How To Handle A Disrespectful Wife | Paul Friedman

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  • čas přidán 11. 07. 2024
  • I change the context because how to handle a disrespectful wife makes her seem like a dog or something. Nobody feels good about a disrespectful wife. I explain how to see this as something that can be ended altogether not just handled.
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Komentáře • 142

  • @worthey1969
    @worthey1969 Před 2 lety +143

    I can't say what is bothering me to my wife without being attacked ,there are many trigger words and I have no idea what they are, they change every day but I've learned one thing, I can't say anything negative about her family but it's okay for her to do it to mine.

    • @TheMarriageFoundation
      @TheMarriageFoundation  Před 2 lety +8

      Why for heaven's sake need you ever say anything that might be triggering her? To what end? Learn to love her and be grateful she doesn't throw you out for pointing out her or her family's little flaws.

    • @Trubeast28
      @Trubeast28 Před 2 lety

      Facts

    • @worthey1969
      @worthey1969 Před 2 lety +12

      @@TheMarriageFoundation I don't think you have to learn to love...do you learn to be angry, you can't learn emotions.

    • @solarcutgems
      @solarcutgems Před 2 lety

      Same here buddy. she fuckin drives me crazy.... but I love the bitch

    • @nicholaslucas5183
      @nicholaslucas5183 Před 2 lety +17

      @@TheMarriageFoundation worthy isn't using words that might trigger her, that’s not what he said, he's wife is using random words to cause an argument, and your telling worthy to love her, if telling her the error of her ways isn't working then worthy should leave her.

  • @pastthefog6514
    @pastthefog6514 Před 2 lety +11

    This was good and helpful. I’m a female but it helped me to understand why i can’t say anything even small without him getting pretty upset. Thanks

  • @davidesponge4809
    @davidesponge4809 Před 4 měsíci +3

    My wife feels betrayed when I help someone else, she's angry for days. I can't understand that

    • @TheMarriageFoundation
      @TheMarriageFoundation  Před 3 měsíci +2

      When your wife needs all the attention its better to give it to her. She is your highest priority, only God comes first.

    • @joecam1167
      @joecam1167 Před 2 měsíci

      Only wife proper balance.
      A husband needs to keep his wife on the path towards heaven, just as a wife needs to do for her husband.
      Just give it to her is terrible advice.
      A man's duty lies beyond just pampering a spoiled spouse.

  • @adamkimo7447
    @adamkimo7447 Před měsícem

    Thank you so much for great advice. May God bless you more sir

  • @RayMak
    @RayMak Před 2 měsíci +1

    Thank you

    • @TheMarriageFoundation
      @TheMarriageFoundation  Před 2 měsíci

      Are you taking the course for men?

    • @RayMak
      @RayMak Před 2 měsíci +1

      @@TheMarriageFoundation soon. When I’m home I’ll get it

  • @terryrichs2745
    @terryrichs2745 Před rokem

    What do I do right now? an incredible peace of usefull tool to have, thank you

  • @mohammedmazhar9572
    @mohammedmazhar9572 Před rokem

    Nice one

  • @robertdepesci3418
    @robertdepesci3418 Před 2 lety +14

    So what do you do when wife is disrespectful from the first day after wedding?

    • @TheMarriageFoundation
      @TheMarriageFoundation  Před 2 lety

      How long ago was that?

    • @robertdepesci3418
      @robertdepesci3418 Před 2 lety +5

      @@TheMarriageFoundation 10 years ago. The disrespect continues and gets worse. I'm the main provider and very responsible. I don't mistreat her. Etc.

    • @TheMarriageFoundation
      @TheMarriageFoundation  Před 2 lety +1

      I think you were clear about what you were getting into the first day after your marriage. Perhaps you can experiment with different ways of not being affected.

    • @mikevancleave453
      @mikevancleave453 Před 2 lety +7

      So basically, just get over it. “She’s not gonna change anyway.”.

    • @VS-yk3gu
      @VS-yk3gu Před 2 lety

      @@TheMarriageFoundation same situation as Robert .. whats the best thing to do?

  • @edwardlee6168
    @edwardlee6168 Před 2 lety +2

    👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿 needed this

  • @winddragonmma
    @winddragonmma Před 2 lety

    This is so different. I've never heard any western therapist nor psychologist teach this information!

    • @mfawls9624
      @mfawls9624 Před rokem

      Actually Christianity ultimately teaches these things.
      In the world but not of the world. Really the same thing.

  • @kylelitwack
    @kylelitwack Před 2 lety +5

    This is absolutely incredible information. Thank you!

  • @bertl1022
    @bertl1022 Před rokem

    Watching this video has really helped me. Thank you!

  • @yesorno1768
    @yesorno1768 Před 2 lety +2

    More info please 👍

  • @Chong760
    @Chong760 Před 6 měsíci

    Damn you!!! You’re so right!! Ahhh!!😫

  • @gavinpeterson5323
    @gavinpeterson5323 Před 2 lety +5

    My man. I needed to be told this.

  • @artskillsworld254
    @artskillsworld254 Před 2 lety +7

    This is what I have been missing,not even my grandpa would have shared this wisdom with me.

  • @jsincriplord4476
    @jsincriplord4476 Před 2 lety

    Thank you so much for this... God bless you sir...

  • @danielsingh6497
    @danielsingh6497 Před 2 lety +4

    Really Good Ideas.

  • @minangroland8543
    @minangroland8543 Před rokem

    Wow! This is great tips 👌

  • @vanessalozarita4187
    @vanessalozarita4187 Před 2 lety

    Thank you for this advise

  • @abij319
    @abij319 Před 2 lety +3

    An amazing lesson and so educative. Thanks so much.

  • @elijahhall3189
    @elijahhall3189 Před rokem

    I love this!

  • @joecrocket7873
    @joecrocket7873 Před 2 lety +2

    I was wondering what your thoughts are on if a wife has an affair and comes back to you will she always be a cheater after that?

    • @TheMarriageFoundation
      @TheMarriageFoundation  Před 2 lety +5

      Our habits, including our morality, only can change through resolute processes. It begins with a willful determination. Without those we repeat ourselves over and over.

    • @joecrocket7873
      @joecrocket7873 Před 2 lety +1

      So more or less do you believe a woman can be faithful after cheating her husband.

    • @TheMarriageFoundation
      @TheMarriageFoundation  Před 2 lety +2

      Only if she makes deep changes to her habits and thinking as people who use the SEW technique do. I don't know of any other technique that is as effective. But, it begins first with a deep determination to change herself, not just a triggered passionate desire. Tears and promises, no matter how sincere, are not the same thing. But, if she discovered our processes and worked her butt off using the SEW, then yes, she would be able to change and never fall back.

    • @TCReview
      @TCReview Před rokem

      @@joecrocket7873 how's it going?

    • @joecrocket7873
      @joecrocket7873 Před rokem

      @@TCReview going well things have been getting better and better in our relationship but there's always challenges especially with kids how about you?

  • @Golden_writes550
    @Golden_writes550 Před 5 měsíci

    A constant dripping on a day of steady rain
    And a contentious woman are alike;
    He who would restrain her restrains the wind,
    And grasps oil with his right hand.

    • @TheMarriageFoundation
      @TheMarriageFoundation  Před 5 měsíci

      Scripture is always correct. You cannot change her so why try? You can however change yourself or "thyself" if you prefer. That is what our men's course is all about themarriagefoundation.org/ and having changed yourself your world and marriage will change, too.

    • @neohermitist
      @neohermitist Před 2 měsíci +1

      The marriage foundation guy subscribes to the rose colored glasses method of marital bliss. Sure your wife treats you like crap but your happiness and love will rule the day.

  • @goharabrar2471
    @goharabrar2471 Před 2 lety

    Sir
    So accurate knowledge 📕 of yours.

  • @godfreymwania3780
    @godfreymwania3780 Před 2 lety

    Thank you sir

  • @SaulYusuf
    @SaulYusuf Před 10 měsíci

    Waw, how can I register for men though I'm about to married now

    • @TheMarriageFoundation
      @TheMarriageFoundation  Před 10 měsíci

      There is a course for premarriage... themarriagefoundation.org/premarital-program/

  • @chrismatekenyatv6828
    @chrismatekenyatv6828 Před 2 lety +1

    Thank you for Advise

  • @ryanr6656
    @ryanr6656 Před rokem +3

    I feel like you are about to save my marriage.

    • @TheMarriageFoundation
      @TheMarriageFoundation  Před rokem

      Maybe it is time for the course for men if your marriage is so deep in trouble...

  • @castroericcastillo9625

    How about if you don't have time

    • @TheMarriageFoundation
      @TheMarriageFoundation  Před 2 lety +1

      One must prioritize that which is important and marriage is the biggest most important thing you can ever do.

  • @philthy3221
    @philthy3221 Před rokem

    Be honest I did change I went from a dominant husband to mutual and it's gotten nothing but worse

    • @TheMarriageFoundation
      @TheMarriageFoundation  Před rokem

      When you feel so much love that you don't care about her flaws you will have everything you seek.

    • @philthy3221
      @philthy3221 Před rokem +2

      @@TheMarriageFoundation so basically I have to overlook everything and just accept everything

    • @TheMarriageFoundation
      @TheMarriageFoundation  Před rokem

      "overlooking" your wife's flaws defines your love for her. Is that such a high bar?? We are all tested by others and in marriage it is a test of our love to see past our spouse's flaws and errors and love them with all we have.

    • @neohermitist
      @neohermitist Před 2 měsíci

      @@philthy3221 IOW accept the abuse you are getting in the name of LOVE.

  • @chrismatekenyatv6828
    @chrismatekenyatv6828 Před 2 lety +1

    Billions percent right!!!

  • @kiellandbrwn1
    @kiellandbrwn1 Před rokem

    I think you should market yourself sir ! 👌🏾

  • @vinodxxx1581
    @vinodxxx1581 Před 2 měsíci

    You seem to suggest that we husbands become punching bags for our wives.

  • @ABDIRAHMANShMohamedTabey
    @ABDIRAHMANShMohamedTabey Před 9 měsíci

    Thanks

  • @dreambeliever3652
    @dreambeliever3652 Před rokem +1

    Really getting into the bones of this, huh? I hear if you’re an Abraham, she’ll be a Sarah. Gonna keep trying. Thanks for the positive info. Guess I’ll cut off my video quest rt here for the night

  • @oda1332
    @oda1332 Před 23 dny

    This is what happens when she loses attraction

    • @TheMarriageFoundation
      @TheMarriageFoundation  Před 22 dny

      Not exactly but it is ne thing that happens themarriagefoundation.org/reviews/

  • @astonbwatoni124
    @astonbwatoni124 Před 2 lety +3

    When you change your self she will change too

    • @TheMarriageFoundation
      @TheMarriageFoundation  Před 2 lety +3

      Not always as you desire but you must evolve as a human being

    • @zippyblessed839
      @zippyblessed839 Před 2 lety +3

      No wayyyy

    • @kunntakentay
      @kunntakentay Před 2 lety +6

      Hell no she won't 🤣

    • @wolves--tn4093
      @wolves--tn4093 Před 2 lety

      I tried it before watching the video .. and she just gone so much worse :/

    • @gabochiedesign
      @gabochiedesign Před rokem +1

      @@wolves--tn4093 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣I have observed that modernity seeks to make men effeminate,And that's what the kind of advice my grandpa is giving to men right now.His advice seems so persuasive and on point but is not the truth.