Loving Myself Based on My Love Languages

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  • čas přidán 27. 05. 2024
  • A day of Self Love based on all the Love Languages - Quality Time, Gifts, Physical Touch, Words of Affirmation and Acts of Service. What are your love languages? Share in the comments!
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Komentáře • 89

  • @evahappy2980
    @evahappy2980 Před 3 měsíci

    Watching this 3 years later, completely randomly, and tomorrow is Valentine's Day. CHILLS!! The timing cannot be coincidence. So inspired to love and celebrate myself tomorrow, and every day in small ways. Thank you Raya!!

  • @mayanesmith9523
    @mayanesmith9523 Před 3 lety +5

    I've been doing this for the past month and it has transformed my life! I'm more comfortable being present with myself. It's amazing.

  • @DexterMag-aso
    @DexterMag-aso Před 6 měsíci

    Raya, your self-love journey, guided by love languages, is truly uplifting. Big thanks to my life coach Lisa Haisha for recommending your youtube channel during her recent retreat here in Philippines, your authenticity aligns seamlessly with her teachings, creating a meaningful exploration of self-discovery.

  • @chrisphinney6430
    @chrisphinney6430 Před měsícem

    As a single person I never thought of doing this. Thanks for creating and sharing

  • @lolsaXx
    @lolsaXx Před 3 lety +3

    As a mum, I find all my love going to my kids. I need to make time for loving myself more. Thank you, I definitely found some inspiration in this video!

  • @Evergreenforest33
    @Evergreenforest33 Před 3 lety +17

    Love this so much I need to be more gentle with myself and I love the idea of using the love languages on myself!

    • @RayaWasHere
      @RayaWasHere  Před 3 lety +3

      Yay! So glad this video can help inspire some self love ❤️

    • @abhisheknair6056
      @abhisheknair6056 Před 2 lety

      Hi Raya I love how you swim 🏊 in the pool

  • @pamacs06
    @pamacs06 Před 3 lety +18

    Uuhhh wow. The moment I saw the title clicked immediately, I was like wow I've never even considered to use this on myself, then you told the same. I love how basic things are true for all people: we are just meant to be love/d! 🥰

  • @LJadeSummers
    @LJadeSummers Před 3 lety +7

    This video made me realise that ive been saying words of affirmation to myself every day for years without even realising it 😅
    Everyday i sit at my dresser to either do my makeup/ hair/moisturise. And every morning I look myself in the mirror and say "hello you" and smile back at myself
    And i spend 5 minutes either putting on a facemask/ mascara or curl my hair
    And once i finish always looks at myself and say "beautiful" ,"fabulous" or blow a kiss to myself in the mirror 😅
    Its such a small little thing ive always done, so im now reccomending it to everyone, whenever you sit at your dresser, or check your hair in the mirror before you shoot out the door give youself a little wink or compliment ❤ it takes 2 seconds and it can instantly change the way you feel about yourself in that moment.
    Thank for for this video Raya ❤ youre vulnerability and willingness to share your journey is always so appreciated. Sending you love 😘

    • @lolsaXx
      @lolsaXx Před 3 lety +1

      This is beautiful!

  • @paulabaum7178
    @paulabaum7178 Před 3 lety

    Love these ideas! Thanks for sharing

  • @SarahandMarek
    @SarahandMarek Před 3 lety

    Learning about love languages changes EVERYTHING for the better with relationships ❤️ thank you for sharing this ☺️ needed a reminder about this today

  • @DiscoverWithDima
    @DiscoverWithDima Před 3 lety

    Loved this video Raya!

  • @GeojerrysAdventures
    @GeojerrysAdventures Před 3 lety

    My wife and I studied that over 25 years ago and it truly helped our long-term relationship. Happily married over 25 years later. Cheers

  • @manifestandohoy9214
    @manifestandohoy9214 Před rokem

    Loveeee your video. Thanks and blessings.

  • @the_om_project
    @the_om_project Před 2 lety

    Came here for the self love, leaving with that watercolor book!

  • @BucketListTravellers
    @BucketListTravellers Před 3 lety +1

    Such a great idea! We often focus so much on giving our love to others but don't make the time to nurture ourselves.
    I particularly liked your idea of writing to yourself and reflecting back on that when you need to lift yourself up. A friend of mine has a jar with things she's done that she's proud of or grateful for - she adds notes to it during the year and at the end of the year she reads through it and reflects on the great things that she's accomplished over the year. I think it's important to lift ourselves up with positivity as sometimes we can be our own worst critic.

    • @RayaWasHere
      @RayaWasHere  Před 3 lety

      I love that!! I often write down 3 things I’m grateful for and proud of myself in the evening and it’s life changing! ☺️❤️

  • @mammateus
    @mammateus Před 3 lety

    So lovely video💞 It really reminded me to take time for myself, subscribed!☀️

  • @relaxingwildsounds4178

    Great and lovely raya with beautiful flowers🌸🌺🌻🌹🌷🌼💐 very good view !!👍🏾 Thanks lots for your beautiful sharing! Wishe you much success!💞🤝

  • @martinav934
    @martinav934 Před 3 lety

    This is very refreshing to watch, such a nice idea executed in some amazing ways!

  • @evanneofficial
    @evanneofficial Před 3 lety +1

    I love this so so much!! Such a good idea ❤😍

  • @naimaasma3541
    @naimaasma3541 Před 3 lety +1

    Loved this video! So many great ideas.

    • @RayaWasHere
      @RayaWasHere  Před 3 lety +1

      Thanks Naima! (Love your name by the way) ❤️

    • @naimaasma3541
      @naimaasma3541 Před 3 lety

      @@RayaWasHere Thank you, that's so kind of you. ❤️

  • @RubyAliceHome
    @RubyAliceHome Před 3 lety +1

    Loved this Raya! Keep loving yourself 🥰

    • @RayaWasHere
      @RayaWasHere  Před 3 lety

      Thank you!! Hoping to inspire more self love ❤️

  • @ashleykorthals7111
    @ashleykorthals7111 Před 3 lety +1

    Really needed this for myself and for my partner and I. This was SO helpful❤️✨

    • @RayaWasHere
      @RayaWasHere  Před 3 lety

      Ahh this makes me so happy to hear! ☺️✨

  • @xgofishing8699
    @xgofishing8699 Před 2 lety

    Good video thank for sharing

  • @lolsaXx
    @lolsaXx Před 3 lety

    You are such a loving person!

  • @andreas5508
    @andreas5508 Před 3 lety

    I have definetely loved this video!

  • @nino9172
    @nino9172 Před 3 lety

    Thank you for this video ❤️🙏

    • @RayaWasHere
      @RayaWasHere  Před 3 lety +1

      You’re welcome! So glad you like it ☺️❤️

  • @WhisperingJaneASMR
    @WhisperingJaneASMR Před 2 lety

    Physical touch and quality time are definitely my love languages, for sure! Thank you for this beautiful, uplifting and kind video dear Raya!

  • @kellyraeparker9172
    @kellyraeparker9172 Před 2 měsíci

    Your videos are beautiful 💕

  • @whereisangie
    @whereisangie Před 3 lety

    thank you for this video raya! i cant believe i never thought of practicing love languages with myself. its been eye opening to compare my love languages with how i treat myself😳 this is definitely an idea im going to keep reviewing and working on in my life. hope you have a beautiful day! ❤❤

  • @veesvoyages
    @veesvoyages Před 3 lety

    Thank you for this Raya, it was so insightful! My love language is quality time and I do notice if I apply this idea and I put time aside for myself I feel much better for it!

  • @Tumulenta
    @Tumulenta Před 2 lety

    I love to watch your vídeos! Greetings from México!!

  • @Muthrtung
    @Muthrtung Před 3 lety

    just LOVE this! I fully understand the imperative need to love & respect, & honour ourselves, though it's taken me an AGE to acknowledge it... I still have a hard time looking in the mirror & speaking to myself lovingly, but am getting there. I so love the "love languages" thing, & doing that for ourselves is too inspired. shed a quick tear when you wrote yourself a love letter & THEN recorded it to remind yourself... THAT is a stunning genius act of self love to me so thank you for sharing this.

  • @BonsaiHomegardening
    @BonsaiHomegardening Před 2 lety

    Hi Raya nice video.

  • @mariaparamsukh
    @mariaparamsukh Před 3 lety +1

    I love this! Thank you Raya, it's something that I need to try! 😊❤ much love and light to you and to whoever reads this 😊🙌💚

    • @RayaWasHere
      @RayaWasHere  Před 3 lety

      Thank you Maria! Love and light right back to you 💕✨

  • @gingerbread18
    @gingerbread18 Před 3 lety

    The journal thing I related to so much! I always buy them but only consistently use about two haha

  • @misterkingofvlogvikas9866

    Very beautiful raya

  • @andmeve
    @andmeve Před 3 lety

    This made me cry ❤️

  • @thuriaramadan7336
    @thuriaramadan7336 Před rokem

    My ❤language is massage 💆‍♀️ and gratitude 🙏 and breathing exercises

  • @helenwarner6140
    @helenwarner6140 Před rokem

    I really miss your content💕 I hope your pregnancy is going well, much love from
    Ireland

  • @paulabaum7178
    @paulabaum7178 Před 3 lety

    Hey Raya, I just watched your dear younger me video from 5 years ago. It was so so great to hear and I had tears in my eyes! As an 18 year old who's about to graduate, the future seems a little overwhelming and creepy at times. But it really helped me be optimistic. You radiate so much positive energy! Thanks for existing

    • @RayaWasHere
      @RayaWasHere  Před 3 lety +1

      Thank you Paula!! The biggest lesson I’ve learned in the last year especially is to have full trust. Everything always works out, even if in the moment it doesn’t feel like it will. I used to stress about it so so much and I’m so grateful I don’t anymore! Remember to trust because what is coming for you is even more beautiful than you can imagine ☺️❤️✨

    • @paulabaum7178
      @paulabaum7178 Před 3 lety

      @@RayaWasHere thank you so much for your amazing reply, this made my day ;) and gave me a lot of confidence for what's to come too! ❤️

  • @whereisangie
    @whereisangie Před 3 lety +1

    ooooohhhh imagine watercolour painting the view from your treehouse in costa rica 😍😍😍😍

  • @kalyanisingh852
    @kalyanisingh852 Před 3 lety

    this made me emotional :') i have recently been struggling with aligning my love language with my partner, and as a result been feeling taken for granted and unloved. i hope to bring it up again and also emphasize the need for both of us to make space for self-care (and not feel guilty for doing so)

    • @RayaWasHere
      @RayaWasHere  Před 3 lety

      Such an important conversation!! It truly saved our relationship. And yess definitely normalize taking time for self care. It will only make you both much better partners for each other!

  • @piek359
    @piek359 Před 3 lety +1

    Woah I was just watching you and you posted 😂😂

  • @denisauhrinova8223
    @denisauhrinova8223 Před 3 lety

    Ohhhhh, thank you beautiful soul for such a great inspiration🙏🏻. When I saw the title I thought.. Sure, I knooow, I do it, don't I? ...And after watching this I know how wrong I was. We women treat others nicely so often and forget about ourselves.. I'll make a day to myself tomorrow. I can't wait. 🌹

    • @RayaWasHere
      @RayaWasHere  Před 3 lety

      Ahh this makes me so happy!! Did you take the day for yourself? How was it? Sometimes we need these little reminders, it’s easy to forget to show ourselves love ❤️

  • @jhoetvs7869
    @jhoetvs7869 Před 3 lety

    I LOVE YOU raya

  • @64sumitvarute83
    @64sumitvarute83 Před 3 lety +2

    Happy valentines day ❤️❤️❤️

  • @navmoon22
    @navmoon22 Před 3 lety +1

    QUEEN xox

  • @bobfrankkg
    @bobfrankkg Před 3 lety

    Goddess ❤️❤️❤️

  • @rongaianthemz125
    @rongaianthemz125 Před rokem

    Pls make another video of travel vlog in Kenya

  • @abhisheknair6056
    @abhisheknair6056 Před 2 lety

    Hi Raya I love how you swim 🏊 in the pool 🏊

  • @mateeah
    @mateeah Před 3 lety

    Hey Raya! I know you and Louis are strict vegans, and I'd love a video on if y'all take any supplements :)

  • @grellsutcliff2974
    @grellsutcliff2974 Před 3 lety

    Hi Raya, could you please keep us updated on how your watercolor painting is going? For example on instagram stories? I would LOVE to try it! Although, I have drawing/painting skills of a 8 year old, so I'm a bit worried that instead of picking up a relaxing hobby I would jest get frustrated at myself haha. Please let us know if this book is helpful at getting started

  • @sanyogitasharma780
    @sanyogitasharma780 Před 3 lety

    U r gorgeous.i never get bore watching ur vlogs...only thing I wanna know that what u do professionally. Loue is lucky to hv gf lyk u...ur very loving

  • @abdulrahmanabdullah6985

    hai raya good luck

  • @skkumarkumar4649
    @skkumarkumar4649 Před 3 lety

    I don't talk about your and our but I know only about you you are so pretty Priti and I love you

  • @M_Ravinerakhalgot
    @M_Ravinerakhalgot Před 3 lety

    Its the opposite for me but im in usa so im most active at night now i used to watch yt vids during the day but that has changed now i watch yt vids at night so most of them are uploaded already so i can catch up at night

  • @rockyyalcin2581
    @rockyyalcin2581 Před 2 lety

    Your are soo Fresh and beautiful ❤️🐟

  • @64sumitvarute83
    @64sumitvarute83 Před 3 lety +1

    1 st comment ❤️🔥🔥🔥👍

  • @robynesparza
    @robynesparza Před 3 lety

    This vid is golden!!
    I just started a yt channel and I’m super stoked
    I’d love everyone’s support💕

  • @erari121
    @erari121 Před 3 lety

    Like
    Im from Indonesia Papua

  • @user-yw9cz8kv2e
    @user-yw9cz8kv2e Před 3 lety

    You speak very fast
    But I like ideas thanks so much

  • @Ti_ace_
    @Ti_ace_ Před 3 lety +1

    Hello Raya
    Love from India . I really like listening to you

  • @ugenegareth9339
    @ugenegareth9339 Před 2 lety

    2 Esdras 2: 30 -100

  • @Pauripabu
    @Pauripabu Před 2 lety

    come to india

  • @skincarebymaheenzahid3754

    *Why u stop upload vadios on CZcams friend*

    • @alexabueno3806
      @alexabueno3806 Před 2 lety

      you can watch her on the channel with her husband called raya and louis