live like this where you see everyone is so confident in the way they look but you aren't i pray to god for everyone who struggles the same i feel you all❤❤

Thank you. I need this my friend

Thank you, that was excellent. It's the little things in life sometimes.

Sono grato per l'opportunità di interagire con un gruppo così eterogeneo di donne di ogni ceto sociale.😘

Il livello di coinvolgimento in questo thread è davvero impressionante. È chiaro che questo argomento risuona profondamente con tutti qui.💕

I have 4 friends I've known for over 40 years. And yes, conflict resolution is a huge part of maintaining these relationships. We used to have arguments like Rock "em, Sock 'em robots. You'd feel like you'd gotten into a fist fight. But we realized that was no way to go into adulthood. Now they're my "go to" guys.

Good one! This is so important. Btw loved the dancing Elmo lol.😂

Why I m comfortable with some people but not with other and why I cannot talk in group, it’s feel like, I have to add little extra force to talk with them, please give us solution?

At least they said " nah thanks "

Thanks! I needed to hear this.

The feeling of being fundamentally flawed in some way holds so many back. Great video Dr. Aziz ❤

Anyone have the link to the bill of rights video?

It's not without consequences. People don't express themselves because they think they won't be liked. It's pretty simple if you be yourself and people just start liking you.

Yep, story checks out 👌🏼

I had ocd it robbed me from my life

Question, how do I celebrate who I am?

Yes!!!!! So true!! Celebrate who you are!!!

That is powerful stuff man. I needed to hear that.

Aaaaant! Wrong! Online dating is the worst thing you can do to your confidence

Thank you bro

Thank you yet again. You are the Guro

Am being honest with saying watching porn is bad. It gives you a wrong perspective of the other sex wgat nakes sure you treat them bad. This can also lead to sex addiction. s a tesult you live a empty live. I heard it from a preacher he did this when he was younger too. Thats why yiu have to have a kaw above the law. The law of Jesus Christ 😊

Thank you Aziz. Breathtaking insights.

Part two he literally just said cheat

The problem is if others do get uncomfortable, you're automatically guilty and expected to change and reflect on yourself. No one thinks you're innocent.

I rarely have sex. That's not what I want for myself... but I'm single and it's not easy. I want connection more than sex.

Cursed Book

Random practice won't change anything. Address the root problem. Why are you feeling discomfort about saying no? Because you are dependent on how that person feels about you. You have to do proper risk assessment. What will happen if you make that person angry? Address how you will survive those scenarios?

0:15 nope. not even a little bit

Thank you for getting straight to the point.. and it was a good insight (1min50sec).

Thank you docter!

Lol, „what would you Do, if you Were likable?“ that just flipped the switch in me I Am likable! Hell yeah!! :D

A random girl at my graduation ceremony had stepped on my foot really hard accidentally, and I said in a pleasing and non assertive way, "ow ow and just laughed it off about in a scared abd awkward way without making eye contact and that person didn't even apologize and just stared rudely at me and looked away and I wanted to so badly say it firmly but I thought it was gonna be rude if i spoke firmly, I was afraid what everyone else would think of me, instead I coudve said, "excuse me, could you watch where your going you just stepped on my foot".

I like a weed plant you have in the back right there.

i’m 15 years old and facing a major conflict within my friend group. one person gives me major anxiety, the way they talk to me and the way they manipulate others in the group and myself (in the past) to make another person in the group the “bad guy”. they were my bestest friend and all of a sudden, gone. i wanna stand up for myself but whenever i get a call from them or any of my other friends who agree with that manipulative friend i always start to panic. my heart beat increases and my head becomes fuzzy. everyone is telling me to stand up for myself but i don’t know how

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I really wish I had met you sooner. someone actually gaslights me embracing myself internal post -guilt

I feel like i did something wrong even when someone didn't criticise me. I have an anxiety about it. I can't feel properly about it and i'm always defensive even in inappropriate situations. I don't know why i'm like this and i don't like it.

Yes, this happened to me and it is best to go through the fire. You will be proud of yourself.

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This is crazy!!!! The first time in my 35 years on this world I hear someone actually speaking about how I feel!!! Your content is so freaking valuable! Thank you so much!